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this is g w news wire from berlin chattels presidential elections with only one likely winner authoritarian leader idris dead he is expected to be extend his 30 year rule despite growing signs of public anger over his handling of the country's oil wealth we'll get the latest from our correspondent in chad also coming up on the show the battle to replace on the americal the 2 rivals expected to run for chancellor are making their cases in front of germany's conservative lawmakers our political editor tells us who's got the best champ's.
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hello i'm claire richardson welcome to the show voting is underway in chad in a presidential election in which the expected winner is already clear authoritarian president idriss deby seen here casting his ballot today is expected to win a 6th term he said he has ruled chad since he seized power some 30 years ago and other candidates are standing but the main rivals have been barred from running or have polls out claiming intimidation. or chad is home to nearly half a 1000000 refugees and it plays a key role in battling islamist extremism in the sahara region our correspondent fred move when he is in chad with the latest on the man critics say is a ruthless dictator. interest they be is an experienced military man with the rank of martial officers have achieved this military i call it. he came to
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power in 1993. and he has stayed in power since they. are on was at this campaign rally in the capital in jermyn a he jokes that he's been in power since before he supported as we have borne for some like he's 8 might they be as a hero. the. others come a long way. behind felipe built this country. president debbie has 30 years of experience and he had given 30 years of sacrifice for this country. but his critics say he's a ruthless dictator 6 had hoped to be on the ballot paper this year to challenge
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interests to be but his dreams of becoming a president we had dashed because 2 should boards change so presidential candidates must now be 40 or older must come bit. i am 38 this year and he decided that because he don't want me to run for office he turned the minimum age required so he moved it from $35.00 to $45.00 and people started talking saying that this is not normal he decide to reduce it to 40 so to make sure that on to run for office initially 10 candidates we have proved by direct to a commission some of them have already withdrawn from the race saying that it will process is need to create people nor peaceful. india captain jermyn or only one figure is not support huge billboards and long grieved interested bt nor is there
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only a visible campaign slogan this man has been in power for 30 years the majority of the people of china have not seen any other president but president idriss deby now he's running for another time. chad's population is one of the poorest in the world young people complain they can't find jobs. as a must as any political science but he's been unemployed for the last 10 years. to put them on the 100 plus. and i would like the government to create jobs for the us because young people most young people are unemployed it's not life we can't live without we're.
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sunday's election to go ahead without the participation of your position is making it and i think that they'd be succeed in his bid to extend his rule. and for more let's bring in the west africa correspondent afraid of moving fred what have you been seeing at the polling stations in the chaldean capital today. yeah today i mean we have been on different polling stations and people have been coming in small numbers generally here in the cotton jermyn. that they're happy to the cause of the opposition to court this vote so people decided some of them moderate actually decided is to stay in their homes or to go buy their own business so the opposition has called for a boycott of this election are there any other ways in which they are trying to mobilize against president debi. yes they have been
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planning to protest actually today so that they can actually is told people from going to vote but that did not top in this so far because. there is a heavy security here in the country too and no one is allowed to put it is it 2 days too but then they're close to just to their homes too to not vote to do people have actually to those cause they have been staying at home they're not voting so let's talk about the regional implications of this election because chad is a key ally of countries like france united states in the fight against islamist militants in the so how what role has that played in these actions. yet of course some international partners see president it is the i mean they come didn't as the guy as the person who's got your book over the fight. they did
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hardest in this region i mean if you compare with other that is 4 countries in this i hear region is the most powerful they have most powerful army and they see president deby as a as a capable person who can try to fight they do have these so for the international community he has the support and regional support i mean from other places presidents in the in the region but of course in charge the people charged they want jobs they want to become like. that you mentioned in your report that china is one of the poorest countries in the world but it is of course also a country that's rich in oil have lower oil prices affected chad in recent years. it's very difficult to quantify the effects of prices i mean on the international their brand how he tells affected their country like china but because people are saying that i mean they have had this oil for is and they have
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not seen any change i mean in terms of development so where that the changes mean to the under pandemic and therefore of oil prices people have not seen in a different change because they have been living this life for so many as so they said that there is no difference i mean for the last year and this year to the west africa correspondent fred a mover in your reporting for us there from chad thank you so much. now let's take a look now at some other stories making headlines around the world voting is underway in abandons a presidential election the poll follows a week of violent protests against incumbent patrice tone in office since 2016 he is heavily favored to win a 2nd term in the west african country. and the number of civilians killed in myanmar is military crackdown has climbed to over 700 on saturday security forces
