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and that's all the needs for this out. thanks. that documentary program goes into the classroom generations and the division views on marriage, love, and family that's coming up after a short break. i'm anthony houghton, berlin. i'll have more headlines for you in 45 minutes. talk to you, my name is the hose, beck said loud, thank you so much for joining in. welcome to don't hold bad. a lot of people do that. it's all about saying a loud noise would have been nosy de la. good. everyone to king, to check out the award winning called called the called back. can you see what old car have to do with the production? here's a hands on the
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real media watch now on youtube, the a long time my dad expected me to marry someone and live happily ever after i lived there was i wanted to get married because i was hoping to find love security, a spring in my step enjoy and life the they were expecting me to find a male partner. he went but it turned out to be different from one based on the
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color tiger a wish and the reality are 2 very different things. all have glass computer surface have and reality can sometimes be more painful than your worst nightmares. the adverse thing we could to avoid divorce but nothing looked best. male: it seems like i never really knew my eldest daughter mine into the you do need a man in the family. it's actually quite important. appreciate in . absolutely. i think there's really want to grandchild to get married and start
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the family. something most parents want for their kids, but when it comes to families, things can get explicit. younger people think that it's impossible to connect with . i loved something older people often question to the you to really know what they're doing with their lives. the young and old are realities and dreams can be so different. seriously, it seems like there's a huge gap between the generations. sometimes we just don't guess each other. the question is can we fix this the
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isn't that beautiful and go with the manual. our marriage last 233 and a half years was cannot seem god we had known each other before and work together to finish the law. at the most i just falsely assumed that love was so important to young people should get their feelings under control. and is, but that was wrong. even a fee control choice, the heart in the mind has to work together towards the same goal extra more. they shouldn't fight each other having a lot. and it really isn't the balance to life is more powerful. wonder what advantage corey's the
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whole of home she and i have different views on the subject of divorce cuz she be moving uh, i could send. that's how she was feeling. even though was so different than especially of a sudden that i should be. i really felt the pain that my daughter was constantly going through. and i saw it with my own eyes. you see it really wide mouth. oh, this is a huge problem. it wasn't like nothing at all times. we never discussed of almost as much as we do now. it was $71.00. that was really no other options. how kind of divorce is so easy? everything was different before everything including finances. we just want a different thing. they opened, we know the only ones dealing with this. i want it and i'm sure we have one of the highest divorce rates in the world. life just didn't used to be so complicated then
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parents didn't put so much pressure on their children, on bribes and ground rules. we didn't worry about how to finance everything. we were only concerned with making each other happy. yes, that is very important. social media has ruined everything. yeah. but there were problems before that too. yes. but it's a big part of the problem as well. of the, in fact, egypt divorce rate has trickled over the past 15 years. and despite anti divorced courses now offered to all over the country, more than 60 percent of the countries, young couples are separating
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the fact that these adults from high told them i had a girlfriend. and we were getting married to a mouse. it went on to a quote you power to rise and also that we were planning to use artificial insemination. that was the last for them to digest mountain one off like on your hudson as well. that's what i called. i was standing in the kitchen when she told me, touch on my soul, and it looks like she wanted to cry. that's the kind of patient that made me want to cry to the same way when magellio, especially di,
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since we know we want to have children and i have trouble producing healthy eggs, we thought it would be better to freeze them. these are kind of what you'll be talking with us and then we would have more options later. and why that attachment? what she was, my dream is to have to care. i search on those don't matter why she maybe 2 dogs say yeah, you know, and they live near their grandparent that go on like that for to the . was that an amazing? she's always, i was already a mother of 2 at their age and, and she has house to what they are only just now thinking about having children without seeing us that you good. so i thought that then i was already quite mature your time. she has how me, julia was only getting started with everything. now you go to your side. so that's why i think young people today are still kind of immature. 30 sounds like kids in taiwan. many young women are choosing to delay pregnancy and motherhood. but freezing eggs is typically just
