secrets. starts december 25th. the series d.w. news live from berlin germany faces a harsh reality a holiday season under pandemic lockdown shops and schools will close private gatherings will be sharply limited no fireworks and no alcohol in public spaces chancellor angela merkel announced the measures after meeting with regional leaders . and over time for the final act of the braggs it drama the european

union and britain need a trade deal to prevent chaos at the borders in 2021 negotiators have given themselves until busy evening to resolve their differences but not about deadlines appears to be wobbling. pablo folios welcome to the program german chancellor angela merkel has set the table for a belief holiday season a short time ago she announced a raft of tough measures saying they were necessary to bring down the spiraling numbers of new covert 19 cases here in germany so measures that we put into place on the 2nd of november have not been sufficient. for a while we were able to stop the exponential growth. and how did plateau movements

but now we're seeing a new rise in infections an exponential growth once again and what that means is that many people are dying you have been following the statistics i'm sure and we also know that we are close to exceeding the response capacity of our public health systems and aim was always to prevent this being in the end this is why we must act and we must act fast in the results of the decisions that we made today so let's take a look that will break it down for you what exactly is going to change in germany so from wednesday non-essential shops are going to close supermarkets pharmacies as well as banks are allowed to remain open schools are going to be shut in principle until the 10th of january and employers are being encouraged to allow their staff

to work from home as much as possible chances are i'm going to medical also made an appeal for people to limit their social contacts during the holidays and the number of people that i have to meet indoors will remain restricted to 5 and that doesn't include children and under 14 now in anticipation of a new year celebrations sales of fireworks are going to be banned. for more on this i'm now joined by our political correspondent hans browne to standing by for us hi hans now the german federal government and state leaders have met and they've been i'm still locked down as we've seen we were all expecting it it's one of the main takeaways for you. you know i think one of the things you can say of what was somewhat surprising this morning is that they agreed so quickly that the whole meeting took just over an hour we have been used to these discussions between the central government and the regional leaders dragging on for hours and hours often obviously it seems with acrimonious discussions acrimonious

debates and then press conferences where everyone is totally exhausted today they seem to have done their homework in the last few days they agreed on a common position the composition was basically approved without much discussion this morning and it includes all the measures that you have just listed the most important of those is clearly shutting down shops now in the middle of the retail peak in a normal year when most shops will be making their highest sales for the entire year that is a very very drastic measure but also the other ways of restricting context such as restricting schooling and sending schooling sending people back into home schooling or distance learning and the measures to restrict the sale of alcohol and the sale of fireworks all of this is intended to reduce people's contacts so that the virus has less chance of spreading. i think what's also significant is there was some

pressure before the fall of the lockdown only to be imposed much closer to christmas just a couple of days before christmas and they have now decided to do this on wednesday on the 16th of december in other words as quickly as possible as quickly as the processes of approving it in various parliaments are laws and that shows that the situation is being taken seriously no no hands until americans preference as you know we we know was for a hard shutdown she made no secret of that now now she's essentially got that but in many ways do you think it goes as far as we had potentially expected it to go. it's gone as far as we have expected it's not gone as far as it's possible more strict as locked on is still conceivable for instance there are no there is no rule that people have to stay at home and still only an appeal for people to stay there still the possibility for 5 people to meet at the same time as long as they're from

2 different households both in public and in private so there is still a bit of leeway for people it's not the harshest possible lock down but i think for i'm going to marco it was a day of satisfaction this is something that she has been pushing for really for weeks and she's finally managed to persuade the regional leaders she certainly has now also one big area that we've been discussing obviously is business is such a busy time of year tell us about what type of compensation at businesses are going to receive. that are still the exact details are still being discussed but we know that the volume as the finance minister has just announced will be somewhere between $10.12 euros every month that will be given to businesses how forced to close down being given to south employed people who are no longer to able to do their work and will be distributed according to a formula that are still being discussed until now the help that has been given has

at times been too generous there have been some businesses that have been doing better under lockdown than if they had been open that's going to be corrected but in the end it's going to be a huge amount of money and most of it is going to come from central government hands franti to abuse political correspondent thanks ira. well it's another deadline day in bragg's negotiations and the e.u. sources have told the reuters news agency that the united kingdom and e.u. are expected to agree to continue trade talks and british prime minister bars johnson and european commission president or sort of underlying or holding a crisis called now britain's main bragg's it negotiator david frost has returned to the u.k.'s brussels headquarters with less than 3 weeks until the u.k. leaves the e.u. single market there's no sign of a deal on what the future trading relationship will look like.

