the chance again, but only if the crime is addressed and the path of trying to take sponsibility for his action. what about freedom of to print and freedom of expression? god uses trees. starts october 28th on d, w. the hello and welcome to the 77 percent. my name is edith commodity and i'm coming to you from the heart of know ruby in the special edition of the 77 percent. we're going to talk about love relationships. and of course, talked break. we'll find out what attracts people to each of us with nice, that's especial spock. we'll hear how fox says like money and power planes relationship and well reason

is i know who wants people to express themselves most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or set are used as an exchange for money. we're talking here of cost about spawn says black says or should the mommies and daddies . so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed a bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow, was struck by the expensive looks clothing and excessive shopping. hestetler classmates enjoyed to friends with so called sleigh queens who depend on richmond to maintain the last stop. they introduced her to her own less than

a wealthy married man who was more than 20 years. i've seen you used to see p was a gift left you the right procedure. the gates did not come to free. tumble soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts. you know, by doing what do you want? this is kind of just felt like i was the invited into, i'm sorry, says, but type of prostitution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want, you want soft fly slab. the snow, luxurious

a soft pull to struggle to survive in a society with money and how a concentrated in the hands of miss tumble is some man, even believe money gives him the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular villa kazi has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, leave the house without his permission or an a silver woman that easily 10 to. so we need to control that. they need to be in your finger tips. as a re, like for the, for me, i was really hard. i went to school so that i can have money as a tentative power. i can control him. but his behavior might entirely unto mine his girlfriend's right to self determination seemed a little concerned to be the kazi, both he and his friend claimed to pay that girlfriend's around 400 years each. so simple, my uncle, this is pure business. i mean, that's the whole point. so let me know what we,

what we do is we take care of women. then they, what, what do we can be done is love that's on. that's all, nothing else. so your insights don't use the 6 um, being taken care of just someone making you feel special in a recent sound afternoon, health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions that this is a massive problem that says also jackie, pulsing. we meet the also in an up market, a hotel in johannes, from what say as well known as the book, which feels to be on the blessing and blessing. culture promotes a experience with fluid borders between transactional sets and she's been traveling to this hotel. yeah,

i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from a violent time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into that relationship. he took the on a private to us with politicians, businessmen, and mistresses. being trapped in the middle of the ocean, she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. it can be changed it like this in a hot, if the minister wants to buy, you still buy you regardless of who you doing in the group. so even if you're dating the, was that in the group taken change, you also have business deals because administered after 4 traumatizing years. i'm on the same manage to escape the graphs lesson chief little girl. i wish to merge the book, not her experience. a warning that the world of glamour that we see on our phones and internet platforms is sometimes fun from the actual. social media gives us an

invasion of to fix it. comforts that to be expected. and people will that this is and you don't even know that just to get a heads federal district in front of us. what are the many other things you have to do just for the one in the back in. so which will be like because he meets his girlfriend, will be late tomorrow. he wants to buy her a new hand back, which is nice, but it's not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and needs the money to buy basic necessities. ready to pay rent, and she's well aware of the dependency she finds herself, said that as young calls have to sleep with all the guys and pretend is there a few of you okay, with everything just because of course, i don't hear chances of subs that you don't the 0

percentages of getting a to do anything and everything to get it that sits in time with the post credit economy in charges and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent. the outlook for these young women is bleak. being blessed becomes a basic way of survival and the female body and objects that can be pals and bodies . but of course not all relationships. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about simpler things like who gets to pay for the bill and the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, we'll just switch views and it comes to going no big deal. some guys the the, i guess i'm not sure like so much wrong. so this. yeah, yeah, lots but yeah,

so you're not able to provide for different times where you want to have more than you think the most expensive place in the world to go through. and then by time you're going to thinking like this one is a verizon that i got, how much is it giving good? and then you calculate in your, you know, if you back home because it actually can afford the new, that's it, to waynesville to someone. and i couldn't finish the food and it was like, you must finish it. all right, it's like almost finished. you really nice ones. it has a red flag. like, how will you tell me, i must finish conclude because this way more than bang i and i have no idea how it would behave if somebody forced me to finish my fluid because they were paying for the bill. but you know what dating aside, we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. the one thing that draws is sonya eve. i knew the picture like right. i need to respect i. so i

so the she was bianca, it's the model. and basically i was just in the, i dropped it i guess it doesn't matter. became the huge increase of my life. she was always there for me just of what the need the time that i've never had such stuff. what ever i my life, he's on this, let me just see on next to me. and when advice rose, he do apologize. that the most amazing part of it really interesting to me. she was always a good student. i mean, oh, don't that you're about me, you're about me and even sure you're about money runaways. and when he asked me what that was like for that kind of that, why didn't you that, can you come to this insurance? there are a 1000000 different ways to love. and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner, much in life. this is, it's always the case, your family, friends, society and even national laws. can you tell me?

