currently, more people than ever on the move world wide in search of a better life as a committed god that hardly goes out national is not the now is it america and the god regularly or for them to pay the thing? nanda donation money back. so they can find out about robina story in for my grand reliable news for migrant. wherever they may be. thing and a good mood can make you feel like dancing. it also makes it easier to learn and it helps you accomplish more alone or in a team. we like being together with others, particularly with close friends at its root feeling good, involved, psychological well being, all the ways to achieve. and what can you do to restore your inner balance when

everything feels out of kilter? mental health? this week's topic i'm in good shape. with young parents are always happy. so our babies, according to ads, at least. but anyone who has had a child has seen plenty of other moments when it's a similar story with people on vacation. everyone beams in those holiday snapshots . but even minus speed bumps like getting lost on the way to the hotel, can cause the movie to 2 social media. stars always seem to be in especially good spirits. inferences who are grumpy, don't have a lot of success. but is that good?

say, should life be full of only good vibes, even in the midst of break ups crises or personal tragedy? communities on instagram, tick, tock and other social media insist on cheerfulness and positivity. but why this one, you actually share only the best parts. so every one thing, some she has such a good life, she's never sad, is any power among vision that he kind of don't want to look up, posts about negative stuff or see some examples over. you just want to always see how the influence says, hang it out on the beach and sloping cocktails and living the best life live. but is that good for us? psychotherapist emilio em half says it can be dangerous. social media, marcia, for my social media set, for example, always higher, faster, and more beautiful, better. that means there's a certain pressure t i'm only allowed to show my most positive side. and in this dazzling world bath, anything negative is no longer allowed. and that in turn leads to isolation at some

point or believing. i'm somehow alone with my negative feelings, because everyone else is always in such a great mood. and that's the harmful thing in the long run. because i then question myself and think i'm to friends than everyone else. and then there's no question that people who can maintain an optimistic attitude are generally better off, but that becomes toxic when any negative feelings are instantly given short shrift . experts then speak of toxic positivity, talks such as that's events, emotional toxic sentences are, for example, pull yourself together. it's not so bad, it'll be ok. i had gone through this before's, in other words, sentences that don't take the other person seriously and they're suffering and leave them alone with it at having even negative feelings. make sense because they indicate that something is wrong and that we should take a look will side in the long run, repressing and blocking out negative feelings can lead to depression. germany's 1st

and only happy ologist patrick of inca, has looked intensively at the topic of happiness and being happy. he also warns against trying to keep negative emotions at arms length, social media associates and social media. if things are presented extremely positively and with lots of filters. well, everything on these platforms is always going great. everything's really nice. but it's mostly fake. myers. this is jeff. hey, i believe had a kind of naturalness is precisely what makes things likable. it's like out of us and when someone says this actually happened, austin, in the island, we all learn most from what goes wrong. and i think social media experts will be well advised to also post the mistakes sometimes of these a fina most possible. but toxic positivity on social media just doesn't allow for that. so many refuse to accept the good vibes trend at face value and active liquidity. you can't lose sight of reality,

even if you're optimistic about everything at the end of the day, you have to cope with some stuff and then it doesn't matter whether you viewed everything positively. the truth catches up the reality couches up evaluated. i go for that reason, i think a healthy mix of both ways is important because all my dislike you have to have bad stuff sometimes because only then can you really look forward to something good. and then man, if you move isn't so good. nice. so then it's of k that it's not good as me goodies, montana you don't have damn, or is yourself or fans other seem to always only be positive or any good mood. but how to find a middle ground between optimism and pessimism, between positive and negative feelings by accepting setbacks being able to change perspectives and not losing hope via as click it by. luckily once had a kind of happiness teacher named alfred bella bomb. it was and he said something beautiful. the greatest happiness is hidden and misfortune, and few people look for it there. this, oh not venus and happiness are

a balancing act and that's just part of life. when he had another beautiful saying was issued, his happiness is not a permanent stay towards exactly why it's important not to see everything in life through rose colored good vibes. only glasses sometimes being unhappy and feeling sad is just as much a part of a fulfilling life is happiness and optimism. do animals also feel emotions more and more research is beginning to believe they do. in one species of raven, for example, there have been observed apparently comforting other beds after they've been defeated in fights. and rats will come to the aid of other rats if they're in desperate straits, provided they know one another or, or related. elephants can also react strongly when elephant cell close to die. but emotions and whether animals have them is still the subject of

