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to joe biden, the and that is one is update. our stay tuned for doc film coming up for a short break for you can find this online at the w dot. i am clare richardson. thank you so much for watching the can you see what old cars have to do with the production? she has a hands on so really indeed the snow on youtube, the love
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vines this together present to the beautiful feeling and sometimes confusion without love. you can't actually be happy sign laws. it's really and passionate. so hurts, so many, 3 of a great low by the i thought we are the we, we are a perfect fit perfectly. so more 2 peas and it often talk sometimes the feeling plus a long time, the
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lightning struck facade, and corinne, 2 and a half years ago when they met on a day thing happened. they know the couple live together into sort of confused. undergoes in an open depression cost as well. my intent. i've been nice to him that each one's a. this is designed for to some smaller because a and when i 1st size photo these i my heart skipped a beat as they say it was for the oh, that's easy. i saw the photo and thoughts that service went really easy. the way this app works, you look at a lot of profiles and at some point you become, i'd say a bit jaded like most. and then this photo came up. i thought to myself, okay, wow, that's are. and then we talked on the phone for quite a long time and i was at my mother's and she always likes to send me home with food . because if i asked her to give me a little bit more because she's here, she doesn't have any family here. and i miss arabic food and i wanted to bring you something we had never met before. but i know how to express in our thoughts and, and i feel like this was i did have an alteri or mode went up. i thought if i gave
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her my tougher, where'd we have to meet again? so she can give it back to me, so that was smart. the new home just needs a few finishing touches. it has to be ready in 6 weeks. that's one to 2, a getting married. so the architect is very particular about everything being perfect. a challenge for karim who has a ph. d. in physics. so that's the type of, um that's so that's what sarah wants to get. the last 5 percent finish, i'm perfectly. that's fine. with meeting on between the door opens committee, the door closes and openness. i'm about to see the don't need any handles that way . yeah. or the office of it's simone. yeah. so the study and the guest room also have to be completely finished before the wedding. what i want to so she can go ahead and help me finish it. can you fix it?
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the study is almost finished. this is way kareem will spend tuesdays. he works from home a lot. but behind the door sar has something very special, you know, way. her wedding dress cream isn't allowed to see it before the wedding day it's. it's been sort of, it's an oval. gosh, thing is i think it's nicer when it's a surprise. although i do get to see his suit of a sprint. this was in every culture that the groom isn't allowed to see the bride's dress. often the boy to go on them. so he promised he wouldn't peak hudson and i trust in the 1st month on the chicago, him the preparations for the wedding, a well underway. everything should be perfect, even the wedding dance. the
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2 have hired a wedding planner. soneta sees man has organized if we see down to the smallest detail of father and cream want it to be the most beautiful day if they live. it's beautiful celebration with a 150 guests from old eyes to the world because cannot go down in ceylon categories . you know, they're coming in from canada, jordan's re long greece, berlin to be there by design. and that is just joy, that they are with us for this new stage of life that we both want to start and view by to and from what they meet. once different is that they can celebrate and feel the joy with us before i do it on. so should be on the specific list of those, those fees. and it doesn't happen that often that all the people we live in the world are with us. you know, i just want everybody to have a good time to type toggling the 2 options might have been the ones that had
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imagined the relationship would become so serious. so quickly. glove took them both by surprise. me based and on the love is an indescribable feeling. i can't put it into words when something you see you feel fruit dot is it makes her heart quiver even think but you don't know what's going on with that slow for me. miss to somebody. i'd say love is slow boundless, um, do patients want and friendship i read in a good way. good. sure. we are the best of friends. 5 no, but you're also my best friend, not the that's right. i don't have a best friend. she's a 100 bits of wondering. this is the
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love is infinite to this, but it's a beautiful feeling and sometimes confusing others. wonderful. just happened. this is a, it's a deep connection. you feel, i think one to 0 rica and home and sure matlab non existent school. well, this is where they took this stance class. and the way they met it was a school full. and they were 15 years old. yes it is this, this is where you are stuck. is this and here i was sitting here young for him more here. yeah. yes. for king by the a little further back. i think. yeah. 50000 is as i saw you,
