and let's start with this, here is a person who enters the war from a peaceful life, holds a machine gun , the enemy is there, shoot, kill, how is it perceived, and we do not kill the psyche. here everything is specific, that is, there are specific projectiles, sometimes you can even specific some defeats, but these are all specifics, because of this there is such a very strong adaptability, adaptation to all this. it is perceived very sharply because the human brain er-er it reacts very clearly, the human psyche reacts to it, you become faster to react and become er-er other values ​​become much more important, how to survive er-er, your

brothers are your family and for this it can even be some jealousy in the family that stayed at home, that there is more tenderness, some uh, sensitivity to those people who are around. therefore, now there is adaptation, it is more stress, but this stress well, it seems to regroup and it comes into action precisely in action. there is no one to kill uh, you have to understand what you have to do in order to survive, and your actions are a victory, that's why you adapt as a rule very quickly, although let 's be honest, i won't be too rose-colored , not everyone adapts, but of those who have some adaptation with them, we also know what to do, that's why i'm here, mr. andriy, now on the internet. we see many videos of soldiers returning after a few months at the front to their

families, hugging and we're just moving to tears. after meeting with family to find strength in themselves well, after such a moral upheaval, you can say that you were a strong fighter at the front and then you saw your native family and then again leave your loved ones from your beloved native family and return and fight for a new one to destroy the russian occupier how you said well, in fact, there are a lot of me for the video that in fact after some time a person is already asking to go to the front not only because he is not feeling well at home but also because there is some kind of primary that we stayed there as brothers and the person returns here very much the main thing is that a lot hinders this ukrainian military service - it's pity, the feeling of pity for the poor, unfortunate military, military handsome , he's not poor, he's unhappy, he's flabby and that's

great, that's why they return, in principle, very quickly, there are many cases in which when a person was sent home for five days, he after four he comes back and that's what he says yes, i have my truck here, it's under-torqued, i need to tighten it up so , and with this one well, everything is fine, i really want to go home, ask any military man, he will say and i'm bored it's terrible i want to go home, but so that it's terrible , such a longing was such a thing, don't you understand, it's not that it's difficult, not that the living conditions are not strong, but here you understand your role well, if you ask a ukrainian, who are you, he will have some options here, there are no others i'm a warrior, i'm full of options and i'm ok, it's hard, i'm sad, i'm tired, but you know what you have to do, and that's great. but let's make such a situation with you guys or girls who

defended ukraine since 2014, they won back what's called their a- and they are in the conditional 17th year there at home and that's all how are there no such acts of war, there is no full-scale offensive, these boys or girls are being mobilized and, for example, at that moment they must have felt, knew or had no idea that they had post-traumatic syndrome and now, oh, these boys or girls, i'm at the front again and are there any dangers for them that these ptsr can manifest themselves. if so, then what should be done about it, boys and girls are definitely cool, but how can they deal with it? well, not accept it, how can they protect themselves from it, post after a psychotic event has occurred in most cases

those who had manifestations of btsru or in general any post- traumatic consequences just during the war. they are in remission, that is, the person goes back to his conditionally comfortable order and there he fights fiercely, it does not manifest itself. well, in most cases, let's say, it does not manifest itself that is, in combat operations, an aggressive reaction or any emotional manifestations are really possible, but not so terrible, for example, for the first time, it is possible that there will really be a retromatization , that is, another psychotraumatic event due to losses due to the absence or insufficient information, but in fact, precisely if a person participates in actions, on the contrary, the manifestations of post-traumatic consequences go away. and there may be manifestations of post-traumatic stress disorder for those veterans who, for one reason or another, do not

participate in these actions. for example, if they have a disability and are not in good health they may have a sense of guilt, a feeling of not being needed, even envy of their stomachs , because they are not participating, so at the moment, this is a thing with the ptsr, but it is not in time, we need to think about it in order to prevent it, but now on the front according to that summary, the ones i have, although they are incomplete, there are no such huge manifestations, especially in veterans, in those who were in the war from the 14th year and then returned home, so with all this, can it be considered more correct or correct, i consider for myself that ptsr - this is not only about the military, not only about those who have taken or are participating in hostilities , can this be observed against the background of war, ah, in the rear , there are some absolutely peaceful apartments, and not only from

