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love vines. this together present to us a beautiful feeling and sometimes confusion without love, you can't actually be happy sign. loss is thrilling and passionate, but it also hurts so many 3 of of great low by yeah. well, i thought we are the we, we are a perfect fit perfectly. so more 2 peas in a call that often talk sometimes the feeling plus a lot of times the, [000:00:00;00]
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the big lightning struck facade and kareem 2 and a half years ago, when they miss on a day thing happened. you know, the couple live together into sort of config. undergoes in an open depression, custom in town. i've been nice to him. does. he told me that this is designed for thoughts on smiling. cuz then when i 1st saw his photo, these time, my heart skipped a beat as they say it was for the dust, se i saw the photo and thoughts that service went really easy, the way this app work. so you look at a lot of profiles and at some point you become, i'd say a bit jaded like most. and then this photo came up. i thought to myself, okay, wow, that's are. and then we talked on the phone for a quite a long time, and i was at my mother's and she always likes to send me home with food. because if i asked her to give me a little bit more met, because she's here, she doesn't have any family here. and i miss arabic food and i wanted to bring yourself we had never met before,
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but i know how to respond in our thoughts. and in the feel like this was i did have an alteri or mode when i thought if i gave her my tupperware, we have to meet again so she can give it back to me. so that was smart. the new home just needs a few finishing touches. it has to be ready in 6 weeks. that's one to 2, getting married. so the architect is very particular about everything being perfect . a challenge for kareem who has a ph. d. in physics. so that's as high now, so that's what sarah wants to get. the last 5 percent finish, i'm perfectly that's fine. with meeting on between the door opens the door closes and openness about us. you know you don't need any handles that way as yeah. as the office um at simone, so the study and the guest room also have to be completely finished before the
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wedding. what i wanted. so she can go ahead and help me finish it. can you hold on? we fix it. the study is almost finished. this is where kareem will spend tuesdays . he works from home a lot. but behind the door side has something very special, you know, way her wedding dress. kareem isn't a lot to see it before the wedding day. it's been, this has shown up that it's an older song is i think it's nicer when it's a surprise. although i do get to see his suit about it's been this was in every culture. the groom isn't allowed to see the bride's dress. often the boy to go on the so he promised he wouldn't peak it, hudson and i trust in the 1st month on the chicago, him the preparations for the wedding a well underway. everything should be perfect. even the wedding dance,
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so as to the, to have hired a wedding plan. soneta sees money has organized everything down to the smallest detail of father and cream. want it to be the most beautiful day if they live. it's beautiful celebration with a $150.00 guests from old eyes to the world and become was kinda, you know, done in ceylon calculation and they're coming in from canada, jordan's re long grease berlin to be there to buy to sign. and that is just joy, that they are with us for this new stage of life that we both want to start and view by the on from one didn't. but once we finish that they can celebrate and feel the joy with us. the default item it on so should be on the specific list of those, those fees. and it doesn't happen that often. look at all the people we live in. the world are with us. you know, i just want everybody to have a good time and 5000 feet,
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2 options model has like the head of matching. the relationship would become so serious. so quickly. glove took them both by surprise. me based and on. the love is an indescribable feeling. i can't put it into words and something you see, you feel fruit dot is it makes your heart quiver even think. but you don't know what's going on with that slow for me. miss somebody, i'd say love is slow boundless. um, do patients want and friendship? i'm doing that in a good way. good. sure. we are the best of friends. no, but you're also my best friend. no, that's right. i don't have a best friend. she's
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a 100 us appointed. this is love is infinite to this because it's a beautiful feeling. and sometimes confusing love is wonderful, just happened. this is a, it's a deep connection. you feel like the ones who will recount and home and show matlab non existent school. well, this is where they to this stance class and where they met it was a school full and they were 15 years old. yes . and is this, this is where you were stuck cuz this and you, i was sitting here. are you looking for here more here? yeah, yes. for came by the a little further back. i think. yeah, just as much as,
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as i saw you, there was they were sitting all the way back there. i didn't see you there. about every now and then in between that somebody could see got going to be friends here . but i remember i was here talking. i didn't see you coming in for all of a sudden people were standing there and i guess it took me an hour to organize that an hour and i never mind amount upfront with the music. he gave me the hand signal and said, please ask your partner for the next dance, and then bang, i was here quite here. so what do i have? and then you took my hand and we went out there onto the dance floor. here in front . yes. here at the door. yeah. and then some leaves came on. do you not have requested that? so do you remember this time? no, i don't mean by this will actually yeah. as when it was procol harum,
