this is g w. news live from berlin, and the german chancellor angela merkel suffers a step back in her push for a tougher covert. 19 walked out. she fails to convince regional leaders to immediately tighten restrictions, but stricter rules that could still be announced, you know, week also coming up on the show. another breakthrough in the race for a vaccine. u.s. drug maker moderna announces its vaccine is nearly 95 percent effective. this just a week after similar results from pfizer and its german partner find tech

deliveries of both vaccines could begin before year's end. and the e.u. prepares for a new a crisis as hungary and poland block, its long term budget and coronavirus rescue package. the 2 countries oppose measures a tie e.u. funding to respect for the rule of law. i'm claire richardson and welcome to the show. german chancellor angela merkel has failed in her initial bid to push through tougher coronavirus restrictions. after meeting resistance from the leaders of germany's 16 states during a video summit, leaders insisted on delaying fresh curbs in order to allow more time to see if current measures were having an impact. germany is currently 2 weeks into a limited lockdown aimed at slowing a surge of covert 19. this cool in the homburg has learned to cope with

a pandemic masks, social distancing, and even a live stream for pupils to tune in from home. but with over 300000 school children currently in quarantine, the coronavirus needs to be contained fast for schools across the country to remain open. it's just one of the reasons medical was keen to add new measures to the lockdown already in place. but in marathon talks on monday, state leaders refused to sign off on a new list of restrictions. there were some differences of opinion. i would have liked us to implement rules on reducing contacts that are legally enforceable. that's the new talks are scheduled for november 25th, when merkel hopes to push through a harsher lock down. for i think we will have to prepare the new conference

very intensively in which we will announce much more far reaching and long lasting decisions. always starting with the goal that we have to regain access for contact tracing. that means an infection rate of at least 50 per 100000. in 7 days the chancellor has been unable to reach a consensus for now, but there is growing recognition that social distancing measures will remain in place over christmas and into the new year. meanwhile there's been another promising breakthrough in the race for a vaccine against cove at 19, the us pharmaceutical firm, a modern us says it's experimental vaccine is 94.5 percent effective. similar to results of another vaccine being developed by pfizer and i untag and would, and i expect to have enough safety data for us, regulators to approve and rollout the vaccine this year. it's nearly

a year since china raised the alarm about the novel coronavirus with the 1st cluster centered around one of what markets over $50000000.00 cases and more than $1000000.00 deaths later the world is seeing its 2nd biol of hope in the form of this modernist cope. at 19 vaccine this woman is one of $30000.00 volunteers taking part in the vaccine trials. but her new says it has almost 95 percent effectiveness against illness. the treatment involves 2 injections and does not have to be kept in ultra cold conditions, making it easier to store and ship. but there's a lot of work ahead. knowing the vaccine is going to be a factor. it is great news, but we still need to complete regulatory process, which involves completing the story, generating more safety. and then of course, we need to give the manufacturer. other vaccines will be in production to another

candidate, a vaccine created by pfizer. and by antec also showed promising results. both axioms are made by using what's called m r n a. a genetic code that tells cells to produce a spike protein. the cells will then fight the virus if it enters the body. but there's a huge operational task ahead. billions of doses have to be produced, distributed and stored. there is also the challenge of getting people vaccinated while americans are ready for a return to normal. not everyone trusts the drugs are safe. i'd like to think i would have never had a flu shot in my life, so i don't know if that would be so good that i would do, but i certainly would want to protect others. so i probably would no, i think of a way to a little bit more, to get back to make sure that there are no side effects until a vaccine is ready, wearing masks, social distancing,

and hand washing are still the world's main defense. now here's a closer look at some of the other developments in the pandemic. pfizer says it's starting a pilot program in 4 u.s. states to help plan delivery of the vaccine it developed where the bio on tech experts have voiced concerns that the vaccine could be difficult to distribute to just specialized storage requirements. meanwhile, sweden is limiting public gatherings to 8 people following a surge in new cases. sweden has taken a different approach to most countries and avoided lockdowns, relying instead on voluntary measures. and from thursday, new zealanders will have to wear masks on public transport in auckland and on planes nationwide. this follows several small outbreaks in auckland and now to a look at some of the other stories making headlines around the world. u.s. president elect joe biden, has called on donald trump to begin cooperating on a transition to allow the incoming administration to deal with the pandemic. biden