adults, but also from children, and if so, what to do - this is the first and second e should it be should it be somehow now the state has a medical system, pay attention to it already so that it is not too late, this is health , and how? health, even in those people who do not recognize it, that's why ptsd is so true in general - love can manifest itself in any person who has undergone a psycho-traumatic event, that is, some such difficult event where she could feel a threat to the life and health of a person it can manifest itself, but here i am watching you on tv i will definitely not teach you how to treat yourself if you feel that you have some problems with mental health, sleep disturbances for more than a month, a-a, a depressing state, emotional disorders, that is, either a complete lack

of emotions or you jump on this swing or enjoy what you do not allow yourself eat sleep let yourself go and you can't get out of it , i have only one piece of advice, little one, don't hesitate to go to a specialist, go to a specialist, believe me, they will help you now, a bunch of simply gorgeous psychologists who have me have a gorgeous experience from the very beginning war they state both online and live if you are in dangerous areas and it will be easier for you only one advice if you cannot cope with your difficult mental health please contact a psychologist psychotherapist and even go to a mental health center which used to be called strictly a psychiatric hospital there are also norms because a psychiatrist is your friend and not your enemy who wants to help you without treatment and will be your complete happiness one rule i worry about my mental health i don't care about myself i love myself even when in there is a war in the country. andriy already answered this question, but

about himself - god had mercy. but i have many acquaintances who have acquaintances or relatives in russia. well, that's how it happened. and they have to hear one way or another , of their own free will or not. enough fitbikes, often with these kremlin narratives. it seems to me that such people, among my close friends, may have such a kind of pt-serv, such communication as them. what do you recommend, how is it to be safe, how to enter into a conversation or not to have that conversation at all, what to do , never communicate with holy shit, they are neat i pick up the word that you are bad, and you have it there, i don't know zelensky sold himself to baydin or obama, what is the point of this conversation, well, it makes no sense , secondly, if you have to communicate in some way,

please, you don't need to convince them, rework , or prove something else, you need to strengthen their critical thinking. what is missing in russia is critical thinking. they were told that europe is everything and everyone believed it because it was shown on tv. ask them questions. where do you get your information. where do you get such things? they will tell you on tv. they showed you how to sow seeds . critical thinking is important, but if you don't know the art of manipulation, i would. most likely, you don't. don't enter into conversations with those people who are not even your resource . of this world, and this means that with ukrainians because there

is no other meaning ukraine, we love you, this is the armed forces of ukraine, glory to the heroes we love you, keep at it andriy, you need to enter you need to enter fleas and you will be no less popular, maybe even more than arestovych motivational and explain. i think yes , you will be reassuring. you will be very real. thank you. yes. pass it on to the guys. hello. thank you for your comment and an interesting conversation. thank you to andriy . listen. well, i was caught up in the topic, but i found a statistic that really impressed me . in vietnam, the majority of american soldiers shot in the air, and for every one killed in that war, 50,000 bullets were fired, and in the first world war, officers ran along the trenches and beat soldiers so that they they shot the enemy and not just shot anywhere, and

here i think that well, in such a short time, we can not fully reveal this topic, and how the human psyche perceives war, even fixed on the facts of the refusal of the military to the index finger. yes, he stopped chasing because a person simply well, she is not capable of killing another person, but that is true when a person is at war. she is in a slightly different state. i, as a journalist in 14-15 years, very often went to the so-called ato zone, and then really when you stay somewhere for a week on you are at the front you change completely, yes, you hear differently, you see differently, you perceive everything differently, and then when you return, you come out of this state for a certain period of time, and this is when you stay there for 4-5-6 days . and when you stay there months and see this shelling every day. well, it seems to me that this is a rather serious problem for the human psyche, which

after that you need to somehow return to a peaceful life, the rehabilitation centers were like that. this is the desire of the boys, after returning to their families for a few days, to run back as quickly as possible, and well, to the front - this can be like this let's give a certain signal, friends, let's talk about children. yes, if adult men and women can manage themselves, go to a psychologist and talk, then i'm even scared to imagine what 's going on in the head of a child who, for example, has lived for several months in mariupol, yes, before the evacuation, or in front of whom he died, yes, a child who saw death or a child who saw the death of his parents, well, these also make hair stand on end, but the children saw it, and this is what happens to their psyche, and what will happen to them further and how they will be with live with this. well, i think we should

talk about it here. i propose to start with a story that touched the heart of the soul in verkhny toretsk, donetsk region, in front of his son, his mother died and was injured by shrapnel, she died right in front of him , 18-year-old vyacheslav yalov five children were left orphans. after this story, an 18-year-old boy took custody of his brothers and sisters. how does the boy himself tell this story ? let's listen and he opens his eyes . turn it over, i sat by my side for a long time, that

