up to date and in touch, follow us with the landscape. a reflection of a turbulent history. the cities, the mosaic of different people and languages. v ron's mountains reveal unparalleled beauty. ah, a special look at a special country loan from above. start september 16th on d, w. with sex is a pretty complicated business in mexico. the country is all about passion and temptation . yet there are many taboos after a party, it's rarely

a case of your place or mine. many couples prefer to use a love hotel. as i use my nose, they even have menus for sex toys. right next to the corner of the of the once revered macho man has come under attack, willing to day want more than just a traditional role. they are fighting for change. that's nice and see which is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their dreams. when you mexicans love sex, but they like to keep it hidden, going back and forth between the traditional and the modern. ah, mexico city. the angel of independence towers auspiciously above the capital. the

megacity represents everything which is mexican, a blend of folklore and progress. lovebirds, kaboodle on every corner. public displays of affection raised no eyebrows here. but there is a reason these intimate moments did not take place in private. ha, danielle aconia in uniform. wouldn't they have been together for a year now? both of them make a living from singing like here in this restaurant. this is how they met and fell in love. a few such strong passion when i'm together with him, not just sexually. it is real love. i love everything about him the way he does things, his voice, the way he looks his eyes. i think he's wonderful. he

is 30 years old, she is 20 and they both still live at home with their parents. this is usual in mexico often until a couple mary's partly out of tradition and also because money is often tight. many incomes are low and during the pandemic, it was hard for them both to earn money. when work is over, they can't say, let's go back to my place or yours. staying overnight at the partners, families, taboo and sex is completely out of the question. i was just get him a stolen of course we want to be together, but her home is very nice for us and neither is mine. my mother can be a bit difficult. we can't do much alone. we can't even watch a film together in the number in the columbus don't meet again to morrow. weekend nights in the city for wild, fun loving. and i love his love and it's lavishly celebrated in mexico's capital.

there seems to be no sign of any taboos. oh, i mean, well, i, i, it's mexico's colorful, modern side, celebrating sexuality ah, genuine and uniform like it a bit quieter though. one of their favorite places is a park. they can be alone here, far from the eyes and ears of their parents. but in that most, in the silo in an up eliquis lay,

we was sitting together in the living room watching a film. and suddenly i heard no sound from my mother's room has gotten to the point that she turned down her television. so she could hear what were up to nonsense is this, he is a part of philip. so we don't really have any privacy can say lather, tandoori or possibly that even if we had a big house with the room where we would not disturbed. it's still a question of respect him, a unit from one, it's a cultural issue that ok come up with my family is there was this, could my mother is there is i wouldn't feel comfortable saying mom is in tacoma. you need to work out to wipe in this thing was done years feels as long as you live with your parents, you should respect that they are rules, their sensibilities and their taboos love that a me is there more of the idea of them catching me, having sex fills me with dread puzzles. oh, you get

a lot of scorn it or comments like yeah, stuck on there are other places for that out there that he's and get a room if you want to do that, but i so i study them what they list, what are your own parents or even friends say it was me must by that is living must validus disease in amigos. meta so young people are supposed to have sex in hotels . this couple goes to one regularly when they're feeling amorous. but they're a bit too embarrassed to show us their favorite hotels. as i am my nose, no, there are many is full sex toys. i put them right next to the content unless i get it. totally clear that i'm very curious. i them, which is emma. i was really excited the 1st time for them all. wow. i thought, wow, i love chamber fabulous. hey, how fun, good feel. we're

not one of them at least i know he can swim now. i the capital is teeming with love hotels. no one can see exactly how many there are . what there are lots with a price range to suit anyway. love hotels are in such high demand that they provide a good business for some people. out a leo best case is a designer for a special kind of love hotel minute. but the fact it appears the entrance, it's very discreet, rather, very private in here directly, you can see the prices been looked pretty through. it didn't last night, costs between 30 and a 100 euros. and payment is made directly at the entrance. and if that didn't work, no one can see from outside who is entering the hotel in what bill. everything is discrete in, but i'm with kate. we enter and park here and the doors close automatically. what

