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lights on all tight jobs power each or power points a normal dad's tooth to swap the off they split the necessary and spend time with that children. but what happens demand jr in pregnancy and the 1st year so that baby's life in this field, we discover what science nice about that. we know that mile hormones drove off during child support. brain changes ask, do you become a father? was wonderful about the fault child relationship. is it dads are different? so to parents, we spend time with the young and experience. how being a father changes them is even going to have of wilmington know that i'm going to be a father in a few times. i can't wait to see what it's like to look after 2 children at the same time. i'm getting so starting to see when she likes to call and when she

learned to quench assessor 1st words. i mean, that's awesome. the, the, the gen, the alexander codes and his wife. i live in the mix of districts soon. that will be 3 of the they're expecting that 1st child in 6 weeks. it's been off to date. i'm excited to touch. it's thrilling that we don't know what will happen, know how everything is going to develop e and b. so there's a lot of anticipation, look and of course, some trepidations. and it's a mixture of feeling and it's august. i'm just,

i'm causing the problem has the wrong everything revolves around the bus. and what is going to happen? the me gets quarter inch, i just offer. i'm fine when i fall asleep, the risk to get done, but of course i to worry about things something to 40. maybe i'll be university giving electra if you do it. and then i have to somehow get through bone and traffic and to get to the 10. and how will, how may i get that the audio will someone be there to help? i get to the hospital, i can always come. so these are the things that i'm thinking about. give me time and we're just not thinking, i would say i'm good. the most important thing is for the baby to ton because he's still in breach position, but with his legs down as an invite in the holding onto a c tons. then i'd be super happy time to be a natural, but that's what i'm hoping for this. and sean for the main thing is that he's

healthy. come to this one to bed. as to what's about the man who takes care of his well being. and what happens to him during pregnancy? bookings here in england. dr. animation lives with a family and dogs just outside oxford. the evolutionary anthropologist has been researching fatherhood for years. i talked to the university, she conducted a large study and wrote a book about that. the trigger was the dramatic beth of the store. so my husband witnessed what was basically a call crash happening in front of him when we were given by that he thought he was going to lose both of us and we both can quite place to death. and off the woods,

i was offered lots of counseling today with my tool, but from this the i'm actually i didn't really need it because i was unconscious. so i hadn't seen anything. he had witnessed everything i. they offered him nothing . so when i went back to what i thought, i want to find out who a human father is, and i want to talk about the positive story of human fatherhood. as an evolution anthropologist, i understand how read human solve is it is we don't need the, i has it. i didn't want to fox, and i really genuinely do believe fatherhood begins and pregnancy. i think we have this idea that follow this, right. and they all physically just as obviously from the presence of having a baby, they don't having that that immense physical closeness of them of this happening. but we know the fathers do, in fact start to bones with that baby before the baby is born. professor chi, booting a gynecologist on hamburg also things. the fatherhood begins during pregnancy.

the best buy that i can have sold the fact that something is growing inside your cotton and that belongs to both of you is really peculiar and that you can do an ultrasound and make it visible is perhaps is even more difficult for minutes because now they can see that there really is something this of us. we may go through major whole. no, no changes during pregnancy, surprisingly meant to love it and it was on the black team does. it does meet particularly interesting is prolactin with the whole mind. that's responsible for like patient and started. it sounds a bit funny to say that this whole mind increases a minute, but it does a mock prolactin down regulates the mechanism that controls male hormones. and i suspect that this is also the reason why testosterone levels drop in men during pregnancy, and especially off the bus would on this enables men to concentrate on their families as well. if you're familiar, concepcion,

the may have phones on the south of paris and frogs. it's the beginning of april, the new, know dominguez and his found, the mog or what do you bad? i've just moved here. so they're expecting the 2nd baby in 2 months because i'm not nervous, but i'm looking forward to seeing what it's like to look after 2 children. at the same time. all the adults at home is taking a map and time to organize the client. sort of a new baby, a new nose knows whether it will be a boy or a go. what is it? i don't want to know. i'll find out a thread on a new false that'll pull the main concern is that it's healthy,

but i can't wait 9 months without knowing it sex. it's too long. it's impossible for them to keep up with me. let me know. thanks. he heard out a cry. it's time to wake up the one and a half year old anyway. otherwise, she won't fall asleep at night. a it's a weekend. the only chance been, you know, just spend time with this family. during the week he works long hours and tries to juggle work and family life