behavioral research with humans, the matter is clear what's less. so is what causes our emotions and what consequences they have. for instance, being in a bad mood there are plenty of reasons to be in a bad mood, but the triggers vary from person to person versus mcnish like what puts me in a bad mood. this grouchy people, negative people mention, but no sweat or some bad weather. for example, most mostly other people still has dress daily life school starting them. crisis mom, racism does if she lives on that i can't change many things. i'd like to add on rush to vending, when things don't go the way they shirt and i get on voice. my mood is left alone. i've had capacity is a psychologist who specializes in emotions. is left alone is bad moods are more

likely a side effect in evolutionary terms. what's crucial our emotions which usually correspond to certain aspects, have moved in the pursuit and something happens and you to react and your mood is for so to speak. a side effect of the machinery we need in order to have emotions from in what's your own so so grief is sometimes very important. must be of the so as being angry when comes the of his design. ah, we must live with these negative emotions. and that can make his kind of prickly but bad moods often serve as a warning signal. so finding out what's behind a crushing feeling can be a learning experience. place dish, tim o'connor to a bad mood, can be a signal that something's not working well. most of that can lead you to take a look and see if there might be a reason for it gaped something you can change us and then come, ah, we can't release happiness hormones none stop. but even if we could,

would he be beneficial to be in a good mood all the time had say she saw just, it's a fact that being in a positive mood has a function which no longer works. if you're in a good mood all the time that somebody, for example, if you're striving for something specific as when you want to eat something or you want to have a nice social interaction with feel and then the expectation that it'll be positive is something that spur as you on that was doesn't unstable. if this positive mood never diminished, you just sit on the sofa, be happy and do nothing. lovely smith. so there really is something good about being in a bad mood, though it can take time to recognize that ah months mon mission among of it. sometimes you want to concentrate on something and then a slightly negative mood can actually be beneficial. so we can feel that you can,

that we can also scientifically prove that it has such a fast and selfish believing. disassociate effect, the question is how much log and for how long on to be lung that feeling slightly melancholic or nostalgic. that's something we they like and even seek out on the scale, susan. because that makes us more focused, self critical, and productive. so even bad moods have very good side. at 1st glance, it might seem like nothing more than a bad mood. but for an estimated 1000000000 suffer his world wide, it's a mental disorder, depression. and it's like how many more people are affected, that we don't really know for sure. the best statistics we have indicate that there are and especially high number of cases in africa. and also that more women than men suffer from it. many don't receive any help. one big reason why is that in many places, depression is not viewed as

a serious illness. is depression or real illness. people who have not experienced depression or anything, electrical mental health, the thing that they see by making it up. what vinson, i think treatable with therapy and medication, but ah, it's a real sickness. but if you're having some sort of an anxiety, depression, it's very difficult to go above it. even in antiquity melancholy was already regarded as a sickness. at the beginning of the 20th century german psychiatrist, immune criplin was probably the 1st person to use the term depression. to day experts agree. being sad is a normal reaction. it's difficult times, it's understandable, but usually status goes away with a little time. depression is different. antonia era, so this is a psychologist who spent 10 years researching depression and those most affected by it. we're talking about a mood disorder that can cause to be your symptoms that can affect how you feel,

how you think, how you handle the, the activities. and in the medical community has certain diagnostic elements by which it establishes that it is a disorder for a diagnosis. today, therapists consider how patients feel if they're eating or sleeping habits are out of whack. and how will they get through the day when you decide why spend believe this is just all in the mind? it's not a real disease then. and then we are preventing people from receiving the treatment that they need. only certain types of people get depression. anybody can have it that needs to be normalized, just like any other physical. i something to some sort of issue with under present myself. so i know how difficult it is. patricia fonseca is the senior physician for

