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he has 3 children, but it has never changed diaper so, and he's not alone. legality. and let me go. deed cortez is teaching a class for bus drivers, showing them things that many colombians would deem unmanly. okay, like coming and breeding hair, the bus company, hired cortez to train its workers to take them out of their comfort zone and teach them new ways of being a man. makes a name, say, good thing, let me say is me. so he was, i have 3 children, i never had the opportunity or i guess the desire to change diapers the i put in the simulation today. i did it. i don't have anything when i go to really easy, they'll go results i didn't know have to come my daughter's hair, but you, they have learned how to do it. well. yep. and the, as a,

that's just basic fund. cortez is trying to convince them to take on more household tasks. yes, but you can put this up at home to keep track of your responsibility, right. i see that sorta response. i really at learning how to recognize and talk about feelings is also important. cortez works for the city of boca time, which is sponsoring the anti much small program. i am fond of eat cortez, and i work for the school of care for man. it's part of a government initiative to redefine what it means to be a man, to undo the traditional role of provider of toughness, self reliance and aggression. these training videos are part of the program, the dentist volumes. how do you clean a bathroom play or something? you take an old tooth brush for the hard to read spots. a lovely man. how do you cope with jealousy? well, thanks, but it's, i mean that's normally to your feelings and make sure you have the tools to cope with them. and i mean, just put them on the catalogs and what do you do if your child is upset?

the 1st rule is stay calm. one thing but change is an easy the culture of much use. no toxic. masculinity is deeply rooted here. what do i do if i'm with my child and see 2 men kissing space can see it. when you see gender diverse couple does that change your own sexual orientation. cortes says his goal is to encourage the men to question their beliefs and attitudes. let's say that now looks pretty easy. experience has shown that if we confront them in directly, we lose them. for the being that gets their backs up and they quit piece. okay. it only affects what i'm doing. my cheese mode takes a lot of work. putting words into practice. day in and day out at home. cortez and his partner have defeat up the chores. he does the dishes,

she the laundry. she makes breakfast. he makes the bed. but learning a new way of being a man didn't happen overnight. your machine goes, i'm really very proud of him for teaching those classes in the it on this a deep voice plus use in a quiet moment. he tells us a bit about himself is violent father who told him that masculinity is synonymous with aggression. and how he came to question that i will see you on thursday, the door to door making those changes was very hard and even painful complete. but i won a lot more than i lost by doing the stitching all that macho stuff was definitely worth it. was it ok, but of the other ones? united suspected as much as henry moraine from the cities department of culture came up with the idea for the project. it also runs a hotline to help prevent domestic violence and provide men with emotional support . when is the high? i'm paula, a psychologist at the now kind of not much. the small moraine says is

a cage that has all of society and its grip, which has somebody so for the many men suffered terribly because they can't express their emotions, their pains, their needs. and that's changing slowly. and we're seeing a different kind of masculinity when those men who are good partners who listen to take care of others. in this case i'll include the school also goes on tour, taking it skips about household chores across the city. there are gains to the program has a large team of instructors and psychologists, but they'd like to reach a wider audience. so those on this we men are pretty stuck in our ways. we don't tend to question the way we do things. sure. we all accept the discourse that much useful needs to end, but putting that into action is a different story possible. yeah, let me just say cortes isn't losing heart because he says that word of the school

is getting around and every man he's able to reach, it's already making a difference. it is still in. it helps us relate to people in a more positive way. my life is so much easier now. for example, with my partner company, i'm doing traditional gender roles. takes time. quantavia, cortez managed it. and he believes that other men count to the world wide around 12800000 goals, age between 15 and 19. give us each year know ready for the daycares. victoria is due date is just a few days away. this will be her 2nd child in brazil, nearly one and 7 babies are born to

a teenage mother and pull neighborhoods like this one. the rates is often much higher policy and why one says what you're having another baby. everybody has an opinion about it and people say i won't be able to finish school that my life is over. but i won't be able to do anything except to sit at home and watch. you can kind of see within see she lives with her boyfriend, eduardo and my daughter, laura, and one of the many savell is of rio de janeiro. eduardo is 22 and has gone back to finish high school. on the weekends he works and this night phone along the way he passes the drug dealers who have the for vela funny and that great because it's still now it's bound to dangerous. victoria was 12 when she met edwardo and 14, when she became pregnant. they weren't using any form of best control,

but the pregnancy still came as a surprise to her. in brazil, the topic of contraception is launch lead to the former president scenario. and his government tried to push abstinence only sex education in schools. his message and the message of the church was no sex before marriage. victoria's family is very religious, like many here. she concealed have pregnancy from them until the very end. the stylus was so scared i didn't. if i thought my god, only 14 and i'm going to be a mother. i was a shocker. i was crying all the time and i was very, very different. they made it to me this when she got pregnant, the 2nd time she debated having an abortion. but in brazil, maybe all abortions are legal. so in practice the wide spread and they have dangerous. many women here are killed by illegal abortions performed on the unsafe medical conditions. 2 of the

