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today our guest is associate professor, candidate of psychological sciences, nadezhda tsirkon. nadezhda aleksandrovna, hello, good afternoon, we are very glad to see you, but i will immediately do a coming-out, as is customary now, it is very fashionable, in my entire adult life i have never turned to psychologists, psychotherapists, or for advice , nor for psychological help , what’s wrong with me, everything is fine with you, uh, it’s strange that sometimes they think that you need to directly contact a psychologist every day, but we don’t go to medical facility every day to do an enema or swallow some kind of hose or something else, only according to indications , so if you have any need, we must now determine the need, then you can find specialists and contact, but i will immediately i want to say that all psychologists are now, for some reason, divided into two groups: one is very large, and the other is probably small, the group always says:

everyone has trauma, from childhood, from life, every day and every minute, everyone must go through this path , first find out what happened to you in infancy, then in preschool childhood, then again, remember everything only after that, suddenly your life will get better, yeah, well, of course , you will walk around with injuries for a long time, because what is an injury, we have some kind of injuries every day, but i have a different concept, i like what i called for myself personal innovative psychology , the person himself, here you are for yourself, this is a certain product that you create... with your own hands, neither modern life nor the past rules over you, neither circumstances, you are responsible for yourself, and that you are yourself if you do, then you will represent yourself, this is your responsibility, and we must discover in ourselves what innovation,

scarce qualities are, as a rule, this is discovered when we cannot solve some life problem, it doesn’t work out for anyone - for... someone gets a divorce, someone has an apartment, someone has a job, well, the most scarce quality or characteristic of a person is intelligence, well, practically intelligence, well , it’s difficult to admit this, and there are surplus qualities when we seem so smart, so successful, in fact, we live repeating old skills, then there comes a moment when the old skills don’t work, and... for me the function of a psychologist who works in practice, and i choose people who are smart, beautiful, happy, satisfied with life, but who want to learn something

about yourself to improve your life, with these people a process of self-knowledge is organized, you think it’s nice, a person meets himself, it’s easier to say, a difficult childhood, wooden toys or oh, i... they breastfed me or oh, i have something in this country - then they didn’t add it, but then in other countries, they somehow live there, no, you turn to yourself, find in yourself what you haven’t learned, haven’t completed, but these are points, but how to accept yourself, what does it mean to admit, to admit to yourself , that i haven’t worked on something somewhere, it’s difficult, but just don’t say accept it, you have to say how to perceive new information about yourself, adequately, you have to say yes... this is where i haven’t worked, this is where i will improve myself , and then we take our lives into our own hands and train, this point of view is confirmed by brain research, because we have some areas of the brain are very well developed, while others are, well, in a half-asleep state, these

are the areas of the brain that in a half-asleep state we must develop for the rest of our lives, because human potential is enormous, exactly. if you feel that you want to improve, create, create, love, please, nadezhda aleksandrovna, well, we have a small library here, these are the books of our guests who were in past seasons, please don’t be silent, maybe you can recommend some a book from the popular psychology series to our tv viewers could have wasted time, i can recommend my book, advise, the development of will in preschool children, but after reading it, every adult will understand what he needs to do with his own will and how to develop it, well, you said that you only work with successful and beautiful and rich, with

losers, when a person wants to find strength, opportunities and will do his homework. train, then colossal changes occur in 3 weeks, this does not mean that the changes are final, but a person acquires an inner core, as a rule, he still lacks strong-willed qualities, in overcoming himself, in creating himself, in general in consciously building himself, when a person does not depend on his weaknesses, well, here of course it is possible, but some people do not turn to psychologists. and well, they try to somehow overcome their problems on their own, so to speak, that is, they do not turn to professionals. and what’s the problem, our brain is a self-regulating system, just like the psyche, the brain has special blocks that are responsible for forecasting the future, why don’t we

sometimes it’s disturbing that everything is fine, something is disturbing, our brain gives us a signal, it has a predictive function, it’s something like a leaf on a tree. begin to fall when it is still warm, but they are already preparing for winter, so a person has a foresight, a presentiment, here we need to turn to ourselves again to find out where we are... in general, all people can be divided into four categories, according to the degree of their adaptation to life, so when we communicate, it is immediately clear what the result will be, the first option is when a person is adapted to his life and even we see something can be improved, or it would be better for a person, but he is adapted , that’s it, it’s useless, don’t touch, don’t break his adaptation, the second option is when a person