said more people could die if the handover is delayed. trump has been withholding funding and government briefings from the biden team. hurricane iau to has made landfall in northeastern nicaragua. the storm came ashore as a dangerous category. 4 packing winds of over 250 kilometers per hour. the region is still reeling from hurricane atta, which killed dozens of people earlier this month. approves congress has chosen centrist francisco sagacity to become the country's new interim president. the move raises hopes of resolving the nation's political crisis. unrest broke out last week following lawmakers decision a to impeach the, the country's popular president. my team. it's gotta and thousands of ethiopians are fleeing the conflict in the region, have crossed into neighboring sudan, looking for refuge. fighting in northern ethiopia between the government and regional rebel leaders is continuing is threatening to tip the country into civil

war. in leaders have been resisting international pressure for mediation. poland and hungary have blocked passage of the european union's new $1.00 trillion euro budget and includes a $750000000000.00 euros in coronavirus relief, poland and hungary object to a new mechanism that would tie funding it to a commitment to respect for the rule of law. brussels accuses poland and hungary of a roading, judicial independence and media freedoms. so what are the likely ramifications for the e.u. law? earlier we spoke to deja vu correspondent barbara vessel in brussels. normal negotiating is over and is, has never happened before at this point in time that the e.u. budget had been vetoed. there was always a lot of heading and going back and forth. but after the summit and after the european parliament has said, ok, we agree on this or that package that was it done deal, but this time now the,

those countries i know sort of really sticking to putting a stick into the spokes at the very last moment what happens now is that they can be found technical work around the european budget can just continue on the basis of last year for a while. and the corona recovery fund can buy a complicated procedure made into a different type of contract that only 25 european governments agree upon. but all this is going to take time and create a major headache. everybody is really angry about those 2 and on thursday we will see what happens because there's going to be a virtual summit of the european leaders. and they might very well sort of gang up on hungary and on poland and say, do not to do. we will really tell you what will happen next year in other issues. if you block this now. and now in recent years, there has been a noticeable increase in the number of drones flying near airports. drones can

cause travel chaos if runways have to be closed and there's of course, the danger of drones colliding with approaching aircraft. now, german researchers looking into ways to stop this, say experiments using radar technology have shown some success. drones flying over frankfurt airport. but they do signify danger. unlike the center team from germany's air traffic control are doing a primary system check to find out how drones can be located as you want and we fly missions with different drone types. some are very, very small. they range from 250 grams to 2.5 kilos, and have different flight characteristics and speeds. it's easy to see with the system recognizes. drone sighted at airports often bring operations to a standstill. for example, 2 years ago here at london's gatwick airport. drones were repeatedly cited over a period of

a few days. this resulted in 140000 passengers being grounded. the worst case scenario would be a drone colliding with a civilian aircraft and causing a plane to crash. that's why flying drones near an airport is a criminal offense. the punishment is up to 10 years in prison and around 500 drones have been sighted at german airports over the past 5 years. most of them in frankfurt. there are many drone sightings every year, but last year in 2019. there were 7 sightings categorized as concrete dangers. that's when the federal police come into play. this year we had 6 incidents where the german air traffic control actually had to suspend takeoff and landing permission. onley keyes's team has now spent 3 months experimenting at airports in munich and frank, crude, infrared, and radar technology were used. and the experiments were successful. drones and

other flying objects can be identified and located. there's a radio signal between the remote control unit and the drone and detection technology can source this. so we can determine not only the position of the drone, but that of the controller too. by taking advantage of this technology, most drone pilots can be quickly located and arrested. these results have been forwarded to the federal ministry of transport on like he's has done her job. well astronauts flying with the aerospace firm space x. have safely docked at the international space station. after a fully automated 27 hour journey, the dragon capsule carry 3 crew members from nasa and one from japan's space agency . they are joining others who arrived last month on a russian. so you spacecraft,, space x. flight marks the 1st time the company delivered a crew for a full 6 months day. it also marks the 1st leg of a public private partnership to bring a manned space flight capabilities back to the united states. speaking of reaching

