gold medal at the seventeenth summer paralympic games in paris. on the first day of competition, bokiy competed in the 100-meter butterfly, in the decisive swim , the athlete covered 100 meters in 54.13 seconds and won gold. this gold medal was the seventeenth for the belarusian at the paralympic games. the president of belarus congratulated the belarusian swimmer on his gold medal. there are 100 brave guys in our studio, each of them has a question for an adult, you have one minute to briefly tell about yourself, time has started, how you will react if a person asks you to do something that is not suitable for him, well, i will also dissuade him in some way, there is a stereotype that all athletes are bad students, how did you study? we studied on a five-point system, somewhere there were of course and...

there were fours, fives, well, in different ways, to your right is the red sector, the next question is from there, hello, my name is denis, and what kind of dad are you? probably, there is some kind of dad, i don’t know whether he is good or bad, you are the first belarusian woman who won the olympics in freestyle, and how did you feel when you were standing on the podium? the first night i couldn't sleep at all, i couldn't fall asleep, because i closed my eyes, in front of my eyes... watch the project 100 questions to an adult on the belarus 24 tv channel

. me when i was young. it's impossible to imagine, it's always been like this, how could a man write such a masterpiece on behalf of a woman? well, shoot me for this, as i see it, in order to write on behalf of a woman it's enough to be a homo, i don't compose music, to be honest, i can't even imagine how this is possible, i'm a product, i a product of the soviet era, which i can do for 42 years.

as a person who has been playing chess since early childhood, i can see many steps ahead, there will also be the same theses that you are stuffed with. i have no nostalgia at all. three languages, three cultures, one faith, a common history, living together on one piece of land. happiness is when you are understood, great happiness is when you are loved, real happiness. both love this, hello, the program say don't be silent is on the air, in the studio victoria popova and tatyana shchyurbina. and today our guest, composer, poet, valery golovko. good afternoon, valery. hello. exactly a year ago we saw each other in

this studio, the interview went very well, i think, on a popular video hosting, more than 100,000 views, yesterday i watched 109 , but no less impressive comments are left by your fans, valera, and maybe neophytes who first learned about you thanks to our interview, so after looking at these simply not comments, we decided to make the format of today's interview in retro power. you wrote to us or at the request of tv viewers, if you have no objections, let's read, yes, please, well here is one of the first comments, i would like to hear valerie's thoughts on the relationship between women and men, what will happen to the institution of the family, what awaits us all in the distant near future, it seems to me that these are serious questions, these are really very serious questions, and i will not

answer them with cliches, from soviet times, and i am a product of soviet times, we heard that the essence of the relationship between a woman and a man... this the creation of a family, the family is the foundation of society, the purpose of the family, the continuation of the family , the continuation of the family, the meaning of life, i, as a young man, had a model of happiness in my head, and for me this was the only woman for whom i would live my whole life, she would live her life for me, and for me this was such a sacred phenomenon, brought up, obviously... french novels, which i read a lot of already in childhood, this model made me mentally refuse children, i told myself that then i would not be able to completely belong, she belongs to me too, so i my model was a woman and a man, two, i am a monogamist, like my dad, like my uncle, like

my brother, well i don't know how it happened, maybe because it is passed down from generation to generation, it would seem that this is a great success for a woman when... a man belongs only to her, but it turned out that all the men of our family were deeply unhappy in their marriages, your father too, and my father too, they were simply not loved, by the way, yes, i feel sorry for my father and my brother the most, because they both left from life at 37 years old, to a large extent for this very reason, and i know this, the thing is that... this model of personality formation, it was very idealistic, therefore with a flaw, this is the model in which men of our kind were brought up, it turned out that life is completely different, well

