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tonight, the countdown begins, the first secret vote in the sistine chapel just hours away. will it be white smoke or black? >> it's unlikely there would be white smoke on the first ballots. could there be an american pope this time? i will ask timothy dolan. plus, new york's soda ban fizzles out. i talk to the woman who wants to be the next mayor, christine quinn. >> today i'm announcing i'm officially running to be the mayor of the great city of new york. what do women really want? i'll talk to four very successful females about supposedly having it all. do they think getting to the top is as simple as two words, lean in? also, the undercover reporter who walked into the texas gun show and walked out with an ar-15, no questions asked. this is "piers morgan live."
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good evening. we're live at the vatican where the work of electing a new pope is about to begin. tomorrow morning, the cardinals, 115 of them, they hold a mass at st. peter's basilica which will be open to the public in the afternoon, and process to the sistine chapel where they will swear an oath of secrecy. once they close the doors the conclave begins and the world will have no hint of what's going on inside until white smoke begins rising from the chapel chimney. it's all very exciting for us catholics and it could be a long wait. the longest conclave of the past hundred years went on for five days. so batten down and brace yourselves for the long slog of deciding who the new pope will be. what should we expect this time around? joining me is the host of the catholic guy on sirius xm satellite radio, and the reverend john fitzgibbons. welcome to you both. let me start with you, if i may. you're down there in rome. pretty exciting at the moment.
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>> very exciting at the moment. the past moments, the future, all of these moments are very exciting. there's a ton of anticipation, enthusiasm. of course, this is not exactly the first time rome has elected a pope. but as you can imagine, there's a ton of excitement and a ton of talking. everybody in this town has an opinion. italians like to talk, as an italian-american we talk with our mouths, with our hands. there's a lot of talking going on saying what do you think, what do we need in a new pope, do we need a black pope, a white pope. but do we need a pope who is interested in this, that or the other. so there's a lot of excitement and of course, there's also a lot of waiting because there's not a lot we can do about it. >> absolutely right. let's turn to you, if i may, reverend. it is exciting because it could be a big surprise. we could have the first african pope, the first south american pope, possibly even the first american pope. so we could see history, but the catholic church is known to be pretty conservative and the
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clever money, i would argue, is probably going on a nonsurprising choice. what do you think will happen? >> well, i can't really predict but i think you're right. we could very well be surprised. my own money is on cardinal scola. he's remarkable, a great pastor and a very strong organizer. but i will confess the dark horse in my judgment is cardinal dolan. >> cardinal dolan is on the people's vote but from what i hear, and maybe we will come back to you on this, doesn't have the cardinal support. cardinal o'malley in boston has a lot more support than cardinal dolan has. am i right? >> yeah, and don't you love by the way, cardinal o'malley out of boston, cardinal dolan out of new york. somehow we still made this a boston and new york rivalry all the way, thousands of miles away. how do we do that one. you're right, but it's primarily because cardinal dolan in a lot of people's opinions is too
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american. he loves baseball, he loves beer and he loves being loud. for a lot of people, cardinals in the church, that's a little bit shocking to them, quite frankly. cardinals sometimes are a little bit more like this, not like this, and cardinal o'malley's a great man but also maybe fits this characteristic a little bit better. also important to keep in mind he oftentimes wears the brown habit. you usually see him wearing a brown habit which is reminiscent of another very famous saint here in italy by the name of padre pio. italians love padre pio. same outfit. maybe a correlation there. >> reverend, as the tension mounts over the next few days, we have no idea, they could come back tomorrow, it could be friday or saturday for all we know. as people start to come to grips with the kind of pope that may be succeeding pope benedict, everyone is talking about the "r" word, reform. what do you think reform really means to these cardinals?
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are they likely, for example, i saw a recent poll, we talked about this on my show before, in germany more than 70% of all the catholics in germany were in support of priests being allowed to marry, of female priests being permissible in the catholic church, and in divorced catholics being able to remarry in a church. but i would not imagine you would get the same level of support for those things somewhere like ireland, for example. so what is your sense about the kind of reform which a new pope may look to successfully push through? >> i would say there are really two areas. i'm no expert, but clearly there's a large segment of the church that wants to see the papal curia be reformed. that's one area of reform, reorganized, made a little bit more transparent, the banking made clearer. that's one area. i'd say another area is more popular.