and as the hours tick down on the final day of negotiations we bring in our correspondent marina in brussels hi marina so we hear the negotiations are going to go on what more can you tell us about that probably already said to fund a law in the e.u. commission president and our son's prime minister are set to meet at this very moment artists to speak on the phone murcia say and yeah we have been hearing rumors that are not confirmed yet but that seem very likely that the negotiations might be postponed another time and you have to know that this deadline this sunday is the deadline that the u.k. and the e.u. set for themselves and deadlines are something that those seem very important in this whole bracketed bessel because they have been postponed over and over again so

it is there is a likelihood that this time it will be postponed again but this is obviously that that doesn't make it more likely to to get a deal by the 31st off december. fluid deadlines indeed there are apparent irreconcilable differences on several topics merino which are the main crunch point . sticking points have been the same over the last couple of years so there's fish for example britain has been saying they want to regain control over british waters and that means for example that french fisherman of fish have had fish women can't access british waters and the more after nobody abraxas and this whole discussion gain traction and there's more tension there because britain actually announced that they want to send navy vessels cheaper to guard ports this waters in case of a no deal the problem there is that some say there is some some some some room for

compromise here because fish is economically not super important but it is symbolically so it is unlikely that france will give in at this point and there's now the big important point that is the level playing field and the fact that the e.u. says to the u.k. we only accept customs free trades if you also accept our rules our standards for example social standards environmental standards but the u.k. doesn't see that way there's a lot of talk of u.k. severin see that they don't want to align with any more and that this is the point the whole point of pex it so there are these 2 major sticking points that are there at the moment thanks for that update marina in brussels. well let's take a look at some of the other stories making news elsewhere in the world a bomb attack in kabul has killed at least 2 people according to police unknown

assailants attached a sticky bomb to an armored vehicle in the afghan capital and that exploded 2 people were wounded no one has claimed responsibility for the blast but suspicion has fallen on the taliban. in washington d.c. several people sustained a life threatening stab wounds and scuffles during a rally in support of u.s. president donald trump police say at least 23 people were arrested earlier trump supporters including members of the far right proud boys militia group had marched in downtown washington. now the united states is about to begin an extra ordinary vaccination rollout as it struggles with skyrocketing cases of covert 19 the country has now reported $16000000.00 infections the increase comes as millions of doses of the covert 19 vaccine are said to be distributed across the country on monday the biotech pfizer job received the green light from regulators

on friday and it arrives as covert 19 as already killed almost 300000 people in the united states the most worldwide. the name of the plan says a toll operation works speed planes trains and automobiles are all set to carry the new vaccine to over 600 locations across the u.s. and with a military precision i expect the 1st shipments to arrive monday morning extensive coordination will ensure that this a curse we work with pfizer mckesson u.p.s. fed ex federal and local law enforcement agencies to ensure safety and security of the vaccine. imported touches from europe are bolstering home produced doses which are ruling off the production line at pfizer's facility in michigan. further east new yorkers have seen their city suffer as the nationwide death toll spirals in the

world's worst hit country. yet the reaction here to the impending rule has been mixed it's a really positive being as we obviously might sometimes see get a vaccine and now that they're finally gotten it it means they can act they can get back to normal high play i hope it works i know a lot of people need it. for someone such as myself i would prefer not to get it. usually 1st run of vaccines is still kind of a testing phase. but a great many in a nation we re overlooked and loss of life are hoping that operation warp speed can provide light at the end of 20 twenties long dark tunnel. well to sport now and in saturday's late game defending champions by a munich were held to a one all draw when you're on berlin when young got off to the perfect start after

just 6 minutes connel stand header from a corner but by and came back in the 2nd tough and equally. eyes through robert lewandowski the polls scoring his 13th phonied goal of the season i and remain top of the table but have won only one of their last for the games. in boxing world heavyweight champion anthony joshua has retained his multiple championship belts after knocking out bulgarian cobra pool live at wembley arena on sunday the briton dominated the buyout and in the 9th round there was no escape for poor left josh what landed a clubbing right uppercut which sent to live to the compass and joshua fall about with another right time to end the contest is joshua's 24th professional when his next clash could be with fellow briton tyson fury who also holds a title bout. you're watching

