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of course, we said there was never giving up every weekend on dw, the, the products. my dad expected me to marry someone and live happily ever after i lived there was i wanted to get married because i was hoping to find love security. a spring in my step, enjoy and life. they were expecting me to find a male partner. you went but it turned out to be different from what they saw, the
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color tiger a wish and the reality are 2 very different things. all have glass can be used to have this house and reality can sometimes be more painful than your worst nightmares. the adverse thing we could to avoid the voice, but nothing was best made. it seemed like i never really knew my eldest daughter the you do need a man in the family. it's actually quite important. appreciate in. absolutely. i think there's really want to grandchild to get married and start the family. something most parents, what can. but when it comes to families,
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things can get explicit. younger people think that it's impossible to connect with . i loved something older people often question to the you to really know what they're doing with their lives. young and old are realities and dreams can be so different. seriously, it seems like there's a huge gap between the generations. sometimes we just don't guess each other. the question is, can we fix this the
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isn't that beautiful and go with the deluxe. meanwhile, our marriage lasted $33.00 and a half years was cannot seem god, we had known each other before and work together to finish the law. at the most, i just falsely assume that love wasn't so important and people should get their feelings under control based and is, but that was wrong. e, f, e, controlling toys, the heart and the mind has to work together towards the same goal. they shouldn't fight each other, have a lot and it's a balanced life is a more beautiful wonder when they have it's corey's the whole of home. she and i have different views on the subject of divorce cuz she be
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moving uh, i could send. that's how she was feeling, even though was so different than especially a best time to be. i really felt the pain that my daughter was constantly going through. and i saw it with my own eyes if he's it really wide mouth. oh, this is a huge problem. it wasn't like nothing at all times. we never discussed of almost as much as we do now. it was 71 that was really no other options. how kind of divorce is so easy? everything was different before everything including finances. we just want a different thing. they opened, we know the only ones dealing with this. i want it and i'm sure we have one of the highest divorce rates in the world like just didn't used to be so complicated then parents didn't put so much pressure on their children,
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on bribes and grooms. we didn't worry about how to finance everything. we were only concerned with making each other happy. yes, that is very important. social media has ruined everything. yeah. but there were problems before that too. yes. but it's a big part of the problem as well. of the, in fact, egypt divorce rate has trickled over the past 15 years. and despite anti divorced courses now offered to all over the country, more than 60 percent of the countries, young couples are separating the
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types of jobs. that basic also hi, told them i had a girlfriend and we weren't getting married to mouse. it went on, i wanted to let me quote you power to rise and also that we were planning to use artificial insemination. that was the last for them to digest them out to one off like on your husband as well. that's what if i called, i was standing in the kitchen when she told me, i found myself. and it looks like she wanted to cry. that's kind of patient that made me want to cry to the same way. well, much algo, because the guy, since we know we want to have children and i have trouble producing healthy eggs,
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we thought it would be better to freeze them. these are kind of way up without the shouldn't. then we would have more options later and without attaching over she was my dream is to have to care. i said, genders don't matter. you know, by she, maybe 2 dogs say, yeah, you know, and they live near their grandparent that i go on like that. 40 the, one of them is issues of was i was already a mother of 2 at their age and, and she has house to what they are only just now thinking about having children without seeing us that you good. so i thought that then i was already quite mature real time. she has how me, julia was only getting started with everything. now you go to your side. so that's why i think young people today are still kind of immature. though you sound like kids in taiwan, many young women are choosing to delay pregnancy and motherhood. but freezing access typically just a precautionary measures and is rarely meant for artificial insemination. more over
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taiwan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. the so i'm him can be the very big dreams chaplain, and i don't know whether or not i'll be able to achieve them, but they are growing inside of me every day. put your head in the beginning, but one of my dreams was to become a makeup artist together. but getting there has been a difficult kind of heading. and i'm hoping to understand how do we make up? i had doubts or up to the as a makeup artist. how do we do this? i'll book it for home. i know what i'm going to make up the mean, but i can do it on how to forgive it. don't, don't respond. my, we just kind of box that,