you've been, you're basically already in the hotel. some of been looking out a you has already designed over 50 hotels from dugan for that by the you. with ru service, you can order food or drinks or even sucks, toys condoms. what lube a little bit of everything comfortable if, if, if then when the waiter comes, he puts the order in here, tells you how close is it? and the customer on the other side takes the order out if it employ quantico 2nd. okay. the whole process is completely discrete. you don't see each other had one then not have in my little audio is convinced a happy sex life makes for a happy society. to this end, he is created very esteemed areas. all created to stimulate desire eat la la, like i said, i have yet that i feel i eat the fuel. the shower is open. so you can explore

voyeurism in exhibitionism a and don't if you ask her partner the shower while you watch delicate the fuel, you spying on them. but, and they put on a show those piano eat lot without photos, effects. even the idea obviously works. it looks like a wet and satisfying pool party took place here they got big. oh, not big one. only one of my regular customer says she won an uprising in mexico. if to close the love hotels for 3 days, then you'll have a revolution. jose luis bass case and his girlfriend cut and bina, are regular customers in love hotels. they're not short of money and have their own apartment, but they find the change of scenery stimulating j. d as one with them. if you come here with a feeling of wanting to really enjoy it, it's no ordinary night at home. we also enjoy each other's bodies. but he,

you have a certain extra i say it's something i love coming to the point when i'm in a love hotel, it brings out my in a corner star a little a few more relaxed and more in the mood for something special. and not the same old retain. good, not. it will say one of his him bring all they are very impressed with that room. it creates a few options for an interesting afternoon. if that or me open, it didn't love this couch is deeper than usual below me. nothing but it changes the angle picked up yet in certain positions. the angle of your patton's pelvis is really important. it feels different. and this thing makes it easier. if you don't need extra pillows or anything, is that the point and one was the mood is just right. pretty simple. there's only one factor getting in the way. it's time for us to go. but it was nice meeting. you take care, we're going to have fun now by a few

kilometers away from the capital. it exciting day is beginning. franky hurry up, it's getting light. i'll have you packed your baggage, everything for yankton that's good. it's the daily morning rush for nancy ortiz. she's preparing a quick breakfast and helping her daughter they sheena with her braids. nancy is a strong woman, a law graduate, a single parent, independent. this makes her different from many other women in often traditional mexico. school has just started after the coven pandemic, into the he not is happy. she has big plans for her future yet. oh yes, here. see i went to be a surgeon. make a few. ok. yes, i was working next. you know to he now you can do anything you want in life with

him this way. you have to work really hard to achieve your drains. but, but you can do anything and show the world we women can do anything. so must got buses it. uh huh. nancy would make any sacrifice to let her daughter grow up in a fair society. mexico is still far behind. men have special rights as that a sheena has noticed. every ism has got some parents say you don't have to clear the table. you're a boy. you have to wash the dishes because you're a girl. that's not ok. isn't that should teach children that every one is the cause, but again, went back to day at school. there's a festival for theodore marcos, the day of the dead. but joyful celebration and mexico, nancy and most other parents prefer to accompany their children to school. here in la copa, there has been a lot of violence lately, especially against women. what game would you give me very unsafe on the street on?

does it so many women have disappeared when, when dress animals, when this, when you go out, you see photos and news about women who haven't come home in some parts of our neighbourhood. you even hear about murders schol on that also does we be must pass heavy lily. yes. as he knows now about 9 under age women disappear per day and mexico. that's $3200.00 a year. almost 2000 women were murdered in the 1st half of 2021. over 500 cases were officially famous sides murders of women, motivated by jealousy, possessiveness, or massage. any nancy's freedom as a woman has not been easy to achieve. her family is deeply conservative. she has paid a high price for not marrying and enjoying sexual freedom. her father is disgusted and relatives avoid her. now was that he knew what when people say it's the 1st thing you hear about our reputation. it's

a heavy burden for us women today. the more partners you have, the more you are condemned yet it's different for men and they're allowed to talk about it openly. they brag and celebration with their friends imperialistic. a woman can't do that. that. oh no, no. this high school was the turning point for nancy. she was the 1st in her family who fought for the right to study. here she was inspired with new ideas, feminism and equal rights. a woman's destiny, children, church, and kitchen was not for her. she took part in student protests and became a rebel with me, but my father was ashamed when people asked him about it for a 2nd. he thought of his daughter's reputation. guessed that she was here with all these young people with them. and then his biggest worry was that i had surely lost my virginity with 200 men. he said awful things about me that i was worthless with good. your general been yeah. but the new school year is just beginning for these

