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tv   I Love You  Deutsche Welle  July 17, 2024 6:15pm-7:01pm CEST

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it's something w, a documentary series that examines think of passions up signs and the problems of folding inbox. the can you see is what old car tires have to do with the production? here's a hand on the real me indeed. the snow on youtube, the love
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vines this together present to the beautiful feeling and sometimes confusion without love. you can't actually be happy signed laws is really and passionate, but it also hurts to ministry of, of great low by the isn't i thought we are the we, we are a perfect fit, perfectly solved for 2 peas in a call that often talk sometimes the feeling plus a lot of time, the
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regarding lightning struck facade and corinne, 2 and a half years ago when they miss on a day thing happened, they know the couple live together into sort of config. undergoes in an open to present customer as well. my intent, i've been nice to him to the terms of as it's designed for thoughts on smiling. cuz then when i 1st started photo the sun, my heart skipped a beat as they say. you have a sort of oh that's easy. i saw the photo and saw that service went really easy. the way this app works, you look at a lot of profiles and at some point you become, i'd say a bit, j design. and then this photo came up. i thought to myself, ok, wow, that's are. and then we talked on the phone for a quite a long time and i was at my mother's and she always likes to send me home with food . because if i asked her to give me a little bit more because she's here, she doesn't have any family here. and i miss arabic food, and i want to bring yourself. we have never met before, but i know how to which device and i thought she'll like this and i did have an
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alteri remote what i thought if i gave her my tougher, where'd we have to meet again so she can give it back to me. so that was smart, not the new home just needs a few finishing touches. it has to be ready in 6 weeks. that's one to 2, a getting married. so the architect is very particular about everything being perfect. a challenge for karim who has a ph. d. in physics, so that's the type of um that's so that's what sarah wants to get. the last 5 percent finish. i'm perfectly. that's fine. with meeting on between the door opens money, the door closes and openness associated with the definitely don't need any handles that way. yeah, or the office i'm at simone. yeah. so the study and the guest room also have to be completely finished before the wedding. what i want to so she can go ahead and help me finish and some of them can you fix it?
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the study is almost finished. this is where korean will spend tuesdays. he works from home last a but behind the door side has something very special you know, way the wedding dress cream isn't allowed to see it before the wedding day. it's been business to one of the other thing is i think it's nicer when it's a surprise. although i do get to see his suit of a sprint as well in every culture. the groom isn't allowed to see the pride stress . often the boy to go on the so he promised he wouldn't peak, so it hudson and i trust him the 1st month on the chicago, him the preparations for the wedding. a well under way. everything should be perfect. even the wedding dance.
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so as to the, to have hired a wedding plan, soneta season has organized everything down to the smallest detail of father and cream. want it to be the most beautiful day if they live as a bit of a celebration with a 150 guests from old eyes to the world and become was kinda, you know, done in ceylon cartridge. and the ones that are coming in from canada, jordans 3 long to greece, berlin to be there to buy, to sign. and that is just joy, that they are with us for this new stage of life that we both want to start and view by the on from what didn't. but once the issue is that they can celebrate and feel the joy with us. the default item, it also should be on the specific list of those those fees and it doesn't happen that often. well, that's all the people we love in the world are with us. yeah, i just want everybody to have a good time and 5000 feet, 2 options and let her know as i had imagined,
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the relationship would become so serious. so quickly. glove took them both by surprise me. but if i'm just happy, if love is an indescribable feeling, i can put it into words and something you see, you feel fruit dot is. it makes her heart quiver even think. but you don't know what's going on with that slow for me. so miss somebody, i'd say love is slow boundless, um do patients want and friendship i'm doing that in a good way. sure. we are the best of friends. 5 though, but you're also my best friend. you know? that's right. i don't have a best friend. she's a 100 bits of wondering. this is the,
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a love is infinite to this because it's a beautiful feeling. and sometimes confusing love is wonderful. just happened. this is it's a deep connection. you feel like the ones who, the whole recap and home and sure matlab non existent school. well, this is where they took this stance class. and the way they met it was a school full. and they were 15 years old. yes and is this, this is where you were stuck because this and you i was sitting here. you got him for he the more here. yeah. yes for king by the a little further back i think. yeah, the tablets as, as i saw you, there was,
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they were sitting all the way back there. i didn't see you there about every now and then in between that i could see the conditions here. but i remember i was here talking. i didn't see you coming in for all of a sudden people as you were standing there. i guess it took me an hour to organize that an hour i now or month amount up front with the music company gave me the hand signal and said, please ask your partner for the next dance and then bang i was here quite here. so what do i have and then you took my hand and we went out there on to the dance floor here in front. yes. here at the door. yeah. and then some police came on doing i had requested that. so do you remember this time? no, i don't buy this. well actually. yeah. as it was procol harum. a whiter shade of pale, but this was one of the longest blues tracts. there was back then the god at this
