hello program for scripts today our guest is alla smolyak, a member of the republic of the national assembly of belarus and archpriest pavel serdyuk, chairman of the synodal department of the belarusian orthodox church on family protection of motherhood. good evening. good evening, we will host the

slavic family forum this week in minsk. let's talk and let's start our conversation with this event, what this event will represent itself and in general, what is it for now? yes, this is an initiative that was shown by a charitable fund, pokrov is supported by the patriarchal exarch and the synod of the belarusian orthodox church, as well as supported by the government bodies of the ministry of labor and social protection. as far as i know, the ministry of health acts as the organizer of everything from the state. actually. i think the main motive. e is a search for revealing the meaning, we do not need today about some familiar e, things and phenomena of our life, which we considered unshakable and stable. yes, again. stimulate yes, what is a family, yes, and actually we we see a crisis phenomenon in the sphere of culture in the sphere of our everyday life, our society is also disturbing to these trends. e, i would say tragically prone, e, and therefore this forum

is called upon to re-focus the attention of society. yes. well, such a forum. yes. the first time, as far as i know, is quite large-scale. yes, the national library will be held and there will be a grand opening plenary. uh, the plenary session is a serious international format speakers, then there will be several panel discussions, uh, such discussions thematic. well, in general, these are, yes, serious forms. how relevant is the protection of family values, do belarusians and belarusians really need their protection now. you know family is the most. the main thing that a person has a person is born in a family and the family is a small church. yes, we call it that because, well, it's like a temple. uh, family values, family traditions. every person has e laid from childhood and every person born in a full-fledged family. he

forms his attitude, then in in the process of one's life and e to family and to friends and to society. well, to your country and, of course, family - this is the main thing, that if a person after all, when a person is brought up, and in his parents in his state and when a person becomes an adult teenager. he understands that he is always a support and where he can return. it is, of course, a family. do these very family values ​​need some kind of protection now, do we exaggerate now, no, we don’t thicken at all. here. uh, well, i think we don't exaggerate the other way around. we return to the very kind brush and uh, every time to say that the family is the union of a man and a woman, and uh, today we have fixed it at the legislative level. this is that a family is a man and a woman, having created a family, they give birth to children, a unit of society. and this cell continues to, uh, live,

develop, well, for the benefit of its side, for the benefit of its motherland and its own family. otherwise, yes, and we do not exaggerate at all. we must show our children that the family is being formed, as the main institution in which there is a father, mother, i call it a family. there is, maybe with the parishioners, as far as the family, now the slavs have not lost so much. these are the very values, the very traditions. well, you must admit that in europe such an aggressive other agenda and other values ​​are being imposed. i understand that today in such a media discourse. e, very so let's say it is customary to simplify many things. here we are contrasting europe, but if we turn to our historical past. and in general, what shaped our uh our state, then we are also europe yes and here is the question the question of the slavs. yes, if we uh, look at this one

our recent historical background. yes, this is still an anti-regional struggle, which was quite successfully carried out. actually. today we are trying, as a society, to return again, not only to the traditions that have been preserved, to say that, in my humble opinion, those traditional values ​​are valuable for us today, that is, we can continue with them into the future. if it is relevant therefore, therefore uh, here uh, our society is solving a very difficult task. and actually. we can say the entire east slavic world. uh, because the. well, there is, er, there is such one position of such simplification, well, relatively speaking, then we all know that, we play role-playing games. yes, there is a patriarchal way of life. uh, what else is there? what do feminists usually fear? yes , no kitchen, a mother of many children is wonderful. here is the kitchen. this is wonderful where it

is good. yes, but uh, very often it is presented as such an outdated outdated model. the fact is that today society e not e provides e to a person, as if here are models of his life formation and life strategies today a person makes this choice voluntarily and uh, he makes this choice and uh, our our success of our society is that the state supports the traditional model. uh, people's life strategies. that is, it is a family, like a union - men and women. this openness is somewhere birth. uh, this is uh. acceptance of the idea that everyone in the family can have three more children. the fact is that in traditional societies, there are families where four, five or four children are brought up. these are middle class families. these are not large families. and for us for us, we are already building the birth of a third child. and this is already

upon obtaining the status of having many children. yes, and in this regard, of course. e. well, here, this is a very e and dramatic historical moment in the life of our society, but at the same time there are a lot of hopes. eh, we still rely on this, yes, and well, just at least, because on the leading media platforms. eh, we are talking about this in belarus, so e is focused, yes, the focus is on families, so today i wanted to say that the eastern slavs are not that, uh, they have a chance uh, these values ​​​​are being introduced into the thread. well, at the same time, now open information. youth sees a lot of space, reads a lot. naturally. probably this is projected to some extent on our society, one of the big problems of this kind is the problem of divorce today. and how can we do this, we can resist and it is necessary, or , again, the same civil marriage. yes, without painting, without a wedding. after all, it is quite popular, young people. and what is this margin of safety we have? what can be done? again,

