spots the cities checked on some great cultural memorials to boot dw travel regarding the d. m. your boss, and you'll base and tell them that a 77 percent is on today. i want us to talk about our relationships and how we treat each other. if you're not in a relationship, still keep watching. there's something for you to michael to see your host for today. and to show you find out what young people see about gender equality in relationships. in liberia we ask young 7 to 7 percent, is how the outputs relationships, classic or more. and then we hear what our sex and relationship experts, cars have to say. and in the d r. c, we meet ritual model who has built up

a cleaning and pop. do you remember that time in 2016 when formulate june, president mohammed hiring set his wife long in the kitchen, his living room and his room. bestbuy's significance progress to austin, the quality in africa. there's still much way to be done. for instance, a video of this month, expressing his traditional views on women has gone at about $10000000.00 views or not is still going to. let's have a look. a stand against of the usual room and having equal arrived remained a home and woman was based on mississippi. and nobody still happened like that. the only reason why we had the assuming east will have been women the i to visit it because of the other. why that edition, so would you rather be just stayed at home once educated like that's the route of

the month. they have to be what they have to give the house of the woman that it has to do it is that that's, that's the best decent. that's all quite sure. what's the issue about the of the book culture. okay, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say, i'm independent. does that bother you? yeah. oh, okay. it to pots, industry debates. if we want to present to you this week, it is kamani, went to monrovia to investigate the role of women in relationships by speaking to this month and other librarians. here it is the hello and welcome back to the 77 percent strict debate this week. we are a library as capital of monrovia. now you might be familiar with the expression, strong african woman in this country. they suddenly having had a female president electronic johnson. but this strength in women is sometimes

discouraged when he comes through magic relationships, particularly the applicant concepts such as everyone to find out why, who better to accept this question for me then some like barriers. and we're going to start with the couple on the panel. we have a couple this so loved up austin insurance. hello. thanks for joining us. so let's start with the basic question of your day to day when you wake up in the morning giving me a little clue about who does what in the morning. what's your morning routine like since how you're really signing? let me start as well. thank you. um in the morning i wake up around 55 like 530 a get my kids ready for school wide. he's dead getting ready for work. okay, so would you say that your domestic responsibilities sort of equally splits between the 2 of you? yeah, it is. yeah. physically i'm able to wake up early morning and get hot water for the kids. i'm able to be beeping the little girl while she has to be ferrying corvette

or something. so yeah, i think is good and i enjoy doing abraham. where are you? i know that to have a biblical name and also an old fashion stands on the concept of equality and relationships. tell me a little bit about that. for me, i come with a african culture background and they are roost. described to me both men and women . i believe that most of the 1st choices in our african contacts are the responsibility of the women. but they make them be of help. let me tell you, i'm laughing because the women behind me, i really sighing. you substitute something then? yeah, what i would like you to complete it these. so you started by telling me women's responsibilities in their relationship. i have to remember to one do all the health choice? no, i said most of the risk response, most of your 1st choice is the woman's responsibilities. so what does the mind do then? do you know, will i be when setting is the head of the home he's responsible to, to,

to provide for the home. okay. tell me what you're thinking. always the female is a feminist and an activist. yeah. knowing that liberia was set on the basis of peach, iraqi just explains why they are a no saying these different things. but when you look at who said those rules, who's who give the responsibilities of a woman take in charge of the room and doing the choices, you wouldn't know that the men said, those rooms and wish we'd be leave for very bias, right? because women's potential is way, be your own, just taken care of who i want to hear from some people at the back. right. let me get some reactions. come close to to me please. i'm a decent analyst. nice. then that gives the ego will mind having you go right, remain home and woman was based on mississippi and nobody's still happy like that. the only reason why we've had a few minutes loving women the i to visit it because of the other. glad education.

