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oh, i use this week on well, stories. korina virus is putting tourist of travelling to portugal. see you guys taking over south africa. but we begin in india. children in foreign countries are the worst effected by the pan demik. also having to work instead of going to school, though they may not have fallen ill themselves, many have lost her parents and are in need of health for 9 years now, the people that had worked with children from under previous communities on a daily basis, she deals with children who have experienced creek laws and forced to grow up before they're ready. but since the outbreak of who with 19 their numbers are growing, children are being made to quit education and take up household responsibilities

and are also being pushed into child labor as their families have lost income. secondly, since they are spending a lot of time at their home, now many cases of child abuse are also coming up. having already been distribution lately affected by co would 19, many children are facing another tragic fall out of the funding. many have lots, mother or father are both leaving them extremely one that since last year the angel, a pretty world has provided support to talking children who have been offered you to call the 19, by helping them settling with their extended families. sooner opposing the founder of the organization says that while children who have been often have much stuff and need immediate attention, a more holistic approach is needed to address every child in distress. there is a lot of conversation about it often, but honestly, on the ground it such cases are probably 5 to 6 percent. the other 95 percent cases

that we're looking at is where the bed, the very best of these children are pushing them into sexual paid, transactional effects and child labor. the real issue really is to look at the vulnerability mapping of which child is in massive distress. and which side needs more support that there is a need for a more comprehensive approach is something that an iraq can do. probably the head of the deli commission for protection of child, right? also, i'm looking for something for 3 things need to happen. one, these schemes that provide the financial assistance to these families so that the basic subsistence is insured. the 2nd thing that needs to happen is the government have to explore ways of keeping the children in school, the toward either ensuring a livelihood for the family, or ensuring that there you start in different existing schemes of the government could be a russian or whatever. but ensuring the, the family has adequate means as an immediate urgent step. the commission has started

a health line for children in distress. back at the center pretty says that many children she meets with are in crisis right now. we've got a home because of it years of hard work that we and the children had put in seemed to have gone reached home. we are now trying to get them back to their studies and 2 different activities. we are trying to heal them and had them come out of the difficult situations. they were still brief. he says that despite their best efforts, it will be a long while before the children are able to cope with the heart. and the trauma that the panoramic has inflicted at the pressure on critical journalist says mounting in russia, where enters the student magazine doctor on the house arrest, thoughts for the young journalist except things censorship is out of the question. ah,

these 2 are getting married in moscow today. both of them wearing a dress. the students say they want to make a statement for tolerance, love, and freedom. the couple and many of their guests, right for the critical moscow student magazine dancer, including a katerina morocco, the 25 year old has been an editor for the online platform for 2 years. she says this wedding has raised her spirits. at the moment it seems like everyone hates each other. the government hates us and there is political repression everywhere. but love is also everywhere. ah, but there is a serious reason for the joyous celebration. the couple is marrying so they can't be forced to testify against each other in court. natalia, to kabbage and 3 other docs, the journalists have been accused of inciting minors to take part in unauthorized anti kremlin protests. an investigation is ongoing. for months now,

they've only been allowed to leave their homes for 2 hours a day. they face up to 3 years in prison. earlier this year, dr. reported about rush, wind protests in support of arrested opposition. politician, alexander, if only it criticized russian universities for pressuring students to stay home and not take part in demonstrations. like other media outlets doc. so then faced police searches and arrests, students and young people came out in solidarity with the journalists. but pressure on the critical media is growing across russia. several media outlets have been declared foreign agents flooded me or maybe y'all can is one of 4 docs, a journalist who could phase prison. since april, he has been under de facto house arrest. the 26 year old isn't allowed to use the internet and can only leave the house for 2 hours a day. he has to wear an electronic ankle monitor. to him. it was already clear

that this steam roll was rolling over more and more people putting pressure on them and that at some point it would get to us the flu. donor latimer lives with his mother. a russian human rights organization has designated him and the 3 other docs, a journalist as political prisoners. a katerina morocco is trying to keep them involved in the work of the magazine. let me know that any of us could have ended up in their place. the faster they got unlucky, it was just a coincidence. the only thing we can do is to support them as a caterina, says the journalist, a doctor, are not going anywhere. she says everyone who dares to be critical in russia has to make sure to stick together the after a long time. demick yes, many will looking forward to their summer holidays in portugal spots the sharp rise

