will begin to share with the ukrainian special services. information on the movement of the deployment of troops as part of the special operations forces and many others, the accused of treason is a high-class topographer and at one time had access to state secrets. towards the sbu, it was almost a set-up from martynova's side. well, they must have been impressed because, well, hmm, not everyone can kind of predict the exact time for nothing. well, the start time and i predicted mine too. currently, he is taken into custody, a criminal case has been initiated on article betrayal of the state all the details today in the panorama. the polish authorities intend in the coming days to demolish four monuments in memory of the wars of the red army at once, acts of vandalism, as a representative of the institute of national remembrance says, they are going to synchronize to increase the educational effect, the monument in the

depths of the bobolitsy elder and bychini is subject to destruction. all of them were installed in 1945 immediately after the war, that is, the government of the country was not yet communist and the monuments became a sincere sign of gratitude to the polish people, frank spitting in the polish authorities, not only in our ancestors, but also in their own barbarism of a number of eastern european governments, does not always meet with understanding in international organizations, the un committee on human rights. he took under the protection of the soviet monuments in the latvian daugavpils, their demolition was postponed, although there are few such examples, for example, the destruction of the memorial. in riga, he also recommended to postpone, but until the documents reached him, the monument was demolished. at 19:00

she is sung by poets about bunnies dedicate the trilogy to her most of the songs are also about her about mental pain is enough to remember vysotsky who sang that one must rub salt on the wounds in order to remember better, let them hurt, but singing and writing is one thing to live with it and learn to experience it in reality and quite another about it. we will talk today on the air of the project kamani. my name is ekaterina beretskaya. hello, and look at the program. until the 19th century, no one knew about this, how the modern psychology of experiencing emotions developed. they suppress escape routes from neurotic disorders. so what

do? if nothing else helps? see very soon, approaches to the very concept of spiritual conflict were constantly changing, how and why we will tell right now. the paradox of such a science as psychology lies in the fact that, on the one hand, this science is ancient, but on the other, young and ancient, because ancient philosophers and religious scholars also described the ideas about the origin of the soul. however, the issue of intrapersonal conflicts and methods for their study began to be considered relatively since recently, since the end of the 19th century , kurt he owns the authorship of levin, he took the so-called field theory, which from physics he called the psychological field a fortune-telling space and believed that it includes all of our past , present and future, which forms the self of a person, but sigmund studied the most active problems within a personal conflict freud

according to his concept, all psychological ailments of a person are associated with an internal confrontation between what he wants himself and what society dictates to him. further, freud's ideas were continued in the works of jung and horney and now the intrapersonal conflict is explained by scientists as a serious difficult, resolvable feeling inside the personality, the solution of such problems is exactly what modern psychologists and psychotherapists are doing. often people who have experienced mental anguish, they say it would be better if my arm or leg hurt? but when the soul hurts, you don’t know at all what to do with this problem, let’s try to figure it out together with our guest, medical psychologist natalya gromova natalya hello. natalya vladimirovna gromova researcher of the department of mental and behavioral disorders rpc mental health sphere of professional

activity diagnostics and correction of children with psychological developmental disorders diagnostics and correction of neurotic disorders positive short-term psychotherapy, personality-oriented reconstructive psychotherapy, family systemic psychotherapy, mental arithmetic mental arithmetic and children with childhood autism improvement of the interdisciplinary advanced training system a team of specialists for effective interaction with family of a special child when patients come and talk about something more spiritual. here you are as a professional, what do you mean by this, because for sure, each patient understands something different, the patient comes. here is a heartache, if i may rephrase with compassion. yes, when we understand that a person is uncomfortable, to put it mildly, or very bad. we have to do something about it. and that's what to do with it the guards get tired, either psychologists or psychotherapists. well, in extreme cases, the schiatra comes from the patient, he says to me

something is wrong or some specific symptoms tell you. well, you understand that in fact, it’s not the way you do it with him, interesting cases related to children. hey, when is it coming? mom, i'm the first question i ask. what did you feel when you found out that you were pregnant , it all starts from there. and, of course, a person further develops some kind of path from all the emotional states that surround him to the head of all suffering, for example, desire is a desire that either i want, but they don’t give me, or i want, but i don’t i can or i want to. well, i forbid myself how it looks for the most part of our people from a hysterical warehouse. i want, but it won't let me. yes, so -called tantrums are stomped and rolled with their feet, and hysteria is a great pretender, that is, a public performance of the stage by the public. it should be in the description of