’s all, when i was forcibly sent home to him, i just didn’t know what to do, how to tell the children, now this guy is crying, but i can’t imagine how strong he is, he found the strength to come to lviv region, they gave him a dormitory for him and his children he wants to study to be a doctor, he is simultaneously preparing for admission to a higher educational institution, he is working part-time at the same time because he understands that all the responsibility is now on him. and here is my question to ms. anna in such stories. one now, well, simply, here are the children who saw the death of their parents, how to live with these children and hate them all

the time, here is how it will affect the future of ukrainian society. these are the stories to survive in the war . responsibility instead of parents instead of lost relatives and can become the support for other antarctic people less than today how this wonderful guy can give himself a future by taking care of the small children of the family yes to them and i must to you to say that the future will change from the point of view of the fact that it is an entire generation, it is not one, even more than two generations, in fact, with a difference in age . what will marriages look like, it will relate to what feelings of guilt will look like because if someone in the family is sick, everything because i have seen it and a person can begin to avoid this responsibility, run away from

circumstances that require the maximum from him inclusion there is a very large space before our children who experience the greatest tragedies, they generally want to gain this control, they can start to fantasize no matter how old they are. because the children's psyche is children's until 18 + in fact, it will still create a mechanism for thinking about what i should do this so that the world would be better, yes. and i should know something. so that something would be better for others . so when a person lives in the criterion that everything depends on me and i once saved someone, a person can begin to avoid any intimacy in friendship, in any intimate relationships, in family relationships, precisely so as not to feel such pain from the fact that in this world, not everything is safe and not everything is perfect, children will survive absolutely all those children who today actually and physically remain alive, they remain under the care of not only the state they remain under the care of volunteers from those psychologists . and this i have to tell you. it's not just psychologists, they are

extraordinary specialists who know how to work with children's trauma, it is very important that there is no involvement here, just someone who is compassionate to work with those who to provide a perfectly safe space in order to experience what has invaded your normal mental , emotional, physical and sexual life, because many children today have experienced sexual trauma not only because of actual physical rape, but because they have witnessed from a young age what happens to children in general that is, it may be our children, the future, our generations, our descendants, they are already traumatized from the point of view that they have encountered not only good and evil, they have not only encountered the feeling that there are good things and they faced with the helplessness of their adults and this will devalue to a certain extent the fact that my parents did not protect me or it would be impossible to protect me at all due to the fact that i have too

good or weak parents, this can create such psychology and criminality in the future if a person and the child ends up here without psychological and pedagogical care, so you know how long the war lasted. it must continue with the reassurance and peace of the adaptation of all those who had to experience the grief of what is lost childhood, what is lost youth, lost weddings, normal births, there are normal relations between people in general, therefore, a lot, a lot of work awaits us, and the only thing i want is, you know, i don’t know if it is reassuring, but i think that it definitely gives hope, if we talk about the psyche of the child about his ability to adapt, this is not just a mechanism created by some fantastic, it is multiplied by billions because the child, due to the fact that he can fantasize, he can play, he can draw, pronounce, express and play out all this in fact in her physics. she

can be freed from this pain in order to learn to live in a normal society, and here you and i are, if we all as adults have to bear responsibility until the end of our lives so that the lives of our children are as comfortable as possible, not underestimated, not fed, not with what is in front of their eyes so that they do not see reality and yet so that it is stable from the point of view that no matter what mess happens, no matter what mountains happen in life, you can count on the fact that i will be by your side and that i'm always ready to hear you, i'm always ready to support you, you can be with your children, be either physically like this or, and still, i recommend that you do not shy away from contacting psychologists, even if you think that everything is okay with your child, with your children, they are fine, we are all going through this we don't know if our children are worried because we are other