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there was they were sitting all the way back there. i didn't see you there about every now and then in between that somebody could see got the front of you. but i remember i was here talking. i didn't see you coming in of all of a sudden proof of as you were standing there. i guess it took me an hour to organize that an hour in an hour. the amount amount up front with the music company gave me the hand signal and said, please ask your partner for the next dance and then bang, i was here quite so good luck. and then you took my hand and we went out there on to the dance floor here in front. yes. here at the door. yeah. and then some videos came on. do you guys requested that? saw this, do you remember this time? no. don't you guys as well actually. yeah. as it was procol harum. a whiter shade of pale. but this was one of the longest blues tracks
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. there was back then the god at this point then papa lucy, go and then the music came on. at 1st we kept a bit of distance, then we slowly came together. then i kept moving away. i thought not too close for me and at some point we were very close now. and then we danced very slowly. i remember that the that was a long time ago. yeah, that was a long time ago cuz it brings tears to your eyes. oh, honey. high on that as calls well,
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you found me. i was also well one man, man, man. life has in store for, you know, yes, a great place to the great memories still and should have failed as a musician. as a student, to practice 10 out of the day. the big dream to go on to with big pop and then in 2018, he's a professor asked if you'd like to study abroad in india or in new well india and to the old area. i mean, quite noisy, dirty, but a lot of people for the the streets are the only idea a hand of india who is what you see in the media cops dropped into place. i pictured slums in my head. i didn't have
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a nice image of in the 5 i always have to of just have to kind of see on the screen something in india, shavani come a call was already a successful artist, a classical indian dancer. she was family and kitchen, had country family and her work, the project with jim and students with just one of his many autistic projects. at the time. she had never met a gym and he would phone to the to the minute if that he hudson was supposed to start at 9 the, the leaves at 848858. and they will bring the daughter buildings to actually at 9, which was lets say no dod for day mcdaniel especially not mind. and then you know, before forcing the that was really thinking we could just when, when shavani and tomb admit they fell in love. it was the beginning of a love story across 2 continents ago because they spent 6 months together and,
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and bought in march 2022 and flew back to germany. right before the pen demik locked down. and then the list of who goes in. it's been a hard one of the last flights from india and i came home and everything shut down from south. 60 concerts were canceled because i had nothing to do. i just came from an intense phase with shavani with music. if i need to be back home with a corporate end to nothing, when it's done asthma mission, that was the start of the most difficult challenge for us. but we saw that i had to so we didn't know when we would see each other next week. when was it ended up being a whole year and a half? well, from 16 months that we couldn't see each other's wrecked and went on to the one's only thing on the tillman and shavani was 7000 kilometers a pot for 16 months,
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with no idea when they could meet again. but they didn't want to give up on a connection. they spent hours every day on the face, time talking and developing their own style of music from the system to find that make the absence of the other person made it so important and made us realize, you know, we, we feature nearly all better together. thanks to the find out make we, we found the i don't know each of those value will listen more. this photo was taken by to him, and while he was still in india, when he said good bye to shavani. after that, they only saw each other online on is done obviously. i'm nonsense 1st and then i propose to wear on december 19th. 2020. yeah, i'm 1st on
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a dozen on zoom. of course. yes, sons. and she said yes. and since then, we always keep the pictures some place we can see it and you know, i thought the hold on in my, in the sort of thinking but it was still on the clear when they would be able to see each other. again, the couple had to deal with locked down difficult visa issues and feet restrictions and obviously a flight day plans change multiple times so personally, to the time his flight landed in more my i was not sure if he'd be able to make it for the wedding but not 2 months to, to could only communicate via screens to memory. the
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love is complicated leave. if love is the most important thing in life for me without love, you can't be happy at all. you can dear, somehow, always unsatisfied for freedom. when you have to be able to forgive you in arguments because you see things you might notice sometimes when it's on the back stabbing or something like that. again, i find hard to forget to be present. so that is the disadvantage of love. it's not always beautiful. there's a pain to live at all that one great, true love a dream or a wish for many but not every love last a lifetime. and there's a mice or was in a monogamous marriage for 15 years until she realized that her husband had been