, of course, it looks like youthful maximalism, together until death forever, no, i 'm not talking about that, i'm talking about the fact that it seemed to me that... gradually, in general , life shattered these illusory ideas, this is the knowledge of life, practical knowledge life, time itself, actually , it has put many things in their place in understanding, in general, what is the essence of male relationships? i had a great-grandfather, one of my great-grandfathers, one of my great-grandfathers was an intellectual, back in the teretial war, he was the director of a gymnasium, my second great-grandfather was a simpler man, he was two meters tall, lived 99 years, and his fist was like the head of any person,

this man was happily married, he had 11 children, then two died, then, in general, his only son died in the war and the husbands of all his daughters too, but... they were terrified of him in the family, both his subordinates and those around him, what are you getting at, valery? i'm getting at the fact that, it means, i actually answered the question about the relationship between a man and a woman, that is, of course, for many reasons i revised them, so i won't decipher my transcription, let's just look into the future, yes, into the future of the institution of the family, today the institution of the family breathes harmony in the form in which it exists, this is completely obvious. his wound is to be written off, but the stormy the development of social life and - in general , technologies, in the very near future will incredibly modify this structure. in order

to understand what changes are coming, let's consider each traditional function of the family, separately, its future. procreation, in my vision. soon the institution of fatherhood and motherhood will turn into pure formality, now on the agenda is the issue of selection of combinations in order to avoid fetal development anomalies, to avoid sick children, this will inevitably come will lead to artificial insemination, scientists today say that growing a fetus will be...

not an exception, but the norm, this is a very important remark, we are now talking about marriage, its current form, and its future, material dependence, this formula, the breadwinner, the keeper of the hearth, she will die, but i am not making maximalist statements, you are making marxist statements, these are all well-known,

in various societies, yes, we are talking about a dominant position, yes, when we talk about the fact that there is a tendency, you say there is a tendency, it has already begun there sometime a very long time ago, and i am talking about when the world will transform, this will not be a trend, but this will be the essence of existence, i will continue, perhaps, about the following functions of the family, which i would like to tell you more about, so, there is still a very important point connected with... transformation, with the transformation of the family. today, to the traditional form,

only one has been added: same-sex marriages, in the future i see other formats, families, such as, temporary marriage, which will initially assume when the relationship is concluded, that when exhaust themselves,...

islam, where what you describe is simply impossible to imagine, it seems to me

that much of what awaits us in the future is impossible to imagine, it has always been like this, the future is unimaginable, when...

it became autumn, quiet farewell, the branch smiled, looking into the distant land, and said autumn, quiet, farewell, autumn branch , my tone does not knock. please do not let tears fall under my window, do not disturb my heart, do not tear my soul, be an autumn branch, do not curl anymore,

wash an autumn branch, do not curl anymore. let's repeat the question: how could a man write from women's faces such a masterpiece? in order to write from the face of a woman, it is enough to be a homo , that is, a human. in the light of modern knowledge , we already imagine that our emotions, our feelings are a product of biochemical processes in the body, in our body we have practically the same, in essence, so there is no difficulty, for me it was not difficult. do you regret the institution of the family in this case or not? no, first of all, i do not regret, for the simple reason, but there is reality, there is a given, and it is completely clear that they will produce cardinal changes. have you experienced pressure from women? i think so, valera, you even wrote an article once, i hated women. the question is a delicate question,

because if you answer it sincerely, then of course, it will look a little. immodest, but i will answer it - directly, my dad had a friend, uh, he was small, practically a dwarf of growth with a big hump, i had a period in my life - when i suffered for several years from the fact that i was not like my dad's friend, i understand that this is very difficult believe, you wanted to be a harbun, yes, well my favorite fairy tale, dwarf nose, generally to be different from others, to have some kind of feature, now we are talking about pressure, the thing is that due to this absolutely powerful pressure, here i dreamed, because i began to understand that i would never be able to make something serious out of myself, i would not be able to realize myself, i would not be able to become who i want, that is why i had a picture: here i am, like my father's friend, i find myself the same woman, we love each

other and no one touches us, we do not bother anyone needed. the word completely, wait, did they interfere with you writing music, women? i went through hysterics, sobbing, grabbing legs, blackmail, cutting veins, jumping from the ninth floor, jumping from the 84 fourth floor, that is, in a pregnancy that suddenly arose, pregnancy for me, that is, this is such a rather difficult, difficult path, all this happened to me for only one single reason, i ... met a woman, the one i dreamed about only at 33, and before that all these hysterics, yes, well, listen, well, each of us in our youth all this worried, cutting veins, it accompanied, well , i also met hysterical men, there were also such a question, the question is that now, as it seems to me, people have mentally