for the stars, hollywood actors are ryan reynolds and robert make money. are the new owners of a football club playing in england's 5th chair league? the club erects some is actually in wales and supporters voted overwhelmingly to approve the chew and a half $1000000.00 bet. the inexperienced new club owners say they're ready to take the club to new heights. a 14th place team in the 5th tier of english football. why would anyone outside of rural north wales want to buy this club? not sure where to get specials on this holiday. tired of them opening the same scarf sweater, the new owners advertising their clubs, rural, the quitman sponsor. if you're looking to be mean, well that and you own lifestyle and visit evil a little bit while bob and i could see, you know, if we in trailer may fracture well because we just became orders of resistance is

usually football. this is how we're used to seeing these hollywood hunks, ryan reynolds on the red carpet or on the big screen. rob mcelhenney, a director and t.v. star in his own. right. not everyone in wrexham knew them before, but everyone knows them. now. in all honesty, i think they come across as too genuine, as they talk well about the focal club. they've researched the club, but obviously i think they've got the best intentions of rick's a vocal coach as hot. now this could play out like a hollywood script. but it may well become a running documentary thing on your favorite streaming service. the story, it's hoped of, the little club in wales and its trailer manufacturer, sponsor, your humble. we're already getting you it's really at

the club that rose mightily from the depths of the 5th league of english football. that's a news update at this hour. our documentary series is up next with a look at love, internetting and pirates and berlin. thanks so much for watching. in mexico, many pushed in the world. climate change a different story. this is one place. it went from just one week. how much worse can it really get you we still have time to ask. i'm going

on from him starting off is always tough. so i've got to think of something who is single thing. it's estimated there are around $20500000.00 singles in the german language, areas of europe, into the internet and romance, but together wonderfully. it's positive. the positive thing is that you get out of your own bubble and meet people you wouldn't meet otherwise. some 60 years of clicking with someone having greased from ear to ear. wait for happiness to fall into your lap. you can wait forever for going to any place any time, quick and simple. for initial contact, a digital link is enough and the choice seems infinite. to me, more than 2500 platforms are available for searching for the perfect match. under

the link button is a big help in reading at the nonstarters. people looking for a mates are spoilt for choice these days. there's a platform for every need. quick sex secret affairs, or a lifelong bond can be sought are not. many people are active on several platforms, like 37 year old sarah. she lives in buner and has been single now for 6 years. many absolutely bill the 1st selection to be made from a photograph. while g.p.s. indicates who lives in the vicinity. if you like what you see, you swipe to the right. if it's a no go, you swipe left. if both parties are interested, it's a much on the chat. gates open. mind one just to say she is i me and affix that. i'm actually looking for a steady relationship, starting with the desire for someone who really wants to open up and spend time

with me. who wants us to open up to each other and do things together. and then see where it goes from. there are infinite us. more and more people are using online dating services. the figure for germany is 9.6 percent, and austria brings up the rear with 6.3 percent. in addition to smartphone apps were choices made on the basis of a photo. there are also much brokers. clients fill out a questionnaire. a computer program then works out who might be a suitable partner. cool calculations. lay the foundation, follow the script a bit, you maybe don't know and then i find profiles where i think wow, i just have to get to know him. i've got this feeling, i'm sure i've simply from the photos and 5 written statements does.

but that's very, very rarely happen. it's still in reality, it's often confirms when we 1st meet up with. i've got a feeling, i think, yes, pretty well. i know what i like about a man and i sense quickly if it's there, as it is, it's actually going to kenya. unfortunately, that doesn't mean things will necessarily end positively. daters you're not dating enough. believe me, everyone is just overjoyed when i send them on the day. because dating is worse than brushing your teeth. dating is like learning vocabulary. everybody wants to speak a foreign language, but nobody wants to sit down and do their homework. we ask sarah to take advice from one of the countless stays in coaches who love the market known as the date.

dr. emmanuel albert gives flirting in dating tips on t.v. and social media channels 2 to 5 euros a minute. in other words, between 120 and 300 euros an hour and speaking to them is just as important as online dating. even more important when you're dating with a tinder swipe back and forth like maybe you like this woman. maybe she'll respond, maybe not. so i always say speak to your common people, come to me, are a real mix of a few more men than women. but the breakdown is around 60 percent men to 40 percent women on, but things are very similar when it comes to the ability to build a relationship. that's a big issue today that people no longer commend so easily. you're going to, it's a lot harder to find a relationship. in this respect, the tips i gave are very similar. but when it comes to speaking to something, getting to know someone, your men need

