yes, and special forces, of course, there should always be male support near women, and thanks to the fact that not only i trust our special forces. and we have such alexander shpakovsky, a very active and well-known personality in our state. and that's how we met him. he saw me, tried to understand the problems, how to help me, taking into account that he fully supported me, what needs to be shown, what needs to be told. no one will guess. and that stereotype says. i thought she was a newspaper mom - these are some other moms who don't know how to comb their hair. there, yes, do not give yourself attention and time, which is without initiative. they're totally engrossed in maternity cooking porridge, uh, soups and everything. that is, they lose themselves exposed. in fact, she saw in me that example that needs to be shown what i told you, what i bring with me. what a baggage of knowledge someone has about this it is necessary to speak, and he understood. with what attitude is this a competition for what, that this is not a competition, for the sake of a competition, this is a competition with a goal.

to create trust between a woman and the state and the state and women you understand through a woman, because, well, it's no secret that a woman, as a psychologist, can say, she creates the foundation, basically. yes, that is, there is, if she does not comfortably try to negatively affect the family, that is, she is well comfortable here in the country itself, then her husband, husband and children will definitely develop in this country. and when i encountered i always struggle with that disinformation when i invited other programs and said that 18-year-old guys in the army should be taught to be independent , i say what you say, that's wrong things. you have to set up moms so that they psychologically prepare the guys to go into the army, that, yes. it is difficult, but thanks to the complexity , a male character is formed. nobody is asking you . there in 5 years to be with a man through the complexity of the difficulties for yourself. here you try in these situations. you become stronger. you are already homo looking at certain things, so

alexander shpakovsky supported me, well , given that his office is located, and in the disposition of, uh, republican public administration in belarus, they heard about me and became interested. in general, this children went to support, because they also have versatile tasks. and now we made the first competition also thanks to the partnership. uh, the republic of republican public jurisdiction, belaya rus, a-and more, in principle, partners. uh, i wanted to organize even more around myself, but it was hard to convey who else joined me. this is a civic initiative. we are a random find, again thanks to alexander shpakovsky. uh, he gave me a contact, took it a little wrong and called to a person. do you know vyacheslav mine like that? yes, your guest. yes, it was visiting. and he, of course, always likes to humor , laughed a little when i started so actively. it seems, the cross, that your activity

is so important there somewhere, a little bit not something that gently lays, but still, i wanted to show him that i was at least aware of a little bit of some events. he supported me. he immediately supported, as if not very consciously, but he supported our project, but this year he and a group of like-minded people are precisely the civil initiative. we are they were present. at the competition itself, they did not sit with the jury at all. they showed me assistance in organizing the competition, too, there is little, not a little, however, even some non-standard situations. i could call and they helped me right away. that is, uh, that's how they see the future of this project. and that it is important that it needs to be united around, and we all should unite it is to identify such women who give birth to children not for the state there, yes, although thanks to the state for the support, and first of all, as a personal continuation. yes, with-family, at least yours is your footprint imprint in this life. in

this world, how many competitions have you already organized? two two now? if it was easy to find, but the first time it was difficult, i myself searched through even instagram, because i went, when advertising is the time people need to master the information. many do not trust the concept of competition. they always think it's always not but unfair. yes, the results are always bought, that is, such a stereotype and, by the way, many women later tell me in the final that we thought so until the last, and our hmm is misinformed society and husbands begin to see when they say what kind of attitude we treat even some of the smallest some moments are missing. i quickly ran to this store decided. although i am an organizer. it would seem that you are participating in all the same conditions. you have to prepare yourself, and i know such a maternal relationship, as if i want the wards to experience comfort as much as possible in general and to be able to prove themselves, that there was nothing to distract them, there was no moment. not board requirements in this beauty pageant belarus for mothers of many children, they are as