changed in this sense, well, they have a freer attitude to everything, and you know, when i figured out this issue, when i thought about why romeo and juliet are so young, all these passions, they are good at 13, 14 years old, and then, you know, an adult comes. we are talking about youth, about youth, of course, that is, then you, it was 20 years ago, or even more, when you wrote i hated women, it was even stranger to hear it from you, because the calling card is certainly the song your mother, mother, mother, through the years of separation. i returned to you again, mother, mother,

you love me, and i am grateful to fate. such a beautiful arrangement, i don’t want

to interrupt natalia, but valera, what’s up, today we are talking with you, did you want to say why this article appeared in a women’s magazine? yes, i was asked to write some material for the first issue of this magazine, this is 2000, instead of writing i simply offered an excerpt from my book, which began with the words i hated. curses, i loved her very much, she died, you told us about it, i remember this this woman basically saved me from a tragic story, and you see, it is not possible to cut this family knot of yours, one way or another the man is unhappy. while we stop at this, let's take a short break, i remind you, we have a telegram channel, say don't be silent, subscribe, ask questions and suggest guests, we have connections,

we know exactly how to... in the morning correctly, together with the audience we will prepare a delicious breakfast. good morning, i am very glad to see you in my kitchen today. this will be one of my favorite breakfasts, we will cook zucchini omelet with red fish, in addition to this we will prepare a healthy green salad. vlad, good morning, i am glad to see you in my kitchen. today we will cook an omelet with zucchini and cottage cheese and spinach filling. and we will get a boost of vivacity and energy. for the whole day and the third exercise will be twisting for the press, this will help you maintain a good figure, bend your legs, move them as much as possible to the buttocks, lie down and

slowly rise, we will have three exercises, at an easy, calm pace, repeat all the movements, and your joints, your muscles, your body will thank you, stretch your legs forward, take a deep breath. raise your hands up, lower yourself down diagonally, touch your right hand with your left, watch the breakfast of champions project on our tv channel. meeting amazing people, immersion in their profession. my name is mikhail pasmartsev, i head of the scientific department of the pripelsky national park. the ecosystem is designed in such a way that the violation of one of its components will inevitably lead to the fact that from... all the rest, now we are on the territory of an open -air museum, this museum is a territory with a huge number of historical exhibits, i am the deputy

director of the republic.

test with old slavonicisms, with such archaism, then with the vocabulary of the 18th century, heavy syntax , i wrote everything and made a grammatical error in the word, it's even embarrassing to pronounce in what, so that i had to enter due to family circumstances, i didn’t wait, i didn’t live to see the tenth grade, i had to enter where they took 14 years, and so i got into a music school, which i don’t regret at all, the program is on the air again... say, don’t be silent, and today our guest is a composer, poet, valery golovko, and we, dear viewers, continue to ask your questions to our guest. valery, a question about health, a viewer asks what approaches he professes in relation to his body, how he eats, how much does he do sports? i will answer this question, but you have to understand that what is good for a russian is death for a german, yes, that is, we cannot

extend the experience to e. other people, as for me, i will emphasize once again, this is my experience, this does not mean that this is suitable for someone, i do not eat anything for 20 hours a day, that is, i eat at 15 and 19 o'clock, fruits, bread, bakery products, flour, all porridge are excluded, from berries only blueberries. hours of cardio exercise daily, before, once, when i was younger, i trained for 4 hours a day day, now the load is one and a half hours, that is, let's say, gentle, in conclusion i want to say another very important thing, there is an organization that is constantly trying to bring panic into society, this is the world health organization, the who is now on the verge of

preparing us all. for another pandemic, that is, monkeypox and so on, so i would like to say the following, that panic is when a person has health problems and even some critical situations, you need to appeal to your body, to your willpower and spirit, to understand that i once read in the description of the 12 -step program, which is designed to help people with alcohol... and drug addiction, the first line in the description sounded like this: alcoholism is a fatal incurable disease. i would like to address all tv viewers who may themselves suffer from alcohol addiction or have relatives and friends there, you cannot even imagine how easily in 25 years, no later, all types of addictions will be cured, like all types of neuroses i.

