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no law has been passed yet, most of the good. now the uncertainty is advantageous for some of them. and this continues to the state has absolutely no control over the reproductive programs on offer russia fastening control up until now, many issues have not been clarified. for example, what happens to a child who is born disabled and whose parents do not come to pick it up? in ukraine, the law only stipulates that surrogate mothers must have at least one child of their own. and that intended parents are not homosexual. and must have had at least 4 failed artificial insemination like ins and denise my it's not for them. the big day has come have never been so excited. their daughter was born 3 days ago. they were not allowed into the hospital because of corona today. the hand over is to take place in
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a hotel right after their daughter's birth a d n, a test was able to confirm that their daughter was a genetic match. in a few minutes, they will see their child for the 1st time. then the car finally arrives with their daughter. lo huh. an employee from the agency has brought the baby here from the hospital. 2 here, hello, telling to having she
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has your hair. she sleep soundly just like her daddy. place. we're very happy. she's already had her 1st check up from the doctor. so far everything looks good. she's healthy. he's already 80 something. and good healthy. i'm tied against and denise vice, now i have to stay in ukraine for another 3 weeks. they still have to visit the authorities and the german embassy. so that allow becomes their daughter by law. they will also meet their surrogate mother. you will. yeah. for the 1st time me uriah my income lives in a village,
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3 hours away from kias. just 3 days ago, the 30 year old returned here from the clinic. she's already been a surrogate mother twice. she has a husband and a 7 year old daughter. together the small family lives in cramped quarters and her parents small home doing a class with you to all. this is my daughter's desk where she does her homework. discuss by now this or not. we sleep here. stock this on us and this is our living room. he and my brother's room this my daughter stuff is over there.
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it's a run. your screen could be like a bell about this bear. when i came home from the clinic and cooper that i put, it's a gift for my daughter. well, the good the, because i was away from home for so long, but me at the 1st photo of my daughter with my husband and mother in law crying tears of joy at the time. i guess it's like that with your 1st child. just a week ago she was still pregnant with denise and jens madness, baby girl. her family has mixed feelings about her job. i will go to the school, of course my husband was against it, but i talked to him, explained everything to him. and then he understood it really well. bob falls into more sees what i do pretty negatively, you know, because he does not understand how you can give away a child that has been growing inside. you know,
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because i stand by what i do doing that this child is not mine. i'm only carrying it for other parents better for you know, we have a suit keep vendors out of after the birth i blood a lot and wasn't conscious for almost a day. oh, i had general anesthesia and never saw the child feel like this is not my child. louis i have to buy and so i have no special feelings toward her from somebody. my mom, my mother and my 3 sisters understand that because me and they always knew that i could build a new house with the money from the 3rd to see. that's why they didn't ask many questions. thought up by the senior. just our also particular neighbor
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right. next to her parents home is her late, grandmother is small house, you know, wants to move here with her husband and daughter very soon. oh, nice is we just, you know, now we're in the kitchen and that's where the shower goes, the think a fridge. that's basically everything, but in to be sure this would this, this will be our living room. and my daughter's room, my would have gone for a roared, i've got all of this, the surrogacy money to get a new way to get with them. and then as we finally, we will be able to live alone as you go when you go, but i'll be independent. i won't have to listen to anyone. nobody can tell me what to do. i don't know, but we've been planning a long time for a little kingdom of our own. thanks to the 3rd of the money we can now realize our
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dream of finally becoming independent from our parents, were present to the the, the people in the village know about her work as a surrogate mother. you will, ya has never hidden it, but she knows that there are still many prejudices. that's why she doesn't want to show her family or her daughter in front of the camera. i had thought, there is hardly any work at the moment, especially for young people. that's my young mothers decide to work as surrogate mothers, so that they can provide for themselves. and their families usually has
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received 16000 euros for her work as a surrogate for the german couple. that is several times. her husband's annual salary junia is still considered the child's mother under german law. that is why she will soon need with denise and jens meisner and for the 1st time. see the baby girl lau. ha that she gave birth to. ah, the german embassy in kiev, one week later. this is where the ukranian surrogate mother and the german parents meet for the 1st time. you ya has brought a gift for the baby, a traditional ukrainian dress. that's very sweet, very sweet. thank you very much. is on this way. why? my month? you we, my husband is with you. yeah. sorry. good. my thought at the german embassy. we as julia is now grant,
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my husband power of attorney said that he can determined that we can leave without a b and then decide everything in germany without alignment. all right now and the german law and nobody to address in germany. i have to adopt her because according to german law, the mother is the person who came to the child and only ukrainian birth certificate is the child's genetic make up the count. and that way and smile for the german couple. the 1st contact with the surrogate mother feels good. has did he let mine will not. so it feels that she has spent the last 9 months with this app because she was always so present even without us being here with all your ways carried on our and i, when we actually got to meet her in person, i might be puzzled. and then you think, my god, how do you even say thank you. i hope that she's for just grateful has to be done for
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me. 2 weeks later, you am not vanco returns to kiev. once again, she has to confirm to a notary and the registry office that she is getting loud up for adoption. and that the child is allowed to live in germany. for the 30 year old, this is the end of her role as a surrogate. she just wants to buy a gift for her own daughter, and then go straight home with those from a ha, i'm glad that i helped these parents give birth to a baby girl. i'm really happy that they have this little bundle of joy that's done with their shots. so that way, if long research get mother's understand that we are able to make these parents
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happy. after all, i am a mother. i have a child too. for me, this is definitely such a great joy shot. this is the most precious and important part of a mother's life. you knew you would like to work as a surrogate mother again, but it's not possible. unfortunately, i will not be able to do this again. i bled a lot after this for teaching. the doctor said that i probably wouldn't have any or children of war. i future is my child rather than wait in the denise and jane's nights now are back in his and the 2 of them are open about the fact that a ukrainian surrogate mother gave birth to their daughter. they say they would have never had this opportunity in germany. listen,
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we just think it sat in the country like germany. that not all the possibilities are exhausted because yes, exactly. it's one of the most conservative countries when it comes to reproductive medicine. monday people always talk about wanting children and always think it run so much deeper than that up. and if you really want to have children, if you really want to be parents, if you just want to get hold of love, you have to little be that's not a wish. it's a basic need. surrogacy was the right path to take the course. he would have liked to burn the north and buy it in the end was the best thing that could have happened to us the best, the best contact they want to stay in contact with surrogate mother, he was young. their child should know that not 2, but 3 people were involved bringing her into this world.
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what's being done to protect them for on the w proper preparation. i would say i'm the roman legion, the we embark on an expedition into the room and the famous lines border gosh day tracy's room, and that's it. through germany checking the 60 minutes w o. the news i think is everything challenging. i'm making so much different culture between here and they're telling you everything.
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ah, i think it was worth it for me to come to germany. ah, shut them. i got my license to work as this morning instructor. and now i teach children don't as well as what's your story take part serious on info migrant dot net. ah, me me hello and welcome to echo africa. weekly environmental magazine produce delay go. come paula, on berlin. i am chris linds, the legal jury out. i'm being joined by my colleague sandra helen piece on the
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pillows everyone out there. very glad to help you with us. again. i am sandra to no view coming.

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