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a case of your place or mine. many couples prefer to use a love hotel. as i am, i know they even have menus for sex toys. right next to the corner of the ones for a bigger macho man has come under attack, will in today. what more than just a traditional role they are fighting for change. that's nice and see which is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their dreams. when you mexicans love sex, but they like to keep it hidden, going back and forth between the traditional and the modern. ah, mexico city. the angel of independence towers auspiciously above the capital. the

megacity represents everything which is mexican, a blend of folklore and progress. lovebirds, kaboodle on every corner. public displays of affection raised no eyebrows here. but there is a reason these intimate moments do not take place in private. ha, danielle aconia in uniform. wouldn't they have been together for a year now? both of them make a living from singing like here in this restaurant. this is how they met and fell in love. a few such strong passion when i'm together with him not to sexually. it is real love . i love everything about him the way he does things, his voice, the way he looks his eyes. i think he's wonderful.

he is 30 years old, she is 20 and they both still live at home with their parents. this is usual in mexico often until a couple mary's. 2 partly out of tradition and also because money is often tight, many incomes are low, and during the pandemic, it was hard for them both to earn money. when work is over, they can't say, let's go back to my place or yours. staying overnight at the partners, families taboo and sex is completely out of the question. i was just get him a stolen. of course we want to be together, but her home is very nice for us and neither is mine. my mother can be a bit difficult. we can't do much alone. we can't even watch a film together. in the nut, britney columbus don't meet again to morrow. weekend nights in the city for wild, fun loving. i love is love. and its lavishly celebrated in mexico's capital.

there seems to be no sign of any taboos. oh, a good. it's mexico's colorful, modern side, celebrating sexuality, awe, dominion. and yet he felt like it a bit quieter though. one of their favorite places is a park. they can be alone here, far from the eyes and ears of their parents. but in that most, in the silo in an up eliquis lay,

we was sitting together in the living room watching a film. and suddenly i heard no sound from my mother's room has gotten really quick that she turned down her television so she could hear what were up to nonsense. is this he is a part of philip. so we don't really have any privacy can say lather, tandoori or possibly that even if we had a big house with the room where we would not disturbed. it's still a question of respect him. a unique one. it's a cultural issue that ok come up with my family is there was this because my mother is the key. i wouldn't feel comfortable say mom as into comalla. i need to work out to wipe in this thing with danielle feels as long as you live with your parents, you should respect their rules, their sensibilities and their taboos love that a me asked them or the idea of them catching me. having sex fills me with dread

puzzles. oh, you get a lot of scorn it. oh, comments like the asked i could, there are other places for that out there that he's and get a room if you want to do that. but i, so i studied them what they list, what are your own parents or even friends say it means most by that is living most validus that was used in amigos meta for so young people are supposed to have sex in hotels. this couple goes to one regularly when they're feeling amorous, but they're a bit too embarrassed to show us their favorite hotels. as i use my nose, no, there are many is full sex toys. i put them right next to the condom unless i get it towed wiggly as i and a very curious m, which is in missouri. i was really excited the 1st time for them all. wow. i thought wow, i love chamber. fabulous. hey, how fun? yeah, good deal. we're

not one of them, at least i know he can swim now. oh, the capital is teething with love hotels. no one can say exactly how many there are, but there are lots with a price range to suit anyway. love hotels are in such high demand that they provide a good business for some people out. a leo best case is a designer for a special kind of love hotel minute was effect. if i'm here is the entrance. it's very discrete. rather very private in here directly, you can see the prices been off, but if you didn't see last night costs between 30 and a 100 euro's yeah, that payment is made directly at the entrance. and if that didn't work, no one can see from outside who is entering the hotel in what bill. everything is discrete in,

but i'm with kate. we enter and park here and the doors close automatically. what you've done. you're basically already in the hotel. some we've been looking out a you has already designed over 50 hotels from dugan for that by the you. with ru service, you can order food or drinks or even sucks. toys condoms, la lube, a little bit of everything comfortable enough. if then when the waiter comes, he puts the order in here, tells you it closes it and the customer on the other side takes the order out if it input quantico. second, the whole process is completely discrete. fuel you see each other on the north have in the little audio is convinced a happy sex life makes for a happy society. to this end, he is created very esteemed areas, all created to stimulate desire, eat la la, re got it. i have yet that i feel i eat the fuel. the shower is open,

