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tv   I Love You  Deutsche Welle  December 8, 2023 7:15pm-8:00pm CET

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further for aryana and realizing her dream of representing kosovo, set you up today to have more world use of the top of the our next on the w a documentary exploring the power of love the . we want to be the number one for the car to clean empire of crime. news that you can map to us hills, one coin, made up currency. then she disappears with house of trains, of financial thriller about the world's most wanted woman crypto queen stops december 30th on dw.
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love vines this together present to the beautiful feeling and sometimes confusion without love, you can't actually be happy sign. laws thrilling and passionate, but it also hurts to ministry of of great low by yeah, i thought we are the we, we are a perfect fit perfectly. solved for 2 peas in a cult. often talk sometimes the feeling plus a lot of time, the
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big lightning struck facade and corinne, 2 and a half years ago when they miss on a day thing happened. you know, the couple live together into sort of config. undergoes in an open depression custom as well. my intent, i've been nice to him does. he told me that this is designed for thoughts on smiling because a and when i 1st started photo the sun, my heart skipped a beat as they say. you have a sort of a dust. izzy. i saw the photo and sobs that service went really easy. the way this app works, you look at a lot of profiles, and at some point you become, i'd say a bit, j design. and then this photo came up. i thought to myself, ok, wow, that's are. and then we talked on the phone for a quite a long time, and i was at my mother's and she always likes to send me home with food. because if i asked her to give me a little bit more because she's here, she doesn't have any family here. and i miss arabic food and i want to bring
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yourself. we have never met before, but i know how to express in our thoughts and in the feel like this was i did have an alteri remote. i thought if i gave her my tougher, where'd we have to meet again so she can give it back to me. so that was smart. the new home just needs a few finishing touches. it has to be ready in 6 weeks. that's one to 2 a getting married. so the architect is very particular about everything being perfect. a challenge for karim who has a ph. d. in physics. so that's as high now, so that's what sarah wants to get. the last 5 percent finish, i'm perfectly. that's fine. with meeting on between the door opens committee, the door closes and openness. i'm about to see the you don't need any handles that way. yeah. or the office of it's simone. yeah. so the study and the guest room also
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have to be completely finished before the wedding. what i want to so she can go ahead and help me finish it. can you fix it? the study is almost finished. this is way korean will spend tuesdays. he works from home last a but behind the door side has something very special for you to know why the wedding dress kareem isn't allowed to see it before the wedding day. is spent as a showing of it as the other thing is. i think it's nicer when it's a surprise, although i do get to see his suit of a sprint. this was in every culture that the groom isn't allowed to see the pride stress. often the boy to go on the so he promised he wouldn't peak it. hudson and i trust him the 1st month on the chicago, him the preparations for the wedding,
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a well under way. everything should be perfect. even the wedding dance. so as to the, to have hired a wedding plan. soneta season has organized everything down to the smallest detail of fata and cream. want it to be the most beautiful day if they live as a bit of a celebration with a 150 guests from old eyes to the world become of canada. yo done, you see long calculations on their coming in from canada, jordan's 3 long greasy berlin to be there by to sign. and that is just joy, that they are with us for this new stage of life that we both want to start and view by the on from what they meet once the thing is that they can celebrate and feel the joy with us before i do it on so should be on the specific list of those, those fees and it doesn't happen that often. well, that's all the people we love in the world are with us. yeah. i just want everybody
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to have a good time. it's 5000 feet, 2 options and let her know as i had imagined, the relationship would become so serious. so quickly. glove took them both by surprise. me based and on. the topic of love is an indescribable feeling. i can put it into words and something you see, you feel fruit dot is it makes her heart quiver even think. but you don't know what's going on with that slow for me. so miss somebody, i'd say love is slow boundless. um, do patients want and friendship? i'm doing that in a good way. good. sure. we are the best of friends. no, but you're also my best friend. no. the that's right. i don't have