this gives the family, uh, you know, when uh was formed, here, uh, a person, for example me, i understood that i wanted to get married. i am i want to give birth to a child to give the child an education. well, that's all. the rest is a habitual life, a life strategy. it was passed down from generation to generation from grandparents to my parents, my parents also passed it on to me and we should not, he went, and it went to kindergarten. yes, a boy is a girl. these are familiar things for us, and we should not get hung up on this at all, because the youth. now open space resist. nothing needs to be shown. by his example that there are full-fledged families and there are full-fledged, uh, marriages that didn’t think about it at all, you know, resisting means blocking some kind of damper, well, we artificially create this damper ourselves, it should be traditional and the family is the

foundation that has been laid since childhood, traditionally girls play with dolls, yes, boys in cars and it is natural that only boys and girls can be married. well, to resist divorce, of course, the state is doing everything and will do it. i am confident in order to create comfortable conditions. and they are created in the country. look how many blessings we have today so that our families do not fall apart, but nevertheless divorces are quite large. well, because our requests have grown now, you know, we are looking there somewhere, yes, but they live better there, but analyze, uh, mom's vacation is up to three years. moreover, the mother sits at home, takes the child to the garden, well, i think that this is wrong. if you are on maternity leave, you must look after your child. well, then they say that there are not enough kindergartens and so on, if you went to work before 3 years. well, yes, then it can be true, but i think that the state will look into this further, it still needs to be sorted out. why is mom

being on maternity leave? uh, taking the kid to daycare? yes , but uh family, uh, dad is dad helps an assistant and now for a reason. we celebrated father's day. yes e father's day. well, in my opinion. this, of course, is true. we have been celebrating international women's day for a long time. yes, father's day is somehow still here, uh, and the head of state looked at it and decided that there would also be father's day for our society. that's it father's day only emphasized role. well, i think that we generally need to somehow bring out a man. e , some, yes, some from the shadows, because we have, er, well, simply. we have a very feminine society. this is noticeable even on the street in public transport in public places. yes, we hear loud female voices. come on, men, unfortunately, they keep quiet like that, yes, and this and that. well, not uncommon. yes, i don’t want to say anything. eh, as

if i don’t want to arrange such a competition, yes, this kind of sexual struggle. no, of course not, but the fact is, because that this is not about the articulation of the male position. yes, it also leads to the problem that you voiced regarding divorce. yes, i would like to clarify a bit. yes , civil marriage. this is a marriage concluded by the train station, yes, but there is cohabitation. ah, the kind of moment you want to go back to all the time. we are in a state of transformation here. there we need to rebuild our tradition. yes, if you want, rebuild your own nif, yes, the general national one and this is such a lot of work. uh, complex so many people and scientists, uh, and those who are here on keeps on the pulse. yes, the society yes, in their daily work, because, uh, earlier, an important factor in strengthening the family. this was an economic factor, the family is

more successful than the household economy. yes, now it is easier to live alone, especially in urban conditions in the capital of cities. everyone makes a career to earn money. quite right. and this is uh, for example. uh, well, the employer is far away, not always. uh, ready to make a commitment to an employee who can quickly slip away on maternity leave. just in front of parents with many children. yes, that is, there are a lot of such moments here, but first of all. eh, i totally agree. and with the fact that everything is born in the family, that is, those models that are in the family. uh, formed they will be broadcast to children. children, we studied the school audience and the rigid reproductive attitudes were already formed in the sixth grade for having one child. and it doesn't come from society. and from families. yeah , but uh, again, i want some. you know

what is called return the ball to your side. yes, because you are asking a question. well why , but what to do? i want to ask your face. a question for all our medics. yes, but what needs to be done in the media field, because the media field. this field is the formation of meanings, including models of behavior. yes, this is advertising, this is what tv shows tell us about. this is what forms the behavior model from the screen tells and of course, of course, this is a very important point. e creation of these models of translation of e into the public consciousness. yes, if e is the image of a family of a classic family. of a traditional family, he will look attractive yes, uh, and as tasty, yes, like the multimillion-dollar views of modern bloggers on tiktok. yes, that is, this is the form of presentation and content, it can be ancient, but the form can be perfect. yes, this is a difficult