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chasing on her for years. not change to view of relationships as it is. i think true, the 2 free les high and there's a muscle suffered greatly before she reached this conclusion. first, she left her husband and had a breakdown. she gentled about it for years. to this day, a trunk filled with 10 memory stands next to his sofa. as shown on my uh, check and give us a less, it's frightening the story is told in these pages, which we hear more so for example, here by monday, october 1st my 22nd day as i'm counting it. and then i say, no, i must begin a new story and count the day's notice and seeing mister access and not just the fact that i called him mister x. by that time, i was still seeing him that because i thought we had to clarify things until i realized at some point that there was nothing to clarify. and that i just had to
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let go most the sense of by my, not the worst thing about my failed relationship was basically being lied to be out . and not only by him, but also from the female friends around me who knew what was going on. and didn't tell me, tom, these, it flushed into this idea that for years i looked into their faces and they were lying to me me. i had kept the truth from me. that was the greatest betrayal for him. i'd for and type in the harbor the suffering which i used to like was the for hot. but this low point and this applies will change to whole life. she started therapy and made great strides professionally. she spent, it has to gone manufacturing business. she organized music evenings and the goss seminar. she enjoyed her professional success with intense love, but she wanted to know. so she began a radical experiment. she just wanted to develop relationships with 5 men. at the
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same time, a challenge of just 15, monogamous. she is of marriage is come from from the other phone complex that i came from nothing. my self confidence was that rock bottom. and from there to this idea of 5 man, that's a huge gap out of the f one. so how do you manage the then it was a case of trial and error, a process to building myself up and worsting myself out of the house and how with difficulty as, as look on and then learning a new language, learning or dating language date. and then finally finding someone who wants to try something out into this month and then finding the next person was also put in that really took the timeframe. that was the type of interested all of the that was in 22. well, to use the hood to find the 5 men, she knows how to float. now, often a single glance is enough. but then something happens that she didn't counsel
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vanessa mice or mackey in love with one of his 5 men. when the goals is eating fy, lose good, and then i experience real agony and my so as all my friends had predicted one, then he basically put all my ccs to the test as it was involuntarily my teacher. and all my great ideas were suddenly put to the test by reality wouldn't, cuz it's not a lot of one that i need to to prove. so it was an interesting script that life wrote for me, label fussell, and at some point i was really exhausted. i have to say gentlemen, by switch to social skills, you saw a lot of experiments became an emotional rollercoaster visit the less she continued it. she had such as self a timeframe as to use that she wrote 2 books. 12345, man. just to me, when the book was published,
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it was the to the town. she appealed tabloids and told shipped to experiment is ongoing. the nice thing i need the muscle and she loved most about yourself. responded they've been going to need a violation of shopping. it was a rebellion against loves because i had been very disappointed and i just wanted something completely different and completely crazy at the counterpoint. nice. not meant as an advice manual. um, it's not a how to good set. what i want to get people to maybe think outside the box of it that's maybe do some is increasing this and you wouldn't alonso copeland for life from of us to hook to some other for me. honesty, so important wants to invest is your business. that's my motto, myrtle,
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i'm always treat other people with respect and so i see mom, it looks like 2 behind in on the impact team on and you can't just are trace somebody off between human the gate. that's the worst thing for me. for me, the idea of teaching done teaching you of your reality tv for me honestly, is the most important things, even if it hurts. sometimes. the big day is here in s instead of district, the final wedding preparations are underway. covering wants to leave nothing to chance if we think should be perfect. but of course there are a few he comes to for, for this to talk with that might be late as or to funeral school for he should have left. but i don't know if he's still at lunch or what, but he should be there already. we're on schedule. covering is nervous,
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but with incline of savannah has everything under control. her team is getting the whole ready for a $150.00 guests from all over the world with only 2 hours to go. it's stressful to every one of the moment when he was one of the num, they're also these positive moments and you have to think about them, how beautiful that is, just like this s and k, which is back, there is what i didn't want it. but sarah had to have it and it looks phenomenal. so you have to remind yourself of everything that's beautiful. so there's a little bit more excitement and less nervousness, like it's fine, but i can love it. so that's why i don't have time to, to just kept the special wedding ceremony. so the big celebration is off towards klein . distribution. ok, so for some 20 minutes in time and again,