a lot more courage to take that more than you have to give them something to take. a more direct approach in the self-styled date doctor provides digital and analog advice in the search for a partner. every man who says can be a ladies man, don't be shy, just practice, practice and practice. some more of the above, while half of the roles are clear, the man does the predator by the prick. we can fudge it a bit. take the famous 33 kilos, 3 said demeter's 3 years. that's still just fine. we need classic answers to classically stupid questions like, so what are you doing here about how long have you lived here? because we don't want to say, i've been here 10 years and no 2000 guys. and wow, i saw you and thought we might hit it off. then it means

a believer of us to men. i think about how men stretch the truth. it's mostly about how tall they are. i'm a fairly small person. so in my case, they didn't need to scan the bot tired as after i'd sometimes they lie about their age too. or they try to pose as someone who's looking for a serious relationship. but really, but then they don't follow through and it ends faster than i found out of it. since women cheat to me included how i miss the sleep of it's because of my age. violet found in my experience of the older a woman is the less attractive she is just because of the number that showing it might afford us. my pictures are all real into up to date only for i know that i

look younger than my age. so i'm not embarrassed to say i'm younger than i really am. i make myself about 4 years younger max, obviously, and i do tell them that when we 1st meet, just imagine you speak to 5 men every week. could it be that one was nice and you had 2 or 3 good chats with someone you never see again, but with whom you had a good time. someone that has things in common with you, buddy, for whom you might not have feelings or love or tall. people underestimate what can happen when you speak to someone every week. you're setting a foundation and then building on it. as of us online dating, underlying where online dating is concerned, he does have certain pointers to give which i'd give them to any of my girlfriends, anyone? personally, i find them all rather obvious. but if someone is just starting off with online

dating and feels they need advice, certainly they can talk to him. but i do think that for other people it makes sense . today choosing the right partner is a crucial cost benefit calculation. just like choosing the right job or apartment dating calls for self optimization and promotion. it takes time and effort. when each date, when i say i'm dating someone, then it really means work. i want to open up to that person and do lots of things with them. if you desire to pursue them and promise and feel even with many use the word dating to describe always meeting someone new. and in that case, i'd say the work is more superficial. how much do you need to make sure that you've got lots of time? side house is a historian at harvard university. she's researching the cultural history of dating

work describes the search for a partner from the start of the 20th century until today. we caught up with her for a rare in italy where she were invited to speak at an international conference. when i was researching the book, i would talk a lot to people when people learned i was writing a book about the history of dating, they would tell me about their own dating lives. and often i would notice this language of exhausted. you know, this language of feeling exasperated. what i mean by that in my book is that dating which is sold as a kind of consumer activity or fun, is related to what we think of as real work in at least 2 ways. 1st. it absolutely is a kind of economic transaction and always has been on dating apps. we should be desirable commodities and surprise the competition. it also requires people to work on themselves and i don't know how well these idioms translate, but in english,

all these expressions we have for courtship are market expressions. so you're on the market off the market. damaged goods is not nice, but a thing people say hard to get. so this idea that you're trying to shape yourself as a kind of commodity that you're selling on the dating market and you're simultaneously shopping around for someone else. this is something new in the historical period i'm talking about, and it's something that makes people feel a lot of pressure to work on themselves and leslie in the york market music neighborhood of being, we're meeting cycle with germany's most famous couples therapist. this work has given them firsthand experience of the challenges and problems involved in the digital search for a partner department and getting to know people. new potential partners is

a lot easier for those who have the courage to get involved on the digital dating scene. at the same time, it's also scariest big to see in the final analysis. it creates a totally new, previously unknown situation. you're only able to orient yourself in the unimaginable number of possible relationships. so this was much more restricted earlier and wasn't stimulated to the point that a person was money able to say, oh, now i finally found someone and i'm glad about it. instead they're wondering, is it ok to stop now? after all that there could be a better offer. duffy had shown of her one and because of everyone involved searching for someone, everyone's wondering if there could be something better out there in the month when that all of the small concern, which promotes a feeling of chronic insecurity. grown tired of my words extreme.

you become extremely indifferent. a lot more superficial than you really are rising . and i probably have too, i've become a more superficial person. the ball i unfolded up, it only takes one photograph in the mix to make you think. maybe he's not the right person. then you immediately swipe to the left, which of course means he's gone to vic. i commence or is a 6 and couples therapist. recently she began to answer questions about sex and dating apps. she believes digitization has changed the way we get to know one another under sexuality. she warns of an over sexualized society. today we live in a kind of paradise. a table has been set before us and we have an amazing range of choice around the clock and usually free of charge. our next partner for a lovely evening can be quickly found on our smartphone or g.p.s.

