ah, but a new generation wants to change that love and sax. taboos in mexico close are next on d. w as is carissa to thought they were great with sex is a pretty complicated business in mexico. the country is all about passion and temptation . yet there are many taboos after a party, it's rarely

a case of your place or mine. many couples prefer to use a love hotel. as i am, i know they even have menus for sex toys, game right next to the court of appeals. bear with the ones revered macho man has come under attack, willing to day want more than just a traditional role. they are fighting for change. that's nice and see which is the day to will conquer the world and find the day dreams, mexicans love sex, but they like to keep it hidden. going back and forth between the traditional and the modern. ah mexico city. the angel of independence towers auspiciously above the capital. the mega city represents everything which is mexican,

a blend of folklore and progress. lovebirds, kaboodle on every corner. public displays of affection raised no eyebrows here. but there is a reason these intimate moments do not take place in private ha . 2 donyo accrued you in unified woodyard. they have been together for a year now. both of them make a living from singing like here in this restaurant. this is how they met and fell in love. a few such strong passion went on together with him. not just sexually. it is real love. i love everything about him the way he does things, his voice, the way he looks his eyes. i think he is wonderful.

he is 30 years old. she is 20 and they both still live at home with their parents. this is usual in mexico often until a couple mary's partly out of tradition and also because money is often tight. many incomes are lost during the pandemic. it was hard for them both to earn money. when work is over, they can't say, let's go back to my place where yours staying over night at the partners families, taboo and sex is completely out of the question. i must get em us. that one of course we want to be together. but her home is very nice for us, and neither is mine. my mother can be a bit difficult. we can't do much alone. we can't even watch a film together in the upper nicolai. don't meet again to morrow. weekend nights in the city for wild, fun, loving and colorful mob his love. and it's lavishly celebrated in mexico's capital

. there seems to be no sign of any taboos head that way. i mean, but i, i, it's mexico's colorful, modern side, celebrating sexuality, ah, dominion. and yet he felt like it a bit quieter though. one of their favorite places is a park. they can be alone here, far from the eyes and ears of their parents. but it almost as i live in an appeal equally, we was sitting together in the living room watching

a film. suddenly i heard no sound from my mother's room is gone, but that she turned down her television so she could hear what were up to. nonsense is bessie is up, put up philip. so we don't really have any privacy cancer lather, tandoori. i love facility that even if we had a big house with the room where we would not disturbed, it's still a question of respect him. a unit from one. it's a cultural issue to look is come up with my family is there was this, could my mother is there is i wouldn't feel comfortable. no say mom is hintock comalla. you need to work out to open this thing with it. done years feels as long as you live with your parents, you should respect their rules, their sensibilities and their taboos. over to that a me is there more of the idea of them catching me, having sex fills me with dread puzzles. oh, you get

a lot of scorn it or comments like yeah, stuck on there are other places for that out there that he's and get a room if you want to do that, but i so i study them what they list, what are your own parents or even friends say it was me, most bothered is living most balanced. allergies in amigos. meta for so young people were supposed to have sex in hotels. this couple goes to one regularly when they're feeling amorous. but they're a bit too embarrassed to show us their favorite hotels. as i am my nose. no, there are many. is full sex toys. i put them right next to the condom. i never get it towed, michael. yes, i am very curious. i the i'm which is in missouri. i was really excited the 1st time for them all. wow. i thought wow, i love chamber fabulous. hey, how fun, good deal.

well, we're not one of them at least i know he can swim now. oh, the capital is teeming with love hotels. no one can see exactly how many there are, but there are lots with a price range to suit. anyone love hotels are in such high demand that they provide a good business for some people. out a leo bice case is a designer for a special kind of love hotel minute. but like if i'm here is the entrance. it's very discreet. rather, very private. and here directly you can see the prices been rough, but it didn't last night. costs between 30 and a 100 euros in payment is made directly at the intrinsic mister the demo. no one can see from outside who is entering the hotel. motel. everything is discrete in, but i'm with kate. we enter and park here and the door is close automatically. what

if then you're basically already in the hotel several been through, i looked at our l. u has already designed over 50 hotels from dugan. whether it be the you with ru service, you can order food or drinks, or even sex toys. condoms, la lube, a little bit of everything country from political, if it's day and when the waiter comes, he puts the order in here, tells you he closes it and the customer on the other side takes the order out if they didn't like what the 2nd i called the whole process is completely discrete, a few and you don't see each other had one in north have in my little audio is convinced a happy sex life makes for a happy society to this end, he is created very esteemed areas, all created to stimulate desire eat la la, re got it. i have yet that i feel i eat the fuel. the shower is open so you can explore voyeurism in exhibitionism