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gray region has torn families apart and half of those seeking safety are children. as. likes to sing songs he learned growing up and he misses playing with his friends and especially with his older brother. you know. i miss them all and i want to go back home because i want to play with my brothers i miss my friends and my brothers. it's been 3 weeks since a.o.p. last saw his family his mother had brought him to his teacher's doorstep when the bombs started falling on the hometown and who matter she said she had to search for her 2 older sons a safe way yasser recalls without a 2nd thought she took him and ran recess again. we jumped over dead bodies our neighbors were dead but we couldn't bury them so we just kept running. and

europe saw a lot of things a 7 year old shouldn't see says i see for us all she's close friend of his mother has known him for years he trusts her. many other children who flatly die when not so lucky the u.n. estimates almost half the 40000 refugees from the region actually it's not clear how many of them arrived in sudan on their own but the health ministry is currently registering all these as especially vulnerable. because we face multiple problems 1st an important one we have to find out whether the family came to sudan or not if the family was killed we need to explain that to the child after that we look for a solution. a safe way yes the hopes that she will never have to explain that to a europe she believes his parents live but with no phone and no communication blackout until right she can't reach anyone in their hometown. if god lets me live long enough and if there's peace i'll take the boy back to his mother now i'm

a refugee but i will do what ever i can for this boy he's like my own son. live at the campus heart up in s.f. was still wearing the same clothes as when they left home often they have to try 3 or 4 comes to get water but still sometimes a safe or manages to get a up something special. i love her because she takes care of me she buys me their squits fruits and candies i really love you. according to official statistics $40000.00 people in russia have died from the corona virus so far the situation is especially dire in a city south of the euro mountains the workload in funeral homes there has doubled and become more dangerous. with a steady stream of coronavirus dead speed is of the essence at the most every

morning the team from the funeral agency. comes here to collect new victims of the pandemic 29 year old tour kinsey k f has been working in the funeral business for 12 years but he says he's never had to bury this many bodies. but for sure one time there was a huge line of hearses standing in line outside the morgue it was only then that people started to understand that death really come. call the relatives to identify the body. this movie in the city of fallujah is only for people who died of corona virus or had contact with an infected person the bodies have to be sealed in plastic the coffins closed. many russians feel bad dead should be treated with more respect i'm sure explains. relatives are often more tense than usual because their dead are handed over to them in plastic bags. they

aren't allowed to open the bags so i tell them that right away some people cry and demand that we open the bags then i have to explain that they could get infected themselves this virus is no joke. it's been if it. has been in the business for 7 years today he's in charge of the team of undertake has he says since the 2nd wave of corona virus there have been at least twice as many deaths in the city of funeral agencies have had a tough time keeping up. with. work a lot more work over a 1000000 people live in the capital of the republic of. government statistics say that only around 90 people in the region have died of the corona virus since the pandemic began but the official numbers also show that during that time over $4000.00 more people died the nost year corona virus infections are spiking across

russia but. the situation is under control. the undertaker has. today unicode slope and his team are entering a 92 year old woman she didn't die of the coronavirus that means her relatives can say their final farewell with an open casket which is the tradition in russia. usually funerals a big family affair as in russia but the pandemic has changed that people are often worried about getting infected and stay away. so far no one in your east team has caught he can only hope it will stay that way. and russia people say if it's decided up there that you'll get run over by a street car you won't drown fate is fate if the coronavirus is of my faith it will pass me by. or with a very good. the next day the team prepares for 4 more funerals

and his colleagues hardly have time to worry about their own health at the moment they're just too busy. the number of corona infections is rising in germany as well which can be seen in the intensive care units medical personnel are already at their limit and hospitals are searching for volunteers. talk germany's parliament zuzana of uganda has been working here for 18 years but she has another job too. when the corona pandemic hit germany she volunteered to work part time as an intensive care nurse in berlin hospital. susana just finished a 9 hour shift taking care of covert patients now she's come back into the office

to finish off some work for her full time job. commitment i can't stay at home with a clear conscience if my colleagues are slaving away in the i.c.u. i have the training and can help so i help there's no question about it. and german hospitals are in dire need of help intensive care units are stretched thin. chief nurse of the show one of europe's largest research hospitals she has put her finger on the problem germany's health care system is facing. we have enough ventilators enough beds enough masks and gowns and gloves but we're worried that all the beds can't be used because we don't have enough personnel. food to deal with this the shocking t. have launched a campaign to rehire former health care workers like susan have you got she