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i think there are some disenfranchised or very hurt catholics in the world. i would say the victims of clerical sexual abuse. i would say women in the church. there are good faithful catholics who have the feeling that they need to be heard and i think the pope needs -- the next pope really needs to welcome them and be a pastor to them. >> finally, i know that you work with cardinal dolan. he would be a stunning choice for the people here in new york. they would go absolutely crackers if he becomes pope. do you think he really has a chance? you spoke to him i think yesterday. does he believe he has a chance? >> i did speak to him yesterday. he refuses to talk on the record or off the record if he really believes he has a chance. of course, he knows he does have a chance because he's one of 115 men going into that conclave, so he has a chance. but the fact of the matter is, he does really have a chance when you speak to the italians
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here, speaking to one of his security people yesterday, an italian guy, and i said what do you think about all of this. he said cardinal dolan is very sympatico which could mean he's very likeable, and he said he's so personable, he's got a lot of energy, he smiles, and the fact of the matter is there are cardinals and there are certainly a lot of catholics and non-catholics, for that matter, who say christianity is supposed to be joyful. catholicism is supposed to be attractive. how are you going to be more attractive and joyful than cardinal timothy dolan? >> also, i think the key word is energy. i don't want another pope retiring because he's feeling a bit exhausted. not a big fan of that kind of pope, i'm afraid. thank you both very much indeed. the tension will mount, we will stay with this all week and as i said at the start, for us catholics, very, very exciting times. >> indeed. now i want to turn to the ban that's got freedom-loving americans outraged. the ban on sodas and other sugary drinks bigger than 16
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ounces. a judge blocked it today hours before it was set to become law. mayor bloomberg has promised to fight back but what about the woman running to be the next mayor of new york? joining us exclusively is new york city council speaker, christine quinn. welcome to you. >> thank you very much. >> i can't think of a better guest, because this is the first night of our newly named show, "piers morgan live." we will be live all the time, all singing, all dancing. you're a perfect guest. let's talk soda. thought we would give you a little treat here. >> yes, thank you very much. >> this is like 32 ounce. humdinger of diet coca cola which is appropriate because coca cola have donated money to your campaign. >> well, yes. small donation in total from coca cola execs of $10,000 out of about the $6 million or $7 million we raised so far. >> is that clouding your judgment on soda-gate? >> i didn't know until this moment it had become soda-gate. >> i just called it that. everything becomes gate in the end. >> well, no. you know, look, i first want to
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applaud mayor bloomberg for being probably the most aggressive mayor in the country around the issue of obesity. obesity is an epidemic that has enormously significant health consequences and overall, i think he's doing a really good job on that issue. that said, the soda ban isn't one of his proposals in this area that i support, because my fear is that with issues around food and obesity, if you say no, people have almost a reflex reaction to do it, to go get it. >> but is that a reason not to make something illegal or unlawful? take for example the ban on smoking in a number of public places. the reality is it's actually stopped most people smoking in public places, which is good for their health and more importantly, better for the health of those around them who don't want to smoke. >> absolutely. and when i was -- before i was speaker i was health committee chair. i was the lead sponsor on the bill and led the effort in the council to get the bill passed,
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the mayor's smoking ban, passed and there was clear evidence in the city at our earlier bans which we expanded that it did have the effect we wanted. >> you can't tell me, christine quinn, that these ridiculously large guzzling great tubs of coke are good for your health. they're not. if you drink loads of these every day, it will rot your teeth, you will get obese, you will then become a drain on society, you will have health issues you wouldn't have if you didn't guzzle this stuff. i agree with mayor bloomberg. what's the point of being mayor of a city like new york, he's been big on gun control, big on smoking bans, he wants new yorkers to be fitter and healthier. what is wrong with that? >> nothing. he's right about it. >> do you believe he's wrong about this? >> i do. my belief is with food-related issues, which are different, which are more complicated because unlike smoking which you can stop and continue existing, you have to interact with food at least three times a day.