tantrums. will never show up in a closed room when hmm i want to but can't it's people with such a huge state of bliss. that is, i should not care what i have there 24 hours a day. i won't sleep today. i won't sleep tomorrow, but i'll work. naturally, this redistribution is coming and i want to, but i don’t allow myself to do this anymore on moral principles, that is, people who are highly moral are not very many of them; they face such a problem. therefore, desire lies at the beginning of so-called suffering. it seems to me that many, especially when everything is not very bad, they don’t even turn to specialists, but there is always a pharmacy where you can buy a sedative and, at least for the first time, peace of mind with this, if at all pills from heartache with this issue asked our correspondents. now everything talk about depression. first

of all, you need to remember that there are several types of depression. the first is exogenous or reactive depression, caused by some external events , stress factors and endogenous depression, uh, which is based on a violation of biogenic amines in the brain of metabolic processes. eh, so if we're talking about a mild degree of reactive depression, then of course a person can cope on their own or with the help of psychotherapy or work with a psychologist, if we're talking about uh, moderate and severe depression, then here without antidepressants it will be very, very difficult, the mechanism of work of antidepressants is associated with blocking the breakdown of monoamines under the action of monoamines, oxidase and blocking the reuptake of monoids. speaking of addiction, you need to know that this is a mental

disorder. and as any mental disorder, it has certain clear criteria for any type of addiction, it will be alcohol , drug addiction, gambling addiction or food addiction, there are certain criteria in the first place. this formation an irresistible craving for the use of a substance, the second is tolerance, that is, the desire to increase the dose of the drug taken. and the third is the loss of control over the amount of the substance taken. in the case of antidepressants, neither the formation of cravings nor an increase in tolerance occurs, and the patient does not need, if he feels well while taking antidepressants, to increase the dose prescribed by the doctor, that is, accordingly, the criteria are not met in the case of antidepressants, most likely, uh, it goes substitution of concepts and people who come and say that i stopped taking and i feel bad. i feel like the symptoms are coming back. this suggests that it is rather not the

addiction syndrome, but the withdrawal syndrome that worries a person, that is, there are different factors. this may be due to the fact that the person stopped abruptly after long-term use of antidepressants. uh, taking the drug. this can happen due to the fact that a person is not knowledgeable enough. how to start correctly and continue and how to reduce the dose in order to give up antidepressant? well, uh, the third factor, because of which this can happen is individual sensitivity to certain drugs, no one excludes it. today we are trying to cure mental pain on the air of projectnaya at the company and look at the final part of the program. how often children and adolescents experience depression under the creation of thinking in images. what types of therapy help to reach the soul and the stars are also crying at world

celebrities who are struggling with depression on the air in a few minutes. so interesting theme, yes, intra-personal conflict. why does a person suppress something inside himself? here , let's simulate the situation, imagine that you are a class on a desert island. you somehow will not be able to agree with yourself, not with yourself, that is, conflicts. no, really, the conflict always arises on the side, that is, uh, there is someone very important from the inner circle. it is very important for me to be, for example, significant for my spouse there or for my parents, in particular my mother. and, of course, i still want to lean towards some childhood situations. children who grow up in a situation of interest from their parents, most likely, will most likely not face the problems of mental pain or suffering, regardless of all the circumstances that will be expected later in life, what can make a person suffer in

every a particular case, if so look very, very much. on this resentment, resentment for those states that came in the way of this person and resentment in two ways, it happens, either someone is bad towards me, or i am bad, because somewhere i don’t know how to do something or i don’t know and here universal recipes, of course, will not be difficult to say. e about something without a concrete example, and from practice she wrote to me, the mother of his teenager patient and says, so i really want him to put bans on the first, second. third. generally. i'm angry. here he does not fulfill any of our agreements, and my answer was the following. and you will do it exactly the opposite. on the contrary, i asked to clarify after all. why did he still try to do what she forbade him to listen to. here's what it gives him. and what he feels. after, when he

