this day they will gather and come to congratulate them. how many children this year marathons are happy. of course, i understand that it is very difficult to count everyone, but i think that in no way will they narrow their borders, if we take last year, then only republican events that took place, let's say, started in minsk and took place throughout the country were covered more than 15,000 children. and if we talk about districts, but technical educational institutions. eh, then it's more, of course, more children. we can say that every child who today is between the ages of three and 17-18 years. he will definitely participate in these events. e large families. uh, many of the large families will receive congratulations at home. that is, it is also the youngest, guys. an amazing time, of course, is the action of our children new year before. christmas is such a fuss atmosphere of what surprises await you there, of course, we will not reveal everything. even all the same surprises, but still

what gifts will be. uh, like always, i think that gifts will e come from what our children need most of all today, of course, uh, one cannot say that children in our country especially need some material benefits. well, it’s obviously not only sweets, of course, and the children of us are so they already, uh, have the opportunity to receive candies that they are, of course, we are not talking about those things about those gifts , books, toys, uh, some kind of gadget gadgets in order to our children were modern, they could communicate, they could be friends, they could to maintain relations among themselves, some children's groups rallied. if we talk about some boarding schools, then this, of course, is to improve the material and technical base to improve the conditions for children to stay there . as part of this charity event and in the whole event as part of the marathon, our children usually participate. yes, we know the representatives of the authorities of our enterprises. here, ordinary belarusians

can join and give a little warmth and finance, but these kids, of course, uh, and i i repeat once again that this is the belarusian children's fund of the republican public association of the belarusian children's fund, which is a partner of the action. they open charitable accounts are already open for everyone for everyone and will either be widely informed in the subway in transport, and on faith and the system it will be possible e, directly, and quickly pay for the qr-code to transfer possible funds, which will then go to e, improvement conditions. uh, let's say stay treatment children once again, marathons are our children. it's just unique event, and such foreign experience is still available, or this is our some kind of our invention. i want to say that i analyze foreign experience. of course, charity events, marathons, they

take place in different countries of the world and many people join them, but i want to say that i study the experience of our country of this magnitude, namely the participation of state authorities. e. i think that we will not meet anywhere else. uh, in our country all this comes not only from people from ordinary people who really join, like shares and many calls come to us at the ministry of education when people are ready to come to some organizations. well, this is a movement from above, that is, people who are in power today, who understand where, well, our country is moving. for their part, they also show initiative and participate in this action. that is, this movement, as it were, is mutually directed, and therefore, probably, our action. it's more of a scale, though. let's say, but with a single impulse. that we are going to our children and every year we talk about our children. thank you very much for the care and attention that you give to children, the program answered elena simakova deputy head of the department of social

educational and ideological work of the ministry of education of belarus as a result and analysis of the main events of this week in the information and analytical program, all projects of our tv channel are on the website www. 24.by is also on social networks. i'm sorry to you. all the best. the postscript program today is our guest studios olga shpilevskaya, chairman of the belarusian union of women and dmitry shevtsov, secretary general of the belarusian red cross society , today is an extremely pleasant occasion to meet, and the country is hosting a week of parental love, but it

seems to me that it’s like with any other holidays , victory day and independence day, erotic love is such an eternal concept and children probably always need it. and how modern parents are now parents who are chasing a career with earnings are able to find time. and in general, let's love it. in childhood, there is love. children. you can definitely chase it, you can not be at home for a career, even 24 hours a day, but you need to love the child unconditionally, because the child feels the parent's love very much. love does not mean that mom should hold his hand. there 24 hours a day. this means that he must understand that he is unconditionally, but immersed in this one. parental love, then he will open himself to his parents, then he will respond to them in the same way, then he will feel protected, and therefore, it seems to me, despite the current conditions, despite the fact that we all run parental love, no one has canceled. even, perhaps, it needs to be tripled, probably, just in this situation, when well, indeed, our children need our love more than

ever last year, and a new holiday was introduced in belarus. where are they father, how much he is in demand always tells you that mom is the main person in life, how important, in general, how much our society is ready for such a holiday. well, you know, if it was introduced, then society is ready, of course, for this holiday. i treat him absolutely calmly inertly. and there is well, good. yes, to be honest, somehow you don’t even forget your workload. what is a holiday, because hmm, just the same, thank god, but we don’t have that gender. to the extent that they are trying to position it in the west, and therefore e we men are used to giving women a holiday, therefore, when there is, when there is march 8, a holiday when there is e mother's day - this is holiday in fact, when we always congratulate women not only on these holidays. but this is especially when you give flowers, congratulate your

