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a case of your place or mine. many couples prefer to use a love hotel. as iran knows, they even have menus for sex. toys. right next to the court of appeals. the ones revered macho man has come under attack, willing to day, lot more than just a traditional role. they are fighting for change. there's my sincere wish is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their dreams or mexicans love sex. but they like to keep it hidden, going back and forth between the traditional and the modern mexico city, the angel of independence towers auspiciously above the capital. the megacity

represents everything which is mexican, a blend of folklore and progress. lovebirds, kaboodle on every corner. public displays of affection raise no eyebrows here, but there is a reason these intimate moments do not take place in private. ha . 2 2 danielle aconia in uniform wouldn't they have been together for a year now? both of them make a living from singing like here in this restaurant. this is how they met and fell in love a few such strong passion when i'm together with him not to sexually. it is real love . i love everything about him. the way he does things, his voice, the way he looks his eyes. i think he's wonderful.

he is 30 years old. she is 20 and they both still live at home with her parents. this is usual in mexico often until a couple mary's partly out of tradition and also because money is often tight, many incomes are low and during the pandemic, it was hard for them both to earn money. when work is over, they can't say, let's go back to my place or yours. staying overnight at the partners, families taboo and sex is completely out of the question i was given was that one of course we want to be together, but her home isn't very nice for us and neither is mine. my mother can be a bit difficult. we can't do much alone. we can't even watch a film together. in the nut, britney columbus don't meet again to morrow. weekend nights in the city for wild, fun, loving,

and colorful lobbies love. and it's lavishly celebrated in mexico's capital. there seems to be no sign of any taboos head that way. i mean, but i i, it's mexico's colorful, modern side, celebrating sexuality with ah, genuine and uniform like a bit quieter though. one of their favorite places is a park. they can be alone here, far from the eyes and ears of their parents. but it is that most unless i live in an appellate calais,

we were sitting together in the living room watching a film. and suddenly i heard no sound from my mother's room is another way that she turned down her television. so she could hear what we're up to. nonsense is bessy yourself put a bill up so that's we don't really have any privacy can say lather, tandoori or possibly that even if we had a big house with the room where we would not disturbed. it's still a question of respect him. a unit from one, it's a cultural issue to look is come up with my family is there was this cuz my mother is there is i wouldn't feel comfortable say mom is into grandma. we need to work out to wipe in this thing with danielle feels as long as you live with your parents, you should respect their rules, their sensibilities and their taboos love that a me asked them or the idea of them catching me. having sex fills me with dread,

but no, you get a lot of scorn or comments like asked uncle there are other places for that out there that he's and get a room if you want to do that. but i, so i studied them what they list, what are your own parents or even friends say it means most by that is living most validus disease in amigos. meta so young people are supposed to have sex in hotels . this couple goes to one regularly when they're feeling amorous, but they're a bit too embarrassed to show us their favorite hotels. as i use my nose, no, there are many. is full sex toys. i put them right next to the condom. i lost the us. now as get it towed wiggly, as i am very curious, the m which is in missouri. i was really excited the 1st time for them all. wow. i thought, wow, i love chamber. fabulous. hey, how fun! good deal

were not one of them, at least i know he can swim now. oh, the capital is teething with love hotels. no one can say exactly how many there are . but there are lots with the price range to suit anyway. love hotels are in such high demand that they provide a good business for some people. aurelio best case is a designer for a special kind of love hotel. both of them appears the entrance. it's very discreet, very private. that in here directly, you can see the prices of but if you didn't see last night costs between 30 and a 100 euros, the payment is made directly at the entrance. and if at the demo, no one can see from outside who is entering the hotel in what bill. everything is discrete. in but almost can't. we enter and park here and the doors close

automatically. what you've done, you're basically already in the hotel supple has been throw, looked at o. d u has already designed over 50 hotels from dugan, for that by the you. with ru service, you can order food or drinks, or even sucks, toys condoms. what lube a little bit of everything country from political, i got the day and when the waiter comes, he puts the order in here, tells you how closes it. and the customer on the other side takes the order out in public water bill cycle. the whole process is completely discrete. you see each other up on the north have in the little audio is convinced a happy sex life makes for a happy society. to this end, he is created very esteemed areas, all created to stimulate desire, eat la la, re got it. i have yet that i feel i eat the fuel. the shower is open. so you can

