mom watch out in your head you know whenever i saw him i panicked you know what i see i mean you look at you're so afraid that your heart races and you bang your head against the wall. might ask myself is who you really afraid of will you see what do i mean i wasn't allowed to talk to anyone else you hired me to do i couldn't have fun with anyone i couldn't go outside to talk to people and that's what he kept threatening me and then he beat me he was violent we got people really we going to see me if you hold me one time he showed up at the apartment and asked me why were you outside with the neighbors how dare you i don't leave you had to talk to people you know and then he punched me in the face and little who. was more bold more what a good look what was that than to say that there's

a. history of this i only saw our gold i've. got the digital going to go in there another time he beat me while i was bathing my infant son he'd just been circumcised he smacked me in the forehead while my husband was beating me the child slipped out of my hands and fell into a bucket which he continued to beat me he pounded me with the bucket until it was completely bent out of shape. you want all. female i wasn't wearing any clothes no shoes nothing i walked out of the apartment. and went to the police station. i screamed please help me my husband followed me and kept insulting me. that right you know if you have you lost it. oh yes i begged the police to help me i asked them to come back home with me so i could pack up my things but they said. but there was nothing we continue to please

don't take action how can we get men to change their behavior so let's see who fund the ads. you see if you give women all the freedom they want they won't be able to handle it they have no morals and they cause trouble. some people say that independent women are prostitutes. procedure you. don't ever know. if you beat your wife so hard that she needs. you've got to have a good reason. if you find your wife in your home with another man it hurts me and you've got to put a stop to it not. going to be not only what you don't want to do so you beat the living daylights out of her and meet her lying on the floor that's what you should do if you catch your wife sleeping with another man. will go but. you can't throw

a man out of his house while the women have houses for i don't know so men have the right to criticize people for a dollar a gallon but listen. to the old guy on the other you men don't want other men to see their wife naked. even if she's outside your and we don't want strangers to see that oh yeah if a man finds his wife in the bushes he might suspect that she's having sex with another guy why when he's a man. and he can sleep with someone else's wife he will. he does that because he thinks he must dominate or. that men also cheat on their spouses but i would think that. the democratic republic of congo is a major supplier of call 10 or which contains the element tantalum this element is widely used in the manufacture of personal electronic devices. congo's called turn mining industry is controlled by rebels who use profits from sales of the order to

finance their military operations. i. was. told that i was in the make up shit that. it is why i didn't it is only going to when those men were filthy animals. they raped us. if we didn't want to have sex with them they took us by force. they tore a fact loathsome i may just do things that we didn't want to do. they spat on us you can't imagine how awful these people were. and when i 1st saw them my heart sank and kept beating faster and faster. it was like i'd seen

a lion coming out of the jungle. or was it. but all of which is of a cop they forced the women to lie on the ground in rows. one woman right next to the other. and they raped us right there in public. they moved from one woman to another. some women covered their face out of shame and the men beat them and yelled at them don't cover your eyes to everyone who did was beaten path i don't see that we were forced to watch all that anything. but only on milo i would look they'd bring in a boy and order him to have sex with his mother. they said that if he refused they'd kill him but we've seen a lot of suffering so much. before. the rebels ordered us to pick up some sticks. they said that one of the men was going

to be killed that day and we were going to do it. they weren't going to shoot that man or stabbed him to death. they said that we were going to beat him to death with our sticks. the rebels surrounded the victim and ordered him not to cry. they said that if we cried thank shooters we started beating him and kept beating him until he was dead to me.

