lucas governments and sort of timing cause of some gains, but really it's a crime is addressed in the past of trying to take systems civility for his action . what about freedom of the price and freedom of expression? god uses trees. starts october 28th on d, w. the hello and welcome to the 77 percent. my name is edith q. money and i'm coming to you from the heart of ne ruby in the special edition of the 77 percent. we're going to talk about love relationships and of course ok break. will find out what attracts people to each of us with nice, that's especial spock. we'll hear how fox says like money and

power planes relationship and well reason is i know who wants people to express themselves. know most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or sex i used as an exchange for money. we're talking here, of course about splunk says, black says or should the mommies and daddies. so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed a bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow was struck by the expensive looks clothing and excessive shopping. hestetler classmates enjoyed to friends with so cold, slay queens who depend on richmond to maintain the livestock. they introduced her

to her own less than a wealthy married man who was more than 20 years senior to this c p where they give it as an excuse to the right procedure. but the gifts did not come to a free and tumble soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts, you know, like doing what do you want? this is kind of just felt like i was the invited into, i'm sorry, says, but type of prostitution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want. you want soft lice. lavish know that

various a soft pull to struggle to survive. and as society with money and how a concentrated in the hands of mid tempo is some man, even believe money gives him the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular villa kazi has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, lead the house without his permission or are in a cell phone may not easily 10 to so we need to control that. they need to be in your fingertips as a re, uh like for for me i was the other night i went to school so that they can have money as a tentative power. i can control them. that is, behavior not entirely undermine his girlfriend's. right. to self determination seems a little concern to be the kazi, both he and his friend claim to pay that girlfriend around 400 years each cuz

people mock long ago. this is pure business. i mean, that's the whole point. so let me know what we, what we do is we take care of women. then they what, what do we get into the done his loved. that's all. that's all, nothing else. so your insights don't use the 6 um, being taken care of just someone making you feel special in a recent sound afternoon, health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions that this is a massive problem that says also jackie, pulsing. we meet the also in an up market hotel angel. how does come up say as well known as the book which spills the beans on the blessing and bless. the culture promotes a experience with fluid borders between transactions and she's been traveling to

this hotel. yeah, i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from a violent time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into that relationship. he took the on a private jewels with politicians, businessman and mistresses, being trapped in the middle of the ocean. she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. it can be changed. it like this. in a hot, if administer wants to buy you build value regardless of the thing in the group. so even if you're dating the wall, is that in the group taken change, you also have business deals because administer often traumatizing. yes. i'm not saying managed to escape the garage, so the chief little girl, i wish to merge the book, not her experience is a warning that the world of glamour that we see on our phones and internet

platforms is sometimes fun from the actual social media gives us an invasion of to fix it, comforts that to be expected and people will that solutions and you don't even know that just to get a headset district in front of us. what are the many other things you have to do? just for the one in the back in so little because he meets his girlfriend on the legs. he wants to buy her a new hand back, which is nice, but somebody is not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and needs the money to buy the basic necessities to pay rent at. she's well aware of the dependency she fine so. so it's said that as young calls have to sleep with all the guys and pretend is this the old you okay with everything just because of course i don't hear chances of subs that you

don't the 0 percentages of getting a to do anything and everything to good, tell you what it says sits in time with a post credit economy in charges and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent. the outlook for these young women is bleak. being blessed becomes a basic way of survival and the female body and objects that can be both and thought it. but of course not all relationships. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about simpler things like who gets to pay for the bill and the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, we'll just switch views and it comes to going no big deal. some guys the, the scene just get on the fish like so much

to the wall. yeah. yeah. look, well yeah, so you're not able to provide for the game. i didn't even times way you want to have going to pick the most expensive place and it was good to. and then by time you're going to anything like this one is of rise on that. i guess. how much does it give me good. i mean, you're calculating your, you know, you back home because it obviously can afford the newest you to waynesville to someone and i couldn't finish the food and it was like, you must finish. it tells me, can this. all right, it's like almost finished. you really nice ones because a red flag like how will you tell me, i must finish conclude because he's waiting for more than bang of i and i have no idea how it would behave if somebody forced me to finish my fluid because they were paying for the bill, but you know what day thing aside, we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. one thing