colleagues. this, probably, gives real men more pleasure than just celebrating father's day. i don't even know, this is really cool. i will add. it’s good that we do n’t have this gender equality, you said correctly, therefore, in our women, they give love to men, and why do i need to know that it was on the initiative of the belarusian connection that women, namely we became the initiators so that we have such a holiday father's day. so what do you think of the proposal? it wanted, as it were, here, uh, something to give you. thank you for what happened ended up being such a week of parental love and care that starts with a mother ends with a father something wonderful, actually, that's right because uh, well, there's no holiday. this does not mean that we must necessarily celebrate it there somehow. yes, that's right, you said it right. eh, we got on really well parental week, when mom starts and ends with dad, and we understand that the family in the

republic of belarus is in fact, as it is written in the constitution, the union between a man and a woman. this is the most important society and payment society. well, the cell of society touched upon the topic of gender equality, inequality, traditional values ​​in the republic of belarus are certainly supported, but, nevertheless, there is still the influence of yes, some other values. what do you think? has such a stereotype shifted now? well, they used to raise a boy like machines are tools. yes girls are dolls there shepherd's pink colors for the boy's autumn have now shifted and is it good? what is shifting here is this notion that a girl is not only a kitchen children huh? the boy is not only prey, as it is now with this. yes, i don’t know, it seems like nothing has shifted in my family, but i have two sons, so i don’t know how girls are brought up now, but in any case, i have a very big difference of 10 years between children and that the first child i played with

boyish toys, there and with cars soldiers. and the same for the second one. we are the same son , despite the fact that the age of informatization has already stepped far. forward. they say it's impossible. that's how strictly to divide the gender role. nobody shares them. the children themselves choose. if he grows up in a normal family, then, probably, he chooses what to play with these games. if dad is dad, then the son, of course, he loves mom, but wants to be like dad, so he will play with cars and soldiers. i don’t know how to run with the guys down the street with a pistol or with toy machine guns to play some games on bicycles to drive knees down, it's all right. children should go through this and grow normally and actively, and it seems to me that it doesn’t even matter what they play with. true, because boys grow up to be good cooks who are in the kitchen. well, the gods are in the kitchen, who can cope, it’s absolutely clear that now, as it were, such an age of progress, when technology

facilitates the female lot. yes, because we do not stand there do not clean. uh, yes, and the dishwasher, it will wash, so we have more free time. we can do some other things, or maybe some things that were not typical for a woman before , there is nothing wrong with that, it doesn’t matter what children play, it’s important how they grow up. now, for example, i am very happy that american cinema, like european animation, is especially leaving our market , and it’s good, because what they show to children now, when transgender people appear there in snow white or there, but there must be some couple e unconventional orientation in any cartoon. i'm not talking about youth films or something else, it's something that affects the subcortex. yes, and no matter how we raise children when they are sitting in this. the subcortex is affected and they consider it and they consider it to be normal , so, i don't want our children to think, this is normal. i want them to understand that we are traditional orthodox people and, uh, so that they absorb these good and kind cartoons

that we always watched, yes, the same engine from romashkovo. well, whatever, whatever therefore, well, will we not again face criticism that we restrict censorship to imports and so on, for god's sake, let them criticize, if they want to criticize for this, let them criticize. i believe that this is not criticism, recognition 100% agree. and you know, uh, there should always be censorship, but only it should be reasonable censorship. yes, there is no need to reach the level of despotism. here it is impossible. i'm right. and the only way no, well, censorship should always be, because we now understand that, thank god, part of the sites are no longer developers only and the country as well. he starts to block, because, frankly, i'm scared when my child at 6-7 years old gets on the internet, and everything pops up, of course, violence and sex and drugs and everything pops up.