children . by the way, i have a small clarification. specialist but we have always had a block on this question in our country for one reason that a, you know, first of all, it is not on time and secondly, it is expensive, here are two such stereotypes , they are very strong in our country, even today. what should you do when and where do you go? advise to turn to yes, when a person dares to think about what attacks i am going to a specialist, where to go next, where to call, what do you advise here, no matter how strange it sounds, but now is the best time to accept that any help, both dental and psychiatric, it is needed every time i feel pain, yes, and pain is often felt mentally as helplessness or simplicity or the inability to navigate in the events of my own life , that is, when i feel that something is wrong. okay, i respect myself so much as a citizen, as a person, as a person of this or that virus story or without i act

according to the protocol of normal treatment of myself as a person, that is, i trust someone who has received a professional diploma, that is, a specialist in a hospital, so which one can i accept, where to look today, there is no question of price stand and cannot stand the thing is that today most of the ecology of psychotherapists and psychiatrists work absolutely free and someone does it not only because he is good but because he is in the service i would like to say about the foundations that today provide the opportunity to work with those who does not have the ability to pay for services and this is a life number, so it should be, because we have to live after this war ends and live well , so if you need help, i start to google my region, my city, i am looking for a psychologist, but i am checking through the foundation, i check through the organization, they check the documents not by themselves, but with the volunteer center

that will help me in this, i turn to someone who is a doctor or someone who can confirm their experience of working with similar conditions, especially when it comes to children, now there are a lot of various appeals to the children drew pictures for our military, sent them and, well, who is accepted? well, why would the military have these pictures on our children, but yes, but in fact, it is a very, very cool thing for children as well. it is important, yes, children feel their involvement in the struggle yes to victory yes they can't do it no they can't carry some sights there or help in other ways yes a child can draw a picture if the child knows that this picture went to the military to the front and this picture got on i would like to point out that this is what i think is very, very important. thank you. thank you. we had a great conversation. well, not just like with an expert, but simply with a friend, a relative, it is

very important and valuable. thank you very, very much . they discussed her uh and well, it's difficult for everyone, yes, yes, that's it personally, when each of us will think that something is wrong with us, that we are not doing well, just remember the story of vyacheslav, which we just heard, how much strength, well, an extremely strong guy and how much has fallen to his fate and how courageous he is, and yet he cries but he's holding on, he's a strong person and we should know what if something small happened to us now , something didn't go according to plan, something, someone said the wrong thing, it's all delusional and all these are trifles . let's keep the line i say our prime minister and if there are psychological problems, friends, if you feel it, contact the specialists, support each

other , only together. we will win the news together we are strong, we have flown in, we congratulate you with a whole lot, but think, guess, you child, you looked at the fields, your eyes, your eyes, what happened and everyone they were crying mom, don't go there everyone is being shot people

understood ghul left little people since the beginning of the war more than 7 million ukrainian children had to become adults i collected almost 5000 hryvnias we are little valentines so that more superheroes return home alive with victory we are fighting to give them back their childhood our troops are very strong courageous ukrainians fight for the future of our children

unconquered cities of ukraine is the cossack city of izyum, where one of the oldest buildings of the slobozhanshchyna is located. the transfiguration cathedral was the center of the famous raisin regiment, the first famine did not survive thanks to the active fight against prosaic forces in the second world city twice it was in the center of fierce battles today raisin is again on the line, the fire has fallen and in the evening, but it is ready to stand for

victory . we are strong, amen

to god, supporting us, the world discovers ukraine for itself, our culture and music, our language and colors, the world turns blue and yellow on fashion catwalks and on the streets of distant cities, the world is amazed and enthralled by our beauty, they aim at the fragile and expensive museum in a matter of minutes, which we have protected for centuries, the pan of books, the old remnants of the library, they are not the first who wanted to destroy our

history, as they did not feel the year 45 yes lviv i was already worried. but no one has succeeded and we are reviving the mariupol theater. ukraine manages to preserve its culture. we will preserve it for ourselves . we will leave it for the ages. subdivision kyrylo veres poem i know, well, the second version since the 14th year has been awarded all possible state awards and distinctions если каджий будет вносит веселеую лет we have all succeeded glory to heroes glory to ukraine