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ah, any criticism of his regime, isn't it in the bud? ah, he believes his weight is 4 superior than that of western democracy. china's president, she doing in 60 minutes on d. w. m. what secrets lie behind these walls? discover new adventures in 360 degrees. and explore fascinating world heritage sites. d. w world heritage. 360. get the app. now. facebook, twitter, instagram. take talk. nearly 5000000000 people around the world. use social media. like alina, but she was bullied online. she withdrew into herself and became isolated and ash,
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who doesn't want to be identified. he found like minded people in online communities and through them found himself plus lydia, whom i gives tips on how not to become addicted to the internet. despite its temptations. with their help, we explore the impact of social media on our well being. welcome to in good shape, the d w health program. with we're constantly on line even on the go. we look at our phones up to 100 times a day. since the rent to gram snapchat, what's up on netflix for the family and for media notes? i use it for photos rarely for calls. i just walked up facebook, but shine least finish. i'm probably online more than 6 hours
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a day. didn't park as well. the 1st, well i have facebook, instagram, tick tock. what's on tom telegram, i googled of call songs, not go to school at all. there were rings, pings and pushes around the clock. people chant cool and take pictures to relax. we game or gamble on line. but at what point do we become over stimulated when all the digital consumption is simply too much? we ask psychologist dr. clarksville filling the wrong hands on what you can some up risky consumption with a 2 to 3 indicators. for example, you neglect your friends or social contacts and perhaps even your job, you have concentration deficits or problems sleeping if, if there are 5 or more indicators. but then we're talking about pathological consumption and that needs examine and closely logan own does what. how quickly are you distracted by your phone or computer? do you have friends in the real world?
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the amount of time you spend online is less of a criterion than how you live your real life and how resilient you, off feeler from wouldn't your, for many people assume that gambling during the semester break or during school vacations we can take on the level of an addiction it's but we actually need a bit longer than that that, that in fact, we normally say the problematic behavior has to be present for at least 12 months, almost before it's considered a dependent lee. i'm so an opinion kurtz, we had many boys and young men game excessively on the internet in the process. they can become addicted girls and young women on the other hand, a more vulnerable to social media. too much digital usage requires intense levels of concentration, which can affect our memory. close both flings research group, did a study with a 150 people. do concent let soon light up persons concentration levels definitely
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suffers when digital usage is accessible. so our study clearly showed that from good fortunately, after abstinence or therapy, the subjects concentration levels returned to a normal or even above normal. though, after 3 and a half months on those who got out we both these days, almost all cell phones can show you how much time you've been online and even which apps you used. and how often, here the average was 4 hours and 45 minutes a day. that's 33 hours a week. there are now many apps that are designed to improve our media consumption . for example, you're prompted to take a deep breath before deciding if you want to open instagram for the 8th time. anyone wanting to use programs like these needs to know exactly what they're looking for. coming up really help you reduce your use of, of the apps. at least it can give you an overview of how much time you spend on your cell phone. for many, the answer could come as
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a surprise. instagram tick, tock and snapshot are especially popular with younger age groups. they share content and present themselves online. social media is a way to keep up with friends, find out the latest trends and fashion and music, and get tips on health, beauty and hobbies. but facebook, twitter, snap, chad and instagram are also platforms for intimidation, humiliation, bullying, and sexism. the consequences are isolation, lack of sleep, loss of self confidence, and suicidal thoughts. girls are especially affected because they use social media more than boys for breast and a loser. your elusive does. he wants to be your friend. yes,
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a fat to pathetic unless you're ugly. just kill yourself is an fha oh, oh, alina remembers, every line for weeks she was bullied on social media by classmate. you're stupid, they rope in her comments under her instagram, postings. no one needs you. she was 16 at the time and felt worthless. i wrote among the shall hired and i am i felt insecure and lonely dust because i felt like i definitely wasn't good enough for others. and that meant i must not be good enough for myself either. i can look find off and it's, it's like your life is on hold because you don't know how to deal with it. hm. and the arc on his face, remember that's only and so the once cheerful, young woman withdrew and tried to deal with everything on her own. but the bullying
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from classmates didn't stop. on the contrary, it got worse and finally, ended up in the classroom. for us on all mankind, he can sometimes the whole class laughed at me and then they also came up with inside jokes that were all at my expense. was he handled by law, they laughed at me and kept excluding me. and me that made the feelings of loneliness even worse on, and i'm called her back order from ion. firstly, i was deeply ashamed of myself, however, and secondly, i felt ashamed in front of others because i simply had the feeling that i was so bad that no one wanted me around missions i lagging, but harm for museum halls is a youth psychologist. she says around $1.10 young people experience online bullying . that number is alarmingly high, given the devastating psychological impact fiber cleanse and that person sequences can include feelings of depression, social anxiety, sleep disorders,
