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as human extinction from it nationally, i suspect our series continues dots of henderson on d, w. the, the, there's a sense of empowerment that you get when you feel your strain within your punches that just lights me off. why do you want to box? what do you have to for you want to prove that you're stronger than someone else. why? you know, i don't understand. it wouldn't make me feel better. my daughter was in a office setting during the 9 to 5 job, which i know has a steady pay and benefits buy more 2nd, to get and see and drill team. and if these be fi,
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nissan delays finance i want my son to become a doctor. network that should be somewhere around a $1000000.00, but i don't know which bank were and what do you see and how much you save and i do feel the sponsibility of my mom and the responsibility is come from a very young age to me. so what if you get hurt and we, we don't feel strong and leaving, you've accomplished from that. i want to continue to be able to do that. it hurts when they can't understand me the i just want to pursue what sets my saw on fire signs. familiar when it comes to money or career, we want one thing. our families want the opposite. young and old
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are realities and dreams can be so different. seriously, it seems like there's a huge gap between the generations. sometimes we just don't guess each other. the question is, can we fix this the all the money that i'm forwarding to big line is from openings from building different apps and websites. i'm not happy with that good because it is waiting on some of them. and then me, i get the best like, i mean, the old guard of the money has gone down so much how the money is e as well then
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all of us. but over that i wanted him to become a doctor. i don't think there's a vain, which i can explain it to her. i've not been able to explain it or to that. yeah. the i think that is one big gap and it's more so like an easy gap because they are not able to understand how this technology works. nadia? yeah, i mean, so, but i mean, i live with my mom in my own group and one by and i don't have you lost the money in this direction. so my new reading of this new car, the only really money and i that i've been times of what i would like to advise you know, that's what i've been even a good point in the talking about going there. yeah, that is there,
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that it and all that is it. but in a what i want, this is, this is day when like, when like you have made a substantial chunk of money, then at least i would say that you have to put them in 50 percent. and i mean, uh, the other interest not only in the business, because uh, because of the volatility. okay, let's pause here for a 2nd manuals on coal is not the only one worried about market volatility, crypto current. so it has become a popular gateway to the financial markets for many young indians in early 202-3850 1000000 people in india owned crypto currency. that's more than any other country worldwide. but some most older indians, the idea of crypto car and sees sto, alien, they prefer a more traditional a tangible investments like gold houses or even stops and bonds. the money is
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a huge issue between the generations. in india and manuals, family is no exception. the 1st time when i talk to them about leaving my stamp of the job and then putting the start up space, doing something of my own. there was like a that was the opposition in terms of vetted the money were to come from. we were like, i've been saving that you may not get us with the job as well. so that is being done by looking at this po box. so can you imagine what what are the images online? i'm being sort of under this image oil,
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this big cylinder image. guess what is the price of this any of these that you use, or most of the companies that have annuity, you'll find that for you. and then you find that facebook event that you and instead of them, you've gone to, to google. so for someone who's not growing up in like the internet age for them, it's just like us, they are selling some images online and it doesn't look like that. the other job, the i was raised in san diego, california, the 1st 3 years living in los angeles. i was working like 2 to 3 jobs i was taking on on jobs just to kind of me make it work. when she moved to l. a. i think i
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it just was too many things for her to do and, and i think she couldn't just picks one when i 1st started boxing. and it was more of a fitness boxy. one of the trainers i've mentioned, he asked me, what do you do all day? and at the time i was working on the typical 9 to 5. and i said, well, i'm supposed to be working, but i'm usually on instagram watching boxing videos or i'm watching trainers. and he said, why don't you make this switch? and have you ever thought about being a trainer yourself? i'm so small i thought, who is going to want me to hold and it's for them. how am i going to be able to hold miss for them? i had all these self limiting beliefs and he said,
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why does boxing training depend on your size? you're right, it doesn't. how are you going to buy your house? how are you going to move up? you know, because for me, um success means you started a job and you keep going the next step further. find the job. you want to settle down out. so you can move on, you know, move up um and eventually uh, purchase a home. the big question is, why does home ownership matters so much to alyssa as mom? well, for many decades owning a house has been at the heart of the american dream. you can buy a home, life gets better, cause that kind of wealth trickles down to the next generations and opens the door for upward social mobility. but for young americans, the dream has become a less and less attainable. first the mortgage crisis in 2008 and then cove. it conditions are harsh. when alyssa is generation turns thursday,
