suicide hall read those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it. the sin's long gone. part of the dust of history. but its lesson should not be forgotten. i'm soledad o'brien reporting from what was once jonestown in guyana, south america. right now on cnn, travel trauma. >> very embarrassing and very degrading. >> new rules prompting this flight attendant to reveal having to remove and show tsa agents her prosthetic breast. i'll talk to her. murder in beverly hills. a high-profile handler to the stars shot five times just feet from where infamous mobster

bugsy segal was gunned down, yards from where michael jackson died. >> this is where they stopped and shots were fired. >> cnn investigates, and how real is reality, tv, that is. >> you know there are some people who say you guys make black people look bad. >> a real housewife of atlanta dishes all about her show, bristol palin, brandy and more. this is everything you need to know and then some for your week ahead. good evening, everyone. i'm don lemon. we start with this. scary moments tonight aboard a delta airlines jet headed from new york to moscow. delta flight 30 with 192 passengers had to make an emergency landing at jfk international airport when its left engine shut down. it happened about a mile from the airport at an altitude of about 1,500 feet. the boeing 767 dumped fuel over the atlantic before landing. passengers were booked on another jet to resume their

flight to russia, and also today a delta flight departing atlanta had to return as well. it was a boeing 767, and it's also reported an engine failure. the faa says the plane scraped its tail during landing, but no one was injured there. you know, all of this comes as we're moving into the busy thanksgiving travel week and frustration with the new rules from the transportation security administration is hitting a boiling point right now. the full body scans and aggressive patdowns have some saying enough. despite the growing backlash, don't expect the tsa to bend either. here's what agency head john pistole said on cnn's "state of the union." >> we're not changing policies, because of the risks that have been identified because of the current threat and we have a travel advisory to europe now. we know through intelligence that there are determined people, terrorists, who are trying to kill not only americans but innocent people around the world. >> pistole made that comment as we're hearing more and more accounts of alleged mistreatment

at the hands of the tsa. we've been telling you all weekend about kathy bossy, a friendened and cancer survivor. she says she was forced to remove her prosthetic breast and show it to a tsa agent and this happened in august before the new rules were even in place. here's what kathy told me about her ordeal. >> when i got into the body scanner the tsa agent told me to place my i.d. behind my back so they couldn't see it in the front, and when they were done screening, she told me that i didn't listen to her and that i needed to now go through a full body screening which is where i was asked to remove my prosthetic breast. >> well, the tsa did release a statement about bossi's claims. it says we will review the matter and take appropriate action, if necessary. you can hear more from cathy bossi on cnn newsroom at 3:00 p.m. eastern tomorrow.

oh, yeah, you can expect plenty of company if you're traveling this holiday week. the nation's highways and airports should be packed. the weather could also be a factor. some parts of the country got socked this weekend by a blast of winter weather. our meteorologist jacqui jeras is here with your holiday travel forecast. >> reporter: hey, don, it's been pretty brutal out there especially across parts of the west where we've seen incredible amounts of snowfall into the higher elevations and valley rainfall. salt lake city and across parts of utah today. man, you've got a lot of snow. we had about a foot on the benches. two feet into the higher elevations and we're looking at a good three to six inches easy on the valley floor. things are starting to wind down tonight, but we are expecting more snow to kick up as we head through tuesday and into wednesday. this system is just the first in a series that's going to make its way across the west so expect bad travel weather all across the west, at least through wednesday morning, before things start to improve. now tomorrow, what does it look like? well, we'll be watching the midwest as well.

we had hundreds of accidents in minnesota today. we're expecting to see more snow today and freezing rain early tomorrow morning, especially in southern minnesota. places like chicago as well as milwaukee could have problems. where are we expecting the delays? could be 30 to 60 minutes in chicago. detroit and st. louis expecting delays. seattle and portland as well as salt lake city because of that snow and san francisco today wasn't too bad, but tomorrow we could see it over an hour because of low clouds. wednesday, of course, is the busiest travel day of the year oftentimes, and we're expecting to see a very powerful system in the nation's mid-sections. one of the big concerns will be wind. in addition to snow on the north side, rain to the south and maybe even some thunderstorms so definitely want to be very cautious on some of those roadways and call your carriers ahead of time, don. even, you know, volume itself can be a problem. >> advice from our meteorologist jacqui jeras, and always good advice. appreciate it. thank you very much. if you're traveling this week, you know, cnn is your holiday travel headquarters, and we have a lot of great ways for to you stay on top of what's happening.