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all that that happens unlikely of this one. i'll stick this talk to him, and sarah are a bit nervous, but also excited to we have the groom who's already here, which is actually not typical because usually at weddings, the bride and groom only come later together to the location. here we have a somewhat different procedure. yeah. then, so we have the groom here who of course wants to keep an eye on everything while he waits for the bright. this. yeah, well, she's running a bit late. so yes, of course, that always causes a certain amount of anxiety, have mattress on a monday of this, and that was a tips much worse than i'll have for a while. cream is wasting an estimate. the bride is induced little, she still needs to ride his stall for his sale. it's taking longer than expected to get to the bottom part is more important than the power to add some champagne. as i told you, you've got to have a drink. it will relax you as soon as you see your husband, you'll be comb, lot of good. i'm excited about nervous but
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also happy to for the value of all the emotions together. yeah. so i have others as well as unfortunately i still have a bit of a cold manhood that's been i can hear it may be a, but it could be where the so starless malika, this work is special. let's wait until you mentioned the mission over to dish no frequency. now for me of course, it's also exciting. nothing can go wrong. and of course i have to calm them down to the weight and that's also part of my job. if i'm stressed on the brides or even more stress because it's a big responsibility. yeah. so a solution, nicholas, a thoughtful of you actually sorry, i should leave right away to stay on schedule. for weeks. she's managed to hide the wedding dress from covering. only 2 more hours either she'll be standing in front
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of him. yeah, yeah. the degrees of polk is 7. it'll, rick, it has spent a lot of time. you and the 51 years, let's say for the smidge one supporting the talk is particularly special for them. yeah. if that is to the arts, this is our police so to speak, to where i asked her if she would like to go with me there. as i called it back then because i knew the crew very well at that time and still knew it well today. i don't know what i chose exactly in this place here viewed wouldn't. and as you can see, she said, yeah, this is the, let's see yaga back ever since i seen. we always return to this spot on the i'm assuming from tim kim you 1st met when we were 15 and now we have our own children
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. then i would say a 15 year old as a child in the of a. so we were actually still children die. ok, now you have on say a box where we felt very grown up for a month. and when you get to know each other, when you're as young as we both were something very special and the focus monday, i'll finish this. then we like to come back here, look. so we feel that as many others may have a place where they mad or got to know each other, know what i can tell me if this accident, danny, and this old weekend time and also brought their own children here to this day. the couple makes the how long trip once or twice a month, this message is for the, the in house. and by so they've made many important decisions under these trees, whom i speaking was yes. on the funds. yes. and at some point, when you reach already judgment, you think to yourself, yet others i'm, this is we're all began. when comes come low, you can hardly believe it is. he just didn't knew how the whole thing would develop
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a since in this place has this attraction called into the new other police and the world can ever have and seems coughing to hear the or in this place. many of our values were determined, he and these are still live with meeting of the family to steve, the meaning of togetherness on the cliff, the door to him, fun minds. i'm kind of the twist enrica dreamed of riding a motorcycle as merely age. she lived and with the support of the house, but it is still and then to see us to write it today for the couple is so has differing interest. wonderful. my wife leads of classical music and i like heavy metal. the method hardrock hot to walk to see who's available love to say, is this special, which, you know, every wednesday they take turns surprising each of stay on once again move a little fast. you always have to think about what moves the other person. it's
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always different that i'm like, what makes the other person took right now? what is it that moves him? why didn't you always have to keep track of what is current at the moment and he is no longer the man i met 50 years ago. he is now a completely different person with other preferences as well. it is love, it is real bill, is this feeling? this warm feeling of loved an e book on us as an attend? there's a deep gratitude to that. i always feel when we are here in florida so that we have been so blessed in life. that is also what i associated with this place. gratitude inside they were always together in the same place, the something that was out of reach for shavonne and to me for a long time, the until this moment. after 16 months of separation to him and finally lance,
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by the to, to a re united the and they get married because depend to me because on going the wedding, a small by indian stand deep pens. the 2 can finally make music together in the same place. to the