will you kind of cons, have an intimate relationship with, as well as who you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, c, q plus community would still faces this combination as well as defamation, and attack by both states and society all around africa. so let's start so by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation and what the less essential we s o sip and relationship experts cause it's a breaking down for us. hello there and welcome to the spread a safe space where we get to discuss everything, sex and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a better l g b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me? so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse

groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many subsections, but we'll focus on the most important points. the fast box. biological 6 is what the doctor use is to identify you at best. based on your genet tatum. yeah. most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as into 6. the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws that you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example, the wells and the color pink are set to belong to only girls. where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys, but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you are assigned at best. you could

be male, female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with the pronouns he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, the sandbox as sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to some of the same gender, you could be homosexual. if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender identity, you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. that's so much more to learn about the l g b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it

for me. jazz till next time. good bye. thank you. okay. and if you're interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to instagram page where we have a series this has on just that. now here, return to sex between 2 people of the same gen that is to punishable by law. this law has been in place is nice you sexy and results in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young 10 impression design, the l g b c, u activist. and when she logo was to fucking widespread, created the for communities, we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g, b t q community is on a lot in january 2023 and went to law about a student fashion designer and k rights activist was killed in the canyon town of l

. darn. it says project death sent shock waves through the community makeup artist dentist and gary felt the impact when, when the news fussed, can you know, like i was like show it's happened and been and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he had them saved themselves as of late. there's been a lot of hits. um i've been receiving a lot of hips and lots of competitors on entering. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care, you'll end up like, and we dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debate about edwin's death has to be generated into an empty l. g b t q plus hate campaign. right? now they, at the most phase came that changed people. i'm not sure of the safety of ethic shortly 2 of their sexual orientation. i'm going to be,

i walk place. you can simply leaving the house can be a problem. they're not safe to go outside. you're not sure that shouldn't be safe unless you have security to batch the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of the beats, run, grab was intense to just take some time before we get back to our conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips to add minority to groups, i feel like that's i i, we feel protected. homosexuality. split a boot and canyon society. but in the life of edwin's death, the l. g, b, t q plus community and the allies, a once again calling for acceptance. and the criminalization these and lots of homophobia. these um, lots of hate sweats, people who was only hating because they exist. you know, they exist. that's it. um i leave, i'm leaving, i'm jason the most plus

a vast because the laws are very similar to those here in kenya. in nigeria, for example, one can get up to 14 years in prison meant for being gain, and in some parts of the country which are ruled by fleming. serial punishments even was nevertheless, there are a few brave people who are standing up for themselves. we need to one of them, the legal space, fashion design, daniel k, who is calling for more respect and acceptance. in conservative nigeria, sam, 6 relationships to bu. it's a host i well for the l g b t q plus community like ocean team. and john daniel k has an idea to make it a little friendly with you and to see question brand concave apparel very much. and so just think about so. so in this coming there's one of the reasons

i hit the scenarios on then we're going through so i hit one disrespect to discrimination on 3 oppression. so green up, i always been like bullied on all of that. so i go to read one. i found out about to you. i have always been a 1st time i have to stick up on myself. despite the ard, i think it's brand has been welcomed, especially in the l. g. b t q class community. bold inscriptions like fan isn't weakness. gender is fluid and we can be seen of happening, hung out around legal i think it's quite an innovative and inclusive brand. i've always had a hard time finding the old stuff. it's my gender expression for like with this bronze. it's always because i always find one cock this time of one my bronze out on it was sleep. i'm be like, my good. how do you maintain those students stuff i'm like yes in the is is this

all construct in minnesota? is this clear? anybody kind of like, i mean this is in way efficiently isn't, is one for the or the one for the on the thoughts, the need, like switch something else sees upright. he's very, very clean from someone else's age. taking this course is really kind of society, really leaving it. always fun of things like this done. you runs an online store from his home. he reveals designs on his instagram page. clients can also request designs done, you know, then gets across the country is to realize the that's what before supervising the ceiling and branding, experiencing hostility is part of the job. the vision saved by the offensive. i think people just come on. and so my business page and just be like, see what's up while you're doing this is definitely is this again, is go through on what's on what's not on. what's the ever,