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a best friend. she's a 100 disappointed. this is the, a love is infinite to this because it's a beautiful feeling and sometimes confusing love is wonderful. just happened. this is, it's a deep connection. you feel like the ones who, the whole recap and home and sure matlab non existent school. well, this is where they took this stance class and the way they met it was a school full and they were 15 years old. yes . and is this, this is where you were stuck because this and you i was sitting here young for here more here. yeah, yes for king by the a little further back i think. yeah,
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the tablets as, as i saw you, there was they were sitting all the way back there. i didn't see you there about every now and then in between that i could see the conditions here. but i remember i was here talking. i didn't see you coming in for all of a sudden people as you were standing there on. i guess it took me an hour to organize that an hour i now or month amount up front with the music company gave me the hand signal and said, please ask your partner for the next dance and then bang, i was here quite so good luck and then you took my hand and we went out there on to the dance floor here in front. yes. here at the door. yeah. and then some police came on. do you guys requested that saw? do you remember this time? no, i don't buy this. well, actually. yeah,
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as it was procol harum, a whiter shade of pale. but this was one of the longest blues tracts. there was back then the god at this point then papa. and then the music came on at 1st, we kept a bit of distance, then we slowly came together. then i kept moving away. i thought not too close for me. and at some point we were very close now. and then we danced very slowly. i remember that the
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that was a long time ago. yeah, that was a long time ago. cuz it brings tears to your eyes. oh honey. hi. oh that is all is well, you found me. i was also well one man, man, man. life has in store for, you know, yes, a great place or toilet great memories. children should have failed as a musician. as a student, to practice 10 hours a day. big dream to go on to with big pop bands. and in 2018, he's a professor asked if you'd like to study abroad in india or in new well india in terms of our area. i mean, quite noisy, dirty, but a lot of people for the the streets are the only idea
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a hand of india who is what you see in the media cops compton template. i pictured slums in my head. i didn't have a nice image of in the 5 i always have to of just have to kind of soon has been something in india. shavani come a call was already a successful artist, a classical indian dancer. she was family and cooking had country, her family and her what the project with the gym and students was just one of had many autistic projects at the time. she had never met a gym and clever bung took her to the minute 50 hudson was supposed to start at 9. the, the leaves at $84858.00, and they will bring the daughter buildings to actually at 9 which was, lets say no. dod for day mcdaniel especially not mind. and then, you know,
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before forcing, if that was really thinking we could just when, when shavani and to limit they fell in love. it was the beginning of a love story across 2 continents ago because they spent 6 months together and bought in march 2022 men flew back to germany. right before the pen, demik locked down the money. and then the left. a few bills in. it's been a hard one of the last flights from india and i came home and everything shut down from south. 60 concerts were canceled because i had nothing to do. i just came from an intense phase with she bonnie: with music. if i need to be back home with, can you call me and nothing when it's done asthma initially, that was the start of the most difficult challenge for us and we saw the i had to so we didn't know when we would see each other next to me, when was it ended up being a whole year and a half? well, 16 months that we couldn't see each other's wrecked and went on to the one's only thing on the
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tillman and shavani was 7000 kilometers the pot for 16 months, with no idea when they could meet again. but they didn't want to give up on a connection. they spent hours every day on the face, time talking and developing their own style of music from the system to find that make the absence of the other person made it so important and made us realize, you know, we, we return usually all better together. thanks to the find out make we, we found the i don't know each of those value a lesson more disclosure was taken by 2 men while he was still in india, when he said good bye to shavani. after that, they only saw each other online on is done obviously. i'm nonsense 1st and then i
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propose to wear on december 19th. 2020. yeah, i'm 1st on a dozen on zoom. of course. yes, sons. and she said yes. and since then, we always keep the pictures some place we can see it is what i thought the hold on in my, in the sort of thinking but it was still, i'm still on okay of when they would be able to see each other again. the couple had to deal with lockdown difficult visa issues and treat restrictions and unclear flight day plans changed multiple times. ready so fortunately to the time his flight landed in more, my, i was not sure if he'd be able to make it for the waiting or not to months, the to could only communicate via screen to memory.
