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that's nothing for me that yeah, i do need something where it is coming very, very. yeah. come with june more thoughts now when the story in from i agree, reliable nice her migraines, wherever they may be, the the products. my dad expected me to marry someone and live happily ever after i lived there was i wanted to get married because i was hoping to find love security, a spring in my step. enjoy and life. the they're expecting me to sign and mail partner the way, but it turned out to be different from one,
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based on the color, have a wish in the reality or to very different things. all have glass can be used to have this happened. reality can sometimes be more painful than either your worst nightmares. who did everything we could to avoid divorce, but nothing looked best. male, it seems like i never really knew my eldest daughter. the you do need a man in the family. it's actually quite important. we appreciate the absolutely, i think they really want to grandchild to get married and start of family.
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something most parents wants to their kids. but when it comes to families, things can get explosive. younger people think that it's impossible to connect with . i loved something older people often question do the you to really know what they're doing with their lives. young and old are realities and dreams can be so different. seriously, it seems like there's a huge gap between the generations. sometimes we just don't guess each other. the question is, can we fix this the
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isn't that beautiful and go with the normal our marriage lasted $33.00 and a half years with cannot seem god we had known each other before and work together . but i don't know all at the most. i just falsely assumed that love was so important and people should keep their feelings under control is removed, but that was wrong. even a fee control, which way the heart in the mind has to work together towards the same goal. they shouldn't fight each other. having a lot of balance to life is more beautiful. wonder when they have it's corey's the
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whole of home. she and i have different views on the subject of divorce because you've been, you've been, uh, i could send. that's how she was feeling, even though was so different, beneficial, and best and that i should be, i really felt the pain that my daughter was constantly going through. and i saw it with my own eyes. you see it really wide mouth. oh, this is a huge problem. it wasn't like nothing at all times. we never discussed of almost as much as we do now. it was 71 that was really no other options. how kind of divorce is so easy? everything was different before everything including finances. we just wanted different things they opened were not the only ones dealing with this. i wanna say that we have one of the highest divorce rates in the world. life just didn't used
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to be so complicated then parents didn't put so much pressure on their children, on bribes in groups. we didn't worry about how to finance everything. we were only concerned with making each other happy. yes, that is very important. social media has ruined everything. yeah. but there were problems before that too. yes. but it's a big part of the problem as well. of the, in fact, egypt divorce rate has trickled over the past 15 years. and despite on 2 divorce courses now offered all over the country, more than 60 percent of the countries, young couples are separating
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the visa goals from hi. told them i had a girlfriend and we weren't getting married to bounce. it went on. i wanted to let me quote you power to rise and also that we were planning to use artificial insemination because that was the last for them to digest one or cycle hudson as well. that's what i called. i was standing in the kitchen when she told me, time was so high and it looks like she wanted to cry. that's kind of patient that made me want to cry to the same way. well,
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much ongoing since the guy presents we know we want to have children and i have trouble producing healthy eggs. we thought it would be better to freeze them these awful kind of way up without the wash. and then we would have more options later in, without attaching over. she won't. my dream is to have to count. i search under is don't matter. you know, by she maybe 2 dogs say yeah, you know, and they live near their grand parents. go on like that 40 the was an amazing, she's always, i was already a mother of 2 at their age and, and she has house, she what they are only just now thinking about having children without seeing us. and you could say, i thought back then i was already quite mature your time. she has how many yo, yo is only getting started with everything now. so that's why i think young people today are still kind of immature. 30 sounds like kids in taiwan. many young women are choosing to delay pregnancy and motherhood, about freezing access. typically, just