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so sometimes the easy yes/no that we're all drawn to particularly as catholics doesn't always work out in the end of the day with food related issues. and sometimes i think the better answer on food issues is to expand access to quality food, to not just say no, but to make sure people have a choice to get something. so for example -- >> i disagree with you. i think particularly on issues like smoking, drinking, guzzling sodas too big for them, eating 16 big macs a day, whatever it may be, the reality is we all need a bit of nannying about that. people on diets is a form of nanny estate. >> in a way i hope i'm wrong. i hope the mayor's right and this is effective but i really am concerned that the kind of negative no, no, no of this as an obesity issue which i think can be different than some of the other bans like smoking, i'm afraid it's not going to be effective. but at some point when it goes
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into effect, we'll have that data and we'll see who's right or wrong and on this one, i'm happy to be wrong and i hope the mayor is right. >> okay. fighting words. we have a great tweet from sarah palin. victory in new york for liberty loving soda drinkers. the politicians have too much time on their hands. we say government, stay out of my refrigerator. the mind boggles what's in her refrigerator. judge milton tingling, great name for a judge, called the soda ban arbitrary and capricious. he said the law would not only violate the separation of powers doctrine, it would eviscerate it. such an evisceration has the potential to be more troubling than sugar sweetened beverages. this is what mayor bloomberg says tonight on "letterman" in response to this. >> you know, the soda ban has been overruled by state court is that what happened? >> state court judge said the department of health didn't have the authority to do it. we think that they do. we'll appeal. in the meantime, this year,
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70,000 americans will die from obesity, 5,000 here in new york. >> so he's going to fight fire with fire. seems pretty confident of his case. >> absolutely. i suspect that -- i know the mayor and his corporation council will appeal. this is the first level of the court so this is going to play out and we'll see. the question the judge is really opining on is did the board of health have the legal authority to do this, which is a different question than whether it's right policy. and i suspect the mayor will be very aggressive in legislating this as he should be, because it's something he believes in. >> if you become mayor, are you giving me 100% guarantee you will not meddle in things people eat or drink? >> no. i can't make you that 100% guarantee. no. even i've said, if the data around the mayor's soda ban proves he's right and i'm wrong, then that's an all together different situation and i may change my position. once we have data to show. >> okay. let's take a break, come back and talk about your chances of becoming mayor. you have interesting
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my mother's life and death left me with the belief that our obligation is to use every moment we have on this earth to make it a better place. to make other people's lives better.
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to make sure nobody is left behind because they might need a little more help. >> new york city mayoral hopeful christine quinn talking movingly about her late mother. i talked to you before about your mother. you were 16, i think, when she died. >> yes. >> a really vulnerable age for any young woman to lose her mother. how would you feel about the fact that there's a little girl as you were still then about to potentially smash two great ceilings down. you would be the first woman to ever be mayor of new york. you would also be the first openly gay mayor of new york. an extraordinary double whammy, if it happens. >> i think she would be thrilled by all of this. my mom had started -- was raised in the city and had been a catholic charities social worker. she loved new york. she loved rockaway where she used to spend the summertime so to see her daughter in the thick of her city engaged with groups like catholic charities helping people engaged in making the
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city a better place, she would love it. she would just love it. >> do you have a view on the pope? >> you have to be for your hometown guy. i'm all in for cardinal dolan. all in. >> it would shake things up a bit. i would love to see cardinal dolan on a sunday at the vatican preaching to the world. it would be fantastic. let us move on to you. i want to play you a clip from an interview with ed koch just before he died. it turned out to be his last interview. i thoroughly enjoying meeting him. a real legend. this is what he said about you. >> who would be the next mayor of new york? >> well, i am for christine quinn, but it's a wide open race. >> that's an endorsement from the great man. how did you feel about that? >> it was great. it was great. ed koch endorsed me a couple of years ago. when the reporter said to him why so early, he said i'm 87, i should give her an iou? it's a great ed koch line. >> he had a catch phrase. have you thought about what yours might be?
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>> when we launched the campaign we kicked it off with a walk and talk tour. >> say it again? >> walk and talk. >> you have the perfect voice to be mayor of new york city. walk and talk. >> a lot of ws in that. >> i'm trying to explain to people how new yorkers talk. it's like you. >> yep. walk and talk and a little coffee, pet a dog, you're good to go. >> at the moment you're the runaway favorite to get the democratic nomination to be mayor. what would be the priority for you if you took over? give me top three things you would really want to get stuck into. >> keep the city safe. keep crime down. same thing. expand affordable housing, particularly for working class and middle class new yorkers, improve our schools, particularly our middle grades. that's the part of our system i'm in some ways most worried about, if i had to pick a topic and you said three but i'm a politician so i will take liberty here. job creation. we need to diversify our economy so we're not so reliant on wall street and build more
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opportunities for people trying to get into the middle class. >> i have a panel of extremely successful women coming up after you. we will be talking about this sheryl sandberg thing, the need to lean in more. you're a good example i would imagine of leaning in. i think the question we all feel about sheryl sandberg is, though i haven't heard her answer yet, is how many women has she brought with her. there are only i think 21 of the fortune 500 companies are run by women which seems still ridiculously low in the modern age. if you became mayor, would you be very proactive in promoting women? do you believe in doing that, or is it purely on merit? >> you know, i think you want to help folks move up, right, and the only way i got this job, my first job in new york city as tenant housing organizer, i called people. i called people, i called people, i asked them to have coffee with me, asked them to give me referrals, advice. you've got to help people, younger people, move up. you've got to help all people move up.
