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america, they're using a variety of different campaigns, that big corporations find completely unpalatable. ramps in 45 minutes won't d, w. so we've got some hot tips for your bucket list. ah romantic corner tread hotspot for food chair and some great cultural memorials to boot d w. travel off we go. ah, from emotional abuse to physical assault and murder, domestic violence, his bar more widespread than many people realize, give out violence against women is the biggest economic there is that he's experienced by one and 3 women worldwide. all too often fatal outcomes are
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downplayed as family tragedies. why couldn't they see that this is a homicide? does that needs to change? doesn't that deluxe fisher not as curious? breaking the silence around domestic violence is crucial from an early age. just as guns class children are never tonight. if you guys remember that to the vice, it's time to end the violence ah ami stangler stayed silent during years of emotional and physical abuse to day talking about her trauma helps her he'll, she's now part of a global campaign, standing up for the estimated 1000000000 women suffering from abuse world wide shepherd, but you know, i've given it some for since we met yesterday august that said, ah, here germany,
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the munich branch of the 1000000000 rising campaign has organized dance. flash mobs on valentine's day to protest domestic violence. they're defeated against hold ones, and often they joined other groups in some 200 countries around the world, all dancing to the same choreography. yet 8th, the time, it's the 4th time alexandra, cougar, and warmish dongle are organizing the event here in munich. does he when clubs, wonderful. he class 1000000000 rising is this amazing power with dad was providing such a positive statement, a positive her educational spice instead of people just standing in protest with victims continue to be stigmatized. dimension or look is of how and this is simply about giving women the chance to dance together. to saddle, it had says my, this is libby want to bend and i will. the invoice was lively protests like the
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last one hell downtown on hold at the moment, due to the corona virus pandemic in ms. lynn. and that we have to find an alternative to, to handle the street address. i know with that i could make some inquiries with the buy in munich, womens team up. do you understand if they allow us to do the done during the half time frame, getting tons of income? speaking up on an issue that is often sidelined and silenced in germany, a woman is killed by a current or former male partner every 3 days. one in for women will suffer from some form of domestic violence at least once in her life. a phenomenon that impacts women across all social groups ami stangler wants to help bring about change. to day, she's taking action with a photographic portrait project. i kind of stood out as you can. i. i'm looking forward to what's in your folder, have some dr. sucks right among the thin own hor,
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takes photos of abused women for national geographic magazine except the thing i brought along a few photos to give you an impression. if i were to date her portraits bear witness to an ordeal that 45 year old kwame stumble knows all too well systematic abuse through humiliation, threats and physical violence. after 6 years of torment, warmish dongle left her partner. she's one of the countless women who experts designate as survivors the term speaks to just how difficult it is to leave a violent relationship. men coming this year to smudge decay, it's a gradual healing process. being able to tell yourself back, yes, this is what happened to me am. i can do something for the world by talking about it. him is triple pleasure. her ordeal began with verbal insults, but gradually escalated into physical abuse of her partner ended up locking her inside their home, manipulating her to such
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a degree that she believed it was her own fault. it's a typical pattern which basil beside finish or miss took less than help him still don't know why i allowed it to happen and how i didn't see that this was a physical abuse. i had a current one to show. so what i need, i did was able to deny me that me at, in, in so could look even let's, and gradually he made me dependent on christopher and mission and our parish cut him in. in the 1st year after we met in the courtship, i asked he really seemed to worship me to that sufficiently leaked and asked the other, he was a lovely man. he knew how to list on top of that also enabled him to find out everything he needed to know what happened in the years after that it was less than he knew where he could apply the pressure from conscious. eventually she left and found refuge with her son in a women's shelter in her work irina own who has seen society's tendency to blame the victim and relative vice the abusers actions. once he is this man is our, our, by my aim with this work is to help encourage people to become
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a veteran and translating the sphere vast. some of it's ridiculous to society not and look and see what's happened. nation and we all have a role to play the in fast passed. this is a structural problem isn't vehicle flagged as listened to toilets, problem? comb with home ish dongle is not just campaigning for greater general awareness. only nigel, and she's also setting up a project to provide immediate health to women who need oh, mattie. yeah. so said humor. and christina cops had taken to the streets of vienna . their goal is to encourage people to intervene, that they suspect abuse. inspired by a german partner abuse project called stop by here. who said, huh, decided to bring the concept to austria. ah, some cases of domestic violence do involve women as the perpetrators. but in 81