fatal and incurable diseases, there are diseases that today, the key today, today they are subject to doctors, and tomorrow these diseases will be awaited by what awaited cholera, plague, smallpox, spanish flu, tuberculosis and so on, another important note, not subject to doctors, this does not mean not subject to man, after a serious accident i was sentenced to have my left lung removed, post-traumatic shock mild. it did not open, i asked the question, how can i save my lung, i was told that you could do this, try this do, blowing up balloons from morning till night, but you can't do it with ruptured internal organs with seven broken ribs,

so only surgery, i blew balloons, with seven broken ribs, with a diaphragm sewn to them after a rupture, a liver sewn after a rupture in two parts, with a shining wound. after removing the spleen, again after a rupture , and i blew balloons, and i blew it up easily, i saved it, i returned to a full life, and i returned to music, when they ask me how i could survive, having received injuries incompatible with life, i always answer that yes, i received from nature a powerful organism with a large margin of safety, but no less important was the circumstance that from the moment i opened my eyes in intensive care and realized that i was alive, i had no doubt that i would return myself to a full life for a second. this is my motto in relation to health, beyond the control of doctors does not mean beyond the control of man. well, for me here again a striking example is roman kostamarav, yes, who does exactly the same thing, it is a pity for this man, he is wonderful

man, i'm very sorry because all this happened to him because of his stupidity, he committed an incredible stupidity, and i committed it in my life, well, we all committed it, the main thing is how you... get out of this situation, well, yes, i'll give it to his courage, this stupidity, as my mother always said, a dry tree or something like that creaks for a long time, here are people to whom nature gives powerful strong organisms, they treat them mercilessly, very irrationally, and i suffered from this in my time too, so i got used to it too, well - we can all, better early than, well, of course, late, there were a lot of questions in these comments, on which... today we are addressing questions about creativity, let's listen to another composition of yours, and after it it will be quite easy for me to ask the following question: i will go to another world, and i am afraid to fall, and my old piano

will open its keys, we will finish our song together, and they will say, he was talented, and they will say that he was pure in soul, he was always happy, that he was a musician, that he was just a pianist, even in music, you see, you you like to address the future. to what will arise after us, well, and the question from the viewer sounded like this: is it easy to compose such music and do you write it yourself or does someone dictate it to you? i don’t compose music, to be honest, i

can’t even imagine how this is possible, i receive it in a finished form from unknown to me measures, as for creativity, every year on september 6 on my birthday. i publish a long post in one of the popular social networks for not very young people, where the number of friends is limited to 5 thousand man, every year, last year on september 23, 6, i published a message to my son, in this message a whole section is devoted to the development of creativity, those who wish can read, and now i will outline my approaches, so to this, never... will not display reality with cliches, non-verbally, neither pistoletically, nor in thoughts. books, such as an anthology of wisdom, should be considered exclusively as a collection of exercises for

the development of one's creativity. and now i will give an example. here is a common thought, which is canonized wisdom. for some reason it is attributed. remark, although he simply used it, part of the thought was used by remark, happiness is when you are understood, and this thought is elevated to the rank of incredible wisdom, in fact, this is incredible stupidity. who of us is ready to create a family with a person who only understands you, does not love, yes, is not your friend, does not live for you, but simply understands, and there are many people who understand each other in this world, how did the thought sound completely, the thought of confucius, happiness is when you are understood, great happiness is when someone loves you, true happiness, when you love, it's less, but...

that's also stupid, but what kind of happiness is it, like unrequited love? we can seriously discuss this topic, that's creativity, yes, let 's set our task to modify this thought in the original source, so that it turns, if not into wisdom, then at least into a reasonable story, and we change it. happiness is when you are understood, great happiness is when you are loved, true happiness is when they love... both and then the thought takes on outline of rationality, but we do not stop there, we continue to develop our creativity, and we write out the antithesis to the original source: happiness is when you are not understood, great happiness is when you are not loved, real happiness is when you are not loved, and we attach to the antithesis... in general , a fairly large philosophical justification.

