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our products, my dad expected me to marry someone and live happily ever after i lived there was i wanted to get married because i was hoping to find love, security. a spring in my step, enjoy and life. they were expecting me to find a male partner. you went but it turned out to be different from one, based on the color tiger a wish and the reality are 2 very different things. all have glass, computer surface, and reality can sometimes be more painful than your worst nightmares.
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who did everything we could to avoid divorce, but nothing looked best. male. it seems like i never really knew my eldest daughter . you do need a man in the family. it's actually quite important. appreciate it. absolutely. i think there's really want to grandchild to get married and start the family. something most parents want for their kids. but when it comes to families, things can get explosive. younger people think that it's impossible to connect with . i loved something older people often question to the you to really know what they're doing with their lives. the young and old are realities in dreams can be so different. seriously, it seems like there's
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a huge gap between the generations. sometimes we just don't guess each other. the question is can we fix it? the isn't that beautiful and go with the normal our marriage lasted $33.00 and a half years was cannot seem god we had known each other before and work together finish the law at the most i just falsely assumed that love was so important and people should get their feelings under control and is, but that was wrong. even
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a fee control choice, the heart in the mind has to work together towards the same goal. they shouldn't fight each other. having a lot of balance to life is more beautiful. wondering what advantage corey's the hello, how she and i have different views on the subject of divorce. gosh, you've been, you've been uh, i could send. that's how she was feeling. even though was so different, beneficial and best and that i should be, i really felt the pain that my daughter was constantly going through. and i saw it with my own eyes. you see it really wide mouth. oh,
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this is a huge problem. it wasn't like not enough time. we never discussed of almost as much as we do now. it was 71 that was really no other options. how kind of divorced is so easy? i thought everything was different before everything including finances. we just want a different thing. they opened, we know the only ones dealing with this. i want it and i'm sure we have one of the highest divorce rates in the world. life just didn't used to be so complicated. then parents didn't put so much pressure on their children, on bribes and groups. we didn't worry about how to finance everything. we were only concerned with making each other happy. oh yes, that is very important. social media has ruined everything. yeah, but there were problems before that too. yes, but it's a big part of the problem as well. of
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the, in fact, egypt divorce rate has trickled over the past 15 years. and despite unto divorce courses now offered to all over the country, more than 60 percent of the countries, young couples are separating the visa goals from hi told them i had a girlfriend and we weren't getting married to mouse. it went on, i wanted to quote you power to rise and also that we were planning to use
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artificial insemination. that was the last for them to digest to mount the one on i think on your husband as well. that's what i called, i was standing in the kitchen when she told me that time or so. and it looks like she wanted to cry. that's kind of patient that made me want to cry to the same way. well, much ongoing since the guy, since we know we want to have children and i have trouble of producing healthy eggs . we thought it would be better to freeze them. these are kind of way up without the shouldn't. then we would have more options later in, without attaching over. she was my dream is to have to, can i say genders don't matter. is a male by she maybe 2 dogs say yeah, you know, and you live near the ground, turn that i go on like that 40 the
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was an amazing. she's always, i was already a mother of 2 at their age and, and she has house, she what they are only just now thinking about having children without seeing us. and you could say, i thought that then i was already quite mature real time. she has how me, yo, yo is only getting started with everything now. so that's why i think young people today are still kind of immature. since those you sound like kids. in taiwan, many young women are choosing to delay pregnancy and motherhood. about freezing access, typically just a precautionary measures and is rarely meant for artificial insemination. more over taiwan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. the
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i'm the sam can be the very big dreams chaplain, and i don't know whether or not i'll be able to achieve them, but, but they are growing inside of me every day in the beginning. but one of my dreams was to become a makeup artist together. but getting there has been difficult to get ahead of him and i'm hoping that are starting to make up. i had doubts or up to the as a makeup artist, how do we do this? i'll book it for home. i know what i'm going to make of the mean, but i can do it on how to forgive it. don't that? i'm just following the front of our that that less confusing. good. think of my parents had so many questions. it's obvious though, were scared and they didn't understand what was happening. my been hired, they felt sad and worried. my beam and didn't know what they could do to help in developing to stay and help. i really felt the pressure that the kind of most people very sick because only one had a heart attack and was hospitalized of how many. and when can you that was the 1st