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whiter shade of pale. but this was one of the longest blues tracks. there was back then the god papa, lending was eager, and then the music came on. at 1st we kept a bit of distance. then we slowly came together. then i kept moving away. i thought not too close for me and at some point we were very close now. and then we danced very slowly. i remember that the that was a long time ago. yeah, that was
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a long time ago. it brings tears to your eyes. oh, honey. high on that is all is well, you found me i was also, well one man, man, man life has in store for you know yes, a great place or toilet. great memory still and should have failed as a musician. as a student, to practice 10 hours a day. big dream to go on to with big pop bands. and in 2018, he's a professor asked if you'd like to study abroad in india or in new? well india and to the old area. i mean quite noisy, dirty, but a lot of people for the the streets are the only i d i had of india who is what you see in the media cups,
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cups and template. i pictured slums in my head. i didn't have a nice image of in the fight. i always have to, if i just have to kind of soonest, there's something in india, shavani come a call was already a successful artist, a classical indian dancer. she was family and cooking had country, her family and her what the project with the gym and students was just one of had many autistic projects at the time. she had never met a gym and clever bung took her to the minute 50 hudson was supposed to start at 9. the, the leaves at $84858.00, and they will bring the daughter buildings to actually at 9 which was, lets say no. dod for day mcdaniel especially not mind. and then, you know, before forcing, if that was really thinking we could just when,
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when shavani until when met, they fell in love. it was the beginning of a love story across 2 continents ago because they spent 6 months together and bought in march 2022 men flew back to germany. right before the pen, demik locked down the money. and then the left a few bills in just been a hold of one of the last flights from india and i came home and everything shut down from south. 60 concerts were canceled because i had nothing to do. i just came from an intent space with shavani with music. you need me back home with me. you called me and nothing when it's done asthma initially, that was the start of the most difficult challenge for us. and we saw that i had to, so we didn't know when we would see each other next week. when was it ended up being a whole year and a half, excellent, well, 16 months that we couldn't see each other's effects and move on to the one's only thing on the
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tillman and shavani was 7000 kilometers a pod for 16 months, with no idea when they could meet again, but they didn't want to give up on a connection. they spent hours every day on the face time talking and developing their own style of music from the system to find that make the absence of the other person made it so important. and made us realize, you know, we re feature in usually all better together. thanks to the find out make we, we found the, i don't know each of those value are less and more. this thursday was taken by 2 men, one who was still in india. when he said good bye to shavani, after that they only saw each other online. and then obviously i'm nonsense 1st and
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then i proposed to her on december 19th. 2020. yeah, i'm 1st on a dozen on zoom. of course. yes. funds and she said yes. and since then, we always keep the pictures some place we can see it is no i thought the halls on in my, in the sort of thing couldn't but it was still unclear when they would be able to see each other. again, the couple had to deal with locked down difficult visa issues and create restrictions and unclear flight day. plans changed multiple times to personally to the time who's flight landed in more my. i was not sure if he'd be able to make it for the reading board not 2 months to to could only communicate via
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a screen to mary the, the love is complicated leave. if love is the most important thing in life for me without love, you can't be happy at all. you can dear, somehow, always on satisfied. wait for freedom when you have to be able to forgive you in arguments because you see things you might know. sometimes way back stabbing or something like that. again, i think hard to forget to be present. so that is the disadvantage of love. it's not always beautiful. there's pain to live at all that one great, true love a dream or a wish for many but not every love. last a lifetime. initial miser was in
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a monogamous marriage for 15 years until she realized that her husband had been chasing on her for years. not change to be of relationships as it is, i think true. the 2 free less 5 and there's a muscle suffering greatly before she reached this conclusion. first, she left her husband and had a breakdown. she gentled about it the years to this day, a trunk filled with him, memory stands next to his sofa as a show might uh, shaken to give us a less. it's frightening the story is told in these pages, which we hear more so for example, here, my monday, october 1st my 22nd day as i am counting it and then i say no, i must begin a new story. town to day's notice and seeing mister access and not the fact that i called him mister x. by that time i was still seeing. and that because i thought we
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had to clarify things until i realized at some point that there was nothing to clarify. and that i just had to let go most the sense of by my, not the worst thing about my failed relationship was basically being lied to be out . not only by him, but also from the female friends around me who knew what was going on and didn't tell me tom. these are forced into this idea that for years i looked into their faces and they were lying to me me. i had kept the truth from me. that was the greatest betrayal for him. i had 4 and type in the hub. the self and mission i used to i like was the for hot. but this low point and this applies will change to whole life. she started therapy and made great strides. professionally. she spent, it has to gone manufacturing business. she organized music, evenings and the golf seminar. she enjoyed her professional success with intense love, but she wanted to know. so she began
