but it's very difficult to go outside and say hello, i like you. well, is it true or cute? it's more difficult, but you can write anything you want. and, if you like the virtual world, how did he put a comma there or not there when you write a text message to your teammates. but the russian language will pull up not commas. yes a in the method of communication through an intermediary is simpler than, for example. this is the difficulty of putting yourself and your child in some kind of box, which is limited by the monitor screen, and the whole world is beautiful word to say, after filming the movie 11 friends. oceana, george clooney was so carried away by the game that he even became a co-owner of one of the casinos in las vegas. and there was a very strict dress code. and this means that not everyone could get there, but it’s even more difficult to get out of such a gaming house with whether our hero, who is in a dark room and the way out of such a gaming confinement, we will find out very soon. today we are discussing the topic

of gambling addiction, it would be interesting to know our hero. in a dark room, we were able to jump off this game hook, look, i was lying on a pile of hospital, there with a severe sore throat, the moment when i realized that now this is the moment when i really want to know the breath of death, i just have such a feeling that i know somewhere and stepped in somewhere and i understood that it was the center of the city. it was even now possible to live in peace. i was lying. i could n't call anyone. i fell into some kind of state. i do not know what happened to me and how it is. i realized that no one can help me, no one here has no human strength that can help in this condition. something happened in me, so somehow i'm not a very

religious person there, at that moment i was there somehow the simplest prayer or some kind of prayer. i forgot there. and the fact that i am a person there in general adheres to religion. yes, what did you ask for and you know that something happened and this state came. and i was able to sleep a little, because before that i could not not be there, and this was the state after 3 months of practically playing. here i had such a moment when i went to work in the morning, then i left for the casino, i played the night in the morning i could sleep, and then go back to work, then play the night and so i have, well, a month and a half. and it all started with the fact that i was just there one moment i went there to drink coffee in the casino. i deceived myself so much. it was a unity i still remember june 18th. this is the first day of holidays, the second and 12 september. orbit casino and absolutely empty drunk without money, not going to work. i go

in search of a mosque in the city in search of money. who promised me money. but i didn't find it. if i had found it, i think i would not be sitting here. i have there is such a bold assumption that as if at that moment it began to work, but it was already, no matter how my story, something began to work for me. so, i'm already here, what finally led me to this point today. there is such a program for us to come up with steps for alcoholics. i have applied my life today. i've been here for over 13 years. that's from the moment i left the casino. it was september 12 , 2007. i play and don't drink, for my life a little later and the pills went nicotine, almost holy. and, of course, i want to say that he must one person die, that another was born, otherwise it will not work out

, one person must die, because being who i was and not playing impossible will move in the end to pull out joy, why did i learn over the years? that's what 's great, if i hadn't changed, then we'll say return to the greeks. well, and others, that in germany it is not like alcoholism, we change the appeal, to say things, they are incurable, i will remove the question, as at the moment when i walk from here there will be a drunken blow or a game. and the people around will say glory god that died. well, either it will be some kind of completeness, certain on this earth. and such a soul can be like this,

approximately like this, now i’m living like this, i’m on my own i wish such a decent one. such a journey, i hope how many of me are left to live it like this more or less. va only for herself could not understand what became the catalyst. i understand the story that he came out with empty pockets, that he was drunk. and before that, that he did not go out with empty pockets drunk from casino, why on september 12, what kind of thing happened, a toggle switch, obviously at that moment he ran into our hero with his house, maybe he went out thousands of times, but there were opportunities, well, somewhere to recoup. there, my mother was alive, there was something else, and my father was nearby. and then he comes out and you understand that he cannot cope with his resources and he turns to his father, whom he does not find. thank god this didn't happen. otherwise, i would have continued. you see, here it is somehow that 's it. this is the bottom of the emotional state, which understands everything further. so it is forbidden. i can't depend on other

people all my life. yes, in his game he depends on others to sponsor me there. here , obviously, some kind of internal dialogue has come to forgive the monologue, you know, well, in fact, we can joke and laugh, but this is all a very painful experience and we say, they are actually very sensitive about dependent people and understand everything about themselves, but to admit this friend is very difficult, and then it’s true, you need to lose a lot not only of finances, but also of the human in yourself about what he basically said yulia a, where we in belarus help and provide assistance to the thunders, well, in the city of minsk there are definitely two places where you can get help. this is a rehabilitation center, radugadze, 22 and istok, minsk regional clinical that you need to come or just leave a request on the website to sign up for a consultation, it does not oblige you to anything, but get information. yes , a relative can come. the dependent person can come. well, as a rule,