tough as at international beauty contests in terms of standards for parameters, that is, 90 60 90 absolutely not. this is all that concerns the category of mrs. even outside of belarus in the world of world competitions. it's not 960-90. only the miss category is possible there are such parameters. here we even had a height of 1.55 cm this year, in my opinion, the participants of one. she was very worried that we would not dress her. we dressed everyone, and here it doesn’t matter even height. the main thing is to have three or more kids. the main thing to pass the casting is to be interesting, because it is for them . why do you need to be interesting? and for this, it doesn’t matter that you need to constantly develop yourself in one area or another, you can manifest yourself in informative physically different ways in this life, and they begin to think. what can i do. but how can something be in the competition, it ’s interesting there, and then they start looking somewhere for some new areas where they begin to develop. and feel new. here

this is the healthiest, as i say, when they are not so absorbed in motherhood that they lose themselves, on the contrary, find themselves, reveal themselves, feel themselves. this mother will be harmonious, the future of the competition is unambiguous and enthusiastic, you tell everything about it and you will be soul. i am sick of this because i see these women who often participate, i always and thank you. uh, because thanks not only to my efforts and from the organizers and partners, and without them there was no this competition. and if you just type, just to type. this would be, well, substandard feeling, and i 'm proud of everyone. i'm proud of their families when they all come. i see these kids. i see relationships, how husbands look differently at their spouses. and when the children admire my mother, she says to me, my mother is on stage there with a crown. yes, even if not the crown, she is so beautiful in the next task to initiate a beauty contest among a newspaper woman among the cis countries for damn,

such contests are needed, then beauty energy too they are all women. let's not get confused, because the world is already so mixed up, they with men. and what, in the end, it is not clear who is already participating in these contests, and my hair is moving, there was just information that a-a plans to hold contests among transgender people. well, just yesterday, alexandra and i were discussing issues before the program, and alexander said that international beauty contests are her pain. for example, one such competition, in the usa, was won by a transgender. with obesity, we need to participate in such competitions, you know the category. uh, in general, even if not transgender, but women, when i say myself i feel, but in this one, i love myself, love for myself after all. it probably applies to your body as well. yes, some was not born, an unambiguous person, and what you allow yourself to be. uh, lower your body. indeed, if you take uh, the process of studying

the body there is far from being healthy and ugly, you understand, and believe me, this is not all about beautiful well-being. this is a beautiful woman, as if she were blue. uh, a person does not understand at all the concept of beauty and the fact that transgender people are going on right now, and the madness has gone crazy. society just went crazy american society. and the fact that trump sold this contest to a transgender in general, and from this talent. yes, such things should not be allowed . in general, the process, which means that, in my understanding , you just need to create, simply initiate competitions, where this kind of thing should not be allowed, in general, participants will be attracted there. believe normal women. so even there will be a completely different problem. i will say that they infringe on rights. whose rights is not cool femininity. this is no less, you know, in general, a disease that society supports, no one treats them, no one talks about that you are sick you need to be treated. and when they tell me that even a men da

is drawn to a man. yes, well, by all indications - a man, what is it normal? it 's not normal. this is a mental illness. these are traumas from childhood. it's anything. everyone has their own problems and causes that need to be treated. it just needs to be eradicated from society, so that it doesn’t happen, they promote and indulge. here's what it all leads to in the end. this is a disease. she infects. it's like an epidemic, you know? and now, when the children who are mentally psychologically unstable, not ready to perceive even, but simple information. now they are trying to convey that this is the norm. and you can already throw away in childhood who you want to become a child with. there is still no support, he does not yet have understanding. why was this world here, he needs to figure it out? yes , what abilities does he have in general, like a person in this world, and right from childhood he offers them to choose a gender. yes, what is this in general, despite the fact that nature has already done everything, in principle, has done nothing superfluous. do not

