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the lights on all tight jobs power each or power points a normal dad's choose to swap the office for the necessary and spend time with that children. but what happens demand jr and pregnancy and the 1st year so that babies live in this town. we discover what science nice about that. we know that mile hormones drove off during child support. brain changes ask, do you become a father? what's wonderful about default child relationship is it gods are different. so to parent we spend time with young adults and experience how being a father changes them so overwhelming to know that i'm going to be a father in a few minutes. i can't wait to see what it's like to look after 2 children at the same time. i'm getting so starting to see when she learns to call and when she

learned to quench assessor 1st words. i mean, that's awesome. the, the, the gym, the alexander codes and his wife and you live in the mix of districts. so that will be 3 of them that are expecting that 1st child in 6 weeks. it's been off to date. i'm excited because it's thrilling that we don't know what will happen, know how everything is going to develop here. and so there's a lot of anticipation, look and of course, some trepidation and it's a mixture of feeling comes on. it's saga also. i'm as i'm crossing

the prime has the right everything revolves around the bus and what he's going to have and the me gets quarter inch, i'm soft. i'm fine when i fall asleep, there is a good time, but of course i have to worry about things and 40. maybe i'll be university giving a lecture if you do it, and then i have to somehow get through by and, and traffic and to get to the tenants. and that will allow me to get that with the audio. will someone be there to help us get to a hospital and always come? so these are the things that i'm thinking about doesn't give me time. who does not think of you? who did? i wouldn't say i'm scared. the most important thing is for the baby to tongue because he's still in breach position, but with his legs down as an invite in the holding onto a c tons. then i'd be super happy time to be a natural, but that's what i'm hoping for this. and sean for the main thing is that he's

healthy, come to this one so that the once about the man who takes care of his well being and what happens to him during pregnancy? bookings here in england. dr. animation lives with a family and dogs just outside on stage. the evolutionary anthropologist has been recessing, fatherhood for his adults with the university. she conducted a large study and wrote a book about that. the trigger was the dramatic but of the story. my husband witnessed what was basically a call crash happening in front of him when we were given by that he thought he was going to lose both of us and we both came quite place to death to aust woods. i was

offered lots of counseling today with my tool, but from this stuff i'm actually i didn't really need it cuz i was unconscious. so hadn't seen anything. he had witnessed everything as they offered him nothing. so when i went back to what i thought, i want to find out who a human father is, and i want to talk about the positive story of human fatherhood. as an evolution anthropologist, i understand how read human solve is it, is we need to have the i that has it. i just one of thoughts and i really genuinely do believe fatherhood begins and pregnancy. i think we have this idea that follow this, right. and they all physically distance, obviously from the presence of having a baby, then not having that, that immense physical closeness of them of this happening. but we know the fathers do, in fact start to bones with that baby before the baby is born. professor chi, booting a gynecologist from hamburg also thinks the fatherhood begins during pregnancy.

despite the i know it's the fact that something is growing inside you'll cotton and that belongs to both of you is really peculiar and that you can do an ultrasound and make it visible is perhaps is even more difficult for a minute because now they can see that there really is something this fuss when they go through major homer, no changes during pregnancy, surprisingly meant to love it. and it was on the black team that it does meet particularly interesting is prolactin with the whole mind. that's responsible for like patient and started. it sounds a bit funny to say that these hormone increases in man, but it does a mock prolactin down regulates the mechanism that controls mail hormones. and i suspect that this is also the reason why testosterone levels drop in men during pregnancy, and especially off the bus with a piece enables main to concentrate on their family and as it yes, my will feel familiar. concepcion,

the may have phones on the south of paris and frogs. it's the beginning of april, the sample noun, dominguez and his found the ma go. what do you bad? i've just moved here. so they're expecting this 2nd baby in 2 months because i'm not nervous, so i'm looking forward to seeing what it's like to look after 2 children. at the same time. all the adults at home is taking a map of the time to organize the clients with a new baby. only new note knows whether it will be a boy or a go. what is it? i don't want to know. i'll find out a thread on a new false that'll pull the main concern is that it's healthy,

but i can't wait 9 months without knowing it sex. it's too long. it's impossible for them to keep up with you. but i a new nose thinks he heard a cry, it's time to wake up the one and a half year old. anyway. otherwise she one phone to sleep at night because it's a weekend. the only chance the new know just spend time with his family during the week. he works long hours and tries to juggle work and family life