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killed more than 80 pro-democracy protesters in the city of. and more has been in turmoil since the army seized power from the civilian government in february. and here in germany the race to succeed under americal as chancellor is heating up conservative lawmakers are today hearing speeches from the 2 most likely candidates for the post army lash it had long been viewed as the favorite he's the leader of merkel c.d.u. party and the governor of germany's most populous state north rhine-westphalia but now some are urging him to step aside in favor of marcos voda he's chief of the conservative sister party in the state of bavaria and his national profile has grown during the pandemic. and joining me now for more is detail he is the chief political editor. who is in front of the german parliament where that meeting is taking place bring us up to speed of these 2 potential contenders to become their
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party's candidate for chancellor who has a leg up in the polls. well up in the polls this mark will suit a very a but he hasn't even officially declared yet that he's interested and i mean lost his popularity or people in visiting him as successor to become chancellor kind of that's around 19 percent compared with which is above 50 percent so it's not even a close race if you go by public opinion and yet it's a closed shop negotiation within the party ideally the. leader said before a conversation between the 2 this is now widened and when those parliamentary groups speak about the future that's what's on the agenda they will also and. maybe not even directly but always be talking about who will be the man to actually happen his name on the ticket for conservative politics. style here in germany we
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expect a decision within the coming days because there is pressure mounting from all sides within the party but also outside elections are coming up in september so expect party members are eager to find out who the candidate is going to be i mean last that had been positioning himself as the man most committed to upholding america's legacy does that mean that that is not resonating well with voters. well this decision doesn't even get to the vote yet i cited the public opinion polls but within the party that is the one who has the big institutional party political stronghold or does he because now we're hearing more and more voices who are switching and who don't necessarily see him as natural successor any more so whatever happens this is once again almost a succession story of being interrupted by events let's not forget there was
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a former condit and it didn't come by the former leader of the party she was seen as natural successor but that doesn't seem to be a natural succession is at this rate and the pressure is on to get that issue solved after all germany too is in a pandemic and we heard anglo-american in parliament here behind me also talk about that she wants to see some action she wants to see another. break so what would that interruption look like i mean in what major ways would we expect soder to be different from. well mark is it official has to say whether he wants it or not and that's what everybody is waiting for whether he just wanted to ride that popularity wave or whether he actually wants to be chancellor candidates and although in the past he's been a harsh critic has angered a machall in recent months and particular weeks and days he's been very eager to stress that you can't become a michael said against the chancellor and we've seen some signals that i'm going to
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mind so a very interesting debate behind me right now indeed. the chief political editor many thanks for that update. let's get some sports news now in the bundesliga is a big game solve all sport of travel to frankfurt both teams have been in fine form this season so it was no surprise that this match was a goal frenzy. firepower to an already potent frankfurt attack. on the other hand have one of the leaks best defenses read back to coach them in front with just 6 minutes gone. delete the last 2 minutes. she can modify it in simi style rection needed to trick that stop and visiting defense. frankfurt have the momentum their top scorer andre silva muscled his way down the right. here on new bridge to direct just sharing his parent club ray out
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madrid won't let me sing. the defensive mix up had wolfsburg back to level the media after half time he vowed fake horsed. for the hosts were relentless fast silver scored his 23rd of the season to make it 32 before another punishing attack was eventually from the staff by eric. for 2 and still 30 minutes left to play. a brief gold truce was broken in the closing stages frankfurt defended pushing through his own mess. but it was nothing more than a consolation for wolfsburg as frankfurt held on to the wayne audi hooter's side cementing their grip on the champions league places. that is your news update at this hour coming up next as world stories of the week and reports and of
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course there's always that much more news and analysis if you visit www dot com or can check us out on our social media at the union and richardson in berlin and i'll be back with more news headlines at the top of the hour thanks much for watching. their story their very own personal drama. people have to tell strophe remember. and they share
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private footage with us that has never been seen before. back control starts in full 20 minutes on t w. this week on world stories. temp jobs instead of terrorism in belgium. pollution instead of prosperity in nigeria. but we begin in germany. while politicians continue discussing the 3rd lock down citizens are increasingly frustrated with the consequences of the pandemic. the
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bergdorf family in berlin a year after the corona virus pandemic began everyone is at home everyone is busy at their computer well almost everyone. leandra was struggling with his math homework the 14 year old spends up to 9 hours a day at his laptop 1st for his lessons then for homework sometimes lander has to force himself to keep up with his tasks. and look at how if. you just get sad and you don't have any energy. you almost get a little depressed that's a heavy duty word depressed but it's true. just don't feel like doing anything anymore and. his mother paula also spends her days homeschooling she's a teacher and looks forward to the day when she can finally teach inside the school again 1000 back summations could make that happen. yes then i got a message from my school yesterday that invitations for all teachers to get