edgewater and the equivalent of about 100 years a month doing occasional shift, the snack boss. the family also receives about 150 years a month and welfare assistance. the off of that goes to rent the new addresses to the baby, only barely fits into that one room apartment and soon they'll be a family of pearl. victoria also tries to bring in a piece of money doing make up for other women in this avella. she's also taken applause for makeup artists there what kind of make up do you want like as something something like every one of those get kind of like as guilty earn a little money doing it. okay. maybe that helps a lot. i misled my dream is to open my own beauty salon. yeah. thing in missile. but with the 2nd baby on the way, her career plans all taking

a back seat. and so is graduating from high school for now. nearly $400000.00 babies are born to teenage mothers every year in brazil. although teen pregnancy rates have begun to full, the still twice the global average in a country when any of the population lives in poverty. off to victoria had her 1st baby, the hospital referred her to an n. g is the social services the dar institute as a center for mom is a need including teenage mothers point makes it. what do you do on the yeah, social work and catch ya, bella is helping the young couple plan for the future. to get a better job one day, they'll need to continue the education. so many teenage models here that some major barriers to escaping poverty. can believe soon as you would to me,

your daughter is only 2 and now there's another baby online issue with 2 children. it gets even harder category. see like a lighter side. he wants to give his daughter a better life. she's so you to start thinking about your family future and that includes contraception with see cpanel citing 1000 method according to separate you . next they get to talk to adult like most brazilians living and oversee victoria doesn't have health insurance or be just supervising. she can stay alone for me. our goal is for them to become independent and take charge of their own lives. so that the family doesn't need this kind of health anymore, i should say. so the dar institute supports mom is in difficult circumstances. it's unusual to see a supportive partner like edwardo here, most of the women clients of single mothers. that's why the n g o also offers vocational training to part time work in the community. things like cooking make up

work and has dining. the institute also office seminars and group discussions to provide guidance and support victoria and i'd rather looking forward to that 2nd baby, even though they know it will be a lot of luck without the dar institute support. in all likelihood the young couple would have splits out. like most teenagers who become parents. sunday is family day. they going to visit victoria's grandmother who raised town when victoria was just 3 months old, her mother abandoned. huh. and went off with a new 9. growing up without some mother left it smoke. victoria believes it's one of the reasons that life has become a mother has self such a young age. and my, my. ringback yeah, and the my mine is think you fox, my mother's life. i wish i'd had

a real mother how much i think of course my grandmother is like a mother to me. nick is but i still missed her anyway mtv. and i wanted to prove that i can be a better mother than my mother was to know to number 2, but i'm new. the entire family was disappointed when victoria had a baby before finishing high school, but had grandmothers. sonya on the virus stood by how many families had don't. i said now most people say you have to kick her out. don't support her. but i do support her. as long as the real life will help her. now it's up to her to finish school. so like his age to die is the family praise for the rights of future may have to victoria is determined to find a way out of poverty through education and walk. so that being

that i'd like to study medicine with me. even kids who want to get my high school diploma. i want to work a lot k, this fella. can i get my children to better home page to move to make them? i'd also like to have this might be the salon dealing with because it's something i really enjoy and the name to i values the main young for the field was time for a sophie at sugarloaf mountain and loved mount caring. really going to stick it out. she's doing her work and i'm doing mine so that one day we can provide a better future for out children. the ones that really want to give them a better life that are there to give them the best to be down. the road ahead isn't easy, but the young couple is determined to make it was the

the fruitful and multiply is a commandment shed by several religions. culture orthodox, jewish families often have 5 or more children. women don't usually have much of a say when it comes to family planning. even many native londoners have never made their way to stanford hills. the neighborhood and the cities northeast is home to more than 20000, her rated shoes, making it your largest ultra orthodox has to that community. they live according to centuries old religious laws and traditions. the outside world is kept at arm's length and even within the community, men and women lead largely separate lines. girls and women spend most of their days behind closed doors until their parents choose a husband for them. for emily, this way of life became stifling. eventually she decided to leave the community. i

was waiting for the flowers of age of 20. it was a matchmaker who had a match. the file names live harris, the interview. you know, my, my house like a sensitive husband and that, that, that is a really awful feeling. you facing the patients? yeah. it took emily years to leave her ready world. everyone she knew trying to change her mind. but she was determined to walk away. today she lives on the other end of london, but memories of her former life are never far away. your fault, you have to have sex so that not because they tell you that the knowledge is not consummated, it's not real on us to do it. so you kind of forced to do that and now it's important, institutionalized, right? that's, that's what it is that i came in for my wife and i was physically shaking and i didn't even know what was happening to me. i didn't know why i was shaking or what was going on. and my husband was saying, oh, don't worry, you know,

everybody goes through a, you'll get used to it. it's like going to not plausible to he kept on saying, but it didn't become like that. yes, in some ways you get used to it, but it was too much causing this last time. i think i feel like i block to out and then over and over again every month. and they want to punish you. they want to, my father was like, you're gonna wait, you know, you're just gonna get and you get a lawyer, you lose your children and you're gonna have another sprite time. emily didn't have a breakdown and she fought for custody of her children. she was alone, facing highly paid lawyers hired by the community. eventually, the court decided emily's children could live with her. before she decided to leave, emily had worked as a teacher in stanford hill. everything she taught had to be approved by the rabbis . that was also something she changed against, especially because many children in the uter speaking community had little chance to learn english. and you realize how the need for this is because it means cause you called make yourself understood and it's going immigrant in your own country.