come up with now, we will briefly interrupt. after a short pause, we will return to this studio, while subscribe to our telegram channel. that's what it's called. say don't be silent. leave your comments. ask questions. offer us guests, and look for all our episodes on youtube channel belarus 1 and on the website of the belteleradiocompany. again, say they are silent, and our guest is a mother of many children, an employee of the special forces of the ministry of internal affairs alexandra nikiforova alexandra, you left the service in 2009, but at the same time you are still a unique specialist officer of the ministry of internal affairs because you were one of three from the first set of girls of the military academy. tell me, please, in the ninety-eighth year. you know the concept of intuition very well, apparently i was developed, because when all the parents were worried about where their children would go, they would still become lawyers or economists at that time. then i, with my

wrestling skills, are up to sambo and active participation in competitions. i understood that i don’t see myself in such professions accounting in general, god forbid, the numbers are not mine, i wanted, of course, to give this energy to my e and em activity of his swine. that is, i really took this non-female sport very seriously and self-discipline, including i didn’t want to cut it somewhere. it was at the end of the eleventh grade. yes, i accidentally found out information about what is recruiting, yes, a trial recruitment of girls is the war of the academy, girls have not yet been recruited in any faculty, and only the faculty of internal troops could afford, uh, to try this option, but i immediately made my way, took my mother that case when i took my mother by the hand, my mother did not understand at all where it was and what this one, what will happen to the child, where will it be, but i clearly saw the goal for myself, and i always led to it, that is, i achieved that i was given permission to take the exam. i passed

the exam very well and passed the psychological test all pass the military academy, and they showed me a very high level, so that i fit into this profession. eh, i 'll feed myself with this one more time. i realized that this was mine, i wanted to have me, you know, i was burning with it in my eyes, i was so directly preparing for the exams. i entered faced with the fact that, mm, our girls did not immediately want to accept men's, here's the husband. yes , first of all, it was difficult for the commander himself. they did not understand at all how it is, firstly, the responsibility of the female body. this is not a male body about a male. this does not know everything, but there are difficulties with girls, especially at this age. i entered at the age of 16. at the age of 17, i turned on the course of a young fighter. and my classmates were older by a year or two. here they are, but nevertheless, they didn’t understand how difficult it would be for us. we will cry there, be capricious, complain. well , these are the moments we were actually very charged. the three of them came together at once. uh-huh one day one cried. we calm

the other here the second and so we supported each other, but we didn’t see these tears, neither the boys, nor our commanders, at least. ah. and the fact that you are the daughter of a military man played a role, but my father did not belong to the internal troops, so my father did not play much . we then already retired on pension went somehow. oh, how he worried me. he is very, to be honest, but that's why i was very proud that i did, uh, that at least worked. i already understood what officer activity was in general and how everything should look like in those days, soviet far-off for me concepts of officer equals valor courage, that is, you understand becoming. experience, looking at your dad. she is his military friends, and our neighbors, because we lined up and lived in a military town, and we served my father e. kazakhstan i saw and

visited a lot, climbed everything with the boys, and everything was interesting to me. this is what to shoot, military equipment, aircraft, i really like it. yes, they just did n’t recruit here. so, how did it turn out in the special forces, but, thanks to the fact that the internal troops are preparing, including the special forces, i cut down the special forces, but you are not a good guy. we have military unit 3214, the legendary legendary unambiguously, i emphasize this twice, and plus the war service and the protection of public order. i, of course, was torn by the special forces, again, based on my skill skills. i aspired. i would, uh, wedge very well with my wrestling skills in the sport that we have there, uh, cultivated for physical training, hand-to-hand combat. i got into it very quickly. i was interested in everything, that's all. i studied how new skills are for myself. that is, i really wanted to. and when i received a red diploma, i already approached. the personal commander of the participation

introduced that i am such and such and i have a desire to serve as your part. he did not refuse me, that is, the only thing that did not immediately i got to the position that i wanted, because it was temporarily occupied, i was given another position. she was also an officer; she was at the headquarters, and then gradually i moved to the legal department and was a military interrogator. you are now the captain of the reserve. don't miss your job, i miss it often, but you said that in 1920 you even had the idea of ​​returning to help, but maybe don't leave that thought. it may happen that you return to the service. i had such an opportunity. you are so beautiful in shape. i was very happy, then the space, that is, the environment, which i found in every stage of my life, was not happy now, in fact, and someone who would not refuse his military service, what was once related to studies or to the troops . you don't belong to yourself so much you are not consistent in this case if you do not value your life. and the