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a precautionary measures and is rarely meant for artificial insemination. more over taiwan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. the the i'm, the sam can be the very big dreams chaplain. and i don't know whether or not will be able to achieve them, but, but they are growing inside of me every day. go ahead in the beginning, but one of my dreams was to become a makeup artist. but getting there has been a difficult kind of reading and writing down the style is the makeup i had doubts for up to d as a makeup artist. how do we do this? i'll book it for home. i know what i'm going to make up the mean, but i can do it. so i'll put on a lot of,
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i'll give it to exams from always the kind of box that, that less confusing good been kind of my parents had so many questions and help me . so we're scared and they didn't understand what was happening. my been hired, they felt sad and worried about my being and didn't know what they could do to help in developing to stay and help. i really felt the pressure, this is the kind of that stopped very sick because only one had a heart attack and was hospitalized of how many of you, when can you it was the 1st time in my life that i understood how much something like this can affect the father for them. i want them to become an hour. i am going to be almost died. 7 is really can smell for me. was doing so poorly. my social of me because i was doing so poorly. instead of getting them home, can you will die? sounds that really shocked me. well gosh, i'm just with the the haven't got
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the we support your dental showing. she came back to live with us has been in may well the, the, my d as well. my daughter and my friend doesn't work as well, but she is my best friend and the only one i trust completely. i know from my other children very much to of course with us. right. and i share with special phones because she is my 1st born and i would like to have it shipped and i have a tissue p the
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wild divorce has no parts of everyday life in egypt. homosexuality is illegal. by contrast, taiwan was the 1st country in asia to legalize same sex marriage and 2019 even so these couples are still far from being generally accepted in society. the people from their education football some because they don't feel the same sex marriages as a real family way. that's the highest. and of course my parents worry about that somehow as because they wonder whether our kids will be fully discriminated against . and later on because of the township. but to all gods, my name is yo yo assisting. we will be going to the us next year to start the process of artificial insemination. since please make sure everything goes well for
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me to be i hope to return with a healthy baby. bye bye. you can i have a water mileage is 14 dollars something for you go we oh no, i don't need to back the cheese that what's on that meal is also have no idea that she didn't like men wish you. i'm not insane. that when she came out to us, i was so shocked who i so well that's and i couldn't accept it. this is the z as in the middle, bosh alpha. i
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always this also simone. in fact, her father, even blame me by suggesting that she had developed such ideas and intentions because of how i had raised her voice, had suffice. and i also started to reflect on myself and tried to figure out if i had done anything wrong or failed her as a father made the
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will to the, to a 14. and i as her father failed to be a good role model for her. the the house itself within an evening and then from my generation were not ever allowed to cry. and then is it continued doubting? i don't know that i'm just fortunately i was alone in the car, so i let it all alone. would you send me the thumbs up by to encourage them with a supervisor, so that one be didn't had a good cry, then wiped my face drive as i've seen it in pulled myself back together. i hope so . i went back to warehouse. see the scene. she now just you go until
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240 and what's his equal as her mother, if i couldn't accept or support this and you know, it wouldn't make a difference having a couple of cheese growing up now who cooled asian cliffs. but if i agree and support her as well for in the future, this is how that could make a relationship much stronger over the questioning the homes that she me. hi. hi, why are you worried last night and thing i to, i guess so which as i said, i just wanted to update you on the procedure to see what we got. so my body feels a bit swelled, and this time it felt like that last night and today the home office. i don't know if that's okay. that's fine. what do you think? oh, hi. is it cold in town? hi. everyone's still the sleep. no one's at work you had a low and it's very hot and type a around 27 or 28 degrees celsius. wow. that's great to know it's cold and dry here. that's why my voice sounds like this is just like
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a cat. 555, i was let you know when it's all over. oh, by the call have been has been chiral mean security for me. i mean, this is the place where i was born on. i'm in the has been the traffic because that's the community, the warm norma family and my friends. and i have all been with me, my whole life hired take a lot and i'm glad to show a lot of them. but i've always lived in the heart of cairo, and i've never even loved each have to have fun, but i don't know. so there's no place i know as wants here. i'll head on the box. they keep telling me they want me to be the next one. who gets married? humble, helping never hear that again. all the way. are you married?