that draws in sonya is i know deficient like right. i need to respect i so i so the, the issue is brianca. it's going to model. and basically i was just a job to get things disconnected. i guess it doesn't make a difference of my life. she was always there for me just of what the need the time that i've never had such support every my life. he's on this, let me just see on next to me and run it by his role. he do apologize. that the most amazing part of it's really interesting to me. she was always a good sort of, i mean for doing this, you're about me, you're about me and you just, you're, you're about money runaways. and when he asked me what that was like for that kind of that, why didn't you that man there are a 1000000 different ways to love. and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner, much in life. this isn't always the case,

your family friend, society and even national laws. can you tell me where you kind of can't have an intimate relationship with, as well as, who are you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, 6, you plus community. we still faces discrimination as well as defamation, and attack by both states and society all around africa. so let's start off by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation and what the less essential we s o sits and relationship experts cause it's a breaking down for us. hello there and welcome to the spread a safe space where we get to discuss everything, sex and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a better l g b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me?

so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many sub sections but will focus on the most important points. the 1st box, biological sex, is what the doctor use is to identify you at best. based on your genet tatum. yeah . most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as into 6. the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws that you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example, dolls and the color pink are set to belong to only girls. where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys, but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your

in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you are assigned at best. you could be male, female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with the pronouns he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, sad box is sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to someone of the same gender, you could be homeless actual, if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender identity, you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. this so much more to learn about the l g b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing

your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it for me, jazz till next time. good bye. thank you. okay, and if you're interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to instagram page where we have a series this has on just that. now hearing kenya between 2 people of the same gender as to punishable by law. this law has been in place is nice you sexy and results in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young can impression design the l g b to you activist. and when she logo was to walk you widespread, created the community, we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g b t q community is on a lot in january 2023 and went to law about

a student fashion designer and gay rights activist was killed in the canyon town of old darn it. is project death since shockwave through the community makeup artist dentist and gary felt the impact when, when the news fussed, can you know like i was not sure what's happened, edwin and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he had things favor themselves as of late there's been a lot of hits um i've been receiving a lot of hips and a lot of competitors on edwin. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care, you'll end up like, and we, the dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debates about edwin's death has to be generated into an empty l. g, b, t q plus campaign. right? now they, at the most phase came that changed the final try of the safety of the sexually

t of the a central orientation. i'm going to, i walk please. you can simply leaving the house can be a problem. then not safe to go outside. you're not sure why that shouldn't be safe unless you have security to batch the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of beats, run grab was intense or, and it will take some time before it gets back to a conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips to add my notary to groups, i feel like that's i, i, we feel protected homosexuality. split a boot and canyon society. but in the life of edwin's death, the l. g, b, t q plus community and the allies, a once again calling for acceptance and the criminalization phase and lots of homophobia. these um, lots of hate sweats, people who was only hating because they exist at you know,

they exist. that's it. um i leave, i'm leaving, i'm jason. so in most parts of africa, the laws are very similar to those hearing, kenya, in a very a, for example, one can get up to 14 years in prison, mental being game. and in some parts of the country which are ruled by fleming. serial punishments even was nevertheless, there are few brief people who are standing up for themselves. we meet one of them, the legal space, fashion design, daniel k, who is calling for more respect and acceptance. in conservative nigeria, sam, 6 relationships khattab who is the whole stay well for the l g b t q, class community but like ocean, tina john daniel k has an idea to make it a little friendly with you and to see if question brand concave apparel.

very much and sophistic about so in this coming is one of the reasons i hit the scenario as i'm done. we're going through so i hit one disrespect. so discrimination on 3 or press one. so green up. i always been like bullied on all of that. so i go through with the one i found out about the 2 years. i've always been a 1st time a of this because on myself, despite the odds i think is brand has been welcomed, especially in the l g. b t q plus community. bold inscriptions like fem isn't weakness. gender is fluid and we can be seen of happening hung out around legal i think it's quite a new way to and inclusive brand. i've always had a hard time finding. the old stuff fits my agenda expression for like with this bronze. it's always because i always find where i want this time of one my brand

outs and it will suit them be like like good. how do you maintain those students? stuff on them like this, then there's a special construct in minnesota. it's just flipped. anybody to kind of like, i mean, this isn't way if, if anything is going for the or the one body and the thoughts they need, like switch something else sees upright. he's very, very clean from someone else's age. taking these calls course is really kind of society where we even always fun or things like this. done, you runs an online store from he's home. he reveals designs on his instagram page. clients can also request designs done. you know them gets across the country is to realize the outward before supervising the ceiling and branding, experiencing hostility is part of the job, the vision, say by the offensive. i think it will just come on. and so my business page and just be like steve, what's up, why are you doing this?