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percent, it's women who are the victims. the ham, yet we need to learn about how to intervene, uses as well. you have to try it out to see how it feels when you bring up the issue with someone with a lot of people who struggle to even say the word violence. that's something we want to practice is feeling in order to remove that fear we will die. one can be shy, math for raising awareness is important, but government involvement is essential since 2011 the istanbul convention on combating violence against women has been ratified by over 30 european countries. signatories commit to supporting measures such as prevention, through education, increasing shelter capacity, and ensuring effective punishment for perpetrators calling the istanbul convention and important breakthrough maria, who said humor, adds that implementation is often problematic. and fact turkey itself recently withdrew from the agreement, give out in full islands against women is the biggest and their make their
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realistic of how it's very involved by $1.00 and $3.00 women world wide build that in austria, one in 5 women suffer violence from their partner at least once in their lives, in agony, part of it often for seek language only the scale of the thing that motivates me to take action. i want to provide support and encouragement for every single woman out there. and she runs a group of women's shelters, as well as be honest, domestic abuse hotline and wants to expand these networks further. this hospital has a special program for training staff to deal with victims. sabina ceramic is the director of the victim support group. if i'm and explains what health professionals need to keep in mind when talking to traumatized women, this ticket is vital that you asked for their consent, right? the inch to move. the woman has to agree with everything you guys are doing to tooth deficiency route. so she's experienced a must have violation of her own boundary, safe issa. while it's common for victims to feel ashamed. it's also important for
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staff to properly document injuries. and does this did it? this is a close up of her cheek nose and i see her. we also have photos of injuries to her neck if your problem, dyslexia photos that constitute evidence for criminal proceedings. and godson from each new center is a separate vince very from a medical perspective. it's good to have a basis for the subsequent discussion. most lucas things go into movies. so we try to document the injuries inflicted on an individual as comprehensively as possible, even committee, so that she has the option of pursuing criminal charges. let us over once a month, there's an enter departmental meeting, ohio currently, the additional hurdles post by the corona virus or a major issue of concern for many women. the 1st resort for seeking help is a hospital. this uncommon in coming into hospital was so difficult that a lot of women didn't even try and it's probably
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a tom and his decision going to the hospital after suffering violence is a hurdle. and now to also have to go through the trash process at the entrance doubles that hurdle to hear that feel if a lot of women had no way of getting out if you, if they were unable to phone anybody for go to a shelter house, it was impossible to escape, which is while we've expanded our online counseling services, it's now staffed every evening from 7 till 10, and it's working pretty well. in the 1st 9 months of the pandemic, the hotline had already fielded over $1000.00 calls. studies showed that when quarantine at home is combined with financial worries and mental health problems, the risk of a relationship turning violent doubles. the pandemic is also an issue for the women who meet up as part of a local neighbourhood project. they gather every 2 weeks to talk about violent relationships, including their own were human thought. anita odda almost died when her husband
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assaulted her. after 28 years of marriage, she reported him to the police. yes ma'am, i was not military twice. i attempted suicide village, thus i leave me. i was ashamed of what had happened of the some blessing thing. unable to save myself and help my children with her and that i never set starts when he hit my children in front of me. mucous lout the haunt. it took a long time up here, but we made it off. yeah. yeah, i got it off also by the star project encourages vigilance and extending basic kinds of support. asking a woman how you can help or intervening with an innocuous excuse, such as ringing the doorbell to ask for a cup of flour. this led the perpetrator. no, the neighbors are listening and tells the victim that help is at hand. i can, oh perhaps i can ask a neighbor whether they also heard something on. it helps to have other people. if you're wary of doing something on your own, his mouse, jack of them, or in an acute case,
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it's always good to call the police and the bullet sets. this mother and child home in munich brings back memories, performing dongles. after spending 6 months in a women's shelter, it was here that she found refuge with her 5 year old son. specialty college cut. of course i feel the sadness to you. this was the place we felt free enterprise ankle. but her son was not permitted to stay with her following a court order that gave the father custody warmish dongle had not documented her injuries. and therefore had no evidence of the physical abuse. she suffered this as to the shelters full right now. that's good. now yes, we have a very long waiting list, sir. women typically have to wait 6 months for a spot here. unlike the high security women's shelter, they are allowed to have visitors. but winston brickley food,
