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she wants to remain mysterious, fearsome, strong, sometimes threatening, sometimes of charming. but i couldn't see behind her match. the way to the red princess stops november 25th on dw, the, the land of the free. the endless struggle for equality in the us, the still a child and already a parent teenage, nothing in the and the what makes a man a mind colombia attends the ties on machismo. the
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he has 3 children but has never changed a diaper and he's not alone. legality and let me go want viewed, cortez is teaching a class for bus drivers, showing them things that many colombians would deem unmanly. okay, like coming and breeding hair, the bus company, hired cortez to train its workers to take them out of their comfort zone and teach them new ways of being a man. makes a name, say, good thing, let me say is me. so he was, i have 3 children, i never had the opportunity for, i guess, the desire to change diapers. they got put in the simulation today. i did it, i don't have anything when i go to really use it, they will go results. i didn't know how to comb my daughter's hair, but you, they have learned how to do it. well yeah, but in the, as a signal use this fund, cortez is trying to convince them to take on more household tasks to yes,
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this particular you can put this up at home to keep track of your responsibility. why say, a sort of response, i really at learning how to recognize and talk about feelings is also important. cortez works for the city of boca time, which is sponsoring the add too much of smoke program. i am fond of feed cortez and i work for the school of care for man. it's part of a government initiative to redefine what it means to be a man, to undo the traditional role of provider of toughness, self reliance and aggression. these training videos are part of the program, the dentist bindings. how do you clean a bathroom play or something? you take an old tooth brush for the hard to read spots of the lovely man. how do you cope with jealousy? thanks. but if any, acknowledge your feelings and make sure you have the tools to cope with them. and i mean, just put them on the catalogs and what do you do if your child is upset? the 1st rule is stay calm and things but change is an easy
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the culture of much use. no toxic. masculinity is deeply rooted here. what do i do if i'm with my child and see 2 men kissing space can see it. when you see the gender diverse couple does that change your own sexual orientation . cortes says his goal is to encourage the men to question their beliefs and attitudes. let's say that now looks pretty easy. experience has shown that if we confront them in directly, we lose them for the being that gets their backs up and they quit is looking at only affect what i'm doing. my cheese mode takes a lot of work, putting words into practice day in and day out at home, cortez and his partner have defeat up the chores. he does the dishes, she the laundry. she makes breakfast. he makes the bed. but learning a new way of
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being a man didn't happen overnight. we don't machine those. i'm really very proud of him for teaching those classes in the it on this a deep voice plus use. in a quiet moment he tells us a bit about himself, his violent father, who told him that masculinity is synonymous with aggression. and how he came to question that i will see you on thursday, the door to door making those changes was very hard and even painful, you know, more complex, but i won a lot more than i lost by doing the stitching all that macho stuff was definitely worth it, unless it okay, but a few other ones. united suspected as much as henry moraine from the cities department of culture came up with the idea of for the project. it also runs a hotline to help prevent domestic violence and provide men with emotional support . when is the hi, i'm paula. a psychologist at the now kind of my god. much the small moraine says is a cage that has all of society and its grip,
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which has somebody so for the many men suffered terribly because they can't express their emotions in their pains their needs. and that's changing slowly done enough. we're seeing a different kind of masculinity when those men who are good partners who listen, who take care of others, which in this case are included. the school also goes on tour, taking it skips about household chores across the city. there are games to the program has a large team of instructors and psychologists, but they'd like to reach a wider audience on this we men are pretty stuck in our ways. we don't tend to question the way we do things. sure. we all accept the discourse that much useful needs to end, but putting that into action is a different story possible. yeah, let me just say cortes isn't losing heart because he says that word of the school is getting around and every man he's able to reach, it's already making
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a difference. the concern is don't make what else it helps us relate to people in a more positive way. my life is so much easier. now. for example, with my partner company, i'm doing traditional gender roles. takes time. quan duffy, cortez managed it. and he believes that other men can to the worldwide around 12800000 goals, age between $15.19 gift bus each year. ready for the daycares? victoria is due date is just a few days away. this will be her 2nd child. in brazil, nearly one and 7 babies are born to a teenage mother or in co neighborhoods like this one. the rates is often much