you can logon to cnn.com/holidaytravel. can you also find us on twitter at cnn travel and check out i-report.cnn.com for pictures and for videos. we've got you covered there. hollywood murder mystery, publicist to the stars ronny chasen is laid to rest today and we're digging deep near why and how she was gunned down in beverly hills, retracing the drive she took that faithful news, plus i talked to a very resilient woman about how she's bounced back after losing everything, including her daughter and her home. and if you want to check out our version of "dancing with the star stars", we did it last night live in the cnn newsroom. can you see the full interview and the full thing online. go to our blog at cnn.com/don.

movie stars, film producers, musicians and others turned out today for the funeral of murdered hollywood publicist ronny chasen. michael douglas was among those who came to pay their respects. the event was closed to the news media. chasen's death really has stunned hollywood, and to illustrate how improbable this killing was, cnn producer alan duke retraced the route taken by ronni chasen. >> this is hollywood and vine. the w hotel on the roof. there's a club, and that's where they had the after party for the premier of "burlesque." star-studded event, cher, christina aguilera and ronni chasen. this is the valet area of the w where ronni chasen would have parked and then picked up her car after the party.

just turning around. >> yeah. >> thanks. >> reporter: if someone were stalking chasen as she left this after party at the w hotel, it possibly would have been obvious. there's security cameras around here and plenty of people, and they would have had to have been lying in wait to see as she left, one would think. my guess is she would have gone on sunset boulevard immediately over here instead of hollywood boulevard, because that would already still have been closed for the premiere a few hours earlier. of course, it was about midnight, probably just after midnight when she left the w hotel. plenty of cars would have been around hollywood after midnight in this area. it's a very busy area, and actually it's not unusual for there to be violence here in this area. in fact, halloween night five

people were shot within about a block and a half of where we are right now. one of the first landmarks she would have gone by is the cnn bureau building here on sunset at cowenga. we're still about five and a half miles away from where the shooting happened. this is the intersection where ronni chasen apparently stopped and was turning. this is the most likely place police think that the shots were fired into her car. apparently from a higher suv vehicle that was parked next to her, and after the shots were fired, apparently she continued to drive down this direction, but some distance down the road before her car actually came to a rest. she was still alive though and possibly driving, trying to get away. this is the spot that ronni chasen's car hit a utility pole. one that's now been removed. it did hold a streetlight, and it was here that paramedics found her still alive, breathing

heavy, but near death. >> that was cnn's alan duke. police have no motive and no suspects in that killing. by most perceptions she had everything, best selling books, speaking engagements and even her own tv show and her doctor's medical bills and a subprime mortgage pushed her to the brink. she bounced back and has a new book out called "peace from broken pieces, how to get through what you're going through." in tonight's "what matters" she told me how it got so dire and why she didn't give up. >> you know, i grew up in poverty. i didn't know anything about a mortgage. all i knew is i had enough money to buy a house and so i bought a house, and i did not pay attention to the details >> you thought it would keep happening, the money would keep rolling in. >> absolutely. i thought it would keep rolling in. i would buy the house outright from the income from my show, but my show went down and then my daughter got sick. it's not that i didn't have health insurance at the time.

it's that the good stuff, the alternative care and the oxygen therapy and the acupuncture and the organic food, that's not covered by health insurance. plus, she had a mortgage. she had a car. she had a child. i had a mortgage. i had a car. you know, i had my own bills, so handling us both for 15 months before her ultimate transition wiped me out >> you know, i've got to ask you this. so were you practicing then what you preach, because i remember you talking about -- >> absolutely. >> you talked about financial issues as well. >> listen, let me tell you something, done. do you see me? do i look fabulous. >> you look fabulous. >> nice and bright and shiny, right, because when you watch them take your child, put that child in a box and close the cover on her face and lower her down into the earth, you gotta have something else to stand on besides just looking good. yes, i do practice what i preach, and i'm not immune. the reason that i haven't lost my mind or blown my brains out