and infection rates in the spring is putting tourists of depriving the country of an important source of income ah, the garbage. it's always been the heart of portugal beach tourism. even today, but not like it used to be. it's mainly the portuguese themselves, a few spaniards and some french tourists. in the many hotels along the coast lively beach life has turned into an eerie calm. because the sequence things 55 to 60 percent of the guests who normally spend their vacations here are foreigners from us. they come mainly from germany, the u. k and other countries. but they're not here now. it's not on cath. christina morero's sees the consequences when she takes a walk in the private roacha, empty and abandon shops. the tour guide tries to make ends meet as best she can. but also vance's 2020 everything canceled this year. so far everything's been

canceled. now i've had some work, but no tours of it. this is the kind of your morero's survives by giving courses for new guides. many people in the garvey don't have any income as the charity carriage house experiences deal with its food bank in port to mild mann watson because we're taking care of 480 families at the moment. that's 112070 people. during the 1st year of the pandemic, the number of people in need skyrocketed. this spring, the number went down as soon as the 1st hotels reopened and sought staff. but that buoyancy only lasted for weeks. things will tend to get worse again because he disappeared. the fence of german tourists are allowed to travel again might be too little too late. british tourist still can travel. the damage seems to be done.

until the pandemic struck 15 percent of portugal, g d. p came from tourism. that makes people all the more frustrated with the travel restrictions. we are seeing these ever changing rules and for answer printer, for the employees is very difficult to handle these new situations every week. 56000 germans planned vacations in garvey, for this july. that was before the warning. now, no one knows how many of those holiday makers will even show up the once a year. the minions of sardines migrate along the east coast of south africa, followed by the seals. shock. the tremendous natural thank tickle is a rich couch fishermen. provided they are lucky and act fast. this isn't an oil leak. it's a show of sardines, fishermen,

gerald michael and his team. a waiting for this warm yeah, that was within seconds. everything suddenly gets very hectic. right. one got a call thought in view, everybody got to read and shot. yeah, yeah, yeah, right. well every year between june and august, the saudi and move along the east coast of south africa following the cold currents in the indian ocean. bigger hungry fish, follow them. and so do the fishermen, the close of the shoals of sardines gets to the coast, the better the chances of catch a

huge disappointment when the net gets caught and breaks. most of the sardines get away. rough would of course it off with a few kilometers further on. another team has more like try and catch us. 150 grades worth of sardines in a net 2 thirds of the fish are sold for more than 2000 euros. the rest goes to the team, it took a chance to gamble and paid off. and like you can see the novice about the edge, you know, in the game, it's very dangerous. as you can see. having to myself, i had a cable go through molig. and that's the name of the game. we play with shocks, rocks, nets, rough seas, everything. but if you can get the fish, you can make some money. for gerald bucko and his team, the 1st thing to do is repair the net and then go home empty handed bed bed. jack

3 bed. everybody. i suppose a name gets it according to buckle. saudi fever should be around for a few more weeks. the news are you ready to get all these places in europe are smashing all the records into a venture. just don't lose your grip to the treasure map for modern globe trotter's cover some of european wicker breaking

and know also in book form. my 1st i think a sewing machine i, i found women are balanced by the ocean given something as simple as learning how to write a bicycle, isn't me. since i was a little girl, i wanted to have a bicycle off my. it took me years to finally gave up and went by me on my side. but return with the sewing machine going, i suppose, was more appropriate for girls than writing a button. and now i want to reach out to those women back home for balance by the social rules and inform them about that basic, right. my name is about people and i wore the me, ah, ah,

ah, ah, i was conceived from the sperm of an anonymous man. i found out he started maybe $600.00 babies. now some of my siblings are starting to show up. and they all want the truth of their origin. i always actually felt those physical pieces mean missing and donor can save. people are all too often told you should be happy to be alive. but i also have an innate desire to know where i come from. and who i come from, an anonymous donor can produce a 1000 children. so what was wrong with your child? gets a affective disorder, gets a for any bipolar disorder. and don't, i can see kids have grown up together without knowing they're related. i came in close contact with my siblings and didn't know,

