because you might be of her question reads, hey guys. so i've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now. i really like him. we have almost everything in common. and we also have really strong sexual chemistry. but i'm worried that if i sleep with him, he will leave. this has happened to me before, so i'm trying to be more cautious and going into relationships. my question is, when is the right time to have sex with the partner for the 1st time? thanks for your question, mariam. the thing with relationships is that every encounter you have with each person, you date will be different. if what you're looking for is longevity, then give it some time. see if he sticks around. he sounds like a decent enough guy and as cliche as this sounds only time will tell. there are a ton of things that you can do to ease the sexual tension. so you don't feel like you're missing out on anything. while you're still getting to know each other better, send each other sexy text messages. explore ways of being intimate that don't involve physical touch. long sexy phone calls, right before bedtime intermittent is under the stars. you may even decide to get

physical without actually having intercourse. the list is endless, and this can go on until you feel comfortable enough to have sex with your partner . when you feel ready to have sex with your partner for the 1st time, go ahead and enjoy those pleasures. just remember to be safe and go in with no expectations other than enjoying the experience from me kaz till next time. that. thanks guys for that. i think the key point for me is that never do anything . you don't want to do and be safe because you may not be ready to be a father or mother. unfortunately, society has its way of stereotyping. especially young mothers, tying them into rows that don't feel natural to them. and that is not cool. because my, the hood is about matching and how that looks like the fest from one by one another . and i will be kenya. i mean, joshua is leading the fight against such stereotypes of becoming

a mazda is a life event that is mostly mexico joy or the transition into motherhood is modifies, do or types that could we can the result of any strong woman until they decide to challenge them that is something that i mean that joshua from there will be kenya started to do. so my transition into motherhood was being accepted into spaces where previous me it wasn't when i became my mother, things change. and a good kind of good that respects of and shredding. that's it. okay. now we can hear from her because she's become like a good motherhood in kenya, as in many parts of african societies, is seen as a duty at the expense of your personality was a woman becomes a mother. so sad to applies different from suddenly she's judge how she would, she did have too much fun or if she becomes a single mother or if she is clear, i mean there is no stranger to the effects looks much easier. and one of the things

that amino has done is to phone the digital thoughtful on mothering the woman. it has voted to hybrid events. we attended women meet you to talk about breaking the mother who has to type i have been all of these my life. i have been the divorced mother. i have been them not being able to breast feed. mother. i have been you know, have been but you know, domestic violence. my, the i have, you know, had my mother good to present like, what would you like to speak to? who is your demographic? demographic is gently as she is one of the women. we seem to another things, a woman movement. she had her 1st child a 35 and she to has faced steve dro, type the people, how interactive, especially in the workplace. and that time i was to go to a certain church that to do are very strong. you can definitely look at me like why would you choose kind of

a nice life over my the who didn't or so i mean the life she says being a part of the community has become so important because now she doesn't feel alone in her struggle. when they need such save spaces, once you take on the sort of life mother, you lose your individuality. so you're given that space to be an individual. yes, we know you have your child. we know you loved them, but you also have these feelings that you need to process model is expected to find the joy in their families and virtually. so what happens when women like jackie and amena fine to enjoy in other activities outside of motherhood? of course they have do you you have to remove yourself from the locals of mom. give a 100 jackie, a chain is one among thousands of women that amena has impacted on the facebook page and mother we, i mean not. and how group want to continue being we take positive and the teams 21

version of how mothers? sure. that's right. no one has the right to the side. however, my back should be except for those experiencing motherhood. now talking about stereotypes, as you might be aware, members of the l g b, take your community off in the face discrimination and the prosecution in many african countries in malawi, same sex activities criminalized under the law. and people who identify us trends. i've also faced prosecution yet, malawi, that's how we create a community which is fighting for its place in society. one of its members is the hugh l. a. s h a, a middle ground, a. we need to have a legal system in place that allows people to have the right to say that this was unfair and i need this to be addressed. and this was wrong. i was harassed, i was abused, i was hit, etc, or whatever. and it needs to be addressed to,

i'm not going to be the people i'm not going to like. and even if they're, even if the, the world says to whatever you want and it's legal, they still not going to like him, but he's ever the cost that like, they should be prosecuted for those for those crimes. so here is a design, a comedian and actor, please as dried as a dramatic art form to make his voice had a drug. i got an answer of marriage where i'm going to go to you or gigi. so who dresses over normal sides. i'm actually also from like joe book and like so they have to go at the same time. but this is a thing many people with this you'll do is assume that i'm different, like i'm from somebody else what the of which is through. i'm from both of the africa and also from a law we, there's a part like across town, i kind of go to because there is a fear of being attacked physically attacked. and the thing about it in malawi has mob mentality. so if one person goes on, everyone goes off. if i to tell you what are the things that happened this

