on the inside, our correspondence is on the ground and proposing from across the continent, all the french stuff from outside to you. even 60 minutes on dw jeremy was sing for winning offer if he's available worldwide. and for every language level, learning german has never been simpler. german to go. the hello and welcome to the 77 percent. my name is edith king monday, and i'm coming to you from the heart of ne ruby in the special edition of the 77 percent. we're going to talk about love relationships and of course, talk break. we'll find out what attracts people to each of us with nice,

that's especial spock. we'll hear how fox says like money and power planes relationship and well the reason is i know who wants people to express themselves most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or sex are used as an exchange for money. we're talking here of cost about splunk says, black says or so the mommies and daddies. so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed a bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow was

struck by the expensive looks closing and excessive shopping. hestetler classmates enjoyed her friends, was so cold, slay queens who depend on richmond to maintain the last stop. they introduced her to her own less than a wealthy married man who was more than 20 years a senior to this c p literally get the cd right prostate. but the gifts did not come for free. tumble soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts, you know, by doing what do you want, this is kind of just felt like, oh, i was be invited into i'm sorry, says,

but type of prosecution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want. you want soft lice. last the snow, luxurious a soft pull to struggle to survive in a society with money and how a concentrated in the hands of miss tumble is some man, even believe money gives them the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular field because he has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, leave the house without his permission or are in a cell phone woman that easily tend to so we need to control that. they need to be in your finger tips. here's a re i like for, for me i was really hot. i went to school so that they can have money as a tentative power. i can control and that is behavior not entirely undermined his

girlfriend's right to self determination seems a little concerned to be the kazi, both he and his friend claim to pay that girlfriend's around 400 years each cuz people mock long ago. this is pure business. i mean, that's the whole point. so let me know what we, what we do is we take care of women. then they what, what do we get into tennis? loved, that's all. so that's all nothing else. so the sites don't use the 6 um being taken care of just someone making you feel special in a recent south africa in health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions. this is a massive problem that says also jackie, almost saying we meet the also in an up market hotel in johannes. so much say is well known to have books which feels to be on the blessing and blessing culture. so much say experience with fluid borders between transactional sets and she's been

traveling to this hotel. yeah, i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from a violent time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into that relationship. he took the on a private to us with politicians, businessmen, and the mistresses being trapped in the middle of the ocean. she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. it can be changed. it like this. in hot, if administer wants to buy, you still buy you regardless of who you dating in the green. so even if you're dating the wall, is that in the group taken change, you also have business deals because administer often traumatizing. yes. i'm on the

same manage to escape the garage, so the chief little girl wish emerge. the book, not her experience. a warning that the world of glamour that we see on our phones and internet platforms is sometimes fun from the actual social media gives us an invasion of to fix it. comforts that to be expected. and people will that this is and you don't even know the just to get had federal district in front of us . what are the many other things you have to do? that's for the one in the back in so went to the la kazi, meets his girlfriend. and relates to mine. he wants to buy her a new hand back, which is nice, but somebody is not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and needs the money to buy basic necessities. ready to pay rent, and she's well aware of the dependency she finds herself, said that as young calls have to sleep in all the guys and pretend is

this the old you okay with everything just because of course, around here, chances of subs that you don't have 0 percentages of getting a to do anything and everything to good it says sits in time with a post credit economy in charges and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent. the outlook for these young women is bleak. being blessed becomes a basic way of survival and the female body and object that can be bought and bought it. but of course not all relationships. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about simpler things like who gets to pay for the bill on the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, we'll just switch views and it comes to green

a big road. yeah. some guys the the thing just guess i'm not really sure. like so much. yeah. uh well, so this yeah yeah lots. but yeah, if you're not able to provide for different times where you want to have more than you think the most expensive place in the world to go through and then by time you finish, do you feel like this one is of verizon that i got? how much is really good and then you are calculating your, you know, if you back home because it actually can afford the new that's it. so that way if i was, if someone and i couldn't finish the food annual like you must finish, it tells me to list all right. it's like almost finished. you really nice ones because a red flag like how will you tell me i must finish people because this way more than bang i and i have no idea how it would behave. if somebody forced me to finish my what would, because they were paying for the bill, but you know what dating aside,