okay, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? yeah, it. well ma'am, you know, african culture must not be dependent. what if i told you that in my culture, women actually the heads of the home, that's the culture, you know, gods and that was said yeah, in the back onto the women that there was something missing. so let me come back to the couple of the even holding hands. let me tell you we are feeling so single today on this. so when you hear some of these a sessions, i can imagine that there must also be people in your family who also have hold similar views. be committed to assess the letters you work up and you know, wash the dishes for you to man. you woke up just get ready for work and move on, you know, and then you start to follow that. i don't get a while as you do that. so i woke up early morning and what is going to shop people?

is that the moon you as a me you benefit a lot if those equality in the who your mother goes to visit you and dentist, easy. washington dirty clothes. she's like, why is my phone? well, she's very close. let me hear from my building for a 2nd because we haven't spoken to her. you just want to investigate this idea of the head of a home because because no one has talked about partnerships in the contemporary. well that's we live in today. do we still need that's classical head of a home? well, i have no interesting relationship anymore. it is because of what i went through when i was a relationship. so i had to quit 2019 because uh i had an a, b will save pregnant. but while it protective, and he was very abusive. so i went to it. i held my god like king. i have to look up in the morning and what? so what sucks for bucks are in what it will be. i mean,

we have to be 32333320 i need to understand is what do you mean put stokes with what, what, what, what help him dress up in the morning like a child was what i went extra martin, you know, helping to my relationship. okay. and so i have a question for you as he was treating him as a king, as he was saying, which by the way, up salute lee. was he treating you as a queen? well, he was abused if he was really abusive. so he has actually the mid mutual lost interest in having relationship. and when i see people are like, you know, quite pause and, you know, i feel like they're not being true to each other. yeah. okay. so obviously not all relationships which have that dynamic will end up in abuse. yeah, let's just be clear about that. however, it can, because these a power dynamic that has not been addressed. so how do you,

how do you navigate this? so for me, people always put or have a negative connotation, where it comes to head, are we not saying that there will much would be there want to address you is not, is that what most responsibility, the dresser if that is happening in the abuse, knowing your rules is different from being abuse, but i'm saying that the ascribe for men and women who are, who are done very clearly. okay. i mean, that's your position and that's perfectly fine. we've had many things, right? including the traditional is to think that's we mentioned, even be educated, let me hear from, oh, i am so afraid to bring the microphone to you. but let's say you, let's say your point is a need that we go back to our tradition. all we must have missed it, but it was difficult to not have to do everything. and that is why we haven't been in that as i'm not assuming this and the why you why i think it's not. we may just

find a new home. okay, so let me just, are you working for example, and you must have female bosses. how do you respond to that? oh, of having a bus mean a female is going to come to get it because i really don't see her being submissive . sometimes she just, she just was point, know how to man, and that is the high supposed to be so well not being a bus that can be from abusive to me. oh, okay. i, i honestly cannot believe that i am hearing these words in 2023 but but, but i, but i mean you'll, you'll, you'll view points, let me get one last one here with me. i am power one. yeah. etiquette telling me line this aside to become better because come on with kyra children in our rooms for 9 months, which is huge. so new on dustin relationship because we've gone with them for 9 months when they come outside of a boat within it. even the hoss wanting to, oh,

we sometimes think of them as babies. yeah. alpha as boss is when, when you come on the baby's man to support women, then what could be able to be the home and society better. all right, normally at this point of the debate would be asking people for solutions. but after hearing all the diverse opinions, i'm not sure that there is such a thing as solutions. we started with a couple, i'd like to end with them. we've had so many view points here. do you think that the kind of relationship that the 2 of you have with some people might see us aspirational is on the threats? we work up in the morning as a man and getting ready for work. when you stand before that mirror, just see a human being. when you see your wife see a human being sheet her that way, man, you are going to be happy. if you bring the woman to the equal point, you're going to be happy because we are just equal and we have this agreement on odds and wish when we've been here. it depends the idea that we're pushing we have up, which is a better idea. we go about that. thank you. that is

a beautiful place to rock this debates. we have had some very controversial remarks today, but also what a nice way to wrap it up. think 1st and foremost of your partner as human. thank you guys for watching the or, i mean there's some truth to a few of the things that those people were saying, some things i get some things. i refuse what part resonate. the role of a woman is to keep the house and the mind is the head of the household. that's just how it is. well, if you were listening carefully, you'd understand the bed different dynamics when it comes to relationships. yes, i get that. but i have my version and i believe it's valid. so what makes you think men hold a higher power in a marriage or relationship? that's how it was when i was growing up. my mom was always working on household charles and she comes and me tells me that i need to be