so you can explore voyeurism in exhibitionism a and don't if you ask her partner the shower while you watch a killer, a few, are you spying on them? but, and they put on a show, those piano, eat locked photos, effects even the idea obviously works. it looks like a wet and satisfying pool party took place here they got big. oh, not big one. only one of my regular customer says she want an uprising in mexico. if to close the love hotels for 3 days, then you'll have a revolution or say, louise boscus and his girlfriend cut and bina, are regular customers in love hotels. they're not short of money. and have their own apartment, but they find the change of scenery stimulating j. d. as you come here with the feeling of wanting to really enjoy it. it's no ordinary night office at home. we also enjoy each other's bodies. but he, you have

a certain extra day. it's something i love coming up when i'm in a love hotel, it brings out my in a corner start animal a few more relaxed and more in the mood for something special, but not the same old, retain. ignore it. most a while kiss him putting all they are very impressed with their room. it creates a few options for an interesting afternoon. if that will be open in love, this couch is deeper than usual below me. nothing but it changes the angle. this'll be in certain positions the angle of your patten's pelvis is really important. it feels different and this thing makes it easier. if you don't need extra pillows or anything, is that the point and what was the mood is just right. pretty simple. there's only one factor getting in the way. it's time for us to go. but it was nice meeting you take care, we're going to have fun now by a few

kilometers away from the capital. an exciting day is beginning. thank you. hurry up, it's getting late. i'll have you pack your bags and for yet alaska, it's the daily morning rush for nancy ortiz her. she's preparing a quick breakfast and helping her daughter they sheena with her braids. nancy is a strong woman, a law graduate, a single parent, independent. right. this makes her different from many other women and often traditional mexico school has just started after the cove it pandemic into the he not is happy. she has big plans for her future gears. i want to be as surgeon medical. he ok. yes i don't. i, he never, you know,

to he now you can do anything you want to live with him this way. you have to work really hard to achieve your drains, but you can do anything and showed the will. did we? women can do anything. so must got buses it nancy would make any sacrifice to let her daughter grow up in a fair society. mexico is still far behind. men have special rights as that a sheena has noticed. of it isn't as well as some parents say you don't have to clear the table. you're a boy. you have to wash the dishes because you're a girl. that's not ok. isn't that should teach children that every one is the cause but okay, yeah. he went back today at school. there's a festival for theodore marcos, the day of the dead. a joyful celebration and mexico, nancy and most other parents prefer to accompany their children to school. here in the elk alpine, there has been a lot of violence lately, especially against women. what game would you give me very unsafe on the street?

sometimes as i said, many women have disappeared. when dress animals went best. when you go out, you see photos in used about women who haven't come home in some parts of our neighbourhood. you even hear about murders school, and then also does we be, must be as heavy though they? yes. as he knows now, about 9 underage women disappear per day in mexico. that's $3200.00 a year. almost 2000 women were murdered in the 1st half of 2021. over $500.00 cases were officially famous sides. murders of women motivated by jealousy, possessiveness, or massage any. nancy's freedom is a woman has not been easy to achieve. her family is deeply conservative. she has paid a high price for not marrying, and enjoying sexual freedom. her father is disgusted, and relatives avoid her. no was if you need what, when people say it's the 1st thing you hear about our reputation. it's

a heavy burden for us women today, the more partners you have, the more you are condemned. not well yet it's different for men, and they're allowed to talk about it openly. they brag and celebrate it, with their friends. same fear, soliciting a woman can't do that. they don't. um. okay, no. this high school was the turning point for nancy. she was the 1st in her family who fought for the right to study. he or she was inspired with new ideas, feminism and equal rights. a woman's destiny, children, church, and kitchen was not for her. she took part in student protests and became a rebel with me. but my father was ashamed when people asked him about it and that was worth that, vince, he thought of his daughter's reputation, guessed that she was here with all these young people who i am. and then his biggest worry was that i had surely lost my virginity with 200 men. but he said awful things about me that i was worthless with good. your general been yeah. but the new school year is just beginning for these young women. high school already