knows that there is a problem, and he is not very comfortable, but he doesn’t do anything will do because he will have to change the system of his life, uh-huh, suddenly i find out something about myself, i need to make a decision, so many don’t want to find out anything, how i will rebuild, what will happen to me, the third, very common option , periodically. from monday, lose weight by summer, here got inspired, yes, they turn, or even begin to do something themselves, but then the pendulum swings in the other direction, the enthusiasm fades, well, you can live like this, this pendulum, it is very widespread, and there is a small group of people who are ready for anything in order to change, when you had the word i accept, then here we have the following choice: either i, i call it that, i’m proud

of my inuresis, that’s all, or the person will say, no, i can’t be proud of it, i i will look for the best in myself, i will improve myself, and not because i’m improving my consumption or i wasn’t given enough, but i want to create more, because in the end we don’t live for ourselves anyway, the key thing is the desire of the person himself to do something, change something, and something... then change, that is, if a person does not experience the internal need and desire for strength, again in order to change something, no one else can do anything for him, about forces, when a person is determined, when a person understands the inevitability of change, he finds these forces, and there are people in very difficult life situations, for example, a child gets sick, the parents take strength, means and incredible feats are accomplished, because

there is a goal that needs to be reached, and even without a guarantee, heroic people, nadezhda aleksandrovna, well, here’s the twentieth year, which brought us all out out of the comfort zone, and we can say that everyone ended up in the second category, well, not everyone, let’s not generalize, i remember the twenties very well in general, this period, already... i remember it was on sunday, i think the ninth on the morning of the tenth i realized that we were like it was good, it will be good, because i had to go filming, another program , yeah, transport is running, the streets are clean, everyone goes to work, everything is calm, everything is fine, and it turns out that at my place of residence, i ended up there , they were gathering in the yard, i know it’s saturday 10, they’ll arrive now. the same ones, god, how tired of them i was, i already said words to them, i already asked

, but the words had an effect, well, at first they were very aggressive, very angry, in general it was scary to get into that crowd, because one day i i got there, on victory avenue there is a kommunarka cafe, yes i know, and suddenly, this crowd suddenly ran, unfortunately there was no second exit, you had to wait to find out how to get out, and when you get there, i realized that they will run over you, trample you and they won’t notice, this is a very unpleasant state, and although we still treat those who participated very humanely, willingly or unwillingly , consciously, unconsciously, yeah, then to me personally, one picture comes to mind in my memories, the morning of the streltsy execution, everything stopped, peter ii, with one action. the streltsy conspiracy destroyed

everything, but with us it’s not like that, because it’s a pity that a person suddenly understands, suddenly he was mistaken, and the children at home are small, but let me try again, well, this is manipulation, and to hide behind the same small children, and what, well, yes , well, we give everyone a chance, this is humanism, and the person who is given this chance is ready to realize and no, no, no, no, of course not, and the person will also say there is little chance, and somehow i was treated inhumanely, and i think that if you came to this movement, how... somehow, that is, you accidentally, not by chance, you were thinking, but you are a revolutionary , like this rakhmetov, he was preparing for the revolution, novel, what to do, he slept on nails, because he knew that suddenly he would be captured, tortured, so he is already ready, and if you go somewhere - then they put you in some closed institution, so you should be happy, your dream has come true,

you are suffering for the revolution, why are you here... and you watched then in the twentieth year, all this was happening, you have an explanation, why then did some people fall for all these calls no no all at once, each change takes about 20 years to prepare for, so that it can be implemented so imperceptibly that we cannot say whether it is this ship or another, there are such ancient greek problems, here is a ship, we change one board, it is the same ship, everyone answers, this is the same ship, we change the second, third, everyone says the same, the same , but in the end, it’s a different ship, and then everyone says how could this be, and i’ll give you an example, the power of the word, which is being introduced, and i , i found the source by accident, from a film

made in germany, completely detective series, they staged it at the moment when it collapsed... the eastern bloc and there the police department and their chief commissioner are collecting , it’s hard to say now who, because i ’ll say this word to you, and he says: colleagues are coming to us from there, from the west, we are no longer a collective, we are a team, do not say this word collective, because we will offend their tender feelings, and now we will look at the terminology, it is used, the team sounds great, it is something sporting, something uniting, unifying, preferably if we'll score another goal, preferably not yet on our own gate, we are winning, yes, and the team is a group that was the target of influence in the twentieth year, no one