a certain type of woman for my husband. you know? probably 31. right. so i was just looking out for you. it's exhausting because i wake up, get the kids ready for school, making breakfast, make sure my husband's clothes the ions and ready, make sure everybody eats and that lunches are packed if needed. make sure the kids aren't late for the school bus, then i go to and what are your evening routines? i gets home, make the kids t, make sure they bring their homework, help them were needed. then get dinner ready, prep the kids for bed and make sure how these food is plates and waiting for when he gets home. and what does he do? he wakes up, gets ready for work, eat and leaves. and when he gets home, if he gets home and leave it just honestly criteria, he'll sit and eat with us. and then you'll watch sports or news or whatever. and then eat salad and sleep. and this, of course, you know,

does that get you in the mood for, you know, i don't even know what a mood is anymore. how does this sound fair? like, where is your joy? why am i viewing anyone who's just tired all the time and never in the mood where african women of course have been conditioned into believing in traditional gender roles within relationships mentioned do this, women should do that. even in clear relationships, the more masculine presenting person is expected to carry the same gender rules which is outdated and unfair. all of this to maintain a hierarchical system that only benefits men and not just in relationships of jobs, social status, just right in general. how many times do you work in town and feel safe? gosh, never how many times do you think your husband works in town and feel safe? he's always walking around town even late into the night time case in point. what now? i'm no expert,

but i think your health and wellbeing are as important as anyone else's and that includes mental health. don't let your home life drive you into a depression. just talk to you, man, let him know you'd like a break to come up with a plan together. maybe tell him that and see how quickly he'll come running. the 5th i will try and there's going to be had to start that conversation because we've gotten the custom to district team, but i needed to hear that. okay, i've got to go cook kids will be home soon. can i get you some more tea? girls sit down, i will get the tea, myself, and order pizza for the kids. my treat. a thanks cost for those octave scales and the skate. and in case i'll show you to be to pick your interest. you can watch a full version on i youtube channel. i've often heard people say in african culture, women are expected to do this all that. but in my icon culture,

both men and women conbal cassava, and professor hoops. let me know why your call to doesn't allow men to do domestic choice. i'm curious. african women are known for the entropy neural spring. in fact, in africa, more women run businesses exist than anywhere else in the world. ritual model is a prime example of this. she's thought to take a human business in the eastern region of the democratic republic of congo, and now employs hundreds of people. she has proven what we already know, that women can excel in business, bestbuy to the extra hotels they face. it is west milton that this story was recorded before the escalation of patients in eastern cool go. mazda is 10 companies bought a town overlooking lakes cube. and rhonda, is this the, a total of an inspiring story? it's literally the rags to riches tales. rachel malo

a young antonio who overcame homelessness to build her own cleanings, come the bell. this is the full sized after the death of my father, it was an easy they chased us from all rented house and life to him to be taught. but i resolved to take my fate into my own hands. i started walking as a key night in town, in a big building with many rooms. can you imagine? i was just getting $20.00 a month for washing clothes, dishes and cleaning the house. of the leaning business has a setting stigma, even though it's vital works, especially for keeping up with buildings running many young people looks down on the profession multiple now when you walk as a clean up, no one respects you. there's just a neglect. you don't see the value you bring, and the one is sold you via my academy studies showed us we should be at jobs

not work for that. i find out when that came on the end. rachel supported adults in the cleaning business. she advertised her services as a clean out on what's up, both rog, supplies and the power to clean houses. then you go now one night i discovered, you know, what's the group that someone was looking for a cleaning company. i wrote to that person directly named wilkes, and when i saw how big that cleaning budget was, i said in the how to build a team. i train them in one day and we perfect it older team at the walk location. one of the week after high, it's rachel thought more business would come for 2 months, no one called again. so rachel began activity advertising using social media door to door contesting businesses, distributing flyers to plumbing these end offices. and it's what about c a?

