because it's emotionally dependent on him, yes, and what does she get, i get from the fact that i start to save him? yes, the pleasure of the fact that without me the world would collapse. yes, i am god. yes, if here, probably, the father of the harpies add my phrase. here, yes. here. and, by the way, this and why do i do these , right? uh, in fact, there is a violation of the first commandment of the law of moses, i am the lord your god, and that apollo feeder semida, which is irreplaceable, which becomes a buffer between god and man. letting god work in the lives of these people and the second commandment, do not stop your idol, and in odessa he just gave a sacrifice, to which health finances bring interests, and relationships with friends, girlfriends, and much, much more. and therefore, people can even pray a lot to submit notes there for healing, come to the monasteries there to read some africa there. but there is no trust in god and the second time

these commandments are violated very important, that is, there is a religious process of distortion of the spiritual sphere, just here is my task then my help people figure it out. it's in this that they are deceived into this trap. yes, and the final question, if i worry about the child all the time. the child is 4 years old, so that he does not come down the stairs, does not fall, does not slip. it's okay. and then my friend, a psychologist, said that i was an anxious mother. well, i agree with my psychologist friend, because this is what i said, how do you, well, i want to walk, yes, give me the opportunity to fall. how does he know it's not safe? he will understand only when he hits, well , of course, there are boundaries. yes, there are matches or something, but there is when you can give the opportunity or that hot iron, but do not make it hot, but it is warm there. caution well, that is, with the awareness of an adult position. and as

far as it can safely dangerous. and then what? yes, what will happen to you, and here, too, give the child the opportunity to make mistakes, and mom puts everything under the arm. well, every time a child. well, if a child, of course, gets into a dependent relationship or dependent or dependent on his mother, he tries to come free and becomes addicted, as the mother of one of our guys there meditation center with alcoholism overweight diseases motherhood, by the way, but sometimes excessive fatherhood. yes, there are dads, they are exactly the same. yes, of course, yes, you know, by the way, actor michael douglas surely you know such a father has never been such a father himself says that he raised his son poorly, perhaps that is why in 2010 his son went to prison for excessive drug use. and, uh, other outrages that he did and when his son

ended up in prison, he was fattening up to his eyes, firstly, he admitted that he was a really bad father. and secondly, he said that it opportunity for him to come to his senses and not die. this is now, of course, about the son, how relations in the family of our heroine developed, we will find out very soon, and the fate of famous belarusians, who boys should accept in any case, because this phenomenal memory is a man’s sense of rhythm and me. they took on in a round dance less often i have divisions. i always knew that i would be a singer, i always had no idea, where can i still express myself and find my meaning of life, only eternal meanings are laid on the stage of songs. it here in 3 minutes you need to tell a story. they told me, go out, take a walk, on the street. the weather is like this. well, i decided to be in my own world. eh, at that moment i realized it, as far as you can express it, convey to the listener this emotion that

is embedded in the song. this is it. basically, creativity. you know how , uh, i teach young artists when they come to me or when they retire? i say you must go out and so that you like yourself, see the footage of life on our tv channel in the program. they are found their happiness in belarus i was once asked how my wife and mother share the kitchen. i said that my wife does not share the kitchen with her mother. she just gave it away and that's it. i am very happy that my son goes in for sports, that he has great success and every day their love for the blue-eyed becomes stronger belarus for foreigners there are a lot of places, uh, worth seeing and most importantly, if you compare, uh, with our neighbors here much cheaper than me, when they ask what i

drive from belarus to israel, i surprise everyone, that i drive and everything was amazing for me. well, people are very observant. uh traffic rules. uh, if you come along the road only on pedestrians only in green colors, some kind of brother you are so open, so comfortable, as in belarus no, you can’t, because this is belarus it is very comfortable for jewish religious pilgrims for those tourists who want to touch their roots, see project look at belarus on our tv channel. today we are talking about addiction in the family. did our heroine succeed from a dark room to jump off this hook, we will

find out right now the most such a serious crisis. he was when the second child was born and he just began to leave for the night, you know, alcohol is more than the norm. moreover, when i didn’t already know this, i didn’t see it, that is, somehow i kept silent from me. well, just sitting. and when it had already reached such a climax , when some kind of danger threatened him, but i understood this as a completely different person, and these two stories didn’t fit in with me, what was happening there, but i i got into psychotherapy and took responsibility for many things that happen in my family, that is, i appropriated my part to myself. well, this is control control with alcohol. uh, the inability