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higher the policy and i one size law and then you're having another baby. everybody has an opinion about it and people say, i won't be able to finish school that my life is over. that i won't be able to do anything except to sit at home and watch the king size and see what else. she lives with her boyfriend, eduardo and i go to laura and one of the many savell as of rio de janeiro. eduardo is 22 and has gone back to finish high school. on the weekends he works and the smartphone along the way, he passes the drug dealers who have the fellow sunny and men. great. the conk still now it's far too dangerous. victoria was 12 when she met edwardo and 14, when she became pregnant. they weren't using any form of pest control, but the pregnancy still came as a surprise to her. in brazil,
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the topic of contraception is launch lead to the former president, both scenario and his government tried to push abstinence only sex education in schools is message and the message of the church was no sex before marriage. victoria is family is very religious, like many here. she concealed her pregnancy from them until the very end. the stylus was so scared i didn't. if i thought my god, only 14 and i'm going to be a mother. i was a shocker. i was crying all the time and i was very, very diver, they made it pretty music. when she got pregnant, the 2nd time she debated having an abortion. but in brazil, nearly all abortions are legal. so in practice the wide spread and they have dangerous many women here are killed by illegal abortions performed on the unsafe medical conditions home and water and the equivalent of about 100 years
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a month doing occasional shift. so the snack boss, the family also receives about 150 years a month and welfare assistance. the off of that goes to rent. the new addresses to the baby, only barely fits into that one room apartment. and soon they'll be a family of pearl. victoria also tries to bring in a base of money doing make up for other women in the for vela she's also taken applause for makeup artist. was there what kind of make up do you want? like as something center level every one of those get kind of like as guilty earn a little money doing a girl that helps a lot. i misled my dream is to open my own beauty salon. yeah. thing in missile. but with the 2nd baby on the way, her career plans all taking a back seat. and so is graduating from high school for now. nearly $400000.00
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babies are born to teenage mothers, every year in brazil. although teen pregnancy rates have begun to full. that's still twice the global average in a country when maybe a 3rd of the population lives in poverty. off to victoria had her 1st baby, the hospital referred her to an n g for social services. the daughter institute is a center for mom is a need including teenage mothers. what makes it, what do you do on the yeah, the social work and catch ya, bella is helping the young couple plans for the future. to get a better job one day, they'll need to continue the education. so many teenage moms here, that's a major barrier to escaping poverty. can believe soon as you want to leave your daughter is only 2 and now there's another baby on my issue with 2 children. it
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gets even harder. category see the wider side. he wants to give his daughter a better life. she's so you to start thinking about your family future and that includes contraception for see cpanel siding 1000 method of corporate assistance. you next they get to talk to adult to like most brazilians living and oversee victoria doesn't have health insurance will be just supervising. she can stay a long phone on me. our goal is for them to become independent and take charge of their own lives, so that the family doesn't need this kind of health anymore. she please. so the dar institute supports montez in difficult circumstances. it's unusual to see a supportive partner like edwardo here, most of the women clients of single mothers. that's why the n g o also also has vocational training to part time work in the community. things like cooking makeup work and has dining. the institute also office seminars and group discussions to
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provide guidance and support. victoria and eduardo are looking forward to that 2nd baby, even though they know it will be a lot of luck without the dar institute support. in all likelihood the young couple would have splits out. like most teenagers who become parents. sunday is family day. they going to visit victoria's grandmother who raised town. when victoria was just 3 months old, her mother abandoned and went off within you 9. growing up for 1000 mazda and left it smoke, victoria believes its one of the reasons that led has to become a mother, has selves such a young age. and my, my mind. and the my mind is think you, fox, in my mother's life. i wish i'd had a real mother. how much do you think? of course, my grandmother is like a mother to me. make it. but i still missed her anyway mtv as,