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concentration disorders, loss of appetite, and also a wide range that they pursue on kind of it as the because young people haven't had much life experience, wonderful feeling of an event like this, an insult or public humiliation is much harder on them because they can't put it into perspective and think, oh as they don't yet know that to day it might be bad. but in 6 months time everyone will have forgotten that time. yeah, nobody will talk about it anymore. but for them it's terrible. they think my life's over. i can't show my face any more. that's it. that's last. yes. i gudgusten bird, his daughter, gerda. i was little cut off for weeks. alina tried to cope with the humiliation alone. at some point, however, she could no longer handle it. she sought help, stumbled upon them in a moment which miss, man, i came a point when i didn't dare to go to school any more of her because the moment i got up i was so afraid. i didn't know how i would get through the day. liar,
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she told her mother about the online attacks together, they demanded that ugliness, classmate stop. that was exactly the right thing to do as of last night. now the main thing is to take action don't sweep everything under the carpet farmer, bring it into the light. confronted publicly, oh, estimates confront him. it's always better to say something than to say nothing. alida knows that now 2 friends rallied to her side online and stood up for her. her boots became rattled and stopped. me for a 3rd. it was, i guess it's not like i just forgot all that and now i get up every day and feel happy clipless and love my i. when you are growing up and something messes with your sense of identity, caught up in such a fundamental way. yes. it just does something to you. yeah, i am off of this whole world of social media that's there all the time or wish to get a couple of clock her. but i know that i can love myself me,
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and that i am fine the way i am over and that others do not define me. miss him to day, alina encourages other victims of bullying, to fight back. we can generate feelings of happiness through our bodies reward system. when we carry out certain actions our brain releases happy hormones that make us feel good. that also happens when we get likes or when we read comments on our post to keep getting those nice feelings. we keep repeating the actions that produce them. so if we look at our phones, say 88 times a day, each time we see we have a like, or a message, we get a little positive boost of happy hormones that we create ourselves. and it really is addictive. australian celeste bother makes fun of
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tick tock, frozen spy. successful female influences not everyone's a farm for many young people. social media platforms are hugely important. but they also have the potential to become addictive. brain researchers have proven that likes and comments on facebook, instagram and tick tock, stimulate the brain rewards center in a similar way that food, sex, and drugs. day addictions counselor, lydia grammar knows many young people who are so into social media, but they put their own health at risk pools. the islas is my last everything i, i always have to be up to date. i have to be informed about everything elaborate. i subscribe to a whole bunch of channel and not less, i maybe neglect my real friends on top of that, dallas on fed, on the finish. and so i feel permanently stressed wattsey on what the warning signs
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. young people constantly glued to their smart phones. no time to eat with the family. schoolwork has neglected hobbies and interests are forgotten. and even in bed the cell phone is ever present. if we're all back now shawn, phenomena, we're also seeing phenomena where for example, young people won't leave home without an extra battery because they're worried that their phone will run out of power and or can accommodate ha, ah, it's all driven by phone mode fair. if missing out, when it as an anti and if i as a parent, find bottles of yellow liquid in the children's or teenagers room that isn't apple juice and august. and if they really start to pee in bottles, so as not to waste time using the toilet, that should really set off all the alarm bells. lloyd. another problem is the tendency for young people to constantly compare themselves with others. influences
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look perfectly styled and beautiful. the pictures are often photoshop, those who tried themselves find the results less than satisfactory. at some ice, pia cannibal, or example, we can observe that the age of which people's not having cosmetic surgery is getting ever younger buyers. because they don't find themselves beautiful. kaden said more because they're dissatisfied with their bodies, copa or, and are offered. it's often said that girls and young women are more affected. but you can observe the same behavior in boys and young men and how they might go to the gym more or use anabolic steroids and anabolic com. so how do you deal with such problems? first, parent should take a close look at their own behavior. maybe they themselves are spending whole day in front of a computer. oh, glued to their fire. that's. that's a bad example. children need to have clare roles are unfurnished now
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by the beginning. make sure you're included. find out what your child is watching on their tablet, tv, your streaming service, watch things together, discuss the content with them, or have them show you a chat now and then i'll tell them they can only use instagram or whatever. once they reach a certain age and then when they're older, trust them to deal with it. but if something goes wrong, reach out for help freshman team 16 times without a phone and help prevent addiction. the user is then forced to occupy themselves with other things that are also apps which regulate use. you could try switching off the y fi for a time and use an old fashioned alarm clock so that your child doesn't eat to take the phone to bad. what are minded to hum to mom, and i told me they have a phone hotel at home. that's
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a box where all the smartphones get stalled me. guns causes or if you're really worried, make sure you get professional help understood me when can so be wary if the lives of you and your child revolve entirely around the phone or social media. treat yourself those dead to a much needed break. and one study reports that in germany, almost one and 20 people between the ages of 10 and 17 is at risk of becoming addicted to social media. that's 800000 young people. the university of london says girls and young women are especially at risk. 90 percent added their pictures before posting them. 70 percent feel under pressure to give the impress of a perfect life and 60 per cent sometimes feel depressed that they don't live up to beauty ideals. researchers believe this pressure can lead to eating disorders, anxiety and depression. another danger is cyber grooming,