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but particularly i think it's important to help people who are parts of communities that haven't had a seat at the table before, women, disabled people, lgbt, people of color, get seats at the table. not at the expense of others, but to diversify the table, because bringing more diversity creates more voices, it's more creative, it's a good thing for the city, state and country. >> what is your advice to women who may be leaning back too much? what is the secret to getting to where you've got to? >> push ahead. don't worry -- don't think about what you don't know. focus on what you know. there isn't any hurdle out there you can't get over but don't get lost in focusing on the size of the hurdle. think about the speed and angle you have to run at to get over the hurdle. we all think, just as human beings, we're not smart enough, we're not ready enough. forget it. the worst voice you will ever hear, most negative, is the one in your own head. turn it off and replace it with i'm ready, i'm smart enough, i'm
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good enough, i can do it. you embrace that and push everything else out of your mind, you'll be successful. >> christine quinn, i feel inspired just being close to you. nice to see you. >> good to see you. >> come back soon. >> congratulations on the new name. >> "piers morgan live" with christine quinn. coming up next, what women really want. four successful females, including kathy ireland, a billionairess, tell me what it takes to have it all. xpress deas to book this fabulous hotel. well, you can see if the hotel is pet friendly before you book it. and i got a great deal without bidding. and where's your furry friend? oh, i don't have a cat. priceline savings without bidding. they're coming. yeah. british. later. sorry. ok...four words...
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they start leaning back. they say oh, i'm busy, i want to have a child one day, i couldn't possibly take on any more or i'm still learning on my current job.
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i have never had a man say that stuff to me. >> you're suggesting women aren't ambitious. >> i'm not suggesting women aren't ambitious. plenty of women are as ambitious as men. what i am saying and i want to say it unequivocally and unapologetically that the data is clear that when it comes to ambition to lead, to be the leader of whatever you're doing, men, boys outnumber girls and women. >> sheryl sandberg, chief operating officer of facebook in an interview on "60 minutes" had two bits of advice for women who want to make it to the top. lean in. which is the title of her book which touched off debate around the country. who better to talk about this than four accomplished women. leah gallagher, suzy welch, kathy ireland, ceo of kathy ireland worldwide, great title there. and florida congresswoman debbie wassermann schultz, chair of the dnc. welcome to you all. kathy, let me start with you. you're the richest. we have talked about your massive fortune before.
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you are basically a billionairess and it came in a $50,000 investment in socks which is why i love your story. is sheryl sandberg right that too many women lean back rather than lean in when it comes to promoting themselves and being ambitious? >> well, hello, piers. thank you for inviting me back. i don't think any of the women here on the show tonight lean back. sheryl has written a book that is very specific. there are some words of wisdom there but if you do not have a higher education, if you do not work in the corporate world and working for someone else what is you want to do, you might feel a bit left out by this book. miss sandberg tells us to lean in. i say buy the table. that's what i did. i bought the table and today, i design and sell it. what about the women -- forget about the conference table. but what about the women who can't even get into that
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conference room, that woman who feels alienated whether she's a single mom struggling to put food on the table. i think there is such a need for entrepreneurialism. piers, when you and i were kids, when young people were getting out of school, they needed to find a job. today, young people need to invent one and what i tell women is do not let your circumstances define you. don't let others' opinion of you destroy or stop you, don't let anyone put you in a box. i'm too odd-shaped. i don't fit in anyone's box and i don't intend to get in one until i'm six feet under. >> let me go to suzy welch next. you're married to the great jack welch. he had a brilliant policy of firing the 10% worst performers in his country every year. pretty ruthless, neutron jack. should more women take a leaf out of jack's book? should they be more ruthless in the workplace, not only for themselves but the way they conduct themselves as business leaders?