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our focus is on helping women find stability and come on food and find ways of getting a new start in life. us hardware of my strength and what are my nights, my desire to do if it's also about bringing a bit of lightness into their lives, like dish title and sleep. something homey. sh dongle has spent 5 years planning a new shelter designed to give residence a feeling of safety as well as comprehensive after care. the local authorities have refused to support the project, claiming that demand for a place like this is already satisfied. mugot alpha toys that are often it's a sub you off even if you introduce new ideas and yeah, on dish she met at saw. but i'll carry on. i till i find a way of sticking slip isn't it has then clathy and chide it's giving up is not an option for kwame stangler who is moved by the sheer number of women in need of help . she now wants to try crowd funding
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ah, being unable to exit an abusive relationship can have fatal consequences. high risk relationships can end in manslaughter or murder, an area in which jane mountain smith has discovered recurring patterns. the criminologist applies those insights to so called cold cases. very often, domestic appeasement is, can look as if they're, they've just hummed spontaneously. 2 people have had an argument and this is just come out of the blue. and, oh, goodness may, you know? this is just a mistake, but that's not how they happen. she established an 8 stage pattern of progression and the escalation of abusive relationships. in many cases, the man will have a previous record of violence. the initial romance rapidly becomes a serious relationship. the abuser exerts control over his partner, emotionally,
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financially, and socially. and events such as a separation makes the man feel he's losing control. the situation escalates into stalking or threats of suicide. the man changes tactics as he seemingly leaves the victim alone. but now he's planning murder and carries it out. alexandra sand. m has been assisting jane mountain smith on an unsolved case dating back 3 years ago. when his wife died. the husband insisted it had been an accident . what did the police fail to see me? is we couldn't find an explanation as to why he'd got the and an email at the same time that she got it. how did, why was that? why was that even possible? he and asked when we started to think, is he tracking her phone? has he got duplication? software is everything that she getting also being sent to him because actually
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that is that is a huge deck and it's classic stalk her behavior. they want to know absolutely everything. 90 percent of them aside cases are preceded by stalking. the police subsequently arrested the husband in question. why couldn't they say that this was a homicide gus that needs to change? doesn't it? that lack of suspicion that is curious with her model, the police might have intervened in advance and in time, nice to see like a, let's make weekly or any no windows amount. that's why probation officer, laura donnelly, has been using the 8 stages to train her team. well, you know, can you, i mean, are you finding that your own personal offices and probation office is the using it? yes, most definitely. use them little. yeah, i've had some feedback from them about how useful about finding it. well, that's really good. it's often difficult for the police to get
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a read on abusive relationships. and early detection scheme helps to ensure action is taken immediately. so we obviously ticked and trained over a 1000 staff on your 8 stages and they love the fact that it's and it's simple, but really, really supportive in helping in their risk assessments. and some individuals with a history of domestic violence or given special attention by probation officer's, this one here, the british police now see stalking as an early warning of potential violence. he's aware the trigger stage is another one that people have talked really and given good feedback about because triggers is where we can identify those and then hopefully intervene at that point in time. so it's about recognizing what action we can put in place when those triggers come about everybody's aware. and that's the thing. it's the a stages just was just puts it into an order for you. cuz we all know the signs. i think when i 1st spoke to you about the 8 stages, that was what really came across to pay. it was like
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a light bulb made them where it wasn't something new. that it was something that was structured and formed in a way that really helped clarify my thinking that was absolutely fabulous. laura is jane martin smith is convinced that understanding coercive behavior can help victims. now the 8 stage model provides help on the ground to prevent them aside with in the germans city of mar borg campaigners are hoping to recruit men for the cause. ah, it's training night at the local rugby club. yanine leuva and sabina schlagel are here with an idea of you. well, it have not neeb. i'm representing sabina schlagel is one of the coordinators of a local anti violence association. her team is launching
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a poster campaign aimed at boys and young men. us on sympathy. what is important to you about the subject of domestic violence was if different, why do you want to get involved? emit what was going by for me. violence is never a solution. you know, whether it's a push or us laugh, or an actual punch. largest e. glad domestic violence always takes place with the curtains close to one on, in private at home. when nobody else sees it is dish. that's why it's important to stand up and raise awareness about the problem all by making it more public. the sky toward the campaign is about taking a stand for equality breaking down stereotypical gender roles, challenging the power structures that enable and encourage violence against women. the no domestic abuse project and mar book one european union funding. it has the support of the city authorities as well as local groups. the women helping women association provides counseling and support and