weekend to really hard just to be an artist in malawi is hard. and when you also have to fight issues around you identity, it is incredibly lonely. so here's other persona had a solution to create, not just a safe space, but also a community. i'm a gym and i, i like to view myself as to personalities. so i like to say miss grande's from the other part of me that's free. that is open, that is unapologetically, say whatever she wants to say in that moment. so that's why few, for the year is here to make sure that the buses running is here to pay the bill so that the lights are on. it is here to make sure that this use of there is here to make sure that whatever bad things happen to him and these customer service is bad, he can take it and make a good review out of it. he's just the behind the scenes of everything. so the

background of them allow the analogy to the community has been out there for a very long time. but people haven't been comfortable to live as themselves in malawi and the highlights of the eligibility community came when at the table at times in the woman married her husband, back in dallas, around 2010. and that issue became so big that other international organizations have to intervene. and that's when we're allowing us to talking more about our community and what it's like to be in the community. but we're never accepted into the community in malawi, when we rolled with the 1st um rainbow night, the response we had, we had the toner, it was really good. but nozzle with the backlash, as i've seen from other customers, i usually do you recognize it and they, they still have that void of not trying to to be part of it because of the ideas. well i just, i just, i think maybe the information that i have so i think, i mean,

we're not, we're not really educated much to accept a busy community. so i know that space is like this and, and put if you're watching the, the news and we are interrupting all scheduled programming. now you for a minute says happened meeting in chief of the us foreign policy chief, joseph burrell. as a crimes for administered to mutual calais by holding a press conference. now this listening say no, you have been waiting for quite a long time by the debates has been happy to say very much interesting and useful, but they have to stop by the lights hanging in host vertical to, to you the, the meat of a. so to the residence and then security for your bag will just be done today . we have had that informed. are we doing all day to be used for that ministers?

jesus for sure. he should tony go date for several reasons. he did the 1st time ever that the concealed met outside due to if these are 1st time that we mentioned kindly the country and of fortunately it is also. he was also the 1st time that is what i mean is to the union meet in that country or the cover. we would like very involved to have bradford very much to meet on the different circumstances. but these circumstances, the way the we have to support your grade facing is challenge by coming to keep the union and so then ministers send a strong message officer regarding the answer board to ukraine in the face of this

unjust eventually didn't i personally, before today's meeting, a visited teresa gave to meet with you and the people know this because they are they the life and see with my old eyes. steve, brutal and you main nature, split the dns issue again to discuss the charges, cultural heritage boards that dies 14 for, for hungry people around the world. this is all about the true phase of the so called, especially a really tiny arrange. that booty is raging against the people. grain which is of assisting with incredible bravery prussia is red financing.

how the anne anderson russia ation doing so, extending is right across the road. targeting the most learned about people. and i think i just need depriving them from their 4 digit the consequences of his book of dismay, raj and this is not only our claim, it's also the shape you know, many we have seen at the heart of united nations general assembly 2 weeks ago, a happy russia seems determined to continue each legal actions by uniting international rule and visual, the booking global diplomacy to the desk. so this means that we have to work more and we haven't started doing that love to stop long. but today,

discussion has provided us with a better idea of the security they mention of the situation. this has to be in the status of discussion. today we spent, it's asking how we administer credit. we had been talking about the security bench that we want to provide to brain showing on the nation to stand by ukraine to longer to get an actual vision and resistance. this w is ation air force by rush. you can imagine the many different aspects of the how i sustained engagement. let me start by getting to the site. i propose a new but not to move general that the b and b's proceeded up to find video for the next year year,

which is what we call i hope that we can reach the women before the end of the year. when we have to be members days after 3 on the review of the annual financial thing, we continue with training okay. is on the target today is to bring $40000.00 in the coming months and this includes specialized training training for the fight the jets. we're also working on strengthening different vision between the v and ukrainian defense industries. as you had looking forward to reading here i gave a few days ago and we, we will continue working the creasing because unions, cyber defense, defense are going to type in the fence such as dizzy information and developing a sufficient communication is very important to increase that uh, so for the,

on the minding, this is a key condition for the grange economic recovery and reconstruction. we also discussing about further removing comprehensive reform and their law enforcement checked accountability procedures. mainly via the strengthening of existing page and advisor admission that they had the opportunity to visit innovation for sure. the strongest security inconvenience that we can gauge to ukraine. h u, v, and union membership. this is the strong this encourage convenient for you right? now you can use, i can do that country and gauge going for the on visually with

the whole meeting to the efforts of cyber attacks. but we talk also about.