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a radical experiment. she just found it to develop relationships with 5 men at the same time, a challenge of just 15, monogamous. she is of marriage is come from from the as a phone complaint that i came from nothing. my self confidence was that rock bottom . and from there you to this idea of 5 man, that's a huge gap out of f one. so how do you manage that on then? it was a case of trial and error, a process, the building myself up and worsting myself out of the house with difficulty as applicants and then learning a new language, the flirting or dating language date. and then finally, finding someone who wants to try something out and to this month and then finding the next person was also put in that really took the time frame, which is good. all of the that within 20 to well to use the hood to find the 5 man. she knows how to float. now often
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a single glance is enough. but then something happens that she didn't counsel vanessa mice or for mackie in love with one of the 5 men. when the goals is eating fi loose and then the experience real agony and my so as all my friends had predicted them, he basically put all my ccs to the test as it was involuntarily my teacher. and all my great ideas were suddenly put to the test by reality wouldn't codes. it's not a lot of fun that i need to to prove. so it was an interesting script that life wrote for me, label fussell, and at some point i was really exhausted. i have to say good one by switch to session was you saw a lot of experiments became an emotional rollercoaster visit the less she continued . she had set herself a time frame if 2 years. then she wrote to book 12345,
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man, just to me, when the book was published, it was the to the town. she appealed, tabloids and torches. experiment is ongoing, the nice thing i need the muscle and she loved most about yourself. responded i have been getting the varnish on board as a shop. it was a rebellion against loves because i had been very disappointed and i just want it something completely different and completely crazy at the counterpoint. nice not meant as an advice manual, it's not a how to load. i'm good set, but i want to get people to maybe think outside the box of it that's maybe do some is increasing this and you went into alonso copeland for life from us to look to
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some other for me. honesty so important once convinced is your business. that's my motto model. i'm always treat other people with respect and so i seem, it looks like 2 behind and the impact team on and you can't just trace somebody off between human the gate. that's the worst thing for me. for me, the idea of teaching, sit on teaching you of your reality tv. for me honestly, is the most important things, even if it hurts. sometimes. the big day is here, and this is still a district. the final wedding preparations are on the way. kevin wants to leave nothing to chance. if we think should be perfect. but of course, there are a few he comes to perform, the photographer might be late as or to fuels before he should've left. but i don't know if he's still at lunch or what, but he should be there already. we're on schedule
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covering is nervous. but with incline of savannah has everything under control. her team is getting the whole ready for a 150 gift from all over the world. with only 2 hours to go. it's stressful to every one of the moment that when he was one of these, no, they're also these positive moments and you have to think about them, how beautiful that is, just like this s and k, which is back there. that's what i didn't want it, but sarah had to have it and it looks phenomenal. so you have to remind yourself of everything that's beautiful. so there's a little bit more excitement and less nervousness, like it's fine, but i can know that so, and that's why i don't know how to just kept the official wedding ceremony smoking of the big celebration is afterwards. klein is visited in. okay,
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so for from 20 minutes since i'm enough of young and all that that has been unlikely of this one, i'll just talk to him. and sarah are a bit nervous, but also excited that we have the groom who's already here, which is actually not typical because usually at weddings, the bride and groom only come later together to the location. here we have a somewhat different procedure then, so we have the groom here who of course wants to keep an eye on everything while he waits for the bright. this, um, yeah, well, she is running a bit late. so yes, of course, that always causes a certain amount of anxiety. have you on a monday of this, and that was a tips much worse than i'll have for while cream is wasting an estimate. the bride is induced little, she still needs to ride his stall for his sale. it's taking longer than expected to get to the bottom part is more important than the top. to add some champagne, i told you you've got to have a drink. it'll relax you. as soon as you see your husband, you'll be comb,
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lot of good. i'm excited about nervous but also happy to for the so the, all the emotions together, the out side of it is a is unfortunately i still have a bit of a cold. but what this been, i can hear, it may be a, but it could be where it was. i so starless malika, this work is special. let's see. until you mentioned the submission, an alternate to dish. no frequent enough for me. of course it's also exciting was nothing can go wrong, and of course i have to call them down to the weight. and that's also part of my job. if i'm stressed on the brides or even more stress, it's a big responsibility. yeah. so a solution, nicholas the thoughts, lot of you actually sandra should leave right away to stay on schedule