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point then papa. and then the music came on at 1st we kept a bit of distance. then we slowly came together. then i kept moving away. i thought not too close for me. and at some point we were very close now. and then we danced very slowly. i remember that the that was a long time ago. yeah, that was a long time ago. cuz it brings tears to your eyes. oh, honey. high on that as calls well,
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you found me are also well one man, man, man, life has in store for you know yes. a great place for toilet great memories. children should have failed as a musician. as a student, to practice 10 hours a day. big dream to go on to with big pump, and then in 2018 who's a professor asked if you'd like to study abroad in india or in you? well, in the, in terms of our area, i mean quite noisy, dirty, but a lot of people for the the streets are the only i d i had of india who is what you see in the media cups, cups and template. i pictured slums in my head. i didn't have
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a nice image of in the 5 i always have to of i just have that kind of thing. just recently. in india, shavani come a call was already a successful artist, a classical indian dancer. she was family and cooking had country, her family and what the project with jim and students with just one of his many autistic projects. at the time. she had never met a gym and he would contribute to the minute that he hudson was supposed to start at 9 the the reached at $848858.00, and even seeing the daughter buildings actually at 9, which was lets say no dod for day mcdaniel especially not mind. and then you know, before forcing, if that was really thinking we could just when, when shavani until admit, they fell in love. it was the beginning of a love story across 2 continents ago. they spent 6 months together and bought in
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march 2022 men flew back to germany. right before the pen, demik locked down the money. and then the left a few bills in just been a hold of one of the last flights from india and i came home and everything shut down from south. 60 concerts were canceled because i had nothing to do. i just came from an intent space with she bonnie: with music bonnie: me back home with a call and nothing when it's done asthma initially that was the start of the most difficult challenge for us and we saw that i had to so we didn't know when we would see each other next one was it ended up being a whole year and a half, excellent, well, 16 months. but we couldn't see each other's effects and went on to the one's only thing. on the tillman and shavani was 7000 kilometers a pot for 16 months,
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with no idea when they could meet again. but they didn't want to give up on a connection. they spent hours every day on the face, time talking and developing their own style of music from the system to find that make the absence of the other person made it so important and made us realize, you know, we re fi genuinely all better together. thanks to the find out make we, we found the i don't know each of those value lesson more. this photo was taken by 2 men while he was still in india. when he said good bye to shavani. after that, they only saw each other online on is done obviously. i'm nonsense 1st and then i propose to wear on december 19th. 2020. yeah, i'm 1st on
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a dozen on zoom. of course. yes, sons. and she said yes. and since then, we always keep the pictures some place we can see it is what i thought the halls on in my, in the sort of thinking. but it was still on the clear when they would be able to see each other again. the couple had to deal with lockdown difficult visa issues and treat restrictions and unclear flight day plans changed multiple times so fortunately, the time has flight landed in more my i was not sure if he'd be able to make it for the waiting or not to months the to could only communicate via screen remarried. the
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the love is complicated. leave if love is the most important thing in life for me. without love, you can't be happy at all. you can dear somehow, always unsatisfied. wait for freedom when you have to be able to forgive you in arguments because you see things you might notice sometimes when it's on the back stabbing or something like that. again, i find hard to forget to be present. so that is the disadvantage of love. it's not always beautiful, there is a pain to live at all that one great, true love a dream or a wish for many but not every love. last a lifetime. initial miser was in a monogamous marriage for 15 years until she realized that her husband had been
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chasing on her fees. not changed to a piece of relationships as it is, i think true, the 2 free lists and there's a muscle stuff. the great be before she reached this conclusion, 1st she left her husband and had a breakdown. she gentled about the use to this day, a trunk, filled with 10 memory stands next to his sofa as a show might uh check and give us a less. it's frightening the story is told in these pages, which we hear more so for example, here, my monday, october 1st my 22nd day as i am counting it and then i say no, i must begin a new story. town to day's notice and seeing mister exit did not this back then i called him mister x. by that time, i was still seeing him that because i thought we had to clarify things until i realized at some point that there was nothing to clarify. and that i just had to