young women. high school already seems like normality, but in mexico, women's education is still often deemed a waste of time. nancy spontaneously. cheers on the class with the schools battle cry. mood you. i am very moved to see them here with all the drain. when you're at g one, they had to know that their age and i was so nervous. it's a crucial moment in their lives. when would be those influences? my sentilia wish. what is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their dreams? things get even more emotional for nancy later when she meets her family at home. i me say this is a construction manager in mexico city. his work is in a classic mans world. i me sums up the dominant idea of what makes

a good real man in this environment. we have a very traditional image of the man here as the breadwinner, the protector of the family who watches over his own, told me in the dark side of the strong protective man is much more and often use word and mexico. each colleague here knows one and can tell their stories, but none of them believe that they themselves are mucho's. i pay my brother almost killed his wife out of jealousy. he hurt her and went to jail for it. i told him you are crazy. this is evil. so hopefully your jealousy is not acceptable. and so that's how it happened. jaime would admit today that he was a macho to what he had cheated on his wife. countless times had a major affair on the side for years and got into fights with men. laura,

and like went romulus to day at the age of 64, like when i am in therapy. see, do you want me small this? he said he, i had to recognise, but i had chosen to follow the traditions to and i am a toxic rules of my parents, this toxic gus im spotted. jaime is undergoing macho therapy with therapist ricardo, i yon. ricardo works with men convicted of violence against women and men who recognized that they have a macho problem. ricardo is doing all he can to bring about change in mexico. i own going from me, so you're not gonna be yeah, i'm convinced that change. is it possible and that we have a chance to banish machismo in our country? i end up with that. and for us men to banish it from within the for by it has a negative impact on our lives to reflect the some info on the, sorry, the in

a group meeting, the therapist analyzed the different aspects of machismo. what is defined as violence. all who encourages it? how should it be stopped with the goal of the organization? hen. this is to prevent violence and achieve gender equality. there's still a long way to go. in the syndicate case, so no a, we are told that sex is only penetration and that we need to have a huge erection and be ready to conquer her. any time will see america article, i suppose. she'll photos of it. yes. all of this pressure means you can no longer perform was, is this that, or you climax too soon, unless he knew it and then you blame you pod nomic will break close by him. good boy. but ahead about them. they say my chief moore has something to do with believing that you are better than everyone else of believing that you have to be better. this comes from one's upbringing, religion, and the media. this feeling of superiority can lead to violence against women,

even during sex. yeah, they will then other families, my patient says i come home and i want to have sex, that i don't care whether you're asleep or tired and your body belongs to me the story. and that's how it is in pornography to those look when we pass on this behavior generation after generation. ah, in no guideline, nancy is doing the final shopping for a special family reunion. the single mother has to work do the shopping and take care of her daughter. but his father, like so many men in mexico, took on 0 responsibility. men have always been told that they are better than women in the family. that if i said they have the freedom to choose whether they want to take care of their child or not, they can simply share their responsibility. but i still haven't hardly any men in

mexico were willing to, he's a random. did he say find it repulsive? is that about people? normally the mentality is changing a bit. even more than beando. he won't, but usually it's the woman's responsibility. not moment. this won't have any help to day for generations or meeting for lunch. nancy's daughter, grandma rosalia, and i'd eliza you up in nazi's, mother, esperanza had enough water for once. the men aren't present. so the women can talk freely about sex a taboo for grandma rosalia. navina, when i was young, nobody talked about it and we did not. we were told to keep quiet. i am. the subject was off limits is a hardy than other players that not that become another example. she never talked to me about it. and i never asked her message, i went to neighbor for advice and both the yes she already had children,

so i could ask her where you are. but my mother, no, i never asked her for the hiena. it sounds like something from another world. 2 in britain to get, my mother told me the facts of life as a child. it was a totally normal topic. i mean, well, it was normal for me, but, but for many others it's not only because they're brought up differently because many families aren't the same. oh, issues that were never broached before are now coming to the table. one, the yeomans tray you, when i started menstruating and i told my mother, she got very angry, tall. no 2nd one look at, but i don't know what was wrong with her, but she was very angry with me as i remember that any of you. i don't know why i was like that may be because no one had told me and i had to go through it alone. i explained it to my son some