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time in my life that i understood how much something like this can affect the father for the coming i will ask, i'm going to be almost died. 7 is really can smell for me was doing so poorly. my solution because i was doing so poorly instead of going home can you will. gosh, i have really shocked me. well gosh, i don't understand the how does that sound good that we support your dental showing? she came back to live with us. i have been in a well the item uh the my d as well. my daughter and my friend doesn't want to so but she is my best friend and the only one i trust the complete time. and i know from my other children very much to of course protest rhonda, i share a special song just because she is my 1st born and i would have my fitness round the
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people from the nutrition football some because they don't use the same sex marriages as a real family play. that's what with a high se. and of course my parents worry about that somehow as because they wonder whether our kids will be fully discriminated against. and later on because of the township. but to all gods, my name is yo yo assisting. we will be going to the us next year to start the process of artificial insemination. since please make sure everything goes well for him to be. i hope to return with a healthy baby. bye bye. you can i have a watermelon. just the $14.00 for you go. we all know i don't need to back the
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cheese that was on that meal. is also have no idea that she didn't like, man, was she 19 saying that when she came out to us i was so shocked last so. well that's and i couldn't accept it. this is the z as in the middle, bosh alpha i always as also simone. in fact, her father, even blame me by suggesting that she had developed such ideas of intentions because of how i had raised her the way to testify. i also started to reflect on myself and tried to figure out if i had done anything wrong or failed her as a father made the
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house itself was in a meeting and then from my generation were not ever allowed to cry. and then is it switching is? i don't have it, i'm just fortunately i was alone in the car, so i let it all out. would you send me the thumbs up? i to encourage them with a supervisor, so that one be that it had a good cry then wiped my face drive. i've seen it in pulled myself back together. i hope so i went back to where i could see the scene, she knology. she took off until 240 and once, as he thought, as her mother, if i couldn't accept or support this and you know, it wouldn't make a difference. technical, she's grown up now to hold the asian clerk. but if i agree and support her as well for in the future is how that could make our relationship much stronger window by seeing the homes that she me. hi. hi. where are you? are you last night and thing i to, i guess which as
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a sale i just wanted to update you on the procedure to see what we got. so my body feels a bit swelled, and this time it felt like that last night in for the, the home office. i don't know if that's okay. that's fine. what do you think? oh, hi. is it cold in town? hi. everyone's still the sleep. no one's at work you had a low and it's very hot and type a around 27 or 28 degrees celsius. wow. that's great. now it's cold and dry here. that's why my voice sounds like this is just like a cat. 555. i was let you know when it's all over by the i think all have been has been chiral mean security for me. i mean there's a place where i was born on i'm in business. been the traffic because that's the community, the warm no one has family and my friends. and i have all been with me,
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my whole life hired. they could not. i'm glad to show a lot of them. but i've always lived in the heart of the cairo, and i've never even loved egypt to have fun. but i don't know. so there is no place i know as wants here. i'll head on the box. they keep telling me they want me to be the next one. who gets married? what help? i never hear that again. all the way. are you married? look, he's a man and he's also scared on behalf of that. and then, and we'll double limit it to that if i'm not afraid, i just like marriage takes a lot of work. this is the slow handling, my dear, we are not in america because i know this society here puts pressure on us to get married. dear mamma will try to set you up to i'm going to let them know there's no way some of me. well, no. i know. i thought that my mom was more modern and she didn't talk about it so
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much and acted as if it wasn't an issue that i haven't gotten married again yet. then i might have already said, then i found out she hired a whole secret team to set me up with my mom, everybody in my family, all my friends who got married said really don't get married. oh, i don't know the minute the her father and i suffered a note. i am looking at it to where life was not easy for us to have got the coolest we face difficulties and when we overcame them, the best it putting all this generation is imitation of my head that in the hallways, documents it worries me why i'm afraid for them, the society will charge them to what the future will bring without the
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interpretation and culture may change this. we've built a strong foundation for them that we've taught them and taken care of them. now they can decide what is good and what is bad. so yeah, so that's exactly what rea shows me and they'll be able to make good decisions, whether we're there or not. ready the negative at home to make and development. i felt connected to other things in place as of what's next, the names of the beer,