seems like normality, but in mexico, women's education is still often deemed a waste of time. nancy spontaneously cheers on the class with the schools battle cry. with a mood, i am very moved to see them here with old a drain. when you're at g one, they are denila their age and i was so nervous. it's a crucial moment in their lives when it would be those invoices, my sentilia wish. what is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their drains? things get even more emotional for nancy later when she meets her family at home. i me, science is a construction manager in mexico city. his work is in a classic mans world. i me sums up the dominant idea of what makes

a good real man in this environment. his quarter we have a very traditional image of the man here as the breadwinner, the protector of the family who watches over his own thought of me in the dark side of the strong protective man is much small and often use word in mexico. each colleague here knows one and can tell their stories, but none of them believe that they themselves are mucho's. i pay my brother almost killed his wife out of jealousy. he hurt her and went to jail for it. i told him you are crazy. this is evil. so hopefully your jealousy is not acceptable. and so that's how it happened. well, jaime would admit today that he was a macho to what he had cheated on his wife. countless times had a major affair on the side for years and got into fights with men, laura,

which isn't like what romulus to day at the age of 64, when i am in therapy. he did you want me small this? he said he, i had to recognize that i had chosen to follow the traditions to an ard and the toxic rules of my parents. this toxic us im responded. jaime is undergoing macho therapy with therapist ricardo a young ricardo works with men convicted of violence against women and men who recognized that they have a macho problem. ricardo is doing all he can to bring about change in mexico. i own come from me, so you're not gonna be here. i am convinced that change is possible and that we have a chance to banish machismo in our country. i end up with that. and for us men to banish it from within a for by if it has a negative impact on our lives to reflect the some info on the savvy, the in

a group meeting, the therapist analyzed the different aspects of machismo. what is defined as violence. who encourages it? how should it be stopped with the goal of the organization? hen. this is to prevent violence and achieve gender equality. there's still a long way to go. in the syndicate case, so no a, we are told that sex is only penetration and pressure that we need to have a huge erection and be ready to conquer her any time will a c m like historical life plus she'll photos of it? yes. all of this pressure means you can no longer perform was as if it were you climax too soon? oh no. and then you blame your pot. non equilibrium break was put him good boy. but i had them to my mom. they say my cheese mom has something to do with believing that you're better than everyone else of believing that you have to be better. this comes from one's upbringing, religion, and the media. this feeling of superiority can lead to violence against women,

even during sex. yes, they will then have a fabulous illness. my patient says, i come home and i want to have sex. i don't care whether you are asleep or tired and your body belongs to me restored and that's how it is. and pornography too. though when we pass on this behavior generation after generation, i live in oak open, nancy is doing the final shopping for a special family reunion. the single mother has to work, do the shopping and take care of her daughter. but athena's father, like so many men in mexico, took on 0 responsibility. men have always been told that they are better than women in the family, verify that they have the freedom to choose whether they want to take care of their child or not. they can simply shift their responsibility. have hardly any men in

mexico are willing to use a condom. if they find it repulsive is that about people. normally the mentality is changing a bit either of them beyond of evil, but usually it's the woman's responsibility not moment to set up on having these elements. to day for generations or meeting for lunch. nancy's daughter, grandma rosalia, and i'd eliza you up and nazi's mother, esperanza had enough water for once. the men aren't present. so the women can talk freely about sex a taboo for grandma rosalia. nadia and when i was young, nobody talked about it and we did not. we were told to keep quiet. i am. the subject was off limits is a hardy than other plans that are not that because i'm not up to you. she never talked to me about it and i never asked her message. i went to neighbor, fred, vice, and both the she already had children. so i could ask her. but my mother, no,

i never asked her for the hyena, it sounds like something from another world. 2 william brazil, my mother told me the facts of life as a child, it was, it was a totally normal topic. i mean, well, it was normal for me, but, but for many others it's not only because they're brought up differently because many families aren't the same. oh, issues that were never broached before are now coming to the table, bundle, yeoman's tray you, when i started menstruating and i told my mother, she got very angry, tall. no 2nd one look at, but i don't know what was wrong with her, but she was very angry with me. yes, i remember that any of you. i don't know why i was like that may be because no one had told me and i had to go through it alone. i explained it to my son some time