attacked any team, stable, monolithic formations were taken, large, with a united one. with unity, with the production of useful products with socially useful activities , and there are corporations and even we have such a topic, corporate culture, the term has also already taken root, it is directly used, but a corporation is a group closed within itself, if it does something... sometimes useful, sometimes only for oneself, but everyone is absolutely indifferent the rest, and the command can be a subgroup within either a collective or something ... and now let’s read the criminal code, there must be a favorite book, there is such a definition, a group of people by prior agreement, this is a team, there is leadership, division of labor, some cohesion functionality and they select according to functionality, fulfilled the functionality is free, so when we say the word

command, we must understand whether it is according to the criminal code or labor legislation, which is meant, but over the years this word so it entered, so blurred the system of values ​​that everyone uses, putting some of their own meanings, but as soon as this word is included in the program of influence, everyone will react, here’s a history question for you, you know, it turns out that, in principle, all these changes, which were contributed by, say, our worst friends, they were done with our own over... years , as you said, silent consent, i ’m now talking about something else, about the fugitives who remained on the other side and who ended up there, our colleague, konstantin pridebaylo recently published a post on facebook, where he thus defined the current state of our fugitive, now somewhere in poland he is going crazy in anti-russian and anti-belossian depression, he is talking about our former goldfish, what

do you think, this is the term anti-russian, anti-belarusian depression, does it take place? now i don’t even know who this is, who is this about? this, this is not interesting to me at all, i don’t even know why this is being blurred, this is her revolutionary spiritual impulse, her freedom, everything. is she happy there? but i don't care this is a person's personal choice. but what about our belarusian tolerance? this connivance, connivance with evil leads to the fact that evil grows in full bloom, in order to understand where is good and where is evil, open the legislation, everything is written there, of course, the legislation is imperfect, for example, i am surprised by the family code, what does it mean to me? it’s surprising, in this code there are articles that correspond to world legislation, it actually surprises me, if only someone there would like us,

uh-huh, so that they would say, oh, what well done, don’t compare us with them, let them compare themselves with us, and we don’t live to please anyone, the main thing is that we feel good, we feel good, but there is such a thing, responsible persons, and a minefield has been laid. grandmother, grandfather, uncle-aunt, brothers, sisters, irresponsible persons, they cannot come to school, they will not be allowed in unless one of the parents has written that such and such a person can come and communicate with the child, but what? this is why the family is being torn apart like this, these are not registered stepfathers and mothers, but we have very there are many second marriages, in general someone turns out to be an outsider, is with the child, how can it be, take it away, in general, we can go far, so i think we need to restore the rights of the family as a whole, in many generations, because

maybe great-grandfathers , great-grandmothers or brothers-sisters will notice something in the child that the parents do not see, and we must give them the opportunity to speak out, meet, pick them up from kindergarten, and go to school, because now this is the situation, it’s terribly dangerous all around. if only they could put guards all around, it’s terrible, and if only we could go home faster, that is brought up, distrust of the world around us, and this is created by small but consistent actions, so let’s take a sober look at the world, we live comfortably, it’s good here, it’s calm here, envy, do better at home, the question of war and peace in the light of the latest belarusians are very concerned about events, our guest ivan eismond, he spoke about this, let's listen, the fact that politics interests the audience so much is still, but after all the shocks that we have experienced, he is happy, the shocks

continue, just the thing is that in neighboring country, well, of course, this cannot but influence, and well, it cannot but influence people, in the top are russian information and analytical, news releases, which are the programs that we broadcast, well, of course, people are interested in this, cannot but interested, that's what, well, that's the question. death, war and peace, the most important thing that worries people today, in our country, i talk a lot with people, our journalists communicate, and recently talked around the country, they travel, of course, people are worried and extremely grateful that we are still didn't get involved in this story, grateful to the country’s leadership, the president, they increasingly remember the twentieth year and say that we would have had the same thing, well, there are a lot of sources now. from different channels, that is, if earlier there was radio, television, newspaper, now plus internet sources, these flows of information, when a person receives them, there is a lot of this information, different