explore voyeurism in exhibitionism a and don't if you ask your partner the shower while you watch a killer, the fuel you spying on them. but in they put on a show, doors, piano, eat luck, photo. the face tv in the idea obviously works. it looks like a wet and satisfying pool party took place here they got big. oh, not big one. only one of my regular customer says she want an uprising in mexico. if to close the love hotels for 3 days, then you'll have a revolution. or say, luis boss case, and his girlfriend cut in vienna are regular customers in love hotels. they're not short of money and have their own apartment. but they find the change of scenery stimulating gigantic as you come here with a feeling of wanting to really enjoy it. it's no ordinary night off at home. we also enjoy each other's bodies, but he, you have a certain extra i stay,

it's something i love coming up when i'm in a love hotel, it brings out my in a corner star animal, a few more relaxed and more in the mood for something special. but not the same old retain mapleton, not it will say wallach assembling all they are very impressed with their room. it creates a few options for an interesting afternoon. is that all me open it in love. this couch is deeper than usual below me. nothing but it changes the angle, little bit gambiola in certain positions the angle of your patton's pelvis is really important. it feels different. and this thing makes it easier. if you don't need extra pillows or anything, is that the point and what was the mood is just right? pretty simple. there's only one factor getting in the way. it's time for us to go. but it was nice meeting. you take care, we're going to have fun now by a few

kilometers away from the capital. an exciting day is beginning. thank you. hurry up. it's getting late. i'll have you pack your baggage and for yeah, that's good. that's good. it's the daily morning rush for nancy ortiz her. she's preparing a quick breakfast and helping her daughter they sheena with her braids. nancy is a strong woman, a law graduate, a single parent, independent. right. this makes her different from many other women, and often traditional mexico school has just started after the cove it pandemic into the he not is happy. she has big plans for her future gears here. so i went to be a surgeon maker. he okay. yes, i don't, i can never, you know,

to he now you can do anything you want in life with him this way. you have to work really hard to achieve your drains. but you can do anything and showed the world when women can do anything. so must get buses it. nancy would make any sacrifice to let her daughter grow up in a fair society. mexico is still far behind. men have special rights as that of sheena has noticed. of it isn't, i've got some parents say you don't have to clear the table. you're a boy. you have to wash the dishes because you're a girl. that's not ok. isn't that should teach children that everyone is the cause, but again, went to day at school. there's a festival for theodore marcos, the day of the dead. a joyful celebration and mexico, nancy and most other parents prefer to accompany their children to school. here in now caused by there has been a lot of violence lately, especially against women. what game would you give me marianne safe on the streets?

sometimes, as i said, many women have disappeared in quintile sandals. when this, when we go out, you see photos unused about women who haven't come home in some parts of our neighbourhood. you even hear about murders school and then also does we be? must boys ask abby, though they? just as he knows now about 9 underage women disappear per day and mexico? that's 3200 a year. almost 2000 women were murdered in the 1st half of 2021. over $500.00 cases were officially famous sites. murders of women motivated by jealousy, possessiveness, or massage. any. nancy's freedom is a woman has not been easy to achieve. her family is deeply conservative. she has paid a high price for not marrying and enjoying sexual freedom. her father is disgusted and relatives avoid her. no was if you need not when people say it's the 1st thing you hear about our reputation. it's

a heavy burden for us women today. the more partners you have, the more you are condemned. not well yet it's different for men and they're allowed to talk about it openly. they brag and celebrate it with their friends imperialistic. a woman can't do that. they don't. um. okay, no. this high school was the turning point for nancy. she was the 1st in her family who fought for the right to study. he or she was inspired with new ideas, feminism and equal rights. a woman's destiny, children, church, and kitchen was not for her. she took part in student protests and became a rebel with me. but my father was ashamed when people asked him about it and that was worth that fancy thought of his daughter's reputation, that she was here with all these young people. what i'm and then his biggest worry was that i had surely lost my virginity with 200 men. but he said awful things about me that i was worthless with good. your general been yeah. but the new school year is just beginning for these young women. high school already seems like

