throwing them endlessly on the tire of the lake, like a little chew for a year, all the more, i just want from stress, so that the thieves of the pestilence do not know, the azeris of the calm never forget, loves the heart to the breeze. greetings, everyone is glad of this opportunity. my name is denis bugulov. i came here from russia from vladikavkaz and have been living and working in minsk since 2007.

i ended up in belarus absolutely by accident at that time, i was trying to find a job in moscow, and since i studied at the time at the moscow higher school of social economic sciences, where i studied a lot belarusians then on the soros grant i came here to stay. uh, literally, maybe for a day my classmate, and not a russian woman, so i thought. and what's wrong with getting on the train in the evening in the morning you're in minsk i've never been in minsk i got on the train arrived at 6:00 in the morning in november and it's dark, but such a surprisingly charming station, clean and tidy. i didn't want to go to anya's right away

because, well, it's kind of early. let the person sleep. i also decided to sit in the waiting room, and i saw how a couple who clung approached each other, politely pulled up, the policeman gently woke the guy by the shoulder and said, you will not miss your train. and this is what inspired me so much. i didn't see the city then. i just feel this atmosphere of the station. i thought i would live here. i like it here, i must say that at that time i had a rather rich experience of different european cities and not only when i came to minsk. first of all, i was struck by the wide streets of prostor and the sky. here i am so far, that's how much here i live, i always look at the sky and admire, it is changeable, it is beautiful, but unusual. maybe it's some kind of passion of mine. well, then we must not forget. what time and where did i come from, when i arrived here and saw that the bus runs here on schedule. trolleybuses, that there are

glasses in schools? they are not beaten, that people are polite , neat, clean. well, you won’t find garbage anywhere, it was like i was in the past, you know, such a loop in time and i ended up 20 years ago in the soviet union, i went to the cinema. pioneer where? well no one whistled shouted and did not hustle seeds. you see, it was unusual for me. here it looks. so i want to disgrace my hometown. no, i'm terrible. i love my city, vladikavkaz, but you know, vladikavkaz had already survived two wars at that time and, uh, the city where refugees live, in which, uh, well, the smell of war is in the air. it's a completely different city. it's a completely different atmosphere. a completely different attitude to life before i came here that i knew belarusians. this is what i was friends with the belarusian guys with whom i lived, filmed e, apartment at the belorussky railway station not far from my childhood. my mother was very fond of pesnyary

very much. i remember how every time we showed letterers on tv everything was thrown, and we stuck to the screens and sang songs. and i remember howling, i had a good voice as a child. i sang my homeland in belarus, it was one of my favorite songs. i came to a city where no one knows me, but maybe anya, who met a few of her friends, and that's it. and why did you decide that they would come to me clients. this is generally a mystical story. i rented an apartment and began to wait that those people would also start coming to me, and the most surprising thing was that about a month later this happened, when there was already not enough money even for food. i realized that i had to come back to me, the client paid $ 100 and paid for five lessons at that time. this is how i worked. and slowly, customers began to come through word of mouth. i got a job, and officially in the family center

of the vysokovskaya old one. thank you very much. yuli for this, but i started running a psychotherapeutic children's theater studio there , you know from the first moment, as i ended up in minsk for some reason, people. they just offered to help me. literally come up and ask. eh, that's where you live, do you need an apartment? i do not know what it is connected with. it seems to me that the gods contributed to all this and now, in fact, it is absolutely unrealistic absurd. the story turned into reality to come to an unknown city with minimal professional experience and start working. and somehow, for some reason, it happened. what no feeling that i'm not at home, that i'm in a strange environment was not in my life always driven by interest, and i wanted to be a psychologist more than anything. i wanted to help people in this capacity, and here in belarus i was able, er, to find this niche, that's the only reason i brought my family here, and we

stayed here. well, besides, i thought that my son would be safe and comfortable in this city, and he could, well, live his childhood, youth, not like me. the world is collapsing, there is no longer globalization, that is, we are going through trends regionalization. we are an island of the world, around which the warring state is located , accuses us, but sorry, we did not send mercenaries there, weapons were not supplied to them to be afraid of anything. we do not attack anyone in the same constitution, the republic of belarus has pledged not to wage an aggressive war with its territory. we know what we are against and what we need to be for this, but only these need to be