psychiatry and psychotherapy. she treats people with depression and has extensively studied the subject. in recent years, the spotlight is focused on lifestyle and chronic stress in my eyes, but in my always being available, always online pressure to perform at work. always having to prove ourselves. those things are relevant because they have an impact on our stress levels and our sleep habits never had them, but it's not just a lifestyle sickness, like i am monahan of us victims and there are also other factors who lives including life events like ration syndrome, relationships, stress breakup soon or the last of an important person. didn't mention amanda, come back with her childhood. whether it's home arctic experiences or emotional neglect a lot to share foul in would scenario finance less you go beyond that, studies show that jeans also play a role for that doesn't mean there's

a depression. gene factors that can bring on depression include chronic stress, traumatic life experiences, and genetics are antidepressants, bad for you. i think anti depressants can be addictive, but i'm not sure about it. it's just a myth that everybody knows. every be honest. i having that id. i think medic is, is what anxiety and i'm doing well, i literally work my understanding is that anything that he needed? notify someone that fully knows. i'd why do you content like a doctor or profession or health care may cause may harm yourself. many people are critical of the medications. some people even claim that antidepressants only benefit the pharmaceutical industry. and that's why it's such a double edged sword, but not gazoomba seen the antidepressants, are really no more successful than placebos for mild depression. we're still on

that for a cab, might be a boss life depressed soon, so we would try to treat mild depression, 3 psychotherapy and behavioral change behind in by the emitter span on shiana. lambert with moderate severe depression that there was a clear effect compared to the placebo. ha, ha ha. dim blood cbo effect. also antidepressants. don't work the same for everyone . so it can take a while to find the right ones, but can people help themselves? healthy lifestyle is a good way of preventing an accompanying your treatment and preventing relapse. and there is evidence for that. i would that then more to my than just work less eat healthier physical activities really important. the bottom line is antidepressants, on fat, per se, and a healthy lifestyle can increase their effectiveness as any other sickness. it's not about anything that's your own fault. it's just some something, doug,

some people have and it's treatable that says someone out there who's suffering from depression the thorn be silent, i've ordered boe out. feel feel thin, see, help big medication. ah, i'm more suitable and meadow at home when something isn't working. as it should, you can try to fix it if you can, but some problems are just too complex, then it's time to call a professional full help. it's the same with issues involving mental health. the problem is in many parts of the world, mental health professionals are few and far between. but if you're lucky enough to have a choice, do to see there are a few things to bear in mind. therapists up people just like you and can therefore hold quite different views from a very convinced by that particular therapeutic approaches. if a client wants to deviate from that, a therapy can end unpleasantly oh,

it's important for therapist to be able to adjust to an individual situation and to carefully check whether a particular approach is the right fit. having a clear road map as essential that helps keep the therapy from drifting along. and this lee, how should the course proceed? why is lot planned? are there maya stones? what are they? the plan should be discussed with the client. depending on the country therapies might be offered by mental health professionals with a range of titles among them. counselor, psychologist, oh, psychotherapist. but in many places, the field isn't strictly regulated, and at times there's no prescribed or uniform training. critics complain about this shortcoming. so when looking for therapist, the amount and direction of training one is received can be a central issue, as, as the question of whether they are allowed to prescribe. pharmaceuticals, approaches differ,

but the goal of therapy should always be to help clients achieve good mental health . there are many forms of therapy, some seek to draw out childhood memories or focus on dreams and the sub conscious practitioners. see those approaches as important ways to work through deeply. seated issues or traumatic experiences are these therapies are sometimes for instance, helpful and cases of depression. they involve a lot of talking, especially on the part of the client. then there's behavior therapy. the goal here is to unlearn, learned behavior. this can help people, for example, which spirits in gaiety or eating disorders, clients learn to confront their problems in concrete ways. for example, through role playing. whatever type of therapy is chosen, it should be scientifically recognized and should of course, also help. but gut feeling place

a central role. how does declined feel during and especially after a session? does the therapists seem tired? are they really involved? because all successful therapies have one thing in common to work. the patient 1st has to feel understood in the drive to maintain mental balance. there's also a lot you can do on your own. like pursuing a healthy lifestyle, enjoying pleasant company, i'm exercising regularly. relaxation is also important. there are lots of activities out there that are supposed to help you relax, but do they really they promise relaxation at the touch of a button ot i guarantee that this one is really going for it. it's kind of this feeling of pain and ah,