a and don't if you ask your partner the shower while you watch a killer with a few on you spine on them. but and they put on a show those piano e lacrosse, outside of effects tv in the idea obviously works. it looks like a wet and satisfying pool party took place here they got big or nothing. when only one of my regular customer says she want an uprising and mexico, if to close the love hotels for 3 days, then you'll have a revolution. was said, louise bust case, and his girlfriend cut and bina, are regular customers in love hotels. they're not short of money and have their own apartment, but they find the change of scenery stimulating j. d. as you come here with the feeling of wanting to really enjoy it, it's no ordinary night at home. we also enjoy each other's bodies, but he,

you have a certain extra i say it's something i love, you know, coming up when i'm in a love hotel, it brings out my in a corner star animal, a few more relaxed and more in the mood for something special must have been not the same old retain, did not get mo, say one of his him bring all they are very impressed with a room. it creates a few options for an interesting afternoon. if that, or leave open, if didn't love this couch is deeper than usual, let me nothing, but it changes the angle. this'll be gabriella in certain positions. the angle of your patterns, pelvis is really important. it feels different, and this thing makes it easier. if you don't need extra pillars or anything up when it was the mood is just right little. there's only one factor getting in the way. it's time for us to go. but which was nice meeting you take care, we're going to have fun now by a few

kilometers away from the capital. an exciting day is beginning. thank you. hurry up. it's getting late. i'll have you packed your baggage. i haven't been for yet. the last girl. it's the daily morning rush for nancy ortiz with her, and she's preparing a quick breakfast and helping her daughter of a sheena with her braids. nancy is a strong woman, a law graduate, a single parent, independent. this makes her different from many other women in often traditional mexico school has just started after the coven pandemic, into that he not is happy. she has big plans for her future. did. oh yes, i see. i want to be as surgeon of you. okay. yes, i don't, i, he never, you know, to he now you can do anything you want in life with him. this where you have to

work really hard to achieve your drains. but you can do anything and showed the world that we women can do anything. that is so much. got buses it. uh huh. nancy would make any sacrifice to let her daughter grow up in a fair society. mexico is still far behind. men have special rights as it is, sheena has noticed of isn't, i've got some parents say you don't have to clear the table. you're a boy. you have to wash the dishes because you're a girl. that's not ok. isn't that should teach children that everyone is the cause . but again, when that to day at school there's a festival for theodore marcos, the day of the dead. a joyful celebration and mexico, nancy and most other parents preferred to accompany their children to school. here in la culpa, there has been a lot of violence lately, especially against women or game which you get very unsafe on the street. sometimes if i said many women have disappeared, we went,

dress animals went best. when we go out, you see photos in used about women who haven't come home in some parts of our neighborhood. you even hear about murders school, and then also does we be, must be asked happy though. they yes. as he knows, know about 9 underage women disappear per day in mexico. that's $3200.00 a year. almost 2000 women were murdered in the 1st half of 2021. over $500.00 cases were officially famous sites. murders of women motivated by jealousy, possessiveness, or massage, any nancy's freedom as a woman has not been easy to achieve. her family is deeply conservative. she has paid a high price for not marrying, and enjoying sexual freedom. her father is disgusted, and relatives avoid her. now was that he knew what people say, it's the 1st thing you hear about our reputation. it's a heavy burden for us women today, the more partners you have,

the more you are condemned. not quite yet. it's different for men. they're allowed to talk about it openly. they brag and celebration with their friends imperialistic . a woman can't do that. there are numb ahead. no. this high school was the turning point for nancy. she was the 1st in her family who fought for the right to study. here she was inspired with new ideas, feminism and equal rights. a woman's destiny, children, church, and kitchen was not for her. she took part in student protests and became a rebel with me. but my father was ashamed when people asked him about it and that was worth that fancy thought of his daughter's reputation. guessed that she was here with all these young people who i am and then his biggest worry was that i had surely lost my virginity with 200 men. but he said awful things about me that i was worthless with good. your general been. yeah. but the new school year is just beginning for these young women. high school already seems like normality,