it started with those advertisements i made on social media, showing people what i do, and eventually the clients and partners came. my vision is to be established worldwide because my mission is to ensure everyone lives in a good environment, an environment which is safe, clean, and without dirt. i know so this quite the initial full top. rachel model now has thousands of stuff across the comfortable, specifically in we'll cover lizzie and a love seat in coma. she has 33 interviews. not because people often think that once a lady finishes her studies, she just needs to get married. all they ask ladies is when do you get married? do you already have a fiance whose those are nonsense issues? however, i don't feel disappointed with housing. so i've done. visual helps us to re obtaining racks to enter pin euros, richard cuttings by other young people to new positive preconceived ideas about successful jobs. so humble vision of creating clean spaces too hot on us walk is

already providing fundable income for one great woman invites us to meet another was captivated many with her voice city. i'm in not is a musician and toys most of the inside of the best stool. in town also own us in gene conway among the locals. the bar is a semi autonomous region, oftentimes on. yeah. and it both a rich history. i see all of just estimates that people have lived in still in town since the 5th century. it is no surprise that a city is full of history and culture to join. i mean, i own this tool office still in town and explore. it's one this and no, i'm stacy. i mean all the way from 0 and you are watching the w 7 to 7 percent. and this is mine, c t stone down is the

heart of san z pause. the largest city tends than you and archipelago is neely to 1000000 residents of famously diverse, hospitable and to music. he gifted like city amena, the international, who yeah, came to musician, has been crowned a local tourism and cultural invested us. and today she's taking us through the city that she loves, that you sort of that is the, but it's a mixture of millions of culture and everywhere you go, you will, coming with one world coming press is one will coming uh words this, this is cold. go make hallway or we can call it old fort. but stone town is much more than its historic buildings and winding alleys. i mean not, and her band mates are working hard to revive the islands, robust musical tradition for a new generation of sands, the baris,

the ticket of guys. this is our space where we do all practice every single day. and today you're going to enjoy. i'll talk to the, the group takes the name from city bin to sell it to the legendary single who launched essentially bought the local tar upjohn right into prominence. way back in 1928. interpreting the traditional style with mode danceable jobs for the 21st century. is the name of the game, and so is breaking down barriers around who is allowed to play. when i grew up, i didn't see the women playing that would then must be someone to bring this to move. and that's why i decided to check the food as an instrument. i mean,

is banned, may pay tribute to the historic queen of tar up. but the stone town has also produced a musical queen of a different kind. the city is the birthplace of rock legend, freddie mercury, and this is his house born here and raised the inside of the box. and after that, he took the music all over the walls. if the reaction of the fans on the street or anything to go by freddy mercury is not the only musical star to be found in this neighborhood, the president of the issues like famous please call most is in vans. the boss dna. and it's on full display at they started go central marketplace. this is called multi t t. it can find a lot of pieces because it's listed. for example, here we have 6 problem cussing. got this one recorded quiz that is also

fine. this is called denny. i love it, we use it. i nothing off with the end of the day. my a but another life in stone town is just waking up. locals flocked to the seaside clause out for a donnie with families relax. youngsters show off the diving skills and everybody comes to feel they've been here the different prices and one of my favorite fluids, which is a transition, any incentive what it's called roy your. it's a mix of potatoes as that and the cuts time 5 to have a delicious and a unique it's a heavy mix of flavors, fragrances, and friendly faces. and for musical trail blazers like amino the city is future is as bright and as clear as its story top end of the day

my speed. but also so proud of my lovely diamond sports, my cost you for what danny has become really popular on take talk, any stuff problem and i can't wait to try to jump myself. and if you have any female spots in your city, make a video and progress when you start from a lot. so i shall for this week. i hope you've learned that every relationship is about love, support and equality. if you like, vishal, i'm sure your log out of content. follow us on these platforms for me. oh, i live you in the company of mavens. they call this song for about those enjoy. and until next time, you know, things portion of the the

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