trained to be a nurse over 25 years ago but decided to move into a different profession in this all hands on deck situation it's people like her that are needed now. that the i.c.u. use are running at full capacity if one person is taking care of 3 or 4 covert patients that's rough you have very little time after work i leave the hospital with a sad feeling because they couldn't give the patients the attention that they deserve . despite rising corona numbers germany's health care system has not crashed yet. but hospitals were already understaffed and the workload was too high before the pandemic despite all the problems zona has rediscovered her passion for nursing care she couldn't even imagine quitting her job in the stock but for that she says

hospital working conditions would need to improve. our last journey takes us to finland the scandinavian country has done well during the pandemic at the beginning of november the finns had the lowest invention rate in the e.u. instead of strict rules the government relied on its citizens to act responsibly until now. how has finland managed to keep the corona virus at bay during this 2nd wave it's not due to harsh restrictions on citizens because there aren't any masks are recommended but not required in most places all stores are open. restaurants and bars are 2 orders for alcohol and at 11 pm. is director of the national coronavirus strategy he explains it relies on a sense of personal responsibility near recommendations wouldn't work everywhere

but here they do parents are quite obedient in the sense that they are suggested to try to maintain distance. avoid a lot of gatherings of a lot of parties many people intend to work with the way. says many finns are working from home and surveys show in person social contacts have been cut by 2 thirds but the number of new cases has started to rise so now the government has ordered students over 12 to wear masks in school and limited the size of social gatherings in the helsinki area to 20 people it also extended until at least mid december a ban on all non-essential travel into the country finnish officials say in the summer half of new coronavirus infections came from abroad that's dropped to 6 percent now that tourists aren't allowed in the european union is pressing governments to restore open borders as soon as possible one government proposal is

the travel restrictions could be eased by making it mandatory to be tested on a rival team on. it is deputy mayor of where the airport is located and he's responsible for security there he says his city doesn't have enough medical professionals to carry this out commune communicated to the government that if you lift restrictions and if you make the law that forces our staff. to move over to the airport the situation is so that we cannot treat our finnish people anymore so well that like difficult decisions lie ahead for finland as it tries to figure out how to continue blocking the virus but not visitors. players

. their patience is running out. their range is growing for a life without electricity. presidents of you harness sports. like millions of other people in africa they often experience power outages a couple minutes from what causes the touch and what solution is harder. to do 7 percent. next on t w. the men who defied beijing music album. so matter who criticised the chinese government fought for freedom and democracy. in the last he received the nobel prize in china he was arrested again forgotten

until his death mused. in a recently discovered interview. in 45 minutes on d w. bloodlines usa is on its way to bring you more conservation plays how do we make see the screener play can we protect habitats we can make a difference global ideas fundamental series of game global sales of g.w. and online play. a low end a war welcome to a brand new edison of the 77 percent. my name is liz show and i'm honored to have your company today. coming up on this week's show where talking about electricity or the lack of it. we ask south africans why so many communities still have no access to power. which took out

a gaming arcade and i think. the founder of the playground. and we find out why random women are taking classes to learn about sexual pleasure. but 1st do you know this town. that's right most of you are familiar with the sound of generators these machines are real lifesavers every time there's a power cut but they also proof that electricity supply in most african countries is unreliable we have traveled to nigeria to see how customers who are unhappy with their power company are seeking help. it's part of daily life in my chair we're about 47 percent of the country's 200000000 people have no access to electricity. access 1st red hot russian enough electricity and something disconnection if your neighbor to pay the bills for. it means that

even simple things like this it. cost. for no. in the recount of all the girls are. talking about too graphic to sleep and the reason is because there's no light through us the atomic energy and get busy and then after i got to make up. some sabine brother morsi has been a bit they just buffer for 10 years he says the electricity challenges mean he has no savings i don't need who is a former banker full until. an electricity consumer rights and g.o.p. know how i don't. think the traumatic experience. i didn't. get. one of the biggest problems for consumers he says is that there's a shortage of people which means that part companies send an estimated bills which

consumers can't cross-check. they don't know the are right i mean they do understand the procedure to engage and then just. measure what it does get it. never what hollis website has a 1000 subscribers including officials from park on pinney's and the electricity commission many consumers write in seeking advice where he can and that it just speaks to them directly and listens to the complaints of many. i know your commute home and you're like oh my god i don't know what's next in my request. or you know how i do you know enjoy i've been that you believe that a reliable parts apply is something everyone should have access to because sometimes it's more than the cost of a haircut but a matter of life or death. for my dad the loss of the baby because there was no light and. so those things just think so why the very basic rights.