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>> i think that women will do well for themselves in the workplace if they focus on performance. so leaving aside the bottom 10%, i think when i was coming up, i thought look, maybe the system is rigged against me, maybe it's rigged against women. i was coming up at a different time. and i thought the only way around this really is just to be damn good, just to outperform and to make myself indispensable. to this day, i have four children, two boys and two girls, they're all of the age where they're starting to get jobs. i give them the same advice. i say if you want to get ahead and if you want to be successful, just be great at your job. find the job that's right for you and overperform. i don't think it's about ruthlessness. i think it's about finding what you're good at, then just giving it your all. what sheryl says, lean in. don't be afraid about choices and consequences. you will make your choices and there are going to be consequences but go for it. you can't have it all all at the same time, know that, and still forge ahead. >> okay. debbie wassermann-schultz,
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you're one of the top political women in the country. there has still not been a female president. top of your profession has never been a woman. if you look at the fortune 500, only 21 of the ceos of the 500 biggest companies in the country are women. >> that's right. we've come a long way, only 17% of congress in spite of the fact that we have a record number of women, are serving in congress today, out of all the years in american history, there have only been 296 women who served in congress and more than 12,000 men. we've made progress but we've got a long way to go. one of the things that's critical, i can appreciate what kathy is saying, but i think it's the responsibility that too often women have not taken on for ourselves, for us to not just get to the plateau when we reached it and be thrilled for ourselves, even internally when we keep it to ourselves, but to reach behind us and pull another woman up on that platform with us. >> lee gallagher, i speak from a position of great strength on
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this debate because 90% of the "piers morgan live" staff are women. literally, 90%. and very, very capable people they are, too. in my experience, pretty good negotiators. take someone like my wife, who's a writer. she's a great writer, much better than me, but a terrible negotiator. she just hates negotiating. hates the whole process, worries about saying no to things, would never dream of asking for a pay rise or anything like that. the reason that's significant is you read a little part of "lean in" even sheryl sandberg when show was approached by mark zuckerberg, she wanted to accept the first offer he made. she was ready to accept the job, dying to accept it. my husband dave kept telling me negotiate but i was terrified of doing anything that might botch the deal. i could play hard ball but maybe mark wouldn't want to work with me. was it worth it knowing i was ultimately going to accept the offer. her exasperated brother-in-law blurts out damn it, why are you going to make less than any man would make for the same job. even sheryl sandberg had to be
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basically ordered by the men around her to be a better negotiator. in your experience, is this a familiar problem? are women basically a bit nicer than men in the workplace and does that consequentially hold them back? >> yes, and yes. suzy makes a great point. you have to be good. you have to be good. but what sheryl is saying is this is about more than being good. this is being good and still doing things you don't realize are holding you back. not raising your hand, not sitting at the table if there's a big conference table, instead sitting on the side table. not negotiating. that's a classic -- you hate to stereotype but this is true and the data shows it. that book has a ton of data in it. the footnotes are like 40 pages. >> every woman should read the book. it's a terrific book. >> negotiating is really hard. women, as girls are taught to be nice, you don't want to offend anybody, and negotiating is asking for more. you don't want to, you know, rub anybody the wrong way but any man knows that's what you do. it does end up being kind of black and white like that.
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>> let's take a break, come back and talk about what marissa mayer said about working from home. that's a big issue for women and also about babies. because let's be honest, people like me don't have to worry too much about this, but women have to think about little else when they're working than what they do about wanting to have kids. i think we should discuss that. all stations come over to mission a for a final go. this is for real this time. step seven point two one two. verify and lock. command is locked. five seconds. three, two, one. standing by for capture. the most innovative software on the planet... dragon is captured. is connecting today's leading companies to places beyond it. siemens. answers.
