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special spock. we'll hear how fox says like money and power planes relationship. and what reason is i know who wants people to express themselves most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or sex i use as an exchange for money. we're talking here, of course about splunk says, black says or so the mommies and daddies. so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed a bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow was

struck by the expensive looks clothing and excessive shopping. hestetler classmates enjoyed her friends, was so cold, slay queens who depend on richmond to maintain the last stop. they introduced her to her own less than a wealthy married man, who was more than 20 years a senior to this c. p. literally get the cd right per se now. but the gifts did not come to a free tumble. soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts, you know, like doing what do you want? this is kind of just felt like i was be invited into, i'm sorry, says, but type of prostitution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just

comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want. you want soft lice, lassie, snow, luxurious, a soft pull to struggle to survive in a society with money and how a concentrated in the hands of mid tempo is some man. even believe money gives him the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular field because he has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, leave the house without his permission, or are in a cells or women that easily tend to. so we need to control that. they need to be in your finger tips. as a re election for me, i was really hot. i went to school so that i can have money. i can have power. i can control that his behavior might entirely unto mine his girlfriend's right to

self determination seems a little concerned to be the kazi, both he and his friend claim to pay that girlfriend around 400 years each cuz people mock long ago. this is pure business. i mean, that's the whole point. so let me know what we, what we do is we take care of women. then they what, what do we get into the attendance love? that's all. that's all. nothing else. so you mean sikes for those? yes, the 6 being taken care of to someone making you feel special in a recent sound after the health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions that this is a massive problem says also jackie, how about say we meet the old in an up market, a hotel in johannesburg, so much say is well known to have book, which feels to be on the blessing and blessing culture. the most say experience with fluid borders between transactional sets and she's been traveling to

this hotel. yeah, i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from the final time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into the relationship. he took the on a private to us with politicians, businessman and the mistresses being trapped in the middle of the ocean. she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. it can be changed. it's like this. in a heartbeat. if the minister wants to buy you still buy you, regardless of where you dating a degree. so even if you're dating the wall is that in the group, he can change you of of business deals because administered after full traumatizing

. yes. i'm not saying managed to escape the garage, so the lesson chief little girl rode to the book, not her experience. a warning that the world of gramma that we see on our phones and internet platforms is sometimes fun from the actual social media. it gives us an invasion of to fix it, comforts that to be expected. and people will that and you don't even know that just to get a heads up about his drinking, some of us. what are the many other things you have to do? just for that one evening back in. so went to the la kazi meets his girlfriend, relates to mine. ready he wants to buy her a new head back, which is nice, but it's not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and needs the money to buy basic necessities. ready to pay rent, and she's well aware of the dependency she finds herself, said that as bianca have to sleep with all the guys and pretend as

if the old you are okay with everything. just because of course, i don't hear chances of subs that you don't the 0 percentages of getting a to do anything and everything to get plenty of how you, what it says sits in time with a post credit economy in charges. and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent . the outlook for these young women is bleak. being blessed becomes a basic way of survival in the female body and objects that can be bush and thought it. but of course not all relationship. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about simpler things like who gets to pay for the bill and the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, just i switched views and it comes to green,

a big deal. some guys the scene just guess i'm not really sure. like so much to uh, was for this. yeah. yeah, lots. but yeah, if you're not able to provide for different times where you want to have it, going to pick the most expensive place in the world to go to and then by time you finish, do you feel like this one is of rice on it? like how much it would be good and then you're calculating your, you know, if you back home because it obviously can afford the new that's it. so that way if i was, if someone and i couldn't finish the food annual like you must be an issue. i was looking this, all right, it's like almost finished. you really nice watch it as a red flag. like how are you telling me i must finish people because this way it's more than bang. i and i have no idea how it would behave. if somebody forced me to finish my would because they were paying for the bill, but you know what dating aside,

we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. the one thing that draws me on is eve. i knew that this isn't like right on respect as so i saw the she was bianca. it's the model. and basically i was just trying to get some i guess the phrase of my life. she was always there for the gist of what the need the time that i've never had such support every my life. he's on this . let me just say it's a nice to me. and when it, by his role, he do apologize. that the most amazing part would be really interesting to me. she was always because, i mean, well, don't dish or about me here about many decisions about money runaways. and then he asked me how that was like, boy like you're out of that. why didn't you like me? and there are