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top the top. now we have a husband and wife. oh. hello . hey. say the to live in cologne. do you guys come home sick? this is a big issue for shavani. oh, she misses her beloved indian food, but that's relatively easy to fixing 99 more difficulties every day. life in gemini, bureaucracy, and the gym, and language only thing that human health square at the he can no with this effect with what she misses most of the people she left behind. i remember the last day in india. the 2 most difficult things for
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me. leaving finance institute because i remember i thought, no, i'm going to take my moped back home. and then the next morning, i'm not going to come here to stand in front of my little chin loan from home at the store station. it was so difficult, so difficult. but again, on the other hand, it was happy that i was going to move to a new country and start a new life with my husband. during my last that must go to my book with you before taking my flight. and the other was saying that back to my mother at the voice a of the most of the so i think about it a lot. we're like ok wow she bonnie: what you've done for me i could not have dreamed of on the cisco wrist guns of things that have it's something we need to keep in mind. oh, okay. yeah. you have something new together lawyer and we must work diligently to
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build this thing together. so it goes out to them by telephone. so the to have developed a mix of contemporary pub, percussion, and classical indian music. yes. once read a book, now i can, you might be good then now with on their own productions under the name on the head, which means the balance of figuring out that the big enough at the beginning of the things i'm going to the bins all going to the that i couldn't think about, but if they had to think about that or that even if that would allow yourself, as long as the flame of passion stays on life is and maybe even grow stronger. we know we're not in the wrong place. one thoughtful sonya because it works quite well, parks and movie the into and still and every day there were those moments where you look out the window and think, wow, and it's been a journey spinning to any. so
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telling stories through visiting. that's what the upon the test uses. it's their life small show and the plan for doing professional future to get the living and working together. kind of look excellent tools to run the catering company in the morn for its course. the invention. glad past the couple spends a lot of time to get up there off and asked how they manage it. for me, i specify something, i'm always the one who asked, how can you stand him? and that's not true. i'm asked. the same question is always a question of who's asking to, is there no, i don't know either. somehow it has developed well, so there is no big discussion about it because it develops so organically. this is, and we also know exactly when the other one has reached their limit. then i take 3 or 4 days off from work completely outcomes also, but people all this, but it's a bit too much and i need to switch off. i go into the kitchen so the like you want
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us, whoever's, they are at the time. no, joking aside. that's it. we each of our hobby and our space and what folks move to scott space is one key to the happiness thorsten cook's faith is profession on tooth past. so how does it look as good? do you want to try it? yes, it smelled quite tasty. from nothing, once again, it was nothing of the way to a man's heart is through stomach. very good moments. this call i cook an act so it goes to the kitchen afterwards and cleans up on that. but that is really great. somebody has to do it. it's a fair do you feel idea? when axle needs a break, he gets behind the wheel of the street cars, members of his club even drive, breaking the street cars shifts from time to time. the
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is libby and it conducts all the classes in conduct. i'm living the childhood dream here, the classic childhood dream that probably all boys have at one time or another, or riding the train or driving it. and i practically soaked it up with my mother's milk as a baby. i know because my great aunt always took me on tours and proper talk on the classic suspension railroad. what does this oh yeah. and that somehow stuck with me . something that's quite nice because i particularly like the people in the roar area because i'm not smart enough to this is my kind of course you're on the front line so to speak. we still sell tickets. and so i know we provide a disability that i'm not someone who likes to take my street car, the boss of the train, certainly more for him to do something special. and i knew that it's important for him. i can totally switch off of that comfortable while he's driving. of course, when he's here from father enjoys and he works
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a ship doesn't really get home until 2 30 in the morning. but it's important for him because he's grown did afterwards. success you ever use some new energy? they simply need to they even donations one of these old restored street cars to their hometown, the link to an accident towards the give each other space. that's once a quarter they loan relationship. but they also have a hobby in common in 2019 they was a low to kind of a crown prince's a 1st in their hometown by is about to logically and not surprisingly, there were a lot of skeptics because they said 2 princes and no princess. oh, how's it going to work?