task. yes, therefore, the state. i believe we are because. i myself am a father of many children. oh, and our large family. we receive grants or very many many pleasant ones, and i would say such supportive state programs. it this story has a second side as well. agree that we have not come across cases with cases when a lot of children of not quite prosperous families appear precisely from those very grants and some kind of opportunities, don’t they , of course, they receive support and use help , but i would not like to talk about that. you know, e. the most important thing for women not to miss it people's age, when you can give birth to a child, many women already, when they pass into middle age, then regret it very much. uh, you know, uh, doing career, uh, and social success. you forget that family values ​​are after all the birth of children and it is very

important for our state today that we have children, and today we see that it is already fashionable to give birth to a third fourth child, so it is important for women to think that if before forty give birth, because the state creates everything so that our children grow up. e, a full-fledged family, enjoyed benefits from the state. after all , look at three children today - this is already four large families. uh, already getting housing, yes, with a small e, that means a percentage. and this is an opportunity. uh, it means to live without renting a house, to bring up your children, to take them to school. kindergarten, that's all, all preferences are provided by the state, just give birth to our belarusians, the more there are, the happier we will be in old age, and us, as they say, too. we are also someone's children, who are now continuing the work of their parents. yes , we earn them a pension, and we need to give birth

, so before the age of 40, you definitely need to give birth, because after 40 many women regret, that they didn't. and now, let the viewers think about it. uh, whoever has one or two children, still needs to give birth to have three or four. i now have two children and i regret it very much that i did not give birth. here are two more. i can’t help but ask, i can’t help but touch on the topic of abortion, but in church life this is a terrible sin, along with the fact that when they tried to pass the law in the street in poland, thousands of people came out to protest, as in this situation. how correct is your opinion? well, you know. uh, it's not just a sin in some church fence. uh, each a woman who had this personal drama in her life. yes, she she lives with it all her life. that is, it is possible. yes? is,

actually in the list of diseases. uh, no organization, there is a post-abortion syndrome, and it manifests itself hmm in different ways. but what you're talking about is in social action. uh, polish women, uh yes, let's say that. so the last. uh, this is the last event. yes, but in poland abortion is banned. it has been in existence for 20 years. this is how we are as a society, right? before that, the law is still, well, grow and grow. just in this case i studied this situation a little, uh, the right-wing radical party of the polish sejm. yes , we decided to warm up on this topic, so to speak. uh, well, to stir up interest in yourself, yes, and increase your supporters, since the position of the roman catholic church in poland is quite strong. this is the older generation, that is, and accordingly, it caused, of course, this is what polish society has achieved. here, 20 years ago, yes,

it could have been crossed out by this such stupid one. uh hmm well i would say so outrageous, uh, and selfish political initiatives. it doesn't solve anything. in fact , bans do not solve. e. well, i agree here. uh, with father pavel in the sense that there are testimonies according to which women cannot even discuss what they are discussing, but well, it should be here. i don’t judge for or against the choice, at least, because , as they say, do not judge, we will not be judged, every person will be and has the right to what he has chosen. well, uh, there are all sorts of situations in life, and so far we really haven’t reached such a bill and for the adoption of a law for to ban abortion. eh, all other means. eh, so that, let's say, a child is not born. here children should be born

, and if health permits. uh, of course we have to give birth to little belarusians. well , let me make a small comment. i want to thank you for what is possible, uh, this word, this topic was raised for the first time by you because during the uh, well, quite a long period of your ministry. i remember that any attempt. well, some intelligible calm discussion. just interrupted. well, like this uh, of course, of course we are we can look anywhere on wikipedia and , for example, compare the territory of the island of great britain, it is not much. uh, the total area of ​​this island exceeds the total area, uh, of the territory of the republic of belarus. but 60 million people live on this island, while we have less than ten. and here's the question , you know, well, i just want this question. he is here, let him hang, yes, what did we think, what is it and is there really everyone

sitting on each other's heads there. no, yes, that is, we have living space for our people. it is sufficient, there is no will to live. here and with this. uh, when annually 23.000. e baby. yes, 23,000 potential citizens of the republic of belarus are registered annually. yes, then, uh, well, at least this topic is necessary. know they it's unpleasant to say this is a rather painful topic. yes, and here the question is not that here the church is ready to stigmatize. we already as an example. uh, after all, uh the right to life is the first pilot project with uh, the ministry of health, together with the belarusian orthodox church and public organizations before abortion counseling. yes, it was carried out here 10 years ago, and it gave its good result, and now it is already pre- abortion psychological counseling, this is general. this is the norm. the norm is legally

fixed, that is, uh, these are the steps that need to be taken. yes, because because you have to choose life. as the lord says in the old testament and save life. yes, they will be alive. you and your offspring. yes, that is, here we are, i am well aware that my life, it is finite in this world. here and at the same time. uh, i would like, yes, that's it, well, places some consolation, right? and children they give this consolation, don't they? you see how they uh looking at them we uh even older we see them coming in uh the world is being renewed for us you know this is very very important. very deep , absolutely. i would say mystical moment. eh, that's our being. yes, and that's why it 's not. uh, what is called painful? we'll have to part, yes, with all that, yes, what is the beauty of this world, therefore, uh, a