from absolutely different sources, he can wind up as a result yourself to some kind of psychological problems, maybe, but this is not information, but information noise, because there is some information that a chatbot can disseminate, no one knows who there is, but you. and there are people who simply begin to somehow emotionally respond to everything , without analyzing, indeed, going back to the twentieth year now, if it weren’t for the leadership, where would we be, there is such a question, the role of the individual in history, yeah, it’s true , when the person didn’t go anywhere , he went out to the people, to the people, went to the factory, so i met the president at the factory, aggressive, nervous, this is a crowd of some people, who want to express something, it’s not even clear what, and a person with an open, right open

chest, doesn’t defend how to treat this, thank god, we don’t have a civil war, as for war and peace, we always live in state of war, we are just used to it and don’t feel it, there are different types of war, informational, yes, it exists, and it is a very strong, zombifying war, because then any physical war must exist. here ideologically and how to check, in general in life we ​​learn two documents by heart, i always thought that we were influenced by two things, this is an abc book, well, you can’t learn an abc book, you don’t read everything, and the hymn, two documents, if you go on the internet, it’s in translation, maybe prose, but you read the hymns different countries, for example, there is such an anthem, this is for the forecast of war and peace, our flag flies on all foreign shores, we are great, we are brave, our flag will stand on all foreign shores, who is it? united

states? of course, because no one... makes mistakes, so as long as the hand here on the heart sings this hymn, well, it will be continue, but there are still beautiful hymns, form into cohorts, go death, go death, go death, they sing like that too, that’s who? italy? yes, goribalaldi was there, there in their historical periods , but they don’t change, go to your death, die, and the french, and the soldiers will come, they kill your children, yours... well, you die, let your children die , let them all die they will die, well, i like it, god save the queen, save the king, and if it’s good for them, it’ll be good for me. and now we listen to our anthem: peaceful people, given with our hearts, who do we love, what do we love? our land, each other, not some queen, if it goes well, we are in a fraternal union, we

create, this is a rare anthem. that's when they say: where does the mentality come from? because we are in this program, no matter what we do, we live and how could it be different, no way, although there are also nuances, let’s listen to our anthem during the pause, and in the meantime, subscribe to our telegram channel, that’s what it’s called , say don’t be silent, invite guests to ask your questions, we are in touch. the program “say don’t be silent” is on air again, and today we have visiting candidate of psychological sciences, associate professor nadezhda tsyrun. nadezhda aleksandrovna, well, we talked to you about the affirming power of anthems, in particular our anthem, i would like to discuss with you such an issue as the fight against fakes, and maybe there are some psychological techniques, of course, there are a great many examples that can be given,

but since we were talking about our neighbor ukraine during the pause, here’s an example: at zelsky’s speech at the un there were so few people that for ukrainian viewers the picture was edited in such a way that at the fourteenth second, such a short video, he listens to himself, that is, it is shown , as you think, that the ukrainian media are lying and not blushing, this is now such a new reality, such a reality has always been, well, let's begin. the power of the word, as soon as we used the word fake, well, like a beautiful word, fake, already say it, the word is beautiful, but that’s it, no, it must be said, it’s a lie , it’s a lie, it’s a vile lie, it’s an introduction to deception, it’s generally, we read the legislation, this is fraud, this is a forgery, on state level, so we need

to say without this word, why do we always? you need some foreign word, this is a strange fad that you need to get rid of, because, for example, i’m going to study science from here , a dissertation, if you don’t have a list of references in a foreign language, then you’re not a scientist, i’m interested, but for they have such requirements that our scientists be quoted there, there is no such requirement, so we are the third world or the fifth or something, we are a consumable material, we are a cartridge, we have printed everything. it's the same there, it's not there the president is a consumable person, he will now fulfill his function in his team, there is no team there, that’s it, let’s talk about other values, about children, about family, the school year has begun, it’s already almost a month over, who do you think in the current conditions , do you need help from a psychologist, parents or children, i think we need to start again with documents,

again the criminal code? well, not exactly the criminal code, maybe this is some kind of international reporting document, when the president said that a school is a temple, a university is a temple, i’ll sign this, but when i hear educational services, well, that’s it, they didn’t invite you, uh, they paid you money, that is, from a mentor-teacher, people turn into service personnel, and service personnel, but a teacher is, first of all, an educator, so when the education system finds itself in extreme conditions, it reacts instantly, when it was necessary to go online, everyone came out on the same day , just all at once, there was no stop in the process for a second, we are talking now about the covid situation, yes, yes, that’s it, but everyone said that it's better face to face because it's different