i think i wanted the government in the anonymity of sperm donors. now of course, bloody motion continue to be human as to have a story. to have a story. one must have the true story. me. i began a long time ago in philadelphia in 18. 84. a wealthy couple couldn't get pregnant. so the husband went to see a professor of medicine. turned out the husband was in fertile gonorrhea. so the professor got him to send in his wife. clara warned her then without her consent he got his best looking student to go and masturbate. and he injected the sperm into her in front of the class. she got pregnant. sometime later, the professor did confess to her husband what he'd done. but the woman was never told, and neither was the son who resulted this set. the tone,

secrets lies, and anonymity. now there are millions of people we call donor concede. i'm one of them. me ok. my story so far. mm. my parents really wanted children. but my dad wasn't able to so they went to see a doctor, and she inseminated my mother using sperm from an anonymous man to produce me and my sister this was england and the 1950s. and it had to be a total secret. but after a dad died, our mother told me and my sister that secret i was curious who the guy

was, but they destroyed all the records. so i could never know until you could get basic dna testing from your blood. i met a man, david, whose parents went to the same doctor. and d n a revealed that david was my brother. he came from the same anonymous bio den. i was great to have a brother, but now i really wanted to know who i did was a lot of him is in me. we loved our fathers both of the said. so why does this to that connection matters so much faintest idea. but it does me, i did a lot of detective work. and with d n a, we figured out the guys identity. he was a brilliant scientist called there told visa the husband of the doctor who did the

deed and are biological father. i a david whose parents marriage was troubled. now remember finding out as a painful moment. i felt so angry. i felt so much that so many of the things i had found and still do find really frustrating in my own life would not have been frustrating. i know not. we found out the reason, i'm sorry, maybe 600 children during his life or even more. we may be the world biggest family . we only knew of a few siblings. but then came something new, inexpensive consumer and dna companies, you know, like ancestry dot com 23 and me people suddenly wanted to know about their ethnic origin or their health risks they sent in their dna. and when the results came,

and some of them got a big surprise, like they have a lot of half siblings. so far about 45 of my stamps have been identified. here are a few so what is it like to suddenly find out your dad wasn't your biological father. it's like you're standing only edge of the sea when you're paddling. and the way you go out and it pulls the sun for monday. that's what it felt like to me that the been a, a firm foundation and suddenly i've got to reassess everything. i felt this makes sense, but also coupled with this cement sense of loss. could it only been a year since i lost my dad? and they felt like i've lost him all over again. the recently, some of this big family got together. parties on this into

moving to me neutral, quite relaxing a group of people before the party give me a chance to talk to some of my students about how they felt about finding out the truth. i had a very nothing for me, but i think was 15, but suddenly i had a truth and authenticity which was liberating. it was like huge moment in my life. i danced around the flap. i was so happy why? this was a palm missing. i always, she felt those physical bits with me missing and it felt quite differently down the side of me. the hall area like i should say, it felt that wasn't there. i would like to have known. i think my parents should

have told me, i was enormously grateful that i was able to discover who my biological father was . and i can't really imagine what it would be like not to have been able to do that . i probably the, whatever that be. and so now the dna is revealing the secret. i think it's time to take a look at this question of donor anonymity because a lot of people want to know their genetic family is part of who you are. and also the secrets and lies they can cause real harm just as sort of ideas. it can be done with a few shakes of the rest. and that's it. nothing else that does the same data. there should be a bit more to it than that. i believe drug mr. fog of who knows could have been anyone except he never, it is always the doctor at the back. it seems to be i've come to ottawa to find out

about one of those doctors, brother graham is talking about dr. norman farwig. this is rebecca dixon, her parents side assistance from dr. darwin to conceive. i've heard he was called the baby god. yeah. people. people have called, i don't know who started. he was called a baby guard at some point, but they didn't know that they had a donor sperm. they weren't intending to donor sperm, they were having issues, but they went to see the doctor. i went into their understanding. he used my dads firm. i had always looked different from my parents and i was aware of that, and other people had commented on it when scandals with borrowing started to come out. rebecca heard of a young woman called cat palmer, whose parents were patients borrow and turned out to be her biological father. so rebecca did a dna test against kat and it confirmed already that we were we were half of