now, thank god, this is being blocked, so censorship should always be due to censorship . normal children grow up as normal , respectable people. all the same, it does not simply limit the percentage of such aggressive propaganda and western non-traditional family values. and what to do with it? this is the very example that we must set, how to limit and explain to the child that yes. it's there, but it's alien. we are parents and we must explain what is good and what is bad. remember, little son came to his father and asked the baby. what is good and what is bad, that is, we always play the role of parents who lay these life guidelines in our children, if parents really love their child, if he is an authority for him, then the opinion of parents for him will be without pre. it’s as if he doesn’t care, so that we don’t try to invest from him there. from the outside, he will still rely on the opinion of mom or dad, because he believes that they are the main ones in the family. yes, this is them. uh, those from whom they take an example, and therefore here are our correct conversations with them. hmm

ban censorship. yes, but, probably, you need to endlessly talk with children, endlessly talk and endlessly explain to them, answer all their questions, endlessly explain. i want to say this to emphasize the role of grandmothers, because here i am now i understand for sure that i will be a good grandmother, because my mother was young, and it seems to me that i was not able to invest and explain everything, and now i ’m already trying somewhere, there are adults 22 years old, to explain some things to my daughter, which i didn’t pawn and i for myself i precisely determined that when i have grandchildren, i will not regret a second of time to explain, explain, show, convince, so that globally some values ​​​​are laid in them, which then no one can in any way with the words of my mother, who, uh, when? and i asked once. i say, uh, mom, why are there grandchildren yes, there are my older brothers and sisters? i say why do you love them so much after holding horns. she says, i didn’t understand then how much you need to love, so everything

comes with time from censorship - this does not mean a ban, uh, that’s all. taboo this. no. we must, uh, tell the children, since this exists, we must tell that there are some non-traditional, and relations between the sexes there. and so on. there it is not unnatural. this and there is a disease. it's a mental illness, really. and these are the things we have to say. and most importantly, because the child looks at the family, if the family has normal human family values, if society is intolerant of this kind of perversion that exists in everyone, for god's sake for god's sake. i always say about it that well, no, it’s easier to say, i always say that this is still excuse me, a mental deviation and illness, so it needs to be treated, including here, and who wants to imitate. well, for god's sake therefore, e, you know, i always say that if in the family dad or mom, there smokes drink beer, or

other alcoholic beverages, then it will be very difficult for the child to tell that it is harmful and convince him, using the example of his beloved parents, that this is normal, so here we must understand that if there are normal relations in the family, if the parents love each other and love the child, then he will naturally understand that such things exist somewhere, but this is unnatural. that's all. we just have to explain correctly to the child, what is it with childhood? well, that's it, they said about the disease, because that's about the accusation. it is really impossible to be completely intolerant of this , because now we will intimidate everyone and say so. well, you just can't do it. and if you're like this even, maybe full of some kind, remember how violence was needed here. it's just that parents should also understand that if we notice some things, well, we notice some inclinations. yes, it is necessary on time, and not to say that well, there is and is. it's good. so this is normal, and we we will continue to live like this correctly, we need to treat the disease in time to notice it and

ask for help from specialists in order to see how this thing can be straightened into normalcy under maximum conditions. you see, therefore, here both teachers and parents should also be very attentive to their children in order to understand some things in time to accept and understand what to do with it, do not give up, do not say that this abnormal should become normal we at all, yes, i don't see, yes, or in general, in the west everyone lives like this and it is generally considered there, the cooler it is very popularized very aggressively for its glory , society will be normal, but it is literally pushed by everyone in any case, and they understand that now traditional family life is normal. you are no longer a collision. values, therefore, go right through cartoons through teen movies where it's absolutely normal through uh politics that the child has to choose the gender. who said it? it's definitely something. sorry

a pervert and a mentally ill person, yes, here, or a group of people, here, so this is aggressively layered. we know why this is being done. yes , this is done to destroy entire civilizations of entire countries, including entire societies, so this is a long-term policy, so we should not get involved in this. we have normal human values. we talk a lot about them in the new constitution. it was written down and we discussed it with the whole society, thank god we accepted these things. by the whole team of our side. but what is there of course, there is no need for any aggression towards these people. yes and absolutely not. and i always say that if it doesn’t concern me, and he likes it or she likes it for god’s sake, live in your life as you want, the most important thing, right? most importantly, don't layer. it is not necessary for me that the minority be absolutely aggressive. after all, i don’t tell on every corner, uh, about mine. eh, family values, i don’t go with