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let go most the sense of by my, not the worst thing about my failed relationship was basically being lied to be out . and not only by him, but also from the female friends around me who knew what was going on. and didn't tell me tom, these, it flushed the idea that for years i looked into their faces and they were lying to me, me, i had come to choose from me. that was the greatest betrayal for my, for, and type in the hub. the self and mission i used to lose the for hot at this low point and this applies will change to whole life. she started therapy and made great strides. professionally. she spent, it has to gone manufacturing business. she organized music, evenings and the golf seminar. she enjoyed her professional success with intense love, but she wanted to know. so she began a radical experiment. she just found it to develop relationships with 5 men. at the
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same time, a challenge off to 15, monogamous. she is. of mary is come from florida as a phone complaint that i came from nothing my self confidence was the rock bottom. and from there to this idea of 5 man, that's a huge gap out of the f one. so how do you manage the then it was a case of trial and error, a process, the building myself up and worsting myself out of the house and how with difficulty as, as look on and then learning a new language, the flirting or dating language date and then finally finding someone who wants to try something out into this month and then finding the next person was also put in that really took timeframes. and we'll just have to register all of the that within 20 to well, to use the hood to find the 5 man. she knows how to float. now, often a single glance is enough. but then something happens that she didn't counsel
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vanessa mice also mackie in love with one of the 5 men. when the goals is eating fi loose and then the experience real agony and my so as all my friends had predicted them, he basically put all my ccs to the test as he was involuntarily my teacher. and all my great ideas were suddenly put to the test by reality wouldn't, cuz there's not a lot of one that i need to to prove. so it was an interesting script that life wrote for me, label fussell, and at some point i was really exhausted. i have to say good one bye. so this discussion was, you saw, a lot of experiments became an emotional rollercoaster visit the less she continued . she had set herself a time frame if 2 years. then she wrote 2 books, 12345, man, just to me, when the book was published,
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it was the to the town. she appealed tabloids and told shipped to experiment is ongoing. the nice thing i need the muscle and she learned last about yourself to find that happens, you're going to need the varnish. i'm going to as a shop. it was a rebellion against loves because i had been very disappointed and i just wanted something completely different. and completely crazy at the counterpoint. nice not meant as an advice manual is not a how to them concept, but i want to get people to maybe think outside the box of it. that's maybe do some is increasing this, and you wouldn't alonso copeland for life. some of us to hook to some other for me . honesty, so important wants to invest is your business. that's my motto, myrtle,
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i'm always treat other people with respect and so i see mom, it looks like 2 behind in on the impact team on. and you can't just trace somebody off between human to the that's the worst thing for me, for me, the idea of cheating, sit on teaching you of your reality tv. for me honestly is the most important things, even if it hurt. sometimes the big day is here, and this is still a district. the final wedding preparations are underway. kareem wants to leave nothing to chance. everything should be perfect. but of course, there are a few he comes to perform, the photographer might be light is or he should have left. but i don't know if he's still at lunch or what, but he should be there already. we're on schedule covering is nervous. but with incline us and then it has everything under control.
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her team is getting the whole ready for a 150 guests from all over the world. with only 2 hours to go. it's stressful to everyone as a free book, as opposed to movement on people's minds even on there. also these positive moments and you have to think about them, how beautiful that is, just like this s and k, which is back there. that's what i didn't want it, but sarah had to have it and it looks phenomenal. so you have to remind yourself of everything that's beautiful. so there's a little bit more excitement and less nervousness, like i'm sorry, but i can know that so, and that's why i hired to just kept the official wedding ceremony small. the big celebration is off towards carolina's vision. okay, so for some 20 minutes since i'm enough of young and all that as is unlikely of
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this one, i'll just talk to him. and sarah are a bit nervous, but also excited that we have the groom who's already here, which is actually not typical because usually at weddings, the bride and groom only come later together to the location. here we have a somewhat different procedure. yeah. then so we have the groom here who of course wants to keep an eye on everything while he waits for the bright. this, um yeah, well, she is running a bit late. so yes, of course, that always causes a certain amount of anxiety. have you on a monday of this, and there was a tips much worse than i'll have for while cream is wasting an estimate. the bride is induced little she still needs to ride his stall for his sale. it's taking longer than expected to be the solution to the bottom part is more important than the top to add some champagne. i told you you've got to have a drink. it'll relax you. as soon as you see your husband, you'll be comb. lot of good. i'm excited about nervous,
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but also happy to for the so the all the emotions together. yeah. so i divide as a is unfortunately i still have a bit of a cold. but what this been, i can hear it may be, but it could be where he lives. i. so starless malika, this work is special. let's see. and you mentioned the missed on, on a traditional and for me of course it's also exciting was nothing can go wrong. and of course i have to call them down to the weight. and that's also part of my job. if i'm stressed and the brides are even more stress, it's a big responsibility. yeah. so a special nichols, the thoughts a lot of you actually sorry, i should leave right away to stay on schedule for weeks she's managed to hide the wedding dress from covering. only 2 more hours either. she'll be standing in front