surcharge is much small. it's changed my life model, i have less time for myself. and that's pleasure because it takes up a lot of our time to look into that so that we're lucky because we find how easy to deal with it. and it, because she's quite pleasant to live with. never been asked. it's quite tiring, different people, as long as the value for the, for the machine to produce the city, city of china in june to try and have time to look off to my child. because i work from monday to friday and i like everyone else. uh, you know,

the weekend is not enough, which i would love to spend time from monday to sunday with my child the most of the mobile home. mambo 2nd pregnancy is going smoothly. but still it won't be too much without a husband. i wouldn't be able to do it without him, so i'm really glad that i have central since it gives me a breakdown that was they don't fit community law phones but so the weekend was fine to show us the light and then that my m documents is a professor of family studies at lightning university to focus fathers. in research on parenting, it's too often that we say that we do

a study on parents where it's actually the study of mothering and on the farthest throw. so that's why i think it's good to bring some balance in the fields and to pay more attention to the fathers, especially in the transition to other to marry him back and then start is the 1st 1000 days of tabs. for example, she conducts ultrasound video feedback sessions between week 21 and 30 of the pregnancy. so you ask sponsors to interact with the unborn babies. for example, by reading the book that the $100.00 fathers to posit the study, a little additional, less whom i'm vision, both vision, both my staff, if it was okay if i use for the interim, or if it's a show more and you have to show feel we use the saw that the opportunity to

interact with the infant that's never been done before. and doing so, we provide the father, we feel paternity to take the perspective of the fee to some of the newborn that this is a human being with a mind or if its own, who needs to follow this tension and protection. we know that fathers liked to be more involved. fathers who are more involved during pregnancy are also more involved after the birth of the baby after the session. each father gets a video showing how the baby reacts it. the baby recognizes the forces of its mother and if it's father, as you can see that from the the heart beat increase when, when she or he, he is the father of the mother, talked to them at a also touch the, the role of the uterus longer when they're started from the outside and that's really what you saw here too. when the father did some massage of the abdomen of

the mother. we saw under the baby, raised her hand and sort of made contact with what was happening outside the backend. the preparing for the baby puts extra stress on alexander cats. because his job, he's quite demanding a series of it doesn't mean that to me, that was that. and it's been introduced to listen to all the time an aerospace engineer and that job has to pups to it. one cultures that i'm the chief engineer of my own company, which i found it together, was a friends 2 and a half years ago and had the other fault and southern working as a university like truck is under who, who to be rarely leaves the office before 7 pm. is this match like a splendid? it's more than a job to to it's my 1st baby i invest a lot of time. i have

a certain responsibility towards my employees, but it's, what's my company? 6, i'm really passionate about my job. but today alexandra finishes study because his wife is due for a checkup at the university clinic. kind of now there's no single minute has nothing wrapped around the neck that's important to us to cope. there's the head to the bottom is currently still down at 33 weeks. we can try to turn it from the outside, but we'll talk about that in 3 and a half weeks. sometimes they turn on their own so if it's, if the deal is sort of, if turning into externally doesn't, well then there are 2 options. you can decide to have a vaginal breach. but i think about admittedly many women choose as a zachary and section then because it's deemed safe for the child and it's

not for fun. the other hand, we all hesitant about just as that reinspection is specially if it is not absolutely necessary. because as has every inspection can be a burden for subsequent pregnancy is on a lot of the lessons icon. as for me, it was only the 2nd time that i was present to the ultrasound examination at the time. it was really grinding customer. on the other hand, when i'm gonna have to worry that the child is still in breach position, you could see that on the video, his grades of the notes in v, as in germany, the average age of 1st time dancer bus is 33 years alexander casa is 36 years old. this feed them youth, that's always on my mind. will i be too old at some point as my wants to play football with my child to be inactive a fall? that was my hope that i stay healthy and can provide my child with as many opportunities as possible. especially as the

found is age, really impulsive. for the child lindsay, it's nothing you need additional designs easy can for this if you look at the genetic risk for the on bone or the new bone, it is indeed the case that old of fathers are responsible for some congenital malformation. so a syndrome little moment to find what they send a sent me so there aren't that many, but this has been proven for us. so it's an skeletal display. so yeah, that just because the busted size with, for example, a come drove lazy. i'm just going to open this, is it, in this case the fathers age is important and we put on the home. it's a fact that the mother's age plays a much greater wrong. i to them what kind of thoughts is because of others viewed the tab sweet to set the that's still kind of popular with young families. the