feedback, other questions, deeper education, training, and then another ... this is an educational function, so the teacher, he is a teacher at a university, they look at you, they look at you for 8 hours, so this educational... contact - this is the most important thing, but this is not a service, this is some kind of spiritual activity, and of course , textbooks, you said when we discussed issues that you will not remain silent about textbooks, this was after a meeting with the head of state, when he said, i was convinced that creating a textbook is not a question, so somehow, i think, this coincides with us, the primer, of course, it’s difficult to talk about textbooks, because they are written by specialists with the best intentions, and when an expert in his topic, he wants as much as possible, and as varied as possible, and so that

everyone knew the subject there was in-depth, etc., but we, as those who teach, are tuned to accuracy, specificity and clarity, and unambiguity, yes, for reflection, for discussion, a manual is given, but in essence a textbook, and better in psychology, a textbook rubenstein 1949, for which he received a state prize, i i didn’t see it because he collected all the scientific material, scientific, not my personal opinion , here i am a guru, i came up with six principles, teach whoever remembers them, well, there are such authors who write, some have five, some 10, some as many as they want , that is why the problem with textbooks exists, i will give an example that absolutely does not cost any money, textbooks are in arabic. for elementary school, uh room sofa sitting man, room the same sofa sitting man and woman, they are a child, two children, three children, four, then the whole room in children, everyone has a signed name, they

all do something there together, what we decided, we decided the issue of reading, writing, counting and the demographic situation, how to live, this is how the educational system should be. without demagoguery, without anything, because the child looked, the teacher immediately asks: do you have brothers, sisters, cousins, grandmothers, grandfathers, we are strengthening family ties, this costs money, no, it costs thought, so let it be free they called, it would be possible not to create any groups, just show the book, for example, what do we know about clematis, that he is a genius, he has, no, we know that he is a deserter? i don’t know, you don’t know, but the schoolchildren brought it out, i ask, is he a dessert? so we need to find his biography, dig out that he wanted to return to russia, it was difficult, he had to register somewhere, then run away from there, who wrote such words about a genius, who wrote

such words, i don’t know, some colleagues, or a very complex question now is not even history, but geography, both physical and economic, but there shouldn’t be any geography, then there on several pages the word conflict is used 10 times, the child comes out of class, what’s in his head? conflict, conflict, conflict, all life, conflict, but why the explanation of the reasons, political economic situations, this is not an explanation, then, for example, a list of some territories or unrecognized states, they exist in fact. well, let’s go into the school, and our school is like a country, it’s a place of peace, we have everything there, we have armenians, azerbaijanis, everyone is there, both from central asia and from distant countries, and we all love each other,

everything is fine with us all, suddenly the word nagorno-karabakh appears in class, and the children come home, it flares up, we need it, therefore, when we write a textbook, on the one hand, we need some facts, but there must be... them an exact explanation, some kind, if we don’t have this explanation, maybe we take it with an asterisk to the university, but we tell it in such a way that the child has an unambiguous, precise and clear understanding, since not a single adult parent will answer clearly, distinctly child at home, what is happening there and how it is happening there, this is again the highest politics, these are different secrets, this is geostrategy, this is completely different, this is not the same geography. maybe, which you need to know, i don’t want to criticize anyone, because i could criticize psychology more than any other branch of knowledge, with all the cliches, yes, psychologists can really have an impact, thanks to

psychological influence, through the word, to everyone women had their gender changed, and no one noticed it, and men will suffer from this , but they will realize it after many years, now you think how they changed our gender, it’s just there such a concept is linguistic sexism, the unfortunate women there are oppressing, but we don’t have feminatives in our language to designate everything, there’s a director, a director, why do our opponents use it, because because we have a full name and patronymic, it’s especially difficult with surnames, circun is not clear who, everyone thinks he’s a man, i’ve already encountered this, that’s why we have a patronymic name, foreign practice, there’s a madam, there ’s something else substituted, you understand who’s there, but we don’t, now , if you have daughters, granddaughters who go to school, how do they sign the notebook?