and become in order to win the economic confrontation. we'll have to recreate. all those sectors of the economy that have a key significance for the normal life of the activities of our society and our state project markov nothing personal only the truth, which is always more interesting at home. watch on belarus 24 tv channel. each of them chose his own path, correctly disposed of his talent, successfully implementing it in his homeland. it probably serves to play a lot, because today they have a rather active range, they are the pride of belarus' hope. this goal immediately to study immediately to new knowledge, share the story, and their creative path with everyone successes and failures and daily work on yourself on stage. nothing is afraid. nothing

is shy. he likes it, he enjoys what he does, see the new people project on belarus 24 tv channel . i am a psychologist, psychology is such a broad concept that it seems to me that if i say something, some definition, it is most suitable here i am working. here passes training groups here accept clients from school. i have always been interested in psychology. if somewhere i met the word freud

have i read either this text or this article? i remember it was the ninety-first year of august, the same historical one, my grandmother and i were in moscow passing near the metro. i saw a book doing psychoanalysis. grandmother, looked, what it was that fascinated me, saw that this publication of the academy of sciences decided that it was something good and signed her granddaughter in her beaded handwriting as a keepsake , she still doesn’t know what kind of nina she laid in my life, then there were five years of faculty metallurgical and 2 years, well, 3 years of practically postgraduate teaching, but all these years, i uh lived parallel to psychology. i studied sigmund freud on my own. i probably watched all the films and read all the possible biographies about him. and when i got to england, the first place i went to in london was the house-museum. freud, however, that day

was, uh, non-working. and when i worked as an engineer, my wife once asked why denis is sad? i say, yes, i want to study psychology, but wherever you want over 30, do it. i entered the evening specialty in vladikavkaz, graduated from the beam row, and then went to moscow to get a master's degree. education, moscow highway, economic sciences, and there we were taught by the same montadonts of russian psychology who wrote these textbooks, according to which we studied. and now i can’t. not to mention igor borisovich grinchpun, my supervisor, who introduced us to the psychodrama of boris yuryevich and shapiro, who gave me the culture of individual counseling. these are probably the most iconic figures in my psychological life. well, to me often we are friends, friends, they said, be simpler, and now, it seems to me, this is the unwillingness to be simpler and an attempt

to dig out some reasons that are behind the visible reasons. it leads people to the fact that they are engaged in analysis. i unravel and unravel the mysterious cases of the soul, and in general, perhaps, this is such an analytical activity. this is a certain innate quality of mine that it has been realized. not uh with sleep deed hmm not in business intelligence. but psychology, probably this is a lot mda my love for the literature of psychograms. i fell in love as soon as for the first time in psychotherapy classes, we talked about its elements, and comrades grinsht, he is my milk leader, and it immediately seemed to me that this is very mine. why because psychoadrama is a method of psychotherapy of group psychotherapy that uses the theatrical method. and i have always loved the theatre. i played in the school theater when i was young. i left the cabbage rolls. kvn wrote the script. uh, that is, for me the stage

was a native place, i suppose that in our society the psychologist replaces the priests in many ways and as regularly as uh? that or another denomination offers to come to the priest for confession in the same regularity, i would recommend people to turn to specialists. why because we must remember that only baron munchausen was able to pull his hair out by himself, when you are in a difficult psychological situation, most often you can’t do without external help, i did what i read right, and everything else added up automatically to say that i was lucky. if you look at how much work i have done and divide by 100 people, each of them will have a lot. but when you love what you do say you get tired of it. humanity is very difficult, you don't even notice how tired you are.