. perhaps already at the next bus stop or in the same train. these days, the 1st topic to be discussed is sex. why people don't see if they can actually speak to each other. you know, someone's sexual preference before you know their name. and sometimes you don't even know that you're in an anonymous fear. full of a vailable opportunities were being released given infinite freedom and we 1st have to learn how to handle it. why hide it there? be asked partners opener requirements for sex a long time ago. sex toys are growing in sophistication and the now increasingly intense experiences. i camillus are warns of casual use of what she calls tools for super stimuli. and what i've observed 3 major changes in my practice. 1st old sexual problems are coming in a totally new form. young men with erectile dysfunction and men and women who can't

achieve orgasm or a lack of enthusiasm for sex that was said to be exclusive to women. but in the spirit of equality, men are now catching up slowly and over taking women. lack of last isn't their problem. lack of a desire for sex with a partner is somebody that was also a long hop and it's escaped. there are qualitative changes to what used to be hard core and smell soft porn. things like voyeurism fetishism exhibitionism and b.d.'s them formerly seen as perversions have arrived in regular society and they are no longer seen as abnormal behavior. that's also going to spill out without fun to testify at all. and then there are the quantitative issues. the gap is steadily widening between virgins who cater to themselves wonderfully and virtual

worlds who know everything theoretically, but have no practical experience. and those who tender from bed to bed. here is where we slip very quickly into porno and sex addiction. this applies to the virgins, as well as the promiscuous who can no longer find the off switch, or who are unable to be intimate in a proper relationship by it's true for both. even those who tender from bed to bed and who actually try to run away as soon as the knickers drop. the steak is to sing about also troy. people i think are just as faithful or own fate. well as they've always been. but the opportunities for infidelity have increased considerably economic pressure on people to remain faithful has dropped enormously in the past. there be a letter or someone would be caught me and a hotel bill for a double room in that suit jacket, went to the cleaners. the result was a jealous person and heated argument,

and the affair would be downplayed or there would be a confession. if you like through a common but the chasm that opens after checking someone's mobile home that's reading their emails or seeing all the photos and all the facets of a relationship laid bare in the form of images and texts. well, that's a shot. especially when a partner had no clue this is sort of this, i feel has become a totally new kind of a relationship problem. you can see the people you met online used to lie and say we met at the farmers market. if they said would met online name as well. i said we got to know each other backstage at a sex shop or a hardcore magazine. and

it would have had the same effect for about 1800, if you had told anyone anywhere in the world that what marriage is, is that you choose your favorite person and live just with them and any children you have for the rest of your life. and that you should be together because it's your favorite person, your best friend. you also want to have sex with. people would have said you were crazy. that concept is less than 200 years old. before then moved into police and some of the rigid confines of a conventional marriage. nevertheless, we'll have the sentry's old, ideal romantic love as the basis for going to bliss. like the prince of a large city in the search for the right person. the big shift to greater personal freedom when time to her with the most of social upheaval. it's around the

time of the industrial revolution around the time that men start working for wages that people start working in industrial jobs outside the home. all these massive social changes that take place around the time of the french, an american revolution. we start to see these new family farms in this new ideal of romantic love, right? that people should choose their partner, the freedom of choice applied to men only. women have to work her to advance by marrying a move from bridge or circles, then begin the so for improvements culture once it ceases to be that men come to the woman's home, invited by her and supervised by her parents and becomes the case that men invite women out right, men invite women to go to a bar, dance hall, or a movie. courtship starts to take place in a men's world and the world of the market in the world of work. the stories do you think is also born of a months of tension. the 1st women to agree to go and dates, workers in immigrants who come to the city after the 1st world war,

the wealthy began to do so as well. it was a breach at the moment that i call the invention of dating, we also see the rise of many new kinds of social spaces where young people can mix and meet one another. these include dance halls. these include movie theaters, these include boardwalks, or you might go out. i talk about these as a kind of analog or real life social media because like our social media today, there are sites that bring people together and facilitate certain kinds of interactions so far that you go into it's set up for you to meet and interact with people in a specific way, no way that's not totally dissimilar to the social media, we rely on so much for dating today. online. do you think this is a booming economic sector? or do you do you who is estimated at 3400000000 euros?

