totally closed. the hymen lives somewhere around here at the entrance to the vagina . it's more like curing of a very berry and less thick skin if you have badge no penetrative sex or you must have a that then it's going to be stretched and if it's not stretched for a while then it's going to go back to the original shape. it might look like a band of tissue across the center ring shaped like a scene or like a crescent to name just a few possibilities. there are a few girls though that do have a high min that's close to. it's not so typical or doesn't happen so often a close time one can make problems when men straight because then the blood can go out from the try and up but that's not a big problem you just should be seeing a doctor who's going to open it a little bit and then everything going to be fine. what's important here

it's perfectly natural and normal that your hymen has holes and your hymen is always there you don't lose it it just stretches but it stays where it is so it's total nonsense when people talk about breaking the hymen or popping the cherry but that's really absurd forget about that but just a big lie no one can tell from your home if you're a virgin or not that's just not possible because it can also be a stretch with other things like for example with sport. but still there are these very expensive surgical options to reconstruct the hymen. they say they glue are so your membrane back together. this arteries are nonsense there is not something like the one shape of the hymen so if nothing has to be broken why. should we remove something. some girls also put capsules of

artificial blood into their vagina to simulate bleeding. you don't know what's in these rarely crits so they were trying most a very delicate and complex system i don't think it's like we take the stuff it with things which could be toxic. so why do some girls and women report leading after their 1st time having gradual sex according to studies it's still about 50 percent in fact the hymen doesn't have many blood vessels it's rather lacerations in the vatican or wall that lead to high men can bleed if you don't pay attention if you're to quick or to rough or just don't use enough. but actually it doesn't have to the problem is that if everybody is telling you that it's gonna be late and hurt you're not even gonna try to be cautious so just

relax because the patient and enjoy it. and don't let guys think they need to play the night with the sword because there is nothing to cut or break. we must not forget that sex can be a very very nice and fulfilling thing if it's consensual so let's talk about consensual sex what's your experience in the groups you're talking to. i think the most important part is to remember sex is always consensual if it's not consensual it's not sex that it's rape or. it's something that you have to ask for or you have to get from. so is it just that you have to give permission to do this or is it the you have to give permission to yourself that you're ready to have

sex we have a method called the traffic light we use for the youth it's about if you read the in your heart and your heart and belly and then your genitals so you ask yourself do i like that person can i trust that person i want to my friends say. is this person going to hurt me. what does my headset what was my thoughts about this person and if you took a look at your partner is it ok just to watch for the signs that your partner's penis gets hard why did you have to ask for consumption no so we teach the kids that it's important to communicate and always communicate i think there's a lot of times when you have sex where you don't talk that much because you're caught up in the thing but it's actually very important to talk about it and it's ok to say you know yes absolutely. sometimes you're in the middle of it and then

you're just like oh and i don't want to have sex anymore and then you just communicate and you're like ok stop i don't want it anymore and then the partner has to stop because it needs to be consensual so every in every situation both need to agree ok it's right sex right now during the whole time you would know say well in my partnership something is not going all right so so i think this is not consensual is there any help i can get from from a 3rd party. there is a lot of advisory places where you can go to. i'd recommend to talk to older ones which do have much more experience and you can for sure just talk to your partner as well about things that are unclear i'm sure. you can talk to your friends to know call needs might be a. minium depends how close you are with the more maybe your cousin someone who

isn't but further away there is a lot of possibilities but there is also organisations that specialize in the so you can also get professional help if you feel like you've been raped or it was not consensual and i think a lot of people have been presenting the whole of the sex life should be in the times of the into that there's a lot of promote graffiti going on so maybe. it's shaping the sex life a bit what do you think about this in concern to consensual sex it's always difficult because you have these expectations from pornography and then you have your own sex life and we have a method where we let the kids draw a romantic scene on a piece of paper and then we tell them ok. let's make a porn scene out of it so then they're going to draw cameras and lights and everything and then they're like oh no it's not romantic anymore this is not sex

and then we say yeah that's exactly it it's just 2 people that are paid to have sex and there's cameramen and there is everything around and it's all scripted but it's not how real sex works welcome of a few not only shapes all sexuality it also has side effects like dysfunction so let's have a look at what an expert has to say on this. and there charlotte has been a couples and sex therapist for more than 25 years and recently her clients have been having new kinds of problems either they feel overwhelmed by online sex and are now no longer interested in it or they've never had sex with a person in real life. but the sexuality we experience in the digital world often makes it impossible to have sex within a relationship. as online sexuality is often

pornographic. and people get the impression that they can demand a whole lot. they can have very high expectations. but can give very little in return. those who seek her advice often feel sexually exhausted and washed up. overwhelming technical distraction makes it hard for them to get to know others and flirt. if it does own vision and for quarter you can become a bit of an idiot when it comes to seduction if you have the impression that you can have everything. but you only need to get very little in return to commit another human person when you come into contact with a real person and your expectations are very high but your skills are very limited in his eyes as a guy and you no longer know how to approach this other person and. you also don't

know how to get this other person to have sex with you music so. those who satisfy themselves sexually in front of a computer not only risk not knowing how to seduce others but they're also more likely to have trouble performing. if someone sits in front of the computer and masturbates not just once but several times for him and sometimes for hours and they may still have an orgasm in front of the computer. outside in the real world with a real partner if you want there's so little stimulation that the person doesn't even get aroused when you don't even young men can have problems getting an erection because the attractiveness of a totally normal woman or a totally normal man is no longer strong enough to say activate the somewhat contaminated brain it was 1st choice to go on to active young. some event where

child's clients are under 20 years old men who are exhausted from constant masturbation and young women who don't know if they're normal if they don't constantly want sex another problem singles looking for a kick with constantly changing partners and couples who are no longer interested in each other. bust up i see it is us what's happening is that the connection everything that makes up into personal experience gets lost for long we don't feel we don't smell we can't touch. unfasten a lot is missing from this sensation. was. some kind of sexuality with one another for the part very quickly and the cycle. people drift apart. and each person withdraws in philly the sexually into the digital world having sex with themselves . or many people leave their relationships and have affairs with people they've met

online. but the constant availability of material also leads to over stimulation and relationship stress. these are all phenomena that sex therapists like and they are shot i mean creasing the dealing with. bottoms hoddle and if we have a sense of entitlement that we didn't used to have. we want to experience things that perhaps we'd only seen online as you know in pornography. we want to do what we see online in real life we also want to experience these things or so there's more variety of. this kind overburden your partner perhaps doesn't have the same desires and thinks of this and you don't want to experience this with me you just want to reproduce what you've seen. best marched in sexual desire can retire.

by abstaining from the no graffiti and taking a break from the constant the available online temptation instead spend time with your partner. you. let's recap sex can be a wonderful thing and it can be a fun thing if you know your wishes and if you respect those of your partner and when you do it do it in real life see you next week until then let's try to stay in good shape.

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