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of him. yeah, yeah. the degrees of polk is 7. it'll, rick, it has spent a lot of time. you and the 51 years since they, for the smit. one, supporting the talk is particularly special for the yeah, this is the or this is our police so to speak to where i asked her if she would like to go with me there as i called it back then because i knew the crew very well of that time and still knew it well today. i don't know what i chose exactly in this place here. viewed wouldn't. and as you can see, she said, yeah, this is the, let's see yog and back. ever since i seen, we always return to this spot on the i'm assuming from tim kim, you 1st met when we were 50, then now we have our own children and i would say
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a 15 year old as a child in the of a. so we were actually still children die. ok, now we have on say a box where we felt very grown up for a month. and when you get to know each other, when you're as young as we both were something very special and the focus money. okay. the, the and we like to come back here look, so we see that as many others may have a place where they mad or got to know each other and what i can get on tom. this is accident done in the old weekend time and also brought their own children here to this day. the couple lakes, the how long trip once or twice a month to this message for the did house and advice. so they've made many important decisions under these trees. let me know who am i speaking with you see on the funds? yes. and at some point when you reach our age, you think to yourself, yet of this i'm, this is we're all began when comes come low, you can hardly believe it is. he just didn't knew how we,
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the whole thing would develop a since in this place has this attraction come to the no other place in the world can ever have an seals coughing to hear the or in this place. many of our values were determined he and these are still live, were needing a family to see the meaning of togetherness on the cliff, plus the toys and fun minds. i'm kind of for to if we could dream to riding a motorcycle as merely age. she lived and with the support of the house, but this still and then to see us to write it today for the couple is so has differing interest. wonderful. my wife leaves the classical music and i like heavy metal. the method hardrock how to walk to sequences they alone love to say is this special ritual? no, no, every wednesday they take turns surprising each other. so, smell most of game moving fast. you always have to think about what moves the other
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person. it's always different that i'm like, what makes the other person took right now? what is it that moves him? why didn't you always have to keep track of what his current at the moment and he is no longer the man i met 50 years ago. and he is now a completely different person with other preferences as well. it is, well, it is real still, is this feeling this warm feeling of loved an e book on us as an attend? there's a deep gratitude to that. i always feel when we are here in florida so that we have been so blessed in life. that is also what i associated with this place. gratitute inside they were always together in the same place. the something that was out of reach for shavani entombment for a long time the until this moment. after 16 months, a separation to them. and finally lance,
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by the to, to already united the and they get married because the pen to make is ongoing. the wedding, a small pie and instead of pens, the 2 can finally make music together in the same place. the the, the,
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the now we have a husband and wife. oh, yeah. today the 2 living close, the price of home sickness is a big issue for shavani. oh, she misses her beloved indian food, but that's relatively easy to fixing 99 more difficulties. everyday life in germany, bureaucracy and the german language. the only thing that human helps wherever he can know with this effect what she misses most of the people she left behind. i remember the last day in india, the 2 most difficult things for me leaving the towns and cities. because i
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remember i thought, no, i'm going to take my moped back home. and then the next morning, i'm not going to come here to stand in front of the language and learn from home. but this the station was so difficult, so difficult. but again, on the other hand, it was happy that i was going to move to a new country and start a new life with my husband. during my last that must go to my book with you before taking my flight. and the other was saying that back to my mother at the voice a of the most of the so i think about it on lot we're like okay wow she bonnie, what you've done for me i could not have dreamed of on the cisco wrist kinds of things that have, it's something we need to keep in mind that okay, you have something new together lawyer and we must work diligently to build this
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thing together with us. so the telephone so the to have developed a mix of contemporary pope percussion, and classical indian music is once made to look like a movie. good. then now working on their own productions under the name on the head, which means bound to figure it out that the bigger and that's at the beginning of the things i'm going to the, the bins all going to the that i get, i think about. but if they had to think about but at the end, so that would allow yourself, i'm the as long as the flame of passion stays on, life is and maybe even grow stronger. we know we're not in the wrong place. one thoughtful sonya gotten works quite well, plus the new movie the into and still and every day there were those moments where you look out the window and think, wow, and it's been a journey spinning journey. so.