quickly, wolf is one of the founders of timber. now the best known do you include former world wide, its clients, choose partners on the basis of photos. p.s. turned her back contender and the rooms are all bright yellow and part another drifting up cold bill wolff is often referred to as the do you think queen, because as they like to say me, she brittle usually used online dating we didn't really think about it as a revolution on dating, i think it was really getting people access to people in ways they never had access to each other before. so if you think about it, traditionally you rely on being at the right place at the right time, or having a friend then, or gives you to someone. and so you have very limited options. and when you meet, you don't have access to see who's in the building next door and have the

opportunity to meet them if you want to. that's just never has existed. that's not quite true. and so has nothing to do, you know, for against the kids in the 1st system. so that people who was already on the market 3 years ahead of 200 on the wrist under is still a step ahead today. it's cooperated with the duty of community to fight racism and discrimination by using humor to make users aware of marginalizing profile text. that contrasts sharply with many for sexual dating apps, where users are beautiful but such social pressures exist. i think the best thing you can do on online dating is use that as a platform to truly be yourself. so in real life, there's a lot of pressure to maybe fit in with your colleagues or your friends or to fit

a certain role and try that. be something every day thing not need something that makes it unique to the clients who want to date, especially women to the platform. the marketing pitch is centered on film, as among the 1st step of making, the much is for women only. with the world carefully maintains her image as a powerful woman. yet another social media who preaches she sooner brits are so few would have sung and she profiled of herself as a looks real housewife. while she permits the world to share their jet set lifestyle. of course, you also wonders who took knowledge, could be used to make the world a better place. so, technology just gives people a platform to behave in another form. but there's something people on there still, you know, reacting to their psychological triggers. and if you think about the way we've

raised men and women globally, men have constantly been get been given the, the pressure to go after women to chase, to get them. and when there is this pressure to go get something, you're going to be rejected. oftentimes, and if you think about the psychology of rejection, that's very powerful, rejection leads to obsession and aggression. and so when you reject somebody, and that person has the ability to hide behind a profile, and there's no government to control the consequence of bad behavior. you are left with a lot of abusive behavior. it kinda hard to make people tender promoted itself by claiming it had done away with the pain of rejection. because you don't even notice when you've been deleted on the big but of course that's not the case. the pain simply comes later

if someone has got their hopes up, then they're likely to get hurt even more deeply. but most of just times you should feel the whole film and get marked out. because they found they've been discarded when the other person has found something better before. this form of rejection is known as ghosting. simply disappearing happened in the 1st 2 books in the age of digital communication. contacts are just as easy to broccoli as they were to start with a few of the digitized courting needed 3 months. people claiming to have patel of the dial up, the one that are grandmothers and grandfathers years. people also claim that the car ruined romance, because back in that time, the parents will be involved when they're there, when they're kids at the age of marriage, whatever that means now,

started dating that they would be there, they would accompany them they would be involved in the car could take you away. so this is just technology and this is innovation, and this is, this is us innovating. it's culture. it's not just trying it, it's giving more access card changed lives that lets you get from point a to point b. . i want to explore your love life in your relationship so much better. the telephone, of course, life changing and these platforms to connect with people are also like life changing to be all about a musician does what we've seen is with online dating too. so that the relationship is romanticized artificially. so i was just about to cancel my 4 ship subscription, so to speak. when i found you don and dick and then i lost interest in everything else with this interest of this under for the war that i think still represents a deep yearning scene. so i was using flash chip and did the psychological test

for 20 minutes. you have to answer questions like do you like raisins or do you often wet the bed as a child? in the end you are one of 3 kinds of people. i'm only 10 percent intellectual and only 10 percent emotional and through thought 80 percent of me is passion driven. so i don't think our ship is so great. and i see a man like flattering psychological test results better. what is more passé cost $60.00 euros a month? or is it cheaper for straight people? this is homburg. there's just one red house on the street.,