but in mexico, women's education is still often deemed a waste of time. nancy spontaneously cheers on the class with the schools battle cry. moody. i am very moved to see them here with all their dreams. when you're at g one, they have to know that their age and i was so nervous. it's a crucial moment in their lives when it would be those influences. my sentilia wish . what is the day to will conquer the world and fight for their dreams? things get even more emotional for nancy later when she meets her family at home. i me, said's is a construction manager in mexico city. his work is in a classic mans world. and i me sums up the dominant idea of what makes

a good real man in this environment. we have a very traditional image of the man here as the breadwinner, the protector of the family who watches over his own, told me in the dark side of the strong protective man is much small and often use word in mexico. each colleague here knows one and can tell their stories, but none of them believe that they themselves are mucho's. i say, my brother almost killed his wife out of jealousy. he hurt her and went to jail for it. i told him, you are crazy. this is evil, so hopefully your jealousy is not acceptable. and so that's how it happened. jaime would admit today that he was a macho to what he had cheated on his wife. countless times had a major affair on the side for years and got into fights with men, laura,

which isn't like what the romulus to day at the age of 64 when i am in therapy. see, do you want me small this? he said he, i had to recognize that i had chosen to follow the traditions to or not, and the toxic rules of my parents. this doc said gus im spotted. jaime is undergoing macho therapy with therapist ricardo. i yawn. ricardo works with men convicted of violence against women and men who recognized that they have a macho problem. ricardo is doing all he can to bring about change in mexico. i own going from me, so you're not going big. i am convinced that change is possible and that we have a chance to banish machismo in our country. i end up with that and for us men to banish it from within a for by if and it has a negative impact on our lives to reflect the some input on the sorry the in

a group meeting, the therapists analyze the different aspects of machismo. what is defined as violence, all who encourages it? how should it be stopped with the goal of the organization? hen. this is to prevent violence and achieve gender equality. there's still a long way to go. in the syndicate case, so no a we are told that sex is only penetration. natasha, that we need to have a huge erection and be ready to conquer her. any time will a sample of historical lives plus she'll photos of it? yes. all of this pressure means you can no longer perform was as if it were you climax too soon? well, night and then you blame your pot. nicholas on break, close by him. good boy. i have a home. they say my cheese moore has something to do with believing that you're better than everyone else, of believing that you have to be better. this comes from one's upbringing, religion, and the media. this feeling of superiority can lead to violence against women,

even during sex. yes, and then other families, my patient says i come home and i want to have sex, that i don't care whether you're asleep or tired and your body belongs to me. a story that that's how it is and pornography to both of us and we pass on this behavior generation after generation. ah, in no guideline, nancy is doing the final shopping for a special family reunion. the single mother has to work do the shopping and take care of her daughter, but a his father, like so many men in mexico took on 0 responsibility. men have always been told that they have better than women in the family. that if i said they have the freedom to choose whether they want to take care of their child or not, they can simply shift their responsibility. i haven't hardly any men in mexico are

willing to use the random. did they find it repulsive? hadn't been said about people. normally the mentality is changing a bit. i recall mozambie and he won't, but usually it's the woman's responsibility. not moment. this won't have any hello, i'm here today for generations are meeting for lunch. i nancy's daughter grant marcia, and i'd eliza you've up in nazi's, mother esperanza, we've had enough water for once again. the men aren't present. so the women can talk freely about sex a taboo for grandma rosalia. navient. when i was young, nobody talked about it and we did not. we were told to keep quiet. i am. the subject was off limits is a hardy than other players. the no not that become another example. she never talked to me about it. and i never asked her message, i went to neighbor for advice and both the yes she already had children, so i could ask her where you are. but my mother, no,

i never asked her for the sheena, it sounds like something from another world where. 2 the umbrellas to get my mother told me the facts of life as a child. it was, it was a totally normal topic. i mean, well, it was normal for me, but that for many others it's not only because they're brought up differently because many families aren't the same. oh, issues that were never broached before are now coming to the table, bundle, yeoman's tray you, when i started menstruating and i told my mother, she got very angry, tall. no 2nd one look at, but i don't know what was wrong with her, but she was very angry with oh yes, i remember that any of you. i don't know why i was like that may be because no one had told me and i had to go through it alone. i explained it to my son some time