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where predators try to entice minors looking for thanks. can you send me a new photo chat messages like this a sent a mine is. in this case, the sender's don't know that the reporter on the other end, they think they're chatting with a 12 year old girl, celine experience, cyber grooming. when she was 11, a stranger sent her a photo on instagram. so they involve, i could see his friends, i don't know how to properly describe it. well, it was his genital area. while i had sent a dinner table eyes, his lower genital area of us are status and very close up. and oh, the i'm all own without like them, without clouds, the perpetrators usually follow the same pattern. they see contact and gain trust using tricks. then they emotionally bonded with the young people,
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encourage them to exchange new pictures and make sure that they don't tell anyone about it. in a counseling center for those affected alena math sees lots of children who are ashamed to report these chance. so it would ein of guilt plays a big role. however, i sent the photo i got involved in the chat, said, i'm good gang. these are all reasons why children and young people just say die. oh, i am embarrassed. i better not say anything better or try to get help as i quickly, benito woodmere, kind of hipaa protection dolls are patchy in many countries. experts they online platforms don't protect miners enough that makes them easy game for perpetrators. that's why alina mess says that parents should stay alert and ask questions that i can just mccallski when a kid leaves the house, parents say, where are you going? who are you meeting? when are you back? we'll just because a kid is at home sitting safely in my room, doesn't mean mass safe in this online world of gone. it's to tune celine,
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deleted the message with the photo. at the time she didn't say anything to her parents. she was just too ashamed to help protect yourself against cyber grooming. watch out, be suspicious strangers. you never know who's behind a profile. be careful to think about what you reveal about your life and what photos and videos you share. keep your distance. if a child becomes unpleasant ended and block the contact, especially if the person keeps alluding to sexual topics. now it's your chance to win some d. w merchandise to keep you in good shape. why sharing your best tips? what i'm remedy, would you recommend? how do you tackle a cold or spawns? how did your grandmother help your stomachache was about muscle tension or backache,
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a following. and you can also find like minded people to help you with issues such as physical and mental health, the poor gender and sexuality. i'm 14 and when i was 13 or like 12 or 13 ah, i felt more like a boy than about june. seem to leg don't ash is his new name. you're like oh no goes to a 14 year old from england was born a girl ah. ah, to days are transgender boy, and only recently came out. some psalms are for. that's why he wants to remain anonymous. how can someone be my boys, my remedy in la, la ha, used a thrilling,
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i guess. knowing the you are who you are. and you can be who you want to be. it's kind of like a weight off my shoulder at 1st came out online and found support in the l g. b t q online community. so much on social media. it's a bit easier just because even if people judge you for it, if you can just block them and they're not in your life, they're not a part of your life. so it's kind of just an easier way to do it. understanding that you're not like alone in this walden, that your, the way that you think or the way the feel isn't like crazy. because that's other people like you to. and it shouldn't be something that you are ashamed of. you new to me. happy the feeling of being accepted by people in online communities,
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ash found likeminded people. oh oh. oh the l g b g q. community gibbs, each other support? oh, a slight. i had a problem. i didn't know who to go to. i can go online and talk to my online friends and because a lot of them are the same thing full. mm hm. mm. to me, it's very important because it's just the way of feeling like you belong here. and you don't have to be like as afraid to tell them who you are. then you usually would. i have support a friends. i have support a family and life in general. it's kind of easier with every one knowing who i am. because then i can actually be who i am in public. the online community encouraged him to come out to his family and friends. ashe is happy,
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took the step miriam hoff knows how important l g b t q. social movements are for young people. i mean, even though i don't make it easy, i lie in thick young people who rediscover themselves and identify as a different gender often have to deal with feelings of shame, of being inferior and are often confronted with a lack of understanding in their immediate circle and live thing online, they find people who understand them. oh, accept them to tell them you're okay the way you are. there's nothing wrong with you. yeah, we're just like you towards it as a 3rd of the ally. stanford is a, it's a relief for these young people to realize that they're no different and i'm for huh. and that they're welcomed by like minded people in a group and a community offline. i fear i, acceptance instead of ignorance, that's with fiona,
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is committed to. she supports minorities, online shoots videos and writes online petitions. i will get, i finished the scan switch, take that one life in general. i think it's very important to simply listen to and help people who are treated bad or worse than others. and that's why social media is very good at bringing attention to such situations on from life and whether it's black people or people who are jewish in between globe, just listen to them and make people aware of it. so i tossed off, it's the only way they can be helped, and more people can become aware of the problem. as you bring me as say g, everything's bed. and again, i guess we as of it when i brought us in government absolute, i just think that every person should be treated absolutely equal or new take on. it's absolutely unnecessary today in the 21st century to treat people differently because of their appearance, origin, faith, gender, sexuality,
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or religion. and that's why i think it's very important that we start now to finally create real equality shopping. young people really understand the power of social media and are using you to fight discrimination of all kinds. are you always on your phone? well van, it's time for a distraction. join in with real ya. hi and welcome to day i show you how you can bring sports in your daily life. all you need is is there step up with both feet after each other. take 1st the left one. and then for the next step, you take the right one. and so we continue
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