this is where she you go. schneller lives. now, 88 years old in the 1960 s., the psychologist developed the 1st much money contest for a magazine and later notorious par ship test as well. 80 questions and a top secret. oh, good rhythm are designed to help someone find their better half has already been or i'm arrogant enough to say that my characterization of a person is fairly accurate. if it's slightly off, that could be because he or she didn't give honest answer study or maybe answered in a way that they thought would be more acceptable or give them an attractive characteristic when they don't really have the best of self perception and the way others see us can diverged greatly, tutti if there's a does for a bit. but that's

a problem across the board of your mind, not just one that's exclusive to partial. people can have a totally skewed self-image. it's the high priced for payment platform is one of the leaders in the german language dating world through it's not just importance to being beyond comparison with tinder and other online services. partials says its core and unique selling point is the interest serious scientific matching test, which includes questions like, do you sleep with the window open? long term relationships generated from the zeros and ones who wants a bit of romance, professor has a tip. internet to implement best. the internet and romance go wonderfully together. like put 2 candles next to the computer and you've got romance, even when you're searching or filling on a questionnaire. oh, month romance is wonderful,

but it's in here. and you can also get manufactured romance on the internet coming off the internet, or to visit today, every toothbrushes, ordered online, it arrives in the mail. so we've gotten used to the idea of finding a partner this way, and that's been the whole. why not at home, and if we do everything with these electronic busy boxes that none of this maria client 2 has been in the love business for more than 40 years. that is good and good friends of mine now all the same. i'm a father. i got to begin with, there were match makers and dating agencies and then the dating sites shot on to the market. and i'll put it this way. we had a bit of a famine. sometimes i really wondered when i would just close up shop kind of when

i would no longer be able to live from that. but over the course of time that changed again, suddenly it's bounced back. i wouldn't say people are leaving the dating platforms, but they're coming back to me more often. the good old dating agency is a relic from the pre-computer age. put file cards, heatly sorted according to name, income, profession, and naturally social status and family background. and also selects possible partners by hand, which of course increases the cost for the client. after all here, the weaves is separated from the chaff in advance. and i don't know i like uptight . my fee is 3000 euros for younger clients rising to 67 or 8000

depending on the degree of difficulty. that might sound a bit strange, but if someone has rather special than the search for a suitable partner is more complicated. if it is not to say everyone who comes to me can make suggestions based on the existing clientele. but when i notice that something is going a bit more special, then i go in search of the right partner, then does all the not maria klein says that she's made more than one of those batches. she's been in business now for nearly 40 years. and old school still she places and proper middle class newspapers and studios is this tried and true method just as she did in the past. as a vicious appearances always important, that's just the way it is. i always state quite clearly that a person rarely falls in love with good character. since it's about a relationship, sex appeal is part of it. and that means finding the other person sexually

attractive. this is an important aspect, and it's important as well that the 2 people are similar, have the same sense of humor and outlook on life. so they'll be able to understand each other when they converge. according to a study by a chinese dating platform for at least 5 percent of men, there is never lived that fits. they end up on the digital back burner. even though for many years now, countless goods have been published about the art of food. and the alleged secrets you have to know one order to find your dream mate. the roles which men and women have to play in this part, they do remain unchanged as the possible objects of desire and the, the hunter there's a book for men called the game and a book for women called the rules. and i think that this difference, you know, the game as a book all about how to make women feel desperate to sleep with you and sort of how

to get disposable fast relationships. the rules are all about how women must never show what they want, but play this long game of tricking men into liking them by, you know, not calling when you want to, not sleeping on them when you want to making yourself seem inaccessible. and i think that the difference between the rules and the game really sort of distills the ways in which these very fashion binary gender norms still play out in the dating advice literature. traditional gender stereotypes. i want it all up out here . and this from thomas schieffer, elmira runs this dancing school which has been a business 1st century. it's the 200 of back in the day and vienna, it's still traditional for youngsters to attend a dance course when they turn 60. 5 and too small for me for she didn't like to came around. you get to know so many different people. a dance course is

a great opportunity to find someone who is on the same wavelength, is and that's why dance schools in particular produce lifelong and deep friendships. not to mention humorous matches and even marriages he, in this week's through the, by one of the key things about a dancing school. it's especially in our modern era, is that the 2 genders can meet naturally and honestly on a neutral ground, and learn to get along with one another without having to have any fear of touching, literally. and it behooves, angsty in boston soon means that guns are after all when they start the course their own able to take up the correct dancing position. anyway, downside is the, the, they all come with this built in personal space during the course of the get over, this is learn to approach each other and move in harmony together is the see. these are things which are also very important in life. see this in the new the, you know,