experience that you have gained in this life. this experience is so valuable for me, because again i try to take the maximum of what is useful to me for life for my children, then the consequences. and what is given there, first of all, is given the opportunity to organize oneself and a lot of information is given, unfortunately, not everyone uses and understands it, and it can be very useful in everyday life when i retired from the army. they say you won't get settled somewhere. i got a job after 2 days, i was called to 5 places, and also due to the fact that i am a man of the former military special forces, because they did not understand that i was clear and consistent after , uh, after they talked to me. i don't remember, that will result very quickly. that is, it is not some. just words from this they said they did they said they did it. and if i do not know something, then i will definitely get this information. and if i said, then i will make it come out better levels, and you already mentioned vyacheslavashakh, and he is one of the organizers. close platform we er,

there is also another one, a member of the association. mikhail forsavil, he also participated in our program. i have a very warm relationship with mikhail because my dad's name is misha. i am a very tactile person. not all may maybe it is correctly interpreted and understood, but i touch those people whom i trust and michael very quickly. he says sasha how to help. you say, there were moments when i needed to provide, for example, lunch for the participants of the fact that there was no one to help bring this lunch on weekends, it turns out that delivery is there and they do not work. and all this was unknown to me until that time. he, too, broke down , brought everything to help, and even to the finals, including he is very conscientious about the very participation in this civil initiative and, as it were, probably, very consciously also relates to his snoopy clothes to our state, like a citizen. and that's why i

joined this association? when you took the initiative, because they didn’t see such a like-minded person, i saw like-minded people in them, because, well, it was very painful for me against the backdrop of the events of the twentieth year, definitely after the twentieth year, and here it should be mentioned that you live in the same area new beard. well, it’s interesting that, uh, yes, there really gathered residents absolutely different and at a time when before in the twenties they already knew and accepted you, and how interested he was that you were related to the special forces, how great it is, also a mother of many children. and how is it some other beautiful look beyond your age, and so on, but some kind of active one. i trained a lot, i'll tell you more in our portal in the yard. we were just going to say who's with me. well, let's train here, we trained in the morning at 6:00 in the morning we got up. it was even such a warm time of the year and got the twentieth year, eh. so something is just skewed in people, in my opinion, in

my head began to react sharply to the fact that i had a relationship with the internal troops to write, and the neighbors who wrote to me on instagram could see me. generally. here, please, i'm walking here, so here you need courage. yes, to be handed in the face to their coupling dogs. that is, you know, here are the expressions, and the killers, that is, well, horror and many, of course they, what, they did in the instagram space of the social network, how they didn’t just say any nasty things, half of them didn’t even really understand citizenship in belarus, that is alexandrovna came out there, it's amazing how they see you. yes, that is, everything suited them for you up to a certain point. you have not changed about the problems that i am a consistent person, but they do not know themselves, they are thrown because they are not recognized as invisible. why were women used here, especially with children, yes, it’s emotionally easier, good, right? it was very easy to loosen it, because when they are on maternity leave, they know where they are

talking, so i would now be there, i’ll realize myself there, that is, they don’t see, probably, a way to combine e. here, while on maternity leave, you can study one direction. on i say wireless headphones, you insert a lot of all sorts of courses on the internet, please, even online. if you have the opportunity to retire somewhere to leave the child, which is also, well, you don’t need to do this to the detriment of your family to your children information. you are for now. try to find out there to find out where you are, and you will respond, you will light up and truly. so you want to develop there, and then the child will grow up and go to kindergarten. to you will be easier to develop. and this category was taken very quickly, but there, of course, a large number of freelancers. well , now the trendy direction did nothing . i say none. yes, alexandra is also new from this category, let's say, young people with many children. mom. well, you behaved differently and expressed your position very actively, but you were not afraid. for myself for the children, and maybe