a 1000000 different ways to love and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner much in life. this isn't always the case, your family, friends, society and even national laws. can you tell me where you kind of cons, have an intimate relationship with, as well as, who are you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, c, q plus community. we still faces this combination as well as defamation, and attack by both states and society all around africa. so let's start so by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation and what the less essential we s o sits under the nation. should experts cause it's a breaking down for us? hello there and welcome to the spread a safe space where we get to discuss everything, sex and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a better l g b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around

agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me? so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many sub sections but will focus on the most important points. the 1st box, biological sex, is what the doctor use is to identify you at best. based on your genet tatum. yeah . most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as into 6. the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws that you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example,

the wells and the color pink are set to belong to only girls. where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys, but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you were assigned at best. you could be male, female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with the pronouns he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, the sandbox as sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to some of the same gender, you could be homosexual. if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender identity,

you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. that's so much more to learn about the l g b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it for me, jazz till next time. good bye. thank you. okay. and if you're interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to instagram page where we have a series this has on just that. now here, return your sex between 2 people of the same gender is to punishable by law. this law has been in place is nice. you fact the end result in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young can impression design the and l g b, c, q activist. and when she logo was to fucking widespread, created the put communities,

we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g b t q community is on a lot in january 2023 and went to law about a student fashion designer and k rights activist was killed in the canyon town of l . darn. it says project death sent shock waves through the community makeup artist dentist and gary felt the impact when women use 1st care and you know like i was like show it's happened and been and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he had them saved themselves as of late. there's been a lot of hits. um i've been receiving a lot of shifts and lots of competitors on entering. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care you end up like, and we dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debate about edwin's death has to be generated into an

empty l. g b t q plus hate campaign. right? now they, at the most phase came that changed the final try of the safety of ethic. shortly 2 of their sexual orientation. i'm going to be, i walk place. you can simply leaving the house can be a problem. then not safe to go outside. you're not sure that shouldn't be safe unless you have security to batch the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of beats, run grab was intense to just take some time before we get back to our conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips to add my notary to groups, i feel like that's i, i, we feel protected homosexuality. split a boot and canyon society. but in the life of edwin's death, the l. g, b, t, q plus community and the allies, a once again calling for acceptance. and the criminalization these and lots of

homophobia. these um lots of hate sweats, people who was only hating because they exist. you know, they exist. that's it. i leave, i'm leaving, i'm do so most parts of africa, the laws are very similar to those hearing kenya, in a jury a, for example, one can get up to 14 years in prison meant for being gain. and in some parts of the country which are ruled by fleming serial punishments even was nevertheless, there are a few brave people who are standing up for themselves when each one of them, the legal space, fashion design, daniel k, who is calling for more respect and acceptance in conservative nigeria, same sex relationships, khattab who is the whole stay well for the l. g. b t q class community butler, goshen. tina john daniel k has an idea to make it

a little friendly with you and to see question brand concave apparel very much. and sophistic about so in this coming is one of the reasons i hit the scenarios i'm going through. so i hit one disrespect to discrimination on 3 a freshman so green up. i've always been like bullied on all of that. so i go through read one. i found out about to you, i've always been a 1st time a to stick up on myself. despite the odds i think is brand has been welcomed, especially in the l g. b t q plus community. bold inscriptions like fem isn't weakness. gender is fluid and we can be seen of happening, hung out around legal i think it's quite an innovative and inclusive brand. i've always had

a hard time finding. the old stuff fits my agenda expression for like with this bronze. it's always because i always find one called listing of one my brand out and it will suit and be like, like good. how do you maintain those students stuff and i'm like, yes. then there's a special construct in minnesota. it's a split. anybody to come like, i mean they are, this is in way if pushing isn't, is going for the or the one for the on the thoughts, the need like this, which something else sees upright. he's very, very come from someone else's age. taking this course is really kind of sustainability leaving it. always fun of things like this done. you runs on online store from he's home. he reveals designs on his instagram page. clients can also request designs done. you know them gets across the country is to realize that it's worked before supervising the ceiling and grunting, experiencing hostility is part of the job, the vision,