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vaccinations are in the mail. that's very good news. and now i know i will have a vaccination appointment. that i mean germany's vaccination rollout is taking a long time so far only 10 percent of the population has been vaccinated the 1st to get the job were people over 80 and staff in hospitals and nursing homes paula bergdorf isn't allowed to just go stand in line at the vaccination center without an invitation right now she's looking forward to having rapid testing introduced at her workplace self tests that people take at home will make the school a little safer but in germany these are still not available everywhere paula worries about losing connection to her students. when his comics work you don't hear anything from them not a no don't feel like it or yes just silence. and then of course you wonder where
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are they what. is the father of the family mark has set up his home office in their bedroom he'd rather work here than take the bus and subway to work during a pandemic he considers that too risky in a europe wide comparison germany only comes in as average when it comes to working at home instead of remaining at the workplace less than 40 percent of german employees work from home mark is finding it quite a challenge to work in this environment. dodgeball for me it's hard for me to combine my working world and the atmosphere that normally surrounds me with working at home with my child my dog my wife it's quite challenging at times but it's motorsport was examined. marc is trying to imagine what the future will be like after the pandemic is over he's in charge of a startup that's developing ideas for a new kind of tourism after coke at 19 all in all the bergdorf are very grateful
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that they've made it through the pandemic healthy so far. after the terror attack 5 years ago and bacon belgium became known as a terrorism hotspot. a young tech entrepreneur wants to show that the brussels neighborhood has more to offer. mole and bag 5 years ago after terrorist attacks in paris and brussels the whole world knew that word and this place this district became infamous as the home base of a handful of bad guys the rest of my index almost 100000 residents felt unfairly stigmatized i was really frustrated insides fall but i also wanted to explain to peace. guys. it's a nice area with people with quality. and this is not our city of terrorist
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ybor he was a real also felt lost growing up like those small and black men who would become bombers he dropped out of school at 13 but where they turned to crime he taught himself to code and became a successful tech entrepreneur without the fancy diplomas from expensive schools that many top business people have. so yeah. he did have something the desire to help others succeed in 2015 while nearby the terrorist cell was planning its attacks was a recreated a nonprofit tech incubator so mullen that kids would have a place to go a chance to dream big what he calls a different ecosystem provides trainees everything for free the rest is up to them this place is not for to give to people. it's just people come and take your opportunity. if they have no money it's free if they have no computer or we can
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lend a computer they have no time we are almost open 20 hours before you know every day from the single room where he started was aris ecosystem now takes up the whole building and had a turnover of $2000000.00 euros last year google c.e.o. sundar pichai visited recently to make a donation in person the world is changing was a recess the big companies recruiting his students are less focused on traditional degrees 93 percent of graduates have tech jobs or have founded their own companies there are also spinoffs in the netherlands and italy laura hebert a digital marketing student travels in hour each way from. meant to be part of the mall in geek community i think it's the best training center in brussels because it's like recognize from big companies what outsiders used to deride as
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a no go zone is now the place to be. the chinese government is ramping up pressure on hong kong. more and more pro-democracy activists either flee the country or end up in court mike leach or pm . a small flat in downtown hong kong weather woes only museum dedicated to the 18 i tell them in krakow is located the military repression in beijing 32 years ago changed the course of many people in china and hong kong including leach again i was there during the during for the massacre and i was the pain propre days after my relieve pressure to hong kong i clashed that i would spend my life time in 5 people and mockers in china and so that both 5 were not being very. straight jackets on
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a leash again is facing a difference fate critics see and i don't massive track now being carried out by paging this time hans mostly liberal and democratic city hong kong in the wake of anti-government protest here an age this will charge for all the nice thing and that's handy and authorizes and that's rarely it was over a 1000000 people took part was one of the few without power and shoots every one of the defendants a high profile figures apart from media tycoon jimmy lie or a former lawmaker icons of the opposition movement like martin lee who is no this father after all this issue of the charges carries a maximum 5 year jail term. all right but this case is just the tip of the iceberg with over $10000.00 others arrested for is the 1st verdict among tonight charges for which he's on trial beijing's recently post ripping national security law and his overhaul of the city's that to
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a system intensify the fear. all denies hong kong's tenement morning vision. every year calling for an end to china's one party rule for techies and act like to make him a prime time get and beijing security this year he will likely be absent for the very 1st time in this era in a way that going to joe's part of the struggle now i would cover by saying that this is already something of a blessing for me that i would only have to go to jail after 40 years of activism in hong kong and but i'm ready to pay the price and ready to face it having witnessed hong kong's decades long struggle the 64 year old activist just not optimistic but he believes that his success says will continue to fight for democracy until they finally reached.
