a september 30th on d. w, or it was 2016. that's a good bye to the queen. casa, wanted to see if germany was for me. the last few years, have been quite a ride early in touch with the evidence. i've already done the homework when it comes to journal based on of course i always look right in the eyes for a kid, but perhaps the biggest on the new hobby of mine, i'm no longer approved. i love to be in the news there. a person never comes, but when you're feeling multiple giving you realize that culture is the not the way of living. are you ready to meet the driver and then join me, right? let's do it on b, w. sex is a pretty complicated business in mexico. the country is all about passion and temptation, yet there are many taboos after a party, it's rarely

a case of your place or mine. many couples prefer to use a love hotel. as i know, they even have menus for sex toys. right next to the court of appeals, being the ones revered macho man has come under attack, willing to day, lot more than just a traditional role. they are fighting for change. their to my sincere wish is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their dreams. mexicans love sex, but they like to keep it hidden. going back and forth between the traditional and the modern mexico city. the angel of independence towers auspiciously above the capital. the

megacity represents everything which is mexican, a blend of folklore and progress. lovebirds, kaboodle on every corner. public displays of affection, raise no eyebrows here. but there's a reason these intimate moments do not take place in private. 2 2 donyo aconia and jennifer. woody aren't they have been together for a year now. both of them make a living from singing like here in this restaurant. this is how they met and fell in love, a few such strong passion when i'm together with him not to sexually. it is real love . i love everything about him the way he does things, his voice, the way he looks his eyes. i think he's wonderful.

he is 30 years old, she is 20 and they both still live at home with her parents. this is usual in mexico often until a couple mary's partly out of tradition and also because money is often tight. many incomes are low and during the pandemic, it was hard for them both to earn money. when work is over, they can't say, let's go back to my place where yours. staying overnight at the partners, families, taboo, and sex is completely out of the question. i must get a mustang clump. of course we want to be together, but her home isn't very nice for us and neither is mine. my mother can be a bit difficult. we can't do much alone. we can't even watch a film together in the lot brittany columbus don't meet again to morrow. weekend nights in the city or wild, fun, loving and colorful lobbies love. and it's lavishly celebrated in mexico's capital

. there seems to be no sign of any taboos head that way. i mean, but i i it's mexico's colorful, modern side, celebrating sexuality with . ah bunyan in uniform like a bit quieter though. one of their favorite places is a park. they can be alone here, far from the eyes and ears of their parents. but in that most, unless i live in an appellate calais,

we were sitting together in the living room watching a film emphasis. suddenly i heard no sound from my mother's room. it's got another way that she turned down her television so she could hear what were up to nonsense is bessy yourself put a bill up so that's we don't really have any privacy cancer lather, tandoori i left facility that even if we had a big house with the room where we would not disturbed. it's still a question of respect him. a unit from one, it's a cultural issue to look is come up with my family is there was this because my mother is there, is i wouldn't feel comfortable. no say mom is hint, a camera you need to work out to wipe in this thing with danielle feels as long as you live with your parents, you should respect that they are rules, their sensibilities and their taboos. love that a me as a mortar, the idea of them catching me having sex fills me with dread puzzles. oh, you get

a lot of scorn or comments like yeah, stuck on there are other places for that out there that he's and get a room. if you want to do that, but i so i study them what they list, but i, you are, i'm parents or even friends say it was me. must bother. must validus disease in amigos mana 4. so young people are supposed to have sex in hotels. this couple goes to one regularly when they're feeling amorous, but they're a bit too embarrassed to show us their favorite hotels. as i am my nose, no, there are many. is full sex toys. i put them right next to the condom. i lost the us. never as good it told michael. yes, i am very curious to have him which is in missouri. i was really excited the 1st time for them all. wow. i thought wow, i love chamber fabulous. hey, how fun? yeah. good deal.