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look, he's a man and he's also scared on behalf of them and then, and we'll double limit it to that is, i'm not afraid. i just like marriage takes a lot of work, a just let her know, my dear, we are not in america because i know this society here puts pressure on us to get married. your mamma will try to set you up to you. i'm going to let them know there's no way some of me. well, no, i know. i thought that my mom was more modern and she didn't talk about it so much and acted as if it wasn't an issue that i haven't gotten married again yet. then i might have already said, then i found out she hired a whole secret team to set me up with my mom, everybody in my family, all my friends who got married said really don't get married. oh, i don't know the
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minute the and her father and i suffered a note. i am looking at your life was not easy for us to have the bottom of course we face difficulties and when we overcame them, that's it popped in all this generation is imitation 9 doors headed in the hallways, documents. it worries me why and i'm afraid full of them, the society will charge them to the future will bring without the traditional and culture may change this. we built a strong foundation for them that we've taught them and taken care of them. now they can decide what is good and what is bad. so yeah, so that's exactly what rea shows me, and they'll be able to make good decisions, whether we're there or not. the
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negative at home, what do i make and development? i felt connected to other things in places of what's next, the names of the beer, part of my soul. how have you been? i didn't just wanted don't my things anyway. i've been to yeah, these are my things, things that my daughter is played with too much of a feeling that i don't wish on any one. i'm shy though. i can only encourage other women to take marriage seriously frustrating . you know the other because in the end you aren't just
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making decisions for yourself. you're also making them for your children. and that's not easy. people get really isn't of the, let's see, i'm not sure she actually wants a child to use for cheese and find everything. well, in any case how much i have been wanting a grandchild for a long time. sure. this is just nowadays parents always ask so cool, act like they don't care because they don't want to pressure their kids. so i just didn't sound so deep down. i think they really want to become
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a grandparent as long as they own cases. so i will have to explain artificial insemination to them in detail how they accepted every thing shown how for how much of balances they are hoping that the 1st try will be successful. di centers have the chances are good truth, a single time already harvested. 26 acres of new day where we want to have 2 children in the future. we want it from me and one from my partner. sorry. it might not succeed the 1st time. now that i'm sure, eventually it will all work out with all the medical possibilities we have today, we will definitely get there. could take that as long as we don't have a cell phone, she engaged. okay, so the
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see will mind. she said this is jackie yelder, the not all the i'm excited to have a new family member be all too old fashion and it's great to see how my other children for the for siblings have been supportive. and doctor mistake about the marriage. what is it? she's under plans to artificially inseminated. how many of the problems with on the glass hits is that even the grandmother to a mind and she is already in her seventy's and say that she loves her grandchildren with ours by say hi, and support service shipping. she said she's hanging down as a male home coaching this week. okay. time unfortunately, my mom was wise and offered her support will tell you that she said it was the right thing to do. comfortable with or down to the whole household
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yeah. yeah. sounds. it's not the other thing, is you the video? oh no. please don't. i won't go near you like that. it's just some cream on my finger for a mask. but i don't want the, this old address. this one. this one looks much nicer. that is there a matching headscarf as well?
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yes, this one. and what do you wear underneath the black toner? that's what do you think about this one? not then. the other one is more suitable for weddings, but this one makes me look like some other of the bright once you move well, but you work kind of like the mother to it, right. and so i hope you are the next for i must go without the but i hope that my daughter's will she's come true. may of course have mercy on hiring guy. tell you what i really hope that god will make her happy with a bit. as i am just waiting for my daughter to get some good teams in my heart, i feel that god will help make that happen. the
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only difficult thing, i mean other than i have never lost hope of committing to a new relationship again, while i could, i figured i'd i would even get married again a year even though my 1st marriage boys defend and, and that's going on. i know that everyone is different enough in new hired to get them. i always say that my life is like a book with the club. but there are some pages that are phone up and cut, that live hot. what bothers that'll just rip out to the house, but it may have gone, but the story will continue. fine until my last day. let's look at them. but the memo, there's hope written on every page. i didn't have any overhead and the
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present. shouldn't that diesel church itself without choosing to accept her and give her our best wishes was the right thing to do. i secured this, or i truly believe it to me that you will kind of talk to him on quite a shout. and that's her father's seeing her smile happily. and really touching to me and that kind of to this is what i'm down the time of getting everyone in the family is facing some kind of pressure from all the has a she also think that even though things often don't turn out the way we hold family ties, we can still be a, have a family is no matter who is part of it,
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the thing out tissue that she, we charge the actually i decided on the speech on the last night. i was afraid i would forget something. so i wrote it down wrong, but i really want to look you in the eye as well sayings as sweet and certified forget something, please forgive me on you. don't you the most impatient person in the world remind me every day that i'm a good person. that gave me back my confidence all the thank you to whom it seems to me till after this speech. i'm sure i'll have to redo my makeup of i'm sure you all can sancho to me. i'm a sole goal. i am a lucky person. so i always have fun gladys that, you know, i have never said this before, but the luckiest thing to ever happened to me was being born into this family. so this was in the queue. let me go and such a happy family. i have no words to express how much i love you
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the ego indeed. this child has given me so much peace of mind. ready while i have the
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