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the niger delta is not only what about africa's most important oil producing regions it's also one of the most polluted places on earth instead of prosperity this black gold brings residents sickness and death. the niger delta once offered to reach spoilers for farmers and fishermen like mike you know it's a tribute to humans and the ecosystem people all use peoples have lived people exposed to hate it was a call me at the time my cute. most of them died before the age of 40. our lives in the pit in their legacy on the sea. we depend on the sea i see. today almost all of those. have gone you can't find them again because of the oil spill and this has led to
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the. level of poverty i find no if not find the word to describe. it started in 2012 it's made that $16000.00 babies died within the 1st month of their life they died because of oil production in the niger delta state officials admit that the situation has become even worse since then how many people would do better where last week this was. where die. because this is i don't want their. poverty. in time so food in town sell cars and even the necessities of life you know what i. bust areas of the state's waterways are took sick the un says it could take 30 years to clear up the contamination. residents and activists blame the multinational oil company
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for their plight they have petitioned their government to provide host b. 2 s. and schools to improve their living conditions. it hopeless there isn't a law school says and in the event is developed a did the foam. with respect the glue up were kind of. measures also on. the people that. the place through this was. the region provides most of nigeria's revenues but the communities see they get nothing in the return of their government has neglected them and do they have them to their fate. played .
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their patience is running out their rage is calling for a life without electricity. presidents of you harness sport. like millions of other people in africa they often experience power outages a couple images for what causes them. and what solution is harder. to be certain 1st. next d.w. . is it that time again. next crash is definitely on its mind. this raises the question. can this system even insane. are we ready for the next crisis. in 45 minutes on d w. what secrets lie behind. discover
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new adventures in 306. 6 more. 360. hello and a warm welcome to a brand new edition of the 77 percent my name is liz show and i'm honored to have your company today. coming up on this week's show where talking about electricity or the lack of it. we ask south africans why so many communities still have no access to power. which check out a gaming arcade and i think. the founder it's a playground. and we find out why one of the women are taking classes to learn
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about pleasure. but 1st do you know this sounds. that's right most of you are familiar with the sound of generators these machines are real lifesavers every time there's a power cut but they also proof that electricity supply in most african countries is unreliable we have traveled to nigeria to see how customers who are unhappy with their power company are seeking help. the hum of generators it's part of daily life in my cheerio about 47 percent of the country's 200000000 people have no access to grid electricity those who have access. russian enough electricity and sudden disconnection if you are unable to pay. for. the means that even simple things like visiting ones come at a high cost. for no. and we can work it
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girl. through. and the reason is because there's no light through us the political agenda and then after i got to make up. some sabine better musi has been at the biggest barber for 10 years he says the electricity challenges mean he has no savings i do mean who is a former banker full in tears with no power and electricity consumer rights and g.o.p. no i think the traumatic experience. i didn't. really get. one of the biggest problems for consumers he says is that there's a shortage of pre-paid meters which means that park companies send estimated bills which consumers count cross-check. they don't know the are right i mean they do understand the procedure to engage and then just. measure what it does get
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a. website has a 1000 subscribers including officials from park companies and the electricity commission mini-cons us right in seeking advice where he come and did it he speaks to them directly and listens to the complaints of many. i know your commute home and you're like oh my god i don't know what's next in my request. or you know how i you know enjoy it and then they do believe that a reliable pass apply is something everyone should have access to because sometimes it's more than the cost of a haircut but a matter of life or death. kind of mired out the loss of the baby because there was no life and. so those 2 suspects are white of very basic rights. and like their bitching it's something that millions of nigerians hope to one day
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be able to have. i think it's really sad that we africans are so used to power caps that we accept them as normal and we asked you our viewers how this is affecting you in your daily life let me read some comments here hills direly says you remind going to hands of our plight from 2015 till 2018 we had frequent power cuts which we named saw literally flip on flip off day russia to russia says we have no light in cameroon it has become a normal thing. well we wanted to know more about the causes of this problem and so we sent our very own christine moonwalk to south africa and here she is with us rick abate from soweto johannesburg. the 77 percent is in seoul which so now around the world $800000000.00 plus people