well, we're not one of them at least i know he can swim now. oh, the capital is teething with love hotels. no one can say exactly how many there are, but there are lots with a price range to suit anyway. love hotels are in such high demand that they provide a good business for some people out. a leo best case is a designer for a special kind of love hotel in both effect. if i'm here at the entrance, it's very discreet. rather very private in here directly, you can see the prices been rough, but if you didn't see last night costs between 30 and a 100 euros, that payment is made directly at the entrance. and they said that no one can see from outside who is entering the hotel, they will bill, everything is discrete in, but i'm with

a case of we enter and park here and the doors close automatically. what you've done. you're basically already in the hotel. some we've been looking out a you has already designed over 50 hotels from dugan. whether it be the you with ru service, you can order food or drinks or even sucks, toys, condoms lube a little bit of everything comfortable enough. if then when the waiter comes, he puts the order in here, tells you it closes it and the customer on the other side takes the order out if it input quantico. second of the whole process is completely discrete. few and you don't see each other had one then not have in my little audio is convinced a happy sex life makes for a happy society. to this end, he is created very esteemed areas, all created to stimulate desire, eat la la, re got it. i have yet that i feel i eat the fuel. the shower is open, so you can explore voyeurism in exhibitionism

a and don't if you ask her partner the shower while you watch a killer, a few, are you spying on them? but, and they put on a show, those piano eat lunch. thanks. even the idea obviously works. it looks like a wet and satisfying pool party took place here they got big. oh, not big one. only one of my regular customer says she want an uprising in mexico. if to close the love hotels for 3 days, then you'll have a revolution. or say, luis boss case. and his girlfriend cut in vienna are regular customers in love hotels. they're not short of money and have their own apartment, but they find the change of scenery stimulating jackie, ask them if you come here with a feeling of wanting to really enjoy it. it's no ordinary night at home. we also enjoy each other's bodies. but he, you have

a certain extra i say it's something i love, you know, coming when i'm in a love hotel, it brings out my in a corner star animal, a few more relaxed and more in the mood for something special. not the same old retain. did not, did most say one of his him bring all they're very impressed with a room. it creates a few options for an interesting afternoon if that or leave open if didn't love this couch is deeper than usual. love me, nothing but it changes the angle full gabriella in certain positions. the angle of your patterns, pelvis is really important. it feels different. and this thing makes it easier if you don't need extra pillows or anything up on and what was the mood is just right . there's only one factor getting in the way it's time for us to go. but which was nice meeting you take care, we're going to have fun now by a few

kilometers away from the capital. an exciting day is beginning. reiki hurry up. it's getting late. i'll have you pack your baggage everything, but yes, that's good. it's the daily morning rush for nancy ortiz. she's preparing a quick breakfast and helping her daughter they sheena with her braids. nancy is a strong woman, a law graduate, a single parent, independent. right. this makes her different from many other women in often traditional mexico. that school has just started after the coven pandemic, into that he not is happy. she has big plans for her future. did oh yes. i see. i went to be a surgeon many of you. okay. yes, i don't, i, he never, you know, to he now you can do anything you want in life with him this way. you have to work

really hard to achieve your drains, but you can do anything and showed the world when women can do anything. so most got buses it. uh huh. nancy would make any sacrifice to let her daughter grow up in a fair society. mexico is still far behind. men have special rights. as it is, sheena has noticed of isn't, i've got some parents say you don't have to clear the table. you're a boy. you have to wash the dishes because you're a girl. that's not ok. isn't that should teach children that everyone is the cause . but again, one to day at school, there's a festival for theodore marcos, the day of the dead. a joyful celebration and mexico, nancy and most other parents preferred to accompany their children to school. here in the elk alpine, there has been a lot of violence lately, especially against women or game which you get very unsafe on the street on does it

so many women have disappeared. you went dress animals. when this, when you go out, you see photos unused about women who haven't come home in some parts of our neighborhood. you even hear about murders school and then also does we be most boys asked abby lily. yes, as he knows now, about 9 underage women disappear per day in mexico. that's $3200.00 a year. almost 2000 women were murdered in the 1st half of 2021. over $500.00 cases were officially famous sites. murders of women motivated by jealousy, possessiveness, or massage any. nancy's freedom is a woman has not been easy to achieve. her family is deeply conservative. she has paid a high price for not marrying, and enjoying sexual freedom. her father is disgusted, and relatives avoid her. nope, was that he knew what will people say? it's the 1st thing you hear about our reputation. it's

a heavy burden for us women today, the more partners you have, the more you are condemned yet it's different for men and they're allowed to talk about it openly. they brag and celebration with their friends imperialistic. a woman can't do that. they don't. um. okay, no. this high school was the turning point for nancy. she was the 1st in her family who fought for the right to study. here she was inspired with new ideas, feminism and equal rights. a woman's destiny, children, church, and kitchen was not for her. she took part in student protests and became a rebel with me. but my father was ashamed when people asked him about it and that was worth that, vince, he thought of his daughter's reputation, guessed that she was here with all these young people who i am. and then his biggest worry was that i had surely lost my virginity with 200 men. but he said awful things about me that i was worthless with good. your general been yeah. but the new school year is just beginning for these young women. high school already