normality, but in mexico, women's education is still often deemed a waste of time. nancy spontaneously cheers on the class with the schools battle cry image. i am very moved to see them here with all the drain. when you're at g e, one, they are denila their age and i was so nervous me. it's a crucial moment in their lives when it was me, those invoices, my sentilia wish. what is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their drains? things get even more emotional for nancy later when she meets her family at home. i new sites is a construction manager in mexico city. his work is in a classic mans world. i me sums up the dominant idea of what makes

a good real man in this environment. we have a very traditional image of the man here as the breadwinner, the protector of the family who watches over his own thought of me in the dark side of the strong protective man is much more and often use word and mexico. each colleague here knows one and can tell their stories, but none of them believe that they themselves are mucho's. i. my brother almost killed his wife out of jealousy. he hurt her and went to jail for it. i told him you are crazy, this is evil. so hopefully your jealousy is not acceptable. so that's how it happened. jaime would admit today that he was a macho to what he had cheated on his wife. countless times, had a major affair on the side for years,

and got into fights with men. laura and like went romulus to day at the age of 64, i am in therapy. see, do you want me small? bessy said you. i had to recognize that i had chosen to follow the traditions. you are not in the toxic rules of my parents. this doxey because im responded. jaime is undergoing macho therapy with therapist ricardo a young ricardo works with men convicted of violence against women, and men who recognized that they have a mutual problem. ricardo is doing all he can to bring about change in mexico. i own going from is that you're not going to be yeah, i am convinced that change is possible and that we have a chance to banish machismo in our country. i end up with that. and for us men to banish it from within a for by if it has a negative impact on our lives to reflect the some input on the sorry, the in

a group meeting, the therapists analyze the different aspects of machismo. what is defined as violence? who encourages it? how should it be stopped with the goal of the organization? hen. this is to prevent violence and achieve gender equality. there's still a long way to go in the syndicate case. so we are told that sex is only penetration and that we need to have a huge erection and be ready to conquer her. any time will a cm breakfast article lice, post hill photos. if it is full of this pressure, means you can no longer perform was as if it were you climax too soon? well, knowing it and then you blame your pot. nomic will actual break. close by him. good boy. i had them to my mom and they say my cheese mom has something to do with believing that you are better than everyone else of believing that you have to be better. this comes from one's upbringing, religion and the media. this feeling of superiority can lead to violence against

women, even during sex. yes, they will then have a fabulous illness. my patient says, i come home and i want to have sex. i don't care whether you are asleep or tired and your body belongs to me. restored, that's how it is and pornography too. though when we pass on this behavior, generation after generation, ah, in no guideline, nancy is doing the final shopping for a special family reunion. the single mother has to work, do the shopping and take care of her daughter. but athena's father, like so many men in mexico, took on 0 responsibility. listen, men have always been told that they are better than women in the family. verify that they have the freedom to choose whether they want to take care of their child or not. they can simply shift their responsibility. have hardly any men in mexico

are willing to use a condom. if they find it repulsive about people, normally the mentality is changing a bit, either of them beyond of evil, but usually it's the woman's responsibility not moment to set up on having these elements to day for generations or meeting for lunch. nancy's daughter, grandma rosalia, and i, the lighter you've up and nazis, mother, esperanza had enough water for once. the men aren't present. so the women can talk freely about sex a taboo for grandma rosalia. not even when i was young, nobody talked about it and we did not. we were told to keep quiet. i am the subject was off limits. is a hardy than other plans that are not that because i'm not asking. she never talked to me about it. and i never asked her message, i went to neighbor, fred, vice, and both she already had children. so i could ask her. but my mother know,

i never asked her before the sheena, it sounds like something from another world. 2 william brazil, my mother told me the facts of life as a child. it was a totally normal topic. i mean, well, it was normal for me, but that for many others it's not only because they're brought up differently because many families aren't the same. oh, issues that were never broached before are now coming to the table, bundle, yeoman's tray you, when i started menstruating and i told my mother, she got very angry tall. no, thank if one look at, but i don't know what was wrong with her, but she was very angry with me. yes, i remember that any of you. i don't know why i was like that may be because no one had told me and i had to go through it alone. i explained it to my son some time