so much small. it's changed my life model. i have less time for myself, and that's leisure, because it takes up a lot of our time to look into that for that. we're lucky because we find easy to deal with a chevy and she's quite pleasant to live with. it's never been asked. it's quite tiring. gold box, the vice principal for the, for the machine to produce the city, see china induced to try and have time to look off to my child because i work from monday to friday. like everyone else uh,

during the weekend is not enough. i would love to spend time from monday to sunday with my child the most. i think mobile home mambo 2nd pregnancy is going smoothly. but still it will be too much with them to husband. sure. i wouldn't be able to do it without, and i'm really glad that i have central since it gives me a break now. and that was the whole 5th, 2 minutes before the weekend was fine to show us the light and the negative. ma'am documents is a professor of family studies at lightning university to focus 5 years in research on parenting, it's too often that we say that we do

a study on parents where it's actually the study of mothering and out on the farthest row. so that's why i think it's good to bring some balance in the fields and to pay more attention to the fathers, especially in the transition to other mariam document studies, the 1st $1000.00 days of tides. for example, she conducts ultrasound video feedback sessions between week 21 and 30 of the pregnancy. so you ask spa this to interact with the unborn babies. for example, by reading them a book, maybe $100.00 fathers to posit a study, a little additional lesson. i'm vision both vision, both my staff, if it was okay if i use for the interim or if it's a show, boy, and you have to show feel we use the saw that the opportunity to interact with the

infant that's never been done before. and doing so, we provide the father, we feel paternity to take the perspective of the fee to some of the newborn that this is a human being with a mind or if its own, who needs to follow this tension and protection. we know that fathers liked to be more involved. fathers who are more involved during pregnancy are also more involved after the birth of the baby after the session. each father gets a video showing how the baby reacts it. the baby recognizes the forces of its mother and if it's father, as you can see that from the the heart beat increase when, when she or he, he is the father of the mother, talked to them at a also touch the, the role of the uterus longer when they're stocked from the outside and that's what you, what you saw here too. when the father did some massage of the abdomen of the mother

we saw under the baby, raised her hand and sort of made contact with what was happening outside the backend. the preparing for the baby puts extra stress on alexander cuts it because his job, he's quite demanding a series of it doesn't mean that so we don't see that. and it's been introduced to listen to all the time. an aerospace engineer and that job has to pups to it. one challenges that i'm the chief engineer of my own company, which i found it together was a friends 2 and a half years ago. and the other fault and southern working is a university like trophies under who, who to the rally beeps, the office before 7 pm is matt. it's mike. it's funny. it's more than a job to, to, it's my 1st baby i invest a lot of time and i have

a certain responsibility towards my employees, but towards my company, i am really passionate about my job. but today, alexander finishes study because his wife is due for a checkup at the university clinic. kind of now there's no single minute has nothing wrapped around the neck that's important to us to cope. there's the head to the bottom is currently still down at 33 weeks. we can try to turn it from the outside, but we'll talk about that in 3 and a half weeks. sometimes they turn on their own. so is it said the video turning into externally doesn't? well, then there are 2 options. you can decide to have a vaginal breach, but i think about admittedly many women choose as has area and section then because it's deemed safe for the child. and i, that's not for fun the other hand,

we all hesitant about just as that re inspection, is specially if it is not absolutely necessary. because as has every inspection, can be a burden for subsequent pregnancy. and so on. a lot of the lessons icon. as for me, it was only the 2nd time that i was present to the ultrasound examination at the time. it was really grinding customer. on the other hand, when i'm gonna have to worry that the child is still in breach position, you can see that's on the video, his grades of the notes here in germany, the average age of 1st time dancer bus is 33 years. having signed the contract is 36 years old. those people him youth that's always on my mind. will i be too old at some point as my wants to play football with my child to be an act as a father? i hope that i stay healthy and can provide my child with as many opportunities as possible but at least the phone is

age. really impulsive that the child lindsay, it's nothing unique design visa can for this, if you look at the genetic risk for the on bone, all the new bones. it is indeed the case that old a fathers are responsible for some congenital malformation. so a syndrome little moment to find what they send a sent me. so there aren't that many, but this has been proven for us such an skeletal displays. yeah. that just because the bus for toys, with, for example, a come drove lazy on your screen to open issues. in this case, the father's age is important and, but on the whole, it's a fact that the mother's age plays a much greater wrong. i to them what kind of daughters because of all are skewed the tab sweet set that still current popular with young families. the

