the. 2 2 should. 2 2 weight humans close to a chimpanzee vanishing. pansy is even to a dog, a donkey or series about our complex relationship with animals. watch now on youtube. d. w documentary. hello and welcome to the 77 percent. my name is edith commodity and i'm coming to you from the heart of no ruby in the special edition of the 77 percent. we're going to talk about love relationships and of course, talked break. we'll find out what attracts people to each of us with nice, that's especial spock. we'll hear how fox says like money and power planes relationship and well the reason

is i know who wants people to express themselves most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or set are used as an exchange for money. we're talking here of cost about spawn says black says or should the mommies and daddies . so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed god bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow was struck by the expensive looks clothing and excessive shooting. hestetler classmates enjoyed to friends with so cold sleigh queens who depend on richmond to maintain the last stop. they introduced her to her own less than

a wealthy married man who was more than 20 years. i've seen you use this. c. p really gives left you the right prostate. but the gifts did not come for free. tumble. soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts, you know, by doing what do you want? this is kind of just felt like i was the invited into, i'm sorry, says, but type of prostitution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want. you want soft lice, lavish know, luxurious, a soft pull to struggle to spot in

a society where money and how a concentrated in the hands of miss tumble is somebody. and even believe money gives them the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular villa kazi has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, leave the house without his permission or an a silver woman that easily 10 to. so we need to control that. they need to be in your finger tips. as a re, like for the, for me, i was really hard. i went to school so that i can have money as a tentative power. i can control and that is behavior. i'm not entirely undermined his girlfriend's right to self determination. seems a little concerned to be the kazi, both he and his friend claim to pay that girlfriend's around 400 years each simple mock long ago. this is pure business. i mean, that's the whole point. so let me know what we,

what we do is we take care of women, then they, what, what do we can be done is love, that's all. so that's why nothing else. sorry, the sites. do you use the 6 um, being taken care of to someone making you feel special? in a recent sound auctions in health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions. and this is a massive problem that says also jackie, pulsing. we meet the also in an up market, a hotel in johannes. so much say is well known to have books which feels to be on the blessing and blessing. culture promotes a experience with fluid borders between transactional sets and she's been traveling to this hotel. yeah,

i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from a violent time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into that relationship. he took the on a private to us with politicians, businessman and mistresses, being trapped in the middle of the ocean. she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. it can be changed it like this. in a heartbeat. if the minister wants to buy you still buy you, regardless of what are you doing in the group. so even if you're dating the wall is that in the group, he can change you of the business deal because administered after full traumatizing? yes. i'm on the same manage to escape the grafts of the chief little girl wishing merge the book, not her experience. a warning that the world of glamour that we see on our phones and internet platforms is sometimes fun from the actual social media gives us an

invasion of to fix it. comforts that to be expected. and people will that this is and you don't even know that just to get a heads federal district in front of us. what are the many other things you have to do? that's for the one in the back in still, which will be like because he meets his girlfriend and relates to mom. he wants to buy her a new hand back, which is nice, but somebody is not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and needs the money to buy basic necessities. ready to pay rent, and she's well aware of the dependency she finds herself. it's said that as young calls have to sleep with older guys and pretend is if the old you are okay with everything. just because of course, around here, chances of subs that you don't get 0 percentages of getting

a to do anything and everything to good it says sits in time with the post credit economy in charges and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent. the outlook for these young women is bleak, being blessed becomes a basic way of survival and the female body, you know, that can people's and bought it. but of course not all relationships. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about conflict, things like who gets to pay for the bill and the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, we'll just switch views and it comes to going out big. you know, just some guys the dsp just get on the legs so much to the wall. so this yeah, yeah, looks but yeah,

if you're not able to provide for different times where you want to have more than you think the most expensive place in the world to go through and then by time you're going to do you feel like this one is of verizon that i got, how much is it gonna get? i mean, you're calculating your, you know, if you back home because, and i'm sure you can afford the new. that's it. so that way if i was, if someone and i couldn't finish the food and it was like, you must finish, it tells me all right. it's like almost finished. you really nice ones. it has a red flag. like, how will you tell me, i must finish conclude because this way more than bang i and i have no idea how it would behave if somebody forced me to finish my fluid because they were paying for the bill. but you know what day thing aside, we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. one thing that draws sonya eve, i knew the picture like see right on the professor,