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a precautionary measures and is rarely meant for artificial insemination. more over taiwan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. the i'm the sam can be the very big dreams chaplain, and i don't know whether or not i'll be able to achieve them but, but they are growing inside of me every day. go ahead in the beginning, but one of my dreams was to become a makeup artist together. but getting there has been difficult to get ahead of him . and i'm hoping that the studies we make up, i had doubts for up to d as a make up artist. how do we do this? i'll book it for whom i know what i'm going to make of the mean,
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but i can do it on how to forgive it. don't that? i'm just following the kind of box that that less confusing good. think of my parents had so many questions. it's obvious though, we're scared and they didn't understand what was happening. my been hired, they felt sad and worried about my being and didn't know what they could do to help in developing to stay and help. i really felt the pressure that goes up to somebody and that's kind of with us, very sick because only one had a heart attack and was hospitalized of how many of you um, when can you that was the 1st time in my life that i understood how much something like this can affect the father for the coming out. awesome. been somebody almost died. 7 is really can smell for me. was doing so poorly. my solution because i was doing so poorly. instead of going home can you will. gosh, i have really shocked me. well gosh, i don't understand the have. so i got
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the, we support your dental showing. she came back to live with us. i have been in a well the item uh the my d s. ranch. my daughter and my friend doesn't want to so, but she is my best friend and the only one i trust completely. i know of my other children very much to of course with us run john share with special phones because she is my 1st born out of my state as well the she and i have a tissue p the
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wild divorce has no parts of everyday life in egypt, homosexuality is illegal. by contrast, taiwan was the 1st country in asia to legalize same sex marriage in 2019. even so these couples are still far from being generally accepted in society. the people from the nutrition football some because they don't have the same sex marriages as a real family play. that's the highest. and of course my parents worry about that somehow as because they wonder whether our kids will be fully discriminated against . and later on because of the township. but to all gods, my name is jo jo assisting. we will be going to the us next year to start the process of artificial insemination. since please make sure everything goes well for
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him to be, i hope to return with a healthy baby. bye bye. you can i have a lot of villages, the $14.00 here you go. we all know i don't need to buy the cheese that what's on that meal is also i have no idea that she didn't like men wish you. i'm not in saying that when she came out to us i was so sha who i so well that's and i couldn't accept it. this is the z as in the middle, bosh alpha i
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most of a to say i as her father failed to be a good role model for her the, the housing itself within a meeting and then from my generation were not ever allowed to cry. and then is it switching it? i don't remember that fortunately, i was alone in the car, so i let it all out. would you send me the thumbs up? i to encourage them with a supervisor, so if i want to do it, then it had a good cry then wiped my face drive as i've seen it in pulled myself back together . i hope so. i went back to where i could see the thing. she knowledge is she took
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off until 240 and what's the zip code? and as her mother is this, i couldn't accept or support this and you know, it wouldn't make a difference. nickel, she's grown up now to hold the asian cook. but if i agree and support her, i sell for in the future is how that could make a relationship much stronger over the questioning the homes that she me hi. hi. how are you worried last night? and thing i to, i guess or just basically i just wanted to update you on the procedure to see what we got. so my body feels a bit swollen this time it felt like that last night and today the home office. i don't know if there's okay fine. what do you think? oh hi. is it cold in town? hi. everyone's still asleep. no one's at work. you had a loan. it's very hot in taipei, around 27 or 28 degrees celsius brown. it. that's great to know it's cold and dry here. that's why my voice sounds like this. that's like
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a cat. 555 i was letting you know when it's all over by the head of a newspaper in cairo means security for me. i mean, business to a place where i was bullying on, i'm in business. been the traffic because that's the community, the warm, enormous family and my friends. and they've all been with me, my whole life, hired, take a line and look at the swelling water. but i've always lived in the heart of cairo, and i've never even loved egypt. okay, that's fine, but the cut off, there's a bottle, so there is no place i know as wants here. i'll head on the box. they keep telling me they want me to be the next one. who gets married? how may i help? i never hear that again. all the way. are you married?