monthly aspire is 35 years old. he and his wife, johanna have 2 children. it has very positive memories of the bad thing. 20192021 says they're so really amazing because one like 5 minutes before the citizens in the room are on its way out and then suddenly it's in your hands and you've been waiting for it for 9 months. it's amazing. but also crazy. you have this little person that knows how to be the 1st thing it does. the 1st one was actively started, so that took a long time. i think we were at the hospital for 36 hours so. so and i was present during, during birth, giving as much support this i could, which is not a lot,

as i mentioned um, and the 2nd side of us a little faster hamburg germany, professor kind of booting wants to know what happens to men during job as part of the study, the last 5 is what the thing with negatively affected by it stopped by time that almost as shown fuel you turned out that many man had prepared themselves well for the event. i would say that around 80 to 90 percent failed positive about that. then there was a smaller proportion about 10 percent who were worried about problems off the bus and put also people demons a home in europe around 85 percent of dads that present during this however, isn't always possible. for example, during an emergency suzanne infection. death of these teeth, nothing can go wrong. i think it's too stressful for a family member. so that's why we take the fathers out to these emergency

situations. these notes have to talk to on the face of the us. he's a c and a half hours by the 20th of april 7 i and i knew a coach as was is it broke the babys didn't breeched position and couldn't not be turned on yet. and that exam to wanted to have a plan says every in session next week, but now things have changed. alexander coaster is allowed to be present at beth this is, this is the loss, of course, is this huge emotional feeling that comes out of you. because now you know, okay, you're going to be a father and a few minutes to it. and that's something completely different. it's a situation that you've seen me like to door mentioned before. even that have been confronted with the real thing. the

uh the delivery went wow. but now something seems to be wrong.

the . the pediatricians get the all clear. the baby is fine. allies and just that 1st screen that moment, that 1st scream. wow, that's crazy. the

sure. beautiful is governance and truck moment. i think if i'm, you know, there was a step of mine and to show when the midwife took it away. when i noticed that he didn't read for a moment. i wasn't feeling so great. then at that point i just wanted to com. i me a down from when i came back and from then on everything was great. and novelty screenings and then it will be on the will take fluid is coming out. everything is great. positive. it's crazy. it was pure emotion was it was crazy. what was going to ag, crazy that you'll now in this? well, 3, it's up to the system. i'm fine. i'm a bit confused. i'm. i'm starting to feel the pain. most of them that i'm super happy. you come to describe this feelings to of 6 pounds and 20 inches, a delicate, but healthy boy ignited constancy is his full name. but his parents just called him in a unique moment psychologically physically. and you are

logically omens, but also a man's body changes during the month. is this what the woods would us difficulties were not to look too good with an understanding as to what you want. as your own label means cortisol levels naturally increase toward the book, which is a stressful situation. understandably, to studies show that mile testosterone levels decrease off the bus, which leads to low a testosterone in that blood tire. for doctor test, the may not be any good to cease has probably ended reducing stress. mutating the ability to build a nest and achieve calmness and we got the emptiness or the jumping test so certain that the cuts in new fall, this folding book is significant. it can be up to a set of that test. so strange like 33 percent of the test of strain will drop generally the level of the test so so never returned to pri, best level. so pre fault hood levels, as long as the father remains in contact in some way with that child

back to france, they have phones on the 2 and a half weeks ago. new no, dominguez margaret, or the bed became payments for the 2nd time a go. celeste with more c. nope. i see it's down to the bath, went well and, but it was a bit stressful, very different to the 1st time we left late. but the maternity ward we arrived just in time and the bus lost it just popping out as long as you pay 30 minutes. and then it was a lie that also at last was born to the sun, the soonest. a and totally different feeling that the 1st time it took a day to now it went really fast. it was completely different to evaluate the complete model. so just to fiscal thoughtful, i'm super happy. see,

it's really totally different than the 1st time actually profit to see. i feel better and i feel less tired issue. and i'm so happy to finally have my 2nd baby the but not to find this have emotional hardy. so maybe you can also suffer from post natal depression. overall, the jo pin test will strike following but is a good thing because it's really important for priming dad to jump into a social story also increases the advocacy of documented ox tyson on the brain, which means increases. there's no point in chemicals. the downside is holly test still straight is preventative against depression. so if we say a dropping test, so striking, unfortunately it does increase the likelihood, the child that of mine well experience depression. there are other factors that come in to share that. so just not to put load generally doesn't close. depression . cambridge english