seems like normality, but in mexico, women's education is still often deemed a waste of time. nancy spontaneously cheers on the class with the schools battle cry. mood you. i am very moved to see them here with all the drain. when you're at g e, one, they are denila their age. are you? i was so nervous. it's a crucial moment in their lives. he went, it would be those impulses. my sentilia wish is that they too will conquer the world and fight for their drains. things get even more emotional for nancy later when she meets her family at home. i me, science is a construction manager in mexico city. his work is an a classic man's world,

and i me sums up the dominant idea of what makes a good real man in this environment. or we have a very traditional image of the man here as the breadwinner, the protector of the family who watches over his own, told me in the dark side of the strong protective man is much more and often use word in mexico. each colleague here knows one and can tell their stories, but none of them believe that they themselves are mucho's. i. my brother almost killed his wife out of jealousy. he hurt her and went to jail for it. i told him you are crazy, this is evil. so hopefully your jealousy is not acceptable. so that's how it happened. jaime would admit today that he was a macho to what he had cheated on his wife. countless times, had a major affair on the side for years, and got into fights with men. laura, he says,

and begged romulus to day at the age of 64, i am in therapy. he did, you want me small this? he said you, i had to recognize that i had chosen to follow the traditions to or not. and the toxic rules of my parents, this doxey because im spotted. jaime is undergoing macho therapy with therapist ricardo a young ricardo works with men convicted of violence against women and men who recognized that they have a mutual problem. ricardo is doing all he can to bring about change in mexico. i own going from is that you're not going to be. yeah, i am convinced that change is it possible and that we have a chance to banish machismo in our country. i end up with that and for us men to banish it from within a for by if and it has a negative impact on our lives to reflect the some input on the sorry the in

a group meeting, the therapists analyze the different aspects of machismo. what is defined as violence, all who encourages it? how should it be stopped? the goal of the organization hen. this is to prevent violence and achieve gender equality. there's still a long way to go. in the syndicate case, so no a, we are told that sex is only an iteration that we need to have a huge erection and be ready to conquer her. any time will see him breakfast article i suppose she'll bottles of it is full of this pressure means you can no longer perform was as if it were you climax too soon? well, she knew it and then you blame your partner equilibrium because put him good boy, i had them to my mom. they say my cheese moore has something to do with believing that you are better than everyone else of believing that you have to be better. this comes from one's upbringing, religion and the media. this feeling of superiority can lead to violence against

women, even during sex. yes, they will then other families. my patient says, i come home and i want to have sex, that i don't care whether you are asleep or tired and your body belongs to me. the story that that's how it is in pornography to the book. and we pass on this behavior generation after generation on it. oh, no, goldman. nancy is doing the final shopping for a special family reunion. the single mother has to work, do the shopping and take care of her daughter. but he has father, like so many men in mexico took on 0 responsibility men have always been told that they are better than women in the family better. so they have the freedom to choose whether they want to take care of their child or not. they can simply shift their responsibility that i haven't hardly any men in

mexico were willing to use a condom. if they find it repulsive about people, normally the mentality is changing a bit idaho mozambie on, but he won't. but usually it's the woman's responsibility, not my mom had a phone having me hello to day for generations or meeting for lunch. nancy's daughter grant, marcia, and the lighter you look at nazi's mother, esperanza had enough water for once, the men aren't present. so the women can talk freely about sex a taboo for grandma rosalia. navina. when i was young, nobody talked about it and we did not much. we were told to keep quiet. i am. the subject was off limits is hurried enough to play as the no, not that become another people. she never talked to me about it and i never asked her nothing. i went to neighbor for advice and both a yes, she already had children. so i could ask her where you are, but my mother, no,

i never asked her for the hiena. it sounds like something from another world. 2 william brazil, my mother told me the facts of life as a child. it was a totally normal topic. i mean, well, it was normal for me, but that for many others it's not only because they're brought up differently because many families aren't the same. oh, issues that were never broached before are now coming to the table, bundle, yeoman's tray you, when i started menstruating and i told my mother, she got very angry tall. no, say that one. okay. but i don't know what was wrong with her, but she was very angry. oh, with me. yes. i remember that and you know, mean, i don't know why i was like that may be because no one had told me and i had to go through it alone. i explained it to my son some time later. he is 3 years young