who's leading the abuse dixie and i along with the vienna waltz. good manners are part of the course curriculum. these are the golden rules of etiquette for men and women. most of which date back to imperial times old film material on how or perhaps how not to kiss a lady's hand. moderate. some men take the lady's hand, bower over it, and the kiss is quite damp. making a lip smacking sound that's not recommended. and some ladies pass out their good fortune when their hand is taken for a kiss. she doesn't want it and pushes her hand down hard. now, there are 2 types of men here. are those that give in and bend down to kiss the lady's hand and the other more energetic type, who says she doesn't want one? well, then i'll use force and out my other hand and bring her hand up and there the cares

. and the woman goes towards the matter from a kid, someone who meant to smartphones. because these days, even a smartphone is a constant companion bolt in fear. it's a development the streets don't school director views with mistrust views in 320 of me. we focus so much on our mobile phones and all these other things but not on the people who are right next to us. and that's a major problem. man, importantly my profile is just a one liner. it says on the 1st date, by pay for all the drinks the on the i think he can be expected to paper things on the 1st date and see it as something it's that's worked so well that i send a disclaimer with my 1st text response. no cocktails, just beer and wine and no friends either. and i need to be allowed to sit at the

same table. and they always say you don't get a 2nd chance to make a 1st impression. so when i go somewhere, i have to think carefully about the kind of impression i'd like to me have sending . i've got a list of icebreaker questions here. like do you look pretty or ugly when you're crying? and then the human instead of from calm once the conversation has gotten going, you should try to identify the other person's interests through came in and out of the you please move used the team through few and they advise using the funnel method. it would be a bad start with an open issues and then slowly focus on a topic that interests the other person you wanted your mom, call your penis and well being human. because when someone is talking about their favorite subject, they'll feel at ease in open aspect of that way. of course,

you get to know someone much better than if you present yourself as a special deal yourself with the course of the past and use of group. think it's cool, it's a role, but has lived in vienna for many years. he's already had one or 2 personal experiences with dating apps. this is they provide perfect material for comedy. dating is common to the dating issue is brilliant for comedy because we live in a time when there are more and more single households or an age when people work a lot and go straight home afterwards. so online dating is a way of getting to know a great deal about a person fairly quickly and the woman had to let the universe and then mention basically online dating is also embarrassing things. all pain as well because

within a short period of time, you're showing someone part of yourself and a mention, and then just and everything that somehow embarrassing has great potential to be something funny. but in seattle, the guess is that the internet has replaced the gig club, the workplace, and the true church as the places where a couple 1st meet today. it's possible to find like minded people worldwide at whatever disadvantage alderman's social inequality. according to a study, more and more couples have the same level of education, and one factor is universal to find. so when you have to work hard, you know what you want. keep refining your search and present yourself perfectly. well, how we work is becoming more flexible. how we look, if we can be more flexible to the ways we live, our changing people are living much longer. for instance,

they're living much more precariously as well. i think many young people, you know, don't know where they're going to work in 5 years. i don't know where they're going to live. we don't have the same kinds of long term rangelands in many aspects of our social life as we used to, you know? so i think that maybe what we're seeing with this shift, some more flexible definitions of relationships. people deciding that they want non-monogamous arrangements. this is actually a reflection of a profound change in our social structures that's taking place that's not just personal preference and then you get the digital tool that lets you do it. it's like a real deep change. this is this fleeting, hectic characteristic with everything taking place faster and faster is of course symptomatic of society as a whole because it's so it's reflected their relationships to what's needed as a kind of opposition or sort of barrier in that we close ranks against the consumer

society while our couple to find peace together and freedom from syria is on the way to a tinder date in a cafe in downtown vienna. we want to know what leader swipe to the right. i mean, what appealed to me was that he immediately mentioned that he's not interested in one night. stands because he wants to get to know woman as a person can unlearn most. we've way the discretely outside the coffee to find out how serious date went. this is how there wasn't a i'm a go wow, feeling i think we'll probably have another drink and then depending on how late it is or how tired we are, i could easily imagine that, well, perhaps go have a drink somewhere else. but that's all of us. we'll both be sleeping in our own

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