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part of nice to have have you been he didn't just wanted don't my things anyway. i've been to yeah, these are my things, things that my daughter is played with. i like the feeling that i dealt with so many one i'm shy then i can only encourage other women to take marriage seriously. press the button because in the end you aren't just making decisions for yourself. you're also making them for your children. and that's not easy people. it really isn't. of the,
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let's see, i'm not sure she actually wants a child is, but she's a plan and everything. well, in any case on how much i have been wanting a grandchild for a long time. sure, this is just nowadays parents always ask so cool act like they don't care because they don't want to pressure their kids. so i understand the sounds so deep down. i think they really want to look out on the ground boots on the 4 cases. so i will have to explain artificial insemination to them in detail how they accepted everything. so how for how, how much of balances are hoping that the 1st try will be successful? the, by the chances are good truth, a single i've already harvested $26.00 acres of new thing where we want to have 2
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children in the future. runs one it from me and one from my partner. sorry. it might not succeed. the 1st time know that i'm sure eventually it will all work out with all the medical possibilities we have today. we will definitely get there. could take that as long as we don't have a bill, phone sheet and guys. okay, so the see will mine. she said, this is jack. hey, yours is a non all the i'm excited to have a new family member. be all too old fashion and it's great to see how my other children for siblings have been supportive and optimistic about the marriage. what is it she had their plans to artificially inseminated? probably it'll problems with an localized hits is that even the grandmother to
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a mine and she is already in her seventies. say that she loves her grandchildren with ours by saying i want support service shipping. she said she's hanging down as a male home cooking this week. okay. time unfortunately, my mom was wise and offered her support without doing that. she said it was the right thing to do. comfortable downs to help us out. all the tasting. yeah. yeah. yeah. sounds. it's not the other thing, is you the video? oh no. please don't. i won't go near you like that. it's just in cream on my finger for a mask. but i don't want the
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all these old address this one. this one looks much nicer. that is their matching headscarf as well. yes. this one. and what do you where underneath the black top that's what do you think about this one? no. the other one is more suitable for weddings, but this one makes me look like some other if the bride once a month, well, but a lot of kind of like the mother to a guide. and i hope you are the next for i must go without the
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best man. i hope between my daughters, where she is come true. may of course have mercy on having died. oh, you're wonderful. i really hope that god will make her happy with a bit as i am just waiting for my daughter to get some good dreams. in my heart. i feel the good warehouse huh. made to happen. the only difficult thing, i mean, but then i have never lost hope of committing to a new relationship again while i could,
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i couldn't figure it out. i would even get married again a year, even though my 1st marriage failing to defend and, and that's what i'm, i know that everyone is different enough in the highest you get them. i always say that my life is like a book with a club. but there are some pages that are phone stuff and cut me, but what bothers that'll just rip out to you to help them. you have gone, but the story will continue. fine until my last day. let's look at them. but the memo there is hope written on every page. i didn't have the skinny on the highest in the present. shouldn't that diesel church itself was choosing to accept her and give her our best wishes was the right thing to do. i secured, that's all i truly believe it to. let's see what kind of talk to him on quite
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a shout and as her father, seeing her smile happily really touched the candle, cause i'm down on the fabric dining. everyone in the family is facing some kind of pressure on the has a she also think that even though things often don't turn out the way we hold the family ties, we can still be a, have a family is no matter who is part of it. the thing y'all just you that she, we charge the actually i decided on the speech on the last night. i was afraid i would forget something. so i wrote it down wrong. but i really want to look you in the eye as well sayings estimated. so if i forget something, please forgive you the most impatient person in the world remind me every day that i'm
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a good person that gave me back my confidence. so the thank you to whom it seems to me till after the speech. i'm sure i'll have to redo my makeup of i'm sure y'all can song of jimmy on the soap or if i am a lucky person. so i always have from gladys. i do. i have never said this before, but the luckiest thing that ever happened to me was being born into this family. and though you let me correct such a happy family, though, i have no words to express how much i love you. the
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