later he is 3 years young with nancy lost. i don't know. i explained it to him, but i should have explained it to her. i said louis, case delicate boy, is it like the girl that i get for grandma, who said to you, a woman's place is in the home and taking care of her husband and children as her daughter are delighted. but still, i delight us. husband started a 2nd family on the side in mexico. they call it the big house and the little house . yeah, i got that and then i am the big house here. we also call the wife the cathedral and the women they have on the side all the chapel, alaska for you does. so the last, okay to get the in, in up at the law, give boy alaska. he brought her home with him a little. i guess he wanted me to meet her and my mother in law to lay till he told me i'm together with this woman and the baby is my daughter. if i could have killed him for that mother quite been met. okay. deco met in seattle clothes with no

compass. i never expected it from him, but his brothers did the same quicker betterment of the 0 mean was it certainly gone? it's pretty common here in mexico. the tech was come out, it didn't happen to me not because, or maybe i just don't know about it. i'm oh, you got a medical dental office to this day and then still have different rights than women, the sons and her at the house and farm. and are supported by their father, while the daughters are dependent on their husbands, i sped on, soc and other light. i had to ask for permission to go to work. oh, but i think a lot a warrior when his son comes into the world, he's the pride and joy. but if it's a girl it's typical in mexico. he when a girl is born it's oh, it's a girl. oh, good with

a boy. it's wow. why celebration reminiscing is often bitter sweet, sometimes painful because i never received love. good notice we are a more good grandma give her blessing to either later today if she left her unfaithful husband if a man of his yeah. jam with my father said it's very bad and a sin to leave your husband. was it a daughter, quarrelled with her husband, and he threw her out of florida. my father said he was sorry, but he would not take her back in it. i went on there, i found that tough. she laid. it's something bad happened to my daughter and she ran away and came home with eleanor. it would not be right to turn her away money.

but women take time to feel their pain better. none of them think things can or will go on like this in mexico. i may, has a one to one session with his therapist who we kind of do today to banish the inner macho that almost ruined his marriage. but he medical gotta, julia, madame, i demanded a lot of sexual things and if i didn't get what i wanted, i took it as a good reason to get it somewhere else. a little better will scuttle single to love . but out on that to cover it up hill, i told my wife she was crazy. it says you're crazy. you're dreaming. it's your imagination voice alexi. but no less. he added those 2 fun, but you can all go. oh well i me couldn't handle the guilt anymore. and with his therapist has learned to take responsibility. what, okay, for those of those him as you know,

i was deeply sad for 2 or 3 weeks when i realized what a violent person i am. go molnar pencil at the belinda. yes, boy, you're late on up a sola all that stuff. yes, i saw yesterday, he's proud to say he did not fight with his neighbor, even though the neighbor attacked jaime. oh, okay. and connie lee is actually on your land response would be react, confront, defends in the day, but you can let that happen. it, bingo. i have the opportunity to choose not to repeat old behavior behavior that has hurt me and others so much. oh, hi may wishes all men knew about this therapy. he thinks he's come a long way it does pose on us. but at home he encounters a different reality. his son rodrigo thinks that his father's generation are all hypocrites. and if not, i will stop. bye. don't at all, i don't like living in

a country where 11 or 12 women are murdered every day. i missed you so at those and knowing that about 90 percent of all cases go unpunished, expulsion to discuss k that killing boy the little yes, thank a 100 of you guys. always complain about violence, but you're the 1st to use it as she telling us you have to respect women and then writing the look at these chicks sending round all these pornography people, none of another. you see less boys heat up actually. now i can say to those guys, stop sending me stuff like that is on my before i didn't dare i just didn't dare schools are also a big problem. they don't practice what they preach. dollar lesson law, everything to do with sexuality or sex or law. school is seen as a sin list icons. yelp and you're supposed to repent you because it's something bad

. your stomach, no. k a yo yo's, he's in my school. there were teachers who went out with middle and high school girls, back one another sequin. dad yelled the paper. one that's not right. ok. said close . thought when you mean that they had sex with underage girls, but it was good. my school was sleazy like that to every one you about it, but no one said anything. yeah. no, just uh huh. there's a clear deficit between how it looks and how it really is between the sexes. ah, mexico, it's the day of the dead. for nancy's family, a loving remembrance, with no anger, they make their dad's favorite meal. so their soul can rejoice when they come to visit. nancy's view of the future sharpens into focus, as she contemplates the past. all today we have the power to change what we don't like him on us for today and forever,

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