to understand that a person is independent and has the right to somehow experience everything, well, then some of his difficulties in the way he wants, if he considers it necessary not to set. uh, there's a family relationship of some kind, uh. important there some moment of his life is something to force. this doesn't make sense either. and even more so to save, as you really wanted. i am actually did it. yes, there is somehow to say to teach that in life there is a friend of friendship something else. well, look how good it is. well, it's kind of persuasive. well, if you don't want it, then you don't need it, you don't need it, i need it. yes, i suffer from it. no, it hurts. well, if you don't care, then i'd rather survive this pain than i'll prolong it there, i'll do it. well, i really liked the expression to suffer is easier than

deciding to experience pain and end it. here, in fact, probably like this with the help of huge support. i probably i made, among other things, the support of people close to me who did not tell me how i needed and what i needed to do, but simply listened to me. the husband or they said that this is how he sympathizes and quietly. we then went to family psychotherapy, and these things of sticking in dependent relationships, when i can’t be with you, but i can’t be without you either, but they began to be resolved. well, when he became freer there, yes, he reacted to the fact that, well, he walks. well, then it is so necessary, well, i have nothing to do with it. yes, i didn't do anything on purpose. i already understand that i didn’t do anything, i didn’t control it on purpose, i didn’t look. it just

became a kind of indicator for me that it’s still bad here. and i have nothing to do with it. he somehow survives it. yes, and then i became freer and calmer. calmer to him, he seemed to have the right to experience his difficulties, as he sees fit and problems with alcohol, respectively, relations in the family are developing. actually , as disputes developed, some kind of conflicts with some kind of something there, but with everyone so different, yes, and good, and there somehow. if polarize, yes, it is good and bad completely different stories there somehow, but for sure. and i can definitely say that it became possible to simply be and live and breathe in them. that is, these are some two adults

who look at each other anew in all things. here is such a story. such is the completion, such is the path, but you are exactly like specialists and people who have experienced all this for themselves. can you give good advice on how you can jump off this codependency hook in your family? well she said how she applied. well, she clearly reached the bottom when she turned, uh, to a psychotherapist, but if, uh, at least, well, a psychologist to a psychotherapist, but at least start with the fact that, well, again, this is about studying this literature about what is it? how? it's about me? yes? ah and uh further these self-help groups, and he's in. yeah, early he uh,

where can, well, get support. here, as she says, it was enough for me that they just listened to me and they didn’t evaluate her , they accepted her feelings, and that’s what a person lacks, so that even you just speak and get out of this state loneliness. this terrible state of being co- dependent and, as it were, already her status. go down, that i'm not god uh, where to look for help look for help, but then, of course, work, well, some heroine she has a lot of injuries from her story, work with a specialist is sure to work here. all riddles are probably important, but listen. yes, i. let me, uh, personally, i'm afraid to give a ready-made recipe for everyone, this is probably impossible, and each of me still

lives life differently, different methods. so i try to refrain from the soviets in absentia. that is, i just need a person who can work live and not through someone, but in any case. i've also said a psychologist remarkably, but from my point of view. i recovery begins with the three most beautiful words in the world. please. help me, please, when he wakes up to prepare help, he understands that i am not god, i am not perfect and is ready to accept help, and then help. she will certainly be found somewhere. elena the father of agapi said the three most important words, and from you, solely from your own experience, according to your experience, three the most important recipe. how to jump off? i was listening and i immediately came up with such an idea, again to myself, and creativity helped me a lot in life, being a

creative person i have been painting and drawing in general right from childhood. this is exactly the place where i could redirect all my experiences so that i don’t get involved in another person, namely in creativity and hmm. i think that if a person has some kind of favorite thing, that he likes a hobby, and it can certainly distract in addition to psychotherapy, of course, work on oneself, but to distract from these thoughts that dominate a person and draw him into all this addiction. this is the first tip, the last two are from my own experience. well, i certainly also began to read literature and listen to lectures. i started, and hmm switches back to the body to my body that i am. here is my body, that i am not only my thoughts and

inner experiences, that i also have a body. and i feel it, i started doing physical education. i started walking, and then i started running and i feel like i have leg muscles in my arm, and this is one piece of advice that goes over in the last one, and in order to escape for a reason, i included lectures on codependency. and when i listened. i thought this, of course, is not about me. this is for my mother to listen, it would be to listen. there was someone else and at some point, when i was running some distance and stopped and realized, stop. lena, it’s all about you, and from that moment my work began, yes . just look from others to yourself and begin to know your own, and not someone else's world. there

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