everyone who wants to know more about the topics that concern us a little bit about the stories the on the headline was back inside in depth interviews and see the world in progress. the w hello and welcome to the 77 percent. my name is edith king money and i'm coming to you from the heart of ne ruby in the special edition of the 77 percent. we're going to talk about love relationships and of course, talk break. we'll find out what attracts people to each of us with nice, that's especial spock. we'll hear how fox says like money and

power planes relationship. and what we thought is, i know who wants people to express themselves, most of your sexual orientation. so we know that money can complicate things in a partnership like when love or sex are used as an exchange for money. we're talking here, of course about splunk says, black says or so the mommies and daddies. so we want to stick a closer look at the blessed a bless the culture, specifically in south africa. and some young women opened up to us about the experience. i felt wondering though this next report discusses dependency and relationships and sexual violence. when she started his studies 23 year old in the plunder tumble from the widow, was struck by the expensive looks clothing and excessive shopping. hestetler classmates enjoyed to friends with so cold slee queens who depend on richmond to

maintain the livestock. they introduced her to her own less than a wealthy married man, who was more than 20 years senior to this c p where they give it as an excuse to the re proceed. but the gifts did not come for free and tumble, soon discovered that she need to perform sexual status. this is when she started having 2nd thoughts, you know, by doing what do you want? this is kind of just felt like, oh, i was be invited into, i'm sorry, says, but type of prostitution. but then now i have to now make do with whatever just comes by just because of the, the fact that you want to slice that you want. you want soft lice, lavish know,

luxurious, a soft pull to struggle to survive in a society with money and how a concentrated in the hands of miss tumble is some man, even believe money gives them the right to control a woman's freedom. 46 road modular field because he has 3 mistresses. he does not allow them to work, leave the house without his permission or are in a cell phone woman that easily tend to. so we need to control that. they need to be in your finger tips. as a re, i like for, for me i was really hot. i went to school so that i can have money. i can have power. i can control that his behavior might entirely unto mine his girlfriend's right to self determination seems a little concerned to be the kazi, both he and his friend claim to pay that girlfriend around 400 years each cuz

people mock long ago. this is pure business. i mean, that's the whole point. so let me know what we, what we do is we take care of women. then they what, what do we get into the done his loved. that's all. that's all, nothing else. so you mean sites don't use the 6 um, being taken care of just someone making you feel special in a recent sounds afternoon, health of a one in 10 young women reported to have had transactions that this is a massive problem that says also jackie, almost saying we meet the also in an up market hotel in johannes. so much say is well known as the head book, which feels to be on the blessing and bless the culture. so much say experience with fluid borders between transactional sets and she's been traveling to

this hotel. yeah, i remember that as a young girl, she ran away from a violent time and became involved with a very wealthy man, a few months into that relationship. he took the on a private jewels with politicians, businessman and the mistresses being trapped in the middle of the ocean. she had no choice but to enjoy being raped multiple times. ready it can be changed it like this in hot, if administer wants to buy, you still buy you regardless of where you dating in the. so even if you're dating the wall, is that in the group taken change, you also have business deals because administer often traumatising is i'm not saying managed to escape the garage. so the chief little girl, i wish to merge the book about her experience is a warning that the world of glamour that we see on our phones and internet

platforms is sometimes fun from the actual social media. it gives us an invasion of to fix it, comforts that to be expected. and people will, that is and you don't even know the just to get a headset go district in front of us. what are the many other things you have to do? that's for the one in the back. and so went to the la kazi meets his girlfriend, relates to mine. he wants to buy her a new hand back, which is nice, but somebody is not early enough for the luxuries she has a baby and needs the money to buy basic necessities. ready to pay rent at she's well aware of the dependency she finds herself, said that as young calls have to sleep in all the guys and pretend is this the old you are okay with everything just because of course i don't hear

chances of subs out. you don't have 0 percentages of getting a to do anything and everything to good tell you what it says sits in time with a post credit economy in charges and then the unemployment rate of the 60 percent. the outlook for these young women is bleak. being blessed becomes a basic way of survival and the female body, you know, that can be both and thought it. but of course not all relationships. so this complicated and well money often plays a role. it's all fine about simpler things like who gets to pay for the bill on the dates. so we wanted to know what your experience as well and for this we went to millennium fox. you know, just i switched views and it comes to green, a big deal. some guys the, the scene just goes on the legs so

much wrong. so this. yeah, yeah, looks but yeah, if you're not able to provide for i didn't have in times, way you want to have more than you think the most expensive piece in the world to go through and then by time you finish, do you feel like this one is of verizon that i got, how much is a really good, i mean, you're calculating your, you know, if you back home because it obviously can afford the new that's it. so that way if i was, if someone and i couldn't finish the food annual like you must be an issue. i was looking this. all right. it's like almost finished. you really nice ones because a red flag. like how will you tell me i must finish people because this way more than bang i in the i have no idea how it would behave. if somebody forced me to finish my fluid because they were paying for the bill. but you know what day thing aside, we also wanted to find out what attracts people to each other and what makes relationships work. so here's what you said. one thing that draws me