is beverly, is this again, scottsville on what's on, what's not on whatsoever. the thing people don't understand is my brand is not out for the, for those particular presence. and i brand before it 4010 for his friends and customers were having his clothes in steals a sense of pride. 5 was that also includes my son to ask what? while you're doing something like this, what does this mean? does it is no right? but then i want to spend is qualified. so most of the time i see the need to keep them what things mean people find descriptions for the k to, but i really do not care. this is me on the line with a message. and while people like daniel a fighting for more except as a society, many people have their own relationship bathrooms to fights, big or small, like cooling, get you. there are kind of like julian, couple living right. can they, ruby?

and while they knew they wanted to put together their families and friends, well, they took a bit of convincing. nairobi is east of protest, melton port of trust in residents from across the continent and beyond. but a king and capitals acceptance of diversity. that's not always extent to motus, of the heart needs was very difficult when my wife go to places and in georgia is amazing. and jared was like, well, they used to be a very which stereotype buying k n c o, you've come to can to steal our room on from aust kula and get to this cross cultural relationship. maybe unusual. but like many young people to love, how familiar applicants we manage what else could to i think yeah, i'll send it to you is how is this fresh from school? he's sweet. talk to me and you know how we started d t and talking and yeah,

i like to provide p like by vibe. he actually up front. he told me you're going to be the motto. light came from a best friends and family. the new couple was bought in love, connection was difficult to accept. i was now telling my friend to know these, that dating, you know, you know, telling a lot of people and then you know, come often to, yeah, i met this guy, we've been seeing each other and i'm that she's a jane and really was sure they did what do you know about him while do you know, as bob garfield review today, comments like these with phone investigators get to somebody have long since accepted the west african as a member of the firm. but i wasn't always the case when he told me like that i didn't know delete receipt was included lazy. i say it's, i don't 13, anything about the i want you to see for us when she told me that jerry and i was

like, what do they do and doing, can i know african go to america or you. so that was for me and mind blowing. another thing that to had was he's mostly okay. and mostly says christian. so what i say is going to cause of, i know my sis, i really loved being so i'm like hey we to become listening. eventually the couple chose to put aside that may see us, but yet the else behind them, the path for ahead to us the said life that blend the best of the different backgrounds included in the kitchen. at the beginning is to cook a lot for sunday when like i'm visiting please use to really see like cocaine, you know, i guess best the, the time he was trying to me it is like really quick for you. my way, he told me, you know, to make this deals visual of the fried rice over time. i've come to enjoy most of

the guarantees. if i'm a guy, the from multi mall from the low, from, from my to get everything wherever you going from is that there's a video background, you'll cultural, you'll edge, what do i tease your type? it's, it's possible he lets me be me and i let him be. she is walks for me perfectly. and we were just happy with when any of the end of the show. but we have one more issue to talk about so that i can break because liked it or not, that's how some relationship spends. it may be most, i mean i can be alone in this. surely you must have some experiences of your own. so let's hear them. but it may not be shown these items i may have will not be happy. i think i'm the one actually ended up. i'm not interested in

the you given me. yeah. and they did this a lot of us. so you just mean you just have you read like i basically read it. there was a budget thing this with this thing. it says that a lot of the spots black the i will never forget because uh i invited him on uh which i wait for that particular piece which is for how for like a long as i shop more than enough. so i felt very, very glad to do that. i believe i always never forget, i get all my trust able to take any for granted advantage of my head. because yes, i mean football. like if i go to the beach all perform well, like my guys have level it was wrong with you. that way you way, you know for custody, it was wrong or deep dive it out. well, yeah, i'm fine to me actually i'm on do my best. i didn't know i wasn't doing the writing

on the beach. i get my bride, end of the i ended up lose insights. i didn't get a lot by giving you phone like my trust was taking for granted. so i just have to like exclude myself, other relationships, them without our body to us. so since then i one not to keep in relationship 100 percent. again, opposite extremely gave me an order for me notes like for the big thing for the stick on finding it, but out of high speed. and that brings us to the end of the show this week. if you have story is to share with us connected, also, social media, you can also write to us. so e mail is $7.00 to $7.00, the dw calls and subscribe to our youtube channel. we have, you know, with, you know, the do by now, a big too good. thanks for watching the

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