later. he is 3 years young with a nancy lost. i don't know. i explained it to him, but i should have explained it to her. i would say louis case, delicate boy, it's been a good idea. for grandma, who sent you a woman's place is in the home and taking care of her husband and children as her daughter. uh did i did but still i delight us. husband started a 2nd family on the side and mexico. they call it the big house and the little house. yeah, i got that and i am the big house here. we also call the wife the cathedral and the women they have on the side all the chapels, alaska for you does thought it was okay to get the in, in upper law give boy alaska. he brought her home with him a little. i guess he wanted me to meet her and my mother in law to later he told me i'm together with this woman and the baby is my daughter. i love it. i could have

killed him. what made me quite think medicaid eco made him feel hooked with no garbage. i never expected it from him, but his brothers did the same amount of things, you know mean with it's certainly gone. it's pretty common here in mexico. the tech was to mount. it didn't happen to me not because, or maybe i just don't know about it. and we got to medical them are looking to this day, men still have different rights than women, the sons and her at the house and farm, and are supported by their father. while the daughters are dependent on their husbands, i sped on sock and other light. i had to ask for permission to go to work. oh, but i think a lot of warriors, when a son comes into the world, he's the pride and joy. but if it's a girl it's typical in mexico. he, when a girl is born, it's oh, it's a girl. oh, with a boy. it's wow. why celebration?

reminiscing is often bitter. sweet, sometimes painful, but i never received love notice via a more would grandma give her blessing to i denied or to day if she left her unfaithful husband . if a man of his yeah. jam with my father's said, it's very bad and a sin to leave your husband was 150. if a daughter quarrelled with her husband and he threw her out of maria, my father said he was sorry, but he would not take her back in it. i will not, i find that tough. she laid. it's something bad happened to my daughter and she ran away and came home the day. yeah, exactly. oh no. it would not be right to turn her away as

a body. but women take time to feel their pain better. none of them think things can or will go on like this. and mexico i may, has a one to one session with his therapist can be cognitive today to banish the inner macho that almost ruined his marriage. but he made me gotta julia, madame, which i demanded a lot of sexual things. and if i didn't get what i wanted, i took it as a good reason to get it somewhere else. a little better will scuttle single to love . but out on that to cover it up hill, i told my wife she was crazy. may say this, you're crazy. you're dreaming. it's your imagination voice looks but no less. he had a thought to fun, but you can all go. oh, well, i me couldn't handle the guilt anymore. and with his therapist has learned to take responsibility. what, okay, from those up as him, as you know,

i was deeply sad for 2 or 3 weeks when i realized what a violent person i am. go molnar pencil at the belinda. yes boy you'll. it'll come up. a sola all that stuff. yes, i saw yesterday. he's proud to say he did not fight with his neighbor, even though the neighbor attacked jaime. oh, okay. and connie lee is actually on your land response would be react, confront, defending the day. but you can't let that happen. it, bingo. i have the opportunity to choose not to repeat old behavior behavior that has hurt me and others so much. oh, hi may wishes all men knew about this therapy. he thinks he's come a long way. it does post on us. but at home he encounters a different reality. his son wrote it ego thinks that his father's generation are

all hypocrites. and if not, we'll study. i don't at all, i don't like living in a country were 11 or 12 women are murdered every day. most you saw those and knowing that about 90 percent of all cases go unpunished, expulsion to discuss k that killing boy. the less think a 100 of you guys always complain about violence, but you're the 1st to use it as she telling as you have to respect women. and then writing the look at these chicks sending randall these pornography all a table and on the, on the la, you see less boy as he'd actually now i can say to those guys, stop sending me stuff like that. it is all met before. i didn't dare, i just didn't dare. schools are also a big problem. they don't practice what they preach. the old la la, la, la, la, la, la la, everything to do with sexuality or sex or lull is seen as a sin list icons yo pic. and you're supposed to repent,

do you because it's something bad? yes. uh huh. no k a yo yos, he's in my school, there were teachers who went out with middle and high school girls like one i don't know the sequel dad yelled a paper. one that's not right. ok. said close. thought went on when you mean that they had sex with under age girls, but it was what my school was sleazy like that to every one you about it. but no one said anything. you know the stuff in equity, there's a clear deficit between how it looks and how it really is between the sexes. ah, mexico. it's the day of the dead. for nancy's family, a loving remembrance, with no anger. they make their dad's favorite meal. so their soul can rejoice when they come to visit nancy's view of the future sharpens into focus as she contemplates the past. boy, today we have the power to change what we don't like animals for today and forever

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