ana is experimenting with gadgets that are supposed to relax your muscles. meanwhile, others are looking to relax and let's say more holistic ways. antonia bent and sabina, all have high stress jobs, and nature could help them find ways to wind down. studies show that it can and one research project that monitored stress via paulson location. the scientists concluded that the greatest physical and psychological recovery takes place in natural settings, study leader icon linda and says to have the effect. nature should challenger senses been going along, chopped i, if we perceive a landscape a so challenging enough, then it also quickly grows boring. it just doesn't provoke any all with installing . ana is getting ready to have what promises to be a memorable experience on an acupressure mat as an ebay, as axtell acupressure met, has over 6000 pointed little plastic bins attached. and i'm supposed to lie

directly on it with my bare skin decline. and then these sharp little guys will drill into my back as our head supposed to help against back pain headaches and also relieve stress. we'll see what does an expert have to say. durst isn't stimulates your stimulation via the small prongs, causes an increase in circulation, and the high above flow means they're good supply to the muscles, which helps them simply relax a bit. anderson and spun. ma'am, there's a large stone associated with headaches between your shoulder blades avoided and stimulating the circulation and relaxing the muscles. i haven't often has a favorable effect on headaches. it can reduce them. brooks, which does horsberg rooms thickened, of wanted cops matter hours to see a little to pan. oh, let's see how ana reacts. ah, oh, goodness is not as bad as i thought. ah, it's okay actually 20 minutes later and she feels very relaxed in the woods. well

being has also said an after about 20 minutes. he is a, it's really pleasant here. i am hungry. yeah, we just agreed that somehow we like it here a lot and have and band was just asking why that is. on the end, i think we've unanimously decided that it's kind of finally some far as it's more calm. the green nature flowers. well, that's what we like, isn't we are far from the stress from the places where we otherwise experienced stresses and the in the natural sounds smells and colors of the forest or a kind of form for the soul. we breathe more deeply, grow calmer, and more attentive and rediscovered slowness. what psychologists call being mindful for us surroundings can help that process at some kind that won't affect in written death. i mindfulness be usually mean a judgment free experience of the year. no, i thought that that is that i perceive myself as i am right now with all my soul. 9 good. thank both positive and negative and that without value and then when it,

it's of an amino speaking. i take a step back, kind of and simply observe myself in the situation and say, and as it was, this is how i am back. this is how i feel right now. really, this is what is bothering me right now. that, that helps me sought out my worries and thoughts and gain some clarity yet. and then i also feel like i'm completely in the young man who has got guns in here. and yet doing it in an eclipse who are paying attention to thinks the natures positive huddled. it's also something you do with all your sense of somehow owns in the mot naca system. i do it often. also at home. i actually do it for relaxation transmission. forget to find the time and also prepare for it. but if i'd force myself by saying to morrow at 3 pm, i'll head into the forest and sit there. i don't think that so effective, effective. but if you have stressful days, you probably have to schedule that time, but i'm want something that works at the push of a button. maybe try a massage gun with different attachments from my desk. i tried this one. it looks

the least dangerous. ah, you can adjust the intensity important for different body regions. although the can call me so that i can't reach my bag with my short little arms with yet it feels good to leave a ha, the busy b. o of us from good. it feels pretty good to me. pain and relaxation all at once. funnel. oh, maybe a more classic massage. oh, this electric massage cushion employees sets of rotating spears or you can quinn. i think it's really cool. is it? well, i have it up here now, but i can also pull the pillow farther down and then come, then it reaches places. i wouldn't be able to get to what the massage gun down is time. come all but cannot relieve stress and back pain. my mother started a maintenance over a cup of tea and sit down with a good book while using it. it's relaxing, but it doesn't have

a long term effect. it's just about the moment you're taking out of everyday life. upwards of them i talk court and that's what it's about after all, briefly immersing yourself in another world, whether the woods or on an acupressure mat, a brief journey into the forest, or your own body. a timeout that every once in a while, everyone should try to take you can also relax actively with sports time for another great exercise with o galia. with hi and welcome to day you only need a met. let's get started. lie down, spread your arms, lift and bend your legs. bring them down and look to the opposite side. count to 10,

and then we switch the side with . i have a recommendation for you. do this exercise in your bed directly after you wake up and you will have a perfect start into your day. that's it for this edition of in good shape. see you again next week, but i with

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