so we sell that and what makes relationships was he lets me z me and i, let's see here, 50 to 77 percent. he's got it easy to fill out the hello and welcome to the 77 percent. my name is edith king money and i'm coming to you from the heart of ne ruby in the special edition of the 77 percent. we're going to talk about love relationships and of course, talk break. we'll find out what attracts people to each of us with nice stuff.

specialist loc will hear how foxes like money and power planes relationship and well, the reason is i know who wants people to express themselves most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or sex i use as an exchange for money. we're talking here of cost about spawn says bless says or so the mommies and daddies. so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed a bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow was

struck by the expensive looks clothing and excessive shopping. hestetler classmates enjoyed to friends, was so cold, slay queens who depend on richmond to maintain the livestock. they introduced her to her own less than a wealthy married man who was more than 20 years her senior to this c. p. literally gifts left you the right procedure. but the gifts did not come for free. tumble soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts, you know, by doing what do you want? this is kind of just felt like, oh, i was be invited into, i'm sorry, says, but type of prostitution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just

comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want. you want soft lice. last, the snow, luxurious a soft pull to struggle to survive in a society with money and how a concentrated in the hands of mid tempo is some man. even believe money gives him the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular field because he has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, leave the house without his permission or are in a cell phone woman that easily tend to so we need to control that. they need to be in your fingertips as a re, uh like from for me. i was the other night i went to school so that i can have money. i can have power, i can control and that is behavior not entirely undermine his girlfriend's. right.

to self determination seems a little concerned to be the kazi boys, he and his friend claim to pay that girlfriend around 400 years age for simple mock long ago. this is pure business, i mean that's the whole point. so let me know what we, what we do is we take care of women. then they what, what do we get him to attend his loved? that's all. that's all, nothing else. so it means that you use the 6 um, being taken care of to someone making you feel special in a recent sound after the health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions that this is a massive problem that says also jackie, almost saying we meet the old in an up market. a hotel in johannes. so much say is well known as the head look, which feels to be on the blessing and blessing. culture promotes a experience with fluid borders between transactions. and she's been traveling to

this hotel and you yeah, i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from a violent time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into that relationship. he took the on a private to us with politicians, businessmen, and the mistresses being trapped in the middle of the ocean. she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. it can be changed. it like this. in hot, if administer wants to buy, you still buy you regardless of who you dating in the green. so even if you're dating the wall, is that in the group taken change, you also have business deals because administer often traumatising is i'm on the

same manage to escape the garage. so the chief little girl wish to merge the book about her experience. a warning that the world of glamour that we see on our phones and internet platforms is sometimes fun from the actual social media gives us an invasion of to fix it. comforts that to be expected. and people will that this is and you don't even know that just to get a headset district in front of us. what are the many other things you have to do just for the one in the back in. so which will be like because he meets his girlfriend and relates to mom. he wants to buy her a new hand back, which is nice, but somebody is not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and need some money to buy basic necessities. ready paying rent, and she's well aware of the dependency she finds herself, said that as young calls have to sleep in all the guys and pretend is there

a few of you okay, with everything just because of course, i don't hear chances of subs that you don't the 0 percentages of getting a to do anything and everything to get plenty of how you what it says sits in time with a post credit economy in charges and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent. the outlook for these young women is bleak. being blessed becomes a basic way of survival and the female body and objects that can people and thought it. but of course not all relationships. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about simpler things like who gets to pay for the bill and the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, we'll just switch views and it comes to green

a big you know, just some guys the dsp just get on the legs so much. yeah. uh, was so this. yeah, yeah. looks well, yeah. so you're not able to provide for different times where you want to have more than you think the most expensive place in the world to go through. and then by time you finish, do you feel like this one is of verizon that i got? how much is it really good? i mean you are calculating your, you know, if you back home because and i'm sure you can afford to mute us it. so that way if i was, if someone and i couldn't finish the food annual like you must finish, it tells me to list all right. it's like almost finished. you really nice ones. it has a red flag. like, how will you tell me, i must finish conclude because this way more than bang i and i have no idea how it would behave. if somebody forced me to finish my would because they were paying for the bill. but you know what day thing aside,

we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. one thing that draws sonya eve, i knew the picture like right, i respect i. so i saw the she was bianca, it's the model. and basically i just dropped it. so i guess it doesn't matter. became the huge increase of my life. she was always there for me just of what the need the time that i've never had such templates ever in my life. he's on this, let me just say it's a next to me. and when, and by his role he do apologize. that the most amazing part of it's really interesting to me. she was always a good sort of. i mean, oh, don't that you're about me. you're about many this you're, you're about money runaways. and then he asked me what that was like, boy, that kind of that. why didn't you that, can you come to this insurance?

there are a 1000000 different ways to love. and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner, much in life. this isn't always the case. your family friend, society and even national laws. can you tell me where you kind of can't have an intimate relationship with, as well as, who are you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, c, q plus community. we still faces this coming, that shown as well as defamation. and the tests by both states as a society all around africa. so let's start off by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation, and what the less essential we s o sip and relationship experts cause it's a breaking down for us. hello there and welcome to the spread of face space, where we get to discuss everything, sex and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a best a l g b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around

agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me? so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many sub sections, but we'll focus on the most important points. the fast box, biological fix is what the doctor use is to identify you at best. based on your genet tatum. yeah. most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as into 6. the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws that you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example,

dolls and the color pink are set to belong to only the girls. where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys, but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you were assigned at best. you could be male, female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with a pronouns. he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, sandbox is sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to some of the same gender, you could be homosexual. if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender identity,

you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. this so much more to learn about the l g b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it for me, jazz till next time. good bye. thank you guys. and if you are interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to, well, it's a round page where we have a series this has on just that. now he'll return you between 2 people of the same gender as to punishable by law. this law has been in place since 19 sexy and results in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young can impression design the l g b to q activist. and when she logo was to walk to widespread, created the community,

we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g b t q community is on the lot in january 2023 and went to law about a student fashion designer and gay rights activist was killed in the canyon town of el darn. it is tragic death since shockwave through the community makeup artist and it's in gary. so of the impact when, when the news fust can you know, like i was not sure what's happened and been, and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he did things favor themself as of late there's been a lot of hits. um, i've been receiving a lot of shifts and lots of competitors on entering. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care, you'll end up like, and we dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debate about edwin's death has to be generated into an

empty q plus hate campaign. right? now they, at the most phase kind that changed the final 2 out of the safety of the sexuality of their sexual orientation. i'm going to be iraq, please. you can simply leaving the house can be a problem then not safe to go outside. you're not sure that shouldn't be safe unless you have security to batch the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of beats, run grab was intense, and it will take some time before we get back to our conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips, so as minority groups, i feel like that's i, i wish you protected homosexuality. split a boot and canyon society. but in the light of edwin's death, the l. g. b t q plus community and the allies a once again calling for acceptance.