like this is already satisfied. for tourists that day from you off even if you introduce new ideas. but i'll carry on until i find a way. to test them classy and chided. giving up is not an option for. who is moved by the sheer number of women in need of help she now wants to try crowdfunding. for. being unable to exit an abusive relationship can have fatal consequences. high risk relationships can end in manslaughter or murder an area in which jane mountain smith has discovered recurring patterns the criminologist applies those insights to so-called cold cases very often domestic abuse murders can look as if

there they just happen spontaneously 2 people have had an argument and this is just come out of the. goodness me you know this is just a mistake but that's not how they happened she established an 8 states pattern of progression in the escalation of abusive relationships in many cases the man will have a previous record of violence the initial romance rapidly becomes a serious relationship the abuser exert control over his partner emotionally financially and socially and events such as a separation makes the man feel he's losing control the situation escalates into stalking or threats of suicide the man changes tactics as he seemingly leaves the victim alone but now he's planning murder and carries it out. alexandra sandham has been assisting jane monckton smith on an unsolved case dating back 3 years when his wife died the husband insisted it had been an accident. what

did the police fail to see if we couldn't find an explanation as to why he got the and and he now at the same time that she got it how did why was that why was that even possible and that's when we started to say much is a track in a fan has he got the cash and software is everything that she getting also being sent to him. because actually that is that is a huge step and it's classic stalker behavior they want to know how absurdly everything is 90 percent of femicide cases are preceded by stocking me the police subsequently arrested the husband in question why couldn't they see that this is a homicide that's that needs to change doesn't. that lack of suspicion because curiosity with her model the police might have intervened in advance and in time i see i gave us

a free flight running now we know now that's why probation officer laura donnelly has been using the 8 stages to train her team while you can you mean i'll tell you finding that your. prison office isn't professional to see you sitting there yes most definitely is a little yeah i've had some feedback from them about how useful that finding at us really cute but it's often difficult for the police to get a read on abusive relationships and early detection scheme helps to ensure action is taken immediately so we obviously did and trained over a 1000 start on your 8 stages so they love the fact that it's simple but really really supportive in helping in their risk assessment and some individuals with a history of domestic violence are given special attention by probation officers this one here the british police now see stocking as an early warning of potential violence the trick is stage is another one that people have talked really given

good feedback about because triggers is where we can identify those and then hopefully intervene at that point in time so it's about recognising what action we can put in place when those triggers come about everybody's aware and that's the thing it's the stages as it was just puts it into an order for you because we all know the signs i think when i 1st spoke to you about the stages that was what really came across to it was like a light bulb where it wasn't something new but it was something that was structured and formed in a way that really helped clarify my thinking that was absolutely fabulous jane martin smith is convinced that understanding coercive behavior can help victims. now the 8 stage model provides help on the ground to prevent them aside. in the german city of. campaigners are hoping to recruit men for the cause.

it's training night at the local rugby club. and sabina schlegel are here with an idea. it was a beenish leggo is one of the coordinators of a local antiviolence association. her team is launching a poster campaign aimed at boys and young men. but one simple feel what's important for you about the subject of domestic violence is if the why do you want to get involved in it but also why for me violence is never a solution whether it's a push or a slap or an actual punch. domestic violence always takes place with the curtains closed in private at home where nobody else sees it that's why it's important to stand up and raise awareness about the problem by making it public. the campaign is

about taking a stand for you quality breaking down stereotypical gender roles challenging the power structures that enable and encourage violence against women. the no domestic abuse project in march 1 european union funding it has the support of the city authorities as well as local groups the women helping women association provides counseling and support and a youth conflict prevention group works with perpetrators. the latter works with behavioral training for 6 months participants attend a program headed by constant dragnet and sabina schlegel today they're reviewing the results of the most recent group session. that they were in violence but they don't write what the violence actually is. and looking at this group is what we have told me that yes. many abusers feel no guilt if anything they say they were provoked as this is when you get the classic response i was asleep at the hand they

need to understand that the hand is not in a vacuum in the it up there is somebody behind that hand and that's the 1st step towards accepting responsibility. today cost and dead now has a last meeting with a former participant. most of the men who come here are sent by court order this man who wishes to remain anonymous is one of the few to have registered voluntarily you can see how well you make it to see very good i've been doing a lot of thinking and i've realized a lot of things nothing that. stress and how about stress do you recognize it in yourself. yes and i sense what the other person is feeling and it's a bush people so if there's an argument it's best to leave. it's things like that i put into practice and i notice that it works pretty well. in his case the assault

occurred one evening 2 years ago after an argument that took place when he was drunk is this it would be too is it escalated down then she went outside and tried to call the police and it was just the one punch but it was one too many and it really landed. he broke the woman's jaw and spent the night in a police drunk tank. he was shocked i was shocked that i was able to do such a thing. and it showed me i immediately needed to get help in the mid on his the behavioral training program requires the men to work on themselves another aspect of violence prevention if we can't reach everyone with just one tiny piece in a mosaic a network of domestic violence help systems and we're pretty limited are you go. back to the rugby club where players pose for the new posters. that guy will be

here or the light is in the foreground with the panorama behind him you know. the women's team have already posed for the photographer now it's the men's turn with the team spokesman at the center. you're challenging this. you're a wall saying you'll have to get past me 1st. tough guys making a tough stance on what some people see as a women's issue and challenging entrenched stereotypes of gender roles. that. this is not something women's it's you know it's up to the feminists to take care

of thank you many many. countries joining forces to help reduce violence in relationships this is not a tipping you subject for that affects us all the. yeah. as a gift card to the many posters who we need me. it's 2 we have. in total $109.00. in munich alexander and almost on go now want to recruit local bakers for the 1000000000 rising campaign the plan is to distribute specially designed paper bags and baking goods bearing an anti-violence slogan. yes which one do you want in our shops. what do you think of this with this one you can see the individual craftsmanship that one is printed. this meant to you have to

post his influence in the shops anyway so that something will stand out. so. they'll be printing and distributing 120000 paperbacks as part of a campaign to mark the international day for the elimination of violence against women as good as. imposition is it that will be a bit longer so we can fold the top so. have you only one in 5 women who suffer violent assaults seek help. now i'm going to say we're. we have a very high proportion of women in our shops and they're going to talk of course this is an issue that tends to be hushed up we should all be doing something to increase awareness so honest. talking about it helps with the show that women in germany now speak an octave lower than 10 years ago that's because they have more self-confidence but if you

have a well now they say stop that's going to. that this woman didn't used to say that it's not. it's a growing global movement calling for gender equality while also combating one of society's greatest evils. ending violence against women as a cause that's worth fighting for. and until my dying day i'm going to be 100 percent committed to changing people's mentality many to empower people to intervene which means teaching them to stand up and take action by playing and it's an issue that deserves public attention 50 each and every day i answer them talk.

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