time later. he is 3 years young with nancy lost. i don't know. i explained it to him, but i should have explained it to her. i said, lewisburg case. i get like a boy. i select nickaligha for grandma who sent you a woman's place is in the home and taken care of her husband and children. as her daughter, i did, i did but still, i delight us. husband started a 2nd family on the side in mexico. they call it the big house and the little house . yeah, i got that and then i am the big house here. we also call the wife the cathedral and the women they have on the side. all the chapels, alaska feed does so life. okay, to get the in, in upper la give boy, alaska. he brought her home with him a little. i guess he wanted me to meet her and my mother in law too late and he told me i'm together with this woman and the baby is my daughter. love it. i could

have killed him. well, that may be quite. the medicaid eckleman didn't feel closer. beth not a bit, i never expected it from him, but his brothers did the same with vermont. 0 mean with it's certainly gone. it's pretty common here in mexico circle to mount. it didn't happen to me not because, or maybe i just don't know about it. and we got america, them are low, say to this day, men still have different rights than women, the sons and her at the house and farm and are supported by their father. while the daughters are dependent on their husbands, i sped on, soc and other lied. i had to ask for permission to go to work. he. oh, but i think a lot of warriors when his son comes into the world, he's the pride and joy. but if it's a girl it's typical in mexico. he, when a girl is born it's oh, it's a girl. oh, good with

a boy. it's wow why celebration had reminiscing is often bitter. sweet, sometimes painful, but i never received love unless we are a more good grandma give her blessing to our delight or today if she left her unfaithful husband if a man of his yeah. jam williams, my father said it's very bad and a sin to leave your husband was casey. if a daughter quarrelled with her husband and he threw her out of aria, my father said he was sorry, but he would not take her back in one of them, i find that tough. she laid, if something bad happened to my daughter and she ran away and came home with debbie . oh no, it would not be right to turner away as a body but women take time to feel their pain. but

none of them think things can or will go on like this. and mexico i may as a one to one session with his therapist can be kind of due today to banish the inner macho that almost ruined his marriage. but imagine gotta jo, them on that. i'm just, i demanded a lot of sexual things and if i didn't get what i wanted and i took it as a good reason to get it somewhere else, a little better will skeleton. but out on that to cover it up hill, i told my wife she was crazy. it say this, you're crazy. you're dreaming. it's your imagination oyster looks, but no less. he added those 2 front that he can all go. oh, well i me couldn't handle the guilt anymore. and with his therapist has learned to take responsibility. like what,

okay. fernando so place him and as you know i was deeply sad for 2 or 3 weeks when i realized what a violent person i am go mole nap. it's on that belinda. yes boy, you're going up a sola. what do you think i saw yesterday? he's proud to say he did not fight with his neighbor even though the neighbor attacked. jaime alyssa and connie lay is actually on your land response would be react, confront, defend the day. but you can let that happen. it, bingo. i have the opportunity to choose not to repeat old behavior behavior that has hurt me and others so much. oh, hi may wishes all men knew about this therapy. he thinks he's come a long way, dallas persona, but at home he encounters a different reality. with his son wrote at ego thinks that his father's generation or all hypocrites pay at a normal study. i don't at all. i don't like living in

a country where 11 or 12 women are murdered every day. most he saw those and knowing that about 90 percent of all cases go unpunished expulsion . so discusses k that killing boy. the least like a 100 of you guys. always complain about violence, but you're the 1st to use it on the she telling us you have to respect women and then writing the look at these chicks sending randall this pornography of table one on the on the other you see less boys heat up each other now i can say to those guys, yes, stop sending me stuff like that. it is on my before i didn't dare i just didn't dare. schools are also a big problem. they don't practice what they preach. don la, la la, la, la la, everything to do with sexuality or sex, or lull, is seen as a sin lowest. i can she o pick and you're supposed to repent deal because it's something bad. your stomach,

no. k a yo yo's, he's in my school. there were teachers who went out with middle and high school girls. go back when i do not the sequel. dad yelled the paper. one that's not right . ok said close. thought went on. why do you mean that they had sex with underage girls? little as my school was sleazy like that to every one you about it. but no one said anything. yeah. no. there's a clear deficit between how it looks and how it really is between the sexes. ah, mexico, it's the day of the dead. for nancy's family, a loving remembrance, with no anger, they make their dad's favorite meal. so their soul can rejoice when they come to visit. nancy's view of the future sharpens into focus, as she contemplates the past. all today we have the power to change what we don't like animals will fit today and forever.

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