wonderful relatives come, if they both come, what we say when coming to a specialist or a rehabilitation center. you will receive all the maximum possible and complete information about what addiction is, that it’s not just a bad temper, a bad habit, or something that does n’t make you get there, that it’s still a disease, the second we say that you will try to live here according to -new. maybe you will like it, if you like it, we will give you more tools with which you can go into a normal free life, but you must follow certain rules. yes and then this is the so -called border of the casino not to go there, yes, but not to carry, for example, uh, large sums of money, but only for travel, so that god forbid you don’t like the token. yes, that is, to deprive yourself of all kinds of provocations not to communicate with those people who played or with whom you played, and they supported your addiction to go to groups of anonymous gamers or alcoholics, depending on which group is available to a person. well, of course, it's good. if you also have psychotherapy.

it's great after rehab. that is it is not a continuous process of recovery. here, pass 28 days or 29, as if in a different center and that's it, and you're healthy, but you're still addicted. well, you can get better. and i don’t know how much, in percentage terms, a person gets out of dependence there, there are 7 out of 10. cases, this is directly 100%, three different centers break down give different statistics. i can only rely on the center, rainbows, where i worked for a long time. we recovered about 50% with various addictions. and gamers, because there are few of them applied. they generally gave 100% results for some years, that is, they kept sober for a year or more and did not return to the game. but there are cases when a person returns, a relapse occurs, like any chronic disease, but this does not mean that the treatment is unsuccessful. yes this speaks of some, well, the natural course of the disease, like any chronic pain. sometimes i feel good. sometimes worse relapse and those who are undergoing rehabilitation. they are more likely to return to recovery and

stop than to simply control their willpower play. the will of a gamer is such cases when a person won the jackpot in the wrong place, came to say aha, but i won, but you did n’t believe in me, won and lost right there and then lost. yes, in my memory there is only one addicted person, he professionally earns poker, but for the last 5 years. i don’t know anything about his fate, once he came there for the birthday of the rainbow, we had such a tradition that the pandemic canceled and yes, he was very successful, he was going to leave somewhere, i don’t remember already. what is enough an expensive country to live in, that is, he earned friends with this. i suggest that you return to our hero vladimir and find out how he answered the questions of the test that we offered our viewers to pass. it was necessary to answer, either yes or no, let's go. do you have obsessive thoughts about the game? not in mode. can you lose

track of time during the game, forgetting ideas with no external video , so volodya, you let me down okay guys. well listen, well let's be honest now this industry. i didn't just say it i cited the numbers, perhaps i conveyed the idea poorly. it's so developed. here you are watching a movie. when you immerse the film, you experience the hero, you watched the titanic and cried, of course, you cried. it's an addiction to the film's emotional response. i played the game. i confess honestly. i am a grown man. i was on one of the scenes with a flag because when the main character died and these i mean that the industry makes a quality product that evokes emotions in the audience, therefore, you are on the hook for a quality product, do you get sharp drops mood depending on winning or losing? not? so sasha, i won’t tell you, but did you have to lie in order to throw away money? actually, no, no, no, not here. i

just didn't tell anyone about the money, no problem, whether you happened to avoid your other duties in the family or at work or school for the sake of the game, but uh, i have some acquaintances, comrades. yes, they are also interested. this topic. i give there. they try to play there. and recently a friend came and showed him how he is. oh cool stuff, give it a go. here he drove and then his wife says. and so this man who put him on, and he bought himself a new helmet. here, in fact, satisfied. vladimir wait. i'll be the last to figure it out, your wife tells you. go take out the trash. and you are not envious in the game. yeah, first thing, then i say absolutely to my son to play. well to play if three out of five, that's what it's an addiction. it seems to me that we invited one main character, yes, here to our studio. your history. and it was your helmet. they are with sasha, and at the

end of the program they found out that, after all, welcome to yulia yes, what happened in the answers of our guest is a complete denial of everything. this is also strange, a symptom of a problem. we need to dig further. if a person has a desire, but how would we tend to want to look better than we are, this is normal and addicts also use it, therefore there is a lack of information. you can say that when i want, yes, that is, i need to ask some kind of permission. there i do not need not to go to work. you need to come up with something. yes, that is, he decided all the cases. everything is on the case, right? well this is still a controlled function, thank god let's stay on with the tests. and those that sometimes you have thoughts about the game? well, what do you mean no, it doesn't happen, but you're in the head subconsciously. here i want to go there, well, you go home from work. do you realize you have free time now? you have nothing to do with your spouse's dog. well-fed children they are also somewhere in the school you have free time.