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he's one of the in the middle. even just what will they be wearing with will there be someone in the garden with a pink feather blue when we heard of it this lease, or we thought it can be true and you probably have to establish people asked. yeah . did you think about that? and then what's the matter? we have to show more or less 1st that we are quite normal as it always f one. then we said, by the way, well then we'll only do it if we use it of as increase on the dress kind of what the for neither of us will be a princess upkept. if we do it, it's to print. so i put in some off that it was clear close to the actual didn't want to pretend for others. the in the 1961 peaceful they set off for a very special place. the 2 1st says i do a top piece has beg, mountain increase expense in 2009 the,
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the, the back in like it's been a long time for it wasn't an official marriage, but a declaration of partnership. same sex marriage in germany was not allowed at the time. still the celebration of the love was an event and it took place in one of the most schools off the wedding vineyards. in rhineland, a spot for glamorous potties. the many gym and celebrity couples of walked down the stairs as ok. so axel wasn't nervous at all at the wedding and also toll. he just had new voice in the morning. we had to call the dumpster that was especially nice that he lost his voice over it or, well, you more than make up for it and i don't know, but really, how should i describe it? i am a special day. there were special people there. and then the surprise with a room home, how will it look? oh, that was already such
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a magic moment as you can imagine. if you're going to celebrate, then do it properly. they'll push these tools. didn't used to be a chef at the hotel. so he has a very personal relationship with this price it turned out to be a huge coffee, a $190.00 guests. 3000 red roses was too emotional and there were people there who were crying and they congratulated those afterwards. they said honestly, that was the 1st wedding we've been to have to man, but it was so emotional, so great. so thank you for that. and that was kind of something for us. it was normal for us and i'm not the only one who doesn't come once again. the core of the matter. it doesn't matter who it is, sitting up there. if 2 people say we take responsibility for each other, but it doesn't matter in which constellation they live above the was certainly a bit different 10 or 14 years ago. between us as far as and also a political event for us. it was really about as it didn't matter what other people thought, honestly,
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i'm not even done when politics in germany changed and same sex marriage was finally allowed. the couple made it official in 2019 excellent thorsten said i do a 2nd time i did with a big celebration a wedding a day. that should be remembered forever. many couples come up with something extraordinary. or the it's the moment cover him has been waiting for in a few minutes. so or we'll finally arrive at the waiting venue.
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the how did you imagine we would dance with the oh, wow. so i think i had the coffee the to will never forget this moment when i look here now for the big potty. no. yeah. a wedding with many relatives and friends to sign and korean. it's the perfect stopped when life together to want to be waiting
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group to be curry, the curriculum, choice the band to this special day the, the celebration will be everything the to train the loved is prepaid and varied. some people like being tested,
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others prefer small acts of love beneath the, to the feeling roommate. when the hot choose to slow, the 6 the wisdom, sebastian, 2 countries of what's the war and ukraine more closely than poland, which was the time. and again, the poor thing was much beyond his borders. no one listening my guess this week and more so. justice, minnesota had them both know that over to port warnings because the government up to you are the same conflict in 30 minutes on d. w. look at us, we had to offer in so long still,
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