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look, he's a man and he's also scared on behalf of them. and then, and we'll double limit that, that, that is, i'm not afraid. i just like marriage takes a lot of work. just let her know, my dear, we are not in america because i know this society here puts pressure on us to get married. dear mamma will try to set you up to let them know there's no way some of me. well, no. i know. i thought that my mom was more modern. she didn't talk about it so much and acted as if it wasn't an issue that i haven't gotten married again yet. then i might have already said, then i found out she hired a whole secret team to set me up with my mom. everybody in my family, all my friends who got married said really don't get married. oh, i don't know the
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minute the her father and i suffered a note. i am looking at your life was not easy for us to have got the coolest. we faced difficulties and when we overcame them invested putting all this generation is imitation of mine. doors hit it in the hallways, documents it worries me why i'm afraid for them the society will charge them to the future will bring without the interpretation and culture may change this if we built a strong foundation for them that we've taught them and taken care of them now they can decide what is good and what is bad. so yeah, so that's exactly what we, it shows me and they'll be able to make good decisions, whether we're there or not. the,
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the, the negative at home to make and development. i felt connected to other things in place as of what's next, the names of the beer, part of my soul. how have you been? he didn't just wanted don't my things anyway. i've been to yeah, these are my things things that my daughter is played with. like the feeling that i don't wish on anyone and shy, then i can only encourage other women to take marriage seriously frustrated. you know the other because in the end you aren't just
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making decisions for yourself. you're also making them for your children. and that's not easy. people, it really isn't of the, i'm not sure she actually wants a child is, but she's in time and everything. well, in any case, how much i have been wanting a grandchild for a long time. sure. this is just nowadays parents always ask so cool. act like they don't care because they don't want to pressure their kids. so i just didn't sound so deep down. i think they really want to look out on the ground,
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boots on the scene for which cases. so i will have to explain artificial insemination to them in detail how they accepted everything. so how for how, how much of balances are hoping that the 1st try will be successful? the, by the chances are good truth a single i'm already harvested $26.00 acres of new thing where we want to have 2 children in the future with the run one it from me and one from my partner. so he might not succeed the 1st time. now that i'm sure, eventually it will all work out a machine with all the medical possibilities we have today, we will definitely get there. could take that as long as we don't have a cell phone, she engaged. okay, so the
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see will mine. she said, this is jack. hey, yours is a non all the i'm excited to have a new family member be all too old fashion and it's great to see how my other children for the for siblings have been supportive and optimistic about the marriage. what is it she had their plans to artificially inseminated? probably it'll problems with an localized hits is that even the grandmother to a mind and she is already in her seventies. say that she loves her grandchildren with ours by saying i want support service shipping. she is, she's hanging down as a male home cooking this week. okay. time unfortunately, my mom was wise and offered her support will tell you that she said it was the right thing to do. comfortable down to the whole household
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yes, this one. and what do you wear underneath the black toner? that's what do you think about this one? no. the other one is more suitable for weddings, but this one makes me look like some other of the bright once you move well, but you are kind of like the mother to a right. and i hope you will have the next for i must go without the i hope that my daughter is where she's come. true. may of course have mercy on hiring guy. tell you wonderful. i really hope that god will make her happy with a bit. as i am just waiting for my daughter to get some good teams in my heart, i feel the good warehouse huh. made to happen. the
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only difficult thing, i mean, but then i have never lost hope of committing to a new relationship again while i could, i couldn't figure it out. i would even get married again a year, even though my 1st marriage failing to defend and, and that's going on. i know that everyone is different enough in new hired to get them. i always say that my life is like a book with the class. but there are some pages that are phone stuff and cut me, but what bothers that'll just rip out to the house, but it may have gone, but the story will continue fine until my last day. you also get them to be my mold . there is hope written on every page. i didn't have the city on the highest in
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the present. shouldn't that diesel church itself was choosing to accept her and give her our best wishes was the right thing to do. i secured this, or i truly believe it to me that you will kind of talk to him on quite a shout and that's her father's seeing. her smile happily really touched the candle . cause i'm down on the side of it. johnny shouldn't everyone in the family is facing some kind of pressure from customer on the has a she also think that even though things often don't turn out the way we hold the family ties, we can still be a, have a family is no matter who is part of it,
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the thing out just you that she, we charge the actually i decided on the speech on the last night. i was afraid i would forget something. so i wrote it down wrong. but i really want to look you in the eye as well sayings as sweet and certified forget something, please forgive me on you. don't you the most impatient person in the world remind me every day that i'm a good person that gave me back my confidence. so the thank you for mrs. haines, you may go after the speech, i'm sure i'll have to redo my make up. i'm sure you all can song to me on the soap or if i am a lucky person. so i always have fun plus audio. i have never said this before, but the luckiest thing ever happened to me was being born into this family. this was in the queue. let me go and such a happy family, though i have no words to express how much i love you.
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