sisters. so bar when was rebecca is biomed to but there are a lot more than them. how many do you have? i have 18 siblings so far. you have 18 siblings and these are all from dr. baldwin . yeah. the doctor who treated the parents. yeah. used his own sperm. yeah. we found 19 of us where he used his own sperm without the parents knowledge. he is my biological father, but i don't think of him in that way at all. he was always the doctor. what helped my parents have me? and now i found out that he did it in a horrible way. also sometimes borrowing, secretly, you, sperm, me took from other patients without consent. all these lies have real dangerous cat and i are a similar age. there's about 6 months age difference. we found out that we went to the same high school for a couple of years. we thought about how easy it would have been for us to be

friends, but it could have also very easily been we started started dating or especially. yeah, it's, it's a small circle, like my family, rebecca and our new siblings have become close. and it's easy to exaggerate the importance of genetics. i found myself dealing with the situation where with my dad, i say it doesn't matter that we're not biologically connected. you're my dad, nothing changes that this other person who is my biological father doesn't really mean anything to me. and yet i'm saying at the same time to my siblings, we have this genetic connection. like, like love each other. that part of each other's lives. and i think it's okay that those 2 things are true at the same time. borrowing was not alone, quite a few doctors have been revealed by dna testing to have secretly used their own

sperm. most doctors don't do what borrowing did, of course they use sperm, banks, corporations, the ships perm around the world, millions of offspring, offspring to now. we don't know how many there is no central registry. nobody keeps track. nobody really knows how many offspring from one donor, but you think when a so called donor sells his firm, this farm bank make sure he is in super good health. not always. i've come to see angie i. i'm barry barry next to me some money. thank you very much. angie and her female partner use donor sperm to have

a child. they picked a healthy donna or so they thought well, what we found out is that he had several debilitating mental health issues. depending on which doctors diagnosis you were looking at, it was good. so affective disorder, skits a friend ya bipolar disorder. also narcissistic personality disorder was written in there. and then he had a felony from a break and enter that he had done. and there were other arrests along the way. they didn't, they get a medical history from this guy or did the guy just lie and they accepted the lie? yeah, they, they give them a questionnaire. they do call it a medical history questionnaire. and then they asked the donor to respond to a list of things. do you have this? do you have that? do you have this is a friend, is one of the things that he was asked, but he just checked it off. no, we notified them of our findings and they just told us we had the wrong guy. and

then they didn't notify anybody. was the donor still active? oh yeah, they called them out of retirement to joan each other, families that were waiting for 2nd or 3rd children on a waiting list. when you look at health canada as regulations, then i can definitely see why i was duped by this industry. because i mean, you can't even miss label the origin of a tomato, but you can miss label everything about a human being that's going to be creating another human being. and that doesn't seem to matter here. the thing is the law doesn't allow health canada to collect health information from donors. angie's kid is fine with only a small chance, there'll be problems. but if a donna has 50 kids with a 10 percent chance of inheriting disease, that's still 5 sick kids. the sperm bank say they're doing more genetic testing now, but in anonymous don't

a can still get away with lying years. some of the health problems kids have inherited from donors and some of died because they didn't have medical information. all this scares me about what my bio dad reason i may have given his hundreds of offspring. he actually had parkinson's, almost all the time. he was producing kid, my brother david and i meet up with my other brother david, who's been looking into the health risks in my dna. best and i'll show you elsewhere. ok, there it is. parkinson disease late onset susceptibility the parkinson's disease on another genetic test or another jane. gotcha. studies are visionary and like a star is definitely visa and because he had bargenson. yeah, you guys is really dark stuff. this one of the dogs to know the great news here and the gene set this man gave his other than that is fantastic. just the for crohn's

disease was committed is based on your personal genetics and genetics and environmental and viral triggers. you've got to know there should be no name, samuel, medically that's over. i'm finding out that almost all my serves think that the anonymity of donors is just wrong. now, of course, let emotion continue. everybody has the right to know who their logical parent was . definitely. i think for anybody's mental health, you have to write your own stories is very important for those of us who have been through this experience for any of us down for a moment that our common genetic background has meaning has significance would not which we give to it but which it gives to us most on a can see people seem to want the option to know their donors identity. and in the u. k. david and others influence the government to change the law and end anonymity