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5 telling stories through vision, that's what the upon the test uses. it's a light, small show and the client for joint professional future to get the living and working together, kind of look excellent tools to run the catering company in the morn for its quotes . the invention, glad past. the couple spends a lot of time to get up there also noticed how they manage good to me, i specify something. i'm always the one who asked, how can you stand him? that's not true. i'm asked the same question. it's always a question if he's asking today, sir, no, i don't know either. somehow it has developed well, well there is no big discussion about it because it develops so organically. this is, and we also know exactly when the other one has reached their limits. this then i take 3 or 4 days off from work completely outcomes also, but people all this, but it's a bit too much and i need to switch off. i go into the kitchen. so the lucky one is
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whoever is they are at the time. no. joking aside, that's it. we each of our hobby and our space on what folks with this kind of space is one key to the happiness tools to cooks, faces, profession, on tooth past. so how does it look? that's good. do you want to try it? yes, it smells quite tasty. from nothing. once again, there was nothing of the way to a man's heart is through stomach. very good moments. this call i cook an act so it goes to the kitchen afterwards and cleans up on that. that is really great. somebody has to do it, it's a fair. do you feel idea? when axle needs a break, he gets behind the wheel of the street cars. members of his club even drive regular street cars ships from time to time. the
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is libby and it conducts all the classes in conduct. i'm living the childhood dream here, the classic childhood dream that probably all boys have at one time or another, or riding the train or driving it. and i practically soaked it up with my mother's milk as a baby. i know because my great aunt always took me on tours and proper talk on the classic suspension railroad. what does it oh yeah. then that somehow stuck with me . that's quite nice because i particularly liked the people in the roar area because i'm not smart, conduct my activities. it's not kind of course you're on the front line so to speak . we still sell tickets. and so i know we provide a disability that i'm not someone who likes to take my street car, the boss of the train, certainly more for him to something special. and i knew that it's important for him . i can totally switch off that comes with it while he's driving. of course, when he's here from father enjoys and he works. the ship doesn't really get home
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until 2 30 in the morning. but it's important for him because he's grown did afterwards. success use some new energy. they simply need to they even donations one of these old restored street cars to their hometown the know, to enemies excellent tools to give each other space. that's one secret a day long relationship. but they also have a hobby in common in 2019 they with a low to kind of a crown prince's a 1st in their hometown. logically and not surprisingly, they were a lot of skeptics gifted because they said 2 princes and no princess. oh, how's it going to work?
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he's one of the d and i was unavailable and even just what will he be wearing? but will there be someone in the garden with a pink feather blue when we heard of it this lease, or we thought it can be true enough to establish people asked yeah, did you think about that? and then listening that we have to show more or less 1st that we are quite normal as it always f one. then we said, by the way, from, well then we'll only do it if either of us present address kind of what the for neither of us will be a princess cups. if we do it, it's to print that. i printed off that it was clear close to the actual didn't want to pretend for others. the in the 1961 peaceful they set off for a very special place. the 2 1st says i do a top piece has beg mountain and could extend to in 2009 the
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key to the back in life. it's been a long time for it wasn't an official marriage, but a declaration of partnership. same sex marriage and chimney was not allowed at the time. still the celebration of the love was an event, and it took place one of the most tools off the wedding vineyards in ronnie and a spot for glamorous potties. so many jim and celebrity couples of walked down the stairs as ok. so axel wasn't nervous at all. at the wedding, ulta tall, he just had new voice in the morning. we had to call the dumpster that was especially nice that he lost his voice over it. oh, well, you more than make up for it and i don't know, but really how should i describe it? i am a special day. there were a special people there and then to surprise with a room home. how will it look? oh, that was already such
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a magic moment as you can imagine. if you're going to celebrate, then do it properly. they'll push these toes. didn't used to be a shift at the hotel. so he has a very personal relationship with this price. it turned out to be a huge coffee, a $180.00 guests. $3000.00 dread roses was too emotional. and there were people there who were crying and they congratulated those afterwards. they said, honestly, that was the 1st wedding. we've been to have 2 men, but it was so emotional, so great and what so thank you for that. and that was kind of something for us. it was normal for us and i'm not the only one who doesn't come once again. the core of the matter, it doesn't matter who it is, sitting up there. if 2 people say we take responsibility for each other, but it doesn't matter in which constellation they live above the was certainly a bit different 10 or 14 years ago. this in unless a slight as and also a political event for us. it was really about as it didn't matter what other people's thoughts on us,
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but is not feeling done. when politics in germany changed and same sex marriage was finally allowed, the couple made it official. in 2019 accent thorsten said i do a 2nd time. i get the big celebration a wedding. a day that should be remembered forever. pretty couples come up with something extraordinary. the. the it's the moment to cover him has been waiting for in a few minutes. sorrow will finally arrive at the wedding then you
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the yeah. how did you imagine we would dance with the wow. i had because the to will never forget this moment when i look here and now for the big potty. no, no. a wedding with many relatives and friends. facade and korean. it's the perfect stop to a life together. to to want to be waiting
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