video from continuing oneself in this world, seeing their hopes and accomplishments. yes, yes, the institution of the family the preservation of the marriage, of course, does not lead to divorce. and, of course, that there were children there, so that there would be as many children as possible. of course, we only want families with many children, and, uh, we need to mortgage. it's all foundation. e in the family from the very beginning should be people who marry. this is a man woman, which must create several times a man and a woman. well, because here in belarus in general, well, there is no such thing, yes, and it will not come to us in belarus. one parent, two parents, one parent, two and does not know what gender you know, well, more indignation here is indignation outrage when you meet e, that's it. well, at least, uh, we have a healthy society. i'm sure of it. we are now talking a lot about

large families about the need to have children. in general, has the relationship between parents and children changed, it is clear that the generational conflict is such an eternal topic, read the classics. yes compare with what happens in your family, the topic is really eternal, but do parents remain the same. children with the authority they used to be, the most important thing is to tell the child that you love him. woke up in the morning. i love you met a child from school or university. i love you and says, but i've decided that i'm not a boy, but a girl. well, you know what uh? well, my kids won't decide that. no, well, we are talking, in general, we are, in general, talking, therefore, well, i think that i am not a boy, but girls are fine. what do you think it is necessary to talk about if i love you? yes, i still love you. let's talk about what's wrong, what's wrong we did, what's wrong. you why are you doing this? well, we need to talk. well, and then now there are a lot of very

specialists. uh, maybe work with a psychologist. well, i’m not talking about psychiatrists anymore, but i’m talking to a psychologist, because , well, i watched a movie and realized that you love you and vasya loves you and you are a boy. well, it's wrong to first say in the past that in the information space, children should trust their parents with everything. families, and rightly father paul says, only the family should lay down, that very true present, which will not lead to the fact that e your daughter loves a girl or your son loves a boy. do you understand? we did n't have that at all. well, it is possible that in the soviet union it was not customary to speak. yes, somewhere someone loved someone, but it was not customary to speak. well look what horror is happening. what was said at the beginning of the program in europe yes? eh, look. what a horror what they are doing, uh, two men take a

little girl to raise, yes, uh, and bring her up. what values ​​can they lay in their family, what is their family name, and what kind of family can it be, this girl is full-fledged, of course, she will be with deviations. she wants to have a girl there, how they get married or get married, everything in the family is all families. do you understand? this is an example of this standard should be uh, men. it's even in general with us it seems to me, well, it's the least ridiculous in the world. let's summarize our program. or maybe i can’t say that parting words, but what is the secret, and what is the secret of a strong family, what is the secret of such strong family relationships with children so that none of these external factors that viktorov was talking about could to destroy this very traditional slavic family unconditionally. loyalty is certainly loyalty, and human beings tend to err. maybe, uh, well, let's put it this way , make mistakes and sin, but uh, the road

will be mastered by the one who goes with us in the belarusian society as a whole. yes, the family is in the value scale. yes is in third place after safety and well-being. so if we look at the available statistics, then, er, after all, such serial monogamy, yes, that is, now belstat already gives. and the average age of remarriage. yes but yet it never even works out. yes, in the first marriage people strive to create. that's it, this model, yes, again, and it 's clear that remarriages are well, more work. it's more of a compromise. it's a kind of maturity. yes, we now have a time of, uh, very hard work. yes, the whole society. you just need to reach the finish line, you know, if we start, yes, then life does not go out of the way. it may unfold in different ways, yes, but for a believer for a

christian. undoubtedly, his faith is a very big foundation. thank you very much for very an interesting dialogue and i hope that indeed in belarus we will be able to preserve that same traditional family. thank you thank you experienced doctors of our country will tell. how to keep your health. if you are a beginner and you want to start just playing sports, then walking will definitely be the best for you. well , not just walking, but walking at an intense pace, they will give simple but effective recommendations that can be easily frozen, and all properties are preserved, they can be consumed raw. just slicing into a

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polotsk national historical and cultural museum-reserve celebrated its 55th anniversary. the state list of historical and cultural values ​​and 11 museums; the museum of local lore of the belarusian book. printing, traditional hand-made quality museum architecture of st. sophia cathedral and other fragments. foundations. pillars of ancient masonry walls are exhibited in the lower hall of polotsk sofia as artifacts of the first stone building in the city, in addition to them, visitors can see the floor tiles of the eleventh century. fragments

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