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>> in washington it's a huge holiday travel week ahead. we'll see if the public cooperates with the tsa's body scans and new invasive pat-downs or whether protesters make thanksgiving travel an even bigger headache than usual. >> i'm paul steinhauser at the cnn political desk in washington. sarah palin is in the spotlight this week. the former alaska new governor's book titled "america by heart" hits the book shelves and the former alaska governor who was john mccain's running mate in 2008, she kicks off a book tour in phoenix on tuesday, and that book tour takes palin to iowa and south carolina, two very important states in the road for the white house. >> i'm poppy harlow in new york. look i ahead, hewlett-packard reports earnings and on thursday we'll get the revised gdp figures as well as existing home figures and state by state unemployment, all very important reports. also, more key economic reports on wednesday. we'll get the latest new home figures as well as the latest

reading on consumer sentiment heading right into the holiday shopping season, and the market, is of course, closed thursday for thanksgiving but opens again on friday morning for a shortened trading day on black friday. we'll track all the news of the week for you on cnn money. >> i'm "showbiz tonight" brooke anderson. here's what we're watching this week. mel gibson and his ex-girlfriend's contentious custody battle heats up this week, and christina aguilera and reiana open the "american music awards." "showbiz tonight" is live at 5:00 p.m. herein on hln and still tv's most provocative entertainment tv show at 11:00 p.m. >> thanks, guys. now what's coming up internationally. ireland, and some people had predicted this. they knew it was coming, but they are in trouble. >> they are in trouble and their finance minister for weeks was saying we don't need a bailout. we don't need a bailout and today he came out and encouraged the government to actually sign off on one, and that will be handed down on monday, and this

could mean -- i mean, part of this is to build confidence in investors internationally and what this means in relation for the euro and the dollar will play out in the weeks to come. >> the country will need a bailout of tens of billions of euros, that is not good, good nod. there is also an uproar happening in hating and it has to do with the cholera epidemic going on over there. >> seems like they are getting hit over and over again. they are claiming that a u.n. nepalese peacekeeper, you know, soldiers who have been stationed there brought cholera to the country and us a expect this is creating a lot of chaos and uproar and this is just a week out from their slated elections and now there's talk about moving the elections back and postponing them if they can't get a grip on it. >> i believe you have video of some of that happening over in haiti. they said they thought it was nepalese soldier that did this. this is the uproar that's happening there and the violence

and the burning of cars and things there. just unbelievable. the u.n. had said it doesn't matter who is to blame. what we need to do now, the workers there, is to get it under control. we'll be watching this story. thank you. we appreciate it. >> thank you so much. >> have a good week sdwlrks you too. reality shows are all the rage from "american idol" to bristol palin's much discussed routines on "dancing with the stars." one of the original cast members of "the real housewives of atlanta" tell us the ratings are big, the drama real and a lot going on behind the scenes. >> that show is the number one show in our demographics on cable. i mean, really, and so not just to say about "the real housewives of atlanta" and their producers, any producer doing reality tv, the pressure to stay on top is there, you know. sometimes it's not even the producers. it's just the cast mates that want to give that extra because they want to stand out. >> cynthia was supposed to join us because she couldn't and she may join us next week. >> i doubt it. >> you don't think she's going

to join. tell me. >> i'm no longer on the show. i'm doing movies. >> say what you want. >> i'm doing a movie. >> you don't -- we can talk about what you're doing now but why don't you think she's going to come? >> i just don't think so. i think you're afraid to talk and afraid to talk about, you know, behind the scenes and, you know, it's politics. >> like what behind the scenes, lisa? >> listen to him, my god. i mean, you know, you're censored and get slapped on the wrist a little bit. what am i exposeing? probably people expect reality shows, they are reality, to, you know, first and second season, yeah, the drama was real and people would always ask me. is the drama really real, are the fights real and, unfortunately, yes, and it's sad but then when the ratings become so huge, you know, the pressure to stay on top, you know, but then you have the cast mates that are willing to give that without the producers edging them on. they do it on their own. >> and there's some people who

say you guys make black people look bad. >> i've heard that. >> a bad representation of black women. >> i've heard that. >> my thing is this, five strong women, six or seven. how could we possibly represent all of atlanta? >> okay. since your not censored, what's going on this season. who really -- who really hates each other, and what about nini and the nose job and did she get lippo? >> i liked her nose before she had the nose job, i did, and if she would have consulted with me i would have told her the fine the way you are. >> the weight loss natural? >> is it natural? >> she was losing weight before she had some nips and tucks, yeah, she was. >> but she had some nips and tucks. >> yeah, but there's nothing wrong with that. i commend that. hey, you got to fix it, go ahead and do it. >> from reality to tongue in cheek, we've spent a lot of time this weekend talking about the new tsa rules at airports. "saturday night live" couldn't resist having a little fun with it last night. here's part of it.