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for weeks. she's managed to hide the wedding dress from covering only 2 more hours either she will be standing in front of him. yeah, yeah. the degrees of polk is 7. it'll, rick, it has spent a lot of time. you and the 51 used to say for the smit. one supporting the talk is particularly special for the yeah, this is the, or this is our police to, to speak to where i asked her if she would like to go with me there. as i called it back then, because i knew the crew very well at that time and still knew it well today. i don't know what i chose exactly in this place here, viewed wouldn't. and as you can see, she said, yeah, this is the, let's see yog and back ever since. i say we always return to this spot on the, i'm assuming from tim kim univers matt,
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when we were beaten. now we have our own children and i would say a 15 year old as a child in the of a. so we were actually still children die. ok now your home on say a box where we felt very grown up for a month. and when you get to know each other, when you're as young as we both were something very special and the focus money, okay. the, the, then we like to come back here look. so we see that as many others may have a place where the mad or got to know each other and what i can get it. i'm tom, is this accident done in the old weekend time and also brought their own children here to this day. the couple lakes, the how long trip once or twice a month to this message for if you did have advice so they've made many important decisions under these trees. let me know who am i speaking with? yes. on the funds. yes. and at some point, when you reach our age, you think to yourself, yet, this is we're all began when comes come low,
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you can hardly believe it and i did, he just didn't knew how the whole thing would develop a since in this place has this attraction come to the no other place in the world can ever have an seals coughing to hear the or in this place. many of our values were determined, he and these are still live, were needing a family to eat, stay the meaning of togetherness on the cliff, plus the toys and fun minds. i'm kind of the cliff enrica dreamed of riding and motorcycle as merely age. she lived and with the support of the house, but this still and then please. yes. to write it today for the couple is so has differing interest. wonderful. my wife leaves the classical music and i like heavy metal. the method hardrock how to walk to sequences they alone love to say is this special ritual for no, no, every wednesday they take turns surprising each other. so they own mostly game were
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willing. you always have to think about what moves the other person. it's always different that i'm like, what makes the other person took right now? what is it that moves him? why didn't you always have to keep track of what is current at the moment and he is no longer the man i met 50 years ago. he is now a completely different person with other preferences as well. it is well, it is real still. is this feeling this warm feeling of loved an e book on us as an attend? there's a deep gratitude to that. i always feel when we are here in florida so that we have been so blessed in life. that is also what i associated with this place. gratitude informed me they were always together in the same place. the something that was out of reach for shavani entombment for a long time the
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same place. but the, the, now we have a husband and wife. oh yeah, the say the to live in close the price of homesickness is a big issue for shavani. oh, she misses her beloved indian food, but that's relatively easy to fixing 99 more difficult. his everyday life in gemini, bureaucracy and the german language only thing that human health square is that he can know with this effect with what she misses most of the people she left behind. i remember the last day in india. the 2 most difficult things
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for me leaving finance institute sticker such as i'm boss. i thought, no, i'm going to take my moped back home. and then the next thing, i'm not going to come here to stand in front of my little chin loan from home. but this, the session was so difficult, so difficult. but again, on the other hand, it was happy that i was going to move to a new country and start a new life with my husband. during my last months got the language in before taking my flight and the other was saying that back to my mother at the voice a of the most of the so i think about it a lot. we're like ok wow she bonnie: what you've done for me i could not have dreamed of on the cisco wrist guns of these are the it's something we need to keep in mind. oh,
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okay. yeah. you have something new together lawyer and we must work diligently to build this thing together with us to them by telephone. it's the to have developed a mix of contemporary pope percussion and classical indian music. yes. once metal book murphy good, then now with on their own productions under the name on the head, which means the balance of figuring out that the big enough at the beginning of the things i'm going to the, the bins all going to the that i can think about but if they had to think about that, even if that would allow yourself, as long as the flame of passion stays on, life is and maybe even grow stronger. we know we're not in the wrong place. one thoughtful sonya gotten works quite well. plus the new movie the into and still and every day there were those moments where you look out the window and think, wow, and it's been
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a journey spinning journey. so. 5 telling stories through vision, that's what the upon the test uses. it's a life small show and the client for joint professional future to get the living and working together. kind of look excellent tools to run the catering company in the morn for its course. the invention. glad past the couple spends a lot of time to get up there off and asked how they manage it. for me, i specify something, i'm always the one who asked, how can you stand him? and that's not true. i'm asked the same question. it's always a question of who's asking, is there no, i don't know either. somehow it has developed well, well there is no big discussion about it because it develops so organically. this is, and we also know exactly when the other one has reached their limit. then i take 3 or 4 days off from work completely and those are the people all this, but it's