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and i wanted to prove that i can be a better mother than my mother was to know number for, but i'm new of the entire family was disappointed when victoria had a baby before finishing high school, but had grandmothers sonya only virus stood by how many families had don't. i said now most people say you have to kick her out. don't support her. but i do support her. as long as the real life will help her. now it's up to her to finish school on nick, so like his age to die is the family praise for a brighter future they may have to victoria is determined to find a way out of poverty through education and walk. so that being that i'd like to study medicine with me even kids who want to get my high school
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diploma. i want to work a lot k, this fella. can i get my children to better home pay this to move to make them. i'd also like to have this might be the salon dealing with because it's something i really enjoy and to me to i values the main young for the field was time for a sophie at sugarloaf mountain atlanta monk here in rio we're going to stick it out she's doing her work and i'm doing mine so that one day we can provide a better future for out children. the ones that really want to give them a better life that are there to give them the best to be down. the road ahead isn't easy, but the young couple is determined to make it was the with a model of lady liberty in their arms. these 2 are heading to the statue of liberty
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. the pascal sublime has been looking forward to this trip with her son a xavier for weeks, not just because the 7 year old has never seen it in real life. david and i poured over this lego statue of liberty set for a whole week. and when we finished, so you know, mom has a project on liberty, i'm like, no way anyone who wants to climb the stairs inside has to 1st go through security screening in this building. simple and functional. it was designed by pascal, sublime, a black woman. that's a rare accomplishment. even today in this profession dominated by white men. i real feel really, really proud. not like super glamorous, but i'm having an impact and locations is really popular. and i, and think about all the people who kind of go through this space to kind of have an engagement with the liberty island is pretty awesome to be part of that met sequence of experiences. which is something that lot of people are particularly
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under represented in the construction in real estate industries. pascal so gone is one of the few to break through that. for her lady liberty is more than a symbol of freedom. it's really the kind of the statement against racism, right, is the structure and to have our project to be on this island and be part of that experience is important. and so for me, the opportunities are not lost on me that my family took a risk right to come and to be here and just to enter into the unknown and what was expected. these hot dogs are famous in washington dc. just like the woman who owns the successful restaurant when they're served, virginia ali, but customers come here for more than her special chilly dogs. get frequently asked to have their photos taken with the manual business owner. then chili bowl even got a visit from a rack. obama, when he was newly elected as president,
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his spot is marked to this day. this diner has long serve as a melting pot, regardless of age class and race. everyone is welcome here. the counter hasn't changed since 1958. when virginia opened the local hot spot with her husband back then life for african americans was completely different because we couldn't go downtown to the theater. oh, we couldn't go down town sunday now. oh, we couldn't buy a house of town holiness. places like that. but we had everything we needed to hear back in new york pascal so blonde wants to show us her favorite building site in the bronx. that's a dressing racial disparity, the architect says, and that also means better housing. she describes the moment in her studies when she was clearly judged on the color of her skin. professor asked me and another student the stance, so it felt different. i didn't know what was happening. maybe it was a, an assignment that was coming. they needed to leaders and he said, okay,
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these 2 will never become an architect because they're women and because they're black, women like for you. well it's, it was shocking, i think with more shocking than anything else because i wasn't expected in any way . and as a competitive person, that was the sentence i needed to hear that pasco is meeting a successful career for herself. thinking differently was the key to this project for 500 departments are being built in affordable living space with lots of glass in greenery. type a very different from the crammed housing blocks where many black families have lived up to now. now living quarters that so tight that is very hard to do so. so places like parks and outdoor space is become that much more critical because it allows culturally for us to have time with our family share. i mean with that family. so the client itself will box project pay to triple the amount of barbecue grove in the park. oh, good you. i mean, this is not like a beautiful, glorious expression,