spot is 35 years old. he and his wife jo. honda have 2 children. it has very positive memory. so the bad thing 20192021 there. so really amazing. because when like 5 minutes before the citizens in the room are on its way out and then suddenly it's in your hands and you've been waiting for it for 9 months. it's amazing. but also crazy, you have this little person that knows how to be the 1st thing it does. the 1st one was activity started. so that took a long time. i think we were at the hospital for 36 hours or so. and i was present during, during birth, giving as much support this i could, which is not a lot as

a matter of. and the 2nd child was a little faster hamburg germany, professor kind of booting wants to know what happens to mind during job as part of the study. the last 5 is what the thing with negatively affected by it. stop by comment almost as shown. if you did, he turned out that many man had prepared themselves well for the event. i would say that around 80 to 90 percent failed positive about that. and then there was a smaller proportion about 10 percent who were worried about problems off the bus and would also be pulled him. it's a home in europe, around 85 percent of dads that present during this however, isn't always possible. for example, during an emergency suzanne infection that, that these chief, nothing can go wrong. i think it's too stressful for a family member always. so that's why we take the fathers out to these emergency

situations. these notes have to talk to on the face of the us. he's a c and a half hours by the 20th of april 7th, and new codes. his voice is broke. the baby's did in breach position and could not be turned on yet. and alexander wanted to have a plan since every session next week. but now things have changed out. exam dakota is allowed to be present at beth this is, this is the loss of cost. is this huge emotional feeling that comes out of you because now you know, okay, you're going to be a father in a few minutes to it. and that's something completely different. it's a situation that you've stimulated or mentioned before, even that have been confronted with the real thing on the

uh, the delivery went wow. but now something seems to be wrong.

the, the pediatricians get the all clear. the baby is fine. allies and just that 1st screen that moment that 1st scream. wow, that's crazy. the

sure beautiful is governance and truck moment. i think if i'm, you know, there was just a moment of sure when the midwife taken away when i noticed that he didn't breathe for a moment. i wasn't feeling so great. then with that point i just wanted to come on you down from when i came back and from then on, everything was great and now the screenings and then it will be on the fluid is coming out. everything is great. positive. it's crazy. it was pure emotion. was it was crazy. crazy that you'll now in this well 3, it's up to the system. i'm fine. i'm a bit confused on it. i'm starting to feel the pain. most of them that i'm super happy. you come to describe this feelings of 6 pounds and 20 inches, a delicate but healthy boy. ignite's constancy is full of may. but his parents just called him a unique moment psychologically physically,

a new or logically a woman's, but also when nancy change is during the month, is this what the woods would us difficulties window to look too good with an unrestricted? as this test, it went to one of your own labor men's cortisol levels naturally increase toward the book, which is a stressful situation. understandably, to studies show that mile testosterone levels decrease off the bus, which leads to low it testosterone in the blood by the door to test the may not be and you got to cease is probably and reducing stress. mutating the ability to build a nest and achieve calmness and we've got the other teams or the dropping test, those to into the cuts in new fall. this folding beth is significant. it can be up to a set of that test. so strange like 33 percent of the test will strike will drop. generally, the level of the test will start and never return to pre both level. so pre fob hood levels as long as the father remains in contact in some way with that child.

back to france, their phone phone for the 2 and a half weeks ago. no. dominguez monica or the bad became parents for the 2nd time ago. celeste nope. i see it's down to the bath. went well and but it was a bit stressful. very different to the 1st time we left late, but the maternity ward we arrived just in time and the bus lost it just popping out small. i do think 30 minutes and then it was all over a flood last was born and introduce any sort of a and totally different feeling that the 1st time it took a day to now it went really fast. it was completely different to evaluate the corporate model. so it's 2 fiscal thoughtful. i'm super happy. so yes,

really totally different than the 1st time actually profit to see, i feel better and i feel less tired issue and i'm so happy to finally have my 2nd baby, the button. also 5. this have emotional high mind. you can also suffer from post natal depression. overall, the jo pin test will strike following both is a good thing because it's really important for priming dad to jump into a still story also increases the advocacy of documented ox tyson on the brain, which means increases those of the building chemicals. the downside is holly test still straight is preventative against depression. so if we say a dropping test, so striking, unfortunately it does increase the likelihood the child that of mine will experience depression. there are other factors that come in to share that. so just thought to put loan generally doesn't close depression. cambridge english child psychiatrist,