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the, the love is complicated. leave it as love as the most important thing in life for me. without love, you can't be happy at all. you can dear somehow, always unsatisfied. wait for freedom when you have to be able to forgive you in arguments because you see things you might notice. sometimes when it's on the back stabbing or something like that, again, i think hard to forget, sufficient balance. so that is the disadvantage of love. it's not always beautiful . there's pain to live at all that one great, true love a dream or a wish for many. but not every love last a lifetime. and there's a miser, was in
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a monogamous marriage for 15 years until she realized that her husband had been chasing on her for years. not change to view of relationships. as it is, i think the 2 free les high and there's a muscle, suffered greatly before she reached this conclusion. first, she left her husband and had a breakdown. she gentled about the use to this day, a trunk, filled with 10 memory stands next to his sofa as a show might uh, shaken to us a less. it's frightening. the story is told in these pages, which we hear more so for example, here, my monday, october 1st my 22nd day as i am counting it and then i say no, i must begin a new story. announced a day's notice and seeing mister access and not just back then i called him mister
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x. by that time i was still seeing him that because i thought we had to clarify things until i realized at some point that there was nothing to clarify. and that i just had to let go most the sense of by my, not the worst thing about my failed relationship was basically being lied to be out . and not only by him, but also from the female friends around me who knew what was going on. and didn't tell me tom, these, it flushed into this idea that for years i looked into their faces and they were lying to me, me, i had come to choose from me. that was the greatest betrayal for him. i'd for, and type in the hopper. the self and mission i used to i like was the for hot but this low point and this applies will change to whole life. she started therapy and made great strides. professionally. she spent, it has to gone manufacturing business. she organized music evenings and the goss seminar. she enjoyed her professional success with intense love,
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but she wanted to know. so she began a radical experiment. she just wanted to develop relationships with 5 men. at the same time, a challenge off to 15, monogamous. she is of marriage. i'm just come from from the as a phone complaint that i came from nothing. my self confidence was that rock bottom . and from there to this idea of 5, man, that's a huge gap out of the f one. so how do you manage the then it was a case of trial and error, a process to building myself up and worsting myself out of the house and how with difficulty, as, as look on and then learning a new language, the flirting or dating language date and then finally finding someone who wants to try something out into this month and then finding the next person was also put in that really took the timeframes. and we'll just have to register all of the that within 20 to well,
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to use the hood to find the 5 man. she knows how to float. now, often a single glance is enough. but then something happens that she didn't counsel vanessa mice. also mackey in love with one of his 5 men. when the goals is eating fy, lose good, and then a experience real agony and my so as all my friends had predicted them, he basically put all my ccs to the test as it was involuntarily my teacher. and all my great ideas were suddenly put to the test by reality wouldn't, cuz there's not a lot of one that i need to to prove. so it was an interesting script that life wrote for me, label fussell, and at some point i was really exhausted. i have to say in one bios was just the shop was you saw a lot of experiments became an emotional rollercoaster visit the less she continued it. she had set his self, a timeframe if 2 years. then she wrote 2 books,
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12345, man, just to me, when the book was published, it was the to the town. she appealed tabloids and told shipped to experiment is ongoing. the nice thing indeed. and she learned a lot about yourself. responded up in june, going to need a violation of shopping. it was a rebellion against loves because i had been very disappointed and i just want it something completely different and completely crazy at the counterpoint. nice not meant as an advice manual is not a how to good set, but i want to get people to maybe think outside the box of it that's maybe do some
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is increasing this and you wouldn't tell on so copeland for life from of us to hook to some other for me, honest. so import, once convinced is your business, that's my motto model. i'm always treat other people with respect. and so i seem, it looks like 2 behind in on the impact team on. and you can't just trace somebody off between human to the that's the worst thing for me for me, but the idea of cheating on teaching you of your reality tv for me honestly, is the most important things, even if it hurts. sometimes the thing day is here, and this is still a district. the final wedding preparations are underway. kareem wants to leave nothing to chance. everything should be perfect. but of course, there are a few he comes to perform, the photographer might be late as or to fuels before he should've left. but i don't know if he's still at lunch or what,
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but he should be there already. we're on schedule covering is nervous. but waiting plan to savannah has everything under control. her team is getting the whole ready for a 150 guests from all over the world. within the 2 hours to go. it's stressful to everyone as a free book, as opposed to movement when he was one of them. there are also these positive moments and you have to think about them, how beautiful that is, just like this s and k, which is back there is what i didn't want it, but sarah had to have it and it looks phenomenal. so you have to remind yourself of everything that's beautiful. so there's a little bit more excitement and less nervousness. i find that i can know that so, and that's why i don't know how to just kept the official wedding ceremony small. the big celebration is off