and like. it's something that millions of nigerians hope to one day be able to have . i think it's really sad that we africans are so used to power cats that we accept them as normal and we asked you our viewers how this is affecting you in your daily life let me read some common c.m. hills direly says you remind going to hands of our plight from 2015 till 2018 we had frequent power cuts which we named saw literally flip on flip off day russia there as she says we have no light in cameroon it has become a normal thing. well we wanted to know more about the causes of this problem and so we sent our very own christine mon back to south africa and here she is with us rick abate from soweto johannesburg.

the 77 percent is in seoul which so now around the world $800000000.00 plus people do not have access to electricity 3 quarters of those people in africa so i'm joined by my panel today on this today st debates to discuss how we can bridge that gap and having everybody have access to electricity so i'm going to start with my 1st panelists here she will more just lay out the scene for us right so this is south africa just lay out the electricity supply issue. electricity distribution in south africa is currently monopolized by a one state owned entity called eskom and their very infrastructure that spans across the country and with that infrastructure they've warned on to connect over 90 percent of the south african population or to the grid now this is a fundamental shift from the connection or their rate of electrification pride the dispensation of democracy in 1904 where we only had 50 percent of the population

connected to this very human guys face us in prison stripes the last 25 absolutely i do want to come see you raise because the electricity situation we open the discussion and we talked about the fact that the majority of this country is electrified right 90 percent now the 10 percent of people who don't have electricity most of them happens to be in rural areas why all rural communities ostracize when it comes to the supply of cars a very vast continent with a local population density in certain areas ok so here in south africa the people that we're trying to reach one not electrified it's difficult to reach them with our existing solution which is the utility grid which means that we need to start focusing on new technologies and innovation solutions from africa for africa they can address these. pacific problems ok the problem with having international ekta is coming to africa and relying on them because they lack local insight that's why we need our local people who understand the situation better than anyone else we living in it to come forward with solutions ok so let's leave that day but i wonder

you come over to blood rufus because you are of the view that electricity nobody should have to pay for that explain that to us obviously right now with the status quo as it is right. our government is failing right for you to have electricity you're going to have big pockets of it does help us understand just how crippling it can be when people don't have access to see we're talking about something that the united nations has defied is a basic human right. ok it affects. but cooking. it affects your bottom the morning it affects your health basically launch not enough for the human dignity ok to see where you want to come in. so i wanted to touch on the health i spent as pic that rufus spoke about because you know there are some places where by without electricity the senate taishan doesn't work so

it's just so it just goes to show that this whole issue of electricity and overlaps into other areas that we also need to take into account we happened to be in a community here and so and so. the government doesn't supply electricity people but people have gone on and have made what illegal connections just explain to us what how dangerous are these illegal connections they're extremely dangerous because ease sometimes way by the cable will be laid across the road and it's exposed and there was a community called great whereby we had cables live cables hanging across. the actual school where by kids actually were there and attended classes and it wasn't safe and it is next to their play area we actually play so it is very very dangerous for them ok i saw you know if you want to come in there we're going to have to keep training about things that the most important thing is that we need to learn how to train africans like you said you know create solutions for africa so i think that the best way to really speeded up is to encourage

a culture where we support our youth we train them up we develop them up we encourage them to be very creative and most importantly stay in africa and help africa because i think the biggest problem is we've got all our talent fleeing only you know oh right ok i'll come over and then i'm coming back right yes. yeah i just wanted to quickly make a point about like leap frog and we've already seen africa like leap frog in terms of like technological infrastructure there weren't many like fixed telephone lines in africa but we saw africa really come through and you know take up telephones you know and phones have been like a key way for africans to stay connected so that is possible and you know the financial cost doesn't have to fall on individuals but that if we were to allow communities to collectively you know own their energy generation sources we can effectively transition away from fossil fuels. the proof is so huge