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everyone knows marriage is the biggest personal decision you make. but it's the biggest career decision you make if you're going to have a life partner, who that partner's going to be. >> that just puts more pressure on women. >> puts more pressure on women if they marry or partner with someone, to partner with the right person, because you cannot have a full career and a full life at home with your children if you are also doing all of the house work and child care. >> sheryl sandberg in that "60 minutes" interview talking about having it all. back with me, four women who know all about having it all. welcome back to you all. we just got our first tweet to "piers morgan live" is our show now it's called. it says felt like a sit-down over a pint but later, "piers morgan live" is bottoms up
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whether you're in the mood or not. i couldn't think of a better way of describing it. inappropriate remark i was about to make but i'm not going to do it because it's live. sheryl's eight success tips women need to read. very interesting. one, don't let fear hold you back. don't underestimate yourself. realize choosing a life partner is a career decision. don't sacrifice being successful for being liked. you don't have to be 100% to take on a promotion. don't scale back ambition because you want to be a mom. don't drive yourself crazy with perfection guilt. if you rise to the top, you will help other women. let me turn to you, kathy. one of the things she said is that a husband who does more work around the house will get more sex. that can't be true. >> you know, i appreciate what sheryl had to say, the importance of finding the right man, and i'm so grateful that i did. however, when it comes to child care responsibilities, household chores, those decisions need to
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be left to the parents, not to a business executive who has written a book. i do believe that sadly, piers, in our country, in our culture, i believe that the career of mom doesn't receive the proper respect and i think it's because a paycheck is not attached. but there is nothing more important, more difficult than raising children. >> suzy welch, marissa lit this firestorm by saying look, yahoo! i'm fed up with my staff working from home, you're all coming in now. what about the rest of us who have children, are trying to juggle the two things. what do you think? are we heading to an era when more women will want to work at work or will she be in the minority when most women want flex time and work from home? >> she is in a very unique situation. she's in a turn-around situation where she has to get everybody
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in the room to fix the culture and the performance of her company, and to do that, when some people are not in the office, is just very difficult. the irony of the situation is that if she had been a man, if say a male executive had come out and said everybody into the office, he probably would have been fired by his board. in fact, the only person who could get away with saying what she bravely said which is i cannot turn around this company with half my staff not being here, was a working mom. because they couldn't accuse her of being insensitive to working moms because she's a working mom. i think what she did was the right thing. but she does face into this very difficult issue around trying to juggle those 15 years when you're very, very productive at work are those same 15 years that you're giving birth to your babies and the babies are looking at you saying why aren't you at the halloween celebration at school. those 15 years come at the same time for women. that is the third rail in american women talking about work/life balance.
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it's not a lot of men making noise about sheryl's book. it's women. >> that's true. >> again, because of this sense of people being defensive. look, mothering in america is a competitive sport. there is a lot of disagreement about mothers who have made the choice to go to work with their kids and the mothers who decided to stay home about defensiveness about my decision being right, and the battlefield, who is raising the better kids. >> debbie, apparently you don't have creches here. you have nurseries here. what is a crèche? does it exist? let's move on. it's a crib. that's completely inappropriate. debbie, you actually told me you had a nursery built at your office when you were running. tell me about that. >> when my youngest daughter shelby was born, i was in the state senate and had just announced i was running for congress, and knew that i needed to continue to go up to tallahassee to vote for my
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district, and also wanted to nurse her. so i pushed while i was pregnant for the senate president at the time to allow me to build a little part of my office that would allow me to put the creche, the pack n play in my office and have a door i could shut so i could nurse her and still be there for her and run back and forth. >> when i ran a newspaper in britain, i had 11 very talented feature writers, all women, all promised to come back after having their first baby. none of them ever did. i went to my female boss and said look, can't we just get a nursery built at the office in a side room staffed by five nannies for, i don't know, $500 a day, isn't that good business? wouldn't that help? >> even when that's not possible, i remember my chief of staff was pregnant with her baby, and i encouraged her, look, we work ridiculous hours in congress, bring your daughter to work, we'll use the pack n play, you can keep her in my office, do whatever we need to do.
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it's important we stick by each other and make it work. >> i agree. women seem to be tougher on women than male bosses. lee, you have had your eggs frozen which seems to be a career move, if you like. a career decision. >> in my case it wasn't exactly a career decision. it was more, you know, this is the one thing when we talk about leveling the playing field, this is the one thing that will never go away between men and women. our editor 40 under 40 list, the rising stars in business under 40, every year it's much harder to find women whose accomplishments match that of the men. where that's not true for women in their 40s and older. that's because women have to take this step off. in my case, it was not because i had so much work left to do. it was more that i was getting older and hadn't found a partner yet so i wanted to leave that option open for me because you can. this technology exists so i thought why not take advantage of it. >> that's right. sheryl sandberg's point also that the choice of life partner is a crucial business decision. it really is. ladies, it's been fascinating.