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that let's continue to good been kind of my parents had so many questions and help me so we're scared and they didn't understand what was happening. my been hired, they felt sad and worried about my being and didn't know what they could do to help in developing to stay and help. i really felt the pressure this was the kind of that's very sick because we weren't at a heart attack and was hospitalized of him. yeah. and then can you, it was the 1st time in my life that i understood how much something like this can affect the father for the becoming a awesome been somebody almost died. 7 is really can smell for me was doing so poorly. my social of me because i was doing so poorly instead of getting them home can you will. gosh, i really shocked me. well gosh, i'm just with the the haven't got the we supposed to dental a showing. she came back to live with us last and then they would like the idea as
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well. my daughter and my friend doesn't work as well, but she is my best friend and the only one i trust the complete time. i know of my other children very much to of course, but as rhonda i share a special phones because she is my 1st born out of my state as well. have you the she and i have a tissue p the wild divorce is no parts of everyday life in egypt. homosexuality is illegal. by
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contrast, taiwan was the 1st country in asia to legalize same sex marriage in 2019. even so, these couples are still far from being generally accepted in society. the people from their education football some because the don't the same sex marriages as a real family play. that's what with the high se. and of course, my parents worry about that somehow as because they wonder whether our kids will be fully discriminated against and later on because of the township to all gods. my name is yo yo assisting. we will be going to the us next year to start the process of artificial insemination. since please make sure everything goes well for him to be, i hope to return with a healthy baby. bye bye. you can,
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i have a lot of villages, the $14.00, something for you go we don't know, i don't need to back the cheese that was on that meal is also have no idea that she didn't like, man, wish you. i'm not, i'm saying that when she came out to us, i was so shocked last. so why it's and i couldn't accept it. this is the z as in the middle, bosh alpha. i always this also simone. in fact, her father even blamed me by suggesting that she had developed such ideas and
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intentions because of how i had raised her voice, had suffice. and i also started to reflect on myself and tried to figure out if i had done anything wrong or failed her as a father may go to the,
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to the, to a 14. and i, as her father failed to be a good role model for her. the, the house itself was in a meeting and then from my generation were not ever allowed to cry. and then there's a switching of doubt a. i don't remember them just fortunately i was alone in the car, so i let it all out. would you send me the thumbs up by to encourage them with a supervisor, so that one be didn't had a good cry, then wiped my face drive as i've seen it in pulled myself back together. i hope so . i went back to warehouse. see the scene. she now just you go until
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240 and what's his equal as her mother, if i couldn't accept or support this and you know, it wouldn't make a difference having a couple of cheese growing up now who cooled asian cliffs. but if i agree and support her as well for in the future is how that could make a relationship much stronger over the questioning the homes that she me. hi. hi, why are you worried last night? and thing i to, i guess so which as a sale i just wanted to update you on the procedure to see what we got. so my body feels a bit swollen this time it felt like that last night and friday, the home office. i don't know if that's okay, that's fine. what do you think? oh, hi. is it cold in town? hi. everyone's still the sleep. no one's at work. you had a low and it's very hot and type a around 27 or 28 degrees celsius. wow. that's great to know it's cold and dry here. that's why my voice sounds like this is just like a cat. 5555, let you know when it's all over by the
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call have been has been chiral mean security for me. i mean, this is the place where i was moving on, i mean, but it has been the traffic because that's the community, the warm norma family and my friends. and i have all been with me, my whole life hired take a lot and i'm glad to show a lot of them. but i've always lived in the heart of cairo and i've never even loved egypt to have fun, but cut off this bottle. so there's no place i know as wants here. i'll head on the box. they keep telling me they want me to be the next one. who gets married? humble, helping never hear that again. all the way. are you married? look, he's a man and he's also scared on behalf of them and then,
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and we'll double limit it to that is, i'm not afraid. i just like marriage takes a lot of work and let her know. my dear, we are not in america. this society here puts pressure on us to get married. your mamma will try to set you up to let them know there's no way some of me. well, no. i know. i thought that my mom was more modern and she didn't talk about it so much and acted as if it wasn't an issue that i haven't gotten married again yet. but uh my buddy said, then i found out she hired a whole secret team to set me up with my mom, everybody in my family, all my friends who got married said really don't get married. no, i don't know the minute the her father and i suffered
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a note. i am looking at it to where life was not easy for us to have the bottom of course we faced difficulties and when we overcame them, the best that popped in on this generation is imitation of my head that in the hallways, documents it worries me why i'm afraid for them based on the society will charge them to what the future will bring without the interpretation and culture may change this. we built a strong foundation for them that we've taught them and taken care of them. now they can decide what is good and what is bad. so yeah, so that's exactly what rea shows me and they'll be able to make good decisions, whether we're there or not. ready the