respect i. so i saw the she was bianca, it's the model. and basically i was just in the documents and i guess it doesn't matter with them the huge increase of my life. she was always there for me just of what the need the time that i've never had such stuff. what ever i my life, he's on this, let me just see on next to me. and when and by his role he do apologize. that the most amazing factor be really interesting to me. she was always because, i mean, oh, don't that you're about me, you're about me and me about money, runaways. and then he asked me what that was like, boy, that kind of that. why didn't you that, can you come to this insurance? there are a 1000000 different ways to love and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner much in life. this isn't always the case. your family friend, society and even national laws. can you tell me where you kind of cons,

have an intimate relationship with, as well as, who are you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, q plus community. we still faces this combination as well. as defamation, and attack by both states and society all around africa. so let's start so by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation and what the less essential we s o sip and relationship experts cause it's a breaking down for us. hello there and welcome to the spread a safe space where we get to discuss everything, sex and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a better l g b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me? so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse

groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many sub sections, but will focus on the most important points. the 1st box, biological sex, is what the doctor use is to identify you at best, based on your genital. yeah, most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as intersects the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws at you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example, the wells and the color pink are set to belong to only girls. where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys, but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you were assigned at beth. you

could be male, female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with the pronouns he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, the sandbox as sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to some of the same gender, you could be homosexual. if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender identity, you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. that's so much more to learn about the l g b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it

for me. jazz till next time. good bye. thank you. okay. and if you are interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to instagram page where we have a series this has on just that. now here, return your sex between 2 people of the same gen that is to punishable by law. this law has been in place is nice you sexy and results in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young can impression design the l g, b c, u activist. and when she logo was to talk to why read create the communities? we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g b t q community is on a lot in january 2023 and went to law about a student, fashion designer and k rights activist was killed in the canyon town of el darn,

it says project death sent shock waves through the community makeup artist dentist and gary felt the impact when women use 1st care and you know like i was like show it's happened and been and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he had them saved themselves as of late. there's been a lot of hits. um i've been receiving a lot of hips and lots of competitors on entering. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care, you'll end up like, and we, dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debate about edwin's death has to be generated into an mt l. g b t q plus hate campaign. right? now they, at the most phase came that changed. people are not sure of the safety of the sexually to of their sexual orientation. i'm going to be,

i walk place. you can simply leaving the house can be a problem then not safe to go outside. you're not sure that shouldn't be safe unless you have security to batch the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of beats, run grab was intense to just take some time before we get back to our conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips to add minority to groups, i feel like that's i i, we feel protected homosexuality. split a boot and canyon society. but in the light of edwin's death, the l. g, b, t q plus community and the allies, a once again calling for acceptance. and the criminalization these and lots of homophobia. these um, lots of hate sweats, people who was only hating because they exist. you know, they exist. that's it. i leave,

i'm leaving. i'm jason. the most part so vast because the laws are very similar to those here in kenya. in nigeria, for example, one can get up to 14 years in prison meant for being gain, and in some parts of the country which are ruled by fleming. serial punishments even was nevertheless, there are a few brave people who are standing up for themselves when each one of them, the legal space, fashion design, daniel k, who's calling for more respect and acceptance in conservative nigeria, same sex relationships, khattab who is the whole stay, well for the l g b t q, class community. but like ocean tina john daniel k has an idea to make it a little friendly with you and to see question brand concave apparel very much and sophistic about. so in this coming is one of the reasons i hit the

scenario. as i'm done, we're going through so i hit one disrespect to discrimination on 3 a freshman so green up. i always been like bullied on all of that. so i go through read one i found out about to you. i've always been a 1st time i have to stick up on myself. despite the ard, i think it's brand has been welcomed, especially in the l. g. b t q, class, community bold inscriptions like them isn't weakness. gender is fluid and we can be seen of happening, hung out around legal i think it's quite an innovative and inclusive brand. i've always had a hard time finding. the old stuff fits my agenda expression for like with this bronze. it's always because i always find one called listing of one my brand out and it was super and be like, like good, how do you maintain those students?