professor pull rum chung donnie works at the university of cambridge one of his main areas of research is the mental health of parents. especially fathers, in studies across the world pretty much is fairly, can fairly consistent the, somewhere between $1.20. you may be even up to one in 10 dots are affected by high levels of depression. so at this time, there was a range of causes for why people get depressed at any time. and then the 1st thing he disagree about, that's a new baby. so you've got a disruption to family likes. you go to sleep stuff and switch the big challenge. and you don't take your new dads trying to chuckle now, how do i do my job with how do i to contribute to the king of this baby? so it's a huge the i for looks error, i think. but most fathers do not get depressed. on the contrary,

many enjoyed being at that the in sweden, spies on parental these bodies wife lex piece of time with his daughter straight. who is 9 months old? the 3 year old overall is a daycare. at the moment, i love it. i mean, i've been home for 3 months now and it's it, it's, it really is. but it's also new starting to get the routine of the day. so you're doing. this is the same thing in you see what works and what doesn't work. martinez wants to take 10 months parental leave.

astrid will stop going to the daycare center when she is one and a half years old. so this is what makes it all worth it. i mean for me now i'm, i'm getting so starting to see when she learns to call when she learned to walk, when she says her 1st words. i mean that's, that's awesome. and i don't think when you come later, just better than someone else. what would you do differently? it's not i would have spent more days office. that's not what you're saying. so yeah, definitely with the the 3 pm, but see us picks up a lot from daycare, looking off that his kids is a full time job. it is a different life, but i also mean i used to play

a lot of gulf. i don't anymore. which is natural limits. okay. but it has changed that made me more reflective of who i am. i think i, i think about of how i present things, how i explain things, how i act. and in order to be a, to be a good example for them. things like living in the moment. this is actually kind of oppressive with kids because you know, if the pass, oh good, good times we pass and bad times with us. so you have to remember that everything goes in in cycles basically. so i think you're more appreciative of, of the good type the,

you know, kind of comes home from work in the evening. then she takes over the children. don't think like the gender or mother father. perspective changed how we divided the press possibilities of so on. it's more perhaps like who, who is in what stage of their career, who has to prioritize work right now. it's different that deal with that role in different ways. now research is have studied for the 1st time what happens to dance brains during this process? kind of age, israel for years. you wrote biologist, professor ruth found this been researching the behavior of fathers and mothers, same relation to that children cheaper that he felt more is going on with that. it's the most of us think the fatherhood depends on how much you invest in care

giving, you know, pick up your sleeve and takes care of the baby. but the fatherhood, the biology follows the behavior. so the more you do, the more plus the sit that you want to get in your brain, the more your brain will reorganize around that attachment. but to prove these boots feldman conducted several studies in one experiments, she measured the levels of the bone, the whole 9 oxy types in find this another 6 months out of the back. but the child and we saw that oxy towson in mothers and fathers were similar. and this was very surprising because research has always believed that mothers are biologically prepared to care for infants that really shows that it's not exactly so maybe

the past way too much on all care. and the pathway to turn on care are somewhat different, but the fathers have it within them biologically to care. for instance, a small groups phelman went a step further and looked at the brains of heterosexual and homosexual fathers and compare them to the brains of mothers. she went, what we saw in the brain is that the entire attachment network activated to infant stimuli in old parents, whether it's men or women, primary caregiver, secondary caregiver, biological parents, and adoptive parents. we had 2 surprises. one is that the a make the activates and mothers, 5 times more then and fathers. so mothers are those who are highly vigilant to infant safety. make their lives a very n shouldn't structure. it's deepened the brain,

it's an automatically functioning system that tells us what changes can happen in the environment that could be potentially. but there is something interesting happening in father's brains roof feldman found that the brain region called salt because temporarily superior estie specials is much more active in fathers and mothers. this is the area that enables parents to understand the non verbal signals of diabetes. we felt that there are 2 pathways to parenting one that is more evolutionary incident. you see it's an old mammals, and that makes mothers very, very vigilant infant safety and one that is more of a lucian early recent and as quote to cold. and it comes by getting to know your infant and learning his or her sickness. and that's a big surprise with the results of the brain scans of homosexual fathers. gay

fathers, who are both primary caregivers have the same s d s the terms of father. they also have a very high activation of the i'm going to last a since the a, make the lives activated by the hormones of pregnancy and childbirth. we did these fall. this gets such a high, a mac deluxe eviction. when the father alone takes care of the baby, the more he's, the turn of pathway will re quote the maternal pathway and his a make the law will increase in activation. so actually what we see here is that the patrol of pathway depends on active care giving. we're as mothers get it for free. so fathers should spend as much time as possible with children live my to yes, you can do so thanks to the swedish welfare system. i don't get