happiness is when you are not understood, but that means they will not calculate and will not be able to use you for selfish purposes. great happiness is when you are not loved, but then you will not face the problem of fighting off someone's obsessive love of a person to whom you feel nothing at all, yes, real happiness is when you are not loved, well, you will not self-destruct from unrequited love.

and necessarily antitheses to those thoughts that you read, this is very developing, argue with confucius, no less, right, to summarize, there are no authorities, nothing can be taken on faith, you need to subject it to critical analysis and formulate it yourself, then you will live your life, and not a borrowed one, but have your own opinion and your own view on everything, absolutely, one the viewer remembered that she had read your poetry cycle, the philosophy of darkness, she had experienced a real shock, she asks how... the hero throughout the cycle

is in search of a door that will open the light to the knowledge of the meaning of existence, and he wanders in the darkness and sees rays of light, he approaches them, they disappear. together with hope, when he had already completely lost faith in the possibility of finding that door, oh miracle he found it, in great excitement he opened it saw the same darkness, an ironic smile, bitter, that arose in his soul poured out into a fable, which preceded in my cycle two confessions: confession of a poet and confession of a pianist, here they turned into two musical works as a result, we heard one of them, what was the moral of this fable, and the bass was not naturally the moral, what is the meaning of existence and

is there one, i know the answer perfectly well, everything that is finite is illogical, our life is finite, our life is ruled by the fear of death, few people have managed to get rid of it, this applies including to deeply religious people, none of them can be sure that he will get to heaven, they leave him in different ways, some give birth to 15 children, some die at work to earn 15 million, that is, they work from morning till night, some dissolve in creativity, some in a glass, but... the point is that we all, i include, here is my generation of people a little younger, we were all not prepared for real life, ours, we were waiting for a fairy tale, we were left with real homo sapiens, the characteristics that are given in the list

of mortal sins, our children, the post-soviet already grew up without rose-colored glasses, but our... upbringing did not give them the opportunity prepare for real life, only our children's children, they must be brought up and educated in a completely different way. our children's children must know that life is a war, you can be killed in this war at any moment, our children's children must know that every day is a struggle for existence, our children's children must know that they themselves and the people around them are capable of greatness , baseness, honesty, betrayal, capable of great deeds, meanness, how inopportunely these thoughts came to your mind: you live in the era of all sorts of unicorns vefirovki, pink, and you scare and also our children, the children of our children, our grandchildren should never feel superior to fallen or

shaken people, and passing by someone lying under the fence... i'm not, i'm talking about the children of our children, yeah, about children, that's it, the topic is closed, i won't be able to raise my children the way it should be, i'm a product, i'm a product of soviet times, what can i do, i can't raise them on what, that is, this message later, this message later, yes, well, then we don't have a question, but

rather recognition of merit, also a quote, what a bright and interesting life at 25 years old a university teacher, 27 a pianist arranger of the best musical group of the ussr, pesnyary, at 42 a composer of a hollywood label, and behind all this work. do you agree with this comment, do you have a bright life? yes, i lived a bright life. eh, the heavens gave a lot, worked a lot, achieved a lot, learned a lot, saw a lot, and experienced a lot. loved a lot, many children, a wonderful man's life. but would you like to repeat something or, on the contrary , cross out something from this life? why think about that, which is unrealistic, i've never even thought about it, to be honest. and what do you think of your children's future ? i wouldn't want to describe the future of my children, frankly,

but i wouldn't want to describe the future of any children at all, for the reason that i wasn't born to think linearly and... as a person who has been playing chess since early childhood, i can see many steps ahead, so let's do without apocalyptic scenarios, that is, let's leave this question unanswered, and it seemed to me that you are only set up for this, for an apocalyptic scenario, no, and why is the vision of reality perceived in this way, but if a person were to sit and speak in cliches now, and in the relationship between a woman and a man, about the future of marriage, he would say what they have been saying for 50 years, starting from soviet times, well, would that be better, that is, you have complaints about soviet times and the soviet narrative? i have no complaints at all against anyone, i am simply stating yes, well, you have associated cliches with soviet ones, well, of course, well, we were all taught literature together with the cross-masies, where it was already told how to perceive this or that work, this kills any independent thought at the root,