a poster, i don’t go there, i don’t talk about it, i don’t position it. they are at work nowhere, so live a normal life. your free time is yours free time. and how do you feel better? this is how you live. most importantly, do not broadcast it to society and do not make yourself look like someone. yes , you don’t have to plant yourself into some kind of incomprehensible speaker, that since i’m like that, probably, everyone, uh, discriminate against god somewhere for the sake of live and work together with everyone. we have just talked about ideal families, where parents love each other, parents love children, but in belarus there is only one problem of divorce, probably one of the most acute in family business, and it often collapses this is the same connection when a child communicates with parents, yes, adults include different techniques,

and manipulations, and so on. and how to resist, how to solve this problem? in general, is it possible to solve this problem, but in general, adults should understand that divorce and a child should understand that divorce is a process of depriving him of parental love, there are a lot of examples when people get divorced, but they still have excellent relationships with kids. and the father is in the family and the mother. there is a family, they do not live together and so have developed circumstances are different. yes, or maybe it's for the best, because we remember when people often kept families. eh, well, as if for the sake of it being full-fledged and at that time they were beating each other there. they threw tantrums there and it is not clear then where the child is morally, but is it easier to raise and is it good? yes? here it is important that parents do. it is deliberately careful not to harm your children. and i will say that, for example, i also divorced very early, my child was 5 years old, but she was not deprived, neither father nor mother, from not once did a bad word about my father come out of my mustache, because, well, as if it was my decision

and his decision was that we were kind of breaking up, so here. it seems to me, it all depends on how wise adults are, how carefully they treat their child, how much they love him and how much they understand, how important it is for a child, and grow up hmm in exactly parental unfortunately, not everyone understands this, maybe be needed in the state. i don't know any program. and how is it. but as make a person happy? what law to write? what program to create? yes, people have different characters, they seem to live in such love, such a married couple gorgeous and a baby. they have a good everything afterwards. i found some kind of scythe on a stone, but they don’t get divorced right up to sawing the tv. yes, you are looking at these things. you understand that those people have become each other, just some kind of natural enemies of the savages, and then the manipulation of the child begins. i won't give you a child. you won't see him at all. uh, at its best in the case of 2 hours there on the weekend, you will do something better for someone, but the child will grow up, he will understand

that he was artificially limited in his father's love. yes, the family broke up and used it, and then nothing good will come of it. maybe he will even say these things to his mother someday, so we must understand that you said it right. yes remain in everything people did not work out for you love, stay, just good friends. and most importantly, never manipulate children, the child must understand that mom loves him or dad loves him, sometimes families need the help of a competent psychologist to talk and discuss so that they understand. what is the situation, even if the psychologist does not help save the marriage, in any case, he will make sure that these people remain good friends for a long time and continue to communicate. even having. there are other families there. i'll add more. i want all of you adults to just respect the rights of the child. we must understand that a child is not our property, not our toy, it is a person with their rights and this person. let even

a little one have the right to have the same mother's love and father's love, if you want your rights to be respected, when you get older, your children respect the rights of the child. in this case, again, there is a second side and the final activity, which is so developed in europe and which they also tried on us, but hmm i won’t say what to impose, but we suggest calling it as far as we need it, you know, well, i want to tell you hmm

i don't use it anymore. well, i used it on children, in including you understand, there is nothing wrong with this, because the child must understand what he did badly, he will be punished and it is not necessary to beat him, but to explain to him. yes, well, if you need to take it by the ear, pat it there or there, figuratively speaking, that's the most important thing. we must understand that we will do it. but as a censure of the act that he did not

in order to beat him, so that this child would be physically hurt, but, but we are facing, especially in the united states and in europe, that including mom and dad scolded me, or there is a manipulation to understand when the child understands that they don’t buy something, they don’t give him, and he starts. yes, and he begins to manipulate his parents. i will call now, i will say that you are beating me, the police will come to pick me up. the child himself does not understand these things, but he does not return to this family anymore, and he went on to foster families. so you tell me where this child is better in his natural family, where his mother gave birth? yes, where they together the placenta of the umbilical cord were connected, yes, where dad, together with childhood, did not sleep at night, helped raise this child. yes, he is somewhere, maybe there, either mom or dad went a little too far in terms of punishment or something else, or censure or a new family that