say by the offensive i some people just come on and so my business page and just be like, see what's up, why are you doing this? is deputy, is this against god, serial on what's on, what's not on what so ever. the thing people don't understand is my brand is not out for the, for those particular presence of my brand before it be 4010 for his friends and customers were having his clothes in steals a sense of pride. pride was that also includes my discretion to ask what, while you're in something like this, what does this mean? does it is no right? but then i want to spend is cliff i piece of ignorance. so most of the time i see the need to keep them. what things mean people find the scripts on some of the cases, but i really do not care. this is me on the line with the message. and while people like then you are fighting for more except

as a society, many people have their own relationship bathrooms to fights, big or small, like cooling, get you. there are kind of like julian, couple living right here and they will be. and while they knew they wanted to put together their families and friends, well, they took a bit of convincing. nairobi is east of protest. melton port attracted residents from across the continent and beyond. but a kingdom, capitals, acceptance of diversity does not always extend to martha's hope. the heart of the beginning is, was very difficult when my life go to places and in georgia is amazing. and jared was really low. they used to be a very which stereotype by dancing oh, you've come to can to steal our movement from aust kula and get to a cross cultural relationship. maybe unusual. but like many young people love hosp familiar applicants. we've met with house to i think. yeah,

i'll send it to you is how is this fresh from school? he's sweet. talk to me and you know how me so the d t and talking and yeah, i like she's via p liked by vibe. he actually upfront, he told me, you're going to be the mother of my kids from a best friends and family. the new couple was bought in love, connection was difficult to accept. i was now telling my friend to know these, that dating, you know, you know, telling a lot of people and then, you know, come often to, yeah, i met this guy, we've been seeing each other and i'm that she's a jane and really was sure they did what do you know about him while do you know, is bob garfield review today? comments like these were falling on deaf ears. get to somebody have long since accepted the west african as a member of the firm. but i wasn't always the case when he told me like that i didn't know the bleed received what it connected. lazy.

i say it's, i don't 13, anything about the i want you to see for us when she told me that jerry and i was like, what do they do and doing, can i know african go to america or europe. so that was for me and mind blowing. another thing that to had was he's mostly okay. and mostly says christian . so he really stays going to because of i know my c say i really love him. so i'm like, hey, we to become listening. eventually the couple chose to put aside that may see is but yet 1000 behind them, the passport had to us to shed light, blend the best of the different backgrounds, including in the kitchen at the beginning is to cook a lot for sunday when like i'm visiting please use to really he like cocaine, you know, i guess best day the time he was trying to meet to the legs only quick for you. my

wife, he told me how to make this deals digital, the fried rice over time. i've come to enjoy most of the guarantee she's a from guy the from mulkey mall, from now from a, from my to get everything. wherever you going from is that there's a video background, your cultural and you'll edge what devices you'll type it's, it's possible p. let's me the me and i let me see if it works for me. buffet key and we were just happy with the when any of the end of our show. but we have one more issue to talk about so that i can break because liked it or not, that's how some relationship sends me the most. i mean, i can be alone in this. surely you must have some experiences of your own. so let's have them read. it may not be shown these items i may have worked out

a little bit. i think i'm the one actually ended up. i'm the interested in the you've given me. yeah. and they did this won't allow us to did. so you just mean you just have to read log i basically read your wonderful uh, budgeting this with this thing. it says that a lot of the spots black the i wouldn't even forget because i invited you on uh which i wait for that particular piece, which is for how for like a long as i showed up. so i felt very, very glad to do that. i believe i always never forget, i get all my trust able to take any for granted and damage of my head. because yes, i mean football. like if i go to the beach all perform well,

like my guys are black. okay. what's wrong with you? that's why you why you know, for custody of what's wrong or deep dive it out. well yeah, i'm fine to me. actually, i'm on be my best. i didn't know i wasn't doing the right thing on the beach. i did my bride end of the i ended up losing sight. i didn't get a lot by giving phone like my trust was taken for granted. so i just have to like to, excuse myself, other relationships them so that our body to us when this is, is a nice one, not too deep in relationship wonder present again, opposite extreme to give me an order for me notes like all the big thing for the stick on time again, but out of high speed. and that brings us to the end of the show this week if you have story is to share with us connected, also, social media, you can also write to us. so e mail is $7.00 to $7.00. the dw dot com and subscribe to our youtube channel. we have you now with, you know, the do by now. a big too good. thanks for watching the

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