you want to spend it somehow alone, someone will take a book. and i want to get into the game. i think yeah, i'll be right back, and there was this moment. we are all talking about story games. there you need to immerse yourself in it and you will think it over in your head . and you could do it like a puzzle to solve. so i don't see anything wrong at all. eh, well, you're just talking about the fact that they are intrusive. yes, it's hard to deny them, but some people don't. these intrusive thoughts are another feature. no, i took the time. i planned everything . look legal. yes , the thirtieth page is all, like here, please, read on friends. yes, most importantly probably, after all, understand when your hobby is interesting. absolutely right, it turns into a real addiction that still haunts me. uh, the cost of your helmet. i remind those who somehow forgot that 1,500 dollars is correct, but it was possible to send this money, i don’t know. on uh do not know the purchase of some important home

appliances, such as the house. how does your wife feel about your hobby? she says, well done, our favorite helmet is what we needed , uh, household appliances, so everyone is shod dressed full fed. so why did we buy a helmet according to vladimir will always say so you know, i have nothing to wear tonight . what is your ideal world, to be honest. you yourself are independent of the game to play when you want the time you have for it, and in your company there are all the same people who are directly very accountable for their hobbies by and large. all the same , they are absolutely serious people. that is, well, people are so relaxed. yes, that is, yes, but i say that i am a if an interesting project. here, especially in winter, when there is no need to go to work, everything is fine. i can hack for 8 hours. so i started at 8:00 in the evening and at eight in the morning i took off his eyes and rubbed it. and sleeping until dinner, like this, like this, i’m resting , a happy person, but have you ever gone to a casino? well, judging by everything, children do not smell like addiction. i have

a question. now we will find out everything. well , right now to me, well, you talk so well and beautifully, and spend time with the children, of course, well, it just doesn’t sound, in general, i play at night, mostly in winter. yes, just i'm taking a vacation. i can't go there to italy right now because the pandemic is planes and stuff . it's winter now. i need to rest. i turn off my phone. and now i just don’t understand , some interesting project turns out to solve all the questions. everyone went to bed at 9:00. and i'm playing well until three in the morning. so i rested and so, i was emotionally discharged. that is, there some kind of aggression splashed out. ah, and so on. that is, that's it, someone got drunk there, someone smoked there, something else went somewhere, but i don't want to go anywhere. and if money flies to italy, you can put on a helmet and take a dip in one of the delights. and you can yes, put on a helmet, here, but run the google ors program. and to visit all these

places. it's all there, really. you walk with your feet. wander. watch review for free. it is interesting that you translate the alternatives to the game in dependent ways, someone goes to pizza, someone goes there, well, you are dependent on going to get drunk. well, i wonder what the alternatives are. well, from the same, probably, if it is evil, let's say, a game addiction is evil, it's one of two evils. i choose less depending. well , this is probably a bad problem. i do not know, but it also happens that a person does not see the consequences, sees his environment. good. then, of course, my environment. it will always tell me that buddy. you've probably had enough for today. you got carried away there or you have n't been out for a week. no problem there. this is a very important moment, so that those close to you tell you the moments of the function of control over you, it turns out to some extent it turns out like this. well, if suddenly i myself don’t understand that it’s already been a month passed. i don't go to work, he has such a beard. control is lost, well, gradually.

yes, it looks like he's already floating there, the family is connecting to control you, to bring you back to earth, really, right? and and and something else there is useful to do a session. if so, it has already begun. i am aware of everything. yes, they are always like that. forgive me, they always deny everything to the last until they come, a crying mother or wife who has nowhere to live. and you know, it seems to me that one woman will not endure. that's real, just such a groman, i'll add vladimir that we rather want to hang labels on what we often do not understand, perhaps we ourselves need to plunge into this virtual world, in which vladimir spends a lot of time trying this and will do it after the broadcast. and who knows, perhaps it will drag out, and my friends just decided for myself that i would plunge into the game world. i won't because being addicted to the game and even more so find myself hooked at some point in time. i would definitely not want to devote my time to the real world and finish my program. i would like the phrase of the hero from the queen of spades, that

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