hello ivan nikolaevich, i definitely want to give you my book. this is a collection of poems to all my friends giving out what is dear to me. to her, of course, this is not chinese. it is very pleasant that we have not forgotten our favorite place and have come. to us it is not chinese poetry, but poetry. and what i hope is that we will have taiwanese, of course, yes, i always, if i traveled here, yeah, great. from ossetia

from vladikavkaz absolutely wonderful parents i must say that my grandmother. i have a teacher, a teacher of russian literature, my wife is also the parents of pedagogy, that is, somehow everything revolved around this in vladikavkaz. i was born, but i was 9 months old when my parents left with me for distribution to kamchatka and up to 7 years. i lived in a military town in the village of mirny , so i can say that i have two homelands - ossetia and kamchatka with my wife. i met at work working at the same company. she was already deputy general manager. here is a very serious young woman. at that time i was a very

frivolous young man. well, something happened that we caught each other's eyes. i remember jokingly reading an excerpt from my wife's poem, and she said, i know these poems. well, it seemed to me that besides me, there were a couple of connoisseurs, who might know. and somehow he grinned condescendingly, so the reason that made me, it turns out, was my wife to go through at home. bye. she did not find a photocopy of my poems. the fact is that i was published in the dorial magazine and my classmate, who was a friend of my future wife. but i invited her to get acquainted with these verses and liked it. she began to collect my poems, not knowing, and who is denis bugulov , my wife's name is irina well, she gave birth to my son ruslan, now he is already 20 years old. he studies at the college of music in balalaika class 2.000 in the seventh year in august. i brought them here and since then they have been here, i remember that when

i was flying from moscow to vladikavkaz after i had already received a degree in psychology, just at this moment when i was in in the air, the wife celebrated her dismissal. i came home there was no one, after a while my wife had to say. well, did you bring your diploma? i say, yes, now i will no longer work to earn. and ruslan came here at the age of 6, went to school and since then. here, he can be said to be a minsker, e, he loves the belarusian language very much. he was one of the best in the class. uh at the belarusian language school, he even took part in some literary competitions of belarusian poetry. here he knows the history of belarus well and here, uh, my will participate. e in projects in belarus that i plan to start or not. i think that the family is in fact, the unique mechanism of ascension through the family, a person

develops real qualities, you can be a wonderful person for an hour and a half, two, for now. you are on a train while you are on a project. but when you live god day after day with man. it is no longer possible for you to play someone to show someone you wanted to show. you are who you are, these see, so some are. and it's an opportunity to see a man as he is and acceptance as he is, unfortunately at the moment most people do not have enough qualities to live in a family, because we are too consumers, we are too accustomed to the comfort of another person's life - it is always service to another person, if you are another person, then you won’t be able to serve for a long time, you will be able to serve, and this corrupts my very simple philosophy. i

think that is the most valuable thing in our life. this relationship is not the goal. not the results, nor the process of achieving the goal of the relationship of the goal, you you reach and they die relationships - this is what is alive, what develops, what is with you of youth. unfortunately, i didn't understand this. i walked. here's one goal to another - that's one thing and tops to another. and when it turned out that you have already conquered everest and you look and do not understand what to conquer next. which moon will you fly to this time? you suddenly notice , wait, next to you are close people who love you, whom you didn’t guess so much, and at the moment i focus on my clients myself on the quality of the relationship. after all. this is the main thing we have.

wind pine white dunes bird froze, fit into the picture look and breaks the gray sky gray iris with black caviar profile your clean exquisitely thin accurate rook arching the back of an egyptian cat bronze casting. the world is too thin, piercingly thin hair, the sand crumbles sweetly already from the palms. lips of the foot, everything will not fall out before you. don't fall into the pasture, where time shrinks into a feeling of a flat roof plot of love, everything is too empty, frighteningly empty in the sky without birds in

head and in the blood for many years everything he wrote about in poetry. it was an attempt, love an attempt. to find some kind of satisfaction , the integrity of calm and a futile attempt. to find this through relationships is precisely the understanding that even the closest relationships, even the most native people, cannot save you from emptiness. it seems to me that this is what this poem is about, this wonderful place is a gypsy reservoir. look at the beauty around, i come here to relax with my family, i think this is the best place where you can stay alone with yourself. i really love this place, especially not in the beach season. here , all the elements and pines and water and sky are somehow very harmoniously combined, sometimes it is difficult to understand. there are some places where you are drawn. this is one of those i was lucky in the sense that at some point i was under