you're passionate about this you're an activist community are you convinced about what are you hearing and is this something that you would take into your community and convince people about look there's one thing that keeps ringing in my head. of the ability affordability that is my that is my biggest concern but. solo's yes like i mentioned initial investment is a big concern for me that if you walk into a hole for example just behind me right as soon as you start talking money. that becomes a bit of a concern right theoretically. i see you'd walk right track to me like you. mentioned that education. but education is very key and it has to start from like you said from school ok one of the things that rufus talked about us made is affordability but help us understand the urgency off this right it's not

a nice to have do we want soda what do we want to use fossil fuels help us understand as we as we close this discussion taking into account everything you've heard i think the arguments have already been made because the costs of renewable energy has plummeted in recent years it is it's a no brainer honestly for governments to actually scale up and renewable energy investments and really not to go for fossil fuel based energy generation the point i'm trying to make your is that our economies are going to be decimated if we don't act soon ok so with those attacks soon if this is where we end today's street debate but of course this discussion doesn't india we're so interested to know what you think about what you've heard today and perhaps how it applies to the country that you know and this is the street debate insulation it's been good having your company but i. thank you so much christine and everyone who took part in that debate if you want to see

a long version you can check it out on you tube and while you're there be sure to subscribe to our channel a stable 2 power supply is crucial in this digital age we met video game fans and i worry coast's a power cut is the last thing they need. every afternoon this video arcade in a working class district is packed with young people coming to unbind off to school . 35 year old. is the founder of the digital playground his passion for video games began when he was a child. you know i think i was around 4 or 5 years old when i started at 1st we were just watching all the big brothers play so that's how i started by watching it then as i grew older. i played more i played a lot of university. days he has turned his passion into a profession and he has his fingers firmly on the pulse of the booming sector competitive video gaming also known as the sport. is rapidly growing in popularity

not just in ivory coast but all over africa. in less than 10 years it went from being purely a hobby to be at the center of international competitions with big prizes up for grabs. to continue competitive video gaming is starting to become a thing here the mindset has to change because video gaming is now an international industry the important thing about e-sports is that it has the capacity to attract huge audiences who come and watch a bit like other sports today some games can attract the millions of people who connect online just to be able to watch others play just that. the average salary of pro gamers around the world can range from $1000.00 to $5000.00 per month. the best of the best make even more last year and shanghai 1900 participating in a top sports world championship shared at $34000000.00 prize pool. in the street

that is gradually providing more jobs african players are dreaming big. boys and i want to take it to the next level just play to have to be the best or do the best almost play again and again. here he can test his skills and compete with other game is around the world. globally the gaming industry has doubled in size in the past decade generated over $120000000000.00 in revenue last year alone. he dick wants to build the biggest gaming community in africa he networked with local startups to help them identify their needs and promote their ideas on the local market he will meet with. them on this if you. to my degree we're starting to see a number of local studios working in the gaming sector the main goal for them is to create content that reflects the consciousness. from games like growth for some

semblance which were made in south africa or the action volplane game already and from coming runes were huge successes and now the market is still small thanks to game enthusiastic like this could soon change its message is clear africa has entered the game. so how's it going in your relationship right now our sex and relationship expert has things called the 1000 pandemic has put a lot of stress on relationships couples are fighting there's no more sex because one partner is depressed or has lost their job like you even has has some advice. i came up as quickly as i could for i think is crazy what is it what's going on what's happening talk to me. we honestly can't take it anymore josh is driving me crazy ok details what's happening well you know we've been together for like almost

a year. and everything was going great but once the lockdown started things just started to change with him especially after last. sounds like you grieving i don't know i can't imagine what he's going through easy but i think what you think if you are using i've tried and tried to make him comfortable about the situation i'm still it will to cover the bill but i just don't get it he's become so disturbed he sits in front of the t.v. all day we haven't had sex in march. i just don't know what to do have you tried having an open conversation with him got really get mean to tell me why didn't help what you were talking about there. that's a tough one but also quite common i mean i think josh might be depressed. maybe up . form of intervention might get someone professionally preferably come to use it have a conversation between the 2 view you know because like you know some men struggle to open up because they think it makes them look we can we have the patriarchy to