with nancy lost. i don't know, i explained it to him, but i should have explained it to her. hello, this is galico boy. was it like the guy that i had? yeah. for grandma goose idea, a woman's place is in the home and taking care of her husband and children, as her daughter are denied or did. but still, i delight us. husband started a 2nd family on the side. in mexico, they call it the big house and the little house. yeah, i got that and then i am the big house here. we also call the wife the cathedral and the women they have on the side all the chapel, alaska for you does. so the last okay to get the in, in upper la give boy, alaska. he brought her home with him a little, i guess he wanted me to meet her and my mother in law to later he told me, i'm together with this woman and the baby is my daughter. i love it. i could have

killed him. one big movie quite been met. okay. that got met and fail. cooper said no. i never expected it from him, but his brothers did the same with that amount of the 0 mean with is certainly gone . it's pretty common here. and mexico effect was to mom. it didn't happen to me, not me. or maybe i just don't know about it. and we got to make went down to this day and then still have different rights than women, the sons and her at the house and far and are supported by their father. while the daughters are dependent on their husbands, i sped on, soc and other light. i had to ask for permission to go to work. oh, but i think a lot a warrior when the sun comes into the world, he's the pride and joy. but if it's a girl it's typical in mexico when a girl is born it's oh, it's a girl. oh, good with

a boy. it's wow. why celebration had reminiscing is often bitter. sweet, sometimes painful, but i never received love. not as we are a more good grandma give her blessing to either later today if she left her unfaithful husband if above his yeah. jam with my father's said it's very bad and a sin to leave your husband was august. he is a daughter, quarrelled with her husband, and he threw her out of aria. my father said he was sorry, but he would not take her back in it. i went on there, i found that tough. she lay, it's something bad happened to my daughter, and she ran away and came home with eleanor. it would not be right to turner away, letty,

but women take time to feel their pain. but other none of them think things can or will go on like this. and mexico i may, has a one to one session with his therapist who we kind of do today to banish the inner macho that almost ruined his marriage. but he middle gotta jo there, madame, which i demanded a lot of sexual things. and if i didn't get what i wanted, i took it as a good reason to get it somewhere else. a little better will scuttle single to love . but out on that to cover it up hill, i told my wife she was crazy. it says you're crazy. you're dreaming. it's your imagination voice looks but no less. he added those 2 fun, but you can all go. oh well i me couldn't handle the guilt anymore. and with his therapist has learned to take responsibility like what, ok, fernando. so place him on. as you know,

i was deeply sad for 2 or 3 weeks when i realized what a violent person i am, go mole nap. it's on that that you're linda. yes, boy, you're late on up a sola well yes. i saw yesterday, he's proud to say he did not fight with his neighbor even though the neighbor attacked jaime. oh, okay. and connie lee is actually on your land response would be react, confront, defending the day. but you can let that happen. it, bingo. i have the opportunity to choose not to repeat old behavior behavior that has hurt me and others so much. oh hi. may wishes all men knew about this therapy. he thinks he's come a long way. it does pose on us. but at home he encounters a different reality. his son wrote at ego thinks that his father's generation are all hypocrites. bye. no, i don't at all. i don't like living in

a country where 11 or 12 women are murdered every day. he missed you so at those and knowing that about 90 percent of all cases go unpunished, expulsion to discuss k that killing boy the little yes. thank of 100 of you know, you guys always complain about violence, but you're the 1st to use it. was she telling us you have to respect women and then writing the look at these chicks sending round all these pornography people and none of another vi you see less boys? he'd actually now i can say to those guys, stop sending me stuff like that is on my before i didn't dare i just didn't dare schools are also a big problem. they don't practice what they preach. dollar lesson law, everything to do with sexuality or sex or law. school is seen as a sin list icons. yelp and you're supposed to repent you because it's something bad

. your stomach, no. k a yo yo's, he's in my school. there were teachers who went out with middle and high school girls, back one another sequin, daddy, all the paper, one that's not right. ok, said close that window looming that they had sex with underage girls. but it was what my school was sleazy like that to everyone you about it. but no one said anything. you know the stuff in equity, there's a clear deficit between how it looks and how it really is between the sexes. ah, mexico. it's the day of the dead. for nancy's family, a loving remembrance, with no anger. they make their dad's favorite meal, so their soul can rejoice when they come to visit. nancy's view of the future sharpens into focus, as she contemplates the past. all today we have the power to change what we don't like animals will for today and forever.

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