yes i am sure they are not possible to kill one day my husband attacked me with a scent anything. i don't this child was 3 years old at the time. i finished cooking and washing the dishes i went outside to dump some dirty water yeah when i came back to where the child said daddy's lying on the bed under the musky to net the way i'm talking i didn't believe him when i looked in there he wants you i was terrified because he had this wild look on his face his eyes were glowing he looked like a monster. attend my back on him to tend to the child that's when my husband attacked me to which i fell down he tried to force my mouth open he pressed his fingers into my cheeks while i clamped my teeth together. and i cried out like a sheet he took a can of liquid and pulled the contents into my mouth. i felt a burning sensation and i wanted to scream. but i kept quiet

because if i tried to speak i probably swallow the acid when he actually thought i had swallowed it and i was going to burn my insides. then he put on some gloves and port the rest of the acid over my body. you dropped it into my eyes and the rest of my face. covered my whole body with it i was lying motionless on the floor then my husband left the apartment and locked the door from the outside what would be to have your call would you do. you take a pee to get my mouth felt like it was on fire i don't know the pain was unbearable

do you know what. it is to congeal but yes counted to fall out because it was covered with us and our jacked my clothes were shredded sore so i have to walk around as nearly 90 and some medical a few. body felt like it was burning then it was more it will. come in all the police arrested my husband but later let him go. he's been harrison me and the children and we have nowhere else to go. or he

knows where we live if a record. he's always driving around the neighborhood looking for me and then i'm nervous all the time because i'm afraid to act and i'm always afraid even when i leave the house during the day or my mother doesn't want me to go out alone so when i do go out to events i always take 2 other people with me. but so easily evoke even maci want to kill me and my children and i can't even go out to the toilet alone at night because of him very very i have to wake up my sister or brother to go along with me. but my husband is always hanging around the neighborhood that the. maze of i'm not safe here tonight for my children he soon he follows the kids all the time and threatens them that's just terrible bad to bring on that was still afraid and because of him we're not safe. or did will

not prosecute the. i the only martial murdo he kept having sex with me monoliths my life as a living hell of the one i have there going on and it was like my family who had a ranch the marriage had thrown me into a lake of fire. sometimes i thought it would be better to take poison or hang myself. but i didn't. my mother says that if i had been a good wife my marriage wouldn't have gone so wrong and now it was my fate to live alone so much of the time so she said that if i had really wanted to be married i

would not have left my husband. when i saw that my daughter had been badly abused i decided to take her to my home but after about 2 weeks some people came unfortunate back to her husband. then i talked to some village elders and told them what had happened. i listened to their advice and decided i was not going to give her back. it's there is no justice in our society that we have to live with that if i complain people say that my daughter is a pound woman and i'm just making things worse my limited about how difficult the. plan that is how the women have to deal with the huge amount of stress caused by

their husbands and in-laws on the other his sheikha if they have no education. they have to rely completely on those people he. says really worship they want to get in the middle when the girls go to school the boys harass them along the way. they look at it if that happens a lot these days and that's why a lot of girls don't go to school. for the things that they're afraid that they'll lose their own or because they're being harassed by boys. in bengali culture it's impossible for boys to lose their own up. to the day because only happens to women on it. and when it does they become outcasts in society not that it was that it was the family but there's some of that out daddy. that was that out. then was. i mean

that out. there oh i. am e.f. 0. 0 7 0. 0. and you know. we did the memphis it came on a summer day i can talk about what happened to me. i wasn't able to do that before . i couldn't even talk to myself about it so but now i can talk to anyone anywhere at the market for example but. that's all i want to get out and i have a lot more courage house over on this house and i'm going to i've been able to climb out of that swamp. i've come a long way thanks to the people at the archie project. they helped me make some

changes in my life and i think i've done really well so i want to see in the money's how you're going to talk a lot of it was the mascot of the talking head of the arctic circle that. he is going to pick somebody. up that. i. was going to.

i don't care if you think. gratian wanda. when we got here i learned that my son. had died. and while we learned we went through some really hard times. and then a little later. my daughter was kidnapped one whose course i didn't know what to do i had to live in the countryside life was terribly hard that's all i can say yet my husband left me and moved to. you stayed there for a long time because he didn't want to take me back. before that he and i had a good life we got along but when these problems turned up his personality changed he wanted to shut me out of his life and he claimed that i supported the hutu

rebels. because. one of the. amount of. the middle man don't call me if i don't know where to go i live outdoors in the countryside one and i have no husband and no children with my they killed my child in bending. and so now i sit here alone i have no place to live i'm worried and miserable and. i have to deal with the.