child psychiatrist professor pull runtime donnie works at the university of cambridge one of his main areas of research is the mental health of parents. especially fathers, in studies across the wealth for too much is fairly, can fairly consistent the, somewhere between one and 20, maybe even up to one in 10 dots are affected by high levels of depression. so at this time, there was a range of causes for why people get depressed at any time. and then the 1st thing he to take care about, that's a new baby. so you've got a disruption to family likes. you go to sleep stuff and switch the big challenge and you go to your new dads trying to chuckle now, how do i do my job with how do i to contribute to the king of this baby? so it's a huge the i for looks error. i think but most fathers to not get depressed

on the contrary. many enjoyed being at that the in sweden, etc. a spies on parental these bodies wife lex piece of time with his daughter as straight. who is 9 months old? the 3 year old. oh, last is the daycare at the moment. i love it. i mean, i've been home for 3 months now and it's really it's, it really is but it's also menu starting to get the routing of the day. so you're doing. this is the same thing and you see what works and what doesn't work. martinez wants to take 10 months parental leave.

astrid will stop going to the daycare center when she's one and a half years old. so this is what makes it all worth it. i mean for me now i'm, i'm getting to starting to see when she learns to call when she learned to walk, when she says her 1st words. i mean that's, that's awesome. and i don't think when you come lying to death bed and someone else, what would you do differently? it's not i would have spent more days office. that's not what you're saying. so yeah, definitely with the the 3 pm. betsy is picks up a lot from daycare, looking up that his kids is a full time job. it is a different life, but i also, i mean, i used to play

a lot of goals. i don't anymore, which is natural and it's okay, but it has changed that made me more reflective of who i am. i think i, i think about of how i present things, how i explain things, how i act. and in order to be a, to be a good example for them. things like living in the moment. this is actually kind of oppressive with kids because you know that the past. oh good, good times. we pass some bad times with us. so you have to remember that everything goes in in cycles basically. so i think you're more appreciative of, of the good times. the,

you know, kind of comes home from work in the big band. she takes over the children don't think like the gender or mother father perspective changed how we divided the for us possibilities and so on. it's more perhaps like who, who is in what stage of their career, who has to prioritize work right now and different that deal with that role in different ways. now research is up started for the 1st time. what happens to dance brains during this process? kind of age, israel for years. your own biologist, professor ruth found this been researching the behavior of fathers and mothers in relation to that children cheaper that he says don't more is going on with dads the

most of us think the fatherhood depends on how much you invest in care giving, you know, pick up your sleeve and takes care of the baby, but father, who the biology follows the behavior. so the more you do, the more plus the sit that you won't get in your brain, the more your brain will reorganize around. that attachment bond to prove these boots 1000 and conducted several studies. in one experiments, she measured the levels of the bone, the whole 9 oxy testing in fathers and mothers, 6 months after that, but the child and we saw that oxy towson in mothers and fathers were similar. and this was very surprising because research has always believed that mothers are biologically prepared to care for infants that really shows that it's not exactly so maybe the past way to maternal care. and the pathway to turn on

care are somewhat different, but the fathers have it within them biologically to care. for instance, a small groups phelman went a step further and looked at the brains of heterosexual and homosexual fathers and compare them to the brains of mothers. she went, what we saw in the brain is that the entire attachment network activated to infant stimuli in old parents, whether it's men or women, primary caregiver, secondary caregiver, biological parents, and adoptive parents. we had 2 surprises. one is that the a make the activates and mothers, 5 times more then and fathers. so mothers are those who are highly vigilant to infants, safety, make their lives a very n shouldn't structure. it's deepened the brain,

it's an automatically functioning system that tells us what changes can happen in the environment that could be potentially. but there is something interesting happening in father springs. route feldman found that the brain region called salt because temporarily superior sds specials is much more active in fathers and mothers. this is the area that enables parents to understand the non verbal signals of diabetes. we felt that there are 2 pathways to parenting one that is more evolutionary incident. you see it's an old mammals, and that makes mothers very, very vigilant infant safety and one that is more of a lucian early re sent and his court to call. and it comes by getting to know your infant and learning his or her sickness. and that's a big surprise with the results of the brain scans of homosexual fathers. gay

fathers, who are both primary caregivers have the same s, the s, the terms of father. they also have a very high activation of the i think the last a since the a make the lives activated by the hormones of pregnancy and childbirth with these fall this gets such a high a, make the luck division. when the father alone takes care of the baby, the more he's, the turn of pathway will re quote the maternal pathway and his a make the law will increase in activation. so actually what we see here is that the patrol of pathway depends on active care giving. we're as mothers get it for free. so fathers should spend as much time as possible with children like my ts e can do. so thanks to the swedish welfare system, i don't get