. since 2005 kids have the right to know their don't as identity when they reach 18 . in canada, in 2000 and 4th, we persuaded the government to do the same when people find their fathers or they find their relatives. these are tremendously important stories and i think they're important for a reason. i think it's a very basic year and then the government changed his mind. the doctors told him there'd be no more donors and in the us a well. and nobody has been standard in the sperm industry since the beginning one. and i'll tell, i don't have a plan for me since the start, everyone's thought that the only way a guy would donate sperm is if he could be anonymous, turned out that wasn't true. tim galaxy. why did you decide to be identified?

curiosity, i supposed to start with, but that at some point some portion of the kids would be interested in meeting me and i would be interested many of them. and so why not? my model actually picked. she tells me that's what she picked him because his voice according thundered really like 3. and he said that he wanted to meet the kids. she was she was raising us. i don't think i've ever pretended like be like her parent because i wasn't doing that work right. i didn't take her to school everyday to tucker at night, but you and your brother are not the only biological offspring that tim has cracked. how many do you have was that i've met? are 171717 told me he was joe, another one of jim's kids. or me every rents and cabins by a lake and spends a week with

a bunch of his bio kids. and just like in my own family, tim's offspring crossed paths before they knew they were related. i came in close contact with my siblings and didn't know their my like the guy that i worked with was on the same water polo team sawyer, boyfriend. so i, if i had hung out with him or i probably wouldn't met sawyer and not known she was my sister and danny went to the college that i lived on the campus of. so i probably passed him out of all his in post start to minutes for my house. all like, i think your brother, he's my brother. good thing. most of the day. yeah. tim wanted to be found by his offspring. but california cry bank his firm may. didn't want to help. in fact, these rules and things i had to follow to try to get any information. and what was it like i had the bottom line was they said they didn't know if they had my contact

information, but they would try let you know. yeah. call me back and they didn't. and they, they never gave you tens information. now even though he was supposed to be identifiable to you, yeah. and basically they told him, but they could not reach me. and so i called them up and said, relying, i've always kept you updated with my phone, my email and my spam mail address. and they chastised me for wasting their time, so it was clear to me they weren't interested in making or facilitating that connection, even though all parties wanted it corrected me . wow, really. more and more don't is willing to be identified to their offspring once their adults, when the u. k. ended down on emily, the number of sperm donors went up. other countries have also ended the secrecy.

some us banks no longer accept new anonymous donors at all. smart california cry bank, the biggest in the u. s. still has them. and they've agreed to talk to me. but at the last minute they cancel. they say they don't want to be part of my personal journey. anonymity means that a lot of babies can be produced from one man by, by a visa had maybe 600. but what if there's someone out there with an even bigger family? this is steve shelter. he's a body builder, a psychiatrist. and he used to be an anonymous sperm donor when i was the freshman of medical school actually, and medical school for me to be a sperm. i got started that time. i mean, it didn't help you financially in medical school, you know,

it actually. they pay $20.00, a donation to very quickly leverage that $40.00 and how many years you do this 17 years, all total. what my schedule one for twice a week, 17 years. but it's not impossible. you could have a 1000 kids or more. yeah, i think about the numbers in my head as possible. how do you feel about that? well, i guess non reality. and so i just can't imagine that i've got all these kids out there. so i've never really focused on what the numbers might be to be whatever bad term, and they might be, you know, over the years i've thought about sir, whether maybe some children out there and in prayer i would have to was blessing upon them. again, there's not having met anybody until recently. i just didn't really feel real. i

met dera, darren about a year ago. actually. yeah. how did you find a job? i just got onto several of the websites. the 1st thing that hit me was, was contacting me, is this kind of what, what, what did you say for money? well, you know, just everything was figured has all that was going through my you, how do you refer to him? my biological father, my friend, is become a really good friend and a friend of my parents as well was using a spurned on a difficult decision. theda. it wasn't for me, but all at jan speak for sale. a little bit some somewhat. i want to say more of the of a pride thing. you know, you wanted you it would be nice to have your own related child. so there was a bit of a loss. yeah. yes. so but you decided to tell you on the truth,