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i've talked a lot about gun violence on this show in recent months. it's a problem that's getting worldwide attention and prompted a report on the bbc panorama show called "america's gun addiction." it shows how shockingly easy it is to buy an assault weapon. hillary went undercover to buy an assault weapon. i watched the report you did tonight.
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it wasn't really shock, actually, because i know that 40% of gun trades done in america are done without any background check. but to see the ease with which you went to a gun show and bought a bushmaster ar-15 assault rifle, the exact same weapon that adam lanza used at sandy hook, was pretty disturbing. let's take a look at a clip from your investigation. >> reporter: this private seller had an ar-15 for sale, the type of weapon adam lanza used. >> this is a bushmaster? >> yeah. >> he just wanted cash. no test, no questions asked. so, this is the gun i bought. it's an ar-15 semiautomatic weapon. i didn't to fill out any paperwork at all to buy it. i don't have to license it now that i bought it. that's ow easy it is to buy and own a gun in texas. >> were you surprised, hillary, with the ease in which you bought that rifle?
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>> well, like you, i knew what the law was. i know about the gun show loophole. i know that you can go in and do this. but when you're actually in a gun show, you know, and you find that you want to buy an ar-15 and all you have to do is literally hand over the cash, the guy didn't even ask for my driver's license. i showed it to him, but he wasn't interested. i asked for a receipt, he wasn't interested. yeah, it's pretty amazing just how easy it is. because if i can buy a gun, you know, then, anybody can. like i said. >> are you an american citizen or resident? >> i am an american citizen and resident. >> but it wouldn't have made any difference, you could have been a british citizen and still done the same thing? >> well, legally, you're supposed to be an american citizen. legally, you're not supposed to be mentally ill. legally, you're not supposed to be a criminal, but the fact is that in a gun show, if you're buying from a private dealer, which is very different if you're buying from a licensed
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dealer, if you're buying from a private dealer, nobody asks any questions. so you can really do whatever you want. and there's no follow-up in texas, because you don't to license the gun or register it after you buy it. you can just, you know, go put it in your car and drive home with it. and do what you want with it. now, if you buy from a licensed dealer at a gun show or anywhere else, it's a completely different story. that's when you have to pass this instant background check. but we did a lot of work looking into the detail of what this background check entails for the documentary that i made, and found out that we're focusing very much on the issue of mentally ill people in america and whether or not they can buy guns. so, yes, they can easily buy them through private dealers, because there are no checks at all, but can they pass the instant background check? that's where it gets really interesting, because the one question on the instant background check form about mental illness basically says this. it says, if you've been adjudicated by a court of law or
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a commission or a board, as mentally defective, they call it, or if you've been involuntarily committed to a psychiatric institution of some kind, you cannot legally pass that background check and buy a gun. but that leaves a glaring hole, because if you've been mentally ill for decades or spent decades in a, you know, voluntarily putting yourself in a psychiatric unit, there's nothing to stop you from passing that background check. so either which way, it's easy to get a gun if you're mentally ill or not. >> the bottom line is, you could have been hannibal lecter for all you knew. they didn't care. and that's the reason this gun show loophole is so potentially dangerous. if you are criminally minded or mentally insane and intent on causing some devastating atrocity, of course that's how you're going to try and secure your weapons. because it's the easiest way of doing it. let me ask you, did you keep the ar-15? what did you do with it? >> no, of course not. we needed to off-load it as quickly as we could. we're, you know, filmmakers, documentary makers, journalists.
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we wanted to make a point and we sold it back to a licensed dealer and got receipts and the correct paperwork and made sure we sold it to reputable people. but it's interesting, the figure of how many -- what percentage of american guns are sold this way. you mentioned that it was around 40%. now, that's a very disputed figure and nobody really knows how many of america's guns are sold through this loophole with no paperwork, because there is no paperwork, so they can't know. the 40% figure comes from the 1990s. you know, i'm going with a figure of somewhere between 14 and 40%, as a safe figure. but, really, to be honest, nobody knows. it's just a lot of guns. >> well, it was a fascinating report. we've talked about this loop ho ad nauseam in the last three months, but to see you actually go to a texas gun show and secure this weapon, the one that, as i say, slaughtered those children at sandy hook, was pretty devastating television. hillary, thank you for joining me. >> thank you. and we'll be right back.
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