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even though it's affordable housing that people from the dignity of pride as it looked at their home as experienced a quality space. bronze point wasn't just created by sitting at a desk. pascal and 2 other colleagues talked at length with local residents. the team took time to hear what they wanted and what was missing from the area. 40000 people have already applied to live here. need it starts. where's your heart out? what is your mind that when you start surprising and make sure that the end addresses the voices of everyone? virginia and your family want to continue passing on the inspirational story of bins, chile, bowl and its role within the black community. school groups visit regularly for history, lessons over hot dogs and fries very of 3 people that way you'd like to be treated . yeah, edward, edward st. payment the way you like to be treated even the angry words if you get to them. she says that's why the chili bowl has been such
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a popular community spot for 65 years. you are always open to everybody and i wonder has that's health, the toner ends and openness. i think it helped us and i'm in my family and now my business and i think it's something that should be practice. well, why if we can't get everybody to be kind to each other and be a wonderful thing. time has kind of stood still at bins, chilly ball, but her son come all only says that things were african americans have changed since the civil rights movement. he continues to run the diner with his family and we've gone from all the working on civil rights. and now we're talking about every kind of rights, a rights of human rights and animal rights. and that doesn't mean that racism business that exist in the world and then we don't, we still have problems, but we've certainly come a long, long way from, from 1958 to now. pascal
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is back in her old catholic or in school. this is where it all began for her. now she has a clear message to encourage more young women. in that moment i was shocked, but it also allowed me to understand my responsibility. when i walk into a space, i won't just be pasco, right. i will be representing my race, my from the city, my gender, so i therefore have to show up and show out every single time that also kind of said to me that i couldn't just be an architect to the buildings. but i also needs to come in and rock the profession at the same time united think. i also thought it was like, really inspiring because like she, when she does all that is just like exceptional and your feeling feel like i will be i'll make a change like a this, not the pasco, and she will help me along with it. man. i got to live in pesto also feels that her success comes with a degree of responsibility. i think her goal is ambitious. she wants to see sexism and racism eradicated from her industry within the next 5 years.
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the in the past at least, but are always felt afraid when she waited for the bus and karachi pakistan taking the bus and evidently means being harassed by man. but now she has the option of taking a women only pink bus, a service launched earlier this year. being uh, well the navy is a very important for me to have a easy mode of transportation. so i, they, the same bus is a very with, i mean, she has been from the gilman, she gave the there are more than 30 pink buses. they come every 20 minutes and traverse routes across the city. unlike normal buses,
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their clean air conditioned and the passengers can usually find a seat. a ticket costs the equivalent of 20 or a sense that makes it a bit more expensive than other busses. but it's money well spent eventually on these buses like even the ticket controllers are women from so b b is 17 years old. this is her 1st job. she and her family were worried, but once she began working, she'd be exposed to all sorts of dangers. or the game is was i was very worried about crime here, interaction points missing laguna. but the pink bus is a safe space, not way, and no one's going to rob me here. this is the only man allowed on the buses. the
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driver is in black. now i only need to worry about my safety on my way to and from work on to a flat out good rod. so, but he's getting corrupt. she has one of the countries highest crime rates last year, up to a $143.00 crimes a day were reported in the city. and the victims were awesome. women out on their own. that's the main reason why the transport ministry launch. the pink bus service is named dominated society. and if you talk about myself, i wonder, low my daughter or sister on right to drive it on the convention of the bus. so it is basically an issue and the far the the plan is to introduce the service and other cities in pakistan. we have a meeting with the coordinator of the project. one mohammed guzman tells us that
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the service is not only popular with the female passengers. the drivers appreciate it to the other that i can i and then the same thing, but the specific computer. so a few minutes. how many affairs flemings, how many of those are put in place and that were also on the flight of drywall for light light. so that's why the 5th uh thing bus to drive for the women in karachi, the pink buses make life a lot easier. elizabeth, dar works for an advertising agency. these days or half hour commute is much less stressful. you have to like, oh, is this positive? imagine trying like push board to say that and to do more of this woman in our society,
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the pink buses are a step in the right direction. she says that before women and girls can feel truly safe from harassment on the streets, a lot more will have to change in pakistan the the the,
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