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towards cline distribution. okay, so for some centimeters, since i'm enough of young and all that that happens. unlikely of this one. i'll just pop dream and sarah are a bit nervous, but also excited. we have the groom who's already here, which is actually not typical, but because usually at weddings, the bride and groom only come later together to the location. here we have a somewhat different procedure. then we have the groom here who of course wants to keep an eye on everything while he waits for the bright. this, um yeah, well, she is running a bit late. so yes, of course that always causes a certain amount of anxiety. have you on a monday of this, and there was a tips much worse than i'll have for while cream is wasting an estimate. the bride is induced little she still needs to ride his stall for his sale. it's taking longer than expected to get to the bottom part is more important than the top to add some champagne. as i told you, you've got to have
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a drink. it'll relax you. as soon as you see your husband, you'll be comb. lot of good. i'm excited. about nervous, but also happy to for the so the, all the emotions together. yeah. so i have others as well as, unfortunately i still have a bit of a cold manhood that's been, i can hear it may be a, but it could be where he lives. i so starless malika, this work is special. let's see, until you mentioned the mission over to dish no frequency. now for me of course, it's also exciting. nothing can go wrong. and of course i have to call them down to the weight, and that's also part of my job. if i'm stressed on the brides or even more stress, because it's a big responsibility. yeah. so a special nicholas, a thoughtful to him, a few actually sorry i should leave right away to stay on schedule for
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weeks. she's managed to hide the wedding dress from corinne early. 2 more hours either. she will be standing in front of him. yeah, yeah. the degrees of polk is 7. it'll, rick, it has spent a lot of time. you and the 51 years. so say for the smit one, supporting the talk is particularly special for them. yeah, this is the, or this is our please. so to speak to where i asked her if she would like to go with me there as i called it back then. because i knew the crew very well of that time and still knew it well today. i don't know what i chose exactly in this place here. viewed wouldn't. and as you can see, she said, yeah, this is the, let's the august back ever since i seen, we always return to this spot on the,
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i'm assuming from tim kim, you 1st met when we were 50, then now we have our own children and i would say a 15 year old as a child in the of a. so we were actually still children die. ok, now you have on say a box where we felt very grown up for a month. and when you get to know each other, when you're as young as we both were something very special and the focus money. okay. the then we like to come back here, look. so we see that as many others may have a place where they mad or got to know each other. and uh, what i can tell me, this is honey and the old weekend time and also brought their own children here to this day. the couple of lakes, the how long trip once or twice a month to this message for immediate house and advice. so they've made many important decisions under these trees. let me know who am i speaking with you see on the funds? yes. and at some point, when you reach our age,
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you think to yourself, yet this is where all began. when comes come loud, you can hardly believe it is. he just didn't know how the whole thing would develop a since in this place has this attraction come to the new other police and the world can ever have an seals coughing to hear the or in this place. many of our values were determined. he and these are still live with meeting of the family to see the meaning of togetherness on the cliff. plus the boy doing fun combines, i'm kind of the twist. enrica dreamed of riding a motorcycle as merely age. she lived and with the support of the house, but it is still and then to see us to write it today. for the couple is so has differing interest. my wife leaves the classical music and i like heavy metal. the method hardrock had to walk the sequence of they alone love to say is this special ritual for no, no, every wednesday they take turns surprising each other. so they own one. once again,
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we're willing, you always have to think about what moves the other person. it's always different that i'm like, what makes the other person took right now? what is it that moves him? why didn't you always have to keep track of what is current at the moment and he is no longer the man i met 50 years ago. and she is now a completely different person with other preferences as well. it is love, it is real still. is this feeling this warm feeling of loved or leave of on the system attend? there's a deep gratitude to that. i always feel when we are here in florida and this and that we have been so blessed in life. that is also what i associated with this place. gratitude inside they were always together in the same place. the something that was out of reach for shavani entombment for a long time the
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until this moment. after 16 months of separation to him and finally lance. hi, for the to, to our re united phone, the and they get married because depend to me because on going the wedding, a small by indian stand pens the 2 can finally make music together in the
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same place. but the the now we have a husband and wife. oh yeah. hello. hey, say the to live in cologne. do you guys come home sick? this is a big issue for shavani. oh, she misses her beloved indian food, but that's relatively easy to fixing 99 more difficulties. everyday life in germany, bureaucracy and the german language only thing that human health square at the he can no with this effect what she misses most of the people she left behind.