students, students, and there is a boy and a girl, they understand this, and the girl entered the university, she became a student, a master's student, a bachelor's degree, a graduate student, everything, and this is the head, and that's all, why, but because russia carried out a language reform, not i know how it was, that philologists decided, but in general this was not included in the textbooks, i didn’t find it in the textbook when... we have masculine, feminine, neuter, there is also a common gender, angry, drunkard, this can be both, but the most interesting thing is if we take the code about marriage and family of the soviet period, the words, citizens who had reached the age of 18 could enter into marriage, which was not a citizen, but a citizen, who wanted with whom and how they wanted, but understanding in everyday life certain... rules, they skipped this word and did not pay attention

, and it creates a program, so we need to accurately determine, we don’t need to be influenced by foreign trends so clearly, everything is not so simple, we need to think about ourselves, about our culture, about our speech, about how we predict what to whom say, well, that’s why psychology is here my contribution, planting a lot of... cliches, one of my favorite cliches, you have to love yourself, oh, roll your eyes, oh, you have to love yourself, but what, you don’t have to love yourself, to answer this question, tell me what love is , self-love, love, a difficult question, everything, if you can’t answer this question, how can you apply an vague concept to yourself, no way, it’s a cliche, well... “oh, my parents didn’t love me, they didn’t love me , they just didn’t love me,

that’s why i’m so unhappy, i don’t do anything, you have to treat your parents with respect, you have to to understand their difficulties, you need to understand that they put in everything they could, that they themselves don’t know everything, don’t understand everything, and that someday your parents will be gone, you’ll cry and think why you treated them like such a swine , so you can’t blur these,” in the same way, there are cliches that are associated with the idea of ​​living here now, yes, live for today , and this is through the internet, just now, but our psyche is structured differently, we live in this minute past present, future, it is present, the dog does not imagination, we have, and we live there in the heart of the future, the present, sadly, if we touch on the issue of demography, it seems that our standard of living is growing, but our demography

is falling, what should we do? it falls because when there are fewer previous generations, then naturally there are fewer people who want to have a child , and then we have a certain fashion, not to get married, to get married as late as possible, then after 30 just start, but by forty think about how to have a child, and this... over the past years, through films, through fashion, through some media personalities, so it is carried out, but we must remember, man is a biosocial being, biology works for us, whether we want it or not, our brain turns the program on and off, so you thought, after forty i will reproduce, those times and the brain turned off the program, that’s it, that’s why there are sensitive periods, the first child is before 25. that’s what you want, but for this you need

to get married, because when they say, we ’ll live a little, we’ll find out, this is a rather false situation, there is someone looking for profit or deceives, in general, this is not good, and that is why the birth of a child is so postponed, this is one of the reasons, we need to change it, if we take the program, a student child, this is wonderful, your career is going well, the children are growing up, you are already interesting for employers, because you your children are already so big, not babies and that’s all, but when they say i’ll make a career, i never say yes to a career. to the end, they always think , lord, i’ll live there, i don’t know, and i’ll stop, no, but how do you feel about these fashionable trends, which, well, we already have, thank god fashionable, but here in belarus they are also trying to promote childfree, well, some people fall for it, because you understand, in order to promote

some kind of childfree or whatever, special institutions and institutes work and subject it, that is, it’s all from the outside, and they think of it as a monolithic break and destroy the nation? i sometimes conduct an experiment when they say: oh, there are european values, there are more, i say, okay, now we will vote , who is in favor of 2 months of maternity leave in accordance with european values, we vote what you think, but no one wants not negotiate, sometimes a couple of people there will say something, well, you can. it would be, then i ask the second question: who wants maternity leave for 5 years? oh, no, common sense gives 3 years, that’s just so good, because there are fewer sick days, and the child is looked after, although i return to the children, i have a very big question for the parents, it