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do not have access to electricity in 3 quarters of those people in africa so i'm joined by my panel today on this today st debates to discuss how we can bridge that gap and having everybody have access to electricity so i'm going to start with my 1st panelists here sheeple more just lay out the scene for us right so this is south africa just lay out the electricity supply issue. electricity distribution in south africa is currently monopolized by a one state owned entity called eskom and their very infrastructure that spans across the country and with that infrastructure they've warned on to connect over 90 percent of the south african population on to the grid now this is a fundamental shift from the connection or their rate of electrification pride the dispensation of democracy in 1904 where we only had 30 percent of the population connected to this very human guys face us in prison stripes the last 25 absolutely i do want to come see a rise because the electricity situation we open the discussion and we talked about
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the fact that majority of this country is electrified right 90 percent now the 10 percent of people who don't have electricity most of them happen to be in roll areas why all rural communities ostracize when it comes to the supply of kinds of very vast continent with a local population density in certain areas ok so here in south africa the people that we're trying to reach one not electrified it's difficult to reach them with our existing solution which is the utility grid which means that we need to start focusing on new technologies and innovation solutions from africa for africa they can address these. pacific problems ok the problem with having international ekta is coming to africa and relying on them because they lack local insight that's why we need our local people who understand the situation better meaning no one else we're living in it to come forward with solutions ok so let's leave that there but i wonder come over to you blood rufus because you are of the view that electricity
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nobody should have to pay for that explain that for us obviously right now with the status quo as it is right our government is failing right for you to have electricity you've got to have big pockets for it does help us understand just how how crippling it can be when people don't have access to see we're talking about something that the united nations has defied is a basic human right ok it affects the cooking. it affects your bottom the morning it affects your health basically launch not enough for the human dignity ok to see you want to come in. so i wanted to touch on the health aspect as picked out rufus spoke about because you know there are some places where by without electricity the sanitation doesn't work so it's just so it just goes to show that this whole issue of electricity it overlaps into other areas that we also need to take into account so we happened to be in
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a community here and so and so. the government doesn't supply electricity people but people have got on it have made what illegal connections just explain to us what how dangerous are these illegal connections they extremely dangerous because they are sometimes weighed by the cable will be laid across the road and it's exposed and there was a community called great whereby we had cables live cables hanging across. the actual school where by kids actually were there and attended classes and it wasn't safe and it is next to their play area we actually play so it is very very dangerous for them ok i saw you wanted to come in they were going to have to keep training about things that the most important thing is that we need to learn how to train africans like you said you know create solutions for africa so i think that the best way to really speeded up is to encourage a culture where we support our youth we train them up we develop them up we encourage them to be very creative and most importantly stay in africa and help africa because i think the biggest problem is we've got all our talent fleeing only
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you know oh right ok i'll come over and then i'm coming back at raise. yes wanted to quickly make a point about like leap frog and we've already seen africa like leap frog in terms of like technological infrastructure there weren't many like fixed telephone lines in africa but we saw africa really come through and you know take up telephones you know and phones have been like a key way for africans to stay connected so that is possible and you know the financial cost doesn't have to fall on individuals but that if we were to allow communities to collectively you know own the energy generation sources we can effectively transition away from fossil fuels. the proof is so huge you're passionate about this you're an activist community are you convinced about what you're hearing and is this something that you would for example take in seal community and convince people about look there's one thing that keeps ringing in my
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head. affordability affordability affordability that is my that is my biggest concern but. yes like i mentioned initial investment is a big concern for me if you walk into a helpful for example just behind me right as soon as you start talking money. that becomes a bit of a concern right theoretically. i see it working right track to like you gentlemen mentioned that education. but education is very key and it has to start from like you said from school ok one of the things that rufus talked about it is affordability but help us understand the urgency off this ride it's not a nice to have do we want soda what do we want to use fossil fuels opposite to stand as we as we close this discussion taking everything you've heard i think the