derrick was having some medical issues that i'd never experienced or had run in janet's family. and so that was probably the reason that we, we told derrick. so maybe he could do some research. and if you ever found out who's donor they had was, you know, that might help him give him some more insights into his medical issues. so may i ask what they were? i was having some allergy problems that made it difficult to swallow food at some point. and interestingly enough, that was, that was something that after i made the connection with steve that we kind of shared. and some of the families have that had that problem over the christmas holidays. i actually told steve, i said, well, we'll thank you for making it possible for us to have derek. i said, i think he turned out pretty well and i'm glad you are part of the,

the donor program. they're all that efforts that the medical community, sorry, went to, to keep everybody divided. wasn't actually that necessary perhaps. right. and when bob shared this was my response question is tremendous, blessing to me. for one god showing me that my prayers, he but hundreds more might be too much of a blessing and still wants to find out how many he has. so he's going to talk to one of the doctors he sold sperm to i think there should be significant limits to how many children, any individual donor can syiaa. if that is the word when you're talking, maybe hundreds of people that's, that's not good. i do feel there's something wrong about that number being somehow much higher than if it could be natural. this mass production, it makes you feel a bit like you've come of the production line of

a factory. how many women could be impregnated by one man. and conceive how many thousands, 2000. sure. yes, i can see the problem. yes. hello. is it? it is indeed very steven 0. are you not getting that? and this is as long as you know, they're never come to see the doctor. and one of the places steve donated in louisville, he's anxious to find out more about his hundreds of offspring. is 5 by wash time. run happened upon me about a year ago. a testing mediconnect he's, he's who told her simulation that's prompted me to ask questions. what was actually she's revived career as a sperm donor. you know,

all of this was done in a very anonymous fashion. all of parties were advised that the donor would not know who the couple was and vice versa. you know, the couples on the piece of man to know that one day somebody is not going to come up to them and say, and that's my kid and i want my kid back kind of thing. so at that time, we only use medical students and we didn't want them looking over their shoulder for somebody that perhaps then got divorced and wanted to sue the donor for child support or something like that. with donor insemination. some people don't want their child to know with other just regard to an agreement. you know, like i give you permission to tell. it's just coming out. it's popping out of the woodwork. derek has talked about how important this connection is with his dad. and ultimately, if he gets to know me, he'll get another dose of enrichment of this life meeting or dealing with people

enriches your life. you don't think there's anything special about the genetic connection. i'm not a psychologist. okay. i would, i would say that you would have to study and to see what you're saying intuitively . sounds good when put to the test, it may or may not. i'm not disagreeing, but i'm not fully agreeing with it either. when a person becomes an adult, there are some pretty good reasons that maybe they should know their family medical history. and so i mean from my perspective, i think people should be allowed to know at least kind of at that point. so actually, that's a question i have that. are there any such factors that might indicate anything about how come from my donations past in terms of privacy or pers, the answer is no. we did our best for

a long time to keep the records kept records in a safe event. i'm trying to think it was oh, 7 november that we had a flood in this building which took out 2530 percent of the building, including this whole suite. and we were out of the building for a well and lost some of them to some of it may actually still exist that we don't put away and yet to come out. sounds like one thing you would like to know from dr. levine would be the numbers that would be nice to know. yes. that, that would take some going. it would any possibility that steve could find out a bit more of that and see if he wants to make to take the next. we would have to chat about that one day over stating suburban or something.

okay, so yeah, you'll chat about it. i was thinking some bourbon losing sperm donor records seems to happen a lot in this business. so i've gone to colorado to meet wendy kramer. i've known wendy for a long time. she's one of the sperm banks. biggest critics. so good, didn't you? yeah. we were out have long before dna testing, wendy and i don't a conceived son. ryan started a website. it was called a donor sibling registry. d. s. our parents only know the anonymous donor by a number on the d. s. r. site spring can use that number to find other children from the donor with the same number. their siblings and thousands of donors also sign on to match their offspring. as our tim the donor and l a found his.