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i remember the last day in india. the 2 most difficult things for me. leaving the balance institute stickers that have been bought. i bought now i'm going to take my moped back home. and then the next morning, i'm not going to come here to stand in front of my mortgage and loan from home. this organization was so difficult, so difficult. but again, on the other hand, it was happy that i was going to move to a new country and start a new life with my husband. you know, during my last that moscato mind was with you before taking my flight and the other was saying that back to my my the at the voice a of that what i think most of the so i think about it a lot like ok wow. she bonnie: what you've done for me i could not have dreamed of on the cisco wrist guns of
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these are the, it's something we need to keep in mind. the. okay, you have something new together lawyer and we must work diligently to build this thing together with us. so the telephone, so the to have developed a mix of contemporary pope percussion and classical indian music this month's meta look like a movie. good. then now with on their own productions under the name on the head, which means bound to figure it out that the bigger and that's at the beginning of the things i'm going to the, the bins all going to the, the negative. think about that they had to think about but at the end, so that would allow yourself, i'm the as long as the flame of passion stays on, life is and maybe even grow stronger. we know we're not in the wrong place. one thoughtful sonya gotten works quite well, plus the new movie the into and still and every day there were those moments where
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you look out the window and think, wow, and it's been a journey spinning journey. so telling stories through vision. that's what the upon the test uses. it's a life small show and the client for joint professional future to the living and working together. kind of look excellent toast and run the catering company in the moon for its course. the invention. glad back. the couple spends a lot of time to get up there off and asked how they manage. excuse me, i specify something, i'm always the one who asked, how can you stand him? that is not true. i am asked the same question. it's always a question of who's asking today, sir? no, i don't know either. somehow it has developed well, so there is no big discussion about it because it develops so organically and this is, and we also know exactly when the other one has reached their limits. this then i
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take 3 or 4 days off from work completely outcomes also, but people of, and this will be something that's a bit too much and i need to switch off. i go into the kitchen. so the lucky one is whoever is there at the time. no, joking aside, that's it. we each of our whole be under space and what's a little discard? space is one key to the happiness. toast and cook faces profession on tooth past. so how does it look? that's good. you want to try it. yes, it smells quite tasty. from nothing. once again, there was nothing of the way to a man's heart is through stomach. very good. no one is called, i cook an act. so it goes to the kitchen afterwards and cleans up on that. you know that, that is really great. somebody has to do it. it's a fair. do you feel idea when xcel needs a break, he gets behind the wheel of the street cars, members of his club,
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even drive regular street, cars shifts from time to time. the did afterwards success yet you some new energy. they simply need to they even donations one of these old restored street cars to their hometown. the no excellent tours didn't give each other space. that's one secret today. long relationship. but they also have a hobby in common in 2019 they with a low to kind of has crown prince's a 1st in their hometown logically. and not surprisingly,
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there were a lot of skeptics gifted because they said 2 princes and no princess. oh, how's it going to work? he's one of the d and i was unavailable. and even just what will he be wearing with? will there be someone in the garden with a pink feather, but when we heard of it this lease, or we thought it can be true enough to establish people asked yeah, did you think about that? and then listening that we have to show more or less 1st that we are quite normal as it always f one. then we said, by the way, from, well, then we'll only do it if either of us present address kind of what the for neither of us will be a princess upkept if we do it and it's to print. so i put in some i asked is that it was clear close to an actual didn't want to pretend for others. the in the 1961 peaceful they set off for a very special place. the 2 1st says i do a top piece has beg mountain and could extend to in 2009
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the key to the back in like it's been a long time for it wasn't an official marriage, but a declaration of partnership. same sex marriage and chimney was not allowed at the time. still the celebration of the love was an event and it took place in one of the most schools off the wedding vineyards. in rhineland, a spot for glamorous potties. so many jim and celebrity couples of walked down the stairs as ok. so axel wasn't nervous at all. at the wedding, ulta tall, he just had new voice in the morning. we had to call the dumpster that was especially nice that he lost his voice over it. or, well, you more than make up for it and i don't know, but really how should i describe it?
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i am a special day and there were special people there. and then the surprise with a room home. how will it look? because all that was already such a magic moment, as you can imagine, if you're going to celebrate, then do it properly. they'll push these toes. didn't used to be a shift at the hotel. so he has a very personal relationship with this price. it turned out to be a huge coffee, a $180.00 guests. $3000.00 dread roses was too emotional. and there were people there who were crying and they congratulated those afterwards. they said, honestly, that was the 1st wedding. we've been to a 2 men, but it was so emotional, so great and what so thank you for that. and that was kind of something for us. it was normal for us and i'm not the only one who doesn't come once again. the core of the matter, it doesn't matter who it is, sitting up there. if 2 people say we take responsibility for each other, but it doesn't matter in which constellation they live above the was certainly a bit different 10 or 14 years ago. this in unless a slight as and also
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a political event for us. it was really about, as it didn't matter what other people thought. honestly, i'm not even done when politics in germany changed and same sex marriage was finally allowed. the couple made it official in 2019 excellent, thorsten said i do a 2nd time. i get the big celebration a wedding a day. that should be remembered forever. many couples come up with something extraordinary. the. the
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it's the moment kevin has been waiting for in a few minutes. sorrow will finally arrive at the wedding, then you the yeah, how did you imagine we would dance with the wow. i had because the to will never forget this moment when i look here. and now for the big potty, no, no. a wedding with many relatives and friends. the siren kareem,
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it's the plastic stopped when life together to want to be waiting group to be carry to room chose to bend to this special day the, the celebration will be everything. the 2 dream don't the
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