just took this child like a kitten, how they will raise him there, what he will be raised by a child, then, uh, receives severe psychological trauma, which, among other things, are revealed in the facts when he then comes to school at the age of eighteen and makes a colossal tragedy human victims. this also the consequences of these things, a deep psychological trauma, i agree in general, but as far as justice is concerned, there is such a moment, but they are withdrawn not only from families that lead a social lifestyle. there is also the point of low-income families, that is, imagine from low- income families of perfectly healthy families, from which children are taken away from a good mother and father for subsequent transfer to prosperous families, in general , the institution of the family is destroyed in this way. in my opinion. yes, when the child is not attached to the family, when he realizes that he can grow up here and there and somewhere else, and here are these children who are not attached to the family, who do not have, but in the person of mom and dad, uh,

people they trust unconditionally. yes, they become so very, but manipulated, because they do not have authorities. they have the authority of all the adults who raised them at one time or another. and in general they become without authority. and then they lend themselves very well to manipulation, so here is such a moment and at the same time. here is juvenile justice - it's good, but united states some states retain the death penalty for juveniles. they can go to jail for life. we do n't have that. even, in principle, yes, so here, well, it seems to me that we have some of our traditional moments. i also say no lawyer. and as a person who looks from the outside, they must be adhered to, we do not need to plant something from the outside that is, as it were, traditionally unacceptable to us. we talked about the fact that we are raising children who need it all over the world, we are helping social intimate state, but this here is the trend for us to have many children, which has been for quite a long time. it is going on now or we are going to tears as europeans. this is the decline in the birth rate. in general, they have already talked a lot, probably about the fact that

benefits support for families with many children are not in everyone, but in some cases it plays a completely different role. yes, that is, the opposite. i’m giving birth, i’ll get an apartment there on the fourth or fifth, you must admit such cases, because there are also large families from big bad things there. that's so bad about it, if the family understands that they cannot save money to get an apartment buy an apartment, yes, they give birth to a third child there. the fourth child gets an apartment. yes, yes, it provides benefits to the state, and they understand that they have one problem. one of the most important problems has become smaller. they have blood over their heads. and what 's wrong with that is absolutely normal understand? i myself am from a large family. i am the fourth in my family. yes, even before it was absolutely normal and absolutely ordinary, but then it was the 20th century. now the 21st century is urbanization, and it-technologies are the internet and e,

now, of course, stereotypes have changed. now. uh, all or a similar number of people have a career in the first place, so we are uh according to statistics. we note that the first marriages became late. yes, the first children were later. yes, there the birth of a second child already over 30 is far from it. yes, which has never happened before. and the level of education is completely different. and the ambitions are completely different and life dictates these things, therefore , naturally, one or two children, but nonetheless. we we see that there are absolutely sufficient families who have a business there or occupy some responsible positions. and they have three four children there and five children, already three are not having many children somehow. well, for me. this is a large three children - this is actually a great feat. and most importantly from the point of view. uh, statistics are not for

popularization. it's the other way around, already the development of a step forward. that is, there is already a replacement of generations, because two children is not reproduction. yes , this simplicity is in place. and one child is on the contrary, a rollback. yes, therefore, we must, and the state is doing a lot. why not? this is how we encourage. yes, please express children. there are three, four five. there's as much as you want. how much health will allow you? and, uh, desire, well, the state takes care of you and a lot, and there is this parental capital for children, and uh, support for families and support for these children and those with many children, including the state, stimulate yes. uh, paternity leave, yes and uh, maternity leave, including childcare there, maybe someone if you want, and dad to go and mom, that is, the state supports all these things and do not be shy about it, some say yes. for the sake of the apartment, we are such thank god and thank god, so i

absolutely agree about the twentieth twenty- first century. in fact, in the twentieth century there was a cult child of the xxi century. unfortunately our youth. this cult of children is going away. when we created families, we understood that the next step should be the appearance of a child. now young people are replacing children with cats and dogs. it's true why because the child ties to the place the child does not give the opportunity to go somewhere freely to do what we want. well, somehow, all this is turning, that is, a child, they feel how these regrets. yes, to some of their, uh, family circumstances. and it has to go. we must change this, because in fact we are then going with you to the fact that our young people will stop giving birth altogether, therefore, the more benefits there are, the more we will talk about it, the more specialists will be in schools to talk about the fact that there is a cult of the family, there is a cult of children, that children are happiness and children. it 's great. they are the children of obesity. and what, there is no need to be afraid while you have no housing, because many