but if i don't like this, then there's salt and stuff. i mean, so yeah, let's just clear anybody to kind of like, i mean this isn't way efficient isn't, is one for the or the one for the on the thoughts the need, like switch something else sees upright. he's very, very bold come from someone else's age, thinking this whole cause any kind of sustainability leaving it. always fun of things like this. done, you runs on online store from he's home. he reveals designs on his instagram page. clients can also request designs done, you know, them gets across the country to realize the outward before supervising the ceiling and grunting, experiencing hostility is part of the job, the vision say by defense or by some people just come on. and so my business page and just be like, hey, what's up, why are you doing this? is definitely just against go through on what's on what's not on what so ever. the

thing people don't understand is my brand is not out for the, for those particular person. so my brand before it be 4010 for his friends and customers were having his clothes in steals a sense of pride. 5 was that also includes my son to ask him what, while you're doing something like this, what does this mean book to this is no, right? but then i want to spend my piece of. so most of the time i see the need to keep them. what things mean people find the scripts done by regional care. this is me on the line with a message. and while people like daniel a fighting for more except as a society, many people have their own relationship backwards to fights, big or small. like couldn't get you. there are kind of like julian, couple living right. can they ruby and well they knew they wanted to put together their families and friends. well, they took a bit of convincing

a narrow b is east of protest. melton port attracted and residents from across the continent and beyond. but a king and capitals acceptance of diversity that's not always extent to motus. of the heart of the beginning is, was very difficult when my wife go to places and in georgia is amazing and job. it was really low. they used to be very which stereotype by dancing. oh, you've come to can to see that our move on from aust kula and get to a cross cultural relationship. maybe unusual. but like many young people love, hosp familia begins. please match what else to think. yeah. austin to 3 is how is this fresh from school? he's sweet. talk to me and you know how you said a d t and talking and yeah, i like to use via p like vibe. he actually up for to, to meet. you're going to be the mother of my kids from

a best friends and family. the new couple was bought in love, connection was difficult to accept. i was now telling my friends to know these, that dating, you know, you know, telling a lot of people. and then, you know, come often to, yeah, i met this guy, we've been seeing each other and i'm that she's a jane and really was sure they do. what do you know about him while do, you know, is bob garfield review today? comments like these were falling on deaf ears. get to a family have long since accepted the west african as a member of the firm. but i wasn't always the case when he told me like that, i didn't know delete. see what i could not agree the as i say it's i don't 13, anything about the i want you to see for us when he told me that jerry and i was like, what do they do and doing, can i know african go to america or europe,

so that was for me and mind blowing. another thing that to had was he's mostly okay . and my sister's christian. so he really stays going to cause of i know my sister i really loved being so i'm like, hey we to become listening. eventually the couple chose to put aside that may see is would you have dallas behind them? the path for ahead to us. the said life that blends the best of that different backgrounds include in, in the kitchen of the beginning is to cook a lot for us. and when i come visiting a please use to really see like cocaine, you know, i guess best day the time he was trying to meet it. like let me quote for you my wife. he told me how to make this to visual. the fried rice over time, i've come to enjoy most of the guarantee she's if i'm a guy, the room mulkey mall from now from

a from mike. ok. everything. whatever you going from is that there's a video background. you'll cultural and you'll edge what devices you'll type it's, it's possible he lets me be me and i let him be here. it walks for me buffy key and we were just happy with when any of the end of our show. but we have one more issue to talk about so that i can break because liked it or not, that's how some relationship sends me the most. i mean, i can't be alone in this. surely you must have some experiences of your own. so let's hear them read. it may not, you should be fine. i may have. well, so i'm looking at i think i'm the one actually ended up. i'm the interested in the you've given me. yeah. and then they did.

this won't allow us to do so you just need to go to the you just have you read log. i basically read your wonderful uh, budgeting this with this thing. it says that a lot of the spots black the, i wouldn't even forget because i invited you on uh which i wait for that particular piece, which is for how for like a long as i showed up. so i felt very, very undoubtedly that i believe always never forget, i get all my trust able to take any for granted and damage of my head. because yes, i mean football. like if i go to the beach all perform well, like my guys are black. okay. what's wrong with you? that's why you why you know for custody of what's wrong or deep dive it out. well yeah, i'm fine to me. actually, i'm on do my best. i didn't know. i wasn't doing the rights in on the beach. i did

my bride end of the i ended up losing sight. i didn't get a lot by giving phone like my trust was taken for granted. so i just have to like to excuse myself, other relationships them. so that out body to us when this is, is a nice one, not too deep in relationship wonder present again, opposite extremely gave me an order for me notes like, well, the big thing for the stick on finding it but out of high speed. and that brings us to the end of the show this week. if you have story is to share with us connected, also, social media, you can also write to us. so e mail is 7 to 7, the dw dot com and subscribe to our youtube channel. we have you now with, you know, the do by now. a big too good. thanks for watching the, your bills for the 1st

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