receives this, it’s forbidden just to listen, that is, such a method. psychotherapy is an interesting psychotherapist - a system of therapeutic effects on the psyche and through the psyche on the patient's body. why because suffering is always accompanied by a symptom, that is, from simple tea headaches and sleep disturbance to eating disorders adaptation disorders communication disorders, when so-called hallucinations already occur. this is already the upper register of such a disease as depression. we will definitely talk about depression in more detail with you a little later, but right now. let's see another story. it 's about the methods of psychotherapy. so pavel, now i'm going to ask you to imagine yourself in the form of a dish for about 10-15 seconds. the subconscious mind thinks in images

; it does not need facts that our consciousness trusts, which is why it is important in any therapy. it is believed in the image that draws the imagination and through such a game to reach the true state of mind. and when you manage to catch this image. try to consider it in the smallest detail, then to transfer it to paper. the first picture that appeared in my head was borscht, such a hot borscht with greens with sour cream, potatoes and , of course, bread. for me, the whole procedure of art therapy looked like an interesting game, but the psychologist saw much more in it and i can comment on it. what does your drawing mean? you have chosen a hot dish, and the first courses are soups. they tend to characterize people as leaders. that is, these are the leaders who walk very firmly in life they know what they want, rely on themselves and are quite confident in themselves, and second courses are more for executive people and

the third is for such romantic and creative natures. and then, when i asked you how often should appear. this dish is on the table. it says how often i allow myself to manifest, and here, too, excellent results. that is, this is the time when i allow myself to develop and rest. and there, devote time to your own hobbies, interests, and so on. and when i asked you, uh, how long does it take prepared? yes, and you said it was an hour. this is the time that you are also already spending on your development, investing in yourself i also found out that i have a hot temperament i know what i want, i am not afraid to present myself to the environment and use my skills without hesitation , but in the language of a professional, such an activity refers to the projective drawing method. why use this method at all. this technique was called uh, dish, a, and it was aimed

at, let's say, diagnostics, a sense of self a person's self-esteem, how he feels and perceives, and how his relationship with the outside world develops with the help of a drawing technique. we can get much faster let's say. access to some of the smallest details, under which it will not be possible to reach with individual counseling. yes, that is, as a rule, if i asked you a question in the forehead. and how do you feel? most likely, uh, everything would depend on how ready you are for contact, how open you are. how much do you trust me now? yes and then maybe under the influence of unconscious psychological defenses, you would say, yes, good, not bad, and ah, but with the help of a drawing, when we set a topic. or it could be free drawing. in any case, through the picture you draw something like some kind of images that pop up in your head. they usually indicate the current inner

state of mind. psychologists get a similar effect from working with associative maps. the same task is painless for the patient to gain access to his unconscious. this is usually a deck. uh, pictures with some kind of image. see how it works, for example, take any random picture, and we see a girl. yes , who sits on a stool, turned away in the corner, looking at this picture, you and i have completely different experiences. you will see here. uh, something of your own, which directly points to your personal deep experiences. and then. perhaps you will turn on some of your childish part. yes, that is, under some cons, and your childhood memories and experiences. and if i look at this picture, i can turn on it other feelings. yes, for example, i will experience empathy for this child. and sympathy or a third person. immediately feel the anger, who did he have this child. he needs to be released urgently, and so

on. that is, as a rule. any image evokes in us some kind of our personal deep experience, which is connected precisely with our experienced experience or reflects our current state at that moment. and then, as when working with a drawing, the psychologist asks leading questions and following, that feeling, which the patient was the first to voice, like therapy, absolutely everyone can undergo therapy, both children and adults have a large number of different decks aimed at working out certain aspects of life. this is one of the most environmentally friendly ways to get a small key to the patient's inner world to solve completely different psychological problems that a person, as a rule, is not even aware of. natalia is like that. tell me if heartache equals depression or not, heartache or suffering is the beginning that can lead to depression, not all heartache leads to depression, but any depression