the thing people don't understand is my brand is not out for the, for just the origin particular person. so my brand before it be 4010 for his friends and customers were having his clothes in steals a sense of pride. 5 was that also includes my son to ask what, while you're in something like this, what does this mean? this is no, right? but then i want to spend my piece of even on. so most of the time i see don't i keep them? what things mean people find the scripts done for the cases, but i really do not care. this is me on the line with a message. and while people like daniel a fighting for more acceptance to society, many people have their own relationship back to fights, big or small, like hulu and get you. there are kind of like julian, couple living right here and they will be. and while they knew they wanted to put together their families and friends, well, they took a bit of convince

a narrow b is east of protest. melton port attracted residents from across the continent and beyond. but a king and capitals acceptance of diversity. that's not always extent to motus. of the heart of the beginning is, was very difficult when my wife go to places and in georgia is amazing and job. it was really low. they used to be very which stereotype by canceling o you've come to can to steal our room on from aust kula and get to a cross cultural relationship. maybe unusual. but like many young people love hosp familiar up again. it's please match what else to i think? yeah. austin to 3 is how is this fresh from school? he's sweet. talk to me and you know how we started d t and talking and yeah, i like to use via p like my vibe. he actually up for to, to meet you're going to be the model of my kids from

a best friends and family. the new couple was bought in love, connection was difficult to accept. i was now telling my friend to know these, that dating, you know, you know, telling a lot of people and then, you know, come often to, yeah, i met this guy, we've been seeing each other and i'm that she's a jane and really was sure they do what do you know about him while do you know his bucko? he'll review today. comments like these were falling on deaf ears. get to a family have long since accepted the west african kindle as a member of the fun. but i wasn't always the case when he told me like that i didn't know delete. see what i could not lazy as i say it's, i don't want 3 anything about it. i want you to see for us when she told me that jerry and i was like, what do they do and doing, can i know african go to america or you. so that was for me and mind blowing.

another thing that to had was he's mostly okay. and mostly says christian, so what i say is going to cause of, i know my sis, i really loved him. so i'm like, hey, we to become listening. eventually the couple chose to put aside that may see us, but yet the else behind them, the path for ahead to us the said life blend the best of that different backgrounds included in the kitchen at the beginning is to cook a lot for sunday when like i'm visiting please use to really see like cocaine, you know, i guess best the, the time he was trying to, uh, meet your legs. let me quote for you, my wife. he thought, you know, to make this to visual, the fried rice over time. i've come to enjoy most of the guarantee she's if i'm a guy, the room mulkey mall from low from,

from my to get everything wherever you going from that is a video background, your cultural and you'll edge what devices your type it's, it's possible he lets me be me and i let him be here, it works for me perfectly. and we were just happy with when any of the end of the show. but we have one more issue to talk about so that i can break because liked it or not. that's how some relationship sends me the most. i mean, i can be alone in the show. you must have some experiences of your own. so let's hear them. but it may not be shown these items i may have worked out a little bit. i think i'm the one actually ended up. i'm the interested in the you've given me. yeah. and then they did.

this won't allow us to did. so you just need to go to the are you just have you read log? i basically read your wonderful uh, budgeting this with this thing. it says that a lot of the spots black the i wouldn't even forget because i invited you on uh which i wait for that particular piece which is for how for like a long as i show up. so i felt very, very good. but let me do that. i believe i always never forget, i get all my trust able to take any for granted damage of my head because yes, i meant football. like you might go to the beach, all perform well, like my g a black book, it was wrong with you. that's why you why, you know, for custody was wrong, or deep dive it out. well, yeah, fine to me actually i'm on be my best. i didn't know i wasn't doing the rights in on the beach. i get my bride end of the i ended up losing sight. i didn't get too

low by getting phone like my trust was taken for granted. so i just have to like to, excuse myself, other relationships them so that our body to us when does this is a nice one not to keep in relationship one, represent again, opposite extreme to give me an order for me notes like, well, the big thing for the pick on time again, but out of high speed. and that brings us to the end of the show this week if you have story is to share with us. connect is also social media. you can also write to us. so e mail is 7 to 7, the dw dot com, and subscribe to our youtube channel. we have you now with, you know, the do by now. a big too good. thanks for watching the uh, your bills the

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