we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. one thing that draws me if i knew the picture like right, i need to respect i so i so the she was bianca. it's the model. and basically i was just i guess it doesn't matter. became the huge increase of my life. she was always there for me just of what the need the time that i've never had such support every my life. he's on this. let me just say it's a nice to me. and when it, by his role, he do apologize. that the most amazing part of it really interesting to me. she was always, i mean, oh, don't get your about me, you're about me and leave it to you about money, runaways. and when he asked me, although is like, boy, that's right. of that. why do you like me? and there are

a 1000000 different ways to love and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner much in life. this isn't always the case. your family friend, society and even national laws. can you tell me where you kind of can't have an intimate relationship with, as well as, who are you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, c, q plus community. we're still faces discrimination as well as defamation. and the tests by both states and society all around africa. so let's start off by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation. and what the less essential we s o sits and relationship experts cause it's a breaking down for us. hello there and welcome to the spread of face space, where we get to discuss everything, facts and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a best a l g

b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me? so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many sub sections, but we'll focus on the most important points. the fast box. biological 6 is what the doctor use is to identify you at best. based on your genet tatum. yeah. most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as into 6. the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws that you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example,

the wells and the color pink are set to belong to only the girls, where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys. but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you are assigned at best. you could be male, female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with a pronouns, he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, sandbox is sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to someone of the same gender, you could be homosexual. if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or

gender identity, you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. this so much more to learn about the l g b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it for me, jazz till next time. good bye. thank you guys. and if you are interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to instagram page where we have a series. this has on just that. now hearing kenya between 2 people of the same gender as to punishable by law. this law has been in place since 19 sexy and results in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young tenant question, design the l g b to q activist. and when she logo was to walk to widespread ca,

the energy we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g, b t q community is on the lot in january 2023 at winter low, about a student fashion designer and k rights activist was killed in the canyon town of el darn. it is tragic death since shockwave through the community makeup artist and it's in gary felt the impact when when the news fust can you know, like as much so i just happened to evan. and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he did things by themselves as of late. there's been a lot of hits. um i've been receiving a lot of shifts and lots of competitors on entering. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care you end up like, and we dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debate about edwin's death has to be generated into an

empty to be q plus campaign. right now they at the most phase kind that changed the final 2 out of the safety of the sexuality of their sexual orientation. i'm going to be, i walk place. even simply leaving the house can be a problem. they're not safe to go outside. you're not sure why that shouldn't be safe unless they have security to but the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of beats, run, grab well intense to just take some time before we get back to our conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips to add my notary to groups, i feel like that's i, i, we feel protected homosexuality. split a boot and canyon society. but in the light of edwin's death, the l. g, b, t, q plus community and the allies, a once again calling for acceptance. and the criminalization these and lots of

homophobia. these um lots of hate sweats, people who was only who i hate him because they exist. you know, they exist. that's it. i'm, i leave, i'm leaving, i'm jason. the most part so vast because the laws are very similar to those here in kenya. in nigeria for example, one can get up to 14 years in prison meant for being gain. and in some parts of the country which are ruled by fleming serial punishments even was nevertheless, there are a few brave people who are standing up for themselves. we meet one of them, the legal space, fashion design, daniel k, who is calling for more respect and acceptance. in conservative nigeria, sam, 6 relationships khattab, who is the host i well for the l g b t q plus community like ocean team. and john daniel k has an idea to make it

a little friendly with you and to see question brand case apparel very much and sophistic about. so in this coming is one of the reasons i hit the scenario as i'm done we're going through. so i hit one disrespect to discrimination on 3 or press one, so green up. i always been like bullied on all of that. so i go through read one i found out about to you. i've always been a 1st time i have to stick up on myself. despite the ard, i think it's brand has been welcomed, especially in the l. g. b t q plus community. bold inscriptions like family isn't weakness, gender, it's fluid. and we can be seen of happening, hung out around legal i think it's quite an innovative and inclusive brand. i've always had

a hard time finding. the old stuff fits my agenda expression. but like with this bronze, it's always because i always find one called this time of one, my bronze out and it will sleep on me like my good. how do you maintain those students stuff and i'm like yes. then there's salt and stuff in minnesota. is this clear? anybody to kind of like, i mean this is in way if, if pushing isn't, is one for the or the one for the on the thoughts the need like switch something else sees upright. he's very, very clean from someone else's age. taking this course is really kind of society. we haven't even always fun or things like this done. you runs on online store from his home. he reveals designs on his instagram page. clients can also request designs done, you know, then gets across the country is to realize the outward before supervising the ceiling and grunting. experiencing hostility is part of the job,