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negative at home, what do i make and development? i felt connected to other things and places of what's next, the names of the beer part of and i so how have you been he didn't just wanna don't my things anyway. i've been to yeah, these are my things, things that my daughter is played with. i like the terrible feeling that i don't wish on anyone. so shy that i can shy though i can only encourage other women to take marriage seriously frustrating. you know the good because in the end you aren't just making decisions
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for yourself. you're also making them for your children. and that's not easy people. it really isn't of the to see, i'm not sure she actually wants a child is, but she has a planned everything. well, in any case on how, how much i have been wanting a grandchild for a long time. sure. this is just nowadays parents always ask so cool act like they don't care because they don't want to pressure their kids. so i just didn't sound so deep down. i think they really want to look out on the ground boots on the floor
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in cases. so i will have to explain artificial insemination to them in detail how they accepted everything. so how for how, how much of balances they are hoping that the 1st try will be successful. the by the chances are good truth a single i'm already harvested 26 acres of new thing. oh well we want to have 2 children in the future. runs one it from me and one from my partner. sorry. it might not succeed. the 1st time. know that i'm sure, eventually it will all work out with all the medical possibilities we have today. we will definitely get there. could take that as long as we don't have a bill phone sheet and guys. okay, so the
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see will mine. she said, this is jack. hey, yours is a non all the i'm excited to have a new family member. be all too old fashion and it's great to see how my other children for siblings have been supportive and optimistic about the marriage. what does she have their plans to artificially inseminated? probably it'll problems with family as well as hits. is that even the grandmother to a mine and she is already in her seventies and she loves her grandchildren with ours . let's say i want support service shipping. she said she's hanging down as a male. how is that cushing this way? good faith. unfortunately, my mom was wise and offered her support without doing that. she said it was the right thing to do. comfortable down to help us out all of the testing.
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yeah. yeah. sounds it's not the other thing, is you the video? oh no. please don't. i won't go near you like that. it's just in cream on my finger for a mask. but i don't want the, these old address. this one. this one looks much nice or is there a matching headscarf as well?
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yes. this one. and what do you wear underneath the blacktop? that's what do you think about this one? no. the other one is more suitable for weddings, but this one makes me look like the mother of the bride once you move well, but you are a kind of like the mother to a guide. and i hope you are the next for i must go without the best man. i hope between my daughter's wishes come true. may of course have mercy on having died. oh, you're wonderful. i really hope that god will make her happy with and a bit as i am just waiting for my daughter to get some good dreams. in my heart, i feel the good warehouse made to happen. the
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only difficult thing, i mean, but then i have never lost hope of committing to a new relationship again, while i could, i can figure it out. i would even get married again a year even though my 1st marriage failed to defend. and that's going on. i know that everyone is different enough in the highest you get them. i always say that my life is like a book with the clothes. but there are some pages that are phone stuff and cut me, but what bothers that'll just rip out to the house, but i'm you have gone, but the story will continue. fine until my last day. let's look at them to the memo there is hope written on every page. i didn't have the highest in
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the present moment. shouldn't that diesel church itself was choosing to accept her and give her our best wishes was the right thing to do. i secured, that's all. i truly believe it too much. it will kendall tom. tow month quite a shout. and as her father, seeing her smile happily, really touched the candle, this is what some down on the fabric dining. everyone in the family is facing some kind of pressure on the has a she also think in those things often don't turn out the way we hold the family ties. we can still be a have a family is no matter who is part of it. take y'all just, you that she,
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we charge the actually i decided on the speech on the last night. i was afraid i would forget something. so i wrote it down wrong. but i really want to look you in the eye as well sayings, se then. so if i forget something, please forgive you the most impatient person in the world remind me every day that i'm a good person that gave me back my confidence. so the thank you to whom it seems to me till after the speech. i'm sure i'll have to redo my makeup of i'm sure you all can sancho to me on the soap or if i am a lucky person. i always have from gladys. i do. i have never said this before, but the luckiest thing that ever happened to me was being born into this family. this was in the queue. let me go and such a happy family, though i have no words to express how much i love you.
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