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a bit too much and i need to switch off. i go into the kitchen, so the like you want us, whoever's there at the time. no. joking aside, that's it. we each of our whole be under space on what folks look, this caught. space is one key to the happiness thorsten cook's faith is proficient and he's passive. so how does it look as good? do you want to try it? yes, it smells quite tasty. from nothing. once again, there was nothing. no need to get away to a man's heart is through stomach. very good moments. this call i cook an act so it goes to the kitchen afterwards and cleans up on that. that is really great. somebody has to do it. it's a fair. do you feel idea? when xcel needs a break, he gets behind the wheel of the street cars, members of his club, even drive ranking the street cars shifts from time to time,
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the baby and it conducts toward the closets and conduct on the part time. i'm living the childhood dream here, the classic childhood dream that probably all boys have at one time or another were riding the train were driving it. and i practically soaked it up with my mother's milk as a baby. i know because my great aunt always took me on tours in proper talk on the classic suspension railroad. what does this only happen then that somehow stuck with me? funny, that's quite nice because i particularly like the people in the roar area because i'm those mach investment opportunities. it's not kind of course, you're on the front line, so to speak. we still sell tickets. and so i know we provide a disability that i'm not someone who likes to take the street car, the boss of the train, that certainly more for him to something special. and i knew that it's important for him. i can totally switch off that comes out while he's driving,
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of course. so when he's here from father enjoys and he works the ship. she doesn't really get home until 2 30 in the morning. but it's important for him because he's grounded afterward success you ever use some new energy. you simply need to say even donations. one of these old restored street cars to their home town. the no excellent tours didn't give each other space. that's one secret of a long relationship, but they also have a hobby in common in 2019, they was a low to kind of who has crown prince's a 1st in their hometown. logically and not surprisingly, there were a lot of skeptics gifted because they said 2 princes and no princess. oh,
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how's it going to work? he's one of the d and i was unavailable. and even just what will he be wearing, but will there be someone in the garden with a pink feather, but when we heard of it this lease, or we thought it can be true enough to establish people asked yeah, did you think about that? and then listening that we had to show more or less 1st that we are quite normal as it always f on. then we said, by the way from, well then we'll only do it. it's easier for us present address, kind of what the for neither of us will be a princess upkept if we do it and it's to print. so i put in some off that it was clear close to the actual didn't want to pretend for others. the in the 1961 beetle, they set off for a very special place. the 2 1st says i do. a 12 piece has beg, mountain include extent, in 2009 the,
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the key to the back in like it's been a long time for it wasn't an official marriage, but a declaration of partnership. same sex marriage in germany was not allowed at the time. still the celebration of the love was an event and it took place in one of the most schools off the wedding vineyards. in rhineland, a spot for glamorous potties. many jim and celebrity couple of walked down the stairs just as acts of act. so wasn't nervous at all at the wedding and also toll. he just had new voice in the morning. we had to call the dumpster that was especially nice that he lost his voice over. oh, well, you more than make up for it and i don't know, but really how should i describe it by a special day and there were a special people there and then the surprise with
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a room home. how will it look as oh, that was already such a magic moment as you can imagine. if you're going to celebrate, then do it properly. they'll push the toast and used to be a shift at the hotel. so he has a very personal relationship with this price. it turned out to be a huge cost, a $180.00 guests. $3000.00 red roses, looking more diverse, too emotional. and there were people there who were crying and they congratulated those afterwards. they said honestly that was the 1st wedding we've been to of 2 men, but it was so emotional, so great and what so thank you for that. that was kind of something for us. it was normal for us on the, on the account. once again, the core of the matter, it doesn't matter who it is, sitting up there. if 2 people say we take responsibility for each other, but it doesn't matter in which constellation they live was certainly a bit different 10 or 14 years ago. unless a slight has, and also a political event for us,
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it was really about us and it didn't matter what other people thought on us. but as i got a feeling on when politics in germany changed and same sex marriage was finally allowed, the couple made it official in 2019 excellent, thorsten said i do a 2nd time. i get the big celebration a wedding a day. that should be remembered forever. many couples come up with something extraordinary. the it's the moment kevin has been waiting for in
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a few minutes. sorry. we'll finally arrive at the waiting venue. the . how did you imagine we would dance with the wow. i had the cool thing is the 2 will never forget this moment when i look here and now for the big potty. no. yeah. a wedding with many relatives and friends. the siren and korean. it's the plastic stopped when
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