a 100 percent. there's different levels of setups and sweden. so there's a minimum level that you get from from the states, depending on what you earn. and then a lot of companies have additional financial support for people on, on my turn to potentially and so i get that additional, a fast support the visits to an open day care group. it's free of charge and hugely popular with 5 is on parental leave. the

around 80 percent of fathers in sweden tank parental leave. with my part kid, i was in front of it for 6 months with my 2nd several mom and i was this is the 3rd time and so i will take a longer one. so i've been looking into taking my wife to another country for work, but then we got pregnant and then after that i didn't want to move because we missed the best country in the world to be have kids university of cambridge, the professor pay or i'm john donnie analyze is how far this play with a young children. he has conducted several studies on this in their studies,

we were able to go to parent times when i had babies at 3 months old and then follow them up at one and it 2 years old. and there were a few different findings from that, but i guess one of the key ones was that my father's had a gay where he was being more engaged in play. so the higher level of engagement in play with a very young children, 3 months old. those children when they got to one and see the tons of space or outcomes in terms of that cognitive development and that behavioral development. so it's something again, in those early interaction seems quite important. that sounds like a good he also analyzes where the fathers play differently from others. so. so far it's just like a fight and we'll try to reach the sucks. the okay. okay, i'm just, i'm just taking a moment if i want to. okay, there's a lot of overlap between mums and dads, there's no light pads or even here mums over here, there's a huge amount of all that. but, but on average that student will physical play and that kind of rough and tumble

play that soft wrestling game and other games like that. which yeah, you know, i'm one of the things that you see and you see it in the rough and tumble play. i think really quite nicely is that children have to learn quite a lot about regulating their emotions and regulating themselves when they're doing reference symbols. so they learn, oh, if i hit too hard, that can hurt my parents and they get feedback on that in a safe, usually in a safe environment. by the big it, he's putting on weight every day. alexander could say it slowly, but surely getting into the routine of things he's back at work, but tries to help wherever you can use it to get some. yesterday i was lucky enough to spend half a day with the my office phone. i mean, it was at the gynecologist, i've been sick, so i took the train home with him alone for the 1st time to find that that was really cool. and just walking around with the front door that was fun such as

possible. associated 5 is your what the nights a short very short, the fencing a funny thing is i see 5 fingers. the defeats the highest on the sleep off an hour then you wake up again from the state fall from now then wake up again. that's a super anyone who says, that's great, that's no problem. i don't believe that. i think it's normal that it jungles you'll knives, themes pull yourself together and if you manage it as a team, i much and i think not see myself in the scope of support. my alexander will soon be working full time as a professor. implants to take 3 months of parental lead during half to find somebody new no longer enjoy the summer as a family of full. so that will stay at home for the 1st 6 months and then go to

a nursery. there's a control that's best and there's info. i'm happy to be a father for the 2nd time. i was an only child and i didn't enjoy being alone. so i didn't want to have just one child. i mean, now we have to and i'm very happy mostly fish. and i don't know if they'll be a 3rd one or twice a year. mm hm. 35 degrees each waving suite a spends the summit with his family in the summer house outside stuff . he's already completed 7 months, a parental last 3 months. so the headphone i'm heading back in early october and it snow. let you and i think that would be that would be great. think i have a couple of more months in me, but then i think to the intellectuals challenge of,

of working and not just taking care of the logistics in 3 months. but the children will go to take a to you send these mindful work full time of. busy busy hello, this is changed in recent decades. older mothers still do most of the child care. fathers becoming more involved. fathers, adults, this my sons, and they're actually very valuable. so i think 1st of all, we have to get that message out and start changing that culture about importance and relevance. secondly, obviously always comes back to governments. it goes back to governments taking that on board and understanding the importance of fathers and actually putting in place legislation that is fit for purpose that she allows people to take up that

parenting role. scientific studies show men change basically psychologically when they become fathers and they have a decisive influence on the developments of that children. it is looking at a nice pass out it's going on. now if you take the role of a father seriously and with commitment into an investment, then your brain will change and your homeowners will change in your behavior will change. but if you don't, and you've spent 20 hours in the office, it's not like mothers that their body changes because of pregnancy and childbirth. it won't have to parenthood will pass you by more alone that wants to be actively involved. it's 5 this because in the end it's not suddenly the kids who beneficial, but also that, that the,

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