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their chances of owning a home will be 14 percent lower than her mom's generation. at the same age. this is not what i had envisioned for my child. i typically leave it to the side when it comes to boxing, just because i know that they don't really understand it and i'm not too sure how interested they are in it. so i don't talk to them too much about it. okay. give me one of those things. you know, we're just a little heart broken cuz we don't want to talk about it because we know it's a touchy subject. the, i don't choose to live in the same city, but being in my twenties is a good time to be a little unstable and you know,
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hustle and take some risk. it just has to be stable. stability is, is, is what makes me feel comfortable. stability, the stabling me is the least of my grandson at the moment. stable to deal with something that it would require was something of the past. when i got mad it, it was a happy day. and all of a sudden my husband got a heart attack at the just a, a, a, my son was 3 years old and i was a little bit lost in this way. so i started paying for it and god has earned my play. an issue with me, so i'm raised but i can do something for the future. so i stopped in giving to some classes that are like and that's all i brought my son up. i've seen
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quite bad things in terms of financial and stability, and i don't feel this funds available. my mom and it is sponsibility has come from a very young age for me who that sounds like quite a big obligation for manual. but in many countries around the globe, children are expected to take care of their aging parents. and in india, it's not just a moral duty, it's the law. since only a small portion of indian society will ever receive a pension. the majority really depends on their role enough spring to help them in their old age. and so when kids take financial risks, there's more at stake than just their own. well being for manual growing up. besides his dad has made things extra tough. i need to provide a phone line home to provide for my mom and to see to it that things out of fine.
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the my father's from warm my mothers from the philippines. they divorce when i was 10, and i never really had a father growing up. my mom was a single mom. she pretty much raised us. and i knew she struggled. we didn't have much money. she did the best she could just know just knew back then that i had to do something better for myself. i joined the navy right after high school. i think that's what helped me to be a better person. it's all about being better than where you came from and we realized it from a very young age because my parents always talked about it uh that they brought us
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to the united states to give us a better life for me to have children who are monetary really successful is my way of showing my parents like, you know, i've succeeded as a parent being asian, american and from a family of immigrants in general. there is the responsibility to continue that legacy and to the next generation in my generation, the parents relied on us to be engineers, doctors, nurses, and i thought that i was breaking away from that mold and that i was being, you know, pretty easy on my child thinking, oh, you can do anything else. you can, you know, i'm not gonna force you to be a nurse or a doctor or an engineer, you can follow your drinking to you know, not realizing that this was going to be her dreams. and
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once you've completed your engineering degree, you already have a call back. i don't understand why often even having these kind of course makes people who do not take it as they would not want to start something of that one. you want to edit, i don't screen the bank or banners either the inside or they do need to push it through all this thing is going to be some of them up and down the created that kind of hype. and if the are going to in the middle of an independent, douglas is still fighting for that visual space just to make new decent delays as the future for the health plan and cannot find our platform. my appetite for this is huge. i don't want them to be good as a person who doesn't have the ability to baker's i don't think and getting to the surface normal thoughts, things are happening the same. i mean, don't worry about that. the,
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i don't remember the gutters cannot. i wonder, tell him of i just this rate is an additional thing i've just said, we'll have the thing and keep us a because they've been meaningful. i imagine seem you never know what a store to model for us. yes. i guess body. nice again. but 2 more time then one more after that, you're gonna flip, give me a hook processor. so what's a good thing that she's still trying to find herself in do what she likes to do? but it's a bad thing because, you know, there is a time in your life. when you have to settle down, you have to buckle down and say,
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i gotta, i gotta do this, this. and that to take care of myself in the long run. medical dental vision here is uh, not so fun, fox for you. the majority of us citizens receive their health insurance through an employer. so if your job doesn't offer that tough luck in 2022, more than 27000000 americans had no health insurance. that's just over 80 percent of the population. and more than half of all personal bankruptcies are due to unpaid medical bills. so you get why he's worried a home food on the table. money savings. is there an alternative plan? if something happens where the boxing doesn't work out, where it would say she gets injured, she gets head trauma. something happens. what is our next plan? i've never seen my daughter box live. if i were to see or get hit, i'm in my mind,