begins with this pain and this suffering. we somehow can understand that we are about to come to depression. and something needs to be done. right now or again, everything is very individual. uh, you can now distinguish between a person who is the so-called upper and lower register with a psychiatric diagnosis. he won't understand anymore. that is, as a rule, such people are transferred for help. yes, and bring to the experts. it is difficult to work there and it is understandable, and certification methods are used and drug treatment, as an integral part of assistance in in this case, because the person is really not critical. a person has three states of depression and a distinctive characteristic. depression is a catastrophic feeling of guilt a person says, if i had not been born, there would not have been the second world war hiroshima nagasaki and this cannot be helped. this is deep suffering. uh, with catastrophic

guilt. it manifests itself like this, and the person who comes for help, as i say then, is the chance environment. be in fellowship, so uh, most likely these conflicts. these sufferings, do they relate to what surrounds us or to whom, who surrounds us? and is it really well, again, uh, i read, they say, again, psychologists, that it is useful to suffer? now i am very arresting to press that it is never useful to suffer, there are situations. uh, under such a definition as a tragedy. and these situations have at least two options for resolving a person can’t cope and a person copes in a situation where a person copes again, hmm, we take it out of brackets that this

remains with him until the end of his days. he seems to lead a normal life for everyone around him, in fact, this is a person who can be asked. and how did he find a way out of it all . and this will be a very competent answer, because a person has found the strength to continue to exist, let's say, in his social roles. and if we remember about our wonderful hysterics for them , criticism is murderous and murderous in what sense is it that their suffering, they are like a surface. yes, there is something there cried impulsively. or suddenly he started screaming. this is from the side. it seems easier to bear, but these people suffer in practice. every day, as a recommendation, the person who is faced with a situation of suffering. he has a lot of pictures in his head at this moment. yes, let him try to ask a question to the person in relation to

whom he suffers, because in any case, the one who suffers is mistaken. i will now try to simulate a situation of hallucination in this room no dog. not running after any cat. at least you presented the complex. well, of course, countless breeds of dogs, then they realized that this is no dog and plus cats you were with me at that moment, hardly physically yes, but as you understand, the brain, in fact, produces all the same that it takes the basis from what was put into it. yes, and if i keep getting offended and thinking about a person with whom i could somehow build a dialogue in a different way, i will have. sims in the head and a person from reality is very, very far away, therefore, that phrase life is beautiful and amazing, positive psychotherapy in itself actually has two directions reality and use it with joy, that is

, whether it is useful to suffer no reality, it is always positively charged and when a person sees another person, he hears another person. he vkontakte here is a place of suffering. well, just no, a person suffers alone, but at the same time with a lot of pictures in his head with a lot of people with whom he can somehow communicate, if any there may be a genetic predisposition to suffering. to heartache. there is a wonderful science, like genetics, which says that the external environment, so to speak, affects the genotype, as i like to say. let me see. yes, here, give me a patient and i'll try. wear it in terms of help sometimes, yes, it happens. one meeting is enough for those guys who nevertheless opened positive psychotherapy to the world. they say that this direction is effective in any state of a

person, even if it is the upper one. registers, diagnosis, psychiatric still a very interesting direction personality-oriented reconstructive psychotherapy, which returns a person to himself and the feeling that he is still a unit of this world he is wonderful and this person should be far from suffering it is important to communicate with successful people it is important to seek , like-minded people, it is important for a child to find a teacher who would tell him, you can handle the words. you are incapable of anything. you are bad. all this leads to those states that for some reason do not lead to nobel. well then it's all complicated. it is important to understand when you need help from loved ones. and when maybe a person can cope on his own, saving a drowning person is the work of the drowning person himself. i have not yet met in my life hmm such

people who would not respond to a smile, who would have closed doors in their condition, if you really ask. it will turn out, it will turn out to find contacts, it will turn out to extend this helping hand. there is also a very important point, the state of loss, and as a rule, in the first place, what it leads to suffering and psychiatric disorder is these things and i would like to address. now to relatives of those or parents who have lost their children. these people definitely need help, those people who are in the environment and see that someone had a tragedy and the child passed away, please bring it, because without special knowledge, without special moments. people don't go out, they stay here, it's clear that this is for the rest of their lives.