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arguments have already been made because the costs of renewable energy has plummeted in recent years. it's a no brainer honestly for governments to actually scale up and renewable energy investments and really not to go for fossil fuel based energy generation the point i'm trying to make your is that our economies are going to be decimated if we don't act soon ok so with those with acts soon if this is where we end today st debate but of course this discussion doesn't entail we're so interested to know what you think about what you've heard today and perhaps how it applies to the country that you know and this is the street debate insulation it's been good having your company. thank you so much christine and everyone who took part in that debate if you want to see a long version you can check it out on you tube and while you're there be sure to subscribe to our channel a stable power supply is crucial especially now in this digital age we met video
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game fans and i worry coasts a power cut is the last thing they need. every afternoon this video. district is packed with young people coming to school. 35 year old. is the founder of this digital playground his passion for video games began when he was a child. i think i was around 4 or 5 years old when i started at 1st we were just watching all the big brothers play so that's how i started by watching it then as i grew older i played more i played a lot of university. passion into a profession and he had his fingers firmly on the pulse of the booming sector competitive video gaming also known as the sport. is rapidly growing in popularity not just in ivory coast but. in less than 10 years it went from being purely
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a hobby to being at the center of international competitions with big prizes up for grabs. but to keep you competitive video gaming is starting to become a thing here the mindset has to change because video gaming is now an international industry the important thing about e-sports is that it has the capacity to attract huge audiences who come and watch a bit like other sports today some games can attract the millions of people who connect online just to be able to watch others play just as well. as the average salary of pro gamers around the world can range from $1000.00 to $5000.00 per month . the best of the best make even more. 1900 participants. top sports world championships shared at $34000000.00 prize pool. in an industry that is gradually providing more jobs african players are dreaming big. boys i want to
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take it to the next level i don't just play to have a player to be the best and to be the best one must play again and again. here he can test his skills and compete with other games around the world. globally the gaming industry has doubled in size in the past decade generated over $120000000000.00 in revenue last year alone. he dick wants to build the biggest gaming community in africa he networked with local startups to help them identify the needs and promote their ideas on the local market. if you can. imagine you're starting to see a number of local studios working in the gaming sector the main goal for them is to create content that reflects a constant. platform games like growth force and semblance which were made in south africa or the action role playing game already and from coming runes were huge successes for now the market is still small but thanks to gaming. this could soon
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change its message is clear africa has entered the game. so how's it going in your relationship right now our sex and relationship expert has things like oh but 900 pandemic has put a lot of stress on relationships couples are fighting there's no more sex because one partner is depressed or has lost their job like you even has has some advice. i think it's pretty good likelihood for a pic of crazy what is it what's going on what's happening talk to me. we all know we can't take it anymore josh is driving me crazy too. ok the tale was happening well you know we've been together for like almost a yemen and everything was going great but once the lockdown started things just started to change with him especially after he lost his job. sounds like you
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grieving and i can't imagine what you're going through is easy but i think you think if you're just saying i've i've tried i've tried to make him comfortable about the situation i'm still able to cover the bill. i just don't get it he's become so dead and he sits in front that he all day we haven't had sex in months. i just don't know what to do more have you tried having an open conversation with him because he didn't tell me why do you have what did i think you were dr bob. that's a tough one but also quite common i mean i think josh might be depressed. maybe a form of intervention might get someone professionally preferably come to use that to have a conversation between the 2 view you know because you know some men struggle to open up because they think it makes them look we can we have the patriarchy to thank for that maybe he feels like he can no longer act the provider which also traditionally is expected of men. but he needs to learn that he still value given