later. he is 3 years young with nancy knows i don't know. i explained it to him, but i should have explained it to her. i said, lewisburg case. you get like a boy. i select nickaligha. for grandma, go send you. a woman's place is in the home. taken care of her husband and children as her daughter are denied or did but still, i delight us. husband started a 2nd family on the side in mexico. they call it the big house and the little house . yeah, i got that and then i am the big house here. we also call the wife the cathedral and the women they have on the side all the chapels, alaska for you does so life. okay, to get the in in upper la give boy, alaska. he brought her home with him a little bit. i guess he wanted me to meet her and my mother in law too late. and he told me i'm together with this woman and the baby is my daughter. love it. i

could have killed him when that movie quite been ment. okay. that got met and feel no. got it. i never expected it from him, but his brothers did the same with vermont 0 mean this is certainly gone. it's pretty common here in mexico. was from out it didn't happen to me not because or maybe i just don't know about it. and we got america them are low. say, you know, to this day, men still have different rights than women, the sons and her at the house and farm, and are supported by their father. while the daughters are dependent on their husbands. he accused hesper, i'm sorry, and are they lied? i had to ask for permission to go to work. oh, but i think a lot of warriors, when a son comes into the world, he's the pride and joy. but if it's a girl it's typical in mexico. he, when a girl is born it's oh, it's a girl. oh, with a boy. it's wow. why celebration?

reminiscing is often bitter. sweet, sometimes painful, but i never received love. not as we are. and more would grandma give her blessing to i denied or to day if she left her unfaithful husband if a man of his yeah. jam with my father's said it's very bad and a sin to leave your husband was pretty. if a daughter quarrelled with her husband and he threw her out of aria, my father said he was sorry, but he would not take her back in it. i went on, i find that tough. she laid, it's something bad happened to my daughter and she ran away and came home with eleanor. it would not be right to turn her away as a body,

but women take time to feel their pain. but none of them think things can or will go on like this. and mexico i may, has a one to one session with his therapist can be cognitive today to banish the inner macho that almost ruined his marriage. but he made me gotta jo, them. i love, i'm just, i demanded a lot of sexual things and if i didn't get what i wanted and i took it as a good reason to get it somewhere else a little better will scuttle single to love. but out on that to cover it up hill, i told my wife she was crazy. it says you're crazy. you're dreaming. it's your imagination. hoist, look, see, but no less. he added those 2 front that he can all go. oh, well, i me couldn't handle the guilt anymore. and with his therapist has learned to take responsibility. what, okay, for those up at the same time, as you know,

i was deeply sad for 2 or 3 weeks when i realized what a violent person i am. go molnar pit. so let them you're linda. yes, boy, you're late on that, but sola all that stuff. yes, i saw yesterday, he's proud to say he did not fight with his neighbor. even though the neighbor attacked jaime. o talking and gaudy lay is actually on your land response would be react, confront, defend in the day, but you can let that happen. it, bingo. i have the opportunity to choose not to repeat old behavior behavior that has hurt me and others so much. oh hi may wishes all men knew about this therapy. he thinks he's come a long way. it does pose on us. but at home he encounters a different reality. his son wrote it ego thinks that his father's generation are

all hypocrites by any. no, it will stop by don't at all. i don't like living in a country where 11 or 12 women are murdered every day. he missed you. so those and knowing that about 90 percent of all cases go unpunished, expulsion discusses k that killing boy the little yes, thank of 100 of you know, you guys always complain about violence, but you're the 1st to use it as she telling us you have to respect women and then writing the look at these chicks sending round all these pornography people, one of another. you see less boy as he does actually. now i can say to those guys, stop sending me stuff like that is on my before i didn't dare i just didn't dare. schools are also a big problem. they don't practice what they preach. the old la la, la, la, la, la, la, everything to do with sexuality or sex, or lull, is seen as a sin list icons, g o, p. and you're supposed to repent because it's something bad. your stomach,

no. gay a yo yo's, he's in my school. there were teachers who went out with middle and high school girls back one of the sequel dad yelled the paper. one that's not right. okay. said close. thought went on when you mean that they had sex with underage girls, but it was when my school was sleazy like that to every one you about it. but no one said anything. you know the stuff in equity, there's a clear deficit between how it looks and how it really is between the sexes. ah, mexico. it's the day of the dead. for nancy's family, a loving remembrance, with no anger. they make their dad's favorite meal. so their soul can rejoice when they come to visit nancy's view of the future sharpens into focus, as she contemplates the past. all, today we have the power to change what we don't like m m as will for today and

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