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a youth conflict prevention group works with perpetrators. and so the latter works with behavioral training for 6 months. participants attend the program headed by cost and digna, and sabina schlager. today they're reviewing the results of the most recent group session that of to you as discussed at their own bias, but they don't write what the violence actually is movable by scientists. and looking at this group is what when he pulls me, yes, computer. many abusers feel no guilt if anything, they say they were provoked as drastic this on you get the classic response. i was a slip of the hand. the need to understand that the hand is not in a vacuum. the of up there is somebody behind that hand. and that's the 1st step towards accepting responsibility. today, cost and digna has a last meeting with a former participant. most of the men who come here are sent by court order. this man who wishes to remain anonymous is one of the few to have registered voluntarily
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. do you see how are you making this very good, but i've been doing a lot of thinking and i've realized a lot of things. oh, him knocking on the linked stress and how about stress? do you recognize it in yourself? wounds. easy stairwell? yeah, the school? yes. it's and i sense what the other person is feeling. in istanbul, ashby, looks like there's an argument. it's best to leave of akin housekeeper. it's things like that i put into practice. and i notice that it works pretty well. he said good . in his case, the assault occurred one evening 2 years ago after an argument that took place when he was drunk done, these does, it wouldn't be to, is it escalated done then she went outside and tried to call the police moved. it was just the one punch shock. nobody's but it was one to many so and it really landed the od canoga too often. he broke the woman's jaw and spent the night in a police drunk tank. it was zuka shocked to boom. i was shocked that i was able to
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do such a thing the given been and the officer pulled so at me and it showed me was i immediately needed to get help with soon swinton the mid on his the behavioral training program requires the men to work on themselves, another aspect of violence prevention. it couldn't, he can't reach every one with just one tiny piece in a mosaic. it's a network of domestic violence health systems to provide and we're pretty limited items in our every office. back to the rugby club, where players posed for the new posters ro, written in here with, oh, that guy will be here, where the light is on in the foreground, with the panorama behind him. yeah. the women's team have already posed for the photographer. now it's the men's turn with the team spokesman at the center. he did pluto mufflers, went to stacy stephen king. you're challenging this w, you're a wall saying you'll have to get past me 1st coming from tough guys, making
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a tough stance on what some people see as a women's issue and challenging entrenched stereotypes of gender roles. oh, well the both i can look and i want a ma, this is not some women's su 4. it's up to the feminist to take care of thing. the mina, menu and gulf to i'm and we joining forces to help reduce violence in relationships . if this is not a to be subjective model, it affects us all that with gayden. yeah, yeah. yeah. a certificate of a company posters who we need be okay. how many affiliates do we have?
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in essence, in total? not $109.00 in munich, alexandra, coca, and almost dongle now want to recruit local baker is for the $1000000000.00 rising campaign. the plan is to distribute specially designed paper bags and bacon goods bearing an anti violence slogan. you don't forget which one do you want in our shop . that's union. what do you think this by this, with this one, you can see the individual craftsmanship. this is that one is printed fact. there's many black out to hang. you will have the post is and flies and shops anyway. so that's something you will stand out. no 2nd compass monarchy to declare they'll be printing and distributing 120000 paper bags from metal. go to a part of a campaign to mark the international day for the elimination of violence against women. yeah, all those were the sort of replacement and pleasure and visit back will be a bit longer so we can fold the top so so long. i can only one in 5. women
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who suffer violent assaults seek help, young minister, whom palm quarter. on sunday we have a very high proportion of women in our shop to stick on a tortoise. of course, this is an issue that tends to be hushed out. how often we should all be doing something to increase awareness. i'm sick, my honest tune, i'm sure i'll smoke some kind of even give us. so didn't his talking about it, helen, this is a cool studies show that women in germany now speak an octave lower than 10 years ago, or 14. and that's because they have more self confidence. both. he never will. now they say a stop that's going to fall off that this women didn't used to say that it's law. discussed spanish. it's a growing global movement, calling for gender equality, while also combating one of societies, greatest evils, gender, ending violence against women as a cause that's worth fighting for. if you had it off your plan until my dying day, i'm going to be
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