a 100 percent. there's different levels of setups and sweden. so there's a minimum level that you get from, from the states, depending on what you earned. and lot of companies have additional financial support for people on, on maternity or potentially as well. i get that additionally or financial support the visits to an open day care group. it's free of charge and hugely popular with fire is on parental leave the

around 80 percent of fathers in sweden tank parental leave. but my part kid, i was in front of it for 6 months with my 2nd several homes. and now i say this is the 3rd time and so i will take a longer one. so i'd be looking into taking my wife to another country for work, but then we got pregnant and then after that i didn't want to move them because we missed the best country in the world to be have kids, university of cambridge, the professor pay or i'm sure, i'm daunting. analyze yourself. i'll just play with a young children. he has conducted several studies on this and their studies,

we were able to go to parent times when they had babies at 3 months old and then follow them up at one and it 2 years old. and they were few different findings from that. but i guess one of the key ones was that my father's having gay, where he was being more engaged in play. so the higher level of engagement in play with a very young children, 3 months old, those children, when they got to one and see the tons of space or outcomes in terms of that context development and that behavioral development. so it's something again, in those early interaction seems quite important. that sounds like a good he also analyzes where the fathers play differently from others. so, so far it's just like a fight and we'll try to reach the sucks. the okay. yes, i'm just seeing if i want to. okay, there's a lot of overlap between them and that's, it's not like bands of over here i'm observing here, there's a huge amount of real life but, but on average, that's the more physical play. and that kind of rough and tumble play that soft

wrestling game and other games like that. which yeah, you know, one of the things that you see and you see the rough and tumble play i think really quite nicely is that children have to learn quite a lot about regulating their emotions and regulating themselves when they're doing reference symbols. so they learn, oh, if i hit too hot that can hurt my parents and they get feedback on that in a safe, usually in a safe environment. but i think he's putting on weight every day. alexander could say it slowly, but surely getting into the routine of things. he's back good luck but tries to help wherever you can should a guess on yesterday i was lucky enough to spend half a day with the my office phone. i mean was of the gynecologist i'm inches so i took the train home with him alone for the 1st time. the phone doesn't was really cool and just walking around with the front door that was fun such as possible

associated fi your the night. so short. very short, a fence thing up, i think as i see 5 fingers the defeats the highest on the sleep off an hour. then you wake up again from the state for all finale. then wake up again. that's a super anyone who says, that's great. that's no problem. i don't believe that. i think it's normal that it jungles. you'll not beams pull yourself together or if you manage it as a team that much. and i think that c minus so the support mon alexander will soon be working full time as a professor. implants to take 3 months of parental lead during half to find somebody new no longer enjoy the summer as a family of full. so that will stay at home for the 1st 6 months and then go to

a nursery. there's a control that's best and there's info. i'm happy to be a father for the 2nd time. i was an only child and i didn't enjoy being alone. so i didn't want to have just one child is now we have to and i'm very happy, most efficient. and i don't know if they'll be a 3rd one over the course, the m 35 degrees. each waving suite a spends the summit with his family in the summer house outside stuff . he's already completed 7 months, a parental last 3 months. so the headphone i'm heading back in early october and it's now let's do that. i think that would be that would be great. i think a couple of more months in may, but then i think,

you know, the intellectuals challenge of, of working and not just taking care of the logistics in 3 months. but the children will go to take. i'm a ts and these wife will work full time of. busy busy hello, this is changed in recent decades. older mothers still do most of the child care. fathers becoming more involved fathers and not this my son to they're actually very, very involved. so i think 1st of all, we have to get that message out and start changing that culture about importance and relevance. secondly, obviously always comes back to governments. it goes back to governments taking that on board and understanding the importance of fathers and actually putting in place legislation that is fit for purpose that she allows people to take up that

parenting role. scientific studies show men change basically psychologically when they become fontas and they have a decisive influence on the developments of bad children. is looking at a nice pass out going on. now if you take the role of a father seriously and with commitment into an investment, then your brain will change and your homeowners will change and your behavior will change. but if you don't, and you've spent 20 hours in the office, it's not like mothers that their body changes because of pregnancy and childbirth. it won't happen, parenthood will pass you by more alone that wants to be actively involved. 5 is because in the end, it's not suddenly the kids who beneficial. that's both that,

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