the vision say by the offensive, by some people just come on. and so my business page and just be like, see what's up, why are you doing this? is definitely just against go through on what's on what's not on. what's the ever, the thing people don't understand is my brand is not out for the, for those the origin particular person. so my brand before it 4010, forty's, friends, and customers were having his clothes in steals a sense of pride. 5 was that was the only read smile song asking what, while you're doing something like this, what does this mean to say this is no, right? but then i want to spend my piece of. so most of the time i see that i keep them on what things mean people find the scripts done by regional care. this is me on the line with a message. and while people like daniel a fighting for more acceptance to society,

many people have their own relationship back, who needs to fight big or small? like cooley and get you? there are kind of like julian, couple living right here and they will be. and while they knew they wanted to put together their families and friends, well, they took a bit of convincing a narrow b is east of protest, melton port of trust in residents from across the continent and beyond. but a king and capitals acceptance of diversity. that's not always the extent to motus up to heart needs was very difficult when my wife go to places and in georgia is amazing. and jared was really low. they used to be a very which stereotype by k n. c o you've come to can to is to use our movement from aust coolant and get to a cross cultural relationship. maybe unusual. but like many young people to love hosp familiar applicants. we've met with house to i think yeah. austin,

to 2 years. how is this fresh from school? he's sweet. talk to me and you know how me so the d t and talking and yeah, i liked his vibe. he liked by vibe. he actually upfront, he told me, you're going to be the mother of my kids from a best friends and family. the new couple is bought and loved connection was difficult to accept. i was now telling my friend to know these, that dating, you know, you know, telling a lot of people and then you know, come often to, yeah, i met this guy, we've been seeing each other and i'm that she's a jane and really was sure they did what do you know about him while do you know is becca, he'll leave you today. comments like these were phone investigators get to it's funny, have long since accepted the west african as a member of the fun. but i wasn't always the case when he told me like that i didn't know delete. see what i could not lazy

as i say it's i don't 13, anything about the i want you to see for us when she told me that jerry and i was there, what do they do? and doing, can i know african go to america or europe. so that was for me and mind blowing. another thing that to had was, he's mostly okay. and my sister's christian, so he will actually say is going to cause of, i know my sis, i really loved him. so i'm like, hey, we to become listening. eventually the couple chose to put aside the may see is would you have 1000 behind them the passport ahead to us, the said life that blends the best of the different backgrounds included in the kitchen at the beginning is to cook a lot for sending. when like i'm visiting, please use to really see like cooking, you know, i guess best day the time he was trying to meet it. like let me quote for you my

wife. he told me how to make this to visual of the fried rice over time. i've come to enjoy most of the guarantee she's from guy, the room, mulkey mall from the low, from a, from my to get everything wherever you going from is that there's a video background, your cultural of your age, what devices your type it's, it's possible he lets me be me and i let him be. she is works for me perfectly. and we were just happy with when any of the end of us show, but we have one more issue to talk about. so that's hard to break. because like 10 or not, that's how some relationship sends me the most. i mean, i can be alone. it is surely. you must have some experiences of your own. so let's have them read. it may not be shown the piece i'm i may have worked out

a little bit. i think i'm the one actually that i'm interested in the you've given me. yeah. and they did this won't allow us to dig. so you just mean you just calculated the red flag. i basically read it. there wasn't a budgeting this with this thing. it says that a lot of the it is possible that the i wouldn't even forget because i invited it on uh which i wait for that particular piece, which is for how for like a long as i should have multiple notes. so i felt very, very undoubtedly that i believe i would never forget, i get all my trust able to take any for granted and damage of my head. because yes, i mean football. like if i go to the beach all perform well,

like my guys are black. okay. what's wrong with you? that's why you why you know, for custody of what's wrong or deep, don't have it out. well, yeah, i'm fine to me. actually i'm on be my best. i didn't know i wasn't doing the right thing on the beach. i did my bride end of the i ended up losing sight. i didn't get a lot by giving phone like my trust was taken for granted. so i just opposite i to exclude myself other relationships them so that our body to us when this was, is a nice one not to keep in relationship wonder present again opposite extremely gave me an order for me notes like, well, the big thing for the stick on finding it, but out of high speed. and that brings us to the end of the show this week. if you have story is to share with us connected also social media, you can also write to us. so e mail is 7 to 7, the dw dot com, and subscribe to our youtube channel. we have you now with, you know, the do by now. a big too good. thanks for watching

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