you understand, yes of course with cliches, and absolutely yes and education, upbringing, and when you talked about... about the near future you talked about some schools of upbringing, didn't it seem to you that you were again building some kind of utopian idea, there will also be the same theses with which you are stuffed and stuff us, i am talking about the fact that today children need to be educated, brought up completely in a different way, with an emphasis on psychological stability, on high learning ability on high creativity, why? because you will have to study all your life, not like now , you have graduated, you work, you will have to study all your life and re...

is that you have nostalgia for the time when you were the first owner of a mobile phone i have no nostalgia at all, i can say one thing that i would in no way want to return to my youth or adolescence, never, if they told me to go back at any age, at 17, at 20, well, you know, when there is no demand for a composer, this is the same, in my opinion , painful feeling, no, there is no demand for a composer, well, it depends, what do you mean by that? well, my finest hour has passed, my contract ended back in 2018, yes, it was my finest hour, yes, yes,

today in belarus in belarus, in general, i have no work at all, i said in our first program that everything, my contract has ended, and now i am not an expensive composer who cannot approach, yes, in general, nothing happens, because well , the performers do not earn, they have no money, they have no, untributed repertoire and so on, now everyone is singing a cover, it's free very good, let's take a short break, after a short break we will return to this studio again, for now subscribe to our telegram channel, say don't be silent, look for all our releases on the youtube channel belarus 1. on the air again say don't be silent our guest today is a composer.

thank you, i expected a warm welcome, but i did not expect such a welcome, i am so pleased that everything i do is perceived so close to you, it lives in my heart, thank you very much, i am very pleased, i am pleased that my work is so appreciated, thank you, i have given 17 years of my life to three cyclorus programs, 17 years, i have done everything in my workplace for the unity of three slavic peoples, one people. well, that is the question, yes, the main

thing is one people, three peoples, what does unity mean to you? i will literally say a few words about the victory program, this is my admiration for the feat of my two grandfathers who died in the war and those who saved the homeland from enslavement. the slavs endured.

which - will happen someday for the slavs, i love the slavs very much, it also seems to me that you are a little ahead of your time, no big deal, it's even good, now a toast is very popular, let's drink to victory, to our victory, for you our victory, what does this mean? if we talk about the war that is going on next door, then i don't see any reason for anyone to raise a toast to our victory.

to convey applied knowledge, uh, i understood that you expect ideas from me that are not you will not learn anything from the internet or books, you will not hear it on the radio, you will not see it in the cinema, everything you have heard today is the product of my brain, my ideas, my personal view, i tried to be informative i really hope, uh, that you found it interesting, i wish you health and happiness. all the best, valery, please, an autograph from a person ahead of his time, with pleasure, i wrote the word delight.

discoveries, without which the world today is hard to imagine, it weighs no more than a kilogram, takes up very little space ideally equipped, for the fact that now it is in every car, we say thank you to doctors, and of course, scientists, without whom it would be impossible to fill it. today, experts say that these drugs definitely cannot replace a balanced diet, but can only be a supplement to it. our life. despite the fact that its products of humanity, which significantly simplify enjoyed success, the real craze for dietary supplements began in the mid-seventies.

even peter i had his own first aid kit, one might say, a travel one. before the car thing came only in 1975, there were more and more cars on the roads, and traffic accidents, of course, too. about the most important thing from the world of science in the project science is nearby. further from the innovations, yes, on the list is an isothermal blanket, no one will probably believe that this is a blanket, but it really is a blanket, why, why should it be regardless of when it is necessary to undergo a technical inspection? we are working on that at the academy of sciences, to develop complex biologically active additives, look at tv channel belarus 24.

this is a panorama, we sum up the main results of the day on the calendar friday. august 30, watch in our issue. in the new school year with the keys to a new apartment today in belarus the first rental house for teachers was opened.