you far enough in london and you can't even speak the language properly. never mind, find a job or do whatever it takes. you'll start. it's starting from scratch. boys who, according to tradition, are to spend their days studying the torah are especially affected. that was also true for easy, who from early on dreamed of studying physics to make that dream of reality, he had to leave stanford hill. but not only the sciences weren't out of bounds, even the internet was to, bu it's, it's kind of big fee. it has the existential threats of the generation. they go to generation like the central freight, and they issue filters. so they have, we're basically approved filters and they will install it for you. and sometimes they'll also offer the service where they can have a part of the screen. so they can see what you're browsing. you can have your children kicked out of school. if you're found to happen. um, filter,

internet connection. this, even though using was determined, leaving the her rating world was harder than he'd imagined. everything seemed strange and for him soon he found himself struggling with depression. survive such a journey get to have to be quite strong, not a problem suffice. unfortunately, many people, you know, the suicide rate of months, people who leave is very high you know, and that's why we, you know, i, i have people often come to me and ask, should i be and i, it's, it's, you know, it's not so easy on the side, don't just say, oh yeah, leave will be amazing. am i trying to be honest to say, actually it's going to be a very, very painful journey and you have to make a decision to know if this is what you want to do. it's a difficult decision, but the number of people making it is growing. some time ago, emily founded an organization to offer them support. she mainly counsels young women like se, so she left the her rady world a few months ago,

but starting over outside the community as an easy f d decided to leave after having her 3rd child. she wanted to begin using contraception, but that had to be approved by the rabbi had to sit there and cry to have like all think of having another child right now. just the idea is like it's my body. it should be my choice or should be able to choose when to have kids. oh no. don't get to a rabbi and beg for permission to take contraception. such a basic thing in the end after i cried a lot to him, i got permission for contraception. emily offers a listening ear here and on her health line. does she think the ultra orthodox community might become more open to the world? they also know that people even though successful and, and i'd like to think they some way, some of the bottles that they realize it's just the waste of time to win because people are gonna overcome those obstacles anyway. but i do still think for now i

did see a welding which we probably still do need to exist. yeah, for now. yes. yes, he has never stopped missing his family. but he also understands why they wanted to stay for many of the already community. the loneliness of secular life is too high, a price to pay given the it's already located within 21st century britain. you know, the only way it feels is to basically shop it's. it's bored as i'm build, kind of virtual get tools around it. that's probably not how stanford hills ultra orthodox jews would describe their way of life, but without an invisible wall. it's hard to imagine how a community could so thoroughly turn its back on the outside world. right, in the middle of 21st century london the

in the past at least, but are always felt afraid when she waited for the bus and karachi pakistan taking the bus and evidently means being harassed by man. but now she has the option of taking a women on late pink bus, a service launched earlier this year. being uh, well the navy is a very important for me to have a easy mode of transportation. so i, they, the spring bus is a very, with even to the, from the gilman. he gives the there are more than 30 pink buses. they come every 20 minutes and traverse routes across the city. and like normal buses, their clean air conditioned and the passengers can usually find a seat, a ticket costs the equivalent of $20.00 or a sense that makes it

a bit more expensive than other busses. but it's money well spent eventually on the the the buses like even the ticket controllers are women from so b, b is 17 years old. this is her 1st job. she and her family were worried, but once she began working, she'd be exposed to all sorts of dangers on the game is was, i was very worried about crime here in karachi now, police missing laguna, but the pink bus is a safe space not way and no one's going to rob me here. it's the only man allowed on the bus is a driver. now i only need to worry about my safety on my way to and from work for

joy, but out good rod. so, but he's getting corrupt. she has one of the countries highest crime rates of last year, up to a $143.00 crimes, a day were reported and the city and the victims were awesome. women out on their own. that's the main reason why the transport ministry launch. the pink bus service is main dominated society. and if you talk about myself, i wonder, low my daughter on her system on rights to drive it on the convention of the bus. so it is basically an issue and the far the the plan is to introduce the service and other cities in pakistan. we have a meeting with the coordinator of the project. one mohammed guzman tells us that the service is not only popular with the female passengers. the drivers appreciate

it to that and that i can and then the same thing, but the specific computers. so a few minutes how many chairs flemings, how many of those are put in place, and that were also one the flights of drywall for light light. so that's why the 5th a thing bus to drive for the women in karachi, the pink buses make life a lot easier. elizabeth, dar works for an advertising agency. these days or half hour commute is much less stressful. to like, oh, is this positive? imagine trying like push board limits to say that and to do more of this woman in our society, the pink buses are a step in the right direction. she said that before women and girls can feel truly safe from harassment on the streets. a lot more will have to change in pakistan,

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