thank for that maybe even feels like he can no longer act as the provider which also traditionally is expected of men. but he needs to learn that he still has that given time and opportunity to heal i think that's the best you can do but what if nothing changes oh oh if you refuse to listen then it's on you you have to decide if it's the kind of environment you want to foster relationship is always going to happen next time things go tough you need to take care of your own mental health too. i suppose that makes. but what about the heck. didn't. last year my re have to go to the no mo to use your spec dr when you're suffering from depression believe me but we patient with him you know but in the meantime you can meet your own needs ok ok ok that makes that ok enough about me how about you that when you daily oh i'm

going late. oh. hey everyone hope you enjoyed that little skit if you have any questions concerning sex and relationships please don't forget to write into the 77 percent til next time from the cast goodbye. and we're not done talking about sex. i know it's a subject that is still much of a taboo and i don't remember ever talking to my parents about it now in several african countries women are taught how to ellen gate their labor it's supposed to make sex enjoy not just for the men but for the woman as well in rwanda we met one woman who was an expert in the traditional and controversial practice of. on the streets of kigali you wouldn't expect to hear the words clear to us. but you would if you follow the. you tube channel that doesn't shy away from to relating to sex or the female body. her expertise is. the traditional practice of elongating

a woman slave yeah. i wonder but so many people are calling me with the break quest to talk about because there is a lot they need to learn i am here to help young girls with various problems. that. things problems in the bedroom sexual frustration and divorce playgroup wonders modern urban society because mothers and aunties no longer have the time to teach their daughters traditional values so she's taking matters into her own hands . she runs workshops for young women and girls in each pay $150.00 euros over a period of $4.00 to $6.00 weeks in small groups the women learn how to massage and pull their inner libya going to be considered the proportional measure for the lavi a menorah is your finger bought lavey

a menorah ought to be this length you see. you do you pull the lady a one by one or do you pull both at the same time. for these women about male and female pleasure and most importantly about female evacuation. which involves stimulating the critter as something men are traditionally taught to do. a man must know how to move his penance upwards like that on this clit or is so that the water starts flowing making the vijaya wet. and then. there is no scientific evidence that stretching the libya actually enhances female pleasure but many people here believe that. has its critics many young people. not because the husband

expected. i think it's a good thing but again. if my wife or if my girlfriend wants to do it if it doesn't have any influence on her i support it but personally. i don't mind with or without. students come here to prepare for an upcoming marriage some admit it was their husband's wish but whatever the young woman's motivation is that he has no trouble. and his students. have always wanted to visit kenya and it's a shame that i've never done bad given that i grew up in neighboring tanzania well for those of you like me who have never been to war bassam here's a tour of the city by someone who knows very well.

i don't think it very likely that infidel and i would be different during my free time but i know. what i'd give a kid born but then you get to know my. mom is king yes oldest and 2nd largest city historically it was a good way to be stuff for the destination for seafarers from europe asia and the arab oil their results a cultural melt important home to swahili culture kilo was raised in this bustling town and music echoes the course told full flavor stop as songs explore martyrs of the heart. don't you know. we turn our back i realize that i posting at the edge of town so my life i'm. well

a horse so i can say things like let us like hold your head and soak in one file that was there. yeah from there so i. just continued it for. what i feel is loaded weapon on time music she loves to explore her hometown but 1st there's the mission is the heart of mombasa the eccentric old town known for its narrow streets and the 16th century portuguese built for it right no one here and the whole town one of the most innocent and places here in mombasa because of therefore it is this which was built in the 1519 that he made the point she gains as the military base whoever had control of the fort when i was there portuguese british all the arabs rude. today it's a huge mess cool well heritage site but mombasa is famous well for more than just its money rates and this town there is always. heavy with a sense of spices and also

a troop of the local he loves most where to get the best ingredients. from slopes. and cinema you can find everything here. the spices that you see here are mainly books by the arabs and the europeans and the indian live and we have one that did to their cultural places because it makes our food tastes really good and how that beautiful flavor is the best places to relax in mombasa it's beaches. you can bury your feet in the sun and watch the waves cool but it all if you're feeling of french just like you can try something new. on. the sunset. shows us once again why 10 years. is the best

place to unwind come to see if you like something if you go into something much more you see. for me there's no place separate the introduce you to any hobbies you listed coming busey's mumbai and explore my sound. but. all right i need no war convincing is on my holiday list for 2021 well that's all we have for today as always you can send me an email to 77 dot com or you can get in touch on social media i'll leave you with the song turn me on by i can take care and go back.

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