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time and opportunity to heal i think that's the best you can do but what if nothing changes oh oh if you refuse to listen then it's on you you have to decide if it's the kind of environment you want to foster relationship is going to happen next time things go tough you need to take care of your own mental health too. i suppose that makes. but what about for us the heck the high rate in the. early after my rapist is totally normal to lose your sex drive would be about right from depression believe me but we're patient with him you know but in the meantime 2 you can meet your own needs ok ok. ok that makes that ok enough about me how about you that when you do we owe i'm going late. oh. hey everyone hope you enjoyed that little skit if you have any questions
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concerning sex and relationships please don't forget to write in to the 77 percent til next time from the cast goodbye. and we're not done talking about sex. i know it's a subject that is still much of it and i don't remember ever talking to my parents about it now in several african countries women are taught how to a long gait their labor it's supposed to make sex enjoy it not just for the men but for the woman as well in rwanda we met one woman who was an expert in the traditional and controversial practice of. on the streets of kigali you wouldn't expect to hear the words clear. but you would if you follow the. you tube channel that doesn't shy away from to relating to sex or the female body. her expertise is. the traditional practice of elongating a woman slave yeah. i wonder this but so many people are calling me with the
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break quest to talk about because there is a lot they need to learn i am here to help young girls with various problems how to use it can look in the hope. that. things problems in the bedroom sexual frustration and divorce playgroup wonders modern urban society because mothers and aunties no longer have the time to teach their daughters traditional values so she's taking matters into her own hands. she runs the workshops for young women and girls who each pay her $150.00 euros over a period of $4.00 to $6.00 weeks in small groups the women learn how to massage and pull their. opinion to be considered the proportional measure for the lavi a menorah is your finger both lavey a menorah ought to be this length you see. the wood you pull the lady a one by one or do you pull both at the same time. for these women it's about male
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and female pleasure and most importantly about female ejaculate. which involves stimulating the critter as something men are traditionally. told to do. a man must know how to move his penance upwards like that on this clear terrorists so that the water starts flowing making the vijaya know what. there is no scientific evidence that stretching the libya actually enhances female pleasure but many people here believe it still. has its critics many young people argue that a practice which. should be her choice not because her husband or society expects it. i think it's a good thing but again. if my wife or if my girlfriend wants to do it
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if it doesn't have any bad influence on her health i support it but personally. i don't mind with her or without. many of the students come here to prepare for an upcoming marriage some admit it was their husband's wish but whatever the young woman's motivation is that he has no trouble pulling her classes and her students to. always wanted to visit kenya and it's a shame that i've never done bad given that i grew up in neighboring tanzania well for those of you like me who have never been to war here's a tour of the city by someone who knows very well. i did get over it and get an infidel and that would be a different story in my sleeping bag but i know. what i believe
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a good mom but then you get to know my. mom is king yes oldest and 2nd largest city historically it was a good way to east africa and just emission for seafarers from europe asia and the arab oil the result of cultural melt import and home to swahili culture cappiello was raised in this bustling town music echoes the full flavor stop as songs it's momentous to how did. you know. you could turn back and i realized i posting the edge of. so my life on hold. while they are so you can see just like hold your head so you can go find. the asphalt there so i. just
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continued it for you. like us loaded weapon on time music she loves to explore her hometown the 1st that's the mission is the heart of mumbai the eccentric old town known for its narrow streets and the 16th century portuguese built for it right now i'm here at the old town one of the most visited places here in mombasa because therefore it is this which was built in the year 1593 by the portuguese as their military base whoever had control of before when i was there british ruled mumbai today it's so you must go well heritage site but mombasa is famous for more than just its money rates and this town there is always. heavy with the scent of spices and also a troupe of buffalo cold he loves most where to get the best ingredients. from close to 10 cinema you can find everything here. the
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spices that you see here are mainly books by the arabs and the europeans and the indians and we have lived up to their cultural places because it makes our food tastes really good and how that beautiful flavor is the best places to relax in my speeches. you can bury your feet in the sun and watch the waves cool by if you're feeling the french just like you can try something new. the sunset. shows us once again why kenya. is the best place to unwind and come to see him music in the film much more he.
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