’s the state that does everything, because the state is we, how much taxes we collected, so much is returned to us, but when... a child from that family, which is called prosperous, meets, at the age of 3 he knows, yes, yes, yes, words, but sometimes not , ma, pa, that’s it, i’ll give you the norms for the development of speech of a soviet child, 100 words a year, yes, simple speech, ma, yes, pa, some of these, but, these are already two words, this is already a thousand for a 3 year old, vocabulary, poems by heart, what is happening, i propose that if we pay for maternity leave, then we check the mental development of the child, if it does not meet the norms, then we mother we send you to work,

we deprive you of benefits because it’s for raising a child, again i go back to the fact that we still have a humane and different assessment of the situation, for example, there is still western upbringing, our upbringing, well , it was already when such a western option cries, but the difference is, here you have two babies, here they are in enclosures they lie to one, mom put toys and gives him her activity, so he will crawl , won’t crawl, take, won’t take, these are his personal individual preferences, so mom will give him a toy together , smile together, talk together, here they have there will be a different fate because this person will be a collectivist and he will be in contact, yeah, but this one will be an individualist, not a fact that he is an achiever, because the skill has not been transferred to him, and we can transfer all skills

only in communication with each other. nadezhda aleksandrovna, well, during your speech, answering many questions, you return... to our soviet period , to the soviet experience, why in the field of education, the same textbooks, upbringing, we break spears and invent something new, why are we reinventing the wheel, if we can take this experience and use it, i don’t know, then oh what did the president say, that we had good textbooks, take the soviet ones, they’re just jelly feathers, well, take them, they ’ll master everything, even i can master them, you know? every author wants to leave a trace behind themselves, a trace behind themselves, well, that’s all, and they don’t take into account how a child can perceive what is given to him, and sometimes he can’t, or not because everyone on the internet has not become smarter. moreover, if we divide the entire

population into three groups, the poor middle and the wealthy, and take three sources of information or information: telephone, computer and a paper book, tell me, who has what? poor, middle and wealthy, who uses what? i think that the wealthy have a paper book, naturally, because it is expensive, and there is a closet of square meters for it, but in order to knock this out of the ideological world, to take books out of the house, now only furniture designs, this is brainwashing, unacceptable, among the average computer. and the poorest strata with a telephone, why? not a single dissertation is written on a phone, but when you are on

a computer, you can work on something else there, on a phone, it’s very fast, it’s quickly, these are emoticons, by the way, if you communicate with emoticons , then you are up to the age of written speech, 5-6 years old, hieroglyph, rock painting, rock painting, and this is done, this is specially designed, then we ask ourselves, how do we want to live? no one is to blame, the conditions are there, live, develop, create something, now we will take a short break, after a short pause , we will return to this studio again, for now subscribe to our telegram channel, that’s what it ’s called, say don’t be silent, leave your comments, offer us guests, all ours look for episodes on the youtube channel belarus 1. the program say don’t be silent is on air again, our guest is associate professor, candidate of psychological

sciences, nadezhda tserkon. nadezhda aleksandrovna, in the final part we’ll talk about your youtube channel, why do you need it, tell us? i have always had a dream to write everything down, students came to the classroom , but i wasn’t there, and i was doing some creative processes, the dream came true, but now i understand... that online is not necessary, it’s better in the classroom, anyway i wanted to create additional material that on the one hand, corresponds to the educational standard, because when i look at information or information on the internet, there is a lot of things that should not be there for it to be reliable and accurate, and we started this recording, i want to talk about the person who makes this channel , this is sergey pokrov, he has... he is a composer, but he is a very creative person, from time to time he is also involved in some kind of business, something else,

but the music on this channel is all his unique music, and i wanted so that a person can solve his problem, that’s why we we started by finding a short, precise answer, and here there is, for example, a playlist of cheat sheets on psychology, because psychology is difficult to study. although we are all psychologists, well, my favorite question is, name eight properties of attention, that’s all, why? well, why, if we communicate, we need to know which one, what property we organize, or three types of attention, three types of thinking, that is, it’s all very precise with precise definitions and examples, when you understand this, then you can put correct experiments, then you can practice, and not that you have taken courses and a guru. you need to know the human psyche thoroughly, i wanted to do this, and there is a lot of archival material from television

programs that i think are valuable, because this is the story of our life, and these materials were collected over many years, which is interesting, they are modern, they sound the same, there is from the program, zoe latun, know yourself, she and i wrote such programs, it would seem a long time ago. but the questions of people of different generations remain the same, everyone wants love, everyone wants creativity, everyone wants everything to be good, this channel has answers to the questions, do psychologists go to psychologists? according to the rules, there are such procedures as supervision, well, someone watches how you work, then when you feel so emotionally burnt out, you already have it, because every day for 20 hours, then you are just so tired, you go and consult, well, it’s unlikely that this happens en masse, and then you know what’s interesting