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i would probably think all their, their goals or explain their goals or kidney. that's what i would see. time we did a half around extra so i wish that my family could visit me at the gym and see how happy and fulfilled it makes me it hurts when they can't understand me because i think that all of the best qualities that i have. i have gotten because of how they raised me as what has led me to where i am today, and i wish that they could see that hi
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. i just, uh i'm worried about mom and dad about what those say when i tell them that i actually am going to pick up a you know, fight in an actual match. when do you think is a good time for me to tell them? i don't know exactly just recommended us. so tell them when you see them, tell them as soon as possible. mm hm. this is truly what you want in life. then you should be open about it. i mean, your life, you save what you, why life. i think it's inspiring for me, please look up to you and it's very helpful for me to try
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to attend doing something i would love to eat. i just don't know what that is. right now. i'm getting on the 56 now, so i'm almost home. ok, all right, we'll see you soon. okay, i'll see you soon. thank of the mm hm. the kind of add up here when you're growing the
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ever since she started doing the boxing training, i felt like our dinner conversations got shorter or quieter because it wasn't like a conversation that i, you know, i really wanted to talk about please father, god always protect us lead us guidance, protect us from you and harm watch rovers. and thank you for all the many blessings that you provide for us. you must holy name, father god, and jesus, holy name, human. right. that's dangerous. and the 2nd knowledge of it, all right? is it okay for you right now? i don't know. i don't even explain in the 1st minute my mom is quite supportive,
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how they will things that she doesn't understand, since i don't want to tell it to us and then that's a video and basically me bring this up board myself by not ending all. and he doesn't tell me more because he knows that i run a little high blood pressure and tighter. he's saying my me why are getting what it engine and i like everything you have get for me. so you, but i is that i don't know which bank ran. why do you have see how much you said? but it keeps on telling me like, uh, not to worry and on. like, i mean even work you in your speed. i feel like that would be yeah, i've been working on. that's one thing that my coach has been working a lot with me is my speed and yeah, but now that's good. i'm eating a lot of protein so i can gain weight. you can eat your plan, sir,
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to continue boxing, and definitely for me i've been working with my coach every week for since last january, so he feels pretty confident that i'm ready to pick up a fight. and yeah, well, some concerns that i have are number one it's, it's never been discussed with us. it's not anything that you prepared us for mentally, and i don't think you've been really mentioning that you've been preparing for a fight. it does make me emotional. boxing is really something that's powerful and empowering. and i think that there's something in some way that i can make an impact through the sport of boxing. and i think that
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it also stems from you know, always wanting to prove to people that i am more than a size you are man. we never doubted. we never doubted that, you know, we talked about, you were going to do great things some day with your high, you know, your whole point is to feel strong. so what if you get hurt, if you don't feel strong and living you've accomplished from that. i want to know i'm getting, it's about getting back up. boxing is like on life matter for it's not. you know, how quickly you get up. it's whether you do get up and 9. i know that i have the will power to be able to get up after you know, getting hurt the
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we don't express much to each other. we don't talk a lot, but i think that's just the re, you've been growing up together. so if the, if you have like a good experience or a new place and i'll be more like exploring the place 6 during the invite them and have like being in the moment at that time and not like talking about the stuff for like trying to collect at the moment with some or on the the, the today has been one and a half years in the making for me to finally have the opportunity for my 1st by
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the i had a full 4 week fight can i was eating healthy. i was training with my coach 5 to 6 days a week doing sprints or runs on top of sparring. the i did everything that i could make sure that i'm fueled and prepped well for the site. yeah. to us there was no fight today because my opponents and so i didn't get to fight and today and i'm
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very disappointed. and that's the bummer for it today. the what adds to the disappointment is that my parents were supposed to come to my fight today, and i felt like it was going to be the day where i can actually show them that. i have a place here. just hearing that my parents where he's going to show up and come support meant a lot to me and that was the when and itself the in a couple months after that barbecue, with my parents where things got pretty emotional. my mom texted me and let me know
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that she was proud of me, pursuing my dreams and not encourage her to do the same. and when i went home for father's day, i showed my dad the basic punches i taught him a combination. and then we decided that we were going to do it every time i come home and hearing his excitement helped me feel like i was one step closer to having them understand the 40 ended programming in terms of when i think i'm going to, they need to like i say let me go know the music on that side of the license. so this kind of fun,
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