if i knew the picture like right, i need you for service. i. so i, so the, the actual sabrina's you model and basically i just dropped, fits, and i guess it doesn't matter. became the huge increase of my life. she was always there for me just of what the need the time that i've never had such stuff. what ever i my life, he's on this, let me just say it's a next to me and run it by his role. he do apologize. that the most amazing part of it's really interesting to me. she was always, i mean, oh, don't that you're about me. you're about me and the decision about money, runaways. and when he asked me what that was like, boy, that kind of that, why didn't you like me? and there are a 1000000 different ways to love. and who you choose to love should really only be a method for you and your partner, much in life. this isn't always the case. your family friend,

society and even national laws. can you tell me where you kind of can't have an intimate relationship with, as well as, who are you kind of identify as i'm talking about the l g, b, c, q plus community. we're still faces. this coming to shown as well as defamation. and the tests by both states as a society all around africa. so let's start off by unpacking gender identity and sexual orientation, and what the less essential we s o sip and relationship experts cause it's a breaking down for us. hello there and welcome to the spread a safe space where we get to discuss everything, sex and relationships. today we have a question on gender and sexual diversity. the question reads take as, as a pass, i'm trying to be a best a l g b t q plus ally. i'm finding it hard to understand all the new language around agenda, sexuality and 6. is there a way you can simplify it for me?

so i can better understand how to conduct myself in spaces where i meet diverse groups. i'd really appreciate it. thanks. let's start by creating 3 boxes, biological or assigned sex, gender, and sexual orientation. each of these boxes has many sub sections, but we'll focus on the most important points. the fast box. biological 6 is what the doctor use is to identify you at best. based on your genet tatum. yeah. most of the time it's either male or female, but there are also cases where one is born with both male and female genitalia, that person is known as into 6. the 2nd box is agenda. gender is a social construct. it's what society throws that you to place you in a binary box of either male or female. for example, dolls and the color pink are set to belong to only girls. where is trucks and the color blue are set to belong to only boys, but not everybody conforms to this agenda. binary gender identity comes from your

in a sense of self and may not align with the sex that you are assigned at best. you could be male female, both neither or some other agenda. and this could mean for example, that you're not comfortable with a pronouns he or she and would rather be referred to as they or them. for example, for fed box sexual orientation. this has to do with the attraction that you have to a person based on their agenda, which can be romantic, emotional, or physical men. and women strictly attracted to the opposite agenda, a known as heterosexual. if you're attracted to some of the same gender, you could be homosexual. if you're attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender identity, you could be pansexual. keep in mind that this really is just the tip of the iceberg. this so much more to learn about the l g

b t q plus community. i hope this has been helpful and i do urge you to keep doing your research online. well informed allies like you are very important. that's it for me, gaz till next time. good bye. thank you guys. and if you are interested in learning more about special minorities or just indicating yourself about sex on the body in general, you can have to, it's a round page where we have a series this has on just that. now he'll return you between 2 people of the same gender is to punishable by law. this law has been in place since 19 sexy and results in sexual minorities being harassed and left with virtually no protection from police of the states. in january 2023, a young tenant question, design the l g b to q activist. and when she logo was to watching widespread, created the community, we spoke to some people who are still willing to speak up can yes, l g b t q community is on a lot. in january 2023, edwin to low about

a student fashion designer and gay rights activist was killed in the canyon town of el darn. it says project death sent chuck waves through the community, makeup artist, dentist and gary. so of the impact when, when the news fust can you know, like i was not sure what's happened and been, and i was like, i really hope it's not about how he did things by themselves as of late. there's been a lot of hits. um, i've been receiving a lot of shifts and lots of competitors on entering. everybody's telling me, you know, if you don't take care, you'll end up like, and we dentist was always aware that his sexual orientation was not accepted by society. but the online debate about edwin's death has to be generated into an empty to be q plus campaign. right now they, at the most phase kind that changed the final 2 out of the safety of the sexuality

of their sexual orientation. i'm going to be, i walk place even simply leaving the house can be a problem. they're not safe to go outside. you're not sure that shouldn't be safe unless you have security to but the environment and they and the solution, right? and now inside of beats, run grab was intense, and it will take some time before we get back to our conflict. so if the government came in the lives of hips, so as minority groups, i feel like that's i, i, we few protected homosexuality, split a boot and canyon society. but in the life of edwin's death, the l. g, b, t, q plus community and the allies, a once again calling for acceptance and the criminalization phase and lots of homophobia. these um, lots of hate sweats, people who was only hating because they exist at you know, they exist. that's it.