is when everyone knows the same thing and you know it yourself, then you can apply everything to yourself means and methods in order to balance one’s condition, although about psychologists it must be said that the main quality of a psychologist is the stability of his personality, this is his vitality, this is his... self-control in difficult life situations, because this is what gives support to others person, well, this is probably a fairly successful project, because here are 3,690 subscribers, almost 4,000 subscribers for a highly specialized channel , probably 70,000 views, i ’m surprised myself, it’s a good number, there is a very interesting playlist, art therapy for creativity, i have already invited composers there. he is a very interesting contemporary belarusian composer, and there are also doctors of science, in general , people who can answer the question of what

creativity is, i asked everyone. as the thought comes to mind, what is happening, because a person cannot live without creativity, here we have love, creativity, then our life ends, i’m even interested in one approach that i found in publications, look at today through the eyes of descendants, and what will your descendants take from today in the form of cultural heritage, you know, there is such a thing, cultural heritage, on the un list, there are rituals , traditions, everything. and we are now taking, studying, using, here is our today’s program, will it become a cultural heritage, we really count on it, it inspires me, because you can’t only think about monetizing every step, every breath, although you also need to monitor financial flows , but this can

be a separate topic, to optimize our life, understand, you live, you are happy, you live in our country, you can go and see autumn, well, the dandelion has bloomed , what is the dandelion thinking about in september, what is it blooming , clover is blooming, in general in the program, yes, the sky is interesting, the fountains are gurgling, enjoy the fullness of life, what do you need, what is missing, create it, here it is creativity, do not divide, but increase. but you need to have a good life message, because everything is actually all good, we just want the best, in textbooks, in relationships, well, how it turns out , but we must strive, thank you very much, nadezhda aleksandrovna, for being with us today charged with your positivity, let's go

create, let's go love, as you said, these are the main engines, create engines in life, we wish you success, we didn't have time to ask more than half of the questions, so we will meet again, we are tatyana sherbina and svetlana smolonskaya, we say goodbye to you until the next broadcast, see you goodbye, goodbye, and now nadezhda tsurkon says: the longer the life, the shorter the path, all that remains is to exhale, inhale, flash for one moment, live is interesting, this is the essence, the longer the life, the shorter the path, nadezhda alexandrovna, according to tradition, we ask you to leave an autograph or some wish in our art gallery, i wish you what i consider the most important, i wish you the love of creativity. thank you!

thank you for your participation. everything you wanted to know about the greatness of belarusian churches? we conceived it in such a way that, after all, if the bishop believes that this is the future cathedral, it must be truly significant, it must be majestic, because this is the face of not even the minsk diocese, the belarusian khat, the entire

republic of belarus. about the power of god's word, preferably. whatever you do, take it blessing, this is very important for me now, and somehow it immediately becomes a little easier for me to do something, that is, it seems like god is already leading me along the path of life, and the importance of family in a person’s life, the lord commands a person marriage is an eternal phenomenon, he created man, he said that it is not good for man to be alone, we will create an assistant for him, corresponding to him, and men and women are not different, but together with

his first icon he cut secretly, we, in principle, must start with a simple gradually step by step climb up, and he himself was at home, quietly carved out this icon, brought it to me, showed it to me, talented, brave, always ready to learn something new, he loves to work on detail, he is the kind of person who admires every element of his canvas. he starts playing, you know, like a fakir who is hypnotizing a cobra with a pipe, that’s exactly how lyosha worked wonders with the audience, today they are the pride of the country, at performances i didn’t even expect that he... would play, so assertively, without any embarrassment, everything is clean, about the new generation of belarusians, watch the project on the belarus 24 tv channel, we are pleased

to continue to talk about the cities of belarus. the starting point of our route, like most tourists, is the station square. author's routes. it’s hard to believe, but once upon a time there were centuries-old forests on this land, and here... was the largest trade route from varyag to the greeks. the most mysterious places. a unique timepiece in the heart of broadway. initially there were no hands on them; later they appeared, but the clocks did not show the correct time. interesting myths and legends say that here in the central square, under the asphalt, a unique paving stone has been preserved; it was brought here in soviet times from the krevsky castle. see the program of the city of belarus on ours.

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